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Speaker 1: This is a podcast.

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Speaker 2: Of course he was with Gig.

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Speaker 3: He did on or off for about six years, that

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Speaker 3: had a baby together. What's interesting in a podcast that

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Speaker 3: he's been on, the Alex Cooper Call.

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Speaker 2: Her Daddy podcast.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know how happy Gigi would be to

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Speaker 3: hear him talk about love and whether he was actually

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Speaker 3: in love with gg.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because like my understanding of love is always developing.

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Speaker 4: You know, at that moment in time, I might have

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Speaker 4: thought it was love, but as I've got older, I

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Speaker 4: realized maybe it wasn't.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it was lost.

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Speaker 4: I don't feel like it was love, And to be fair,

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Speaker 4: like just to say this on record, I will always

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Speaker 4: love Gig because she is the reason my child is

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Speaker 4: on this earth, and I have the utmost respect for her.

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Speaker 4: I will always love her or I don't know if

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Speaker 4: I was ever in love with her would.

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Speaker 2: Listening to that car? Would you?

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Speaker 1: But I think hearing it is better than reading it,

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Speaker 1: because when I read it earlier today I was thinking old, Well,

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Speaker 1: that sounds cold, But I think he's reflecting on you know,

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Speaker 1: when he was a much younger man, immature.

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Speaker 2: Perhaps I don't.

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Speaker 3: Think he helps here. He's obviously comparing it to love

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Speaker 3: he's had since then. Maybe, I mean he would be

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Speaker 3: going on now I understand what love is because I've

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Speaker 3: met so and so, and that feels different to what

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Speaker 3: I experienced earlier.

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Speaker 1: Well, he did say his idea of love is always evolving.

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Speaker 5: Well, I this is the thing. You don't know what

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Speaker 5: love is when you're younger. I still remember on the

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Speaker 5: year six camp where we still broke and Kate Ridley

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Speaker 5: was on the swings and all of a sudden I

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Speaker 5: saw her blonde hair just go back and forth on

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Speaker 5: the swing. Kate and I went, oh, my gosh, I

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Speaker 5: love that yell?

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Speaker 2: Was that love? Or was that last? You had a

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Speaker 2: coulser at the time, didn't you?

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Speaker 5: Let's not bring up the cole saw, which unfortunately I

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Speaker 5: didn't take my medication for beforehand.

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Speaker 2: How'd you go with Kate Ridley?

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Speaker 5: She dropped me and she eventually dropped me and that

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Speaker 5: was it. We got married behind the sports shed there

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Speaker 5: for a while.

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Speaker 1: But so sweet, do you've got to have all those experiences?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 3: Well, they're going to say that a majority of people

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Speaker 3: in their lifetime will fall in love twice. What that's

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Speaker 3: thirty percent will be twice? Okay, Okay, twenty seven percent

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Speaker 3: will be once yeah, three times at sixteen percent, four

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Speaker 3: times at ten.

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Speaker 2: But the sad case also at fourteen percent of people

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Speaker 2: will never fall in love.

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Speaker 5: What's John singletonight?

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Speaker 2: Twenty five times he has got up to? It's very rare?

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Speaker 2: Is it a unique club?

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Speaker 1: Am I allowed to ask the two of you whether

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Speaker 1: you have been in love before you met your wife?

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Speaker 2: I thought, Michael, well, I don't know, like one or two?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like, I think the only way to judge that, okay,

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Speaker 3: is to be able to say that you married the

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Speaker 3: person you fell in love with, so you know what

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Speaker 3: love is.

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Speaker 2: So to know what.

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Speaker 3: It is means you've probably experienced something that was what

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Speaker 3: love is, or.

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Speaker 2: If not close to give it.

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Speaker 1: People don't always love the person they're marrying.

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Speaker 2: Oh they don't. We get another sheet on that.

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Speaker 1: I know people who have been had to be medicated

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Speaker 1: on their wedding day.

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Speaker 2: That's all settling.

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Speaker 5: Oh, Kate, and how many value did you have?

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