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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. You're technically going with the flow. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: This was not planned.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I can go with the flow with you.

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Speaker 2: I'm breaking up with you.

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Speaker 1: I love you. I don't care. I never ever, I

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Speaker 3: I was scared a staff member had seen me or

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Speaker 3: something and like was gonna stop me. And it's definitely

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Speaker 3: on camera somewhere.

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Speaker 1: You didn't even like you didn't go get a staff

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Speaker 1: everyone and be like, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: I actually just Part two of Odie's experience in therapy.

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Speaker 2: Relatable the Relatables podcast is hosted by myself Forty Clark

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Speaker 2: aka Mummy and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig

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Speaker 2: aka Daddy or Big D something.

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Speaker 1: Like to call him. That's fucking go best fla call

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Speaker 1: met his girl frien.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I should start calling you little D, little D,

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Speaker 2: more accurate, more relatables.

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Speaker 1: As we gotta argue with that, I'll out here rep

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Speaker 1: the little d's. Don't you were about that? It's all

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Speaker 1: about the personality. You're a good little D's. It's all

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Speaker 1: about the personality. It's fucking guys, middle of summer. Is

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Speaker 1: the hottest day we've had.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's like thirty nine degrees. Jake is sweating.

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Speaker 1: We have an air con.

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Speaker 2: Have you been doing air Have you been doing aircorn?

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Speaker 2: Have you been doing cardio?

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Speaker 1: Mate? I fucking I just went down to the toilet

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Speaker 1: Have you doing cardio? No? Maybe should Oh yeah, maybe

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Speaker 1: I should have worked on that heart held. Oh it's

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Speaker 1: freaking insane. I don't even know what it is. I had,

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Speaker 1: maybe it's not agreeing with me? Tell you what the.

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Speaker 2: Heat's good for? What a heated argument there, let's fucking go.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm ready for it. Today's argue

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Speaker 2: is going to be going with the flow or planning

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Speaker 1: What do you want to argue going with the flow? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Really, maybe we don't even need to flip the coin.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I want to argue with the future. You're already arguing.

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Speaker 2: All right, how about you can call in the air.

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Speaker 2: I call all of them, so.

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Speaker 1: This is going okay, okay, ready, yeah, are you flip it?

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 1: Heads hails never fails, baby, you get to choose.

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Speaker 2: So I am arguing planning your future. And this is

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Speaker 2: in reference to when you're dating or seeing someone. A

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Speaker 1: Say, why do you have to think so far ahead?

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Fuck, what I want yours now? Yeah? Exactly. I

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Speaker 1: didn't know it was for this exactly, so fucking niche. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: That's the niche. I was going, Okay, you're going to

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Speaker 1: these on the spot, all right, Jake.

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Speaker 2: I have had another epiphany, yeah, recently, and I've been

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Speaker 2: Maybe because the argument's over, I'm going to say I

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Speaker 1: It was zero passion. I love you. There was zero passion.

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Speaker 2: I said, I break up with you, So I win

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Speaker 1: In a couple of months, I'll do it for you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like whatever, say all this nice shit, right, and then

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Speaker 1: Hey, well fucking see who messages?

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Speaker 2: Because I reckon that many people rely on that Facebook

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Speaker 1: how is your birthday? You went up to Queen's Land.

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Speaker 1: There was no traffic. It just took agent. What the fuck?

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Speaker 1: I know? You just went the wrong way, mate, We

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy some golf clubs.

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Speaker 1: That's a baddie's Facebook baddies you know. Yeah, I saw that, mate.

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Speaker 1: Those things are expensive. It was five hundred dollars. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was just like yeah, because you know, like trying

435
00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,119
Speaker 1: to save money and stuff. And then she went and

436
00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:08,800
Speaker 1: bought me this motherfucking thing. Yeah, very cool, very cool,

437
00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:10,280
Speaker 1: but it was a sick gift. I'm so excited. But

438
00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:12,480
Speaker 1: eighteen plus lego crazy, that's.

439
00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,760
Speaker 2: Mad man, what I wanted to talk about, because you

440
00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,800
Speaker 2: were just in Queensland it sort of makes sense of

441
00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:20,280
Speaker 2: what we're just talking about. Yeah, going with the flow

442
00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:22,359
Speaker 2: sort of is what we do with the podcast a

443
00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:25,760
Speaker 2: little bit, Yeah, or planning our future and what I've

444
00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,920
Speaker 2: been feeling a little bit recently, but also I don't

445
00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:31,920
Speaker 2: know how to feel at the moment. Is out growing

446
00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:33,240
Speaker 2: where we've grown up?

447
00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:35,560
Speaker 1: Yep, I want to argue with that. Mate.

448
00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:38,480
Speaker 2: I went to like our local shopping center, like the

449
00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:40,040
Speaker 2: big place where all the big shops are.

450
00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:43,560
Speaker 1: Yeah as a feather, Yeah, as a feather an affair,

451
00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:46,439
Speaker 1: and I was just walking around. I know, I go

452
00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:47,960
Speaker 1: there in the middle of the day because we record

453
00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,680
Speaker 1: it whatever how we want, and I was.

454
00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,200
Speaker 2: Just I don't know, there's something about it. I couldn't

455
00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,080
Speaker 2: explain the feeling. But I was looking at the people

456
00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:54,960
Speaker 2: and they're all old because where we live is from

457
00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:58,840
Speaker 2: like a very retirement based a lot living of over

458
00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:01,720
Speaker 2: fifties living. Yeah, and they're all like moving in slow motion,

459
00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:03,560
Speaker 2: which is each their own. I'm not judging them, but

460
00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,199
Speaker 2: I was thinking, like, is this where I want to be?

461
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,320
Speaker 2: And I couldn't describe the sensation that what I was feeling,

462
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,119
Speaker 2: but I was like, am I looking for more? Is

463
00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,080
Speaker 2: this what I want? And me and Jake have been

464
00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,840
Speaker 2: talking in the background. Jake messaged me and said he

465
00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:16,200
Speaker 2: wanted to talk about it in the background, Like fuck it,

466
00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 2: let's talk about it on the pot. I feel like

467
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:21,240
Speaker 2: it's relatable, yeah, And it's like we're thinking about moving

468
00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:24,600
Speaker 2: to a new place which is potentially more motivating and

469
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:25,639
Speaker 2: makes more sense.

470
00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:26,920
Speaker 1: For our lives. But it's scary.

471
00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:28,760
Speaker 2: It's so scary because it's good for you now because

472
00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:32,159
Speaker 2: your parents just moved to Queensland, but it's leaving my

473
00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,560
Speaker 2: parents but also where we grew up and our friends,

474
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,560
Speaker 2: and I know everyone does that, but it's still so scary.

