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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.

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Speaker 2: Damn bro, this is so juicy and this is literally

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Speaker 2: the definition of fuck around him.

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Speaker 1: Find out bro, Oh my god o.

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Speaker 3: Relatable The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself.

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Speaker 1: Jake Craig Oka Daddy, and my partner in crime aud.

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Speaker 3: Like aka Mummy and what he is Mummy because he's

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Speaker 3: the one you'll go to when when I have a little.

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Speaker 1: Little d n M. And Jake is Daddy because he's

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Speaker 1: always there when you need him.

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Speaker 3: And don't worry, we didn't forget about you.

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Speaker 1: You're the baddies. The baddies, of course, the baddies. I am.

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Speaker 3: We I've told a couple of people now that we

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Speaker 3: call our listeners the baddies, and everyone's always like.

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Speaker 1: Good, hey, it's over the bat. Everyone listening right now

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Speaker 1: is a baddie fired through licensed up. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So last week Oddie had brought in a letter to

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Speaker 3: his younger self past yeah, past self, and I said

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Speaker 1: Going to do one.

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Speaker 3: Completely forgot my sincerest of apologies. I will argue a point,

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Speaker 3: Actually I won't because I had time.

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Speaker 1: Toxic, so I had excuses.

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Speaker 3: I did actually have time, but I just forgot. So

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Speaker 3: next week I promise I'll bring a letter in okay.

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Speaker 1: But leave it bat he's waiting, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: So But but this week we are recording earlier.

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Speaker 3: That means I have more time between now and the

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Speaker 3: next time we record compared to the last time we recorded.

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Speaker 1: To now, it's good because you're diginking yourself a whole

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Speaker 3: A yeng so, so that means I have more time

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Speaker 3: to remember, but also more time to just keep forgetting.

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Speaker 3: But I wanted to instead start with so last week

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Speaker 3: we spoke about uh, male friendships, and then we spoke

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Speaker 3: about how they're all surface level and shit very much so.

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Speaker 3: And since then, we've seen each other a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Since we recorded, we we parted ways. We're talking on

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Speaker 3: the phone sometimes, not actually all that often. We saw

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Speaker 3: each other yesterday, but I haven't I haven't even like

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Speaker 3: asked you genuine like even in that moment we were talking,

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Speaker 3: how are you?

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Speaker 1: Like do you like?

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Speaker 3: There's look no one's one hundred percent happy, and I

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Speaker 3: believe you're happy, but like, how are you?

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Speaker 1: How am I? How are you? Genuinely? And I'm asking

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Speaker 1: I just opened up there. I just was thinking, we

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Speaker 1: haven't even like spoken since Overall, I'm good. I think

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Speaker 1: my feeling at the moment is motivated after the holiday. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my body is still catching up, so I'm a little

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Speaker 1: in that grind culture. But my body is catching up.

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Speaker 1: My tummy still a little bit sore. But in the

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Speaker 1: I guess we've talked about it on Patreon. We're planning

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Speaker 3: We're in New South Wales right inter state for anyone

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Speaker 3: didn't understand that, I understood it.

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Speaker 1: But also I have a feeling of being overwhelmed. Yeah, same,

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't just like you fucking have to hunt.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, to be fair, we wouldn't be able to do it.

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Speaker 1: So that's where we're at. Quick. That was a quick

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Speaker 1: I guess it's just overwhelming in a sense of we're

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Speaker 1: is still mid It is interesting. Yeah, Like I'm not

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Speaker 1: that's so much. When I was a kid, I was

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Speaker 1: thinking that amount of money, I'd be fucking I'd be

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Speaker 1: And I'm buying some shitty house with it. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: guess it's like a patience game. We don't really I know,

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Speaker 1: we're only twenty five, yeah, young when maybe we should

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Speaker 1: I want to say I hate real estate agents. I'm

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Speaker 1: they make they make you feel like that you're putting

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if they weren't commission based, I guarantee.

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Speaker 1: far from what we've looked at. Yeah. Yeah, every every

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say overall feeling good.

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Speaker 3: Lacking in the gym. Went to the gym this morning,

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna call out the gym name. I dislike

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Speaker 1: And so I just don't know what he's going to

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I just don't like the gym. Mean I

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Speaker 1: a bit of a gym slut. Yeah, you like to

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Speaker 1: the owners. Yeah, I feel like I'm breaking up with someone.

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Speaker 3: Hate because especially when it's like when you go to

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Speaker 3: keep members and get new members obviously.

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Speaker 1: But when you try out a new gym behind behind

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Speaker 1: their back, they don't own you, yeah, and you're not

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Speaker 3: You're trying in new gym, and then the gym's sick,

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Speaker 1: And equipment is always going to win over the personnel.

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Speaker 1: And then they they know that you've cheated on them. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like the way that it

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Speaker 1: The cheating isn't the hard part, no, no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 3: And no, no, no, no no. When it comes to

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Speaker 2: It must I dare say, the easiest part is the act.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then they don't think about the repercussions.

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Speaker 3: No, no, let me think, how else am I feeling?

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Speaker 1: I've been doing good.

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Speaker 3: There was a moment a little while ago where I

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Speaker 1: You've told me that before. Yeah, that was a while ago.

