WEBVTT - #1974 Outsourcing Our Thinking - Kelly & Harps

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<v Speaker 1>I get a champs. It's Harps, it's Kelly, it's Kelly Smith,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Craig Harper, it's you project. It's a Sunday, it's

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<v Speaker 1>one o five in the PM. I'd be doing it

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<v Speaker 1>one o five in the am. That'd be that'd be unusual.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a beautiful day in Melbourne. It's a beautiful day, Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a stunning day. I've been down the beach already,

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<v Speaker 2>had a bit of a wonder and it's just lovely.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a really nice vibe outside.

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<v Speaker 1>How far do you live from the beach? Like to

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<v Speaker 1>walk five minutes? Two hours?

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<v Speaker 2>Five minute walk to the beach, very lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the same. I'm probably about an eight minute walk.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just something therapeutic for a boy who grew

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<v Speaker 1>up in the wilderness. I love. I love the ocean,

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<v Speaker 1>and I love the forests and trees and farms and shit.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know about where did you grow up?

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<v Speaker 2>So I was split between so broadmeadows, which is you know,

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<v Speaker 2>there's not a beach inside, and then grandparents lived down

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<v Speaker 2>the coast groad Ocean road, and so that has just

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<v Speaker 2>given me this wonderful love of the beach. And then yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>my dad lived over this side and I moved over here.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I was a kid, I detested the city

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<v Speaker 1>because I never lived in the city at all, anywhere

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<v Speaker 1>near the city till I was probably nineteen, because I

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<v Speaker 1>moved from Latro Valley, which is you know, it's not bush,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's a country. You know, there are towns there.

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<v Speaker 1>I moved from there to a place called Bundary Bumbry,

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<v Speaker 1>which is south of Perth on the Wa coast, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was pretty small townsville. But then I started living

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<v Speaker 1>in Melbourne when I was about nineteen. But when I

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<v Speaker 1>was a kid and I used to come up to

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<v Speaker 1>the city from the bush, it used to stink to me,

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<v Speaker 1>like I used to think the whole place smelt like

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<v Speaker 1>the cars smelt, the city smelt every and I just

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was disgusting and chaotic, and I couldn't It's

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<v Speaker 1>funny now I live in the middle of suburbia, but

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't understand why people would choose to live in

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<v Speaker 1>a city.

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<v Speaker 2>It's an interesting one. I quite like a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>city scapes. I like cities at night. I like the

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<v Speaker 2>buzz of an early morning in the city when everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>getting their coffee and it's just waking up. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the city can be quite overwhelming. I was in there

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<v Speaker 2>yesterday with my niece who's thirteen, and she said, I

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<v Speaker 2>just don't like being around all these people, and I thought, yep,

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<v Speaker 2>I totally get that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I've had friends of mine that

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<v Speaker 1>have stayed at my beach house, which is very very

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<v Speaker 1>very very quiet, Like there's no it's like it's like

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<v Speaker 1>the bush meets the coast and there's no street lights,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no foot foot paths, there's no gutters. The road's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty shitty, it's kind of bitumen, kind of dirt. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not amazing. But for me it's perfect because it's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's the opposite of where I live, right, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just at night there's no noise, Like there's absolutely no noise,

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<v Speaker 1>and especially if you go there through winter because there's

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<v Speaker 1>very very few people live there. Like it's a small place.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't say where it is, it doesn't matter, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not it's not one of those big fancy it's

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<v Speaker 1>not Portsy, let's say that, right, God bless Portsy. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've had a few friends go down there and

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<v Speaker 1>they almost go nuts after two days because they just

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<v Speaker 1>can't stand the silence and the solitude and the internet

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<v Speaker 1>connection shit and the phone connection shit, and so they

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<v Speaker 1>can't use their computer, they can't use their phone, and

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<v Speaker 1>they've almost got to come back. Some I mean, some

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<v Speaker 1>people just love it, right, but some people were so

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<v Speaker 1>programmed to noise and busyness and mayhem and distraction, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>to have real solitude, I think for some people is

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of a challenge.

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<v Speaker 2>I think so, I think it can be quite scary

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<v Speaker 2>and very unknown. But that very much leads into the

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<v Speaker 2>question that I had for you today. I'm quite interested

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<v Speaker 2>at the moment. I listened to a podcast a few

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<v Speaker 2>weeks ago where they were talking about kind of slowing

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<v Speaker 2>down to speed up your thought processes, your productivity, your creativity,

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<v Speaker 2>and it got me thinking how when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 2>for instance, I would I would always be creating something,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be drawing, i'd be writing, and quite often i'd

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<v Speaker 2>be daydreaming. So just all of these thoughts going around

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<v Speaker 2>my head. And even now I think people might go, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I had a thought in the shower that I want

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<v Speaker 2>to share. You know, I've had this thought where my

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<v Speaker 2>mind was just allowed to run free. And it's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>with everything that we're feeding our brains at the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we're all we're online in some way. It's

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<v Speaker 2>very hard to switch off because it's giving you that

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<v Speaker 2>hit every time you get a like or a comment

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<v Speaker 2>or there's something new. What's what's in it when you

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of switch off, Like if you go to

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<v Speaker 2>a place where there's no internet connection, there's no phone,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just radio silence. What's the benefit and how important

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<v Speaker 2>is it? And really how much should we do it?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when as you were asking this, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone we don't we don't set up these questions, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what questions are coming. Kelly's going to

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<v Speaker 1>ask me a bunch of stuff today, so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>get sent through a list of questions. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>all very freestyle and organic. But as you were asking that,

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking the inference is almost like not from you,

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<v Speaker 1>but in general, like it depends on the context. But

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<v Speaker 1>how are you busy? Like we wear the busy badge,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh mate, so busy, so busy. And then when when

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<v Speaker 1>I think about a busy mind, I think you can

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<v Speaker 1>have busy good and busy bad. You know, to me,

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<v Speaker 1>busy bad is overthinking, Busy bad is anxiety, Busy bad

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<v Speaker 1>is ruminating. Busy bad bad is fear based. It's unproductive,

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<v Speaker 1>it's destructive, it's distracting. And then busy productive could be

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in flow, I'm in flow, I'm in a flow state,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm writing this song, I'm writing this story, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, you've sat down where like you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>a writer, you sit down and sometimes you write when

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<v Speaker 1>you're in flow. When you're in that space, your mind's busy,

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<v Speaker 1>but in a healthy way. It's creating, it's producing, it's inventing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and the stuff comes out of you in

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<v Speaker 1>an hour that would take somebody else twenty four hours

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<v Speaker 1>or forty eight hours, or that'd never be able to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. And so for me, there are times when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a busy good place or a busy bad place,

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<v Speaker 1>productive or unproductive, creative or destructive, anxious or calm. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I can be busy in my mind but still quite calm.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think it depends on the output of the busyness,

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<v Speaker 1>which sounds weird, but then it's almost like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>people say things a lot like, oh, you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>I have the best ideas and they go when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in the shower and I go, or they go, I

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<v Speaker 1>have the best ideas when I'm running, I go, Guess

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<v Speaker 1>what you're not doing. When you're running, You're not fucking

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<v Speaker 1>staring at your phone and scrolling on social media. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not distracted. Guess what you're doing when you're in the shower.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not looking at your phone. You're not You've just

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<v Speaker 1>got space and you've just got time. So I would

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<v Speaker 1>think there's an obvious correlation between getting away from distractions,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that and this is I'm actually saying

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<v Speaker 1>this to myself as much as any listener, because I

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<v Speaker 1>can absolutely fall down the old rabbit hole and look

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<v Speaker 1>up an hour later and I've just been looking at

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<v Speaker 1>bullshit which has had my total attention for zero gain

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<v Speaker 1>other than maybe a little bit of enjoyment, maybe depending

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<v Speaker 1>on what I'm looking at. And I think there's probably

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<v Speaker 1>a time where you can do that, But I think

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<v Speaker 1>you need to do that consciously rather than unconsciously, and

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<v Speaker 1>intentionally rather than unintentionally, so that you say, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to get you know, lots like I get to

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<v Speaker 1>the cafe at ten past six, and I often what

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<v Speaker 1>say to myself, all right, I'm going to fuck around

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<v Speaker 1>till six thirty, So six point thirty is my fuck

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<v Speaker 1>around time. Twenty minutes. Look at bullshit, look at videos,

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<v Speaker 1>good dumb shit. Let's see what bloody you know Snoop

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<v Speaker 1>Dog's up to. Let's see what he is up to.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see let's see, you know, a motorbike with a

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<v Speaker 1>thousand horsepower. Let's fucking look at that. Let's look at

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<v Speaker 1>some blokes fighting in a car park. Let's do that

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<v Speaker 1>and then and then maybe try and do something productive.

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<v Speaker 1>But I am getting better and better at that where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm aware of what we're talking about. So but I

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<v Speaker 1>think consciously having time to disconnect from you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>then this is no revelation. I feel like this has

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<v Speaker 1>been said a thousand times, but intentionally and practically and

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<v Speaker 1>consciously doing it. We say I'm not going to look

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<v Speaker 1>at my phone before this time, or I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>get up and I'm going to, like I do you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to use my phone. But then between seven

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<v Speaker 1>and nine pm, I'm not going to touch social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at social seven am and nine am. I should say,

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<v Speaker 1>so two hours where I'm play the day, I'm doing work,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm responding to emails, or I'm walking at the beach

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm looking at the ocean, or I'm ringing my mum,

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<v Speaker 1>or I'm cleaning the house or whatever it is. But

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<v Speaker 1>just where you recognizing the things that for you can

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<v Speaker 1>over time become anchors to your progress, and then dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good point and a nice way to

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<v Speaker 2>frame it, isn't it. The anchors to your progress. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>also thinking that you have a very different algorithm to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I never get blokes fighting in car parks.

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<v Speaker 1>I get heaps of that stuff. I get heaps of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I get all kinds of I get lots of bodybuilding

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<v Speaker 1>and weightlifting stuff and blokes fighting and car parks and motorbikes.

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<v Speaker 1>And then of course I get every fucking pseudo scientist

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<v Speaker 1>in the world and their theory on everything. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>very eclectic. Somebody said to me the other day day, Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>who just put out a new album? Is it Taylor Swift?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it's coming up? I think, yeah, right, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>has your social media been inundated with Taylor Swift new album?

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<v Speaker 1>I go I didn't know she had a new album.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to go hard no. And they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? And I said, I have no

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<v Speaker 1>knowledge of what you're talking about there, like but it's

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<v Speaker 1>all over the place. It's just the only thing on

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<v Speaker 1>my phone. And I went, well, that's a reflection of

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<v Speaker 1>what you look at, and what do I look at?

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<v Speaker 1>Because yeah, you just told me about this thing, which

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<v Speaker 1>is fine, but it's yeah, I think, And that's the

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's the the intention behind social media platforms

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<v Speaker 1>is they want to engage you. They want to addict you,

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<v Speaker 1>they want to get you plugged in that I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to unplug of course, because the more time you

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<v Speaker 1>spend on their platform, the more commercially viable that is

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<v Speaker 1>for them. And so why would they want you to

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<v Speaker 1>go away? So of course, you know, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>and this is no revelation. They know what you like

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<v Speaker 1>to look at, so they give you what you like

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<v Speaker 1>to look at, and they know you vote this way,

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<v Speaker 1>so they give you stuff that reverberates beautifully in your

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<v Speaker 1>echo chamber and you know, strokes your cognitive bias, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you go, oh, yeah, look we are all right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>go us. You know, it's it's super smart. It's super

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<v Speaker 1>fucking potentially destructive, but it's very smart. I mean they're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to sell something. Everyone's trying to sell something.

