WEBVTT - Can You Really Die From A Broken Heart? 0:00:01.560 --> 0:00:12.399 Get every day adelaides breaking my heart. Don't you breaking 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:14.520 my heart? Because it's a genuine thing. 0:00:14.680 --> 0:00:18.360 Okay, So there's a study that has shown that people 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:22.400 really do die of a broken heart, and this is bad. 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:26.280 It kills men quicker than women. So the technical term 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:30.240 for broken heart syndrome is here we go, here we go. Yeah, okay, 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:34.480 just let me take a breath. Tacosubu cardio myopathy. Say 0:00:34.520 --> 0:00:37.720 that again, taco subu cardio myopathy. 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:39.600 Right, of course, its rolls off the tongue. 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:43.159 So people are diagnosed with it when stress hormones caused 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:47.000 by emotions prevent their hearts from properly contracting. 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:48.240 This is a real thing. 0:00:48.920 --> 0:00:51.279 It was a proper broken heart. Physically, your heart can 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:52.600 break it doesn't work properly. 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:55.520 So the study found that the mortality rate of broken 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:58.800 hearted men was a staggering eleven point two percent compared 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:02.200 with five point five percent of female patients. 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:03.480 What happened to the girls? Just get on with it, 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:04.800 just move on. 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:06.720 Exactly, We won't happen take you personally. 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:09.640 This makes sense though, don't you think, Because how many 0:01:09.880 --> 0:01:13.040 older couples do you hear about when one passes on 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:16.640 that the other one goes shortly after my grandparents, who 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:20.520 were married for seven thousand years, passed away within six 0:01:20.560 --> 0:01:21.360 months of each other. 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:22.440 See that's outrageous. 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:24.600 See I'd be like that. If Gregy went, I'd be like, 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:26.600 you know, depending on the situation with the kids, I'd 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:27.640 be like, I want to go with him. 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:30.440 Yeah, don't do that though. 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:32.959 What don't you're not going to hang out with it? 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:37.120 Well it's quite say though, isn't it. And particularly in 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:39.640 the animal kingdom as well. Oh, because you hear all 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:41.240 sorts of I think it's penguins as well. Once they 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:43.240 find a mate, they mate for life and that's it. 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:45.839 They won't move on. Okay, Oh that's sad. 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:49.200 Oh God, Molly, you were saying something about rabbits as well. 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:53.120 Rabbits won't go like you have to remove the little nome. 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:53.880 We shouldn't say that. 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:55.400 They have to remove them. You have to cage and 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:58.680 separately because they're so busy. But also you were saying. 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:01.120 The rabbit has to process their mate may not be 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:05.440 with us anymore, or they will go themselves. 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:08.080 Poor little fellas. I'll tell you what though, once they've 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:11.840 established it, they gone and they move on busy. Well, 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:13.360 there are rabbits, real busy. 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:15.240 That's what they were born to do, real busy. 0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:15.919 You know what I mean? 0:02:16.080 --> 0:02:17.120 Reputation is true? 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:17.800 Oh should we? 0:02:18.280 --> 0:02:20.360 I mean? Thirteen twenty four ten have you heard of 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:22.480 this happening? Have you heard of someone actually dying of 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:23.520 a broken heart? 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:26.959 Okay? Thirteen twenty four ten. Who's died of a broken 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:27.680 heart that you know of? 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:31.320 Oh? Well, I mean so obviously people's grandparents would be 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:33.000 this is a thing I reckon. 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:35.799 All right, give us a call, share these little stories 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:38.320 and we're all sort of bond together, and take us 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:40.640 to a happy place because we're all very happy and 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:43.400 in love with each other. Thirteen twenty four ten do 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:45.440 you know someone who died of a broken heart? Best 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:48.080 calls Warning juts two hundred and fifty dollars marrieding Holiday 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:48.960 Park voutress. 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:52.280 I don't beg the question if Kara went you, would 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:53.640 you want to stick around by yourself? 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:53.800 Not? 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:57.040 Really, We've all learned that you are incapable of functioning 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:58.560 as a human without your wife. 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:01.680 I wouldn't. I honestly wouldn't, because I'd be like, now 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:04.360 what and the comparisons would just be not fair by 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:08.040 the way. 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:08.000 As in you wouldn't want to hook up with someone 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:09.440 else when you're like eighty or ninety. 0:03:09.639 --> 0:03:11.800 Well, in terms of like you'd be comparing the next 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:13.960 person if you're to your previous wife, and it just 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:16.119 it would never stack up. Yeah. 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:17.800 And if I was an eighty year old woman who 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:19.520 came into your life after car I went, I'd be like, 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:20.520 I don't need this, Josh, I. 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:22.880 Can't do this. I can't do this. Seriously, mate, put 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:24.360 a shirt I when you go for around you're eighty. 