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Speaker 1: to this one. Hi, guys, welcome back to hear me Out.

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Speaker 1: My name's Easy Armatage and this is it's episode three

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Speaker 1: thinks a movie so quickly already, I'm honestly overwhelmed by

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Speaker 1: the support and the love that you guys have given me.

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Speaker 1: And in the Riley episode last week, that was so

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Speaker 1: fun for me to film. I would never tell, but

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Speaker 1: I think it was really good. And like if you

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Speaker 1: dynamic is always just something that you can't really recreate.

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Speaker 1: I want to get her maybe on every couple months

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Speaker 1: or like more of a regular guest, because I feel

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Speaker 1: like it was really fun. But thank you again for

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Speaker 1: all the support, even all the ratings on Spotify and everything. Guys,

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Speaker 1: I love you so much. Obviously it was number two

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Speaker 1: But yeah, obviously Riley comes back in the podcast. We

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Speaker 1: have to lay out some ground rules, so there's no

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Speaker 1: anything bad about me. So that's basically what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: But that's across the board for all the guests. No

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Speaker 1: A little update guys on what's been going on since

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Speaker 1: we last quart up. Yeah, girls are training again, which

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Speaker 1: is like I say that, and I guess I've done

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Speaker 1: not entirely happy with, you know, my body and all that,

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Speaker 1: I'm also doing this thing called m Sculpt, which I'm

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Speaker 1: doing it at Silhouette Lab, which is above Grip to

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Speaker 1: Let me google so I can give you the proper definition.

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Speaker 1: But it's basically this machine that like tensors your muscles.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing it on my stomach and if you get

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Speaker 1: And obviously eating is where I really struggle to like

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Speaker 1: To me, it's like a religious experience. It like I

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Speaker 1: All right? M sculpt is a non invasive contouring body

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Speaker 1: conjuring procedure that uses high intensity focus electromagnetic energy to

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Speaker 1: time to get into the hear me out this week?

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Speaker 1: Like girls can slow goos, some guys can't.

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Speaker 2: What's the middle ground between let's call it a dumping

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Speaker 1: It's it's we're very much pulling a boy here where

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Speaker 2: To let me know how you feel, hondy, what shall

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Speaker 1: Oh? My hearing's like it's I hope you'll agree, but

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Speaker 1: and if you use Snapchat over that age, I'm really

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Speaker 2: I think I've told you this before. This one reason

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Speaker 1: That Actually we have discussed this before because I was like,

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Speaker 2: We like me and my bestie that is still like

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Speaker 1: What are we getting out of this bike? Continuing? And

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Speaker 2: We can't watch it go away like it's three three thousand,

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Speaker 1: I want to find out eight point two years? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, you cannot get rid of it.

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Speaker 2: No, And I said to her because I think we

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Speaker 1: Like what are you going to do? I like Snapchat

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Speaker 2: She is wildly avoidant. She said to me. Every day

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Speaker 2: And there's nothing better than when your parents talk to

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Speaker 2: you was speaking, and I'm petrified it's going to come

437
00:18:57,480 --> 00:18:58,879
Speaker 2: across in a really bad way.

438
00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:00,800
Speaker 1: To me or to the listeners.

439
00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:01,360
Speaker 2: Everyone.

440
00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:03,399
Speaker 1: Just let's see how we go.

441
00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:08,760
Speaker 2: So I think you should keep a history. And I'm

442
00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,200
Speaker 2: not at all saying that your kids are like pets

443
00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:13,720
Speaker 2: in no way, but I think you should have a

444
00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:17,400
Speaker 2: history of your pets. Yeh, their lives, how well looked

445
00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:22,399
Speaker 2: after they were, cause of death. Yeah, and that can

446
00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:23,720
Speaker 2: kind of inform.

447
00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:25,919
Speaker 1: Better because just the history of all that stuff.

448
00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:29,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, just some reference points.

