WEBVTT - Grant Denyer on Not Feeling Enough as He Celebrates 25 Years in Media 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:07.240 Get me the morning every day, adelaides Well. 0:00:07.280 --> 0:00:10.680 Our next guest is celebrating twenty five years in showbies. 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:12.920 Can you believe he doesn't look a day over twenty two? 0:00:13.000 --> 0:00:15.200 He's the host of Deal or No Deal on the 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:18.720 Beautiful ten network, which coincidentally comes right after ten years. 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:22.280 First we're the leading Can you please say a very 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:24.959 good morning to one of the doins of Australian Showbies 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:26.000 and that is Grant Dania. 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:34.560 Good morning, Shody Hazy, Happy bedday. 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:34.720 Very nice. We're just sort of look in some of 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:37.080 your photos and we're joking Grant, that's you're what forty 0:00:37.120 --> 0:00:38.839 six years old? On thirty nine? Get you look ten 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:40.440 years younger than me? How does this work? 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:40.920 True? 0:00:41.240 --> 0:00:42.680 You wait to see how good I look when I 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:44.199 jump out of your cake at lunchtime? 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:47.960 Are you just going to be dressed in a pair 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:51.040 of Deal or No Deal? Speedo's Is that the deal? 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:52.320 That's all right? 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:54.040 And I'm the major. 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:58.920 Prize because before we get in some more real stuff, 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:00.760 two time winner of Down with the Stars. If you 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:02.840 don't mind, only person on the planet am I? Am 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:05.520 I saying that correctly? Is that right? That's an unbelievable fact? 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.360 Oh, that's that's so lovely that you've just brought that 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:09.520 up unsolicited like that. 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:09.880 Yeah. 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:12.600 I it stays me from having to do it later. 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:13.959 Yeah. 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:16.600 Yeah. Only bloke in the world think with the stars. 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:18.240 Why my friend? 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:19.399 That's excellent. 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:24.920 Slinky hips Danya. They call you Grant. I am a 0:01:24.959 --> 0:01:28.080 full disclosure here. Listen to you on The Imperfects, which 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:31.200 is an incredible podcast, and I just I walked away 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:33.440 from it going he's been through some stuff. And you 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:36.440 really are that person on TV that is always smiling 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:40.160 and always so full of joy and life. But there's 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:43.040 been some bit. There's been a bit going on behind 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:45.480 the scenes. And I have to say I had you 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:49.120 spoke about having sort of imposter syndrome and not feeling 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:52.040 like you belong in the television world. And I have 0:01:52.080 --> 0:01:53.640 to say I met you a couple of years ago, 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:55.360 and it was just after I'd done my ankle and 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:56.920 I met you in Sydney on one of these Channel 0:01:56.960 --> 0:02:00.480 ten Jaunt things, and you came up and struck a 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:03.120 conversation with me, and you said, are you okay? Can 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:04.680 I go and get you a water or something? And 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:06.880 I'm standing there going this is the Grant Dania hazy 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:09.519 looking after me because I've got a bun An call, 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:11.880 And I walked away from our conversation gut and I thought, 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.120 here's one of the nicest people in this business that 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.720 I've ever met. So it was really interesting yesterday to 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:19.960 listen to how you don't feel like people perceive you 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:20.520 that way. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.760 Yeah, I think that comes from, you know, as a 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:28.200 very little kids. You know, I had terrible self worth 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:31.040 and not a lot of love for myself. My self 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:35.720 talk was very very severe, you know, very very critical, 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:39.480 very judging, very damaging. I didn't think I had anything 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:42.160 to offer the world or anyone. I just didn't think 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:44.720 I was very special. I didn't think I was going 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:46.959 to be capable of achieving very much because it wasn't 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:49.480 I wasn't very smart. I was academically going to very 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:51.560 I wasn't going to be able to come into television 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:53.839 through the traditional front door. I just sort of pulled 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:56.000 up my bootstraps and said, look, I can either just 0:02:56.440 --> 0:03:00.240 sit here and wallow in this. And these afflictions have 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:02.880 kind of been in me up until only very recently. 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:05.320 I've had to work very hard to find that self 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:07.840 love and acceptance. But it also drove me. Things I 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:10.240 have today come from a place of pain to be 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:15.040 honest of wanting to be seen and felt and understood 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:19.520 and acknowledged and valued. And I think that's what drove 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:23.119 my TV and career. I needed external things to kind 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:25.600 of validate my life because I didn't feel very good insight. 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:28.040 Yeah great, you said it was only recently. How did 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:29.519 you find that self love? What was it? 