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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast. You've

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Speaker 1: got a date tonight? I do?

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Speaker 2: I have a hot date tonight?

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Speaker 1: I wasn't.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know whether to talk about it or not.

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Speaker 1: What's his name? How did you mean? Howie? Harry Potter?

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Speaker 3: Call?

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Speaker 2: No, it's no hot date for me, or you know what?

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Speaker 2: Actually the great es date I would ever want to

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Speaker 2: go in at home with my nine year old daughter

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Speaker 2: watching Harry Potter eating popcorn. So this story is not

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Speaker 2: for me, but I.

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Speaker 1: Did love it back in the day, Back in the day,

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Speaker 1: or when.

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Speaker 2: I get back on that horse or whatever you say,

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Speaker 2: Sorry it was a donkey and that horse has had

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Speaker 2: a long spell, Dick the donkey. I can't tell this story.

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Speaker 2: My daughter's probably in the car on the way to school.

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Speaker 2: I love this because we all always do a lot

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Speaker 2: of talk around who should be paying for the first date?

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Speaker 2: I mean twenty four and a lot of nasty texts

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Speaker 2: and conversations happened post date when perhaps it hasn't gone

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Speaker 2: that well and the guys bothered to pay or offered

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Speaker 2: to pay, and then he feels a bit put out

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Speaker 2: because she doesn't want to see him again, or it's

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Speaker 2: just I mean, he's just you know, spending money left,

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Speaker 2: right and center trying to find the woman in his dreams.

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Speaker 1: It's expensive.

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Speaker 2: But let's just consider this when you head into the

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Speaker 2: weekend and you're on a date and you're thinking, well,

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Speaker 2: I think she should pay, because why should I have

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Speaker 2: to pay all the time? And it is twenty twenty.

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Speaker 4: Four cost me a fortune?

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Speaker 2: I said, you know what is costing a fortune? It's

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Speaker 2: not just the day, it's all the prep that come.

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Speaker 2: And I know that I'm generalizing, but for a woman

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Speaker 2: to go on a date, there is a lot of

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Speaker 2: money spent before you even get there. So I do think.

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Speaker 1: Kooboo track suits, this is really ignorant coke.

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Speaker 2: No, look, this is just one little snapshot of society chat.

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Speaker 2: But I do think it's fair enough just pay guys,

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Speaker 2: because she has spent she's washed her hair hopefully. I mean,

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Speaker 2: you know, it depends how serious you are, or whether

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Speaker 2: it's a Friday or a Tuesday. Two for one perpose,

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Speaker 2: maybe if you're really into it and you've had a

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Speaker 2: fake tan, you've had your nails done like that, that

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Speaker 2: we've already spent hundreds of dollars with a pedicure as well.

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Speaker 2: We might have had our roots done the week before.

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Speaker 2: That's four hundred dollars down the drain.

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Speaker 1: We don't need tann skin. We didn't. Can I add

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Speaker 1: something to this?

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Speaker 4: So you wake up in the morning, right, if this

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Speaker 4: is a date, you wake up in the morning and

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Speaker 4: you've still got your nails done and your tan skin,

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Speaker 4: and the dress that you've brought to wear that night,

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Speaker 4: you can wear again in another occasion.

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Speaker 1: As a bloke, I can't get that steak back. Oh

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Speaker 1: you're a pig chips back? How was that martini you drinking?

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Speaker 1: The three apparol sprintss.

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Speaker 3: No, Because I've spent it then I won't get it back,

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Speaker 3: and I'll spend it again next week when you don't

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Speaker 3: reply to my messages. So for the blokes out there

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Speaker 3: who are coughing up their heart earned in this for

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Speaker 3: the sake of love, and you're complaining about something you.

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Speaker 2: Get to, you need to come down because yeah, this

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Speaker 2: is not me, This is not me. I'm just sorry.

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Speaker 1: Economic headwinds.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what a lot of people don't.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people don't keep those dresses. A lot

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Speaker 2: of people rent dresses now because dresses can be quite expensive,

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Speaker 2: and they might you know, they might want a new

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Speaker 2: little cocktail frock or something. But I'm not going to

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Speaker 2: spend eight hundred dollars. I can rent it on whatever

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Speaker 2: one of those places are for a hundred.

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Speaker 1: Find a friend that's got the same body shape as you. Anyway.

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Speaker 2: Look, I know that's a big generalization, but fellas, don't

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Speaker 2: you know you've just put on a clean T shirt.

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Speaker 1: And rocked up. No we haven't. No, we haven't.

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Speaker 2: Maybe clean maybe cleaned your teeth. If your mum who

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Speaker 2: you still live at home? We've told you to.

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Speaker 1: We've hired the hotel room for afterwards.

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