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<v Speaker 2>It's super smart and borderline, well not even borderline, but

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<v Speaker 2>super scary. So I was talking to some friends about

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<v Speaker 2>this last night and I said, I was at the

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<v Speaker 2>hairdressers and you know, flicking through TikTok and I started

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<v Speaker 2>at one point which was just you know, where can

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<v Speaker 2>I go for a walk in a certain location. And

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<v Speaker 2>then suddenly, within you know, half an hour, it had

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<v Speaker 2>led me down this rabbit hole based on what had

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<v Speaker 2>my attention for you know, more than thirty seconds or

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<v Speaker 2>a minute. And I was all the way down this

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<v Speaker 2>other pathway of something that I did find it quite interesting,

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<v Speaker 2>but I certainly didn't search for it. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, this has figured out what I like

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<v Speaker 2>within thirty minutes and incredibly smart. Absolutely, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>John Connor and the terminators are going to be coming

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<v Speaker 2>quite soon. I'm pretty sure of that. It's it's a

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<v Speaker 2>bit scary, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Very I was at the gym. I stayed with the Crab,

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<v Speaker 1>my training partner, and Johnny, the much loved Johnny who

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<v Speaker 1>you know, both of them, and we're having a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>about nicotine. So nicotine patches that some people use, Now

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<v Speaker 1>there's not a suggestion or a recommendation anyone, and Nicorette

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<v Speaker 1>or similar gum and knowing that or on the assumption

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<v Speaker 1>that nicotine can be a cognitive enhancer anyway, we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about you know that people start stuff that. The conversation

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<v Speaker 1>was that, yeah, well I get it, but they're also

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's a sympathetic nervous system stimulant, and it

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<v Speaker 1>might do something for a little while, but you keep

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<v Speaker 1>doing it, then it doesn't do anything. Then you've got

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<v Speaker 1>to take four miligrams, not two. Then you've got to

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<v Speaker 1>take eight, not four. Then and so on and so

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<v Speaker 1>and then eventually you're taking a fucking million miligrams to

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<v Speaker 1>get the same response as you did originally with two milligrams,

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<v Speaker 1>because you've shut down your receptors and fucking you fuck

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<v Speaker 1>fuck right, all this shit that no one's interested in

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<v Speaker 1>accept me in these two dummies anyway. So I go,

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<v Speaker 1>let's ask chat Chipette about like, what's the how quickly

0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:41.360
<v Speaker 1>does this do ourselves? Kind of our receptors, I should say,

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<v Speaker 1>get desensitized and how before it starts to downregulate and

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<v Speaker 1>we don't get the same response, And so I open

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<v Speaker 1>up chat GPT and press the talk like I talked

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<v Speaker 1>to it a lot, and it goes, hey, Craig, sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys are talking about nicotine. Yeah, what would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to know? I'm like, oh my god, just

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<v Speaker 1>sitting in the gym, it knew what we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about before I asked it a question. I'm like, that

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<v Speaker 1>shit is listening to me. That shit is and that's anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's it's it's scary, but it's it's where

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<v Speaker 1>we're going. And I think this is my last bit

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<v Speaker 1>before you asked me another question. I think people are

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<v Speaker 1>quite rightly, ah, curious and a bit fearful and a

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<v Speaker 1>bit kind of hesitant. I understand all of that. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we need to think about if we are going

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<v Speaker 1>to use AI, and we all are, even if we

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to. It's like everyone who goes fuck it,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm never using it. I don't think you understand what's coming.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to be pretty much impossible to do life

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<v Speaker 1>without using some kind of AI in some capacity unless

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<v Speaker 1>you live on an island by yourself. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's trying to figure out how do I use this thing?

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<v Speaker 1>How do I use this thing in a way where

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<v Speaker 1>it's not controlling me, I'm controlling it. It's a helpful

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<v Speaker 1>and practical resource, you know. I think, like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things in life, how we use it is the issue,

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<v Speaker 1>not what we use. You know. It's like, nothing wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with booze. I don't drink booze, but there's nothing wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with booze if you have a little bit now and then.

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<v Speaker 1>For most people anyway, unless you're an alcoholic, then it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably you know, wise to not drink at all for

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<v Speaker 1>obvious reasons. But for most people, bit of booze fine.

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<v Speaker 1>For most people. Bit of junk food fine, junk food

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, not fine. Booze all the time not fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Being totally obsessed with and distracted by food or booze

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<v Speaker 1>or gambling or even money, right, it just tends to

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<v Speaker 1>be destructive down the track. So I think it depends

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<v Speaker 1>on this as a weird term, but it's about the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of relationship we have with whatever the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So it's a resource to kind of manipulate

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<v Speaker 1>and optimize in terms of what's going to work best

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<v Speaker 1>for you. But it is that And David Gillespie has

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<v Speaker 1>spoken many times about this the problem or the challenge

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<v Speaker 1>with these things where we we press the button and

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<v Speaker 1>we get this dopamine response, like, ah, I eat food,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel fucking great. I drink a bit of booze.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a cigarette, I get twenty seven extra likes

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<v Speaker 1>on the post that I put up. I get a

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<v Speaker 1>dopamine response. And dopamine is a very addictive chemical, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we get addicted to the dopamine that's produced

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<v Speaker 1>by the thing that we use or do, and that

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<v Speaker 1>is when it starts to get like real chemically addictive

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<v Speaker 1>where we need to go hang on, I need to

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<v Speaker 1>I almost need to do a detox. And it's like

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<v Speaker 1>there's I've seen I was going to say countless, not countless,

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<v Speaker 1>but probably ten to fifteen videos where parents are taking

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<v Speaker 1>away their screens from their kid because their kids be

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<v Speaker 1>coming out of control, whether or not it's a phone

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<v Speaker 1>or an iPad or similar or whatever, and they're just going, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't have it for twelve hours and the absolute

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<v Speaker 1>tantrums and craziness, and it's just analogous to a drug

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<v Speaker 1>addict who can't get access to drugs, like they totally

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<v Speaker 1>lose their shit, and you go, wow, we need to

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<v Speaker 1>think about what this is and we need to get

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<v Speaker 1>ahead of it because it can only control us if

0:18:40.200 --> 0:18:42.800
<v Speaker 1>we let it control us. So there's that You're still

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<v Speaker 1>the boss of you. You still make the decisions, you

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<v Speaker 1>still choose what you do and don't do. But eventually

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<v Speaker 1>it does it or it can get to a point

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<v Speaker 1>where that control tends to slip if we're not really

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<v Speaker 1>aware and really diligent.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it almost seems too that it's a certain amount

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<v Speaker 2>of laziness that's slipping in with this as well, and

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<v Speaker 2>that you can just ask something like chat GPT or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever version it is that you use, what's the answer

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<v Speaker 2>to this instead of you know, having that thought process

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<v Speaker 2>for yourself or even having that conversation with someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it makes me think, well, is this actually

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<v Speaker 2>an opportunity to be pushing out more creative projects, more

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<v Speaker 2>kind of more ideas because so many people are now

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<v Speaker 2>relying on the AI and they're just leaning into that

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<v Speaker 2>and they might change something here and there and make

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<v Speaker 2>it their own. Sure, if that's how they want to work,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, go for it. But for those of us

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<v Speaker 2>who do chase that bit of creativity is it almost

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<v Speaker 2>feels like an opportunity to be putting new things out there.

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<v Speaker 2>And from what I was listening to the other day,

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<v Speaker 2>apparently patents, so the amount of patents that are being

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<v Speaker 2>filed at the moment, then the numbers are down and

0:20:08.800 --> 0:20:10.920
<v Speaker 2>the quality of the ideas are not as good as

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<v Speaker 2>they have been like previous years, because so many people

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<v Speaker 2>are reliant on AI for all of their new thoughts,

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<v Speaker 2>their new ideas, their answers. So it almost seems to

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<v Speaker 2>be a kind of a flip side of yeah, you

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<v Speaker 2>can lean into that and yeah, you'll get a quick

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<v Speaker 2>answer and you might get something, you know, quite decent

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<v Speaker 2>out of it. But will that ever compete with you know, Look,

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<v Speaker 2>you go into an art gallery, for instance, and you've

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<v Speaker 2>got all of this beautiful historical art from across the centuries.

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<v Speaker 2>What will we have from now, you know, into the future.

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<v Speaker 2>Will it all be digital? Will it all be AI generated?

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<v Speaker 2>Where's that? Yeah? I think it's it's presenting an opportunity

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<v Speaker 2>for people to be genuinely creative and productive rather than

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<v Speaker 2>just leaning into the easy version.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree, I agree, and it's almost like outsourcing

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<v Speaker 1>your thinking. Yes, you know, I don't need to think.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need to solve this problem. But I'll give

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<v Speaker 1>you an example of how I think is a smart

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<v Speaker 1>way to use AI. So I went for walk this morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and I go early, as you know, and it's very quiet,

0:21:33.760 --> 0:21:37.080
<v Speaker 1>so I can walk around suburbia and with my headphones

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<v Speaker 1>on and have a very clear conversation with anyone because

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<v Speaker 1>there's no traffic. So I how to chat with AI.

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<v Speaker 1>And I do this quite regularly where it's actually really good,

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<v Speaker 1>where I'll say and I won't say what it is

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<v Speaker 1>because it's a work in progress. And I said, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got an idea, like I. I just talked to

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<v Speaker 1>it first ages I go hey, and it goes, hey, Craig,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? I go, I want to ask you some stuff? Sure,

0:22:05.080 --> 0:22:08.080
<v Speaker 1>shoot right. It loooks like that. Sometimes it calls me Harps,

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<v Speaker 1>which is hilarious. And I said, so, I've got an

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<v Speaker 1>idea which is kind of the intersection of a commercial

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity and an opportunity to help people to do some good,

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<v Speaker 1>to do some development, for me to input into the

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<v Speaker 1>lives of others, lives of others, and maybe also create

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<v Speaker 1>something that makes few bucks. So I want to run

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<v Speaker 1>this by you. Yeah, and it's like, yeah, great, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>keen to hear. So I tell it the idea. What

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<v Speaker 1>are the pros and cons of this idea? Don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>me what I want to hear. Don't try and make

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<v Speaker 1>me feel good. If you think this is crap, say

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's crap. Now, obviously it's thinking, but not

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<v Speaker 1>in a way that we think, not in a way

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<v Speaker 1>that we really under So I guess we could say

0:22:59.760 --> 0:23:03.760
<v Speaker 1>tech technically it doesn't think, but it is a kind

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<v Speaker 1>of intelligence that is super high level. It's not human intelligence,

0:23:10.160 --> 0:23:13.400
<v Speaker 1>but it's a it has got access to you know, everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So then it goes basically, all right, let's start with

0:23:17.760 --> 0:23:20.080
<v Speaker 1>the pros. Let's start with what I like about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then i'll get halfway through, I'll go hang on,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on, stop and I'll go sure, and then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>go unpack that a bit more. You know. So we

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<v Speaker 1>just spent me and it like we like now we're friends, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm asking it good questions. But it's all based

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<v Speaker 1>around my ideas. It's all based around my thinking. It's like, sure,

0:23:41.200 --> 0:23:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to do be create, change this and I

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<v Speaker 1>can use this tool to help me do the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I thought of that I'm creating. It's not knocking

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<v Speaker 1>on my door saying this is what I think you

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<v Speaker 1>should do today. And then we went through, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some of the practical challenges. Then it went through some

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<v Speaker 1>of the potential what I would call side effects, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're going to take a drug or a supplement,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, whether potential risks or downsides, And then through

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<v Speaker 1>to what would be like a good place to start, like,

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<v Speaker 1>is there any way that I can open the door

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<v Speaker 1>on this cread some momentum without without over committing or

0:24:23.320 --> 0:24:26.919
<v Speaker 1>risking too much. And it's like great question, and then

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<v Speaker 1>it stuck right. I don't know how long I spoke,

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<v Speaker 1>but probably quarter of an hour, and it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was like having a really productive, interesting conversation with the

0:24:38.440 --> 0:24:42.600
<v Speaker 1>smartest person I know. Now for me, that's a way

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<v Speaker 1>to use AI. So I came home. I read. Also

0:24:46.960 --> 0:24:49.680
<v Speaker 1>when we're talking, it's writing, so I can go back

0:24:49.760 --> 0:24:53.399
<v Speaker 1>and look at what it's what the text as well,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I can say, based on our conversation this

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<v Speaker 1>morning at six point fifteen, I want you to create

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<v Speaker 1>a plan. I want you to create a three month plan, timeline, structure,

0:25:05.000 --> 0:25:09.639
<v Speaker 1>process or to do list yep, and it cranks it

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<v Speaker 1>out in thirty seconds.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So for me, that's an opportune kind of use of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally. What interests me about that? And you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd use it for very similar things. At the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm using it for my training plans. You know, I

0:25:27.640 --> 0:25:29.800
<v Speaker 2>plug in, you know what I've been doing, how I've

0:25:29.840 --> 0:25:32.280
<v Speaker 2>been doing it, and then I say, can you tweak

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<v Speaker 2>this so that I can progress? And it does, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's great. How much of it? Considering it's it's your

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<v Speaker 2>thought process, it's your input into this very high level intelligence,

0:25:45.840 --> 0:25:49.920
<v Speaker 2>And this could be a very moral question, how much

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<v Speaker 2>of it are you comfortable in claiming as your own?