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:32.120 It took a lot, to be honest, it's only you, 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:34.600 you know. The biggest struggle, you know, I ever had 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.080 was I couldn't look at myself in the mirror. I 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:40.760 could be on television and broadcasting to two men and people, 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:43.280 but I could not. I can't stand in the bathroom 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:45.320 and look at my own face, you know it just 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:49.520 it would make me feel sick. I'd feel angry and judgmental, 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:54.440 and I pulled myself apart, and it was brutal, And 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:57.640 so I started with the task of someone told me 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:00.440 say I love you in the mirror. I would have 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:03.440 rather have spooped my eyes out with a spoon than 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:08.360 tell myself that I loved myself. It was really hard, 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:10.560 and as you get older, you learn you can't love 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:12.440 other people, and do you love yourself. 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:14.560 Bert, I really desperately want to know before I let 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:16.760 you go. Have you found peace now? Are you in 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:18.600 a good place or your family in a good place? 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.800 You and Chee and the kids? Are you all well? 0:04:20.839 --> 0:04:23.120 Those puff lessons we all learn a long way, you know. 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:25.520 I kind of wear my scars with pride. Yeah, And 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:28.039 I'm teaching with girls now the lessons that I learned. 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:29.600 So you know, I think if I had self love 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:31.320 a lot earlier in life, life would have been a 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:34.080 far more enjoyable journey. But I'm blessed for I am 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:36.120 now and passing on that wisdom, you know, to the 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:36.760 next generation. 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:39.120 Well, I definitely hope that at one stage you get 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.680 to see yourself the way we all see you. And yeah, 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:43.120 we have so much love for you, and thank you 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:44.880 so much for having you a very brief chat and 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:47.440 touching on those things with a steal or no deal. 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:49.480 And you've also got your own podcast with Chezy too, 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:49.800 don't you. 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:52.360 Yeah we do. Yeah, course it's all true, and that's 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:54.279 sort of worked a lot of this sort of stuff 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:57.400 and crazy things like you know, aliens know it's pretty whacky. 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:58.920 And make sure you listen to the story about the 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:01.440 time to chezy squired of breast milk on the back 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:02.440 of someone's head on a plane. 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:03.599 It's goodyere. 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:06.719 Grabby birthday. 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:09.640 Thanks for sometimes who'd to touch on these topics even 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:11.800 though it's probably not your normal breakfast radio but I 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:12.560 appreciate you guy. 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:14.719 It needs to be spoken about, mate. So world done 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.760 from someone who, from the eyes of others, is viewed 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:19.880 as flawless. For someone to be so open and honest, 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:21.760 it's actually really really refreshing. So thank you. 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:24.640 You're the best legends. Love you guys. He's where you're 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:28.279 waking up to Adelaide News today, baking breaking news. 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:29.680 What's the news today? 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:32.880 Smoothly, I'll tell you a little bit later in the show. 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:35.200 We're going to talk about all the information that is 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:38.120 on your mobile phone and how completely and utterly overwhelming 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:41.760 you can be lucky. Thank god she's been sent from 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:44.400 the news Heavens. Abby in the newsroom has got all 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:45.960 the headlines you need to know from the last twenty 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:48.320 four hours. What's been breaking overnight? For wearing a news halo, 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:50.000 she is good morning. 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:53.040 So Domain has come out with a price forecast report, 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:56.720 so yay for me, not house prices in Adelaide are 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.080 going to rise, they think by the end of the 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:02.720 fire twenty twenty five financial year to a record of 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:06.880 nearly one million dollars here in Adelaide. So house prices 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:10.279 are forecast to reach the median house prices forecast to 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.840 reach nine hundred and sixty five thousand, nine hundred and 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:15.640 eighty four thousand, and units will be around about the 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:18.760 five hundred and fifteen thousand dollar mark. So that's really 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:21.279 fun for those of us trying to get into the 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:22.080 property market. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:26.480 I'm sensing sarcasm, Yeah. 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:29.080 I just I worry that that's what has set us 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:31.880 apart here in Adelaide. We've got affordable housing, we've got 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:35.440 an amazing lifestyle. You can live in the CBD, and 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:37.240 you've got the beach ten meters that way. The hell 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:38.440 was ten meters that way. 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.360 Before we got the big rocking horse, of. 0:06:41.360 --> 0:06:44.760 Course, naturally, So what is going to happen when median 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:46.240 house prices hit a million bucks? 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:50.119 Yeah, it's ridiculous, but also does that keep people away? 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:51.640 Which is kind of nice for us. 