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Speaker 1: Guess what, guys, I'm just going to put it out there.

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Speaker 1: I think today's podcast could be the best fitting with.

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Speaker 1: Podcast because it's all around what are the chances? It's

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Speaker 1: the greatest story ever. It comes from Samantha. Do not

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Speaker 1: miss it.

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Speaker 2: I walked into it.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to add anything. Don't ruin this. This

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Speaker 1: is the greatest bail The other day and they had suits.

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Speaker 2: And they had suits and jackets and stuff, and I

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Speaker 2: looked at a jacket and I went, how can that'll

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Speaker 2: fit me? And I put it on. It was the

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Speaker 2: perfect side chances, Hi, what are the chances? I mean,

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Speaker 2: that is an amazing story of how that fitted like

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Speaker 1: N we just like a glove? Come from?

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Speaker 2: What about this one? Kate?

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Speaker 1: I went to ace Ventura. Apparently I went to.

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Speaker 2: I went to a video library back in the day, like.

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Speaker 1: A Blockbuster video easy, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Video easy. And I was on one side of the

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Speaker 2: I was on the other side of the shelf.

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Speaker 1: Were looking through it to each other like in the library.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And she said, I'd really like to see Annie

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Speaker 2: the movie you know, the first one? Yeah, And then

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Speaker 2: on DVD? She said no, and then I, like you

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Speaker 1: It was Annie, Oh, hang on a minute. I love

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Speaker 1: it when you're really aggressive like that. One of the

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Speaker 1: genus love when you flick things at your girlfriend. I

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Speaker 2: Isn't that wild? Like that's just another warmer for your

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Speaker 1: I'm really sorry that the kick intro has gone on

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Speaker 1: for a really long time. I promise you would stick

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Speaker 1: with us. You will hear the best best. What are

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Speaker 1: the chances ever matter? Slide into Kate's DMS. If you

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Speaker 1: think it's amazing, do that. It's It's Kate Richie with

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Speaker 1: two Eyes. Officials.

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Speaker 3: This is the Fit and Whipper with Kate Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 1: I'm reading from this sheet here. Gee, there's some big words,

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Speaker 1: but I think we should get in.

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Speaker 2: I can help you with the big ones. I'll do it.

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Speaker 1: Really Yeah. I don't think it's your strength, but you

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Speaker 2: God, let's not go through them now.

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Speaker 1: The way that you mix up brought and bought.

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Speaker 2: Think about.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about. I was pronouncing it as

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Speaker 1: adults adults. Yeah, that's going to happen to me when

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Speaker 2: To pronounce them insidelts.

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Speaker 1: Basically, the article starts with saying that in this world

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Speaker 1: very careful. You know, everyone's very careful about things. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But everyone's so worried about getting in trouble for things

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Speaker 2: You're not you're not allowed to. The school can't tell

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Speaker 1: And then and well you're just saying you're an example

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what, I think, it's funny how guys,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know where you were going with that.

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Speaker 2: It's just funny how guys go from I'm a man,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very frustrating to be cute.

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Speaker 2: It's amazing we can go from manly to cute.

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Speaker 1: I just would find it irritating if you've got someone

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Speaker 2: I know, but everybody needs that.

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Speaker 1: This is the Fitz and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 2: We haven't known this for a while. What of the chances?

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Speaker 2: I love this story the chances and coincidence, and I

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Speaker 2: When I have a ten out of ten, like I've

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what, when people cut up and go,

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Speaker 2: Just don't make it, Perth bumping into an old school mate.

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Speaker 2: Every caller goes in the running for Origin game two tickets.

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Speaker 2: We're going to flay to Melbourne. That's tomorrow night. The

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Speaker 1: You really doing it today? Okay, tell us your story.

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Speaker 2: Twin Eric twins separated at birth?

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Speaker 2: Twins separated at birth? Good?

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Speaker 2: Twin so apparated at birth? Jim Lewis and Jim Springer Right,

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Speaker 2: two gyms, right, and they were separated. They were adopted

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Speaker 2: this is fascinating. So they were known as the gym twins.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Jim one and Jim two. So I'll put

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Speaker 2: they both found out. They were both adopted into a

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Speaker 2: They also had a dog called Toy. The dog was

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Speaker 2: Let it be so that is weird.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's not weird, it's good, Quinci.