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<v Speaker 2>Out of that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's a good question, and I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, put it this way. I would never do

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<v Speaker 1>that with something i'm writing, like my PhD on whatever

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<v Speaker 1>there's I'll explain to you how I use it in

0:26:09.359 --> 0:26:13.600
<v Speaker 1>my PhD in a moment. But the originating ideas and

0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:19.320
<v Speaker 1>thoughts are mine, Yeah, and the concept is mine. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>using something to work through, just like I would say

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<v Speaker 1>to you, Kelly, I've got an idea of something. Can

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<v Speaker 1>we meet at twelve o'clock. I want to bounce some

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<v Speaker 1>stuff off you to one o'clock and we would do

0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:33.040
<v Speaker 1>that and I would come out with more clarity. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying it's Kelly's project. I'm saying, you know

0:26:37.520 --> 0:26:40.520
<v Speaker 1>she was, She's supported, just like I would do that

0:26:40.600 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 1>for you. Yeah, right, but but no, there's I understand

0:26:46.320 --> 0:26:49.400
<v Speaker 1>where you're going. But I think more and more we're

0:26:49.440 --> 0:26:52.640
<v Speaker 1>going to realize just like using a computer or using Google,

0:26:52.880 --> 0:26:57.280
<v Speaker 1>or using a phone, or using a you know, a

0:26:57.400 --> 0:27:00.920
<v Speaker 1>spray painter, if you're a painter, is you know, these

0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:03.800
<v Speaker 1>are all resources that make our job or our work

0:27:03.840 --> 0:27:08.480
<v Speaker 1>more efficient or more effective, you know, or quicker and

0:27:08.520 --> 0:27:13.399
<v Speaker 1>sometimes better quality. So if though I've got to do

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 1>a paper for year ten whatever, and I type in

0:27:16.600 --> 0:27:19.720
<v Speaker 1>the topic and then chat GPT spits out the paper,

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:23.199
<v Speaker 1>then I put my name at the top, well you

0:27:23.240 --> 0:27:29.800
<v Speaker 1>know that's no good. Yeah, And that's they're really struggling

0:27:29.840 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 1>at the moment in academia with trying to figure out

0:27:32.119 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 1>how the fuck to use because to tell kids not

0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:38.679
<v Speaker 1>to use it good luck, it's like saying don't breathe,

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:41.439
<v Speaker 1>you want you not to breathe over the weekend because

0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:44.959
<v Speaker 1>it is so sophisticated and there are so many different

0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:49.840
<v Speaker 1>kinds of AI available that they just need to rather

0:27:49.880 --> 0:27:52.680
<v Speaker 1>than say don't use it, they need to figure out

0:27:52.840 --> 0:27:56.920
<v Speaker 1>how it can be integrated, because done the right way,

0:27:57.119 --> 0:28:00.400
<v Speaker 1>it just you know, there are some things that as

0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:03.320
<v Speaker 1>a student, or as an academic or as somebody who's

0:28:03.400 --> 0:28:05.920
<v Speaker 1>like a lifelong learner, doesn't have to be an academic

0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:11.360
<v Speaker 1>kind of environment. There are really intelligent ways to use

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 1>this stuff where you're not really cheating, You're just you're

0:28:16.680 --> 0:28:21.480
<v Speaker 1>just you like, could you organize all of my references? Yeah? Sure,

0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:24.320
<v Speaker 1>Well it just does it. It just does it in

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:28.280
<v Speaker 1>this format, you know. And some might go, no, you

0:28:28.320 --> 0:28:30.199
<v Speaker 1>should do it that way, you should sit there for

0:28:30.240 --> 0:28:32.639
<v Speaker 1>two hours, and it's like, yeah, but I'm not, you know,

0:28:32.760 --> 0:28:34.679
<v Speaker 1>it's like this is not the best use of my

0:28:34.840 --> 0:28:38.720
<v Speaker 1>skill or time. You know. So that's that's happening a lot.

0:28:38.760 --> 0:28:42.480
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I think it's it's going to be a

0:28:42.480 --> 0:28:44.400
<v Speaker 1>constant work in progress figuring it out.

0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:47.920
<v Speaker 2>That just reminded me how much I used to really

0:28:48.200 --> 0:28:50.360
<v Speaker 2>hate doing references on my essays.

0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:56.280
<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, take that by a million. But yeah, So

0:28:56.360 --> 0:28:59.360
<v Speaker 1>the last one I'll say is so about you know,

0:28:59.600 --> 0:29:04.880
<v Speaker 1>how I use AI is for my PhD, and everyone does,

0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:10.440
<v Speaker 1>by the way, pretty much like, firstly, all of my

0:29:10.640 --> 0:29:15.280
<v Speaker 1>research is original research. So I've done it. I've got

0:29:15.320 --> 0:29:18.320
<v Speaker 1>the ethical approval, I've got the venue, I've got the people,

0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I've run the studies, I've analyzed the data. I've written,

0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:24.880
<v Speaker 1>so all of this is organic, and all of this

0:29:25.160 --> 0:29:31.600
<v Speaker 1>is from my brain, with support, of course, from my crew,

0:29:31.680 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, my senior supervisor, my second supervisor, and with

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:37.800
<v Speaker 1>reviews to the panel where you go and stand in

0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:40.080
<v Speaker 1>front of the board. Not so this is this ongoing,

0:29:40.960 --> 0:29:43.800
<v Speaker 1>but there are things where you could put I can

0:29:43.840 --> 0:29:48.640
<v Speaker 1>write a paragraph and I can put that paragraph into

0:29:48.840 --> 0:29:53.240
<v Speaker 1>probably Claude, which is a more academic AI, and say,

0:29:55.440 --> 0:29:58.120
<v Speaker 1>don't change this in any way, but could you make

0:29:58.160 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 1>it read more smoothly or could you? And sometimes it'll

0:30:02.480 --> 0:30:06.280
<v Speaker 1>send back something and I go, not, mine's better, do

0:30:06.320 --> 0:30:09.640
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? But it's not rewriting my paper,

0:30:10.640 --> 0:30:16.240
<v Speaker 1>you know. So yeah, it's not making any decisions, it's

0:30:16.280 --> 0:30:20.680
<v Speaker 1>not changing anything. It's not you know, I'm not going, oh,

0:30:20.720 --> 0:30:23.680
<v Speaker 1>I want you to write a thousand words on this,

0:30:23.880 --> 0:30:27.280
<v Speaker 1>and then I just cut and paste it into my thesis.

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:31.320
<v Speaker 1>Like that's not happening, but that is a risk that

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:36.640
<v Speaker 1>universities need to navigate moving forwards. Is how they're going to,

0:30:37.960 --> 0:30:41.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, stop people from doing a four or five

0:30:42.000 --> 0:30:44.880
<v Speaker 1>year PhD in six months.

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:49.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, absolutely scary. I mean even now, I just think

0:30:49.480 --> 0:30:53.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm very relieved that I didn't have a mobile phone

0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:55.840
<v Speaker 2>when I was in high school because of access to

0:30:55.880 --> 0:31:00.000
<v Speaker 2>socials and the pressure that would have existed and obviously

0:31:00.120 --> 0:31:04.680
<v Speaker 2>does exist for kids. Now, I feel very relieved that

0:31:04.960 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 2>I skip that. So to think that in this current

0:31:09.400 --> 0:31:12.120
<v Speaker 2>situation where there's so much access and what it can

0:31:12.200 --> 0:31:17.440
<v Speaker 2>lead to, what it can potentially change, and I guess influence,

0:31:17.560 --> 0:31:19.200
<v Speaker 2>And that's the big thing around all of it, right,

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:24.240
<v Speaker 2>is the influences. It's quite scary, and I am very

0:31:24.240 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 2>grateful that I didn't grow up with it because I

0:31:27.360 --> 0:31:31.560
<v Speaker 2>don't think I would have that passion to be creative

0:31:31.560 --> 0:31:35.160
<v Speaker 2>that I do have if I was reliant on a machine.

0:31:36.000 --> 0:31:39.720
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, well, I think I think less is more

0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:44.080
<v Speaker 1>in that sense. I think you know that when you

0:31:44.160 --> 0:31:47.520
<v Speaker 1>don't have all that external input and you do need

0:31:47.560 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 1>to solve problems and you do need like when you

0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:54.520
<v Speaker 1>think problem solving is actually a creative process, Yep, it's

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:59.120
<v Speaker 1>a it's an intellectual process, but it's also a creative process.

0:31:59.160 --> 0:32:01.840
<v Speaker 1>It's probably one of the few places where intellect and

0:32:01.880 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 1>creativity really kind of converge because you're trying to figure

0:32:06.400 --> 0:32:09.600
<v Speaker 1>out how to do something, and that is of course,

0:32:09.640 --> 0:32:13.200
<v Speaker 1>that's about the logical rational prefrontal cortex part of the

0:32:13.200 --> 0:32:18.360
<v Speaker 1>brain that's you know, very solution focused. But then you're

0:32:18.400 --> 0:32:22.520
<v Speaker 1>trying to actually think outside the box to fix this problem,

0:32:22.600 --> 0:32:27.400
<v Speaker 1>which is also a creative thing. So yeah, I think

0:32:27.440 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 1>that that, you know, we need to recognize where it

0:32:32.760 --> 0:32:37.720
<v Speaker 1>needs to stop and start. And I was, oh, no,

0:32:37.760 --> 0:32:39.400
<v Speaker 1>I won't go into that. I was going to open

0:32:39.400 --> 0:32:41.440
<v Speaker 1>another door and talk for another five minutes. All right,

0:32:41.520 --> 0:32:43.360
<v Speaker 1>ask me a question or two. What have you got

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:43.920
<v Speaker 1>on your list?

0:32:44.280 --> 0:32:45.600
<v Speaker 2>What have I got on my list? So I was

0:32:45.640 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 2>having a look at some of the whiteboards that you

0:32:48.600 --> 0:32:54.080
<v Speaker 2>put up and look, my personal favorite, and I actually

0:32:54.240 --> 0:32:56.440
<v Speaker 2>swiped it from you, like literally, you gave it to

0:32:56.480 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 2>me on a piece of paper is if your action

0:33:00.080 --> 0:33:04.240
<v Speaker 2>can't outlast your motivation, your goal will never be your reality.