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Speaker 3: And then I was having it in balley and it's

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Speaker 3: like it's almost like this feeling of let me.

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Speaker 1: Think, what's the best way I could describe this. Let's say.

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Speaker 3: We are recording in Sydney one day and you told

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Speaker 3: me not to bring my laptop because you're bringing yours,

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Speaker 3: and so I'm there, You're nearly there, and you realize

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Speaker 1: And you can't go back and get it.

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Speaker 3: It's that feeling where you're like, but then I have

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Speaker 3: to just be like, you know what, it's fine, it'll

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Speaker 3: work itself out. And then the feeling but I haven't

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Speaker 1: That's funny. I kind of get a similar feeling of

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Speaker 1: so you get it when you go to bed. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: I know you're a Coals guy. I have a cold guy. Okay, baddies,

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Speaker 3: Before me and my partner got together, we were flirting

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Speaker 1: They were just flirting for like a year. What kind

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Speaker 3: And in that time he has slept with her friend twice,

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I actually think I had to make it

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00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:06,680
Speaker 3: different it wouldn't let me make it this out.

434
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: Okay, he wasn't at home, so I delved into the

435
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,679
Speaker 1: camera roll and saw screenshots of a girl used to

436
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:19,160
Speaker 1: talk to and or dated, which was a hard pill

437
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,640
Speaker 1: to swallow since they were all ten out of ten.

438
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. What does that mean?

439
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:24,360
Speaker 1: They were all ten out of ten?

440
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 3: Like hot, I'm gonna say, yeah, I quickly you, Maddie,

441
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 3: I'm sure you're a ten.

442
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. I quickly stopped because it made me feel so insecure,

443
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,919
Speaker 1: and now I'm just comparing myself to them. Also, there

444
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 1: was a few worst of all. I briefly looked at

445
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 1: some messages with one of his exes, who he had

446
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 1: his longest relationship with, and I saw he called I

447
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,919
Speaker 1: saw he called her darling, which is what he calls me.

448
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 1: It broke my heart and I now think of it

449
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 1: every time he calls me. That this was a few

450
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 1: months ago, and I would say, I'm over the initial

451
00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,040
Speaker 1: emotion of it, but sometimes it still plays in my

452
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 1: mind and really bothers me. I can't blame him. He

453
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 1: doesn't even know I existed. Oh yeah, she's kind of

454
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: like the last one. He didn't even know I existed

455
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:12,479
Speaker 1: and never touches this phone, And I knew I couldn't

456
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,719
Speaker 1: admit it to him because then he'd know I completely

457
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 1: invaded his privacy. What's the saying curiosity killed the cat?

458
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,919
Speaker 1: Don't do it, ladies, better to be delusional and imagine

459
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 1: his exes are all ugly.

460
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 2: Ah damn, bro, this is so juicy and this is

461
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,120
Speaker 2: literally the definition of fuck around him.

462
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 1: Find out bro. Oh my god. Oh and that's relatable.

463
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 1: Everyone has that urge, like that toxic urge, curiosity does

464
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:43,239
Speaker 1: kill the cat. Yeah, damn, oh wait, dad is And

465
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,880
Speaker 1: it sound sounded like at the end she kind of

466
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 1: made her decision that she's she she can't tell every

467
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 1: because it's an invasion of his prim Let's be real,

468
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:54,119
Speaker 1: it is.

469
00:23:54,640 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, so he's done nothing wrong, Like I'm assuming.

470
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: I don't know that darling thing. I feel like each

471
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 1: nickname reserve for a different partner if you do have

472
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 1: more than one along the line.

473
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, in timeline, separate points of time.

474
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:14,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

475
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 3: True, I've never had the same nickname for you can't.

476
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 1: But also, darling.

477
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 3: Is universal still, but get creative, dude, Darling is a

478
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 3: universal one.

479
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 1: But I would be like, but just use babe, abes universal, Yeah, babes.

480
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 1: If he's used darling, you've got another one right there, Babe.

481
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 1: Oh you mean choose another universe if you want a

482
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: universal obviously likes Darling. Oh damn.

483
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 3: She so she goes on she's looking at photos and

484
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 3: then she just so happens to be like I need

485
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:46,679
Speaker 3: to go deep and.

486
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: She war messages too. What does Beth call you talk about?

487
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: Not original? All right? So I, for some reason start

488
00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: a corner pickle. Can't for the life of me and

489
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: remember why? Right?

490
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 3: So I would say, like, call a pickle turned into

491
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 3: pick now picky, it's picky and pick Guess what she

492
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 3: calls me, daddy, mister pick that's ship you came up

493
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 3: with it exactly what I'm saying. It's that kind of

494
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 3: still works.

495
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: But not really. Say you found out that Beth quarter x,

496
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,479
Speaker 1: mister pick, how did you feel?

497
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 3: I would feel like, oh my god, I would feel hmm.

498
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 3: Let me just see if I can word this properly, properly, sorry,

499
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 3: let's see if I can be articulate.

500
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 1: I would feel.

501
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 3: I would feel less useful than the bag of sand

502
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 3: that sits in the back of some mutes to weigh

503
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 3: down the back.