449
00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:32,760
Speaker 1: I just sometimes I see online I'm like that person. Like, no,

450
00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:34,600
Speaker 1: not online, but like more when you hear like I

451
00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:36,280
Speaker 1: listen to a lot of true crime, and like maybe

452
00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:39,680
Speaker 1: that's where I'm pulling more of this information from. Yeah,

453
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 1: because there's so many sad stories out there of parents

454
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,320
Speaker 1: that just like weren't they shouldn't have been parents and

455
00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:47,120
Speaker 1: they didn't want to be parents, but they were.

456
00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:49,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so many facts that need to come into play.

457
00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:53,160
Speaker 2: It's not like some of these people have intentionally brought

458
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,000
Speaker 2: a baby, and it's not a cookie cutter rule, no,

459
00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:56,639
Speaker 2: and you don't bring a kid in the world to

460
00:19:56,720 --> 00:20:00,080
Speaker 2: neglect them more hopefully, but like do you own Oh

461
00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:01,080
Speaker 2: my god, fingers crossed.

462
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,560
Speaker 1: There are people out there, honestly, but I just think, yeah,

463
00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 1: I completely agree. You need to like you need to

464
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,120
Speaker 1: like apply to have a license, just to be like, hey,

465
00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:10,639
Speaker 1: I want to kick Can I have this license?

466
00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,760
Speaker 2: You need to send an application to is this hear

467
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,000
Speaker 2: me out for, Yeah, can you have a kid, and

468
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 2: we'll veat them and go through them send.

469
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,119
Speaker 1: It's also like I'd be like, oh, no, that's already

470
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:22,639
Speaker 1: a thing. I was gonna say old people need to

471
00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:25,200
Speaker 1: have tests to keep their license, but I think that

472
00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,399
Speaker 1: actually already happens. Actually it should happen more often. Like

473
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,440
Speaker 1: my ninety one year old grandma's plotting around in a

474
00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,399
Speaker 1: car and I'm like, that should not be happening. She

475
00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:35,600
Speaker 1: said to dad. I'm like, Dad, don't you think it

476
00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,000
Speaker 1: might be timing maybe to let her know that she

477
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,480
Speaker 1: shouldn't be driving that vehicle around anymore? Don't she re

478
00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,280
Speaker 1: ended someone the other day? And I'm like, that needs

479
00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:41,640
Speaker 1: to stop.

480
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:42,879
Speaker 2: You think I's ting to snip that.

481
00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 1: That? Okay, hear me out. I find my cousin extremely attractive.

482
00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:57,680
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I wonder if it's like, do people look

483
00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,520
Speaker 1: at their siblings? I personally don't, which is why I'm

484
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,679
Speaker 1: asking this question. Do people ever look at their siblings

485
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 1: in a way and be like, that's like they're pretty,

486
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 1: but not find them attractive? Do you know what I mean?

487
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:11,919
Speaker 1: Like be able to appreciate that they're like a good

488
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:13,959
Speaker 1: looking human being, but not be attracted to them.

489
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,720
Speaker 2: When you say his delivery driver hot, you know how

490
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,480
Speaker 2: on Uber each you see who your driver is and

491
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 2: you're like, hey.

492
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 1: It's like airport hot. Yes, No, but like airport hot

493
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,480
Speaker 1: is like when you're attracted to someone. I don't want

494
00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 1: to put the word attracted and family member in the

495
00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 1: same sentence. I don't go acting on it.

496
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 2: No, this is just stressing me out.

497
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 1: This is like like I don't know how well. I

498
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 1: don't actually know how to say anything.

499
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 2: In response to this one, Can you anonymously take us

500
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 2: behind the thought train.

501
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 1: Here, like you're not you can. I think you can

502
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,919
Speaker 1: find someone good looking but not be attracted to them.

503
00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 1: I'm hoping it's not like I'm attracted to you.

504
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 2: Which is said extremely attractive. I'm going to fact and

505
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 2: it could be a guy as well. Yeah, extremely attractive.

506
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: Extremely is a lot too. It's not just attractive, extremely attractive.

507
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 2: Like I can honor when someone that I'm not attracted

508
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 2: to is good looking, handsome, beautiful. Yeah, but I don't know.

509
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 2: I've just never looked at it like.

510
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 1: It's been like, oh, yeah, my cousin's really hot. No,

511
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 1: that felt that felt dirty coming out.