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Speaker 2: They both ended up training in law enforcement. They became

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Speaker 2: police officers. This is probably perhaps the most creepiest of all.

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Speaker 2: They both married twice, and in the first wives that

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Speaker 2: They both found a woman called Betty as their second wife.

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Speaker 1: No, not same Betty, No different Betty.

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Speaker 2: Betty wasn't throwing it around. The Jim's had two sons,

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Speaker 2: James and Alan. That's Jim one, Jim two. He had kids,

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Speaker 2: two sons, James and Allen.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a.

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Speaker 5: Hope.

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Speaker 1: You don't looking at it looking at me for a story.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking to the listeners. Cochie. I mean, if you

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Speaker 2: They would have said, there going, no, No, this is wild.

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Speaker 1: What's that mean? What's that documentary about nature or nurture

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Speaker 2: You bought them. What are the chances, Carmel, welcome to

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: How are you?

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Speaker 2: We're really well, Caramel? What are the chances?

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Speaker 6: Look? God, do you think I have like an eight

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Speaker 6: We're you know, talking in her son. You should come

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Speaker 2: Out of congratulations Carmel and.

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Speaker 1: Sharing it with thank you. Can I just quickly ask you,

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Speaker 5: We had a bit of a school reunion. There's been

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Speaker 5: And I don't even know who got that way there,

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Speaker 3: You alive.

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Speaker 5: I'm looking at the church right there, and I'm going,

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's so lovely. He still married.

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Speaker 5: Greg still married forty three years now, Greg, one are the.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, forty is of marriage. Oh my god, that's another topic. Greg.

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Speaker 2: Thank you mate. What a great story. Michelle's in Beacon Hill.

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Speaker 2: Hello Mesh, Hello, Hello you good.

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Speaker 1: What do you do?

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Speaker 4: Holiday in Bali a few years ago? How do He

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Speaker 1: And it was his He did one pooh, lost his

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Speaker 2: He goes, oh, hang on a minute, I need to go,

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Speaker 2: You know, what the chances, what are the senses of

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Quickly speak with Samantha in Seven Hills, Hi. Samantha Hi, guys,

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Speaker 1: hey going very good. What are the chances for us?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I do. I have a bit of an amazing story.

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Speaker 3: So when I was about eight or nine, it was

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Speaker 3: Christmas time and we were holidaying up at your mina

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Speaker 7: So I took it off.

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Speaker 1: That's going to make me cry. You actually win all

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Speaker 2: To be with you, and you believe that whatever that

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Speaker 1: Like creatures like that, No, but that creatures don't crust

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Speaker 3: Well, the funny thing is, is my mom my mum.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: She'll say to me, don't you ever get rid of

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Speaker 2: Sammy, that is an extraordinary story. Yeah, the city in

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Speaker 2: what you think It's been an interesting time of your

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Speaker 2: life for Carli. She's knocked it out of the park

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Speaker 1: She's had a bit, she said, a few years now,

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Speaker 1: hasn't she won a researcher.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, won the Grammy Cake for one of my favorites.

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Speaker 2: I feel that in my mom people. Great song, lifetime

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Speaker 2: The Vegas Residency, which has been massive. She's now decided

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Speaker 1: That hasn't she got so much left to.

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Speaker 2: Do personal stories, Snaps says, here shall cover music, TV,

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Speaker 1: Why did you perl?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I was completely confused. I think I

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Speaker 1: Would you you didn't? Would you read Carli Minogue's biography audiobook?

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Speaker 2: I can't read. What would you call it? Kylie Better?

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Speaker 1: The devil?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 2: Shivers? I'm turning around. No, but you could put her

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Speaker 2: face in the front of the book, on the back

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Speaker 1: Spinning around there, I'm turning what's behind me?

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Speaker 2: It's the front of my book. Baby.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's exciting for her. I'm still coming up with names.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I thought we foreword written by Jason Donovan. Jason Donovan,

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Speaker 2: that's the name of the book. No, that's the foreword

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Speaker 3: Of book co ForWords written by Jason Donovan.

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Speaker 2: Spinning Around Please.

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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: I just go to text from my mom. Yes, because

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Speaker 2: I'm a textbook a next bert A Textee.

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Speaker 1: Write my reply in love, not a juicy one. I

448
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Speaker 1: really love this part of the week.