504
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 1: What are we you an analogy? Fair?

505
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 3: Fair like that that would be stated that bag of

506
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 3: sand has more useful, It has more use than I do.

507
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:07,360
Speaker 1: And justifying this baddiest decisions. You found something that's on

508
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 1: the border of what and wrong using reusing a nickname

509
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 1: in a relationship. However, also bro Ignorance must have been

510
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 1: believed she didn't know. Right here, what's what you do?

511
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 1: Here's what you do? Right? So look, let's be real.

512
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 3: You can't tell him what you did because you did

513
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 3: invade his privacy and he's done nothing wrong.

514
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: These relationships were in the past. It sucks that they

515
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: were tends. Yeah, sucks, I'm sure you are too.

516
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 3: Sounds like he has a tight all right, And so

517
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 3: now every time he calls you darling, I think you

518
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 3: should just be like, I know we've been together.

519
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: For a while and you call me that, but I

520
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,479
Speaker 1: need to be honest. I hate that nickname. Get him

521
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: to think of a new one. No, I disagree. I

522
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: think honesty is the best policy moving forward. Hey, I

523
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: think you have to tell him fucking what because you've

524
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 1: done wrong by him, You've invaded his privacy, and imagine

525
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 1: like this happened a couple on ago. Imagine they get

526
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 1: married and he eventually finds out somehow it comes out

527
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: when they're both drunk one night, Like, I want you

528
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,479
Speaker 1: to get it off your chest. I know you did

529
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: something wrong, but admitting you did something wrong, like it's

530
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 1: not that terrible is better owning up to it than

531
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 1: never telling me. Damn, because I it's not. That's not

532
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: break up worthy to me, I'd be devot, but I'd

533
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: also appreciate that you told me. Yeah, I'm trying to

534
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 1: think how I would feel in this situation, Like, I know,

535
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:31,199
Speaker 1: ignorance is bliss, but also trust is the foundations of

536
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:36,199
Speaker 1: any relationship, which I have a feeling I would just

537
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,239
Speaker 1: be like, what, why'd you go through it? Exactly? And

538
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: it's not break up worthy, But it's also better for

539
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 1: her to tell him so they can move forward, damn. Man.

540
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: And you could also bring up the Darling conversation and

541
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: be like, look, I know I found something when I

542
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: shouldn't have been looking, but let's come up with some

543
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: new nicknames.

544
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I feel like you just got

545
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 3: to say to him, and now, yeah, one more thing,

546
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 3: the Darling thing.

547
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 1: It's God, it's gonna have to change. Yeah, yeah, you could.

548
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 3: You could admit to him, like I gotta say, ignorance

549
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,959
Speaker 3: was bliss, but the darling thing's gonna have to check it.

550
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 1: Fuck. You are right, You've got to tell him. Yeah

551
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,679
Speaker 1: that was juicy, but that was juicy. Fuck good lesson.

552
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: This one's pretty charmer a bit I should have known better.

553
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 3: Okay, Before I go on, I would like to ask

554
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 3: all your question, where can everyone go if they just

555
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 3: fucking love this.

556
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: Podcast, If they love this podcast and they love us,

557
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 1: go to Patreon. Yes, five dollars a month. You get

558
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: an extra episode of this every single week. You get

559
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: the book club early. And I'm gonna say it right now,

560
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: Love Island Australia is coming out and we're going to

561
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: be doing live reactions over there as of the day

562
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: we are recording this.

563
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 3: The first episode comes out tonight and we are gonna

564
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 3: watch it together and record it and post it on Patreon.

565
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so head on over there as cheap as chips,

566
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: and it really helps us a lot. All right.

567
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 3: Next to Lemma, I don't think my friend listens to

568
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 3: this podcast, so I feel safe sharing. Here's the situation.

569
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 3: My friend is raising a fourteen month old boy. Let's

570
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 3: call him A. He believes A is his son, but

571
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 3: I know the truth. What A is actually his brother,

572
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 3: the biological father. My friend's dad passed away when A

573
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 3: was only six weeks old. My friend has no idea.

574
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 3: He absolutely adores A and would give him the world.

575
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 3: He even bought his ex a house so she and

576
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 3: A wouldn't be homeless. The only slip was at the funeral,

577
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 3: A was listed on the pamphlet as a son and

578
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 3: not a grandson. My friend just assumed the funeral home

579
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 3: made a mistake and no one corrected it. The biological

580
00:29:55,720 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 3: father's wife, so technically A's stepmother has no no clue either.

581
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 3: I only know the truth because the mother told me.

582
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 3: As far as I am aware, it's just her and

583
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 3: me who know.

584
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: Now. I feel stuck.

585
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 3: This secret doesn't seem like it would benefit anyone if

586
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 3: it came out. At the same time, I feel like

587
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 3: I should say something. But how as men, how would

588
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 3: you want to be told that the child, the child

589
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 3: you've loved since pregnancy and through their first fourteen months,

590
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 3: isn't your son, but actually your brother.

591
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: We're not going down that happening. We're not going down there.

592
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: So the friends ex slept with his dad.

