WEBVTT - WHO CHANGES THEIR SURNAME?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure I haven't told this story on the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast because that was really embarrassed Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 2>You haven't told me? What is that embarrassing?

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<v Speaker 1>Like my eyes? Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast

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<v Speaker 1>that talks full things. Right, Hold on a sec, let's

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<v Speaker 1>give this a refresh. Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Anna and I'm Matt, and we are now too

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<v Speaker 2>newlywed not to each other. Just a female and male

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<v Speaker 2>best friend here for the good, the bad, and the

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<v Speaker 2>ugly times.

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<v Speaker 1>And exploring adulthood, family relationships, dilemmas.

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<v Speaker 2>And whatever else we have the mental capacity to deal with.

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<v Speaker 1>Come get the lowdown.

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<v Speaker 2>This is your male and female perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Matt, where's your head at? Good morning?

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning Anna? Thank you for buying me a coffee?

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<v Speaker 2>Come in? What great service?

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<v Speaker 1>You are more than of my and I got extra

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<v Speaker 1>hots and you were I knew you were running a lake.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a little bit of traffic coming in. I

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<v Speaker 2>actually speaking abut coffees and buying me one. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>remember the other day at Gold Coast Airport when we

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<v Speaker 2>waited for your flight?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you know that that coffee, a medium arm in laste,

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<v Speaker 2>costed me eight dollars? Costed you eight dollars for a coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>I just nothing surprises me anymore, Like I go to

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<v Speaker 1>Wooli's or Coals for a very small shop. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>tried to get one dinner and it cost me like

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<v Speaker 1>sixty dollars. I should have just got Ubery's.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that happened to me the other day as well.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was actually the girl when she said, she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>i'd be eight dollars. I was like, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just getting the one and she said yeah, and she

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<v Speaker 2>said eight dollars instead of eight dollars. I doubled down

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<v Speaker 2>on it, and I was like, I literally was shook.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you watched this from the table,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was like, what And you didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually tell me about it At the time, I was sturzingly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was that sure. I didn't want to go and.

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<v Speaker 1>Rik into next century? Do you know? Okay? When we

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<v Speaker 1>were in Turkey, I think it was what's the capital

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<v Speaker 1>of Turkey, ea, Istanbul, Istanbul. We were at Istanbul Airport.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot going on there. I think the hair transplants.

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<v Speaker 1>All of the guys with their hair transplants was one thing. Yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>very it was so normal, Like every guy, every second

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<v Speaker 1>guy that I saw, had the hair trains.

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<v Speaker 2>My best mate says that he goes when he was there,

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<v Speaker 2>literally every second.

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<v Speaker 1>Person, every second guy is like and even yeah, even

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<v Speaker 1>some women. And anyway, that was like one thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>then when I got over that, Michael went to get

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<v Speaker 1>us coffees and it was going to cost forty six

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<v Speaker 1>Australian dollars for two coffees.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's that in euros? I'd be like twenty something.

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<v Speaker 1>Barks, I don't know, but Michael actually like so he

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<v Speaker 1>placed the order and then he's like, nah, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't do that, No I can't. It's not even like

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<v Speaker 1>it's just the principle. It's a principle of all of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that you could buy for forty six dollars

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<v Speaker 1>that is worth your while. And you're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>spend on two coffees even drink in five minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably three coffees here at go Coast Airport.

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<v Speaker 1>Well there you go, you get an extra coffee. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you notice anything different about me today?

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<v Speaker 2>You're pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>I have been pregnant, but seven and a half months.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, is your hair different?

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<v Speaker 1>I love doing this with men it's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like eyebrows lips because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think about like my face. It's about something I'm wearing

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<v Speaker 1>that's new.

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<v Speaker 2>The necklace.

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<v Speaker 1>The necklace, Yeah right, and do you know what the

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<v Speaker 1>necklace says on it?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't read it from here.

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<v Speaker 1>So the necklace has an S on it, and the

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<v Speaker 1>S is a clue to our chosen baby boy name.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>So do we already know this on the podcast? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, I knew this, but yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Now wearing the necklace, I'm like very excited.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I don't know what everyone else knows or what

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but that is an S.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we pretty much share everything, but then

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<v Speaker 1>like occasionally we're like, let's keep this, keep this, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit. So, yeah, the baby's name starts

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<v Speaker 1>with an S. That's the clue.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to tell us or no?