512
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 2: Of my mouth.

513
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 1: Yes, and it keeps coming back, And I'm just there

514
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 1: was something about a cousin last week, wasn't that? Yes?

515
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 2: Is there something we're not across?

516
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 1: Is there like some I hope he's your third cousin.

517
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 2: I just hope they're wrong and it's not even their cousin.

518
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 1: You're not related by blood.

519
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: But get back to us, Get back to us.

520
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, how close is this cousin? And are you attracted

521
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 1: to him? Or do you just think you can acknowledge

522
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 1: that he's a good looking guy?

523
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but with love, I will say, I don't think

524
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 2: we can approve. No, we don't approve.

525
00:22:57,080 --> 00:23:01,439
Speaker 1: We appreciate your honesty, but we don't improve me. If

526
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 1: you post a breakup quote on your story, you should

527
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 1: be five hundred dollars. I am not someone that feels

528
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: like I when people like write things or share breakup

529
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 1: stuff like that, I never personally can understand it. I've

530
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 1: got my friends and stuff, and like best believe I

531
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 1: will dumb and traum it up and even talk on here.

532
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,439
Speaker 1: But there's something about posting your sad quote to your

533
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 1: story that like I never quite get because you're only

534
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,879
Speaker 1: doing it because you want your ecstasy. Eh, chances are

535
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 1: they're either block to not following you anymore, or they

536
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,679
Speaker 1: are you looking for sympathy? Do you want them to message?

537
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 1: I just I honestly don't get it.

538
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 2: And I think if you're going to post just bloody posts,

539
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 2: so it's either going to be a thirst trap.

540
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, post a thirsty do you know what I mean?

541
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: Real them back here, make them jealous, absolutely, but don't

542
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: post like a quote saying how sad you are. That's

543
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 1: not helping out.

544
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 2: And I also like some transparency, like we could actually

545
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 2: make this to hear me out in future. But people

546
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 2: are really against crying tiktoks, which I'm actually not really against,

547
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 2: but we can tackle that another day.

548
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I have a little sad.

549
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 2: Girl pick you know, she can post at the beach

550
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 2: reading a book looking a.

551
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 1: Bit looking at sad. I'm not against crying tiktoks. I

552
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: feel like when there's videos of people talking crying and

553
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: like explaining what they're upset about, Like I get that. Yeah,

554
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,639
Speaker 1: but if it's crying just to a song with like

555
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: some sad quote over the top of it, that's I

556
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 1: think where I find it quite similar to posting a

557
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,199
Speaker 1: break up quote. Yeah, that's honestly just my opinion though,

558
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: Like these are my opinions. You may feel completely differently.

559
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 1: You might think I'm being insensitive, but yeah, I personally

560
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: am not one that understands that you need to post

561
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: sad stories or Yeah.

562
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 2: I find quotes a bit of a parent thing, just

563
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 2: like quotes are very parent.

564
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 1: Like, let's be real, I get twenty cent to me

565
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 1: a date on Instagram by my mum fame. Yeah, that's

566
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 1: just what it's an adult it's a parent thing. It's

567
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 1: like a Facebook thing like.

568
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,439
Speaker 2: Parents post question being a son or daughter, you need

569
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 2: to be really.

570
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: You must be receiving inspirational quotes at least every day.

571
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 1: Videos of animals. That's what my mom sends me to.

572
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:04,199
Speaker 1: Cat videos.

573
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 2: My mom gets really red hot.

574
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: She sometimes sends me videos of like hot guys and stuff.

575
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm thank you save, but yeah, I just

576
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: think there's better ways to show that you're I'm all

577
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 1: for a breakup, thirst Trap. Yeah, so I think if

578
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: that because even if the guy that you want to

579
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: respond doesn't, chances are someone else will at least give

580
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 1: you a little bit of a confidence boost act. But like, nothing,

581
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,199
Speaker 1: no result of that sad photo is going to make

582
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 1: you feel any better, do you know what I mean?

