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Speaker 1: City and with Kate Ritchie Podcast to talk about breastfeeding

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Speaker 1: and not your own breastfeeding, but the breastfeeding of other

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Speaker 1: children that don't belong to you, like a wet nurse,

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, a bit like a wet nurse, but a

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Speaker 1: wet nurse would imply that there.

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Speaker 2: Was some official registration, well, you know.

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Speaker 1: A consent involved. This story comes out of Malaysia and

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Speaker 1: there's a woman she said she was going off to

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Speaker 1: a big family event and she's very busy. I'm guessing

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Speaker 1: she was. You know, she's one of the women who's

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Speaker 1: she's planned and she's done all the cooking and she's

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Speaker 1: you know, so she's she's getting ready for this event.

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Speaker 1: She's got a very good girlfriend there with her helping,

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Speaker 1: and so she passes her young son over to her

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Speaker 1: friend while she you know, I don't know, I'm making

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Speaker 1: this up packs the car. You know, it takes the

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Speaker 1: clean wrap off the top of the egg sand which.

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Speaker 2: Whatever it is dressing on the salad, and the final.

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Speaker 3: Stage pops in the cave. So just to get a

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Speaker 3: cole slow, because you can't be making it can't be

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Speaker 3: stuff making a sal You.

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Speaker 1: Always have to make your own cold slaw did you

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Speaker 1: say cold salt cold? No, you have to make your

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Speaker 1: own own cold.

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Speaker 3: So much cold sauce to everyone and the old family.

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Speaker 2: Another it's not.

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Speaker 1: It's a different it's a simplex virus. It's not the

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Speaker 1: thing anyway. So I do get cold sauce.

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Speaker 3: That was pretty fun.

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Speaker 2: I never got No, that's something else.

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Speaker 1: Do you get cold sauce, don't you fits?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I do get cold.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're fine. You find if people don't stare at

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Speaker 1: you very defensive about it, well, because there's nothing.

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Speaker 2: To it's not one. Is that coming up there?

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Speaker 1: That's what that was a b C C cut out

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Speaker 1: of my face.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for bringing it up again.

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Speaker 3: Whoa that is a touchy subject that we got told

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Speaker 3: not to bring up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's coming up.

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Speaker 1: Well, you can barely even see it anyway. This woman

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Speaker 1: thinks that the other woman's assisting her getting stuff done.

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Speaker 1: So she's got the son, Hayter his name is, And

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Speaker 1: then she realizes, I don't know if she's she's like

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Speaker 1: all mums with eyes in the back of her head.

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Speaker 1: She sees the friend out the back in the kitchen,

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Speaker 1: not once, but twice breastfeeding her son. Wow, huge call

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Speaker 1: with what Yeah, she the excuse is well, the baby

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Speaker 1: was crying, of course, but you don't just start breastfeeding

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Speaker 1: somebody else's child firstly without asking is it a friend or.

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Speaker 3: A family members. This is the tough one because of it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it matters. My sister did it if

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Speaker 1: I had, yeah, if may it was being looked after

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Speaker 1: by her auntie, and she said the baby was crying,

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Speaker 1: and so I decided to.

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Speaker 2: Breast her et.

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Speaker 1: I would be firstly creeped out, but.

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Speaker 3: Few you're not happy with Beck's breast milk, wine.

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Speaker 2: Breasts out of it.

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Speaker 1: No, it's got nothing to do with the quality of milk.

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Speaker 1: But in this day and age, I mean, I know,

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Speaker 1: years ago before the bottle was invented and when some

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Speaker 1: women couldn't breastfeed, it makes complete sense. And yes, of course,

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Speaker 1: if it's you know, the decision is being made because

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Speaker 1: either the baby is fed or the baby starves to death,

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Speaker 1: then what course feed the baby. But in this day

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Speaker 1: and age, there's not It's just not relevant. You never

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Speaker 1: ever breastfeed anyone else's child, even with asking. I think

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Speaker 1: it's I just don't think it's right. It's very intimate.

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Speaker 3: There wasn't can I just quickly do a shout out

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Speaker 3: thirteen twenty fourteen. If anyone has has shared this.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and why, like what were the circumstances, because maybe

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Speaker 1: it's okay, are you.

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Speaker 3: Let a sister or you let a friend Gania if

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Speaker 3: he's crying, yeah he can.

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Speaker 5: You don't know, like that woman might not have even

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Speaker 5: had breast milk. She may have just used her boob

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Speaker 5: or teat as a pacifier.

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Speaker 1: No, but it still doesn't It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 3: Actually fact I didn't have a dummy.

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Speaker 1: I don't don't I know what you mean. So it's like,

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Speaker 1: don't I can't produce milk. But the thing that's going

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Speaker 1: to make this baby stop crying is if it thinks

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Speaker 1: it has a dummy, and it's you don't get a dummy.