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<v Speaker 1>No, that it's it's a clue.

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<v Speaker 2>So can I guess?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure?

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<v Speaker 2>If I guess it?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Will you tell us?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you if you guess it. But I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to obviously say the name.

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<v Speaker 3>S.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even think of one.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let me, I've googled some names here.

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<v Speaker 1>I googled you couldn't think of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't think it's going to be your stereotypical one.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me what you think it's like the style of name.

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<v Speaker 2>It it's going to have to be like you know

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<v Speaker 2>what out there, not out there, but like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna have to be like a name, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not going to be Samuel or Sebastian or something

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<v Speaker 2>like that. How do you know, because I just I

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<v Speaker 2>know you it's not gonna be something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You never know?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it like button?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna go. I'm not gonna say no, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can say like a few and then I can.

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<v Speaker 2>So can grow a little soul patch on his chin?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a thing? What's a soul patch?

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a little ghosty on your chin. Actually, saber,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what it means. Intense, not seth too basic, Skuyla Santo, Santino, Santini,

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<v Speaker 2>Santino Santino.

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<v Speaker 1>It's definitely not Santinio Spencer. Okay, I'm gonna stop you there.

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<v Speaker 1>You've given a few guesses people, can I have done

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<v Speaker 1>a post on this and people are going to guess

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<v Speaker 1>on my post obviously if the name is in that post.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say it's somewhere in there, and if it's not,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not going to say anything. So yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So something funny happen with me during Valentine's Day. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pretty sure I haven't told this story on the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>because I was really embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 2>Valentine's Day and you haven't told me? What is that embarrassing?

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<v Speaker 1>Like my eyes are I can't go. So we've spoken,

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<v Speaker 1>We've done like a Valentine's Day like crying, is you okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So we've spoken about Valentine's Day, both of us, and

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of like recapped on our Valentine's Day. But

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<v Speaker 1>what I didn't actually tell the podcast was I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>to get Sexy Lingerie on Valentine's Day. And I have

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<v Speaker 1>bought Sexy laingdere in the past, so I have like

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<v Speaker 1>a box of it. So I just kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>went through it and just like picked one. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like a red lacy kind of body suite, and like

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<v Speaker 1>you would have been, I was like six months pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>So I basically didn't try it on because I was

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<v Speaker 1>in such a rush, like we were packing. We had

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<v Speaker 1>a business meeting for Goldie b before.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's right, and you went away, didn't you.

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<v Speaker 1>We went away so literally just like shoved like stuff

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<v Speaker 1>into a small carry on bag and anyway, then we

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<v Speaker 1>were kind of like you know, in the hotel room,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I'm going to put on my

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<v Speaker 1>little red number, so you.

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<v Speaker 2>Wann Do you warn Michael before or do you?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I did tell him, like I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to put on like my little Valentine's Day right,

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<v Speaker 1>and like you think, like a lacey red bodysuit, like

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be like looking sexy right.

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<v Speaker 2>As a man when you have to wait, when you're

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<v Speaker 2>waiting for that bit for your miss her to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what's going through your mind?

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<v Speaker 2>Like how do you sit? How do you wa You

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to be like on your phone when they

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<v Speaker 2>walk out, so you sort of got to like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>time it. Well, you're trying to listen to see if

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<v Speaker 2>they're coming out.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the reaction.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the reaction?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you like, oh my god, yeah, or.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you just just normally I'm just going to genuinely

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<v Speaker 2>like react. I going to overdo it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I put on this red one piece. I look

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<v Speaker 1>in the mirror literally started pissing myself upfing It was

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<v Speaker 1>so bad, Like I wish I took a photo and

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could post it on the Facebook group

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<v Speaker 1>just so everyone can see how bad this looked. I

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<v Speaker 1>literally I looked like we need the pooh, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so or like Patrick from SpongeBob because.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like a middrift. So was it meant to

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<v Speaker 2>cover your whole stomach?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that's where I went wrong, Yeah, right, like

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<v Speaker 1>I should have had just a bra, and yeah, a

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<v Speaker 1>bra and.

