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Speaker 1: We now lean into a show that we have become

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Speaker 1: addicted to over the last few years. Married at First

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Speaker 1: Sight is back tonight.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait.

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Speaker 1: I mean, first episode is always the big one. Is

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Speaker 1: there going to be What are the first impressions going

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Speaker 1: from the first time that they see each other. One

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Speaker 1: lady involved, the sexologist on the show is Alessandra there.

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Speaker 3: Hello, good morning, wonderful to see your face. Good to

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Speaker 3: see you guys too. I don't know you miss female person.

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Speaker 2: Sarah, Sarah the lucky one between us beauties.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, she is.

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Speaker 1: The rose between the two thorns, and.

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Speaker 3: I can see that very clearly.

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Speaker 2: What roses and one thorn. I'm quite beautiful myself like Sarah,

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Speaker 2: and obviously you're.

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Speaker 3: A bit of a I would say three thorny roses.

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Speaker 1: Guess it's so good to have you back on the show.

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Speaker 1: We've had a couple of chats to you before. Are

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Speaker 1: you still in Australia now leading up to the show

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Speaker 1: or where are you Alessandra?

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Speaker 3: I'm leading up to the show. Still in Australia? I

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Speaker 3: think this mate? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Can I can? I also, can I apologize to you

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Speaker 1: on behalf of this great nation.

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Speaker 2: What have you done that you had to go through?

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Speaker 1: Last year? A man in a skivy by the name

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Speaker 1: of James, James who calls himself an entrepreneur, who was

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Speaker 1: on the show to Find Love. There was that such

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Speaker 1: you handled that very well, Alessandra, but that must have thrown.

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Speaker 3: You a little bit. Thank you it did you know?

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Speaker 3: I had just started with the show and I for

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Speaker 3: Do I react? What do I do? Are recording? Is

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Speaker 2: He's known what we use here in Australia as a

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Speaker 3: Can I ask you see thorn.

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Speaker 2: When it comes to dating and I suppose meeting the

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Speaker 2: was this girl there who was very beautiful, and he

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Speaker 2: And I remember sitting back thinking, I just don't like

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Speaker 3: It depends on I think. So. Compliments are always going

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Speaker 1: Can we talk about love at first sight? Because I

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Speaker 1: But what I mean Alessandra. I saw her at a

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Speaker 3: Yes, I think the expectation level is something that really

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Speaker 4: that your take it? You're surprised that their relationship is

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Speaker 3: Well from what I saw playing out, yes, I was surprised.

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Speaker 3: course that I thought that they would work as a couple.

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Speaker 3: But going through the experience of watching their behavior, and

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Speaker 3: to them at the commitment ceremonies. When the audience watches

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Speaker 3: the show, they've been watching all week, what's been going on,

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Speaker 3: we haven't seen that. So what I was able to

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Speaker 3: see of their relationship is what they showed and brought.

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Speaker 3: So I take it at face value, and I did

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Speaker 3: not think it would last because that kind of dynamic

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Speaker 3: they were playing, if they were doing a strategy behind it,

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Speaker 3: that's but their choice. But I'm happy for them, and

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Speaker 3: you know, they have babies, and if they're happy and

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Speaker 3: they're creating their family, it's you know, all the lives

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Speaker 2: Alexandra, just quickly before you go, just asking for a mite.

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Speaker 2: If you're in a married relationship and you are sleeping

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Speaker 2: in separate bedrooms, is that any threat for the future

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Speaker 3: Well, if they need to get a good night's sleep,

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Speaker 3: I think that's okay. I know people who've been married

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Speaker 3: for years and when they actually go to fall asleep,

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Speaker 3: they revert to different rooms. If you're not being intimate

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Speaker 3: I think that's a red flat and maintaining a really nice, hot,

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Speaker 3: juicy interesting. You know, fantasy filled sex life is such

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Speaker 1: Last, what if the wife is disgusted with the husband?

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Speaker 2: Do you think.

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Speaker 3: You see that would be a problem. This is not

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Speaker 3: a good word to have.

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Speaker 2: Interesting case for my friend's wife. That's listening. You're suggesting

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Speaker 3: No, you know what I suggest. You never have to

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Speaker 3: look at what the neighbors are doing. You just have

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Speaker 3: to find whatever works for you. Guys.

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Speaker 2: Its custom made, customize mirrors on the sailing seek.

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Speaker 3: For the particular couple.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I leave the custard out of the bedroom custom custom.

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Speaker 3: If he wants to bring in cluster.

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Speaker 1: Custer wow, yes, okay, Alessandra. It is so good to

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Speaker 1: see you again married at first Monday. It starts hey

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Speaker 1: on Monday night, seven thirty on Channel nine. Enjoy the series.

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Speaker 1: We'll have to get you on the show again. It's

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Speaker 1: so good to see you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much, have a wonderful day.

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Speaker 2: Thanks bye.

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