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:28.240 My gosh. Thirteen twenty four ten, do you know someone 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:33.400 who died of a broken heart? Nine or nine? Czy's 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:34.720 favorite way to wake up? 0:03:35.360 --> 0:03:35.560 Change. 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:37.240 It's all happening in twenty three minutes. 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:41.880 Yes, Spurnside Village, the new multi million dollar renovation space 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:42.680 is open. 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:44.320 So if you would like to go. 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:47.840 Along with one hundred and fifty dollars in your back pockets, 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:48.840 give us a call now. 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:52.120 Thirteen twenty four ten. We'll hand out about your two. 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:59.560 Ooh, that's nice right now, No, I'll go back again. 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.640 It's just like that you picked a really upbeat song 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:03.880 for this particular topic. 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:04.960 Broken. 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:07.240 We've just revealed that people really do. 0:04:07.320 --> 0:04:09.720 Die of a broken heart, and it kills men quicker 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:14.160 than it kills women. So the term is called tacosubo kario. God, 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:15.760 we've got a medical professional on the line. 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:16.960 It can expide it. 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:20.200 I don't know. I couldn't even finish it. Lisa from 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:22.359 Salisbury Height. So you work in a hospital. I'm so 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:23.279 sorry I butchered that. 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:26.600 That's okay. It's a bit of a difficult one at times. 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:28.000 Yeah, what's it called? 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:30.960 I can see bo tardiamography. 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:32.360 Right and explain how it happens. 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:35.640 No, it's basically an information of the heart muscle, so 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:39.240 it basically doesn't pump as it should. So the bottom 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:40.920 is one of the chambers of the heart that's meant 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:42.960 to pump the blood all around the bodies. It just 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.920 does it like, it doesn't do it as good as 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:47.359 it should do. 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:52.520 So my understanding is when stress hormones caused by emotions 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:54.719 prevent the heart from beating properly. 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:55.280 Is that right? 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:56.200 Yes? 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:56.680 Correct? 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:59.200 Okay? And so do you see this or you work 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:00.000 with people who see it? 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:03.440 Yes, you see it a lot actually, so it basically 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:06.440 mimics mimics a heart attack. So I used to work, 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:08.960 well I still do, but I work in a hospital 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.800 where we get called in for emergencies, we get told 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:13.640 that they're having a heart attack. So we get called in. 0:05:13.680 --> 0:05:17.320 We go in and the ECG that would normally show 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:20.880 where the patient's having a heart attacks. Yeah, this will 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:23.479 do exactly the same thing. They'll have be having the pain. 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:25.760 But then when you go into the angiogram and you 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:28.680 actually take the pictures and you do the scam, it 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:32.039 doesn't show that there's blockages to the heart arteries. It 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:34.400 just shows at the end we do a certain picture, 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:37.640 it's like an ultrastown basically, and it's showing the pumping 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:41.240 capacity of the heart, and that's showing that it's weaker. 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:44.360 And so what type of people is it? People who 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:46.320 have lost their partners or who's Yeah. 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:49.440 So usually once you then, because it's obviously pretty chaotic 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:51.760 at that time, once you then it all calms down 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:53.600 and you speak to them about what's been going on? 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:56.640 Have you been having a chest pain? And a lot 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:59.200 of the time they would say that theoth had a 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:03.359 traumatic of day, whether it's someone's passing away or you know, 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:06.720 a higher accident or something something traumatic that happens, and 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:08.760 they'll have this response after that. 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:11.800 Wow, Lisa, thank you for explaining that properly because I 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:12.840 obviously watched it. 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:16.400 Oh my gosh, that's quite sad, isn't that incredible? 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:19.400 Play the play the Kiki song against. 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:28.960 Mister Gosh, really sad, breaking heart? I'll thirteen twenty four ten? 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:31.960 Should we still do this stunt? Do you know someone 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:34.840 who's died of a broken heart? And maybe specifically, do 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:38.480 you know someone who has suffered taco suber cardiomyopathy? 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:39.080 That wasn't bad? 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:39.920 We thank you very much. 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:41.760 Hey, best caller will win a two hundred and fifty 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:44.599 dollars Marrying Holiday part vouchers that'll keep everyone up at 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:46.360 about and stress free. That's the greatest place on earth. 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.320 It's like Disneyland in Marianne's really. 