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<v Speaker 2>The bra probably wouldn't fit you though, well.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I could have got like a probably I should.

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<v Speaker 2>Have bought the well yeah no, or.

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<v Speaker 1>Like something that just wasn't gonna be like tight on

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<v Speaker 1>the tummy, like it wasn't even because it was so

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<v Speaker 1>tight as well, it didn't like like go around the bump.

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<v Speaker 1>It went from the bump like straight down like there

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<v Speaker 1>was just like no definition. It just looked.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you commit to it and wear it out?

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<v Speaker 1>I wore it out and I tried to shape it

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<v Speaker 1>around my tummy with my hands, but I just couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>stop laughing, Like even now, like it just makes me

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<v Speaker 1>laugh so much because I've never looked in the mirror

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<v Speaker 1>and like have just put on lingerie and like lingerie,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like is empowering. And you're like, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to be sexy, and I just looked not sexy. Just

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't sexy. I was funny. What was funny to look?

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<v Speaker 2>What did Michael say like he's so cute?

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<v Speaker 1>He tried to like there was nothing that he could

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<v Speaker 1>have said that mate would have made me feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't I didn't look funny because I did look funny.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, and then did you commit to it and

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<v Speaker 2>wear it the whole.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it came off like pretty quickly after.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you didn't keep it on time.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to look like Winny the po anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I just look like this pregnant chick.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, anyway, Anna, I saw you've started your nursery. You're

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<v Speaker 2>getting rid of the makeup room.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's actually a really it's been a sad day.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm going through a breakup my makeup room.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had it in this house, my last house, and

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<v Speaker 1>I always I've always had a makeup desk.

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<v Speaker 2>At least you go to make sacrifices for children this

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<v Speaker 2>is like my first Obviously, being pregnant in some ways

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<v Speaker 2>is a sacrifice because it's very hard.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was really upset about getting rid of my

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<v Speaker 1>makeup desk. I do have a smaller one that's going

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<v Speaker 1>in the living room area, so it's not like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have one, but it's just not the same. But

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<v Speaker 1>it was very exciting building and putting together some of

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<v Speaker 1>the baby furniture. The chair is really comfy, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all is in progress.

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<v Speaker 2>Did are you going to pay it? Like a playpen

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<v Speaker 2>out for the kid? Like I'm thinking about your head jail. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm thinking about it now. There's gonna be toys everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know. I think storage is an issue for everyone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like no matter how obviously, if you

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<v Speaker 1>have a mansion, you're gonna have storage spots. But I

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<v Speaker 1>just like everyone struggles with storage, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you just need to fully be clearing out like I've

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<v Speaker 1>been clearing You're not a hoarder.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to say, you're not a holder, so you'll

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<v Speaker 2>be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm easy to get rid of things, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>need to like take time to do it. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>gave away four bags of clothes yesterday alone. And I've

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<v Speaker 1>already cleared out my wardrobe, but this was just like

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<v Speaker 1>my drawers. So yeah, I'm just like getting rid of everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm cleansing the soul, the space, everything. But the thing

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<v Speaker 1>is is that my stuff's going out, but the baby

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<v Speaker 1>stuff coming in and stuff. I mean, I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say yay or nay.

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<v Speaker 2>But Sab went to school. You don't want to call

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<v Speaker 2>them seb. I went to a school with ACEB. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to call him seb.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a bit don't you think it's so interesting

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<v Speaker 1>just to go back slightly with names. It's like if

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<v Speaker 1>you know someone, they can totally ruin an ame.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh of course. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I used to teach swimming, I think when I

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<v Speaker 1>was like twenty three for a couple of years, and

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<v Speaker 1>obviously I had classes full of kids, and names just

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<v Speaker 1>remind me of specific kids, like some kids like very

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<v Speaker 1>naughty kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Which sorry, which what's their names? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I remember there was this little girl called Laney and

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<v Speaker 1>she was so cute. She was honestly like the sweetest

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<v Speaker 1>little girl, and she would like bring me flowers and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, hi, miss Anna, bring me flower.