449
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Speaker 2: Really juicy. Jack's twenty five. He's been hooking up with

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Speaker 2: Ellie for four months.

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Speaker 1: How old is Ellie?

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Speaker 2: Ellie's twenty four, so that's good age appropriate. Four months

453
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Speaker 2: is quite significant.

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Speaker 1: I would have thought, well, you've made it past the

455
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Speaker 1: twelve week mark.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so true.

457
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Speaker 1: You know that's when a lot of them just dwindle die.

458
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Speaker 2: Then he received this message. Just found out you hooked

459
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Speaker 2: up with my sister last year. WTF. I'm not down

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Speaker 2: with that. Whatever. This is so yuck, it's over. I'm

461
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Speaker 2: the hotter one. I don't like guys without standards.

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Speaker 1: I don't think.

463
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Speaker 2: Jack really likes Ellie and he wants to keep seeing her.

464
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Speaker 2: He can't work out if Ellie is more upset than

465
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Speaker 2: he hooked up but the sister, or that the sister

466
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Speaker 2: is not attractive and he has low standards.

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Speaker 1: Why is one sister saying the other sister.

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Speaker 2: Is not attractive because she's just obviously hurt.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I like Ellie. I don't care

470
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Speaker 1: if you hurt. You don't say mean things to lash

471
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Speaker 1: out because you're hurting.

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Speaker 2: It sounds sensitive. Did people say that about beck? Did they?

473
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Speaker 2: She's the attractive system?

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Speaker 1: This isn't about me, This is about this is about Ellie. Okay,

475
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Speaker 1: let's let's break it down. What was everyone's more attractive?

476
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Speaker 1: But anyway, it doesn't really Gee, I've got a good personality.

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Speaker 2: How did you respond to this now?

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Speaker 1: If how do okay, how did he How did she

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Speaker 1: find out? I don't know about the sister thing? Has

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Speaker 1: Jack been keeping it from her? Or did?

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Speaker 2: That's such a should he say? Have said something?

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Speaker 1: It's a bit awkward after if you've been spending a

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Speaker 1: bit of time with somebody and then it comes to light.

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Speaker 1: What if do you pick your time?

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Speaker 2: What if his reply was I just didn't think it mattered.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I wouldn't say that it was a year ago

487
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Speaker 1: like that is such a silly thing for him to say.

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Speaker 2: If he thinks that was over a year ago. What

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Speaker 2: if he said, I didn't even know it was your sister?

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Speaker 1: Do you know what he should say, I don't know

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Speaker 1: what you're carrying on about your overreacting. That would go

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Speaker 1: down to.

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Speaker 2: Get ConTroll of yourself. You're embarrassing yourself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so he's found he Okay, he really likes her.

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Speaker 1: I think he needs to consider the fact that she's

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Speaker 1: hurt by it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so what you start off with something like, Hey, Ellie,

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Speaker 2: I feel your shock? No no, your sister meant nothing. No,

499
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Speaker 2: it was just one drunken night. It was purely physical

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Speaker 2: and only lasted five hours.

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Speaker 1: No, no, it should be something like this, Hey Ellie,

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Speaker 1: this is such a shame. I knew at some point

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Speaker 1: we may need to have this conversation. Yes, I acknowledge,

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Speaker 1: I'm acknowledging I understand your sister that this must be upsetting.

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Speaker 1: Why don't we get together and chat about it, because

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Speaker 1: I want you to know I really like you, and

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Speaker 1: I'd like to continue spending time with you.

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Speaker 2: Hashtag do want add far themselves?

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Speaker 1: I think that's mature, that's really I mean, he's never

510
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Speaker 1: going to write that.

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Speaker 2: Don't put it in writing. What about if you throw

512
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Speaker 2: it back and just said, hey, I understand this is sensitive.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you give me a call. Let's chat through it.

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Speaker 1: That's what I just said.

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Speaker 2: You said nothing about a call I did.

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Speaker 1: I say, listens, let's get together.

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Speaker 2: Let's get together, I said, catch up. A call is

518
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Speaker 2: a lot easier than faster. Face.

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Speaker 1: Oh, face to face might be important at this point,

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Speaker 1: because sometimes you need to see each other to connect.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Shari and Cogra, Hello, Hello, this is a heavy one.