593
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but what I'm assuming while they were together, So

594
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 3: like she cheated with the guy's dad.

595
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 1: But then the dad passes away. I don't know. We're

596
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 1: not entertaining this.

597
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 2: This this we're honesty is the best policy.

598
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: This goes to the grave. Yeah, but he's passed away.

599
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 1: The dad's actual dad has passed away. Like, we're not

600
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: doing anything, all right? Let me think, when would you

601
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: want to find out? Is this like some TV series

602
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: we haven't seen? Yeah, she could be.

603
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 3: Is it? Are we getting? Fucking damn? We're getting what's

604
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 3: it called pranked by prank patrol?

605
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: Punked? Ah? When would you want to find out? Never?

606
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: Don't tell me, because no matter what, I've got to

607
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: be the new father figure to this kid. Don't tell me.

608
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: Ignorance is sometimes ignorance is bliss. Ignorance is always blessing.

609
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: Let's be real. Ignorance is always been in this scenario.

610
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: But also class half fool. This kid's going to think

611
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: he has a dad. It's a live that's good? Is

612
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 1: that good? I don't know. This is too techy. I

613
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 1: think just leave it. Just leave it. Also, not your place.

614
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 1: The mother should really be yes on the don't. Yeah,

615
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: don't say anything. It's on the mother up to her.

616
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: She chooses where this goes. How did the dad? So,

617
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: how did the biological father die? That? Hopefully not from

618
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 1: old age. Also, you couldn't tell me that my exits

619
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: slept with my dad. Don't tell me that.

620
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, you couldn't tell me that, damn, especially after

621
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 3: your dad's dead and.

622
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: You mourned him. That one is probably that's the craziest,

623
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: the craziest lemma we've ever had ever.

624
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 3: You're just an outside of looking in knowing that information.

625
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 3: What would you do if if you actually if you

626
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 3: found out that information, what would you do?

627
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 1: I think I'd run away? Yeah, I would leave. I

628
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:39,479
Speaker 1: think I would distance myself with everyone and be like,

629
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 1: no one loves I. I hope no, no loves me.

630
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 3: Because you're an outside of looking in, You're just like

631
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 3: a friend. I would just distansplay your place.

632
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: It's that.

633
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's there's a time because you're if you're the

634
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 3: one that says it, you're in the middle of it.

635
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 1: You don't need to be in the middle of this, Yeah, exactly.

636
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 1: So you don't want to be in the middle of this.

637
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 1: How would how would you tell I don't know entertainment,

638
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: don't entertain it. I don't reckon entertain it all. Really,

639
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: don't tell a friend, no fair, Okay, I know something

640
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: I shouldn't know. My brother and I found out that

641
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 1: our dad has a secret Instagram account, fake name, no photographs,

642
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: and he's following a few colleagues from his work. He

643
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: sent my brother on Instagram reel via WhatsApp and it

644
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: was connected to his secret account, So we are definitely

645
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 1: sure it's his. My mom doesn't have any form of

646
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: social media. Do we tell her? Ah?

647
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 3: They left out some key details. What's going on with

648
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 3: this account? Is he just one Instagram? He has a

649
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 3: secret Instagram account and here only follows coworkers.

650
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: He's probably got his normal Instagram account and then a

651
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: secret one with no profile picture and not his name,

652
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: and he's following coworkers. Fuck it. I can tell your mom. Yeah,

653
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 1: they could figure it out. Actually confront your dad. You

654
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: can confront yeah, stead of your dad, like what's this?

655
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: I can show your mum and let her do that.

656
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 1: Not my place. Now, you need to find out what

657
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: it is first. It's sure. You need to find out

658
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 1: what it actually is. Is that can't be justified something about

659
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 1: that's weird, give it to your mum. Like, this is

660
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: kind of at the very.

661
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 3: Length, I think, depending on age, at the very least,

662
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 3: that parents with social media easily manipulated.

663
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: But at the very least that he's all he's got

664
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 1: to say. It's very sucks. But all he's got to

665
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:29,839
Speaker 1: say is something like.

666
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 3: Oh why I had my other account and then one

667
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 3: time I couldn't get into it, and so I had

668
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 3: to make a new account. And I was halfway through

669
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 3: just like following new people and getting it ready, and

670
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 3: then my other account, I remember the password, so I

671
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 3: logged back in.

672
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: So I don't even use this.

673
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 3: Count easily You've done this before. Easily manipulated, is what

674
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 3: I'm saying. So you need to go to your dad,

675
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 3: need to confront him, and you need to say what

676
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:53,959
Speaker 3: the fuck is this about? Yeah, or go on his phone,

677
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 3: sucks it out, see who's messaging. Yeah, he was just

678
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 3: on the wrong account of the.

679
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 1: But also if he's got a fake account with a

680
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: random name and he's messaging these people, how do they

681
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 1: know it's your dad? Don't we know?

682
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 3: Someone told us that their parents have been divorced for

683
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 3: ages and her dad made I gotta keep this mad

684
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 3: broad And her dad made a fake account just to like,

685
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 3: I guess see what his ex wife of like seventeen

686
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 3: years or some shit he's been up to because he's still.

687
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: In love with her or something that.