475
00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:41,719
Speaker 1: It is. It is scary, but it's funny. So I

476
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,920
Speaker 1: was talking on the way home. We drove home yesterday

477
00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:49,680
Speaker 1: and on the way home, Joanna and Beth both we're

478
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 1: talking about it and like talking about how they were

479
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:56,840
Speaker 1: getting pretty keen, and then they both said they were like, oh,

480
00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 1: like would Audio, because I've told Beth that you would

481
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,159
Speaker 1: you would be keen to move to Queensland at some point, like,

482
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 1: I guess it's pretty You're right, go with the flow,

483
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:06,400
Speaker 1: like all of this is just kind of like at

484
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 1: some point, and Beth was like, oh, I do you

485
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:09,879
Speaker 1: reckon Oddie would be ready, and I was like, all

486
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 1: I did was ask him and see if he is.

487
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,159
Speaker 1: You know, it is a big move. But I was

488
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 1: talking to my cousin. He's like thirty seven right, his

489
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:22,320
Speaker 1: two kids, And it was on my birthday. We're having

490
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 1: a barbecue because him, my dad, and myself just out

491
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,919
Speaker 1: at the barbecue doing bro stuff, just cooking meat. And

492
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:30,879
Speaker 1: he was talking about he lives in Grafton, which is

493
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:32,880
Speaker 1: about three and a half hours south of the Gold Coast,

494
00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 1: but he loves the Gold Coast. He lived there for

495
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:37,359
Speaker 1: ten years blah blah blah. And he was talking about

496
00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,119
Speaker 1: how he always looks at jobs on the Gold Coast

497
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, he'd move there. Hopefully he'll move there soon.

498
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, if a job came out tomorrow,

499
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,399
Speaker 1: Like would you move tomorrow? He said nah, And I

500
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 1: said why And he had a good reason. They've moved

501
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:53,639
Speaker 1: around a lot for his work. His missus has just

502
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,679
Speaker 1: gotten into a career she really wants and she just

503
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 1: got a good job. He's like, this wouldn't be fair

504
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 1: to move again for me. The girls are about to

505
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,119
Speaker 1: start school. That's his twins, and my miss is about

506
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:03,400
Speaker 1: to start her career. So I was like, I want

507
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 1: to give her at least five years. I said, fair

508
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,880
Speaker 1: enough healthy And then he said, would I ever moved

509
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 1: to the Gold Coast? And I was like, yeah, actually

510
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. He goes, oh yeah, And I was like

511
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 1: he's like when and I was like, ah, he's like would,

512
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 1: He asked. He's like, would Audie be keen? I said yeah, yeah,

513
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:20,200
Speaker 1: he's keen. And so we've talked about it and he said,

514
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 1: well when he said no, a year in a bit,

515
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 1: it's always going to be a year and a bit.

516
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,679
Speaker 1: True always, because we have been saying that. I know

517
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 1: he's like, in a year and a bit, it's going

518
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,760
Speaker 1: to be another year in a bit. And then I

519
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,199
Speaker 1: told him this our whole like business plan thing that

520
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,359
Speaker 1: we have that we really want to do, and my

521
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,479
Speaker 1: dad was listening in and he was listening and I

522
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,119
Speaker 1: told him both this. I just like went on this

523
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: whole rant about what we want to do. And they

524
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: were like, fuck, that sounds hectic. That sounds so good.

525
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 1: They were like, this is the place for ship. Yeah,

526
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 1: I don't know. We've said we've spoken about it, but

527
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 1: like if we speak about it in depth, on here.

528
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 1: That's speaking it into existence and we have to do

529
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 1: something about it.

530
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, we are much like about talking about on here.

531
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 1: That means we have to do it. I told him

532
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 1: about this whole idea we have and they were just

533
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 1: like fuck yeah, So I guess what's I said, funds.

534
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,880
Speaker 2: You know, and then what's what's our thing is bad?

535
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 1: So I said, the biggest one will be the two

536
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 1: big ones will be coordinate, coordinating everyone, you know, because

537
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: you Cassie, Beth, myself.

538
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 2: It's hard because we're like a married coupleen we have

539
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 2: our marriage.

540
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: Yeah couple, so they're tied to us. So Beth is

541
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 1: tied to you even though she's not because she's tied

542
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 1: to me exactly. But so I said, the biggest one

543
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 1: is coordinating everything and funds. Yes, money, so the money,

544
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 1: which sucks, but you know, Dad was like, fuck, money's

545
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 1: always going to be an issue. Just to go take

546
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: the risk, Like fuck, Okay, your dad's always had a

547
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 1: ball of mindset. But I know he always has had

548
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 1: this ball of mindset and it all worked out for

549
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 1: it has just been so like he's had times where

550
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 1: were super poor and just fine with it. Well, our

551
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 1: biggest dilemma is the move's easy whatever finding a place.

552
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: I guess it's like, would you and I have separate

553
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: places and then also rent a studio which we get

554
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: double rent, which is a lot, or would we get

555
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 1: like a fucking beast house then split the rent between

556
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: four of us and then we also have a studio

557
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 1: and then we pay rent extra rent for the studio

558
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 1: and we like make a portable studio. It's all, Yeah,

559
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 1: it's fuck in. I feel like that could be a

560
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: cheaper option.

561
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 2: Or do we do the do we move there and

562
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 2: then start the business after we've already moved and then

563
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 2: we've got all the fucking moving parts ready.

564
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 1: It's fucking there's so much to think about, but it

565
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,640
Speaker 1: would just be I feel like you can't go wrong

566
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 1: being there. I have my cousin. You're gonna love what

567
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: he said. He was like, the best way to do

568
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 1: it get in the airbnb for two months. Yeah, I

569
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 1: was like, you will not. He speak the same language.

570
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: He said that a multiple times. To get an airbnb

571
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 1: for two months, hire a podcast studio, go up there

572
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 1: and just live in it and be on the Gold Coast. Yeah,

573
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 1: like as if you live and see if you like it,

574
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 1: but it's also like, I know we're gonna like it.

575
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 1: I know.

576
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 2: So here's also my personal dilemmas, which I think I

577
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: can overcome, but I think it's a bit scary and

578
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 2: it will force me to grow. Like half of my

579
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 2: personality is like that business grind mindset and you've got

580
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 2: to be in the hustle and bustle. But then the

581
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 2: other half of my personality is like I like to

582
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 2: be a mute. I like not seeing anyone. I like

583
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 2: going on the beach and getting a park and no

584
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 2: one being there. And I definitely know Queensland and the

585
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 2: Gold Coast is way better than Sydney, and I think

586
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 2: I'll find it. Yeah, I'll find my pace there. But

587
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 2: also I do want to somehow hold my mute independent,

588
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 2: Like I like nature and put on National Park, like

589
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,679
Speaker 2: the National Park where no one is Like, but I

590
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 2: think I'd need to grow and go somewhere else first

591
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 2: and do that for a couple of years. And I'm like,

592
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 2: you know what, I've talked to a lot of people

593
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 2: and like, I think we've got to do this and grow.