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:54.440 The thing that really frustrates me now is that instead 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:56.560 of a price being on a home, it's just our 0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:59.200 best offers. So then you've got all these people coming 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:03.840 in and just you know, ridiculous amounts and investors from overseas. 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:06.200 Oh yeah, a million bucks a week can afford that. 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:08.400 And it's driving up all the prices because then now 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:11.920 all the medium prices across the suburbs are higher because 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:13.800 people are just being asked, give us your best offer 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:15.240 instead of it's between this and this. 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:18.280 Yeah, and then you've got no trades to build houses, 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:20.200 and then the trades can't come here because there are 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:21.200 no houses for them to live in. 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:24.720 Heartbreaking. It is the first few auctions that we went to, 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:26.640 we're like, we're on, We're on. We're in the mix 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:29.800 here beating bidding, and someone in the last seconds like, yep, 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:32.800 I'll take that. Yeah, You're like, how dare you? And 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:34.400 I punched this spoke in the face and then I 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:36.360 didn't do that, but I felt like doing it. I 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:39.440 felt like doing that. Oh it's tough, it's tough market. 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:41.400 Do you know years and years ago when we brought 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:44.240 our land to build a house, it was off a 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:47.720 family who had inherited that land from their dad. 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:49.960 So do you know what's crazy to me that you 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:53.640 transferred land from one spot to another? So where did 0:07:53.640 --> 0:08:01.760 you bring it from sid you brought land? Ow'd you 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:04.000 bring it from? Did you bring land over from Tasma? 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:06.040 I was going to say something, and then I stopped. 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:07.800 I'm not even going to tell my story now because 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.680 I'm so sick of being picked up on the broad bought. No, 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:11.480 don't worry, we're. 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:14.440 You know, we're sick of having. 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:17.840 It is so heavily ingrained in me, the brought and 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:20.040 bought thing. Okay, I don't even know I'm doing it. 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:20.920 So if you want to be. 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:22.680 A bit of it, I'm sorry, but that is not 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:23.240 an excuse. 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:25.400 It is an excuse. You do things that I don't 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:28.520 like as well on the regular, like talk real fuss, 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:29.840 so I don't understand what you're saying. 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:38.240 Okay, what about Kayla is oh Land? 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:42.480 What about it's forty nine degrees in Salisbury? I love 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:45.840 forty to say four hundred and seventy degrees in Salisbury 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:48.480 or something ridiculous. We have our things. 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:48.760 You got. 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:50.480 You sound angry, dull, so we're just going to let 0:08:50.480 --> 0:08:54.200 you call off. I'm just going to talk about supermarket 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:55.920 prices now. I'm not going to finish my story, so 0:08:55.960 --> 0:08:57.160 you will never know how it ended. 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:00.080 You will never ever know in sure they would he got. 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:03.800 So a new report on supermarket prices reveals where it's 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:08.160 twenty five percent cheaper to buy groceries. So mystery shoppers 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:11.680 were basically sent into supermarkets right across the country to 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:14.880 find the store where it is twenty five percent cheaper 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:17.120 to do your weekly shop. And that store, my friends, 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:17.720 is Audi. 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:20.439 Oh well that makes sense because that's their big thing, 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:22.679 isn't it. That's what they claim separates. 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:26.600 Them correlbits and the Audi good different, Yeah, good different, yep. 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:31.880 And so basically they went into Coals and Woolworths and Audi's. 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:35.320 They were assigned the task of buying fourteen common grocery 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:38.040 items and it was around fifty bucks, and the others 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:42.079 were around let me see, others were around sixty nine, 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:43.600 sixty eight and sixty nine. 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:44.839 Does anyone hear shop at Audi? 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:48.360 No? And I should start, because there's one just around 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:51.160 the corner for me. Yeah. And then I'll coming to 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:52.920 work and I'll tell you what I brought or bought 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:53.760 from Audi. 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:56.240 And eventually our heads will explode mm hmm. 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:58.319 And that'll be on you, and you refuse to work 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:01.120 with me any longer. You bought it, but you brought 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:04.319 it in for us. Okay, if you brought. 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:11.360 Something by it, brought something by it, all right, right, 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:14.040 it's eleven minutes past six that we've done. You snooze news. 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:16.560 If you took anything positive out of that, good luck 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:17.960 to here very. 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:22.200 Headline. I left my school parents WhatsApp group and have 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.400 zero regrets. What about that? Then? 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:27.040 Stunning and brave. 