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<v Speaker 2>To swim any naughty ones.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there was like Romeo, but yeah no, So I

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<v Speaker 1>think like names, really, if you know someone with a name,

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<v Speaker 1>or if you don't necessarily get along with that personal

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<v Speaker 1>like them or even they match, just have a really

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<v Speaker 1>strong personality, you just immediately think of that person. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah right, I did see something people like. I saw

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of tikos, get them sent to me, and

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<v Speaker 2>they say that every girl needs to go through dating

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<v Speaker 2>her mate phase and they think they every match and

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<v Speaker 2>all this stuff. Yeah really yeah, and they girls associate

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<v Speaker 2>their name Matt with that sort of stuff. They just say,

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<v Speaker 2>you've got to go through their Matt stage. I guess

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<v Speaker 2>it must be heartbreak and turmoil.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I dated Matt.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah he did. My wife's dated too, Matts.

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<v Speaker 1>True, she did.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't get out of her face, she went straight

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<v Speaker 2>back into it. So I've got a We actually got

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<v Speaker 2>sent a voicemail which is quite interesting because it's very

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<v Speaker 2>on topic with something that's happened to me recently. So

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<v Speaker 2>I decided we should play this one. It is about

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<v Speaker 2>men changing their name to their wife's name, the last

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<v Speaker 2>name when they get married.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, so.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to a wedding, one of my best mate's wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>I was the grooms in there, and he decided to

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<v Speaker 2>take his wife's last name.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she didn't want to change her name. She was

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<v Speaker 2>quite fond of it, and instead of I have a

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<v Speaker 2>good last name, I don't want yeah, it's cool, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say it. On the podcast, he

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<v Speaker 2>said that he wanted to have the same last name

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<v Speaker 2>as his kids and she wasn't wanting to take his

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<v Speaker 2>last name. So he was like, I'm willing to change it, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>which I think is really cute. Can you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful?

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<v Speaker 2>Personally, I think I was very and I was very

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<v Speaker 2>vocally as I want traditional stuff with the wedding, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, well, yeah, I would like tell me

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<v Speaker 2>to take my last name.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But either way, like we never really had the conversation

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<v Speaker 2>and me taking her last name, I guess if it

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<v Speaker 2>was come up in conversation, maybe do you reckon, Michael

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<v Speaker 2>would have taken yours.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's so funny because I'm now Anna Staples. But

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I love the name Michael McAvoy. How

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<v Speaker 1>fresh does that sound?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? It does sound cool?

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds cool.

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<v Speaker 2>The conversation ever come up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we spoke about that, and he's like, yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>is cool, but I'm still going to keep Saples. I

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<v Speaker 1>think Saples is a beautiful name. I think it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's many factors as to why people might

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<v Speaker 1>not change or want to change their name. Obviously, if

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<v Speaker 1>you love your name, like my, I have a friend

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<v Speaker 1>and her last name is Summers. What a cool last name.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh No, I used to ice to wrestle with a

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<v Speaker 2>guy and he was called CJ. Sommers the Summers and

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<v Speaker 2>he was just not a good wrestler.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is the name thing. Again, You're associating the people.

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<v Speaker 1>And then another reason is that people want to keep

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<v Speaker 1>the family name going.

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<v Speaker 4>They're traditional, So like for instance, say maybe say for

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<v Speaker 4>me if I, oh no, I have a brother, but

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<v Speaker 4>for instance, if I didn't have a brother, I would

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<v Speaker 4>then you know.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're really wanting to keep Zukowski, yeah, easy.

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<v Speaker 2>To keep the name going, Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you can also see it from like a

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<v Speaker 1>female perspective, if you're if you only have sisters and

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<v Speaker 1>therefore you might want to keep that name going, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you would ask your husband, hey.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you change the name will you take my name?

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<v Speaker 1>Should we listen to that voicemail before we continue any further.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, guys, I'm just reaching out as I would love

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<v Speaker 3>your thoughts on this topic. When my wife and I

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<v Speaker 3>got married, I made the decision to take her last name.