0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 2>And this, I think is such a good reminder that

0:33:09.920 --> 0:33:12.120
<v Speaker 2>you need to keep working. And it's also something that

0:33:12.160 --> 0:33:14.960
<v Speaker 2>based on what we've just been discussing. I don't think

0:33:15.000 --> 0:33:19.560
<v Speaker 2>that AI or socials or you know, the Internet in

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:24.320
<v Speaker 2>any capacity can give you any form of motivation. Like

0:33:24.360 --> 0:33:27.600
<v Speaker 2>you might see, you might see something that you relate to,

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:30.800
<v Speaker 2>But I kind of feel like this comes down to

0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:33.040
<v Speaker 2>what you've got within yourself.

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:40.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, actually spoke about this in a little bit

0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:44.280
<v Speaker 1>of detail on today's episode. But let's revisit it because

0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:48.480
<v Speaker 1>it's always relevant, right, and so just say it once more.

0:33:48.520 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I think I remember it, but just say it once more.

0:33:51.480 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 2>If your action can't outlast your motivation, your goal will

0:33:55.240 --> 0:33:56.360
<v Speaker 2>never be your reality.

0:33:57.080 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so we know that that, you know, the choice

0:34:00.200 --> 0:34:03.560
<v Speaker 1>as we make and the things that we do create outcomes.

0:34:03.920 --> 0:34:06.720
<v Speaker 1>So action equals an outcome could be a good outcome.

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:09.560
<v Speaker 1>If you do something dumb, you'll create a shit outcome.

0:34:09.600 --> 0:34:12.440
<v Speaker 1>If you do something smart, you might create a good outcome.

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:16.960
<v Speaker 1>So it's not like, oh, taking action automatically equals winning. No,

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:19.640
<v Speaker 1>not at all, because we're always taking actions. It's about

0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:24.040
<v Speaker 1>the quality of the actions. But there's also there's been

0:34:25.040 --> 0:34:28.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, a really up until recently and probably still

0:34:28.760 --> 0:34:32.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, there's a big kind of collective thought bubble

0:34:32.640 --> 0:34:36.279
<v Speaker 1>that motivation is key, which is why we have motivational

0:34:36.320 --> 0:34:41.920
<v Speaker 1>books and motivational seminars and motivational speakers and motivational gurus.

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:44.839
<v Speaker 1>And it's like, yeah, here's the problem though, if we're

0:34:44.880 --> 0:34:48.040
<v Speaker 1>talking about motivation in the sense that most people understand it,

0:34:48.120 --> 0:34:50.560
<v Speaker 1>which is that feeling, which is that state, which is

0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:55.799
<v Speaker 1>that excitement, that energy, that focus, you know, that inspiration

0:34:56.719 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 1>that well, that doesn't last, you know it, It doesn't

0:35:00.640 --> 0:35:03.000
<v Speaker 1>for most people. It's not a twenty four hour days,

0:35:03.040 --> 0:35:04.920
<v Speaker 1>three hundred and sixty five days of the year thing.

0:35:04.960 --> 0:35:08.040
<v Speaker 1>In fact, not for anyone I've ever met. And I

0:35:08.080 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 1>think the human condition is that typically if we're talking

0:35:11.200 --> 0:35:14.799
<v Speaker 1>about motivation as that as that kind of emotion and

0:35:14.920 --> 0:35:18.960
<v Speaker 1>psychological state that comes and goes because we're human, not

0:35:19.040 --> 0:35:22.680
<v Speaker 1>bad or flawed or broken. But if we are dependent

0:35:22.880 --> 0:35:27.680
<v Speaker 1>on that, if that's the fuel that keeps our fire burning,

0:35:28.320 --> 0:35:31.320
<v Speaker 1>and the fire goes out when we don't have motivation,

0:35:32.080 --> 0:35:33.880
<v Speaker 1>then the fire is going to go out all the time.

0:35:34.239 --> 0:35:36.600
<v Speaker 1>And of course, I mean our action is going to stop.

0:35:36.600 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 1>And if our action stops, so the challenge is not

0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:44.520
<v Speaker 1>to stay motivated. The challenge is to optimize the motivation

0:35:44.640 --> 0:35:47.600
<v Speaker 1>when it's there. That's number one. So when I'm motivated,

0:35:47.640 --> 0:35:51.120
<v Speaker 1>when i'm inspired, you fuck jump on that like milk it,

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:55.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, ride that, ride that emotional wave all the

0:35:55.280 --> 0:35:58.359
<v Speaker 1>way to the fucking beach. At milk it, you're in

0:35:58.400 --> 0:36:02.840
<v Speaker 1>the zone, be productive, go nuts, do your best. And

0:36:02.880 --> 0:36:04.800
<v Speaker 1>then the day that you get up where you can't

0:36:04.960 --> 0:36:07.040
<v Speaker 1>be fucked and you don't feel it and you're not

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:11.240
<v Speaker 1>inspired and you're not motivated, like really, as a coach,

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:14.799
<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm I'm most interested in that day. I'm

0:36:14.800 --> 0:36:17.320
<v Speaker 1>not interested in the day before, because the day before,

0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:20.200
<v Speaker 1>anyone who's inspired is going to be a winner for

0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:22.320
<v Speaker 1>a day. You know, they're going to do all the shit.

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:24.239
<v Speaker 1>They're going to go for the run, they're going to

0:36:24.320 --> 0:36:26.600
<v Speaker 1>eat clean, they're going to read the book, they're going

0:36:26.680 --> 0:36:29.200
<v Speaker 1>to write the things, they're going to do the things

0:36:29.280 --> 0:36:32.080
<v Speaker 1>because they're fucking pumped and I'm in the zone. Cool.

0:36:32.520 --> 0:36:35.000
<v Speaker 1>What about Wednesday when you feel like dog shit and

0:36:35.000 --> 0:36:37.080
<v Speaker 1>your back hurtz and someone called you a dickhead and

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:40.080
<v Speaker 1>you're a little bit sady macsadstera and all those things

0:36:40.120 --> 0:36:44.759
<v Speaker 1>are okay? But you know, so number two, number one

0:36:44.840 --> 0:36:46.799
<v Speaker 1>is you know, when you're motivated, milk at number two

0:36:46.840 --> 0:36:50.600
<v Speaker 1>is how productive and effective and proactive can you be

0:36:50.719 --> 0:36:53.879
<v Speaker 1>when you're not motivated? In other words, what can you

0:36:53.960 --> 0:36:56.360
<v Speaker 1>do when you don't feel like it when most people

0:36:56.360 --> 0:37:00.719
<v Speaker 1>would give up? Can you step up? Can you can

0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:05.359
<v Speaker 1>you override the lack of whatever it is that we

0:37:05.440 --> 0:37:09.839
<v Speaker 1>tend to depend on. And I think we need to

0:37:10.000 --> 0:37:16.839
<v Speaker 1>anticipate the fact that the human experience is one of psychological, emotional, behavioral, practical,

0:37:17.000 --> 0:37:20.560
<v Speaker 1>physical peaks and troughs. And what we want to do,

0:37:20.640 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 1>which is hard, but is in the middle of those

0:37:22.600 --> 0:37:29.680
<v Speaker 1>invariable peaks and troughs, to try to find some level

0:37:29.719 --> 0:37:33.520
<v Speaker 1>of consistency, knowing that will be more and less productive

0:37:33.560 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 1>on different days. But what we don't want to do

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:39.600
<v Speaker 1>is we don't want to stick our head up, stick

0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:42.319
<v Speaker 1>our head up two months later and go, oh shit,

0:37:42.400 --> 0:37:45.520
<v Speaker 1>I haven't done anything for two months because you know,

0:37:45.560 --> 0:37:47.480
<v Speaker 1>it's winter and I hate winter, and I don't you

0:37:47.520 --> 0:37:50.080
<v Speaker 1>know whatever it is right, And so that is the

0:37:51.200 --> 0:37:54.239
<v Speaker 1>that is the challenge. And even when you know, when

0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:56.759
<v Speaker 1>I do a gig, I'll often say, at the end

0:37:56.760 --> 0:38:00.799
<v Speaker 1>of the speaking gig, who enjoyed that? Most people put

0:38:00.880 --> 0:38:04.880
<v Speaker 1>up their hand thankfully, and I go, put up your

0:38:04.880 --> 0:38:07.160
<v Speaker 1>hand if you're a little bit more motivated or inspired

0:38:07.200 --> 0:38:09.000
<v Speaker 1>than you were an hour ago or three hours ago,

0:38:09.080 --> 0:38:11.839
<v Speaker 1>whatever it was. And generally, maybe just because they're being nice,

0:38:11.840 --> 0:38:14.440
<v Speaker 1>but generally, all the hands go up and I go,

0:38:14.560 --> 0:38:17.440
<v Speaker 1>that's great. Here's what I'm going to tell you. That

0:38:17.480 --> 0:38:20.319
<v Speaker 1>feeling that you've got now, that's going to go. That's

0:38:20.360 --> 0:38:23.480
<v Speaker 1>going to pass. So I can almost guarantee you this

0:38:23.520 --> 0:38:26.000
<v Speaker 1>time tomorrow you will not feel what you're currently feeling.

0:38:26.680 --> 0:38:29.239
<v Speaker 1>You'll probably not feel the same level of focus and

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:33.920
<v Speaker 1>clarity and excitement and inspiration and motivation. Because you're human.

0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:37.120
<v Speaker 1>So what matters is not what we just listen to

0:38:37.200 --> 0:38:39.719
<v Speaker 1>for an hour or two. But what matters is what

0:38:39.880 --> 0:38:42.600
<v Speaker 1>happens next with you and your choices and behaviors and

0:38:42.640 --> 0:38:46.280
<v Speaker 1>your ability to keep doing the things that most people

0:38:46.440 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 1>fucking stop doing. Right now, that's the human challenge I

0:38:54.600 --> 0:38:56.920
<v Speaker 1>can and I'll by the way, there's no ego in this,

0:38:57.000 --> 0:38:59.680
<v Speaker 1>because I'm as big a fuck up as anyone. Right.

0:39:00.800 --> 0:39:04.200
<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you how much I don't enjoy most

0:39:04.239 --> 0:39:08.120
<v Speaker 1>of what I do for my PhD. Now, I'm not complaining,

0:39:08.239 --> 0:39:10.600
<v Speaker 1>and I'm not saying, oh poor me, I'm not saying

0:39:10.680 --> 0:39:13.360
<v Speaker 1>that at all. I'm not saying, oh god, the hardship.

0:39:13.360 --> 0:39:17.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that. I'm just saying that virtually everyone

0:39:17.480 --> 0:39:21.080
<v Speaker 1>who does a PhD, especially when it's research based, it's science,

0:39:21.120 --> 0:39:25.880
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of it's reasonably hard. No one's virtually no

0:39:25.920 --> 0:39:28.520
<v Speaker 1>one's saying to you, oh, I really enjoyed it, because

0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:33.040
<v Speaker 1>it fucking sucks. So it's like, how much suck can

0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:38.040
<v Speaker 1>you take? How much hardship can you do to achieve

0:39:38.080 --> 0:39:40.839
<v Speaker 1>the thing that you want to achieve? You know, and

0:39:40.880 --> 0:39:43.439
<v Speaker 1>some people won't and that's okay, and some people will

0:39:43.520 --> 0:39:48.319
<v Speaker 1>and well done them. And you know, hopefully I get there.

0:39:48.400 --> 0:39:53.080
<v Speaker 1>That's my goal. But that doesn't make me better than anyone.