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:29.440 An anonymous mum told kids Spot, just because my daughter 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:31.679 happens to share a classroom with some kids doesn't mean 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:33.000 their parents are my new besties. 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:36.520 Oh, she's wang way to isolate yourself from the social 0:10:36.520 --> 0:10:37.560 functions school related. 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:39.720 I know. So this is what Basically, she just got 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:43.920 jack of all the constant pinging and the constant messaging, 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:46.040 and she said she got anxious by it, and she 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:48.280 simply made a statement to the other mums by leaving 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:50.800 the group. The mum said that since exiting the group, 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:53.360 she has never been happier. But she has no idea 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:56.600 that leaving a WhatsApp group was controversial until she disclosed 0:10:56.600 --> 0:10:59.240 her decision to a close friend, and she couldn't believe it. 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:01.280 But she said, what the point of being part of 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:03.560 something that only serves to make me anxious? And distracted. 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:07.920 Can I also say I get it? I get it. 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:10.600 I just jotted down the list of things that I'm 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:13.280 a part of online. So I've got four emails, there's 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:15.440 an over ten Ondi media and hotmail for all those 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:18.920 shopping deals that you get on WhatsApp. I've got a 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:20.760 family group, I've got friends groups, and I've got a 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:22.680 group for the kids as well where they all converse. 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:25.760 Then there's Messenger, and then there's Instagram direct messaging, and 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:28.040 then there's kids sport groups, so netball and dance. And 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.079 then there's my sister in law group, which is filthy 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:33.640 and I love that one and never ever leave it. 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:38.160 But my point being so much, and when she says 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:40.680 it makes her anxious, I get it. And then when 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:42.679 someone will say to me, hey, I sent you something 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:44.400 and you never got back to me, I'm like, I 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:47.200 don't know where you sent it. I don't know. Because 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:51.319 I'm so overwhelmed by messages and information, i cannot cope. 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:53.480 And I live in fear of letting people down because 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:55.880 it's slipped through the cracks and I haven't seen it. 0:11:55.920 --> 0:11:59.160 Does anyone else feel this way? Please thirteen twenty four 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:01.280 to ten and tell me you've exited some groups because 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:01.800 I'm on the food. 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:03.679 I don't exit, I just don't get involved. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:04.439 Or do you mute? 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:07.320 Well, I don't mute because I like to see what's happening. 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:09.960 But oh my god, we learned a very long time 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.960 ago that you are just that dirty perf lurking in 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:16.040 the corner, observing everyone but not engaging in anything. 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:17.520 From a high space too, I'll do it from a 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:20.000 high space. I'm looking down and just saying what everyone's 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:22.280 up to it down below, and then look at. Occasionally 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:25.240 I will get myself involved just to let everyone know that, hey, 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:27.559 I'm still here and I'm watching, so watch yourself. 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:28.040 Yeah. 0:12:28.120 --> 0:12:29.880 Well maybe by then they don't want you to be 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:30.720 a part of it anymore. 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:31.000 Yeah. 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:33.000 Maybe, But then they're like, we're sick of this bloke 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:35.360 just doing nothing, just being a part of our group 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:37.520 and not engaging water dickhead. 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:40.200 And getting deleted from a group as well. Oh not brutal. 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.400 What about when you see that masage such and such 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:46.280 exited the group. It's such a bold flex. 0:12:46.520 --> 0:12:49.160 But also it also it will say blah blah blah, 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:51.600 deleted you from the chat? Oh have you been deleted 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:55.280 from I got so former employer, like sn it was 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:56.600 a big group chat and I've got to delete it 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:57.600 from a specific person. 0:12:57.640 --> 0:12:57.720 Now. 0:12:57.760 --> 0:12:59.240 I was like, oh, that's brutal, because I didn't want 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:01.600 to exit and I didn't want to say, hey, guys, 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:03.760 I'm leaving the group. So I just sort of stayed 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:04.959 on there for a while and all of a sudden 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:06.240 I got delisted. 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:12.559 Oh my god, that's so very mean, girls, isn't it. 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.319 Are you tempted to leave into groups? Oh? So many? 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:18.320 There are so many I would get out of, and 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:20.600 I would if I could, But you can't because if 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:22.360 you did that, Like, they're people that I'm friends with, 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:24.720 so if I did that, it would be very controversial. 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:26.920 I'm a bit the same though. There's so many different 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:29.640 platforms that you're on. But I had an old employer 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:33.520 who basically that's how that was. Her communication was to 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:36.240 just put you in all these different groups. So I, 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:39.880 when I decided to leave that place, then had the 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.319 pleasure of sitting on my bed at quarter to four 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:47.800 in the morning going leave, Leave, Leave, Leave, And that 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:49.600 to me was the biggest lex because I was like, 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:51.400 you know what, see you later, and they're. 