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<v Speaker 3>We've received lots of different opinions, some positive and some negative.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm proud of the decision I made to take her name,

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<v Speaker 3>and I have no regrets. But my question is, it's

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<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty five. Why should it be an expectation for

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<v Speaker 3>a woman to take a man's last name?

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<v Speaker 2>True, that is true.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like it's so outdated. Yeah, so outdated.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, isn't the whole premise of it, though, that

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<v Speaker 2>the man then owned Like back in the day, it

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<v Speaker 2>was more that the man's married to the woman. He

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<v Speaker 2>owns a woman, and that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Where it's like his family name, his family name is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a very outdated tradition. And I think he's right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it is twenty twenty five, it should be a

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<v Speaker 1>couple's decision. Yeah, it should be a mutual decision.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it should get any backlash as well

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<v Speaker 2>from anyone. I don't think anyone in your family should care,

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<v Speaker 2>or anyone online should even care. I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 2>you and your partner's decision. And like he's like he said,

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<v Speaker 2>it's if my sister was to take her partner's last name, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>no one says anything if a girl takes it, like,

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<v Speaker 2>but then when a guy does it, essentially.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because it's expected, like the female has always been

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<v Speaker 1>expected to do it. So it's like, well, that's just

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<v Speaker 1>the way it is. But I think some of this

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<v Speaker 1>that's the way it is kind of stuff that goes

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<v Speaker 1>on is starting to reverse and people are starting to

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<v Speaker 1>actually think about why we do things as opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>just doing it for the sake of doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Has the culture around guys just proposing to girls changed,

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<v Speaker 2>Like is there any girls proposing to guys these days?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that my friend's sister actually proposed to her partner?

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<v Speaker 2>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I think Look, if you have the conversation with

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<v Speaker 1>your partner and say, hey, I might propose, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, up for it? Why not?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Me.

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<v Speaker 1>On the other hand, if my if like I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>say to Michael, I'm going to propose because I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>him to propose. I didn't want to buy the rock. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>True, I mean, or you wouldn't have to get I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>as a guy, you probably wouldn't want big Dwayne Johnson

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<v Speaker 2>on your finger. Like true. True, that's interesting. I reckon

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<v Speaker 2>if there's any girls out there that have proposed or

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<v Speaker 2>they know someone that have post I'd like to hear

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<v Speaker 2>that story.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to hear from you. Senders a voice. Note.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, if you've your husband's taken your last name and

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<v Speaker 2>there's any backlash, I'd like to hear that as well.

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<v Speaker 1>How many men do you think keep their own last

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<v Speaker 1>name when getting married? If you were to say a percentage, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think it would be pretty high. But it's twently twenty five,

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<v Speaker 2>so it might be a bit lower than let's say

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<v Speaker 2>seven tventy five sixty five, So.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually ninety two percent still so very very high,

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<v Speaker 1>very high. Five percent changed their last name to their

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<v Speaker 1>wife's name, so only five percent, so that's a very

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<v Speaker 1>small number.

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<v Speaker 2>That's niche.

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<v Speaker 1>It's niche. It's very niche. And one percent hyphenated the two.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, here's one for you. Actually, here's here's one. The

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<v Speaker 2>premise of getting married is you're now starting a family

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<v Speaker 2>with your wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like you have a new family, you have a new.

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<v Speaker 2>Family or your husband. So call me crazy, but is

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<v Speaker 2>there a way you could not make a new name,

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<v Speaker 2>but you could put blend, blend them together to make

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<v Speaker 2>a new name.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like your cuple name, like what was Wembrowski.

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<v Speaker 2>Or stapher boy, staple boy, staple boy, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>you blend them together and that's the new family name.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm onto something there.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, look, I think we have us names and

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<v Speaker 1>it's a great tradition because we can look back and

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<v Speaker 1>somehow potentially trace our ancestors, whether that be through family

0:20:08.880 --> 0:20:13.240
<v Speaker 1>trees you can do obviously. Now we have DNA testing

0:20:13.240 --> 0:20:14.840
<v Speaker 1>that you can do and you can see and it's

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<v Speaker 1>cool if you have the same last time testing. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually bought it and I've never done it. It's in

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<v Speaker 1>my cupboard. It's sitting there for so I.