0:39:53.280 --> 0:39:56.200
<v Speaker 1>It just means I didn't stop. You know, are there

0:39:56.239 --> 0:39:59.440
<v Speaker 1>are a lot way more smart people than me. You know,

0:39:59.480 --> 0:40:01.600
<v Speaker 1>they are so many people that I talk to that

0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:05.560
<v Speaker 1>I actually I'll sit with people and think you in

0:40:05.640 --> 0:40:10.120
<v Speaker 1>some ways, you're definitely more gifted, better genetics, you know,

0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:13.360
<v Speaker 1>more sporting, more creative. Well there's more intellect, perhaps you know,

0:40:13.600 --> 0:40:18.080
<v Speaker 1>higher IQ. But you keep fucking giving up, like you

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:20.960
<v Speaker 1>keep stopping, like that's your your issue is not that

0:40:21.000 --> 0:40:23.959
<v Speaker 1>you're not talented. It's not that you're not brilliant. It's

0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:25.799
<v Speaker 1>not that you don't have a good brain. It's not

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 1>that you can't do it. It's that you are so

0:40:29.000 --> 0:40:33.040
<v Speaker 1>fucking addicted to comfort and convenience and certainty that you

0:40:33.160 --> 0:40:36.120
<v Speaker 1>keep fucking stopping because you don't like any kind of pain.

0:40:36.520 --> 0:40:40.719
<v Speaker 1>That's the problem, you know. And so this, all of

0:40:40.760 --> 0:40:43.440
<v Speaker 1>this goes into and I'll shut up after. This is

0:40:44.440 --> 0:40:50.280
<v Speaker 1>the ultimate with this is can I turn these sometimes

0:40:50.320 --> 0:40:54.600
<v Speaker 1>when I'm motivated behaviors into all the time when I'm

0:40:54.640 --> 0:40:59.640
<v Speaker 1>not motivated, habits that just become my operational default setting.

0:41:00.040 --> 0:41:02.000
<v Speaker 1>This is what I do. This is not what I

0:41:02.040 --> 0:41:04.239
<v Speaker 1>do when I'm pumped or excited or motivated. This is

0:41:04.280 --> 0:41:07.279
<v Speaker 1>what I do. So and there's no get out of

0:41:07.360 --> 0:41:11.480
<v Speaker 1>jail card, there's you know. It's like I don't drink beer.

0:41:11.520 --> 0:41:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't drink booze. And none of these are about

0:41:14.360 --> 0:41:16.880
<v Speaker 1>look at follow me. This is just me giving examples.

0:41:16.920 --> 0:41:19.520
<v Speaker 1>So when someone says, do you want some booze? I

0:41:19.520 --> 0:41:24.680
<v Speaker 1>got no? Thank you? And why I don't drink oh okay,

0:41:25.120 --> 0:41:26.880
<v Speaker 1>and do you want a bit of cake? Thank you?

0:41:26.920 --> 0:41:29.560
<v Speaker 1>But no, I'm not saying people shouldn't drink booze or

0:41:29.560 --> 0:41:32.040
<v Speaker 1>eat cake, but for me the X fat kid with

0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:38.680
<v Speaker 1>for decades are fucking eating disorder, right, me eating cake,

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:42.799
<v Speaker 1>me eating shit, me making bad choices doesn't work for me.

0:41:43.640 --> 0:41:46.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not suggesting anyone be a version of me or

0:41:46.120 --> 0:41:49.080
<v Speaker 1>do what I do. But when you one hundred percent go,

0:41:49.200 --> 0:41:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't do that anymore, Like not, I'm going to try.

0:41:53.040 --> 0:41:56.840
<v Speaker 1>I'll see how I go. I'll roll the dice or

0:41:56.840 --> 0:41:59.680
<v Speaker 1>I fell off the fucking wagon that doesn't exist, right,

0:41:59.719 --> 0:42:03.440
<v Speaker 1>all bullshit? Then you go cool, like if you want

0:42:03.480 --> 0:42:06.400
<v Speaker 1>to be a fucking weapon, then do hard things and

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:12.160
<v Speaker 1>don't give yourself an opportunity to do the things that

0:42:12.200 --> 0:42:15.279
<v Speaker 1>don't work for you. But what I just said, people go, oh,

0:42:15.440 --> 0:42:19.520
<v Speaker 1>you're You're fucking so harsh. At course it's easy to

0:42:19.560 --> 0:42:22.279
<v Speaker 1>call me harsh because that gives people a reason to

0:42:22.360 --> 0:42:26.759
<v Speaker 1>not do it. Or maybe I'm just honest, and maybe

0:42:27.840 --> 0:42:31.319
<v Speaker 1>what I'm suggesting all be it uncomfortable might be for

0:42:31.400 --> 0:42:33.600
<v Speaker 1>some people the best way to go.

0:42:35.920 --> 0:42:40.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes, absolutely what you just said. Then about it's very

0:42:40.480 --> 0:42:44.000
<v Speaker 2>comfortable and that's what keeps people there. Like they might

0:42:44.040 --> 0:42:49.080
<v Speaker 2>be gifted, they might have the capability of being incredibly great,

0:42:49.719 --> 0:42:54.840
<v Speaker 2>but their comfort zone contains them. That is so true.

0:42:54.840 --> 0:42:59.920
<v Speaker 2>I've been in that many many times, and it's interesting.

0:43:00.120 --> 0:43:02.200
<v Speaker 2>The other day I got called boring because I didn't

0:43:02.200 --> 0:43:04.240
<v Speaker 2>want to eat a certain food, and I thought, well,

0:43:04.800 --> 0:43:07.560
<v Speaker 2>you go for it, do what you want. I personally

0:43:07.960 --> 0:43:11.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm living, eating and doing things a certain way at

0:43:11.600 --> 0:43:14.799
<v Speaker 2>the moment. It doesn't include that. No shade on you.

0:43:14.880 --> 0:43:19.360
<v Speaker 2>But if that makes me boring, then I'll be boring,

0:43:19.800 --> 0:43:24.880
<v Speaker 2>so be it. But yeah, and how much do you

0:43:24.920 --> 0:43:31.520
<v Speaker 2>think along with this that because the motivation goes obviously routine.

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:35.319
<v Speaker 2>So once you've decided this is what I'm going to do, Like,

0:43:35.360 --> 0:43:38.479
<v Speaker 2>for instance, yours at the moment is around getting over

0:43:38.520 --> 0:43:40.880
<v Speaker 2>the ten thousand steps every day, this has just become

0:43:40.920 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 2>something that you do almost without thinking. I get up

0:43:45.360 --> 0:43:47.560
<v Speaker 2>quite early every morning, go to the gym before work.

0:43:47.600 --> 0:43:50.200
<v Speaker 2>I know that it makes me feel better. My brain's

0:43:50.200 --> 0:43:52.279
<v Speaker 2>in a better place when I get into the office.

0:43:52.640 --> 0:43:57.000
<v Speaker 2>It's just what I do. How much does having that

0:43:57.200 --> 0:44:01.480
<v Speaker 2>solid routine keep not so much keep the motivation, but

0:44:01.600 --> 0:44:03.400
<v Speaker 2>it keeps that fire going.

0:44:04.360 --> 0:44:08.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well for me, it's like when when that kind

0:44:08.560 --> 0:44:12.839
<v Speaker 1>of switch flicks like for real, not like temporarily, not

0:44:12.920 --> 0:44:19.600
<v Speaker 1>like I'm in the zone right, but then the beauty

0:44:19.600 --> 0:44:23.640
<v Speaker 1>of being fully committed to something is you don't have

0:44:23.719 --> 0:44:25.319
<v Speaker 1>to think about will I do it or when I

0:44:25.360 --> 0:44:28.040
<v Speaker 1>do it, because you're doing it, Like that's just how

0:44:28.080 --> 0:44:30.799
<v Speaker 1>I think I go with, Like not doing it isn't

0:44:30.800 --> 0:44:35.320
<v Speaker 1>an option. If, for example, I was badly you know, injured,

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:37.920
<v Speaker 1>or I was sick, or I couldn't do it physically,

0:44:38.080 --> 0:44:40.719
<v Speaker 1>then that's different. But if I can do it, I'm

0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:44.080
<v Speaker 1>doing it right, so I never have to think, oh,

0:44:44.120 --> 0:44:48.400
<v Speaker 1>will I won't tie, So there's never an internal struggle.

0:44:48.600 --> 0:44:51.160
<v Speaker 1>The only thing for me is when will I do it?

0:44:51.480 --> 0:44:54.719
<v Speaker 1>Like what's my day look like? You know, so I've

0:44:54.760 --> 0:44:57.160
<v Speaker 1>done I could look right now, but I think i've

0:44:57.280 --> 0:45:00.000
<v Speaker 1>So it's one fifty I've done about nine thousand steps,

0:45:02.080 --> 0:45:04.520
<v Speaker 1>and that's because I've got this with you. And then

0:45:04.520 --> 0:45:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I've got to write a paper all afternoon, I've got

0:45:06.480 --> 0:45:08.719
<v Speaker 1>to work, and I don't want to be trying to

0:45:08.719 --> 0:45:12.239
<v Speaker 1>get in another eight thousand steps at seven o'clock at night.

0:45:12.280 --> 0:45:13.759
<v Speaker 1>But I'll still go, I'm going to go for another

0:45:13.800 --> 0:45:15.800
<v Speaker 1>walk and I'll probably end up doing twelve to fifteen

0:45:15.840 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 1>today something in that range. And that's fine. But you know,

0:45:21.239 --> 0:45:26.560
<v Speaker 1>it's like, this is a really silly analogy but I

0:45:26.600 --> 0:45:28.800
<v Speaker 1>thought about this a while ago. I've shared it once before,

0:45:28.800 --> 0:45:35.400
<v Speaker 1>and I think I think about how amazing mums are, right,

0:45:35.960 --> 0:45:39.719
<v Speaker 1>dad's too, but mums, Yeah, let's be honest better. So

0:45:41.040 --> 0:45:43.759
<v Speaker 1>let's be honest with some things, definitely with a lot

0:45:43.840 --> 0:45:47.360
<v Speaker 1>of things. And I think, you know, how do I

0:45:47.400 --> 0:45:51.960
<v Speaker 1>say this? Right? I this, I'm going to throw myself

0:45:52.040 --> 0:45:54.440
<v Speaker 1>under the bus and make myself look like a bad person.

0:45:55.000 --> 0:45:58.239
<v Speaker 1>But understandably, I'm not a dad, I'm not a granddad.

0:45:58.640 --> 0:46:01.520
<v Speaker 1>I've never changed a nappy in my life, right, I

0:46:01.560 --> 0:46:04.480
<v Speaker 1>can't say it's something that I miss. I don't know,

0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:07.239
<v Speaker 1>I've never had it. So but I don't lie awake

0:46:07.280 --> 0:46:09.560
<v Speaker 1>at night going, oh, I wish I could clean up

0:46:09.560 --> 0:46:12.400
<v Speaker 1>all of that shit, you know, I don't think. But

0:46:12.480 --> 0:46:16.520
<v Speaker 1>I look at how mums just do that, right because

0:46:16.560 --> 0:46:18.880
<v Speaker 1>they love their kid and they don't you know, all

0:46:19.080 --> 0:46:23.319
<v Speaker 1>the all of the things. Now, I can imagine that's

0:46:23.320 --> 0:46:30.600
<v Speaker 1>not a particularly glamorous or highly desirable task, but we go, well,

0:46:30.800 --> 0:46:34.000
<v Speaker 1>I love this kid, this is my kid. This is

0:46:34.120 --> 0:46:36.000
<v Speaker 1>just a thing that I do. It's not I don't

0:46:36.000 --> 0:46:38.120
<v Speaker 1>go ah, fuck, I don't know, ah, you know, do

0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:40.880
<v Speaker 1>I have to? You know, it's like there are things

0:46:40.880 --> 0:46:45.960
<v Speaker 1>that humans do just with not even thinking about it.