583
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: Someone goes, how are you okay? It's like it's not

584
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: gonna help. No, I'm not looking though, looking here hot though,

585
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 1: thirst Trap always hear me out. I think boys actually

586
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 1: do understand now hints, they just ignore them on purpose.

587
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: I agree. Boys aren't that stupid?

588
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 2: Do you think?

589
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:50,880
Speaker 1: Yeah?

590
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 2: I think it's almost giving them a bit too much grace.

591
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: Maybe it is. But it's like if I'm chatting to someone,

592
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: it's like they probably know that if they asked me out,

593
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 1: I would go like, do you know what I mean?

594
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, but they act on nonchalant. I didn't know

595
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: you want I would want to. I didn't know that

596
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 1: you were interested.

597
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 2: It's like, well aware of the hints that you're dropping.

598
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think boys do not yeah, And I think

599
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,719
Speaker 1: they either want you to spell it out for them

600
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: to make them feel better about themselves and have that

601
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: little ego boost of having you directly say it to them,

602
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 1: or they want like it's an ego thing.

603
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 2: I see that just wanting things done for them, wanting

604
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 2: you to do.

605
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: The work, wanting you to do the work, or they're

606
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 1: just like not interested and they're ignoring it, which in

607
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: that case, I'm like, just say.

608
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 2: It, which they could be slow ghosting, which is.

609
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 1: They could be, but I feel like I'm quite good

610
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: at picking up on a slogost yeah, which in that case,

611
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,360
Speaker 1: if someone's slowghosting you, you stop responding.

612
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 2: I don't leprecate that.

613
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: Finish you know, you finish it first. God, I hate

614
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: this hate relationships hot take. If you get a tattoo

615
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,120
Speaker 1: of your significant other, that relationship is bound to fail.

616
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 1: I actually don't agree or disagree on that. I think

617
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: I would love if my significant other kind of tattoo

618
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 1: for me, but I think it all depends on when

619
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: they're getting it. If you get it once you're married,

620
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: I think it's kind of sweet. But if you get it, like, oh,

621
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 1: let's just get a tattoo, like three months in, I'm like, no,

622
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,719
Speaker 1: you just think it's I think it's to ink your

623
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: skin with something like that without even being together for

624
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: an extended period of time. I think it's silly. But

625
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 1: it's totally up to each and every person.

626
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 2: I totally agree. I think it depends because like I've

627
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 2: seen couples on my feed and like both of them

628
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 2: like Mickey Mouse, they've got a Mickey Mouse tattoo.

629
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: I yeah, sometimes it's kind of cute, like I would

630
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 1: not be opposed to my partner getting a tattoo of me.

631
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I see.

632
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 1: That's act.

633
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 2: But like with some couples they get a date or

634
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 2: something really symbolic.

635
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, like they're waiting date or something.

636
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 2: I can get around that.

637
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, if it's done well, if it's done well, and

638
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: if it's not big, yes, yeah. In something sentimental, it's cute,

639
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: not like possessive, like yeah, mine Isabelle, like across your fucking.

640
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 2: Name, Pete and Cam all right, Peter, remember when Pete

641
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 2: got but.

642
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: That was all like that's a situation where I'm like,

643
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: you didn't need.

644
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 2: To get that so early and stamped into you.

645
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's to their own but so yeah, well that

646
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: worked out. I also think it's just then it's like,

647
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: just think it through a little bit more, because if

648
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: you do break up, it's embarrassing now that you have

649
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,199
Speaker 1: a tattoo of your excess name on you. I think

650
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 1: getting their name also though, it was very different to

651
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 1: getting a tattoo that is like a shared tattoo that's

652
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: like of something else that's sentimental to both of you,

653
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Yeah, I feel like that's

654
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: cuter then, like the name is almost a possessive thing,

655
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 1: which once again I wouldn't be opposed to my partner

656
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: getting out.

657
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and just so vert like I don't think you

658
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: need anything over Yeah. But I like when someone that

659
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: I know will like they're next to me and they

660
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 2: grab the go to grab something and you see something

661
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: on their wrist and like, oh, that's so pretty.

662
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: What's that like? Just that level that level cute kiss,

663
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: the level anybody hear me out. Eighty percent of people

664
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 1: are just in relationships because they can't be on their own.