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<v Speaker 2>Did want ages ago. We impressed this not pressed sc

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<v Speaker 2>when she was into it and she took a swab

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<v Speaker 2>and it told you like how your fitness was or

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<v Speaker 2>something or what health one more of a health one.

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<v Speaker 2>But I saw a TikTok about a conspiracy that they're

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<v Speaker 2>just storing all our DNA somewhere and they're going to

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<v Speaker 2>clone you and they've got all our DNA.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, this is not a conspiracy.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but yeah, the last names.

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<v Speaker 1>I like my last name like your last name.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think it's cool. It's quite There's not many.

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<v Speaker 1>There's not many.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's not very common, and it's just Mike Wazowski.

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<v Speaker 2>Mike was I'm always watching you, was asking, well, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a bit of a what would we call it dilemma,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is that I have married Michael almost a

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<v Speaker 1>year ago.

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<v Speaker 2>You're already break Is that your dilemma?

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<v Speaker 1>No, we married almost a ago. We're almost going to

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<v Speaker 1>celebrate our that's gone quickly on our wedding anniversary, which

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<v Speaker 1>is craziness. And obviously, when you get legally married, you

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<v Speaker 1>can either be I can either be Ana McAvoy or

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<v Speaker 1>Anna Staples legally, but all of my documents still to

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<v Speaker 1>this day are Anna McAvoy. Yeah, because I just hate

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<v Speaker 1>doing any sort of admin and I haven't gotten down

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<v Speaker 1>to paying an extra three hundred and fifty dollars or

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<v Speaker 1>however much a passport costs to change.

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<v Speaker 2>It's five hundred or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't it is it.

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<v Speaker 2>I got mine the other day, but I got it right.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to express. Yeah, yeah, well I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was three hundred ish the last time. I.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, well, we just spoke about coffees and how expensive

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<v Speaker 2>they are.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure it's probably yeah, I d getting that changed. Annoying, hustle, hassle.

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<v Speaker 1>I still have on my ID. I still have my

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen year old photo with my brown hair. I look

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<v Speaker 1>totally like, not the same person. Like now I'm totally

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<v Speaker 1>different hair color, I look a lot older. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just doing all of these things.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all the things you don't realize either. Like Tammy

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<v Speaker 2>hasn't changed her last name on her Velocity Point, her

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<v Speaker 2>frequent flyer, so she couldn't put it to her frequent

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<v Speaker 2>fly when a brand border a flight the other day

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<v Speaker 2>because they booked it under Tammy Zakowski. And it's still

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<v Speaker 2>Tammy Hembro on her Virgin things. It's so annoying, so

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<v Speaker 2>she couldn't put it to her name.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so Tammy is legally Tammy Hambrow. Still I'm legally

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<v Speaker 1>at a maca voice.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, you're legally not. You've changed.

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<v Speaker 1>I can be legally either, right, you can legally be

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<v Speaker 1>either but none of our details.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I'm not sure if she started that. She might

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<v Speaker 2>started doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I haven't started it, started it at all.

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<v Speaker 1>But now in two months time, I'm having.

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<v Speaker 2>A baby and a birth certificate.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm not Anna Staples. By the time the baby

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<v Speaker 1>is born, the baby will be first name S McAvoy

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<v Speaker 1>instead of S. Staples. Yeah, because I think at the

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<v Speaker 1>hospital everything goes under the mother's name. That's what I've heard.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So the door's going to say.

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<v Speaker 1>The door is going to say the wrong name.

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<v Speaker 2>The doors going to I mean, I know it's not

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<v Speaker 2>like the Saber macavoy.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a different s name. Now. I'm just gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to get.

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<v Speaker 2>Used to this, get it changed. Go express.

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<v Speaker 1>I've already said that it's Michael's job now, right, because

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<v Speaker 1>he's that I think I found.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I get onto it. Michael, do it. You've

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<v Speaker 2>got too much. Go do it, You've got too much.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Matt, that is all we have time for. We

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<v Speaker 1>want to know your thoughts on this episode. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think about men keeping or changing their names. We

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