594
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 2: But also once we do that, I think we'll also

595
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 2: appreciate this place so much more.

596
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're right. Yeah, my parents are loving it up there.

597
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: A couple of things I'll say about those two things,

598
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 1: even you said you can have come. When I was

599
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:06,959
Speaker 1: just up there, I made the conscious decision. I was like, Okay,

600
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 1: if I ever move here, I will be getting a

601
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:14,719
Speaker 1: place that is far enough away where I don't have

602
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: to be able to walk to the beach, but I

603
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 1: will It needs to be a bike ride to the beach.

604
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 1: But that's not even because of like how close I

605
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 1: wanted to be to the beach. I would be a

606
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:26,360
Speaker 1: driving distance from the beach. I don't care. But it's

607
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: the parking situation that was a bit tricky. So basically

608
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: I think the best way to overcome that is make

609
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: it so you can just ride a bike to the beach,

610
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: because then you don't even have to worry about a part.

611
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,439
Speaker 2: Well, we could get scooters potentially able to figure out

612
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 2: that it is no I need to look into that.

613
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 1: He didn't have a fucking my cousin said he'd have

614
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: a scootered, but he didn't have one. Yeah, and then the nature.

615
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: All you gotta do is go west twenty minutes and

616
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: there's nature, true, and there's like all new like good

617
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: camping spots.

618
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just so scary, man, It's so scared. But

619
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: also I want to do it so much. And then

620
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 2: it's also a lot of money. And then like we

621
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 2: save money living here, but I feel like that's a

622
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 2: cop out that my brain's is a good point, Like,

623
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 2: and then do we just like make a plan, like

624
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 2: we say, like January first, next year we want to

625
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 2: be there or something, and then we plan around it

626
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: or something like that.

627
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 1: I don't know.

628
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 2: It's such a tough, tricky dilemma, which I think is relatable. Yeah, No,

629
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,959
Speaker 2: it's it's a good problem to have, so anyone out

630
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 2: there who's done it, because I think so many people

631
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 2: have had this exact dilemma, Like what made you make

632
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 2: that leap of faith?

633
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:21,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good question. I think it's a good

634
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 1: problem to have.

635
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 2: Though, Well, it's a great problem to have because I

636
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 2: know a lot of people don't have the luxury of

637
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 2: our job being so mobile, which is really good. And

638
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 2: we do make somewhat enough money to have these decisions,

639
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 2: which is really grateful.

640
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,159
Speaker 1: I think like the best probably like the best thing

641
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: we could do. Right, I was looking at rentals. It's

642
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 1: a little cheaper than Sydney kind of like here, yeah,

643
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: or like you'll get something decent for like six fifty, right,

644
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: But do you buy a commercial piece of something you

645
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: and do our plan? You put our studio in there,

646
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 1: and then you build another one that you rent out

647
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 1: and teach people how to podcast. All people that know

648
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: how to podcast already, great, come, we know how to produce.

649
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: We teach someone to produce, and then like good d

650
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 1: and then it's like you would start off slow, but

651
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 1: then like you would probably just be scathing by for

652
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 1: a while. Once it gets a bit more known that

653
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: there's a fucking new podcast studio that knows how to

654
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: do it properly, these boys, people are going to start

655
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: hiring it out. You build one more. You've got two

656
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: always hired out, and we have hours that we keep

657
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: as ours and you have a little cafe, sell merch.

658
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: And then the other dilemma two living together do you reckon?

659
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: Because we've lived together in the past, and we would

660
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 1: personally think we should live separately.

661
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 2: That's what I was going to say, because like we

662
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 2: all often have the thing like don't say that, don't

663
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 2: talk to me, yeah exactly, yeah, yeah, yeah, I personally

664
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: think we should live separate. That's that's more money to

665
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: get true. But I don't know if we want the

666
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 2: girls to like live together as well as forcing them to. Yeah,

667
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 2: you know, they'd probably get along, but they'd be fine.

668
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: But still it's good. Yeah, you just want to have

669
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 2: your own space. But very very tricky and relatable.

670
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 1: It is relatable. So anyone that's moved it stinds to

671
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 1: a new city. Let's look into all those options and

672
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: maybe in a month or so we'll come back with

673
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: a little bit more of a plan. Yeah, no, I

674
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: like that, Jake.

675
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 2: Do you know what one thing is I love about

676
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 2: the relatables? What's that is that we are here, there

677
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 2: and everywhere. Ah, we're deep yep, maybe a little bit intellectual,

678
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 2: maybe can be courtesy with me. And then we also

679
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 2: like to throw a curveball, have some fun. Yes, that's

680
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 2: what we're doing in this next segment. Confession sessions are

681
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 2: making a return for twenty twenty five. Baby, what's the

682
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 2: prop Jake?

683
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 1: When you gotta go, you gotta go as always, as always,

684
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: we've got to start the year with a bang of

685
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 1: these confession sessions and we have two lovely calls. Yes,

686
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: So let's get straight into it.

687
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 3: Hello.

688
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 2: Hello, welcome to confession session.

689
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 1: How are you going?

690
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:56,959
Speaker 3: I'm great?

691
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: How are you?

692
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 2: I am going great? I am joined by Jake. Hello,

693
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 2: thanks for coming on. We're excited to hear your story.

694
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 3: That's the most excited I've ever read about anything in

695
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 3: my whole mind.

696
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: Let's go. That's good, that's good, let's go.

697
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 2: So first things first is would you like to be anonymous?

698
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: No, it's all right, so we can use your name. Hello,

699
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: Hadn very nice to meet you. Is that short for Hannah?

700
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, Tannahs. But my friends call me hands either,

701
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 3: you know.

702
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, we love Australians love a good nickname, so I'll

703
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: stick with Hands. Where are you calling from.

704
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 3: I'm in Salem, Oregon, actually in the United States?

705
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 2: Oh nice, long way, long way away.

706
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. We've spent some time in the States

707
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: for about about ten days in LA.

708
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: Could call us locals, could call us locals. But you

709
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 2: have a story. When you got to go, you got

710
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 2: to go. And when I say don't leave out any details,

711
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 2: maybe do if you want, but.

712
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: It's up to you.

713
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 2: Take it from the top and we'll interact.

714
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 3: Awesome, Okay, So for I'm nineteen now, so this is

715
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 3: about three years ago when I was like sixteen and

716
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 3: I was house sitting for my best friends when a

717
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 3: friend of mine who had like moved away a few

718
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 3: years earlier, told me that he was going to be

719
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 3: in town and wanted to schedule a time to hang out.