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:49.760 Good, isn't it scared? The other day? With fifty dollars 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:51.479 off per night on stage from June to August at 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:55.680 Marrying Holiday Park and can save only four tickets, don't 0:06:55.680 --> 0:07:01.400 save all? Right? Third and twenty four ten, let's get 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:10.680 into it. Yes, it's a real thing, by the way, Yeah, 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:11.520 it's a real thing. 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:15.600 A big song, but sad story here because people really 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:17.440 do die of a broken heart, and it kills men 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:20.680 quicker than it kills women. Eleven percent of men died 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:24.560 from broken heart, as opposed to five percent of women. Anyway, 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:27.200 we're taking a calls this morning, thirteen twenty four ten. 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:28.840 Do you know someone who died of a broken heart? 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:31.080 Is it Leah or Lee from o'halla and Hill? 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:35.920 It's Lee Lee? Yeah, what happened with what happened with 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:36.400 your grandpa? 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:40.600 Okay, so my grandpa passed away? Yeah, and he was 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:42.040 sick for a little while, and we knew that it 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:45.480 was coming. And then my grandma is perfectly healthy, up 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:48.880 and about doing everything. A couple of days before he's 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:52.400 one month's anniversary of his passing, she passed away and 0:07:52.560 --> 0:07:57.040 there was no cause of death. Also, everyone said it 0:07:57.080 --> 0:07:58.960 was down to a broken heart. It was never like 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:00.640 official and paper. 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:03.280 Or anything like that. But yeah, she was really, really struggling, 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:05.560 and she'd spend her whole life with him and just 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:07.600 couldn't live without him. I was going to say he 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:11.840 started the bed that she she slept that night. So yeah, 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:13.680 she woke up and look, she didn't wake up, but 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:15.880 she passed in her sleep from a broken heart. 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:17.400 How long had that been together? 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:18.360 Oh? 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:20.160 Sixty years? 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:23.640 Oh you wouldn't know yourself, would you lay oh no, 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:24.400 absolutely not. 0:08:24.480 --> 0:08:26.680 And they were like so loved up and in each 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.080 other's pockets, like their whole lives were around each other. 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:32.840 And yeah it was It was really really sad, but 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:35.679 at the same time it was beautiful because they were 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:36.520 back to tak again. 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:38.439 That's a really nice isn't that? 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:38.839 Thank you? 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:40.760 Lay Let's go to Tanil from Para Hills. 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:41.600 Good morning to Nil. 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:43.080 Hi, how are you going? 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:43.480 Good? 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:43.680 Good? 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:46.040 You've heard of this happening too. Is this your grandma? I? 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:50.640 Yeah, quite similar. It was my grandfather who passed away. 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:54.040 First he was quite unwell with cancer, and then about 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:56.760 four and a half months later, my grandmother actually passed 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:58.719 away in her sleep as well. They put it down 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:02.840 to a heart attack, but they were no known medical 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:06.040 issues prior. And yeah, she just passed away in her sleep. 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:09.720 Wow, that is like genuinely you could probably banking that. 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:11.480 It's Taco Supercadio Marpathing. 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:12.319 Yeah. 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:12.600 Yeah. 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:15.400 And they went together with only each other their whole lives. 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:18.320 So they met when I was fifteen and together for 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:20.679 I think sixty eight years. They're married for a bellie 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:21.679 of forty something. 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:22.640 Wow, thank god. 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:26.440 Here you can honestly see how this happens. Can't thank 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:29.280 you so much for sharing your story. Wow, goodness gracious. 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:32.440 Oh I want to be married for that long. 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:35.120 Our hearts are fool, don't break them? 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:36.560 No, exactly there. 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:38.400 Who would you like to give the two hundred fifty 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:41.240 dollars marrying Holiday Park bout to flee along? 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.000 I think that is going to be an epic time. 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:46.560 Two and fifty dollars marrying Holiday Park bouncher escape the 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:48.880 every day with fifty dollars off per night on stays 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:50.720 from June to August at Marrion Holiday Park. 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:55.040 Oh, thank you so much. You're making me cry. That's amazing. 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:57.439 You really enjoy it. Thank you. 0:09:57.640 --> 0:09:59.679 We didn't want to make you cry. But also sort 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:01.000 of like the cry of happiness. 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.240 Really, Like that's the best gift to give when you've 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:07.080 got kids. It's like a little getaway and so close 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:10.320 to home. Like that's something that like there's gifts and 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:13.280 all the rest of that time and memories with your family. Yeah, 0:10:13.320 --> 0:10:15.600 that's really special. So thank you. 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:17.400 Can't begin to tell you how much fun you're going 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:18.520 to have. We did it on the weekend. 