665
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: People are staying in awful relationship. It's such young ages

666
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 1: because they're too scared of the unknown, and it is

667
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: killing dating culture. As a single girl, I truly find

668
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: it so hard to find a relationship I envy. I

669
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: you know, I actually do agree. I think there's a

670
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: level of comfort that a lot of people, even people.

671
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: There are people I know, not particularly like, not like

672
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: any of my good friends, but like people that I'm like,

673
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: I cannot believe you two are still fucking dating, yeah,

674
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: because it's like you have probably one of the worst

675
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: relationships I've ever seen. But it's like they've been together

676
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: like five years, and it's they're probably just scared to

677
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: be with anything else. So I think that's it's it

678
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: would be so common because there is always going to

679
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: be the fear of unknown, and if you have him

680
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: for someone with so long or so long from such

681
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: a young age, like I can sympathize with that fear.

682
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I went to say at the start, I feel

683
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 2: like it's not as true anymore, but I think I

684
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 2: already take that back. But like I look to a

685
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 2: lot of my parents, friends, parents, women in their forties

686
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 2: or fifties who are like now just getting rid of them,

687
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 2: and it's a comfort thing for PEO marriage or relationship

688
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,959
Speaker 2: that they you know, got into when old twenty one,

689
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 2: because like our parents, I don't know about yours years,

690
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 2: but like, my mom had me, and I'm the youngest

691
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 2: by twenty five. I'm not thinking about kids.

692
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 1: Right, twenty five. Yes, your brother's or sister's twenty five

693
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: years older than you.

694
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: No, my mom had me. I was the youngest. She

695
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 2: had me at twenty five with my sister, like twenty two,

696
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 2: twenty three.

697
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you said you said I'm the youngest

698
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 1: by twenty five.

699
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, my mom's one hundred and four.

700
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, she got that letter from Queen Elizabeth.

701
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, she's all around at this well. But

702
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 2: I think it was so common for people back in

703
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 2: that day to get married really young and just stay

704
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 2: in those relationships. Now you see a lot of women

705
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: in their forties and fifties now leaving, and I think

706
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 2: that's probably informed our generation better because a lot of

707
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 2: my girlfriends say, date with so much more intention now, yeah,

708
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 2: and they date purely based off what they want.

709
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like we date with intention at this age.

710
00:30:58,120 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: But there are those people that got in the relationship

711
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: when they're eighteen that I know, and I'm like, you

712
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: guys are not fucking happy. But that's all you know

713
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: in your adult life is to be with that person.

714
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: To the prospect of being alone or the fear of

715
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: what if it takes me ages to find someone else.

716
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 1: It's like, that would be so scary. So I do

717
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 1: understand it, but I think it's frustrating to watch sometimes

718
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: because you just look at people and you're like, you

719
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 1: guys fucking hate each other, Like you guys should not

720
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: be dating.

721
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 2: You could just be living a completely different life.

722
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but they would be scared. And I completely understand.

723
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 2: And I've been there before where I was like, I'm lonely.

724
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 2: I need a relationship just purely because of that.

725
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:36,719
Speaker 1: So I yeah, but I think I couldn't. Like sometimes

726
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, surely I can just like find someone

727
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 1: and just like date them. I'm like, I can't do that,

728
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: Like I really really need to be into the personal.

729
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: I did not want to be around you, Like I

730
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 1: couldn't say live. I wanted to know because I just

731
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: can't put myself around people that I don't really.

732
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 2: Like, and you're wasting potentially years.

733
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. I get a relationship for the sake of

734
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: it completely. Like if I start a relationship now and

735
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: I'm it for like three years, but it's not the person,

736
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: and then I probably have to be single for a

737
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: little while after that. Again, I'm like, I'll be like

738
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: thirty we.

739
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 2: Ever recording in two days. Can you just like bring

740
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: a boyfriend in on Wednesday?

741
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: Can you bring me one?

742
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 2: Okay?

743
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: Thanks? Say all right? Hear me out. I'm a teacher

744
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: and I don't believe that every child should get a

745
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: prize like a participation rubben sort of thing. I think

746
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: participation rubbons are sweet.