0:46:46.120 --> 0:46:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Unpleasant things, things that aren't convenient or nice or fun

0:46:50.040 --> 0:46:54.080
<v Speaker 1>or smell good. Right, But there's nothing in a mum

0:46:54.160 --> 0:46:58.520
<v Speaker 1>going ah, fuck it, look after yourself. I'm not doing that,

0:46:59.200 --> 0:47:02.160
<v Speaker 1>or I'll do it, or I'll do it tomorrow, or

0:47:02.200 --> 0:47:05.480
<v Speaker 1>i'll you know, And I just think when we have that,

0:47:07.040 --> 0:47:10.440
<v Speaker 1>like if we can transfer that kind of thinking. The

0:47:10.520 --> 0:47:13.600
<v Speaker 1>problem is with a lot of things that we perhaps

0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:17.719
<v Speaker 1>I say, perhaps should do as individuals. And when I

0:47:17.719 --> 0:47:20.480
<v Speaker 1>say should, I mean things that align with our values,

0:47:20.880 --> 0:47:25.239
<v Speaker 1>things that we say are supportive of our values or

0:47:25.239 --> 0:47:29.040
<v Speaker 1>our goals or our plans or our faith or whatever

0:47:29.040 --> 0:47:35.600
<v Speaker 1>it is. When we make those behaviors non negotiable, like

0:47:35.640 --> 0:47:38.279
<v Speaker 1>this is what I do. Then I don't need to

0:47:38.280 --> 0:47:41.600
<v Speaker 1>get inspired or motivated or pumped or focused or disciplined,

0:47:41.640 --> 0:47:45.440
<v Speaker 1>because this is just me on autopilot. This is what

0:47:45.480 --> 0:47:48.400
<v Speaker 1>I do, like me going to the gym, me not

0:47:48.520 --> 0:47:52.120
<v Speaker 1>drinking booze, me not eating cake, me walking every day,

0:47:52.200 --> 0:47:55.359
<v Speaker 1>my you know, me doing the things that the that

0:47:55.560 --> 0:47:57.920
<v Speaker 1>have over time, by the way, by the way, at

0:47:58.000 --> 0:48:01.720
<v Speaker 1>one stage it did take willpower, disciplines, self control, because

0:48:01.719 --> 0:48:03.440
<v Speaker 1>we don't just go from one to the other end

0:48:03.480 --> 0:48:08.680
<v Speaker 1>of day. But over time, with courage and a bit

0:48:08.719 --> 0:48:10.440
<v Speaker 1>of discipline and a bit of structure and a bit

0:48:10.480 --> 0:48:12.560
<v Speaker 1>of accountability and a bit of process and a bit

0:48:12.600 --> 0:48:15.680
<v Speaker 1>of fucking support and all of those things, we turn

0:48:15.719 --> 0:48:18.319
<v Speaker 1>them into non negotiables. We turn them into something that's

0:48:18.360 --> 0:48:22.080
<v Speaker 1>hardwided into our hard wide, into our normal operating system.

0:48:22.800 --> 0:48:24.719
<v Speaker 1>And so now the things that I used to find

0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:28.680
<v Speaker 1>hard are not hard at all. Requires zero discipline, self control,

0:48:28.800 --> 0:48:32.719
<v Speaker 1>or mental toughness, no resilience, just oh, I just do this.

0:48:33.800 --> 0:48:37.080
<v Speaker 1>But when your story is ah, this is hard, I'm

0:48:37.080 --> 0:48:39.399
<v Speaker 1>doing a hard thing, it's not fair.

0:48:39.440 --> 0:48:41.839
<v Speaker 3>I'm doing hard. They're not doing the hard thing I'm doing.

0:48:41.880 --> 0:48:44.439
<v Speaker 3>Look at me, everyone, I'm doing a hard thing. Oh

0:48:44.480 --> 0:48:47.360
<v Speaker 3>and then I'm posting about everything on fucking Instagram, so

0:48:47.440 --> 0:48:50.040
<v Speaker 3>everyone will tell me how amazing I am and fuck

0:48:50.120 --> 0:48:53.800
<v Speaker 3>all that, Like, really, that is you being weak and

0:48:53.920 --> 0:48:54.720
<v Speaker 3>looking for attention.

0:48:55.719 --> 0:49:00.840
<v Speaker 1>Now, I'm all for support, yeap, come going hard in

0:49:00.880 --> 0:49:02.680
<v Speaker 1>the paint today. But you know what I'm going to say.

0:49:03.120 --> 0:49:07.239
<v Speaker 1>Support is good, But when you are somewhat dependent, and

0:49:07.280 --> 0:49:10.239
<v Speaker 1>you're a fucking grown man or woman, and you are

0:49:10.360 --> 0:49:14.160
<v Speaker 1>dependent on telling people you're amazing because you didn't eat shit.

0:49:14.719 --> 0:49:19.480
<v Speaker 1>That's a fucking problem. Like what, you don't need more accolades,

0:49:19.600 --> 0:49:23.759
<v Speaker 1>you need more resilience. Don't seek more attention for your

0:49:23.760 --> 0:49:26.880
<v Speaker 1>fucking healthy breakfast. Do a deep dive on why you

0:49:27.000 --> 0:49:30.319
<v Speaker 1>think like that. That's the problem. The problem is you're

0:49:30.400 --> 0:49:35.360
<v Speaker 1>thinking about that shit now again, self awareness, not self loathing.

0:49:36.440 --> 0:49:41.319
<v Speaker 1>I still do stuff which is embarrassing, but I own up.

0:49:41.960 --> 0:49:44.360
<v Speaker 1>You know where I'm looking for someone, Craig Harper, and

0:49:44.400 --> 0:49:47.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm still wanting someone's approval. I still want someone to

0:49:47.800 --> 0:49:50.600
<v Speaker 1>tell me I look good. I still want someone to go, fuck,

0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:53.480
<v Speaker 1>how big is that motorbike? I still want someone to go, oh,

0:49:53.560 --> 0:49:58.040
<v Speaker 1>you're almost doctor Harper? Of course, but you know, and

0:49:58.080 --> 0:50:00.560
<v Speaker 1>none of those things are terrible. But you just need

0:50:00.600 --> 0:50:05.239
<v Speaker 1>to be careful of what your motives are and what

0:50:05.280 --> 0:50:07.880
<v Speaker 1>your reasons are for doing certain things.

0:50:08.360 --> 0:50:11.759
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and whether or not No, that was good. I

0:50:11.800 --> 0:50:15.400
<v Speaker 2>applaud that. I think the light and the dark that

0:50:15.440 --> 0:50:19.360
<v Speaker 2>came through then was probably what a lot of people

0:50:19.440 --> 0:50:21.760
<v Speaker 2>need to hear. And people that listen to this probably

0:50:21.760 --> 0:50:23.920
<v Speaker 2>need to hear that, right because they're listening for a reason,

0:50:24.360 --> 0:50:26.919
<v Speaker 2>and I'm asking those questions for a reason. I love

0:50:26.960 --> 0:50:32.200
<v Speaker 2>hearing that, it's a solid reminder, and it is that

0:50:32.320 --> 0:50:37.080
<v Speaker 2>reminder of it's a nice to have versus a reliance

0:50:37.160 --> 0:50:39.800
<v Speaker 2>on it, like when you become reliant on somebody going

0:50:40.040 --> 0:50:42.400
<v Speaker 2>you're so good for doing that, I'm so impressed. I

0:50:42.440 --> 0:50:45.839
<v Speaker 2>wish I could blah blah blah. But we all have

0:50:45.960 --> 0:50:48.600
<v Speaker 2>that kind of Oh that was nice to hear that. Yeah,

0:50:48.640 --> 0:50:50.279
<v Speaker 2>that's you know, it might give me a little bit

0:50:50.320 --> 0:50:53.200
<v Speaker 2>of a pep in my step. But relying on that,

0:50:53.600 --> 0:50:57.680
<v Speaker 2>I feel, is incredibly dangerous because the next comment you

0:50:57.760 --> 0:51:00.560
<v Speaker 2>might get is, who the hell do you think you

0:51:00.560 --> 0:51:02.400
<v Speaker 2>think you're good for doing that? Do you come on?

0:51:02.840 --> 0:51:06.040
<v Speaker 2>Pull your head out. So there's that, as I just said,

0:51:06.080 --> 0:51:08.160
<v Speaker 2>like the light and the dark around all of it.

0:51:08.840 --> 0:51:11.680
<v Speaker 1>One hundred And also think about this, cal what if

0:51:13.239 --> 0:51:17.600
<v Speaker 1>what if you people are constantly telling you're amazing and

0:51:17.680 --> 0:51:20.840
<v Speaker 1>terrific and wow, well done you for doing stuff that's,

0:51:21.040 --> 0:51:25.799
<v Speaker 1>let's be honest, is not that spectacular? You know, Like

0:51:26.120 --> 0:51:27.839
<v Speaker 1>you've met Johnny in the gym. I talk too much

0:51:27.880 --> 0:51:31.759
<v Speaker 1>about him, but he is spectacular. Absolutely, every day of

0:51:31.760 --> 0:51:34.759
<v Speaker 1>his life is harder than my hardest day I've ever had.

0:51:34.840 --> 0:51:38.920
<v Speaker 1>Right now, He's a fucking hero, right But here's the

0:51:38.960 --> 0:51:43.200
<v Speaker 1>problem is when you become dependent on accolades and you know,

0:51:43.360 --> 0:51:48.160
<v Speaker 1>thumbs up and you're amazing. When it goes, you're fucked

0:51:49.080 --> 0:51:52.000
<v Speaker 1>because you have a new addiction. And the addiction is

0:51:52.160 --> 0:51:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I need attention, I need approval. I need accolades. When

0:51:55.560 --> 0:51:58.480
<v Speaker 1>I do something good, I need at least thirteen people

0:51:58.520 --> 0:52:01.680
<v Speaker 1>to tell me how good I am, because otherwise I

0:52:01.719 --> 0:52:05.839
<v Speaker 1>crack the fucking sads. And by the way, I'm forty six, Like,

0:52:06.440 --> 0:52:10.120
<v Speaker 1>at some stage we've got to go. I'm the problem.

0:52:10.400 --> 0:52:14.279
<v Speaker 1>My thinking is the problem. Now. I know that this

0:52:14.400 --> 0:52:17.160
<v Speaker 1>is some people have probably already turned off, and some

0:52:17.200 --> 0:52:19.920
<v Speaker 1>people might unsubscribe. That's cool, knock your socks off. But

0:52:20.880 --> 0:52:26.560
<v Speaker 1>I this is what I think. I truly love people,

0:52:27.239 --> 0:52:33.040
<v Speaker 1>and I don't think love is telling someone something that

0:52:33.080 --> 0:52:37.120
<v Speaker 1>they want to hear to make them feel good for

0:52:37.239 --> 0:52:44.880
<v Speaker 1>three minutes. I think that's weakness. I think, by the way,

0:52:45.200 --> 0:52:48.640
<v Speaker 1>if I think somebody genuinely deserves something, I'm in I'm like,

0:52:48.719 --> 0:52:50.959
<v Speaker 1>that's fucking amazing. If I think they've done a good job,

0:52:51.000 --> 0:52:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm the first to go. I think you've done a

0:52:53.120 --> 0:52:58.120
<v Speaker 1>good job, well done, congratulations. But somebody doing something that

0:52:58.320 --> 0:53:01.600
<v Speaker 1>isn't amazing, and then we all gather around and go,

0:53:01.719 --> 0:53:06.840
<v Speaker 1>you're amazing. Right. I know that feels good in the moment,

0:53:06.880 --> 0:53:09.960
<v Speaker 1>but it's not helpful over the long term. I always

0:53:10.000 --> 0:53:11.839
<v Speaker 1>say to you, say to my clients. I still say

0:53:11.840 --> 0:53:14.319
<v Speaker 1>to the people I work with, I'm not interested in

0:53:14.360 --> 0:53:17.640
<v Speaker 1>making you feel good for three to ten minutes. I'm

0:53:17.680 --> 0:53:20.680
<v Speaker 1>interested in the quality of your life, your experiences, and

0:53:20.719 --> 0:53:23.759
<v Speaker 1>your results over the next one, two, five, ten years.