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:21.439 You have a little toast to the grandparents on the weekend. 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:23.640 Like big time all right. Also, let's leave you with this. 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:34.679 Let's talk only fans, shall we. Yeah, that's right. And 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:37.200 when you think only fans, you probably think, oh, yes, 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:40.199 just a have and per sexual activity. 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:41.680 That's what you think. 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:44.760 Maybe that's what you think. Maybe that's what a lot 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:47.600 of men think. Well, it turns out maybe not so much. 0:10:48.000 --> 0:10:50.960 Here's the thing, attention, staff man are dropping huge sums 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:53.960 of money on only fans models, not for launchy content 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:57.680 or online liaisons, but for simple conversation. 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:02.120 And I call bs on this already, there proceed. 0:11:02.080 --> 0:11:05.320 The stats are there. I'm seventy eight percent of chats 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:08.680 between creators and their top spenders are about everything except 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:13.520 doing the deed. Hottest topics. Great question, Joe pets work, 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:19.480 childhood memories, TV shows and hobbies. What about this Sophie Rain, who, 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:21.439 by all reports and I'm reliably told, is a top 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:24.560 performing only fans one. She mentioned that her top fan, 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:26.840 whose name is Charlie, he's a married American man, has 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:30.280 shelled out over six million bucks over two years, has 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:34.679 rarely asked for a nude pick. This is alarming. 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:36.720 This is the quote from her. We talk every single 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:37.640 day without fail. 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:39.520 No, that's cute, Okay, so. 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:42.000 I'll tell you what I resent about this little study 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:43.720 of yours that you seem to have discovered. 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:44.880 I didn't write the study. 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:46.200 He right, I don't know where you've found. 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:47.880 I don't hate the reader, okay. 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:52.120 Is that it's almost like, oh, my wife doesn't listen 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:54.960 to me, so I have to now go to only fans, 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:57.560 and it's all her fault because she's we can't have 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:01.320 conversations and she's boring. So I have to go onto 0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:04.560 the internet where sometimes sure the girl is going to 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.400 get nude and show me her boobs, but other times 0:12:07.400 --> 0:12:08.960 we're just going to chat about the dog. 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:14.160 Come on, come on, this is why men go to 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:19.440 ana dance. Interesting audio yesterday from the Crow's main session. 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:22.000 I mean, the Crows are absolutely flying, sitting inside the 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:23.839 top four. They played the Swans on the weekend. You 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:26.920 think it'd be all beer and skittles. The minutes nake nixy, 0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:31.120 nakey nixy. Oh my gosh. Boys obviously weren't performing quite 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:33.240 at the level that he wanted to, and he had 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:35.880 to give them a good old fashioned spray mid session. 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:49.439 Listen closely. Oh there's a big. 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:53.080 One, he said, Start if in concentrating the fact that 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:54.800 you're not doing it the right way. He tells me 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:58.960 that you're effing around. 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:01.760 I going for you boys, Oh no. 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:03.760 You would have been sprayed back in the day. 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:04.560 Why do you say that? 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:08.560 Because you A don't listen? Excuse me, b are not 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:13.079 very disciplined. She would have had some heavy, heavy, heavy 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:14.200 nights before training. 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:15.600 Do you do you want me to go on all 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:16.800 that'll do? 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:19.199 It's all pretty accurate to to be honest, I remember 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:21.760 getting sprayed early days because I tried to carry over 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.400 fashion trend from the East and that was wearing skins 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:25.440 without shorts over the top. 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:26.120 You idiot. 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:28.480 Yeah, that didn't work. Got sent straight back into the 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:30.559 change room. So the change but shorts over the top. 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:33.760 Can I ask how that would have gone down? Maybe 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:35.640 at the Elizabeth shopping center after. 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:39.880 Training too not too well, really really courteous approach of 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:40.480 that one. 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:44.320 At the local faster past it feedback from the locals 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:46.000 and you just wearing. 