747
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. Literally is someone who did not go well, I

748
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 2: want that participation. Yeah. And even like my niece has

749
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 2: just gone into kindergarten, she does not like sports, Like

750
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 2: when she had her athletics kind of she said to

751
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 2: my mom, She's like, I'm going to be the spectator

752
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 2: for the day, Like so cute. I need a photo

753
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 2: of her with a ribbon.

754
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think until at least primary school, I get

755
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,959
Speaker 1: participations like I get the prizes for kids. And then

756
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: once you know you're older and people understand more that

757
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: school is competitive and grades are competitive and all that stuff,

758
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 1: then no, you don't need to give.

759
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 2: Everything, guys.

760
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: But I think when you're trying to get kids to

761
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: love what they do, if you pin everyone against each

762
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: other from the jump, I feel like it creates a.

763
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 2: Bad environment totally. And like understand this is coming from

764
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 2: a teacher, so she's probably like had little shits.

765
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 1: She probably she would know a lot more than me.

766
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: If you say that, babe, there's a reason you're saying, yeah,

767
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: I'd like to know more. Like why don't you think

768
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 1: every kid gets a surprise?

769
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 2: But let's put a time on it. I say, I

770
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 2: think your two is a good like I feel like

771
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 2: kinder one, you're still you don't really know what's going on.

772
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 2: You two, you're starting to gether.

773
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 1: I think everyone should get a participation ry but and

774
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: then you have first, second, third, Yeah, so then what's

775
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: the harm is that it's smart get both, but everyone

776
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: else gets something?

777
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, like what is the harm? Yeah, unless it's like,

778
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 2: what is the harm? I'm curious they could be like

779
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 2: environmental for the ribbons, but the brain.

780
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: That's why I she said that hilarious? All right, hear

781
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: me out. Mums should have one hundred percent say in

782
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: naming their baby. None of this fifty to fifty bullshit.

783
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: We're carrying it for nine months, putting our bodies under

784
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: immnt stress with labor and burning the child my HUDs

785
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: and doesn't like the name I choose at bad Luck.

786
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: I like it. I like the energy, but I actually disagree.

787
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: I think tell eighty twenty, maybe like you should pick

788
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 1: all the names you like and the husband gets to

789
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 1: pick one out of the names that you like. They

790
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 1: don't get to put a name in themselves.

791
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, because twenty two is you do want the partner

792
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 2: to be involved, because you also don't want to be

793
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: with a husband that doesn't give a shit.

794
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: And the moment the baby's out, it's their kid, like

795
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 1: it's both of your kids. So I get I think

796
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: maybe a nice even fair is you get to pick

797
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 1: all of the options and he can help pick between

798
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:32,839
Speaker 1: the options.

799
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 2: Final say, you know, if they have to make a

800
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 2: big decision if they're stuck between two.

801
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. I also, you know what I really like, I'm

802
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 1: not a fan of when people name their kids after themselves,

803
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: like Jack Junior or Jack the Third. I'm like, can

804
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 1: you not do that? I think that's cruel unless like,

805
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 1: imagine having the third following your name as a fucking kid.

806
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 2: I went to say, unless like you've achieved X, y Z,

807
00:34:58,040 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 2: but even then, like.

808
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: If you're well, don't and then it's like like Brad

809
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 1: Pitt Jr. Slave that words. Yeah, I just think unless

810
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: it's like, say, my name is Isabella and I named

811
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: my kid Bell, you know what I mean, it's like

812
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: a part of my name. I think that's more ideal.

813
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 1: But like naming your kid like many times and it's

814
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: all the same name and it ends up being Jack

815
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,479
Speaker 1: the fourth Jack the face like an inspired middle name. Yeah,

816
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: middle name something to do. Like my middle name is

817
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: my mum's middle name and my grandma's name family, so

818
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, we're connected through that. But it's like,

819
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: my name's not Heidi. No, it's my middle name. I

820
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: would love my name to be Heidi. I think I

821
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: look like a Heidi.

822
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 2: No, you're such an izzy.

