1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: This is the Fitsy and with her with Kate Richie podcast. 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 2: Can I tell a story because I have had nobody 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 2: to tell stories to this morning? Yeah? She was like, mate, Mommy, 4 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 2: can you please go back to work because I can't 5 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: do another phoner with you. 6 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:20,920 Speaker 1: I can't play along anymore. 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 3: Mum. 8 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 2: No, I do have a very I've got a fun 9 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 2: story and now I've built it up. I'm sorry, Fitzy, 10 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 2: my storytelling has not improved, and it will probably be 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: a long one, but I want to talk to people 12 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: this morning about what the kids have picked up at daycare, 13 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: you know, like what was the best thing made? No, 14 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: I don't mean covid or foot in mouth. I mean 15 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 2: maybe the naughty things that they bring back into the house. Sure. 16 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:49,599 Speaker 2: Sometimes I do think, though, that they don't learn these 17 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,639 Speaker 2: naughty things at daycare. They learn them at home from 18 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 2: mum and dad, and then when they're presented in public, 19 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 2: Mum and dad blame daycare. Like the kids, I start 20 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: doing things and they're like, oh, they've picked it up 21 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: at daycare, when in actual fact, it's been mum, you know, 22 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 2: wandering around the kitchen cursing. Anyway, the story goes like this, 23 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 2: A girlfriend of mine told me the other day because 24 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 2: we were talking about being grateful, and there's been a 25 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 2: lot of chat in my life of late about gratitude 26 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: and feeling you know, I'm so you know, I'm so 27 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: pleased about certain things. And she was saying, I know, 28 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 2: you know, it's very hard sometimes not to get down 29 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 2: with the kids, you know, and so I've been trying 30 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 2: to do really positive things. I'm trying to feel really grateful. 31 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 2: The school holidays had finished, and she felt as though 32 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 2: she'd spent way too much time with one of the children, 33 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 2: so the older daughter, and part of looking forward to 34 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 2: the older daughter going back to school was that she'd 35 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: be able to spend a bit of one on one 36 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 2: time with the younger ones. So she's, you know, really excited. 37 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 2: So the first child goes back to school and she's 38 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 2: basically spent the week, who it's her last year before 39 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: she goes to big school next year, doing stuff, you know. 40 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 2: So they did all the stuff one on one, and 41 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: they went to the movies, and they went to sushi train, 42 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 2: and they did a painting class and walked on the 43 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 2: beach and they live in a like it's much warmer 44 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 2: where they are. Anyway, she crawled into bed with her 45 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 2: daughter that night, and she was feeling so good about everything. 46 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: She'd done, all the things, and she'd been she'd parented 47 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: really well. Yeah, she laid down with her little I 48 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 2: don't know, let's call her Millie or something, cute, cute 49 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 2: little Milly. And she lays down with Milli and she's 50 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 2: stroking her hair, and she's read at restore and she's 51 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 2: ticked all the boxes. And she says to her, oh, 52 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 2: my goodness, my darling. Well that's what I would say, 53 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 2: I say, darling, she would say, I don't know what 54 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 2: she would say. Anyway, we have had such a great 55 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 2: few days and we did this, and we went to 56 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: Sushi Train and Mommy loves you so much. And Millie 57 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 2: sat upright in bed, looked her mother dead in the eyes, 58 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 2: gave her the finger and said, shut up, mom, and then. 59 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: Ye ran out of the room, Copper the one fingered salute. 60 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 2: And the awful thing is, even as a grown adult, 61 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 2: she couldn't even there. There was no funny side of 62 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: it that she had. She had busted her everything all 63 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 2: week to do all of the things. 64 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: My beautiful little Milly, and. 65 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 2: Apparently this is the thing that's come home from from daycare. 66 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: Is the finger, the what do we call it? The 67 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 2: middle finger salute, and the shut uping and. 68 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: The okay, we're really it came from when they're at 69 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: Sushi Train and the avocado baby rolls hadn't arrived and 70 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: Mum turned to the guy with the blow torch behind 71 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: the counter. 