688
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 3: Could be another reason, and and and and the only

689
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 3: reason they know is because he made the name an

690
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 3: old password or some shit like something.

691
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: Something like that.

692
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 3: And I remember when she told us, I was like,

693
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 3: it's like, it's scary but maybe cute because he's still old.

694
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: People shouldn't be on the gramm a like if you

695
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 1: treat it like that, I mean like people like I

696
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: don't know, fifty and older gen X and up? Yeah,

697
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: what's gen X?

698
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 3: So my parents? Yeah, her parents probably still gen X.

699
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon that aging up Yeah, fifteen up, gen

700
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: x and up should definitely stand Facebook.

701
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 3: Not even read a newspaper. I don't know, just look

702
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 3: stuff up on Google. Sorry, you don't need social media.

703
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 3: It's too dangerous. Your footprint, like your footprints way too

704
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 3: broad and way too easy to and.

705
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 1: You have no idea what's going on? Absolutely clueless. All right, Jake,

706
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 1: I'm excited for this one. I g Question of the Week.

707
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: Things men do that make you say, oh yes, oh yes,

708
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: let me go first. So things men do that make

709
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: you say oh yes, knowing when to be silent? Oh okay,

710
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 1: I took this in the bedroom.

711
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I was gonna say I can't when you

712
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 3: initially said it, I was thinking, just in general, stop talking.

713
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 1: Could be taken both ways, like you're annoying me, But

714
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 1: in the bedroom that mouth shut? Should you ever be silent?

715
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: I reckon, there's a time and a place to just

716
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: go to town and no to be silent, like it

717
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: speaks for itself. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't need you

718
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: to talk. Yeah, this thing doesn't talk flush Okay. Things

719
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: men do that make you say, oh yes, Robert Irwin

720
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: need I say less? Oh yeah? What happened to that man?

721
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: Do you know he's like twenty he's younger than us,

722
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: that bonds ad. I saw some people being like he

723
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 1: was hot until I realized that he was twenty.

724
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. True, everyone's thinking he's so hot, and they're like, wait,

725
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 3: he's twenty fair.

726
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,399
Speaker 1: I thought he was twenty five until someone said that, So, yeah,

727
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: it looks a bit older, but I didn't think we

728
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: were that much older than him. I reckon, he's going

729
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 1: to age like fine wine to A he's gonna get hotter,

730
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 1: and A damn he's not dancing with the stars right now. Yeah,

731
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: Bro's got such a good career and.

732
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 3: He's and he did one did one dance where like

733
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 3: they ripped his shirt.

734
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: Off his shirt today and apparently you had to apologize

735
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 1: for it too hot, too sexy. Maybe maybe yes, people

736
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 1: melted too many of you. Yeah. Yeah. Things men do

737
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 1: that make you say, oh yes, saying your light when

738
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: they pick you up fair. I saw a lot of

739
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: them do really, I didn't see any of them really,

740
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: that's heaves fair. I feel like the best thing too.

741
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: I think that goes both ways too. So when you

742
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: go to pick your girlfriend or whoever you're talking to

743
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 1: you up and they say no, I'm heavy, and then

744
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: you pick him up like, oh you're so light, you

745
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: both win because you feel masculine and she feels like

746
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,240
Speaker 1: a queen.

747
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 3: I thought when you said both ways, you're going to

748
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 3: say when she picks you up she says you're.

749
00:38:54,680 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 1: Heavy, I'm heavy, then okay.

750
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,720
Speaker 3: Things men do that make you say oh yes, doing

751
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 3: the stretch, the stretch like the stretch.

752
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 1: Upward dog or something. What's the stretch the cobra, he

753
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 1: stretched like one knee up, like stretching. Or maybe he's

754
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: stretching her. Oh, that could be it, because I've never

755
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: heard anyone say the stretch. It's got to be you

756
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 1: stretching them. But like, what's a stretch that all men do? No,

757
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: I think I feel like, what's the class Like that's

758
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 1: not a stretch. No, I think it's stretching her. Maybe

759
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: like a leg placement where like missionary legs up a

760
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 1: little bit of a stretch. Maybe maybe that's unique and individual.

761
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she like said these stretches, if everyone knew it,

762
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:55,319
Speaker 3: that's why I think it's a girl thing.

763
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: And we don't know. We've never stretched him that way.

764
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: Let us know, let us know, very derogatory, the stretch,

765
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: initial penetration. I'm open to every single thing you can

766
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: think of. It could be that, yeah, because that makes

767
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 1: the most sense, Like it feels good. Maybe it's like again,

768
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: the stretch is like the first time Nesta and Cassian

769
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:34,399
Speaker 1: had She's just things men do to make you say,

770
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: oh yes, this one took it very literally, leave me alone.

771
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 3: Oh yes, fair, fair things men do to make you say,

772
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 3: oh yes.

773
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 1: The way he drives my car. That is hot. A

774
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: that must be sexy. I feel like a man when

775
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 1: you drive your girlfriend's car, whipping that little thing around

776
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: and you always like put the seat back and they

777
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: act annoid, but you change the mirrors. Things men do

778
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 1: that make you say, oh yes, choosing me over the boys. Valid? Yeah, valid,

779
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:18,919
Speaker 1: is a good feeling. Flash me them back dimples, back

780
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: dimples like back there, like down near your bump. No,

781
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 1: that's weird. Girls like a back dimple, I don't know

782
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: about that. Is that like part of the dadbod excess skin?