0:53:24.280 --> 0:53:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm a coach, I'm not a fucking cheer squad.

0:53:27.800 --> 0:53:32.640
<v Speaker 1>I want to help you be the most powerful resource

0:53:32.760 --> 0:53:37.440
<v Speaker 1>in your own life, Craig Harper, is not the answer.

0:53:38.520 --> 0:53:42.239
<v Speaker 1>Me telling you you're amazing is not the answer. You

0:53:42.440 --> 0:53:46.640
<v Speaker 1>starting to fucking have this revelation about your own capacity

0:53:46.719 --> 0:53:52.359
<v Speaker 1>and ability and talent and potential. That is power. That

0:53:52.600 --> 0:53:55.239
<v Speaker 1>is what you need. You don't need me rubbing you

0:53:55.280 --> 0:53:57.720
<v Speaker 1>on the back all the time. If you do great,

0:53:57.840 --> 0:53:59.840
<v Speaker 1>I'll say, you do great. If I think you've been

0:53:59.880 --> 0:54:02.600
<v Speaker 1>a dickhead, I'll go, you're being a dickhead. Love you,

0:54:02.800 --> 0:54:05.480
<v Speaker 1>but you're being a dickhead. Am I ever a dickhead

0:54:05.920 --> 0:54:09.799
<v Speaker 1>all the time? Do I make dumb decisions? Yes? Am

0:54:09.800 --> 0:54:13.560
<v Speaker 1>I a big fucking baby? Yes? Like we have to

0:54:13.680 --> 0:54:18.640
<v Speaker 1>acknowledge this. Otherwise we just go through life like it's

0:54:18.680 --> 0:54:21.799
<v Speaker 1>a fucking Disney movie. And whenever we get any feed

0:54:21.880 --> 0:54:25.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean actual feedback, you know. And that's another thing.

0:54:25.440 --> 0:54:27.759
<v Speaker 1>People go, I want feedback, and then you give them feedback.

0:54:27.960 --> 0:54:30.240
<v Speaker 1>They don't like it because they don't actually want feedback.

0:54:30.280 --> 0:54:34.080
<v Speaker 1>They want praise. Oh you don't want feedback. No, I

0:54:34.160 --> 0:54:36.160
<v Speaker 1>just want you to tell me I'm fucking awesome. Well

0:54:36.160 --> 0:54:37.120
<v Speaker 1>that's not feedback.

0:54:37.760 --> 0:54:41.360
<v Speaker 2>Yep. The other day my wife said something to me

0:54:41.400 --> 0:54:43.440
<v Speaker 2>and I said, I don't want to hear that because

0:54:43.640 --> 0:54:46.560
<v Speaker 2>I think I'm perfect, and she said, I know you do,

0:54:46.760 --> 0:54:50.839
<v Speaker 2>and that's exactly why I'm telling you. And it led

0:54:50.880 --> 0:54:53.879
<v Speaker 2>to you know, it was a good, open, frank conversation

0:54:54.200 --> 0:54:56.720
<v Speaker 2>of something that I needed to do in order to improve.

0:54:57.360 --> 0:55:02.280
<v Speaker 2>And you're right that, but that is absolute love because

0:55:02.560 --> 0:55:06.600
<v Speaker 2>it wasn't coming from any bad place. It was coming

0:55:06.600 --> 0:55:09.279
<v Speaker 2>from a place of I know that you want to

0:55:09.280 --> 0:55:11.600
<v Speaker 2>hear this, because I know that she knows that I

0:55:11.680 --> 0:55:14.879
<v Speaker 2>do do a lot of work on myself, and so

0:55:15.040 --> 0:55:18.680
<v Speaker 2>she was able to give that genuine feedback and it

0:55:18.719 --> 0:55:22.400
<v Speaker 2>was appreciated and I've thought about it, learnt from it

0:55:22.480 --> 0:55:24.359
<v Speaker 2>and that's what I'll you know, I can take that

0:55:24.440 --> 0:55:28.600
<v Speaker 2>moving forward. So absolute love right there.

0:55:28.880 --> 0:55:32.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, amazing, and good on you for understanding that, and

0:55:33.719 --> 0:55:35.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, not sticking your bottom lip out and throwing

0:55:35.960 --> 0:55:38.960
<v Speaker 1>your glomsh in the shagpile as Mary says, right, oh

0:55:39.000 --> 0:55:42.880
<v Speaker 1>I did. Yeah, well you probably got over it. But

0:55:43.840 --> 0:55:47.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, even with you, I'm going to make you.

0:55:47.840 --> 0:55:50.320
<v Speaker 1>I might, I might not maybe make you feel uncomfortable

0:55:50.360 --> 0:55:52.240
<v Speaker 1>for a little bit. But I think about the girl

0:55:52.280 --> 0:55:54.799
<v Speaker 1>that I met, the lad, the woman that I met,

0:55:54.840 --> 0:55:57.759
<v Speaker 1>I should say, at the gym, you, I don't know

0:55:57.800 --> 0:56:00.239
<v Speaker 1>how many years ago, who pretty much looked at her

0:56:00.320 --> 0:56:03.040
<v Speaker 1>feet and wouldn't look me in the eye and would

0:56:03.080 --> 0:56:08.000
<v Speaker 1>be you know, maybe a hello, a goodbye, even though

0:56:08.040 --> 0:56:10.840
<v Speaker 1>this was the woman that listened to my fucking show

0:56:11.239 --> 0:56:15.320
<v Speaker 1>right and knew who I was, and I would, I suppose,

0:56:15.520 --> 0:56:19.080
<v Speaker 1>in a way respected me for what I did, right,

0:56:19.760 --> 0:56:23.279
<v Speaker 1>but just very you know, shy and all of that,

0:56:23.320 --> 0:56:26.160
<v Speaker 1>which is cool. But what I've seen over the last

0:56:26.239 --> 0:56:28.960
<v Speaker 1>few years with you is this, for somebody who is

0:56:30.280 --> 0:56:33.680
<v Speaker 1>you would call yourself an introvert, I guess yep, yep,

0:56:33.960 --> 0:56:38.400
<v Speaker 1>So somebody who's an introvert, all this this stuff doesn't

0:56:38.440 --> 0:56:41.799
<v Speaker 1>come naturally or easily. Even though I actually think you

0:56:41.920 --> 0:56:45.120
<v Speaker 1>are have a gift for communication. That's a side issue

0:56:45.719 --> 0:56:50.560
<v Speaker 1>or a side fact. But like, I know that doing

0:56:50.600 --> 0:56:55.120
<v Speaker 1>something like this probably gives you equal parts excitement and terror,

0:56:56.080 --> 0:56:59.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, where you know, you're like, oh, I'm doing

0:56:59.160 --> 0:57:02.239
<v Speaker 1>a podcast with It's fucking hell, I'm doing a podcast

0:57:02.239 --> 0:57:06.720
<v Speaker 1>with Harps right, And but here's the thing. You even

0:57:06.760 --> 0:57:09.640
<v Speaker 1>the messages that you sent to me, where they used

0:57:09.680 --> 0:57:14.279
<v Speaker 1>to be very short and let's be honest, boring, Ah,

0:57:15.040 --> 0:57:18.280
<v Speaker 1>not really, but now they're like a bit cheeky. Now

0:57:18.280 --> 0:57:20.520
<v Speaker 1>they're a little bit like, hey, what are you doing

0:57:20.600 --> 0:57:23.040
<v Speaker 1>your big No, they're not really, but they're you know,

0:57:23.080 --> 0:57:26.680
<v Speaker 1>they're getting there. It's like it's it's a bit fun,

0:57:26.800 --> 0:57:29.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a bit and I'm like, wow, look at this,

0:57:29.080 --> 0:57:34.040
<v Speaker 1>because I know this is you developing, and and you

0:57:34.080 --> 0:57:37.760
<v Speaker 1>know it's you always have the ability, and you're still

0:57:37.880 --> 0:57:40.560
<v Speaker 1>very much a work in progress, as is everyone including me.

0:57:41.880 --> 0:57:46.400
<v Speaker 1>But your development for communication, you know, to build connection

0:57:46.480 --> 0:57:50.160
<v Speaker 1>and rapport and to do shit that scares you and

0:57:50.280 --> 0:57:54.240
<v Speaker 1>to put yourself in situations that are not super comfortable

0:57:54.280 --> 0:57:56.680
<v Speaker 1>for you. And and then in the middle of all of

0:57:56.720 --> 0:58:02.360
<v Speaker 1>these things that you are doing, you are simultaneously impacting

0:58:02.400 --> 0:58:05.240
<v Speaker 1>the world around you in a positive way and also

0:58:05.440 --> 0:58:11.200
<v Speaker 1>changing yourself, Like this is personal development is really about

0:58:11.320 --> 0:58:14.960
<v Speaker 1>changing you. It's about how do I, how do I

0:58:14.960 --> 0:58:16.480
<v Speaker 1>become a better version of me? And what does that

0:58:16.520 --> 0:58:19.400
<v Speaker 1>look like? And so for me to talk to you

0:58:19.560 --> 0:58:23.200
<v Speaker 1>on a you know, like this on a Sunday afternoon,

0:58:23.440 --> 0:58:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't have picked it in a million years, five

0:58:25.600 --> 0:58:27.760
<v Speaker 1>years ago, or whenever it was I met you, and

0:58:27.800 --> 0:58:28.920
<v Speaker 1>neither would you.

0:58:28.960 --> 0:58:32.600
<v Speaker 2>No, not at all, not at all. And it's it's wonderful,

0:58:32.920 --> 0:58:36.800
<v Speaker 2>it really is, like it's it's giving me so much.

0:58:37.120 --> 0:58:42.160
<v Speaker 2>And so probably the last question I had for you,

0:58:42.240 --> 0:58:45.520
<v Speaker 2>it was your whiteboard post about the hill and how

0:58:45.560 --> 0:58:48.240
<v Speaker 2>the hill doesn't change, it's just you and you know,

0:58:48.280 --> 0:58:51.040
<v Speaker 2>the more you tackle it, the easier it becomes. So

0:58:51.880 --> 0:58:55.320
<v Speaker 2>my ending question for you is, aside from your PhD,

0:58:55.440 --> 0:58:58.080
<v Speaker 2>because we know that that has been your focus and

0:58:58.120 --> 0:59:02.240
<v Speaker 2>it's you're almost at the peak, what's your next hill?

0:59:03.000 --> 0:59:05.760
<v Speaker 2>And it got me thinking about, well, currently what is mine?

0:59:06.320 --> 0:59:11.560
<v Speaker 2>And mine is public speaking, and so what I'm doing

0:59:11.600 --> 0:59:15.640
<v Speaker 2>now is that every opportunity I get, I'm just saying

0:59:15.720 --> 0:59:18.240
<v Speaker 2>yes without thinking yes, I'll do it.

0:59:18.360 --> 0:59:18.640
<v Speaker 1>Yes.