72 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 4: Absolutely right. 73 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 2: I'm going to take calls if you're if your own 74 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 2: shoulders come home with a delightful little expression or something 75 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 2: something new in their refertoire. They've learned it at day care. 76 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 2: We'd love to hear from you this morning. Adrianna's given 77 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 2: us a call from Chromer. Tell us about your son, Adriana. 78 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 4: Oh, morning guys, and welcome back, Kate. I am so 79 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 4: glad to hear your voice on the radio again. 80 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 2: Oh it is so nice to be talking on the 81 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,039 Speaker 2: radio again. Thank you, Adriana. 82 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 4: Do you know the boys are getting a bit boring? 83 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: What Adrianna, I'm right here. I can hear that. 84 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 4: You know it. 85 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 2: You know you were well delivered, Adriana, well delivered. 86 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: Thank you about Adriana. We seem to have lost that. 87 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 2: Talk to you on Monday as well, about the same time. 88 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,720 Speaker 2: If that's okay, tell us about your son. 89 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 4: Okay, guys, so my son came home. I'm not going 90 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,679 Speaker 4: to mention the child's name, but one of his little 91 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 4: friends dad had started working out at the gym. Obviously 92 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 4: there's been a bit of excitement that daddy's gained some muscles. 93 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 4: My son comes home and says to my husband, I 94 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 4: think you need to join the gym because so and 95 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 4: so his dad is getting better in his works than you. 96 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:07,239 Speaker 4: So he's fat shamed my husband. 97 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: Do you know what it's to kick up the bummy? 98 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 3: Probably, Nate. 99 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 4: Well, look, guys, I started working out now, and secretly 100 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 4: we'll call this kid Bobby. F Bobby's dad, he says, 101 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 4: F Bobby's dad. 102 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: Wow, oh wow, unbelievable, Adrianna, thank you for you. Call 103 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: mon Ache in Penroth, Hello, Hi, how you doing? What's 104 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: your story? 105 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 3: Mon mon Please? Can I just say, Kate, it's so 106 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 3: good you're back. I've missed you so much. I just 107 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 3: love you and oh my god, I just I just 108 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 3: got in the car and I heard that you're back, 109 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 3: and I'm like, welcome back. You're so dearly missed by 110 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 3: many people. 111 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 2: Oh that's very kind. Thank you, Minnique. This is going 112 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 2: to get really tied. 113 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 3: I get hurt. 114 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: You were enjoying it beforehand. 115 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 2: There were stages there. 116 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 1: If you look at the podcast numbers and the ratings and. 117 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 3: Just someone missing, that's not just someone. 118 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 2: Missing, a little piece of your heart, Monique, you know 119 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 2: the boys a tiny inn piece of mine as well. 120 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 3: I just wanted to tell you that my son, who 121 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 3: is an adult note now, but yeah, used to come 122 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 3: home from daycare and say, Mommy, Mummy, I played with 123 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 3: the fire truck that brought the effort. 124 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's a beauty, isn't It's almost great? 125 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: See a child childcare center is always a great excuse 126 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 2: to use as well as a parent when your child 127 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 2: is misbehaving. I mean, and I used it regularly. You 128 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 2: know we we don't swear at home, and the child 129 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 2: must have got it from childcare. Absolutely. 130 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: Ted had an issue with the words sparkling when he 131 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: was growing up. Well I'm not going to say exactly 132 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: the word, but it went from sparkling to farkling and 133 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: then just turned into the one word where it. 134 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 2: Was you had just said the exact word farking. 135 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: No, it's okay to say farkling. 136 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: And why on earth was Ted saying spoked well, sparkling water, 137 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 2: the San Pellegrino. 138 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: Brand. We're not talking about the brand, but he would 139 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: make the way to bring him sparkling all the time. 140 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: He just couldn't say it fits in. 141 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 2: Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk great 142 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 2: shows like this. Download the Nova 143 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 3: Player, fly the app Store, or Google playing the player