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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast. Hand

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Speaker 1: it over to Kate Richie, who's got the best story

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Speaker 1: you've ever heard.

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Speaker 2: You don't even know which story I'm going to tell

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Speaker 2: because you were madly gossiping with Tommy during that.

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Speaker 1: Sorry at an aeroplane, I do have a storage.

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Speaker 2: I mean, the show's full of aeroplanes today. But I

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Speaker 2: bet you my story about an aeroplaness better than yours.

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Speaker 1: Shallus your story about an aeroplane?

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Speaker 2: How about this? You're just not safe anywhere.

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Speaker 1: Don't say that because you know it's been an issue

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Speaker 1: for me. Oh no, you're going to speak from an

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Speaker 1: educated point of view, then don't let me school you

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Speaker 1: on aviation.

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Speaker 2: I don't mean falling out of the sky good. I

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Speaker 2: mean if you're going away on a business trip and

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Speaker 2: you're on a plane, if you're going to pick somebody

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Speaker 2: up or try and do some hardcore flirting, don't do

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Speaker 2: it on the plane. Why within well, don't do it

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Speaker 2: on the plane within earshot of lots of other people,

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Speaker 2: And don't do it with your wedding ring on whoops,

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Speaker 2: Because that's that's what's happened. This woman has outed a

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Speaker 2: cheetah on a plane. Give us a call thirteen twenty

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Speaker 2: four to ten. If you've been in this difficult position

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Speaker 2: and then you've thought, you know what, I don't care.

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Speaker 2: I'm not connected to these people. These people, this woman

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Speaker 2: or this man, they need to know what's happening behind

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Speaker 2: their back. So the story goes like like this, this

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Speaker 2: this woman, she's got on a flight to New York,

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Speaker 2: and she has met a woman at the airport in

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Speaker 2: the bar. Her name's Katie. Anyway, they bought the plane.

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Speaker 2: Katie is sat in a row with a guy who

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Speaker 2: she has she doesn't really know, but he appears to

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Speaker 2: be a married man. And then, because she's only sat

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Speaker 2: one row in front and kind of diagonally across the aisle,

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Speaker 2: she's just been privy to this entire flirting. I don't

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Speaker 2: know what you call it fiestaes look, I don't. So

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Speaker 2: she she can see is a man with a wedding ring,

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Speaker 2: a woman that is not sat directly beside him to

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Speaker 2: start with, But after some coercing, he convinces this woman

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Speaker 2: called Katie because he keeps saying her name quite loudly,

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Speaker 2: and it's Katie as in Katy Perry with a wife.

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Speaker 2: You don't often see it, so he convinces Katie to

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Speaker 2: swap seats so that she can be closer to him

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Speaker 2: and they can continue drinking and partying on on the flight,

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Speaker 2: he reveals things like he's the director of his company

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Speaker 2: and he's heading to New York on a business trip.

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Speaker 2: And she thinks this guy's married. They've only just met.

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Speaker 2: What's going on? I feel a responsibility to let people know.

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Speaker 2: So she gets on the internet and she's posting photos

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Speaker 2: and video saying, if this is your man, if this

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Speaker 2: is your married man, and he's on flight whatever it is,

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Speaker 2: whateverning heading for from Houston to New York, and this

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Speaker 2: is the information we know about him, he's doing the

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Speaker 2: wrong thing.

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Speaker 1: Is it your place to do that? Like if you're

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Speaker 1: a punta, right, and you know absolutely nothing about what's

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Speaker 1: going on in his relationship and you're not connected to him.

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Speaker 1: So he might have a wedding ring on, but who

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Speaker 1: knows what's going on at home?

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Speaker 2: Who are you?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: He's really unhappy and sad and they've slowly drifted apart,

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Speaker 2: so he.

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Speaker 1: Should go okate And you don't know either, No.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I do what I do believe though.

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Speaker 1: You have to judge, don't we know, yeah, or we're

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Speaker 1: judging as we pick our nose mid break.

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Speaker 2: I didn't pick my nose because I got nervous about

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Speaker 2: being honest. I just think, look, I just think that

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Speaker 2: you can do do what you want to do. As

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Speaker 2: you said, nobody knows what's going on behind closed doors.

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Speaker 2: But what I really loathe is that when that kind

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Speaker 2: of behavior is flaunted and there's a sense of entitlement

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Speaker 2: to I can wear my redding wing, I can wear.

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Speaker 2: I can wear when want wedding ring, I can I

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Speaker 2: can put this out there into the world. And as

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Speaker 2: people said on her post, thank you so much for

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Speaker 2: bringing this to us. We were undecided about whether you

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Speaker 2: should be outing this person or not. But if he's

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Speaker 2: going to do it within earshot, he's basically the seat

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Speaker 2: behind you. This is this is he doesn't seem to

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Speaker 2: care or have any respect for the people around him,

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Speaker 2: maybe not the family at home and not and not himself.

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Speaker 2: I've had that situation before where.

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Speaker 1: Guy was flirting with you.

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Speaker 2: No one flirts with me. But I was at a

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Speaker 2: restaurant and the table behind me was a table of men,

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Speaker 2: and they were obviously all married men, and the conversation

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Speaker 2: that I could hear. I was with my husband at

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Speaker 2: the time, I think, and listening to the way they

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Speaker 2: spoke not only about the people that they were in

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Speaker 2: relationships with, but then other people that they were having

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Speaker 2: Austra Maartles other relationships with. And it wasn't even a

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Speaker 2: quick update with the facts. It was highly disrespectful and

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Speaker 2: just just the pig. It was so piggish, and I

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Speaker 2: didn't have the Firstly, I didn't have the skills to

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Speaker 2: know out of record and put it onto the internet.

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Speaker 2: But do you know what I mean? Is part of

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Speaker 2: you that always thinks, oh goodness, I wish I could

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Speaker 2: let that person that is gross.

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Speaker 1: I was ever one night and there was a guy

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Speaker 1: that I know and that the family knows, and he

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Speaker 1: was there with another woman who wasn't his partner, and

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Speaker 1: I thought, oh, maybe it's just a work colleague whatever,

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Speaker 1: but it looked kind of cozy. And I remember sort

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Speaker 1: of halfway halfway through the night, I rang Dad and I.

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Speaker 2: Was a Dad, you're not gonna believe it.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna believe who's at dinner. And then he said,

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Speaker 1: all right, mate, the best way forward here is you

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Speaker 1: didn't see anything just you didn't see anything say, don't

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Speaker 1: say hello or make yourself known, just pass on quietly.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean to do? How part of it though?

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Speaker 2: What part of what is that called complicit? Isn't it?

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Speaker 1: I don't know? Called John and go Hey? You should

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Speaker 1: be more thorough with your mates. Wife Sits in Whipper

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