783
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 1: I don't think I have any back dimples you're checking.

784
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm just feeling. I don't know about that one. Girls

785
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 1: like a back dimple, I don't know. I saw one

786
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 1: that said back muscles. That makes a less fair. That

787
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: makes me say yes, back dimples though, that's very fair.

788
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 1: What's better? Uh is like a is a nice big.

789
00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 3: Muscly back more widely loved than say a nice big

790
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 3: muscley chest.

791
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 4: It goes yeah, back arms, chest yeah, funk legs yeah, legs,

792
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,280
Speaker 4: k legs, fuck legs.

793
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: Most men have those cigarette legs anyway. Fair. Things men

794
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: do that make you say oh yes, being a swiftye

795
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: or directioner. Oh, I know.

796
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 3: I mean I would say I'm a Taylor Swift supporter.

797
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: I swifty at some point. I don't know if I'm

798
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: allowed to call myself a proper swifty though, But you do,

799
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 1: I'll give you that.

800
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 3: Things men do that make you say, oh yes, roll

801
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: up sorry, yeah, roll up shirt sleeve to show those

802
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 3: veiny arms.

803
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: I saw veiny arms. Your girls love vainy arms. With that.

804
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it's like alluding to like what's

805
00:42:56,040 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: under that shirt too? Yeah? True, and we roll up tight.

806
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 1: Those four arms are too big, okay. Things men do

807
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 1: that make you say, oh yes, smirk nah, bro, No man.

808
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 3: Can smirk in a way to make you say, oh yes,

809
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 3: it's gonna be hard.

810
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: Pause. I can't do it.

811
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 3: Also, when that was the worst thing I've ever seen ever, that.

812
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: Was the worst thing I've ever seen ever, you interjected

813
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: too early. Pick up the wet floors on fucking dry.

814
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 3: Dry. Things men do this make you say oh yes

815
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 3: when he says hold on tight to the headboard.

816
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 1: Hold on tight, yeah, bullshit. Things men do that make

817
00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 1: you say oh yes when they finally find the she said, see,

818
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: do you know what that is? The clip. Yeah, that

819
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: would be a good feeling. I need to admit something.

820
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 1: Don't say you've never found I can't say I have

821
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 1: what what about a bed or any girlfriend? Dude? I mean,

822
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 1: if I have found it, fluked it, can't you find

823
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:32,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like seem like faicious.

824
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 3: I can't tell you the conversation that I had with

825
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:36,919
Speaker 3: Beth the other day, just because it's like quite bright,

826
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 3: I can tell you probably off.

827
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: She was like, you still haven't found my No, like no,

828
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 1: I can't go on. But I just like, seriously, but

829
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:55,919
Speaker 1: because but you can always feel it? Okay, big guy?

830
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,399
Speaker 1: Is that true? I don't think so. I don't think

831
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:00,879
Speaker 1: it is.

832
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 3: Okay, big guy, give me an anatomy lesson your girlfriend,

833
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 3: give you I've tried.

834
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: She doesn't even know where it is.

835
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 3: She does it, she doesn't, she does it hand on hearts,

836
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 3: wearing Henry's life.

837
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: Beth seems to think she doesn't. Okay, interesting, come on,

838
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: let me. We talked about vibrated before. It helps finding it,

839
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 1: like exploring more like where it is the sensation rating

840
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: and I do it? Help me find it because she

841
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: will feel it and be like that's it, and then

842
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: you then you investigate more.

843
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 3: One thing I do know is the glittorist is actually

844
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 3: it goes quite in, quite deep.

845
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: I only found that out. It's actually the outside of

846
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 1: the walls, the whole clippress, you know, yeah, like it

847
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: spreads a bit so you can't hit every guy. I

848
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: found it.

849
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 3: I just haven't found that one that everyone seems to

850
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 3: think is the only glit.

851
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 1: Oh, there's just one big one.

852
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 3: So everyone's like, have you shut the funk up about

853
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 3: the clip bro, Seriously, I'm going to show you a

854
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 3: diagram after a I.

855
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:14,760
Speaker 1: Don't believe it exists.

856
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 3: I don't think that that little everyone's like flicking the being.

857
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 3: This flicking the being, that terrible analogy. No one's flicking

858
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 3: that thing.

859
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: It's similar to whanking, like the same analogy as wankan,

860
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:32,800
Speaker 1: Like you know, whankan isn't like I think it's a myth. Personally,

861
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 1: If my girlfriend can't flick it, is that?

862
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Speaker 3: No? Seriously tell me, Okay, things men do that make

863
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 3: you say, oh, yes, this is actually a good one,

864
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 3: Remembering something I like, then having it there the next

865
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Speaker 3: time I see him.

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Speaker 1: That's a great one. Actually I have another one. I

867
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Speaker 1: have another good one.

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00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 3: Back to back being vulnerable in a tender moment that

869
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 3: makes me weak to my knees.