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Speaker 2: We've got a juicy one and Jack needs you help here. Shari,

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Speaker 2: what do we do?

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Speaker 9: I think be brutally honest about it, about the whole thing, honestly,

525
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Speaker 9: the best policy. I'd rather find out straight away than

526
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Speaker 9: find out later.

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Speaker 2: Is this happening to you? Do you have a sister

528
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Speaker 2: and that both both? Have you been with this one guy?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean in the Richie household with the girls?

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Speaker 2: Is there one guy that has been with more than

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Speaker 2: one Richie?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I don't like. I don't like

534
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Speaker 1: the words, and I don't like the words being with.

535
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Speaker 1: I don't want to use them.

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Speaker 2: Has that ever happened? No?

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Speaker 1: I do?

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Speaker 2: You don't know.

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Speaker 1: No, we all have very different tastes, tastes I think,

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Speaker 1: is there.

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Speaker 2: Anything wrong with that? Like, he's a guy who's left

542
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Speaker 2: the sister in the past and focused for the past

543
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Speaker 2: four months to prove himself with this girl, Ellie. I

544
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Speaker 2: think that should be acknowledged.

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Speaker 1: I think it should be acknowledged to. But we should

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Speaker 1: also acknowledge that she's allowed to feel a little bit

547
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Speaker 1: upset by it, handle it carefully and all grow up

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Speaker 1: and move on.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so true face to face. Kate's called a Sam

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Speaker 2: in Boxhill. Give it to us, buddy.

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Speaker 8: Well, I dated brothers, So I'm just saying this from experience.

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Speaker 8: It's not like I dated one after the other. So

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Speaker 8: it wasn't like I just you know, but I mean,

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Speaker 8: she's looking a bit too much intovc. This was a

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Speaker 8: year ago. They looked up like, you need to kind of.

556
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Speaker 7: Get over it.

557
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Speaker 2: What happened with you? Sam?

558
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 8: Eventuated from it? Sorry?

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Speaker 2: What happened with you?

560
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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 2: What was the time? The time, the space between the brothers.

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Speaker 8: Okay, well, see one of the brothers, so that I

563
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Speaker 8: ended up dating. He's the father of my kids, actually,

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Speaker 8: I should say now, actually was my best friend. So

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Speaker 8: he was the same age bracket. I dated the older brother.

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Speaker 1: You're not throughout high school and you ended up with

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Speaker 1: the younger brother, and that's what you were meant to

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Speaker 1: be with.

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Speaker 8: Yeah clearly, Yeah, clearly. But like I said, it sounds

570
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Speaker 8: worse than what it actually is because it's like it

571
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Speaker 8: wasn't like it was straight after one up to the other.

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Speaker 8: It was down the track ended up with the brother.

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Speaker 1: Quick question for you when you were dating the older brother,

574
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Speaker 1: because that would have been the cool thing to do,

575
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Speaker 1: is date the older brother. Did the younger brother like,

576
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Speaker 1: did you always have a crush on you? And like

577
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Speaker 1: like the.

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Speaker 8: East he did? He did since I was in your age,

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Speaker 8: he did. But we honestly, yeah, like he was my

580
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Speaker 8: best friend though, like we got along like a house

581
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Speaker 8: on fire, and he actually helped originally hook me up

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Speaker 8: with his brother.

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Speaker 1: To be honest.

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Speaker 2: And is there a third brother just waiting in the corner.

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Speaker 8: Quietly they're actually is a sad brother. I never go there.

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Speaker 8: I would I wouldn't touch you. I wouldn't touch him

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Speaker 8: with the temple pole.

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Speaker 1: Oh I love that, saying well delivered, Sam.

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Speaker 2: No, thanks Sam, a very north ride. Do you have

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Speaker 2: a similar story to the situation?

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Speaker 7: I do, so. I am now married to the middle brothers.

592
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 7: There's five of them, and before I'm married, now my husband,

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Speaker 7: I used to go up with his younger brother, and

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Speaker 7: I happen until this day. I'm not sure whether they

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Speaker 7: know or IPEC. The younger brother's wife knows something because

596
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Speaker 7: he must have told her. But I would look at it. Hey,

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00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 7: it's the same jeans, and I hope my husband takes

598
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Speaker 7: it as a compliment.