720
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:31,479
Speaker 3: And so not like that, no guys, just friends. We

721
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 3: weren't best friends or anything. I literally got to anyway,

722
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 3: And so we scheduled the time to hang out with

723
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 3: another one of our friends, who also happened to be

724
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 3: a guy cool. And they came to the house that

725
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 3: I was staying at and we decided to go get

726
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 3: some drinks and like coffee or boba, I don't remember

727
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 3: what it was, but and then go to an arcade

728
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 3: because they're boys like boys things. And I was like, yeah, whatever,

729
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 3: I'm just here for the ride. And I I had

730
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 3: just gotten my license and I really wanted to drive

731
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 3: because I love my car, and and so I ended

732
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 3: up driving all three of us to coffee and then

733
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 3: the arcade, and I decided it was a brilliant idea

734
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 3: to get a large drink because I am a drink girly.

735
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 1: What happened? Everything's checking out here?

736
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so we go into the arcade and we're

737
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 3: hanging out for a bit, punning around, playing a few

738
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 3: different games, and then we spotted the Laser Tag a

739
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 3: rita and we had to play because laser tag is

740
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 3: just the best thing known to man.

741
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 2: I suck it until I was like twelve.

742
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: I suck at it, but go on.

743
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 3: That's totally okay. I love laser Tag and I also

744
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 3: had it played since I was like twelve, and I

745
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 3: was like, we have to, so we did, and so

746
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 3: we were a few rounded and we were just having

747
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 3: a black It was so cheap there. So we played

748
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 3: like five rounds and at the beginning of like the

749
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 3: last round, I started to kind of have to pee

750
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 3: a little bit. That was like, no, it's totally fine,

751
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 3: Like we're about to start. I don't want to make

752
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 3: them wait. I can hold it. And so we go

753
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 3: in and everything's going great and we're having fun. We're

754
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 3: running around, and then I really have to pee, and

755
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 3: so at this point I'm split up from my friends

756
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 3: and I'm sprinting around the arena trying not to pee

757
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 3: myself and looking for the staff member to let me

758
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 3: out because he said to find him if we needed anything,

759
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 3: and I lobviously, well I thought so and so, like

760
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 3: I obviously needed something, and so I was like sprinting

761
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 3: around trying to find him. But then eventually I could

762
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 3: run no longer, and I was waddling around, like clenching

763
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 3: my legs together, trying so hard not to peek. Yeah. No,

764
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 3: there were little tiny like ten year olds like shooting me,

765
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 3: I know, and like I like, how oh. I yelled

766
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 3: so many things at those kids that day, but it

767
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 3: was like I was like, no, I think I pushed

768
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,439
Speaker 3: one of them out of the way, like I was.

769
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 3: I was not having it. And so eventually I can't

770
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:35,720
Speaker 3: find this guy, and I feel it like it's about

771
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 3: to come and I'm like, this is not happening. I'm

772
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 3: sixteen years old. Hold it in, and I just sprint

773
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 3: to the exit and with all of my strength like

774
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 3: trying to bust down that door. And that's when like

775
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 3: it just started to come out of me. And I

776
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 3: got through the door, and like he is just streaming

777
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 3: down my legs and it's literally everywhere I'm in, like

778
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,760
Speaker 3: the room where they give you your vests and your guns,

779
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 3: and there's a puddle at my feet and so and

780
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 3: so I throw off the vest in the gun. It

781
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 3: was probably on the floor or something, not even where

782
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 3: it was supposed to go. And I'm like, this is

783
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 3: not happening. And I sprint to the bathroom and I

784
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 3: said down, and I let out everything I have left,

785
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 3: which is not much like when I'm saying I seen myself.

786
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 3: I peed myself and my shoes, my sucks, my eyes

787
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 3: in shorts, like everything is soaked and like drenched. When

788
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 3: I walked, They're squeaking noises like, oh who it was?

789
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 3: It was really bad. And so I start panicking because

790
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, what am I going to tell my friends?

791
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 3: I can't tell them that I just peed myself, especially

792
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,760
Speaker 3: because like they're my guy friends and we're not that close,

793
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 3: like they're just like friends that I knew from school,

794
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 3: like we were good enough friends like hang out, you know.

795
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 3: And so I was like I kept tell them I

796
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 3: just feed myself. And so I texted them. I was like, hey,

797
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 3: I just threw up in the bathroom and I'm really

798
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 3: sick and like I need to leave. And they were like,

799
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, are you okay? And I was like yeah, bro,

800
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 3: like I'm fine, let's just go. And so they were

801
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 3: finished up around and I like dried myself off and

802
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 3: everything as much as I could, which was no use

803
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 3: because like I said, I was literally soaking wet. Yeah,

804
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 3: and I basically when they say they're ready to go,

805
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 3: I basically ran out of there because I was scared

806
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 3: a staff member had seen me or something and like

807
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 3: was going to stop me. And it's definitely on camera somewhere.

808
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 1: You didn't even like you didn't go get a stuff

809
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 1: everyone and be like I'm sorry, sorry, I actually just

810
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: went myself. No.

811
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,800
Speaker 3: No, there was a huge puddle in like the waiting

812
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 3: area and I left it because I was not about

813
00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 3: to go confess to that because that's the worst thing ever.

814
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 2: That's what did your friends say when? Because was there

815
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 2: like any they had to know? Did they say your pants?

816
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 2: We was so pants?

817
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 3: B you guys, I'm not even good. Just wait, but

818
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 3: it's nothing like anyway. Okay, So we get to the

819
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:21,240
Speaker 3: car and I had a blanket in the back seat

820
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 3: because I drove them, and so I wrapped myself in

821
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 3: the blanket and I go if and they're like they're

822
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 3: giving me RealD looks, and I was like, well, it's

823
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 3: in case I throw up, Like I'll throw up on

824
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 3: the blanket and not on myself for like my car,

825
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 3: and they're like, yeah, okay, do you want me to drive?

826
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 3: And I was like no, we like it's fine because

827
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,760
Speaker 3: it was because I got like I had just gotten

828
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 3: this new car like I was sixteen. I was not

829
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 3: letting anybody else drive my cars anyway. And so we

830
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 3: get back to the house and I wait for them

831
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 3: to get out of the car just in case, and

832
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 3: thank goodness I did because when I got out, I

833
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 3: have cloth seats, massive wet puddle where my bubble is

834
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 3: absolutely soaked through even the blanket, like massive wet puddle

835
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 3: like underneath me. And I was like, if they saw that,

836
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 3: I'm done for anyway. And so we get out of

837
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 3: the car and they're saying by and of course my

838
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 3: friend from out of town wants a hug because he's like,

839
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 3: he doesn't know when we're going to see each other again,

840
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 3: and so I give him a hug, and I was.

841
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:29,800
Speaker 1: Like, please, don't feel weekly.

842
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:33,439
Speaker 3: Don't feel me, you know, like, and it's been three

843
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 3: years and they've never said a word.

844
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 1: You haven't spoken to them since.

845
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 3: I have not spoken to them about that day since.

846
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 3: And I bet you they know because I bet you

847
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 3: they saw my pea puddle in the arena and they

848
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 3: just never said anything to me embarrassing and and.