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Speaker 2: You can use you, you can use your little for

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Speaker 2: you could not in COVID times. Mate. So the only

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Speaker 2: safe thing is a bosom.

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Speaker 3: Give me your break. It's exactly the same from the

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Speaker 3: same body.

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Speaker 2: It's a bosom to the rescue.

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Speaker 1: And I suggest I think always it can be. But

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Speaker 1: as long as it's the it's it's the mother's.

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Speaker 2: Breast, you should always ask.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we are getting calls here.

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Speaker 2: I don't just stick a breast in the mouth.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if anyone has shared their child with

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Speaker 3: someone else when it comes to breastfeeding, but we are

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Speaker 3: getting calls. We've got a nerse here who's got stories

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Speaker 3: as well. Kim's given a giving us a call from eldestly.

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Speaker 3: You are a nurse, what did you experience, Kim?

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Speaker 6: We actually had a grandmother that has given birth and

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Speaker 6: her daughter had also given birth, and they're about babies

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Speaker 6: are aback to speaks apart. And the mother was breastfeeding

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Speaker 6: her baby and then the grandchild started crying, so the

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Speaker 6: daughter handed her grandchild over to the mother, to the grandmother,

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Speaker 6: and the grandmother continued to feed that child as well.

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Speaker 2: That's life in the village.

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Speaker 1: Well, and how did the nurses feel around that? Is

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Speaker 1: that unusual?

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Speaker 6: It was very uncomfortable. But I mean even if I

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Speaker 6: did bring it up and tell them that that that

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Speaker 6: was not appropriate and all that dad of stuff, and

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Speaker 6: she's what we're supposed to do as far as nursing

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Speaker 6: by Yeah, it was very hard in regards because they

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Speaker 6: knew once I left the home they were still going

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Speaker 6: to continue doing it.

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Speaker 2: Can we have two here? We have two milk outlets.

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Speaker 2: Let's just learnt it from a practical form. I can

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Speaker 2: get it here, I can get it there. What's the

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Speaker 2: convenient they're both on tap.

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Speaker 3: It's Johann Blake handing the relay baton over to your

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Speaker 3: saying Bolt, you know what I mean, You continue and

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Speaker 3: you break the world.

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Speaker 1: I cannot believe you're using a sports enalogy.

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Speaker 3: Breastfeeding, Janelle. What about Janelle and Harrington Park? What did

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Speaker 3: you see, Janelle?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I actually saw. Good morning guys, by the way,

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Speaker 4: you know you're beautiful.

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Speaker 3: I actually saw on.

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Speaker 4: The community pages, you know how Facebook has, like the

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Speaker 4: community page, there was a lady on there requesting breast

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Speaker 4: milk because her breast milk had dried up, so she

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Speaker 4: still wanted to breastfeed her baby breath milk. So she

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Speaker 4: was requesting people to donate any excess milk that they had,

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Speaker 4: whether it be frozen or fresh. She didn't care.

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Speaker 1: Okay, look, I get.

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Speaker 3: This is very much for community.

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Speaker 1: It's a very tricky conversation to have because, you know,

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Speaker 1: mothers should be able to make their own choices for

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Speaker 1: their babies. But if you're getting breast milk Willy Milly

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Speaker 1: on a Facebook page you don't even know what is

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Speaker 1: what's the composition of that.

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Speaker 2: Breast milk could be cut with something?

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Speaker 1: You know, Tommy, how do you feel about sharing breast

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Speaker 1: milk or even women breastfeeding in public?

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Speaker 3: What you whip has handed you some sort of set

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Speaker 3: up question?

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Speaker 2: If I look silly, what do you have? Breastfeeding at all?

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Speaker 1: But in public?

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Speaker 3: In public?

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Speaker 2: What's why do you think women should not be able

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Speaker 2: to breastfeed?

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Speaker 3: Good? Good, really good?

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Speaker 2: I said to you.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I feel a bit awkward if I dart my

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Speaker 3: eyes and suddenly I'm looking at it. Well, not when

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Speaker 3: you're standing in meeting from them and you're staring straight

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Speaker 3: up just.

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Speaker 2: Feeding, tom It's giving life, mate.

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Speaker 1: That's something that says a lot more about you than

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Speaker 1: mother herself.

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Speaker 2: Let the children feed. You're really good. The future of

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Speaker 2: tomorrow feed.

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Speaker 1: Look at you differently now.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for your calls. You both in the running

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Speaker 3: for Tinko Dyne Maine. So are you? Tom You got

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Speaker 3: on there, gradual. Thank you first staring at women. You

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Speaker 3: could win ten thousand dollars.

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