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:53.120 All sitting around going you guys, are with us. 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:56.480 But yeah, I'm done some of the group chats. It 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:59.199 just as your friendships evolve and grow, people get into 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:03.680 things and a lot of them send a lot of 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:05.640 memes all the time and stuff that you saw two 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.640 weeks ago, and it's like I don't care. 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:10.760 About as like as like, can everyone stop talking about 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:12.319 having their own house? Yeah? 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:13.080 Correct? 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:14.319 En? 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:16.720 Good have you tapped out of a group? 0:14:17.640 --> 0:14:21.360 I've tapped out of all the groups, all of Facebook, 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:27.320 all of every social media. Yeah, just due to all 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:30.080 the stuff that keeps just going on and on and on. 0:14:30.560 --> 0:14:31.840 It's not good, It's not healthy. 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:35.920 Yeah, well done, Damien's a genuine social media clients. And 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:37.960 when did you do it? And was it easy? 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:39.400 Uh? 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:42.400 Yeah, I did it a couple of years ago. I 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:45.960 first cult a lot of people off the list, just 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:50.840 kept family and yeah, I haven't looked back since. I've 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:55.600 just going to sleep nice and easy at night. And yes, 0:14:56.680 --> 0:15:00.280 been been information. You don't need to process, you go 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:00.680 to bed. 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:03.320 No, true, Thank you, Damian, thank you so much. Let's 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:06.200 go to Jenna. Good morning, Jenna, Good morning guys. Did 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:07.280 you tap out of a group? 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:11.280 Well, I'm actually not allowed to tap out of the group. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:16.280 Oh what so yeah, so I'm actually I'm a manager 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:17.840 and I've got my whole team muted. 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:23.880 Oh that is very, very tough. 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:26.280 Because I can't tap out, I can mute, and no 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:26.800 one knows. 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:31.000 So what are they looking for? Is it feedback? Is 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:32.600 it selection? Is it just everything? 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:37.880 What is it just every ours for? Everything contems oh right? 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:41.280 The whole time, I'm just like, yeah, I'm busy. 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:44.280 I forgot about teams as well. That's the other one. 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:47.360 Teams are so hectic, and you get these group messages 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:49.040 that don't apply to you as well. Jenna. 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:53.960 Yes, I don't know. I'm in about thirty chats, so ridiculous. 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:56.040 So, Jenna, this is sorry. So you're a manager of 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:59.000 a workplace. Yeah yeah, right in my head, I was 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:00.280 like manager of a soccer. 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:03.200 No not God, I'm so sorry, Jenna. 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:05.120 That's what we feel like that sometimes I'm sorry. 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:06.840 About my friend, but it is his birthday, so we 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:09.960 can forgive him a little bit. Thank you very much, Jenna, 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:12.480 thank you so much. She's muted her whole work team. 0:16:13.600 --> 0:16:16.400 Well, work should be separate, that's the thing. Between the 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:17.800 hours of nine to five, you can work. And that 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:19.480 was a good old days, wasn't it. Yeah, like you 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:21.440 would just work and then you would switch off and 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:23.080 then you come to work. But work can't leave you 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:25.280 now because of social media and technology. 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:28.320 Five o'clock not a bad idea. Hey, y's the work chat? 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:31.760 Yeah, got our work chat never stops you A lot. 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:34.400 Doesn't, doesn't. All right, let's go to our Sophie. Goome 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:35.240 more to you, Sophie. 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:36.240 Good morning guys. 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:37.120 How are you good? 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:39.120 Sophie? Did you chap out of a chat? 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:42.600 I definitely did. There was a group chat with my 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:49.920 partner's family. Yeah, it's my parents in laws as well, 0:16:50.520 --> 0:16:54.000 and you know, obviously families have their own issues and 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:58.160 drama happens, and I had enough. I was getting blasted 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:00.760 on the group chat. There was no more, and I was. 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:01.760 Like, see you later. 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:05.200 My own group chat minus my sister in law. 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:11.240 Sophie. You would have left a little notification that said 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:12.800 Sophie has left the conversation. 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:16.720 Yes, yes I did. And then quite soon after I 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:19.240 had a phone call with my mother in law and honestly, 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:21.520 she agreed it was just getting really nasty and I 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:23.880 just didn't want to share my life. I didn't want 0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:26.199 a message in that group chat. So we have our 0:17:26.200 --> 0:17:28.440 own little group chat minus my sister owns great. 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:31.560 Oh that is so funny. Also, do you get that? 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:34.600