849
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: I just yeah, so basically you messaged them saying you're

850
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:02,319
Speaker 1: sick and you're like vomiting, but yeah, I left. You're

851
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 1: the only one that's left. And there was a massive

852
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: pea puddle and the and your vestity grand so we're

853
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 1: like tall you. What I would have done.

854
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 2: I would have said like something like those little kids

855
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 2: are so annoying. One of them came into a water

856
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 2: pistol and went him and their mom like got super

857
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 2: angry and dragged her.

858
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: Should have just been like one of these kids just

859
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 1: fucking pissed on me.

860
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 4: That's so smart.

861
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,439
Speaker 3: I was not in my right state of mind.

862
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: You never in that situation. You never and was there

863
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:34,760
Speaker 1: at any point in time where you were just like, oh,

864
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 1: the floodgates are open. I'm just gonna let it happen.

865
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like in the arena, like when I got somewhere

866
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 3: the laser tag area, like the where you keep the

867
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 3: vest and stuff, I was like, it's not stopping now.

868
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 1: You suffered the most.

869
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's definitely cameras in there. There's definitely cameras in

870
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:55,240
Speaker 3: there and there's me peeing myself on a Wonderland arcade

871
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 3: camera somewhere.

872
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 2: They are so sorry for your Those friends are probably

873
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 2: like experienced, why a blanket?

874
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: I know my blanket part is like so genius.

875
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 2: Well, and thank you very much for coming on and

876
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 2: sorry that happened to you.

877
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: Well a bit. At least I got to come on here.

878
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

879
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 3: That's okay, Thank you guys so much. I love you

880
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 3: so much. I'm want Patreon and I look forward to

881
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 3: every week's episode.

882
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you so much.

883
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, byeh what a legend that is.

884
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,320
Speaker 1: That's a good story, to be fair, Yeah, it's a

885
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: good story. It's unfortunate that the friends haven't spoken to us.

886
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 2: I think we's better than Pooh.

887
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 1: I think I think I would prefer to weigh myself

888
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 1: and put myself obviously. Yeah. Yeah, but you know what

889
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: I actually find is I when you're holding like I

890
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: would prefer to hold in a Pooh than a Wii. Yeah,

891
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,240
Speaker 1: it's like you can hold it better driving home. Driving

892
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: home needed a Wii and we were like twenty two minutes.

893
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: I remember, it's like clearly twenty minutes from the nearest

894
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: place to Wi and I was like, oh, this is

895
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: going to be the hardest twenty two minutes of my life.

896
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 1: When I feel like when you need to wei, it's

897
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: like you need to wei.

898
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 2: But also one thing we never have to like comprehend.

899
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 2: I know, girls can pop a squad, but like realistically,

900
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 2: in the public, like nature, we can pee anywhere.

901
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,800
Speaker 1: I was at God's Kids. You know a big banana

902
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 1: Cops Harbor. Yeah, if you guys are from Australia, it's

903
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: just like this place where I don't know it's the

904
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 1: big banana. Yeah, everyone knows that it went stopped there,

905
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: didn't We got a drink, was walking back out. There's

906
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: toilets ten meters to my left, to my right, seven

907
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 1: year old kid just pissing in the book. There's like

908
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 1: four hundred people around. It's a full attraction. And he

909
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: full made eye contact with me and just doubled down

910
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: and kept pissing. He was like maybe pants down to

911
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: his ankles and everything.

912
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 2: Before we started, like, I just pissed in the bush outside.

913
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's where whenever we need to piss, we

914
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: just run out of the bushit We don't even go

915
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: to the house. All right.

916
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 2: We got one more story. Let's go shut up, Jacinottie.

917
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 1: We are hijacking the next couple of seconds of this episode.

918
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: This is jac and Ottie from Patreon. Patreon. Sign up

919
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: to Patreon because that is where most of the fun happens.

920
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,280
Speaker 1: That's where all the fun happens. We can't get canceled.

921
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 2: The episodes are just so much fun and we're building

922
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 2: the baddie community.

923
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 1: How much is it, Jake? It's five dollars a month.

924
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 1: You know how much that is a week? A dollar

925
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: twenty five a week? How much is that a day?

926
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 1: Seventeen cents a day.

927
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 2: Go run your money to Patreon because we love you

928
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 2: and it lets us be able to do this for

929
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 2: a living. And the episodes are really good. We hope

930
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 2: it's good.

931
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:35,760
Speaker 1: Value anyway, Thanks guys, enjoy the rest of the episode. Hello, Hello, Hello,

932
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: welcome to Confession Session. Sorry we didn't we thought we

933
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: didn't have you there for a second. How's it going good?

934
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 3: How are you.

935
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: Doing really well? I would like to start off by

936
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: asking if you would like to be anonymous.

937
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 4: I should probably say anonymous.

938
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: Easy peasy. So I've got all you some of my

939
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:52,919
Speaker 1: left here. So hey, aud you say hi.

940
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 2: Hey, I haven't done this for a while. I feel nervous.

941
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 1: Have you got a name that you would like, have

942
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: always wanted to be called? Or do you want us

943
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: to choose a name for you? You can choose one, I said,

944
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 1: it's a little bit of an accent. Where are you

945
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 1: calling from? I might help pick the name.

946
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 4: I'm from Vancouver, Canada, Vancouver, Canada.

947
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: My sister is going to be fine in Vancouver series.

948
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 2: I only know one Canadian girl, but we did that

949
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,399
Speaker 2: last time. What's a mad Canadian girl name?

950
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: I mean? Joanna? Yes, this is the one. We'll go

951
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:21,919
Speaker 1: with Joanna Joan again.

952
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 2: All right, Joanna, fuck it, let's go Joanna.

953
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 1: Your name can be Joanna. So you've got to when

954
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: you go, when you got to go, you've got to go.

955
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 1: Story for us, I do, alrighty, well, take it from

956
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 1: the top, don't leave out any details, and Oddie and

957
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 1: I will ask some questions if needed. But yeah, take it,

958
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:40,400
Speaker 1: take it away.

959
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 4: Okay, sounds good. So just for context of why this

960
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 4: story kind of happened, I just got diagnosed with crones

961
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 4: to so basically, your girl's got mega tummy issues.

962
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 1: Nice, Mike, I have a cousin with crones so I

963
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:53,840
Speaker 1: don't know how you feel, but I know what it

964
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 1: looks like when someone's going through it.

965
00:43:56,640 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not fun. But anyways, one day I was

966
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 4: finishing up at work and I kind of had a

967
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 4: feeling that I probably needed to use the washroom soon,

968
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,399
Speaker 4: but I decided it could wait till I got home

969
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 4: because I only live about like fifteen ten fifteen minutes

970
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 4: away from work, and so it's pretty quick drive and

971
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 4: then you know, I could go in the comfort of

972
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 4: my own home.