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Speaker 2: And when you married the when you married the brother? Wow,

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Speaker 2: what's the age difference between the two brothers.

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Speaker 7: Oh that's a very good question. Two years only?

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. And are they all similar?

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Speaker 7: They they're not. But they all can dance really well,

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00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 7: and they being amazingly instrument.

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Speaker 1: There's a boy band. They're five, five brothers.

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Speaker 7: It is the Jackson's line.

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Speaker 1: What's their don't tell me the surname, don't tell me?

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Speaker 7: A little a little boy bend. You can make out

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Speaker 7: of them, I guess.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard to know which one to if if

611
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Speaker 2: you've gone out with two of them, you'd be comparing.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing.

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Speaker 1: I hate you right now.

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Speaker 3: This is the fitting and with with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: There we're on. It's time for sixty second starts Hate

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Speaker 2: Richie time still standing.

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Speaker 2: where are you right now? Renee? What are you doing?

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Speaker 9: Oh, we're on the way to school that We're happy

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Speaker 9: to be a bit late.

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Speaker 3: If we get two hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: When you say we have, you've got a full cart.

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Speaker 7: I've got two boys in the car with me.

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Speaker 2: All right, boys, what are their names? Renee, Austin and Blake.

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Speaker 2: Austin and Blake.

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Speaker 1: Lately names Well, wish mummy luck.

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Speaker 2: They are allowed to help you out. Okay, it's got

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Speaker 2: to do a carload versus Kate.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, okay.

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Speaker 2: Austin and Blake start to think about it. Guys, here

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Speaker 2: we go. Rene. You are the guest. So you are

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Speaker 2: going for sixty seconds on the clock. Your time starts now. Green,

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Speaker 2: black and kalamata are types of ollie correct? How many

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Speaker 2: children to Kate and will have three correct. Frank Walker

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Speaker 2: is the voice behind which radio ad.

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Speaker 9: National Chile.

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Speaker 2: Correct. Name a location you could go ice skating in

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Speaker 2: Sydney Center. I'll give it to your true false. Mark

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Speaker 2: Zuckerberg's net worth is one hundred and seventy six million true. No,

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Speaker 2: it's one hundred and seventy six billion. Kate, over to you.

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Speaker 2: Jules and Cam found love on Witch Points. Bet Stadium

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Speaker 2: and Fear are characters from which hit movie Friday. Which

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Speaker 2: singer's real name is Alisha Beth Moore, doesn't matter, You've

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Speaker 2: got it. Rename hostin Bike.

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Speaker 1: Bad two hundred dollars for that car on the way

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Speaker 1: to school this morning. Thank you, And with a with Kate,

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Speaker 1: WHICHI podcast. I want to talk about a brand new

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Speaker 1: dating trend and I don't think it's new. Maybe it's

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Speaker 1: been given a name now, but I think it's been

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Speaker 1: hanging around for a while. You know, we've heard, Okay,

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Speaker 1: what are the other ones? We've got bread crumbing, which

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Speaker 1: you just kind of throwing out a bit of fick,

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Speaker 1: you know, Willie Nilly, Yes, I will see you no,

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Speaker 1: I won't see you. What are you doing Friday? Maybe

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Speaker 1: I'll see you in a fortnight. Ghosting is mean and cowardly.

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Speaker 1: This one I really like.

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Speaker 2: Have you heard a forgetful phil?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 1: What's that?

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Speaker 2: That's where you just leave something at the house every

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Speaker 2: time you go there, so you have to come back

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Speaker 2: and get it and bump into them again, see them again.

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00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 2: Oh that's good forgetful.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's a term that's so cute though,

673
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Speaker 1: because I was listening to Sabrina Carpenter over the weekend

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Speaker 1: in the car with my daughter. Not all of the

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Speaker 1: songs you start when you're singing Sabrina Carpenter at the

676
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: top of your lungs with your nine year old, you

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Speaker 1: do realize what she's really singing about. Sometimes there's a

678
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Speaker 1: very cute line in one of the songs about it's

679
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Speaker 1: not interesting. Yeah, where you leave? Where's my other sockets?

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Speaker 2: Probably or under the cover somewhere where I on?