870
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I like that. Being vulnerable is like, oh yeah,

871
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 1: he's emotionally mature. Oh yeah, I guess even just like

872
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 1: not scared. I can see a future of this guy

873
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 1: that's not like, oh yeah, he's sexy. He's like, oh yeah,

874
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 1: he's a man fair My last one, things men do

875
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: that make you say oh yes when he's gentle during cuddles?

876
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Speaker 3: I mean, let me just say something. If you've experienced

877
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 3: someone that's not gentle during cuddles, what were they doing?

878
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: Can you be a ship cuddler? Imagine? How can you

879
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: be a shit cuddler? And how can you not be

880
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: gentle during a cuddle? Maybe you're like I don't know,

881
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: always like hand on the head, like.

882
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 3: Ah well, I don't understand how you can't be gentle

883
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 3: in a cuddle.

884
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:08,879
Speaker 1: Maybe going a bit too quick, it's not like smooth. Sorry.

885
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:13,439
Speaker 1: I thot you said wrestle talking about only your restle

886
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: with my bros. That's all I know, all right.

887
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Speaker 3: Last one, what what's something I do that make you say,

888
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 3: oh yes, get on his knees to workshop at my.

889
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: Altar workshop at my altar. I have a feeling it's like,

890
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 1: get on his knees and ah, I feel I think

891
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 1: that's what it needs. Yeah, like a bit of like

892
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 1: voodoo christ in there, pull her up to the edge

893
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 1: of the bed. To be fair, that would be like,

894
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: oh yeah, getting a workshop at my altar, putting the

895
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: altar of something, the entrance of something. Maybe putting him

896
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 1: on his knee to go to your altar would be like,

897
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: oh yes, I just don't know how I can feel

898
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:01,319
Speaker 1: about being like more. The longer we go on with

899
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 1: this podcast, the more vanilla I find out I am.

900
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I actually I am the same. And then when

901
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 3: I think I'm getting.

902
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Speaker 1: Less, I'm keeping that shit PG.

903
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 3: It's almost like I'm yeah, yeah, true, yeah, like you

904
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:20,240
Speaker 3: could if there was I'd say my life.

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00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: Could be a PG movie. Yeah, I reckon. I feel

906
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: like a dog and the hear some of this and

907
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm on Disney So fair. Alright, baddies,

908
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,720
Speaker 1: before we jump into the comments, we have a big

909
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 1: announcement of a new campaign. We are calling this the

910
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: Baddest Baddie Campaign. We're on the hunt for the baddest baddies,

911
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: the real engines behind business side hustles and companies to

912
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 1: step into the spotlight. This is your chance to show

913
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: off your hustle in a fun kind of gamified format

914
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 1: and compete for the crown of the badest bad ee. Okay,

915
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 1: and you also win one month long podcast sponsorship for

916
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 1: the business you work for or your business? What which

917
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 1: is pretty cool? Did you just add that at the end? No,

918
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 1: it's always been there. Ah, you know what news to me?

919
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 2: One month sponsorship fucking for their business?

920
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: That's crazy. I feel like that's a good prices. Also,

921
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: what businesses are we talking about it? What if it's summariness?

922
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 1: This shows you. I sent Jake this fucking form and

923
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 1: he obviously didn't read it. I read up to what

924
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: was important, but clearly not so wait so bad You

925
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: said to me this was a great idea because it

926
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 1: is a great and then you said everything about it

927
00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:00,320
Speaker 1: this couise, So I was like, oh sick, everything about

928
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: it's good.

929
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 3: I really I just read like the competitions, like the

930
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 3: different games and stuff, and then I didn't right, I

931
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 3: just assumed that win was gonna get with the winner

932
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 3: go for both friend and boyfriend.

933
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: Olympics one. It's just going to be a little ad read.

934
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 1: So say, I don't know, they say they're not going

935
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: to work for a simple they're not gonna work for McDonald's.

936
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: But say she's a macas manager. Yeah, and she wins

937
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: McDonald's macers. We recommend it. Yeah that four episodes. Yeah,

938
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 1: four episodes. So if that sounds of interest to you,

939
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: that is will be competing, had to have head to

940
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 1: head in a playful workplace inspired challenges to test grit,

941
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 1: wit and the grind. They're gonna be mini games. Some

942
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: are going to be like really simple, super fun. Some

943
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 1: are going to be complex. And if this sounds like

944
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 1: something you'd be interested in, and also if you don't

945
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: want like the ad read and you still have a business,

946
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: you can compete, you're true.

947
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we'll give up a prom Actually, there'll be

948
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 3: a prize that is maybe money equivalent.

949
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 1: We'll give you guys, like a gift care, a gift

950
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 1: card something, if that's what you want instead.

951
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 3: Because what if they're working for a company and they're like,

952
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 3: I don't want to fucking give my company promotion?

953
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 1: Fuck them, Yeah exactly. They didn't give me the rise

954
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 1: I wanted last month or some ship. So there's still

955
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 1: a little bit to working out apparently, but if you

956
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 1: want to apply, the link will be in the top

957
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: of the description and it starts next week. But Jake,

958
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: let's do comments.