973
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 1: Kay.

974
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:28,959
Speaker 4: Yeah, But midway through my drive, I kind of felt

975
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:30,840
Speaker 4: like I had to let one rip and decided to

976
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 4: trust this part. But rookie mistake. I ended up sitting

977
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 4: myself while in my car and I still had like

978
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:44,439
Speaker 4: five minutes left until I got home. I have never

979
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 4: driven home so fast before in my life. So and

980
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 4: so when I got home, I literally just like random

981
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 4: side and I was like yelling at my family just

982
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 4: moved out of the way. I was like I got

983
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 4: to feel really bad, like I could, and so I

984
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 4: like ran upstairs once in the bathroom like throw that

985
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,399
Speaker 4: para bunder where I like took a shower, did then

986
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:12,320
Speaker 4: everything like clean myself. Yeah, and then I took the

987
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:14,839
Speaker 4: bathroom garbage like, I took it down, took it out

988
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 4: to the garage and threw it away in the trash

989
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 4: band and just acted like nothing happened.

990
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get rid of the evidence.

991
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:23,800
Speaker 2: Did the clothes exactly?

992
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 4: I wasn't luck when I was wearing a liner that day,

993
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 4: so it wasn't like too bad. Okay, so I didn't

994
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 4: get like everyone, but you know, I did a little

995
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 4: laundry immediately.

996
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: So many questions.

997
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,840
Speaker 2: I picked this one because I think it's so relatable,

998
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 2: like everyone has this story.

999
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've been. I've I've been drive nearly proved

1000
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 1: myself in the car, but I got to my house

1001
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 1: and was walking up the driveway and that's when I

1002
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 1: did it, So I know what it feels like to

1003
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 1: need to go when you're in the cars. Relatable. I

1004
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: would like to point out one thing. When you do

1005
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 1: pooh yourself, there is lots more There's a lot more

1006
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 1: liquid than you think, and even if you have layers,

1007
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 1: it gets through all of them. Did you experience this?

1008
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 4: I did not. The liners I was wearing soaked up

1009
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 4: most of it. So as a girl, I was really lucky,

1010
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 4: thank goodness. But the story does get worse though, it

1011
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,879
Speaker 4: like to make matters worse. It was I really really

1012
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 4: hot summer day, and so and that same week, my

1013
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 4: dad had gone fishing, and so he had kind of

1014
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 4: like thrown out all the fish cuts in the garbage

1015
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 4: and the garage as well, And for that entire week

1016
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,399
Speaker 4: he just kept complaining about how bad it came out

1017
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 4: in the garage. She's like, oh, that fish smells so bad.

1018
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 4: And I was like, yeah, definitely the fish and not

1019
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:34,279
Speaker 4: my ship filled under it in the garbage, and I

1020
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 4: just I was just too embarrassed the company and I

1021
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 4: just I.

1022
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: Just couldn't don't it's so funny? Wow?

1023
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 4: But yeah, and so now I'm just to the damn

1024
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 4: I'm scared to trust the part ever really again, in

1025
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:54,280
Speaker 4: case I short myself again, did did they?

1026
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 1: Did anyone ever end up finding out?

1027
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 4: I did end up only recently confessing to my dad

1028
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 4: since it happened. I did tell my sister when it

1029
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 4: happened to you, because she kind of knows everything already.

1030
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 4: But I only recently told my dad the past couple

1031
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 4: of weeks. But it's just like from months ago that

1032
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 4: it happened.

1033
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: You're going to tell him, Yeah, you got to tell

1034
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: him later on.

1035
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 2: I feel like Jake had the exact same thing, Like

1036
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 2: he didn't tell me his story of shooting himself to

1037
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:16,439
Speaker 2: like a year later.

1038
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:18,760
Speaker 1: No, No, I waited like four years.

1039
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 2: It's like a secret you take to your grave.

1040
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: Eye. Yeah, I thought I thought I was going to

1041
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: take that to my grave, and then I was just like, Oh,

1042
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: the content's too good, I have to tell it. But

1043
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: oh man, I'm trying to think glass half full. As

1044
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 1: Otti would say, at least you were in the car

1045
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 1: on your own. Yeah, and you had the you were

1046
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 1: nearly home, like that is true.

1047
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 4: It could have been worse.

1048
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, thank you so much for coming on, Joanna.

1049
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, thank you so much for having me.

1050
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 1: Have a good have a good day or good night. Really,

1051
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:50,800
Speaker 1: wouldn't it be you're not.

1052
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a six o'clock, we're here.

1053
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 1: Have a good night. Thank you for coming on. Thank you.

1054
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 4: See yah, thanks so much you guys.

1055
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 1: Bye.

1056
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 2: Why I say it's time to normalize every shots?

1057
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, everyone has definitely done something like that.

1058
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, send in your stories, but you've got to go

1059
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 2: You've got to go to the Google doc.

1060
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. If you want to send in a confessional

1061
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: session of when you've got to go, you gotta go

1062
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: send them in. Yeah, this is the most reoccurring confess.

1063
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: This is definitely the most recurrent theme. You can send

1064
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,280
Speaker 1: any theme if you want to confess anything. But yeah,

1065
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: we we have we ever had some confessed cheating on

1066
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,399
Speaker 1: their boyfriend or girlfriend. I want to do a whole

1067
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: segment on that. We're kind of scary.

1068
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 2: We have to get a way to do it where

1069
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:26,879
Speaker 2: it's not like voice changer, No, not in voice changes,

1070
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: just not toxic ones. Yeah, like like I don't know,

1071
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 2: I would have to figure out a way.

1072
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 1: I will think of something.

1073
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,439
Speaker 2: All right, Jake, I'm excited to talk about this next.

1074
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: Part, mate, I'm fucking excited.

1075
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 2: And this is part two of Otie's experience in therapy. Yes,

1076
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:49,880
Speaker 2: so I once again, like I said, went back to therapy,

1077
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 2: and before I talk about it, let's play my before

1078
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 2: mindset before.

1079
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:55,800
Speaker 1: I went to my session.

1080
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 2: Okay, round two. I'm out in the front of the

1081
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 2: therapist once again, and this time slightly nervous, not nearly

1082
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 2: as much I would say last time I said on

1083
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 2: the podcast, I think I was seven or an eight

1084
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 2: hour ten nervous wise, now I'm like a two, but

1085
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 2: I think I'm in a good place to actually take

1086
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 2: in the information. The first time I was a bit

1087
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 2: overwhelmed and it went really quickly.

1088
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:19,479
Speaker 1: It was still good.