681
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, what about this one? It's called pocketing And

682
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 1: if you're being pocketed or you're experiencing pocketing, give us

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Speaker 1: a call. Thirteen twenty four ten and I think you

684
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 1: know and you may not know, the term but I think,

685
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: just quietly, there's something in you it's feeling really uncertain

686
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: about their relationship, and maybe it's affecting your self esteem,

687
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 1: because what it is is that you're past the awkward

688
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: part of poking up with someone. You've met someone, maybe

689
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 1: you've wipe left or right or up or down or

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Speaker 1: whatever it is you do on those apps. You've started

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00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 1: to see each other, maybe you've met the friends. You know,

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00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: you're spending some time together. You've made the pocket just

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Speaker 1: wait mate. You may have even gone on like a

694
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 1: little weekend away, had some veno, but you fail to

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Speaker 1: appear on their socials. You're not really being acknowledged as

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Speaker 1: the partner. And I think in situ, when you're with them,

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Speaker 1: they're into you, you know, like you're doing things and

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00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: you're making class, but they're not, Like they might post

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00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: things on their Instagram, but they're still they're not tagging you.

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Speaker 1: And I think people pocket people. It's not because they

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Speaker 1: don't like you, it's because you actually there's someone else

702
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 1: floating around out there, may be looking at their socials

703
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 1: and they don't want that person to know yet, maybe

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00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: that they're dating someone. Maybe they want to keep their

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00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: options open. I think it's I think it's me.

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00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,439
Speaker 2: I reckon. The gray area is And the dangerous part

707
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 2: is you probably need to have a conversation about it

708
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 2: because what if one person is putting up on their

709
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 2: social media, great weekend away camping with Steve.

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Speaker 1: My god, how much the girl that would be doing that.

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Speaker 2: Because girls are into social media more than guys. Yeah

712
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 2: they are.

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Speaker 1: Oh you've done the studies, mister thirty six.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh I have it. It's like a seventy thirty.

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Speaker 1: All right, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 2: So she'd be going great weekend camping with Steve, loved

717
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 2: hitting the bush and life intent, you know, all this

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00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 2: sort of gear.

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Speaker 1: And then and then he just must be an older lady, she's.

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Speaker 2: From the eighties. And then he's just saying he's just

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00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 2: putting a photo of Sunday, of Sunday night when he's

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00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 2: got back and caught up in the lads.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's been hitting.

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Speaker 2: You've been pocketed?

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00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know who else you can be pocketed?

726
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: And this is I know someone that you've been pocketed.

727
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 1: I don't no, I don't think i've been pocketed. I've

728
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: been pocketed when I've given strict instructions to be pocketed.

729
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? You can keep me

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Speaker 1: in your pocket, but don't you dare anyway? My girlfriend

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Speaker 1: she was married, Julie. Yeah, no, not Julie, another girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: You can be pocketed even in a marriage. Like she

733
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 1: was always really upset and felt really needy that perhaps

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Speaker 1: she didn't feature on the socials, you know, like her

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Speaker 1: and the kids weren't floating around the Instagram.

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Speaker 2: It was singles party. It was just exactly surfing trips

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Speaker 2: with the lads cans with the footage.

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Speaker 1: Where's your wife? And if you bring it up, you

739
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: feel you appear as though you're really needy and insecure,

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00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: and they say things to you like I don't know

741
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: going on about you know, I love you, that kind

742
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Speaker 1: of stuff, but they don't post you because they probably

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Speaker 1: have a girlfriend. And I hate if I've implanted this

744
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Speaker 1: into your mind this morning and you're driving to whether

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Speaker 1: you think this is what's happening to me.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what on their socials? Because Kate Richie just

747
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 2: saw them. Now someone else.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that that is always your line, but

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Speaker 1: I do know for a fact that this is what

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Speaker 1: was happening in that that's.

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Speaker 2: Spot you need to do. Cut a hole in your

752
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Speaker 2: pocket and escape that.

753
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,280
Speaker 1: Is so deep for you. Do you quite understand?

754
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 2: Or you could play with the digitals at the same time.

755
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 2: If you've cut a hole.

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Speaker 1: In your just a turn a little hole though, Who.

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00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 2: Was that talking by digitals?

758
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: Or I don't know, a secret little voice coming from

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Speaker 1: deep within the pocket anyway.

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Speaker 2: Whip with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast a great

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Speaker 2: shows like this. Download the Nova player, Fire, the app

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