823
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: I hate that name. Sorry all the easies out there,

824
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: but I get to say that because it's my name too.

825
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,839
Speaker 1: But I'm not a fan of it. Okay, next here

826
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: me telling your ex heavy birthday is always a bad idea. Probs,

827
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: I agree, I because I did it. I've done it

828
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: many times, not recently, but like when I was younger,

829
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: and I always ended up disappointed because I've done it

830
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 1: to get that contact with them back, like.

831
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 2: To have a little and then they just yeah, and

832
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 2: they hold the power that one day of the year.

833
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, because if they don't reply, you're like, why did

834
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 1: I do that? You beat yourself up? Why have I

835
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: done that?

836
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 2: And if they come back blunt, Oh, they're busy, it's

837
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: their birthday, Like, I actually.

838
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,360
Speaker 1: Can't get why do they need to reply. They've just

839
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: gotten all they wanted by you sending.

840
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 2: Their message to that And I think this real power

841
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 2: And you're not sending up And I'm going, should she

842
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 2: already forgot about my birthday?

843
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 1: Why didn't she care? She didn't text me?

844
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 2: That only for girls.

845
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: Boys can text the ex because it's polite, it's a gentle,

846
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: it's a general, but girls can't. I completely agree with you.

847
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 1: It's it's never been a good idea for me. I

848
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 1: don't think I've ever gotten the text back exposing myself here. Okay,

849
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 1: hear me out. Living with your partner, but having separate

850
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:56,240
Speaker 1: rooms should be normalized. I do not want boy drums

851
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: on my bed after a long day. I don't want

852
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: my room to be filled with boys. Air. I end

853
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: up like, I actually I agree, I'm not like I'm

854
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: someone I love. I was talking to this, talking to

855
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 1: my friend Hannah about this the other day. I don't

856
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,479
Speaker 1: want to be cut a little. I'm trying to sleep,

857
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 1: I get before I'm going to sleep, or in the

858
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: morning when I'm like waking up, but the moment my

859
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 1: eyes are shut and I have every intention of falling asleep,

860
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: don't fucking touch me. Really, Yeah, I wish I was different.

861
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 1: I just it's always of radiators, like they exude so

862
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: much heat, and I'm like, I feel I'm someone that

863
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: tosses and turns a lot. Like I've actually got a

864
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: very specific pattern to the way that i do that

865
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: because of my O city, Like I always have to

866
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: start with one side for a certain amount of time

867
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 1: and then I it's and then I always have to

868
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: go back to my middle after anyway, it's a nightmare.

869
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 1: But I can't do that if I've got a five

870
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 1: a ten kilo arm on my shoulder. Yeah, and then

871
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm trapped and I makes your heart. Yeah,

872
00:37:56,760 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: my pregnancy, I'm Bobby Man. Some people love that, but

873
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, boys and Germany.

874
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to like disagree fully, and then

875
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 2: it comes back to bite me in a few years

876
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 2: where I'm like I'm in my own little room. I

877
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 2: feel like I think I would struggle, but I would

878
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,399
Speaker 2: like my own space that I can just like make

879
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 2: my own because me and my partner have very different

880
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 2: tastes in like furnishings, styling.

881
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 1: Even having your own rooms, but you sleep together everything,

882
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: say one of your rooms, like you have that extra

883
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: sort of space. I completely I don't think it should

884
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 1: be taboo, like, I think it should be normalized, Like

885
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: it's not gonna be probably common because a lot of

886
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: people want to be with their skimpula other all the time,

887
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: and that's great. And hopefully one day when I'm with

888
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: someone that I really love and like, I probably won't

889
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 1: want to be separated either. But yeah, because my relationships,

890
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 1: like we've said, weren't great, it's like I envision that

891
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: and go, yeah, my own space sounds really fucking good

892
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 1: right about now?

893
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah that cheetah.

894
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can get your own room. Germs yuck. So

895
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: I get it. And I think it's it's becoming more

896
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: normal for like even married people to like sleep in

897
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: separate repeat, especially if you have really differing work schedules.