1089
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 2: But now I feel like I'm at a level head

1090
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,760
Speaker 2: and I feel like I'm comfortable enough to talk about

1091
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:28,240
Speaker 2: my feelings. I know the guy like this one should

1092
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 2: be a lot better and I should be able to

1093
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 2: take in all the information and hopefully come away with

1094
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,399
Speaker 2: a couple of tools or have some good stimulating conversations

1095
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 2: that make me think. But yeah, so I'm about to

1096
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: go in. We've got about five to ten minutes, and

1097
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 2: I'm thinking to start talking about Actually, I had a

1098
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 2: pretty traumatic thing happened with my dog last night. I

1099
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,319
Speaker 2: thought he was going to pass away and didn't get

1100
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 2: much sleep. That might come up in conversation. We'll see

1101
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 2: what happens. But otherwise, my biggest problem right now is

1102
00:49:56,640 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 2: having trouble shutting off from work life balance. But otherwise, yeah,

1103
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 2: I've been a much better place walking in there, and

1104
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 2: I think we should have some good combos.

1105
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: Let's see how it goes. So is there an after?

1106
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 1: There is an al?

1107
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,280
Speaker 2: Shit, there is an after? So we did talk about

1108
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 2: my dog. Just want to preface before we go on

1109
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 2: a further Berry is fine.

1110
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 1: How's he going. He's fine, He's back to his normal stuff.

1111
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 1: The very old dog. And we thought we had to

1112
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,240
Speaker 1: put him down. He was freaking out at night, just had.

1113
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 2: Like a brain aneurysm or a stroke or something apparently,

1114
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 2: and we thought we're gonna have to put him down.

1115
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: But he's okay. Everybody good. So I'm okay, good good, And.

1116
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 2: Here is the after Already Round two is done. And

1117
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 2: I got to say it, like from my personal experience,

1118
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: I do feel really good walking out of there. It's interesting.

1119
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: I was thinking about it when we were in there.

1120
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 2: It might be cool to try with your friends or

1121
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 2: anything like that. Just sitting down. As humans, we always

1122
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,319
Speaker 2: have to be doing something in the background when we're

1123
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 2: talking to someone. We're eating, we're driving, we're walking, we're

1124
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 2: going to the gym.

1125
00:50:58,400 --> 00:50:59,280
Speaker 1: We're doing something.

1126
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 2: To actually sit down and have a conversation with a person,

1127
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:04,839
Speaker 2: like for an hour. I know I do it with Jake,

1128
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 2: but that's different because with the podcast. But sit down

1129
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 2: with a person and consciously make the decision to talk

1130
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 2: to each other and be fully enveloped by the conversations

1131
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 2: without doing anything else is such an enriching experience. I

1132
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 2: think it's like it really like just makes you feel human.

1133
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,439
Speaker 2: But today's session was really good. He made a really

1134
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 2: good analogy actually, which I really liked because I said

1135
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:27,400
Speaker 2: I was going in there with no purpose or direction,

1136
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 2: really wanted to see what happened. Did talk about my dog,

1137
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 2: and it was good just to like talk about how

1138
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 2: I felt. But he more so said it's interesting for

1139
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 2: him as well, because most people that come in and

1140
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 2: have an underlying problem and they want to figure it out.

1141
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: It's more so this is the analogy you gave. It's

1142
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 1: pretty funny.

1143
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 2: Actually, It's like I've opened up my doors to my

1144
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 2: house and I'm giving him a tour, and there's no

1145
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:49,919
Speaker 2: direction in the tour, and it's sort of like walk

1146
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 2: through a room and say, hey can I clean.

1147
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: Up these things? Or hey, could I fix this?

1148
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 2: And there's no real problem with the house, but it's

1149
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 2: anything I could do to improve, like tidy up and

1150
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 2: neaten up the edges, which is kind of cool and

1151
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 2: pretty accurate for the reason I go to therapy. And

1152
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 2: a couple of the edges we're talking about today was like,

1153
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 2: how can I turn off at night?

1154
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 1: We talked about meditation and a couple of.

1155
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:14,879
Speaker 2: Tips or how to like enjoy the present moment, and

1156
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 2: it was really enriching experience. And it's just cool to

1157
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 2: talk to someone and get a different perspective from someone

1158
00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 2: you're not friends with and don't have any sort.

1159
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,040
Speaker 1: Of like ties too.

1160
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:28,800
Speaker 2: But yeah, overall very happy again, Like my experience is

1161
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 2: good and I'll go back in a month.

1162
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:34,720
Speaker 1: Shit. Yeah, that's a good analogy. It was a great analogy.

1163
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 1: When he said it to me, I'm like, you just

1164
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: spat a bar mat. It's like someone's invited me in

1165
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,399
Speaker 1: and they just kind of they don't even know where

1166
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: they're going exactly.

1167
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 2: And like as we're talking, he sort of realizes.

1168
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:49,320
Speaker 1: Oh, that room's a bit dirty.

1169
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, have you tried this or lets you talk a

1170
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 2: little bit more about that. I'm like, oh, I didn't

1171
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 2: think about that, And like I didn't think about that.

1172
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 2: And I was like, I didn't realize that room was

1173
00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 2: that dirty. And it's also good too, because I don't

1174
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 2: know which rooms are dirty in my house. Sometimes I

1175
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 2: think that's a lot of people's problems. Yeah I can't

1176
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 2: see him, You've shut the door, but the problem is

1177
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:09,399
Speaker 2: still there.

1178
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 1: And he festering.

1179
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, although it might not be the perfect time to

1180
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,840
Speaker 2: open the door, he helps you open and realize those

1181
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 2: problems can be solved in a certain way. And like

1182
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,799
Speaker 2: I said, it was a great experience, and like the

1183
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 2: second time around, I'm way better going in there, and

1184
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 2: like chatting wasn't nervous at all, and then my sweaty

1185
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 2: palms and he's Yeah, it's such a cool different experience

1186
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:36,280
Speaker 2: I've ever experienced as a human, Like I said, because

1187
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,240
Speaker 2: like when you talk to your friends or vent to anyone,

1188
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 2: even your friends, your family and anything like that, we're.

1189
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: Always doing something.

1190
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:42,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't just sit down and look two people

1191
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 2: in the eye less. Why don't in my life that

1192
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 2: Even with my girlfriend we watched TV. We occasionally do

1193
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 2: it on a date and she's the only person who

1194
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 2: I do that with. But like with your girlfriend, you

1195
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 2: always but we're still eating on a date. Like, you

1196
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:55,719
Speaker 2: don't just sit there and the only thing you do

1197
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,399
Speaker 2: is get the water when you need because you're talking

1198
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 2: so much. And it's such a human experience and although

1199
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 2: you have to fucking pay for it, it's a really

1200
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:03,160
Speaker 2: good experience.