959
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 3: I got two from YouTube, Okay, from Emma Hope. It

960
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 3: is definitely rock paper scissors shoot, or maybe that is

961
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 3: just the American way. No, it's scissors, paper, rock paper

962
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 3: rock rock rock paper shoot.

963
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: There's no like dispute. He hate paper rock.

964
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's how it goes rock rock Yeah, right, sis

965
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,919
Speaker 5: paper If you start with rock, it's like rock.

966
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: Okay, I've got Nicky Varrus. Do you remember that at

967
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 1: Lama last week about Instagram? Can give me a brief

968
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: recap on how she was talking four dudes? Oh?

969
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 3: Yes, shit, So this is this girl talking to four

970
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 3: guys that actually likes one of them a lot.

971
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: She gets added on Instagram by some random profile.

972
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 3: This person message and says, ah, you know, I do

973
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 3: this to every girl I'm talking to. What's my name?

974
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 3: Just to see if she's talking to more than one.

975
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 1: Dude, Nicki said, you can log in with his user

976
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:41,799
Speaker 1: name on ig then click forget password, and two or

977
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: three letters of his email will come up, and then

978
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: you can kind of see his name, so you'll know

979
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 1: which one it is. Wait, did she need to be

980
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 1: with them? No? No, no, So you just so you

981
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 1: log out of your Instagram copy and paste is gone

982
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 1: your computer, copy and paste he's user name of this

983
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 1: fake account into Instagram forgot password. It will come up

984
00:53:58,360 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 1: with three letters of his email and it'll be like

985
00:53:59,880 --> 00:54:03,399
Speaker 1: no or Sam, and you'll be like, that's him, fucking shit,

986
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 1: losing Damn. I like our way. That was genius.

987
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 3: I mean, we're not going to find out who he is.

988
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 3: That's the best way to find out who he is.

989
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:12,840
Speaker 3: But I liked what we said. Have how you have

990
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:14,399
Speaker 3: to message him and just be like fuck off?

991
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, do both? But vallid now.

992
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 3: The next one from Sassy Mouse. This was about the

993
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 3: male friendships, surface level stuff. So she said women are

994
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 3: socialized to be thinking of and nurturing other people before themselves,

995
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 3: so a lot of women have a focus on others,

996
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 3: including their friends, partner, kids, parents, colleagues, et cetera. Men

997
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 3: aren't socialized like that, so unless they're intentionally trying to

998
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 3: get those good relationship and communication skills, men just sail

999
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 3: through life just receiving passively rather than really participating in relationships.

1000
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:53,320
Speaker 3: In home life and in community, etc.

1001
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 1: So it's about it. It's yeah, it's social. Passively is

1002
00:54:56,719 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: a good word to describe male friendships. It's too passive.

1003
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:04,440
Speaker 1: It's very passive. That's a good point. Actually, Okay, my

1004
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 1: last one is from Ford. The car branch commented, we

1005
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 1: want to give you guys two vehicles. Let's go now,

1006
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 1: this one's for you. Oh my god, I have to

1007
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: go on the low FOD map too. The brand Fountain

1008
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: has tomato sauced with have no onion or garlic, but

1009
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Speaker 1: not sure about barbecue. What fountain? That's the brands Fountain?

1010
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: But bad is it is time for one of you

1011
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 1: two sign off the episodes. Yeah, if you want to

1012
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 1: get called by us, the link will be in a description.

1013
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:37,280
Speaker 1: You can sign up there. But today we are calling

1014
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:44,800
Speaker 1: Lauren bro it's that brand. Oh what a day? Hello

1015
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 1: is that Lauren?

1016
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Speaker 6: Yes?

1017
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:49,240
Speaker 1: This is it's Audi and Jake for the Relatables podcast.

1018
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 1: How's it going? Oh my god, it's so good?

1019
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 6: How are you.

1020
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 1: Really good too? I were very good? Thank you for

1021
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: picking up. We are calling today to see if you

1022
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 1: would be okay to sign off one of our episodes.

1023
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 6: Yeah. I was not expecting this. Wow.

1024
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone says that I'm expecting it. We're thinking you

1025
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 1: signed up. How long ago did you sign off there?

1026
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 6: Actually I think it did last week.

1027
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: Look at us.

1028
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 6: But you guys called me like back in June when

1029
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 6: I was in Scotland and my antient would let me

1030
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 6: pick it up, and then you and then Jake diss

1031
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 6: me on the path.

1032
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 1: He's got some Well you've made up for it, yeah,

1033
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:34,240
Speaker 1: or have you? Oh?

1034
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 6: I don't know, that's hope. Oh yeah. So advice I

1035
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 6: probably give is just to if you're scared to do

1036
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 6: anything because of issues with like money, family, whatever, just

1037
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 6: do it. It'll be worth it. If it is a

1038
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 6: money issue, you can pay it back quickly. Just live

1039
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 6: in the moment, enjoy it, and don't let them hold

1040
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 6: you back.

1041
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: Love that. As Niki once said, just do it. Yeah,

1042
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:04,959
Speaker 1: thank you, lad, thank you, thank you. That was good.

1043
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Speaker 1: Thank you very much for listening. Stay bad