898
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 2: I would love to know, and I feel like there

899
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 2: would be research about this so we can follow up

900
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 2: on this in the future what it actually does for

901
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 2: a relationship.

902
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: If it's beneficial. Yeah, it probably is. I'd say it.

903
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 2: Would be depending who.

904
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you just got a good sleep every night.

905
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: Some people need to sleep like like having someone next

906
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 1: to them. Yeah, that's just not me, but maybe one

907
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 1: day it will be to see me out. Men who

908
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:34,479
Speaker 1: have led lights in their room are dangerous. I feel

909
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: like anyone that has led lights and they were like

910
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: I actually used to have lad lights in the room

911
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,319
Speaker 1: and I loved the vibe of it. They weren't colorful though,

912
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 1: they were just like a work and white and I

913
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 1: liked having them on and nothing else. So that was

914
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: like reading. I feel like it very much goes back

915
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 1: to covid TikTok vibes.

916
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I've only my current boyfriend used to have

917
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,919
Speaker 2: LED lights and I've kind of moved them out.

918
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 1: I actually I've never dated anyone with elide lights just

919
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: they don't know how to do it. My except fairy lights,

920
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: it's kind of cute. I loved them though, So it's

921
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,320
Speaker 1: like because it's on Beyonce, Yeah, they would be the

922
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 1: only thing on while by watching TV, and I like

923
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:15,839
Speaker 1: st like, I'm not I don't like halsh slighting. It's

924
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:17,879
Speaker 1: like when you sit and watch TV on the couch,

925
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 1: I always I can't have the lights off. I have

926
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: to have the on beyond lighting on, like the lamps

927
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 1: have to be on.

928
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

929
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, like when you're reading, you turn the overheads off,

930
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 1: but you have your bedside lights on. Like that is

931
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: such a peaceful vibe for me.

932
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's really sweet putting in the effort, Yeah,

933
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 2: trying to get that.

934
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: But maybe if it was blue, i'd feel differently.

935
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like every time a guy does it,

936
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 2: it's to see exact same scenario of like the fifteen

937
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 2: dollar KMA and.

938
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 1: It's always blue. Yeah, I wouldn't want to be sitting

939
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:46,399
Speaker 1: in a room watching TV with blue lights.

940
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:48,720
Speaker 2: It's either blue or like multi colorick.

941
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 1: It's an ick. Now, it depends your age. I also

942
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: think like if you've moved out home, like sometimes they're

943
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: just in your room and they've been in there for

944
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 1: years and you're just not going to take them off

945
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: the wall because they're already there like together. But if

946
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 1: I like went to a guy's house and he moved

947
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: out like six months ago, when he had led lights

948
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 1: and he was twenty five I'd be like, huh.

949
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: Can we talk about this?

950
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? What's this? Who did this? Because I can't imagine

951
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 1: him like going and sticking them all up. But honestly,

952
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: it's self expression. Do whatever you want. Yeah, I'm not

953
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 1: two guys about lights in room.

954
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 2: One of the less lesser harmful.

955
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,320
Speaker 1: It's less harmful. I honestly I'm not too fust. I

956
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 1: just don't want it to be a color. Yeah, Like

957
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 1: you can have the color on in your.

958
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 2: Own time and make it make sense.

959
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

960
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 2: Like sometimes there's a random shape on the roof.

961
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 1: It's just like a little line half one of the walls.

962
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's that might be done that. Well, guys,

963
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 1: that was hear me out with all of your hear

964
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 1: me outs. I love you all. Next week we have

965
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,240
Speaker 1: a guest. I'm really excited.

966
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 2: Should we say who it is?

967
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 1: I won't say who it is? Well, give hm a

968
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 1: little lain Okay. So I love reality TV and one

969
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 1: of my favorite things is finding out the behind the

970
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 1: scenes to the way certain reality TV shows run and

971
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: what it was like being on that show, what the

972
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: process was to get on there, etc. So we've got

973
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: a reality start one of my friends coming on and

974
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about behind the scenes of the show

975
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: that she was on, so I'm really excited. Tune in

976
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 1: next Thursday, every Thursday, six am to hear me out.

977
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 1: I love you, Bie,