1201
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: Where fair Man maybe therapy, maybe they just like, let's

1202
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 1: just say I don't know randomly. Take JJ for example,

1203
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 1: right if you just like booked in a time with him,

1204
00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 1: and you guys booked in a time where you both

1205
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: knew that you were going to go down and sit

1206
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 1: down and talk for a full hour, and then like

1207
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: whatever came from that chat, neither neither one of you

1208
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: we're going to talk about any of it outside, like

1209
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: you had a pact. Yeah, Like would that be as

1210
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: useful as therapy? I think? So maybe that makes me

1211
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: think though, maybe like, so let's say you're worried about

1212
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 1: a friend. We like, is it crazy to call up

1213
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:47,799
Speaker 1: a friend and be like, not say that you're worried

1214
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 1: about them, but just be like, oh, like let's hang

1215
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 1: out and have a chat and not like literally don't

1216
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: even know what about Like we'll just start talking and

1217
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: see what happens, like just to find out if probably

1218
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: there's probably so much you don't even know about your

1219
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:02,840
Speaker 1: close friends.

1220
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 2: And I think it's so good when you have no

1221
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:08,359
Speaker 2: other distractions and like you don't go on your phone,

1222
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:09,840
Speaker 2: you don't do anything, and you're just there in the

1223
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 2: conversation and it's such a different thing. We get the

1224
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 2: sort of experience on here because when you're consciously thinking

1225
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 2: about the conversation and your next answers, you're more enveloped

1226
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 2: by the conversation. And I'm in it with you, like

1227
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:24,240
Speaker 2: I'm in this conversation right now with you one hundred percent.

1228
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,359
Speaker 2: But in my day to day life, like even when

1229
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 2: my parents talk to me, like I'm doing it, I'm cooking,

1230
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 2: I'm fucking on my phone, I'm not in that conversation.

1231
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 2: Maybe that's something I can reflect on and get better

1232
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 2: at two and maybe just put everything down and like, oh,

1233
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 2: my mum's talking to me, I'm gonna talk to her.

1234
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:41,760
Speaker 1: What was I fucking watching? Man? I was watching something, Okay,

1235
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 1: I think it was. There's a podcast called Brook and

1236
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: conn and make a podcast from La from America. And

1237
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: he was talking about how he was in Amsterdam somewhere right,

1238
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 1: and he was young. His dad traveled a lot because

1239
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: he was in the army, and he went to Amsterdam

1240
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 1: a lot, and he had a coffee shop. He went

1241
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 1: to a lot, right, and he goes to the coffee

1242
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 1: shop and he orders a takeaway coffee or so or

1243
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 1: he orders the coffee, it doesn't come in take away,

1244
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: and he goes, oh, I actually I wanted that. I

1245
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 1: wanted that one in takeaway, and the brista goes, just

1246
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:20,799
Speaker 1: sit down and drink your coffee, Like, if you don't

1247
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:23,399
Speaker 1: have time to drink your coffee, you're doing something wrong.

1248
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 1: That actually happened. Was that just like a He said, no,

1249
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 1: he said that what the bristle said to him was

1250
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: just sit down and drink your coffee. Yeah, he didn't

1251
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 1: say if you don't have time to drink cofee something wrong,

1252
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 1: but he said, just sit down and drink your coffee.

1253
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: He said it kind of like opened his eyes. And

1254
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:39,360
Speaker 1: so now I've kind of just for the last week,

1255
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 1: I've just been thinking, like fuck, if you can't just

1256
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 1: sit down and drink your coffee, then that's like it's crazy.

1257
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:49,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to say anyone's doing anything wrong, but

1258
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: I just think it's crazy to think about that. Like

1259
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 1: when I was a carpenter or when I was doing it,

1260
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: like I would make a coffee to go and drink

1261
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 1: it in the car because like I would wake up

1262
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: because I wanted to have as muchleep as PSSIB because

1263
00:56:58,520 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to tired, because I had to wake

1264
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: up so early and wake up with so close to

1265
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 1: needing to leave that I don't have to do all

1266
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 1: this stuff and rush to do it. But it's like,

1267
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 1: if you can't fucking just sit down for five minutes

1268
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:13,840
Speaker 1: and drink a coffee, maybe done the reassess. Yeah. Crazy.

1269
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: It's a great mindset shift to have if you can't

1270
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 1: sit down for twenty minutes and talk to a friend,

1271
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: because you don't have to do it for an hour,

1272
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: it could be ten minutes. Yeah, if you have to

1273
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 1: be doing something.

1274
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 2: I'll tell you what else is a really good skill

1275
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 2: that I think we've unconsciously got good at because of

1276
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 2: the podcast and talking to each other and potentially why

1277
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 2: my experience is good. It's a skill talking to someone

1278
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 2: and keeping the conversation going. And yeah, I do realize

1279
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 2: the second time, once we got all the small chit

1280
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 2: chat like a first dad out of the way, the

1281
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 2: conversation flow is slightly more segmented, and it's definitely even

1282
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 2: a skill if you're doing it with your friends. You

1283
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 2: don't have to pay any money. It's such a skill

1284
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 2: if you don't have these distractions there to keep the

1285
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 2: conversation going and practice you're talking to someone else, like,

1286
00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 2: it's such a good skill to have.

1287
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 1: That's great. Yeah, No, we've been that's fair. We've been

1288
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 1: told a fair a bit that you just I guess

1289
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: with you and I kind of we have chemistry, yeah,

1290
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 1: because like we're best mates. So it just is like

1291
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 1: easy to do, but I guess some people would try.

1292
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 2: I think it's a great skill and it's sort of

1293
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 2: you can take that skill as well into your workplace

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Speaker 2: when you're talking of friends, bosses, clients, anything like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I.

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Speaker 2: Know a lot of people and a lot of jobs

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Speaker 2: are held back by their communication skills.

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Speaker 1: It's a good point and all everyone puts on their

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Speaker 1: regume good communication skills. Yeah, everyone seems to think that's

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Speaker 1: such a big thing.

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Speaker 2: But with these phones make communication all yeah, all through here,

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Speaker 2: and I think it's human to your human interaction is

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Speaker 2: so important and maybe that's a good takeaway from this episode.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, go with the flow. Sit down and drink your coffee. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: sit down in the cafe and drink your coffee. Yeah. Okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: thank you everybody for listening. We are going to call

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Speaker 1: one of you lovely listeners to sign off the episode

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Speaker 1: for us, and you call you want to sign off.

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Speaker 2: An episode link is in the description of this episode.

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Speaker 1: It is. Yeah, go sign up and we might give

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Speaker 1: you a call today. We're going to call Miah. Let's

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Speaker 1: do it.

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Speaker 4: Hello Mia speaking me.

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Speaker 1: Yah, It's Jake and Noddy from the Relatables. How are you?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Hi, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing really good? Doing really good?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 1: You wanted to call and ask if you could sign

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Speaker 1: off the episode for us. If you can't think of anything,

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Speaker 1: you can just say stay bad. But if you have

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Speaker 1: something to come up with, go for it. Yes. Boys. Oh,

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Speaker 1: how good.

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Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Thanks so much, have a great day.

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Speaker 1: Bye.

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Speaker 2: Oh baddies, so good, Stay bad. See ya