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:49.720 Skis a cruise In the Louisiana tab for and after training, 0:13:49.800 --> 0:13:53.160 ale so roy Led was my main coach, and I 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:55.240 remember there was a blake by the name of Nathan Castley, 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.680 beautiful man, and he was the runner and he would 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:01.760 come out and deliver the message to me. And sometimes 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:04.600 I would make a mistake and straight away you think, oh, jeez, 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:06.880 I know he's going off his lid. And a few 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:09.120 times I would look up from a distance and I 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:11.440 could see that he was going off his lid, and 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:13.720 then Cass would run out and we'd have this sort 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:16.439 of smile with each other and I'd be like, yes, mate, 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:21.080 You'd say Roy would like to know why you did that, 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:23.320 and I'll go, yeah, yeah, you're just tell him blah 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:27.360 blah blah. Then and I'd make the same mistake two 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:32.040 or three minutes later, Cassy come back out again. Yes, 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:35.040 and I'd sort of roll my eyes and oh no again, 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:38.160 and you go, Roy would like to know why you 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:41.920 made that same mistake. Again, I'd go, oh, mate, look, 0:14:42.560 --> 0:14:44.880 just tell him that it. Meanwhile, I'm looking at him 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:47.480 as well, and he's fumings all read this theme coming 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:50.360 out of his ears. And then, particularly after a win, 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.680 we'd always after the game, sit there and we've been 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:55.000 having a beer, and like immediately after the game, sitting 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:58.160 and I'd go, gas, go on, tell me what did 0:14:58.160 --> 0:14:59.960 he say? What exactly did he say? 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:02.240 It's leaps here? Or a Dumbleton. 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:06.440 Even in those moments, he wouldn't tell me. I'd say, okay, 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:08.640 what was the gist of it? And he'd say something 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:11.960 like he several times question if you had severe limitations 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:15.640 and your ability to perform basic football tasks, and he 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:20.560 questioned your immediate position at the football club several times. 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.840 I love salvaging relationships all across Adelaide. 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:24.480 It's what I do. 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:27.200 Mine's a mess, but I like helping other people. And 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:30.360 so what about this little tidbit saying thank you might 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:35.760 actually help your relationship stay alive more than saying I 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:36.440 love you. 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:40.160 Really, I think you'd automatically think that the most powerful 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:41.800 thing you can say to someone is I love you. 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:43.360 Well, you would think that, but I think it just 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:46.360 rolls off the tongue sometimes sometimes without any meaning. So 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:49.200 they did this research of over four hundred married couples 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:53.200 and found that gratitude was the strongest predictor of relationship satisfaction, 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:57.560 even more than communication or how couples handle conflict. 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:01.080 Ah, I'm a big thank you guy in every situation. 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:03.920 Sometimes I find myself saying thank you when I've just 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:05.960 had something taken away from me. Yeah, you know what, 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:08.320 I mean I used thank you to end conversations a 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:09.960 lot of the time. Okay, thanks, thanks mate. 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:11.480 Yeah, yeah, okay. 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:13.360 I remember when I first started and over and I 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:16.160 went into the boss's office with plans to get more shifts. 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:18.120 He took shifts away from me, and as I was 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:20.560 I was like, thank you so much for everything. And 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:23.360 then when I got I was like, what just happened? Yeah, 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:25.520 I just got robbed and I'm saying thank you for 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:25.960 robbing me. 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:28.440 Well, the other question is do you say love you 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:30.120 every time you hang up the phone from your wife? 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:33.200 No, I don't. I don't need to do it more often. 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:34.440 We do it with the kids. Yes. 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:38.040 Isn't it funny how a turn of phrase can mean everything? Though, 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:42.080 just that little twist in what you're saying. Because yesterday 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:44.240 I had my normal Tuesday meltdown on a Wednesday, I 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:45.400 just thought I'd changed things up. 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:48.400 Yeah, push pushing you forward to that. Yeah. 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:51.640 So I went and picked Harper up from school for 0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:54.440 the little reception kid, and she goes on the playground 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:56.400 after school, and to get hurt. To get that kid 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:58.920 off the playground is just and she was doing it 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:00.680 on purpose. I was like, half, we have to go 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:03.080 You've got dance and she was like completely ignoring me. 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:05.879 So you see steams that come from your face. 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:08.719 I was just building up from building up because, as 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:10.119 you will know, I tried to have a nap in 0:17:10.119 --> 0:17:12.359 the afternoon yesterday, which is very important for the breakfast 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:14.879 radio announcer, and I had about eight phone calls in 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:16.919 that time, one of which was my husband. 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:18.560 Going, well, where are you? What are you doing? Are 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:19.520 you picking up the kids? 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:22.240 Like no, lack of understanding of hey, I'm just trying 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:26.320 to get some rest here. AnyWho, It built and built 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:30.119 and built into an absolute sonami when Harper was crying 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:32.320 and I ended up yelling her. And Mum doesn't yell 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:34.199 very often, so when I yelled, it sort of shocked 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.679 her into submission, which is an awful feeling because your 0:17:36.720 --> 0:17:38.440 kids are supposed to feel safe with mum. But Mum 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:39.080