0:59:18.760 --> 0:59:21.880
<v Speaker 2>And I had to present to the leadership team at

0:59:21.880 --> 0:59:24.640
<v Speaker 2>work the other week and it was a wonderful opportunity

0:59:25.480 --> 0:59:31.280
<v Speaker 2>and I was just sweating. I sat there and presenting

0:59:31.320 --> 0:59:34.120
<v Speaker 2>this thing that I like, I knew the content because

0:59:34.120 --> 0:59:37.080
<v Speaker 2>I'd written it, but I'm talking and suddenly my voice

0:59:37.120 --> 0:59:40.160
<v Speaker 2>is cracking and I'm like lah, And I just thought,

0:59:40.280 --> 0:59:43.520
<v Speaker 2>has someone tipped a bucket of water down my back?

0:59:43.560 --> 0:59:46.240
<v Speaker 2>Because I could just feel all of this sweat coming

0:59:46.560 --> 0:59:49.240
<v Speaker 2>And it reminded me of the last conversation we had

0:59:49.280 --> 0:59:50.720
<v Speaker 2>where you said that you presented in.

0:59:50.720 --> 0:59:51.800
<v Speaker 1>The light blues.

0:59:52.080 --> 0:59:55.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was like that. And I left the presentation

0:59:56.280 --> 0:59:59.360
<v Speaker 2>and I mentioned to my manager and she goes, presented

0:59:59.400 --> 1:00:02.480
<v Speaker 2>really well, came across really confidently. I said, I was

1:00:02.560 --> 1:00:05.720
<v Speaker 2>sweating so much, like I felt so uncomfortable, and she

1:00:05.880 --> 1:00:08.680
<v Speaker 2>just said, well, you wore the wrong clothes on the

1:00:08.720 --> 1:00:11.919
<v Speaker 2>wrong day. Is it as simple as that I wore

1:00:11.920 --> 1:00:15.040
<v Speaker 2>the wrong clothes on the wrong day. But yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>my hill at the moment is in person presentations to people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, that's great. I think for me this is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm you know that my kind of echo chamber

1:00:35.680 --> 1:00:39.040
<v Speaker 1>that I live in with research and psychology and academia

1:00:39.040 --> 1:00:41.200
<v Speaker 1>and blah blah blah blah blah. It's all very very

1:00:41.240 --> 1:00:45.080
<v Speaker 1>about the mind and logic and the brain and reasoning

1:00:45.120 --> 1:00:51.120
<v Speaker 1>and processing and data analysis and objective this and that.

1:00:51.480 --> 1:00:55.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm really interested in all of the wisdom that lives

1:00:55.160 --> 1:01:01.280
<v Speaker 1>outside the mind. I'm really interested in what is the knowledge,

1:01:01.320 --> 1:01:06.120
<v Speaker 1>what is the wisdom? What are the insights that exist

1:01:06.800 --> 1:01:12.240
<v Speaker 1>away from the brain, the prefrontal cortex? What is that?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? And that and I don't know what that

1:01:16.840 --> 1:01:19.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean. I guess if I had to describe it,

1:01:19.240 --> 1:01:23.000
<v Speaker 1>it would just be more in that kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>what's the word metaphysical or spiritual? You know, without becoming

1:01:28.160 --> 1:01:30.720
<v Speaker 1>a weirdo, right, but just going is there something in that?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>And because the problem, the problem with being all about logic,

1:01:37.680 --> 1:01:42.520
<v Speaker 1>and this sounds counterintuitive, encounter productive or not counterproductive, but

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<v Speaker 1>counter to some things I say is right, Even logic,

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<v Speaker 1>the idea of logic is a flawed idea because when

1:01:53.000 --> 1:01:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I say that's illogical, or I say that doesn't make sense,

1:01:59.720 --> 1:02:05.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, through my window of understanding, that's illogical, through

1:02:06.000 --> 1:02:09.400
<v Speaker 1>my window of understanding, that doesn't make sense. Through my

1:02:09.800 --> 1:02:14.400
<v Speaker 1>window of understanding, that's unscientific or that's not possible. Right,

1:02:15.400 --> 1:02:17.919
<v Speaker 1>But there were so many things have been I would

1:02:17.960 --> 1:02:25.240
<v Speaker 1>say millions of things over humanity's timeline, the evolution of humans,

1:02:25.320 --> 1:02:31.040
<v Speaker 1>right where there are things that would have been completely inconceivable,

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<v Speaker 1>like flying in a fucking metal tube across the sky

1:02:36.520 --> 1:02:39.080
<v Speaker 1>with I was looking yesterday an A three point eighty

1:02:39.480 --> 1:02:43.920
<v Speaker 1>can have eight hundred humans in it, right, It's this

1:02:44.040 --> 1:02:47.400
<v Speaker 1>two story plane, eight hundred people and all their shit,

1:02:47.520 --> 1:02:49.760
<v Speaker 1>all their luggage, and then the plane ways, whatever the

1:02:49.800 --> 1:02:54.920
<v Speaker 1>fuck it ways, and it's in the air. It's in

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<v Speaker 1>like for ninety nine point nine percent of humanity's existence

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<v Speaker 1>that would have been seen as witchcraft or evil or

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<v Speaker 1>impossible or illogical. Right, And then you go, well, like,

1:03:08.400 --> 1:03:15.080
<v Speaker 1>I've had experiences in my life which to me and

1:03:15.160 --> 1:03:21.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm not very woo woo but just logically make no sense.

1:03:21.800 --> 1:03:26.360
<v Speaker 1>But they happened, right, So I have personal evidence because

1:03:26.440 --> 1:03:29.160
<v Speaker 1>it happened to me, and I wasn't high, and I

1:03:29.200 --> 1:03:33.720
<v Speaker 1>wasn't drunk, and I'm not a generally an hysterical person,

1:03:33.880 --> 1:03:38.000
<v Speaker 1>and so trying to you know, the mind is great,

1:03:38.040 --> 1:03:41.240
<v Speaker 1>but the mind is limited of all there is to know.

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<v Speaker 1>None of us are ever going to know one per

1:03:43.560 --> 1:03:46.480
<v Speaker 1>cent of what there is to know. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>that while the mind is brilliant and it's you know,

1:03:48.520 --> 1:03:52.200
<v Speaker 1>as you hear me say, it's UHQ, it's your operational epicenter.

1:03:52.280 --> 1:03:55.560
<v Speaker 1>It's where we tell stories and interpret data and process

1:03:55.600 --> 1:04:00.080
<v Speaker 1>the world around us, all of that is true, But

1:04:00.120 --> 1:04:02.240
<v Speaker 1>then it's still just me looking at the world through

1:04:02.240 --> 1:04:07.000
<v Speaker 1>my window. Like I'm interested in all the other stuff.

1:04:07.800 --> 1:04:10.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm interested in the wisdom and the insight and the genius,

1:04:12.080 --> 1:04:15.680
<v Speaker 1>uh and the truth that lives beyond what we think,

1:04:16.400 --> 1:04:20.040
<v Speaker 1>because what we think is literally a code for how

1:04:20.080 --> 1:04:25.080
<v Speaker 1>we see the world. You know. That's why I'm fascinated

1:04:25.120 --> 1:04:28.120
<v Speaker 1>with understanding how you think, because you think all the time.

1:04:28.200 --> 1:04:31.360
<v Speaker 1>I think all the time, but there's virtually no overlap

1:04:31.760 --> 1:04:33.800
<v Speaker 1>because I don't live in your thoughts or values or

1:04:33.800 --> 1:04:36.720
<v Speaker 1>beliefs or mind or stories, and you don't live in mind.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're both thinking, but there's total divergence, you know. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So for me, I don't think I answered your question,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I'm I'm fascinated with what there is beyond

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<v Speaker 1>And this sounds unscientific, but fuck it beyond science because

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<v Speaker 1>we think that and this is going to sound very

1:05:02.360 --> 1:05:07.040
<v Speaker 1>weird for a PhD student doing science. We think that

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<v Speaker 1>science is the start and finish of what there is

1:05:10.000 --> 1:05:14.600
<v Speaker 1>to know. But it's only science can only operate within

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<v Speaker 1>our own capacity to reason and understand, you know, And

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<v Speaker 1>as we evolve, and as we as a species and

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<v Speaker 1>individuals evolve, things change, and what we used to think

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<v Speaker 1>was impossible, we know is not only you know, not impossible.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an everyday occurrence now, Like there was a time

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<v Speaker 1>when the idea of talking to a human on the

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<v Speaker 1>other side of the world right like you, you're down

1:05:42.920 --> 1:05:44.640
<v Speaker 1>the road at the moment. We're doing this on zoom,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, but you could right now be in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>It would be the same. It would be that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be looking at you on the other side of

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<v Speaker 1>the world. I'd be seeing your face, you'd be seeing

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<v Speaker 1>my face. We'd be in the middle of a conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet where thousands of thousands of kilometers apart. Well, any

1:06:02.680 --> 1:06:07.720
<v Speaker 1>other time in history that would have been absolute witchery

1:06:08.160 --> 1:06:12.880
<v Speaker 1>or absolute bullshit or impossibility or so you go. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's always been about these stories about what's possible, and

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<v Speaker 1>so right now I think I think the courageous and

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<v Speaker 1>the humble approach to take is, look, this is what

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<v Speaker 1>I currently think, but I've been wrong a lot, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm open to learn, you know. And the problem one

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<v Speaker 1>of the problems with beliefs and knowing and logic is

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<v Speaker 1>that we strongly identify with a certain way of thinking

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<v Speaker 1>or believing or knowing. And when your identity is intertwined

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<v Speaker 1>with knowing something, then you become unteachable. No one can

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<v Speaker 1>teach you because you already know.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I know my religion is the right religion, So fuck

1:07:04.000 --> 1:07:07.360
<v Speaker 1>the other four thousand they're all wrong. I'm right. And

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<v Speaker 1>this is and again that's just a very small example.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about religion, it's about thinking. So yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to do a big exploration beyond the mind.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that for you, I really do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, I've got so many stories that could that

1:07:25.280 --> 1:07:29.919
<v Speaker 1>I don't just and I don't look for shit. I'm

1:07:29.920 --> 1:07:34.040
<v Speaker 1>not like walking around looking for signs and shit. I'm not.

1:07:34.320 --> 1:07:37.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm so like, give me a motorbike, give me, give

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<v Speaker 1>me some Netflix, give me some dumbbells. Like I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>fucking normal, regular, down to earth. I'm not out there

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<v Speaker 1>looking for the woo woo. But the Woo woo finds

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<v Speaker 1>me oh a lot, a lot. I go, yeah, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is this about? And I go, oh, you know, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I feel like we need to delve into

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<v Speaker 2>this one in another episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Just what's that you do? I've spoken about it a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of times. I've opened the door a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, there have been times when I've known something

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<v Speaker 1>way before and there's no way I could possibly know.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like I have had a very clear message

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<v Speaker 1>to do or not do something, and the thing that

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<v Speaker 1>I did or didn't do basically saved me from a

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<v Speaker 1>bad thing. Yeah, and like unequivocally clear, like not no

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<v Speaker 1>mystery around it, you know. Yeah, so yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>love that. Where yeah, where does that come from? And

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it's not like I've had thirty of those

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<v Speaker 1>happen and twenty nine didn't. Like it's it's it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>when that happens to me, I know somethings I just

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<v Speaker 1>need to then pay attention. Yeah yeah, I'll tell you

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<v Speaker 1>one off air, okay, And everyone's like, no, that's not fair.

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<v Speaker 1>I just you know, you've got to I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I think I don't know next time when the

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<v Speaker 1>student's ready, the teacher will appear. We'll see cal it's

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<v Speaker 1>been good, it's been great. Thanks for hanging out with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks, Happy Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy Sunday. See ya, see ya,