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Speaker 1: Relatable relat.

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Speaker 2: The Reliables podcast is hosted by myself, Audie Clark ak mummy.

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Speaker 1: Oh what oh she stole my line? Sorry, keep going.

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Speaker 2: And my partner in Crhyme is the Jake Craig aka

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Speaker 2: do you want to say your own name? Daddy geez,

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Speaker 2: not his mummy because he can't keep his fucking mouth

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Speaker 2: shut and let me talk. And Jake is daddy because

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Speaker 2: he's a loving father, yes to his loving dog Henry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't even bring him up. I just so

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Speaker 1: I think I'm going to cancel my calendar trip next year.

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Speaker 1: With three weeks here has didn't too much. Yeah, guys,

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Speaker 1: we're still in Bali.

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Speaker 2: Yes, this is the final episode of Bali.

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Speaker 1: It's been a great trip. The final week. Yeah, Patreon

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Speaker 2: One other thing I'm keen to get back to Australia

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Speaker 2: but don't it. Baddie's up Next is Dilemmas. If you

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Speaker 1: If you're holding me back. But you're allowed to change

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Speaker 1: Oh not the dilemma I thought it was going to be.

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Speaker 2: But honestly, this is relatable because you're looking at it

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Speaker 2: How she's looking at it is I'm throwing away all

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Speaker 2: And also I think what you should do is one

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Speaker 2: This whole dilemma is kind of feeling like you're a

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Speaker 1: But you're not failing anyone, Yeah at all.

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Speaker 2: Genuinely, who do you fail? Yeah, it's a good question.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like the point, it's like what other

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you didn't finish the year. What a failure?

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Speaker 2: And also like who's going to say to you like

435
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Speaker 2: I can't believe you're a lawyer anymore?

436
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 1: Like you could just be like I wasn't happy, legit. Yeah.

437
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Speaker 1: Imagine if some one says the couple, if you're not

438
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 1: a lawyer anymore, you've wasted your time, and then you're

439
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, well I wasn't happy. If that's not

440
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Speaker 1: a good enough answer for someone, that person needs to

441
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Speaker 1: fucking get it. It also comes down to like.

442
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Speaker 2: How you view life and what you want out of

443
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Speaker 2: life and kind of like your morals, because to me,

444
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 2: happiness takes over all. Like I would prefer to be

445
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Speaker 2: happy making coffees five times a week, then studying my

446
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Speaker 2: ass off for something I don't believe in or that

447
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,880
Speaker 2: stresses me out just because that's what society has told

448
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Speaker 2: you to do, yeah, or it's.

449
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Speaker 1: What you started and then you were like, I don't

450
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Speaker 1: want to I don't want to fail it. It's about

451
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Speaker 1: finding like happiness and balance I guess because you can

452
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Speaker 1: do these things and push yourself to the limits, which

453
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Speaker 1: I really really like.

454
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Speaker 2: But then also you have to find the line where

455
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Speaker 2: you're pushing too hard and your body is like, oh no,

456
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Speaker 2: I don't want to go down this route, but you

457
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 2: just keep pushing and pushing and pushing. It is funny,

458
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 2: and your body's telling you something like I need to

459
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Speaker 2: get out of here and try something new.

460
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Speaker 1: I would listen to it. Yeah, facts you know, it

461
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Speaker 1: would be scary as if one of us was just like,

462
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Speaker 1: it's podcast something just stain its podcasts just ain't it,

463
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Speaker 1: and we're just fucking to take our own advice. It's

464
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Speaker 1: not hard, No, it's not. It's really not. It's not

465
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Speaker 1: like hard work. I guess. I'm thinking about it like,

466
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Speaker 1: if I started to dislike it, I would definitely just

467
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Speaker 1: I would push through for a bit. But then I

468
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Speaker 1: guess it's within our power to change a few things

469
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Speaker 1: to make it enjoyable. If we stop joy it's in

470
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Speaker 1: our power because we're our bosses. I think, baby steps,

471
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Speaker 1: go take a fucking six week holiday and then come

472
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Speaker 1: back and reassess. Have some time for your brain to think.

473
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Speaker 2: Opposite end of the spectrum life's about perspective or whatnot,

474
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Speaker 2: and this might change how you view your career or

475
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Speaker 2: what you want to do. I always like when I

476
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Speaker 2: was gardening or doing something like, I didn't like it

477
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Speaker 2: that much. I enjoyed it to a certain extent, but

478
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Speaker 2: I always thought like, maybe it's not the healthy his technique.

479
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 2: But I used to lab when I was like, that sucked.

480
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 2: At least I'm not doing that, and that that would

481
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Speaker 2: help me through the day. And like maybe if you

482
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Speaker 2: have six weeks off and you're thinking like, oh, I

483
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Speaker 2: could do this, I could do that. If you think

484
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Speaker 2: fuck lawyering is the worst thing I could ever be doing,

485
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Speaker 2: I'm as well do this. Or if you might think,

486
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Speaker 2: oh I used to I don't know, I used to

487
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Speaker 2: work in hospitality.

488
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Speaker 1: That was the worst thing ever. It's all about your perspective.

489
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Speaker 1: It's a good point. Yeah, Like what are you passionate about?

490
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Speaker 2: I guess the I reckon baby steps. Six weeks off,

491
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Speaker 2: maybe longer.

492
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Speaker 1: See what you want to I agree with, So I

493
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Speaker 1: say I can quit. Yeah, Like, I think what you

494
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 1: should do is quit the firm you're at right, go

495
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Speaker 1: for a holiday. You might even be able to kill

496
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Speaker 1: every single bird of one Stone about it, right, So

497
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Speaker 1: quit the firm you're at, go for a holiday to Australia,

498
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Speaker 1: and then if you love Australia, just don't buy a

499
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Speaker 1: fucking return ticket or you have to get a visa.

500
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Speaker 1: You'd have to work at your visa. But from America

501
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 1: to Australia, that's got to be easy. Yeah, I reckon

502
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Speaker 1: the holiday is the way to go. And I also

503
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Speaker 1: want to put emphasis on society and the government. I

504
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 1: guess it is the education systems put so much pressure,

505
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 1: so much pressure on young adults because like, right now,

506
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Speaker 1: I bet you what's in the back of her head

507
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: is I can't quit because I've got such a big debt. Yeah,

508
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Speaker 1: that's such a good point. That my start and that's

509
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Speaker 1: for everyone. Every single person who studies claout just always

510
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:21,639
Speaker 1: over your head, doesn't it.

511
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Speaker 2: They finish with their degree and then they're like, ooh,

512
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Speaker 2: I've got I've never even seen sixty thousand dollars, eighty

513
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Speaker 2: thousand dollars, a hundred thousand dollars, but now I've got

514
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Speaker 2: it in debt.

515
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Speaker 1: That thinks you know what is actually crazy that the

516
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Speaker 1: government lets kids without a job get into hundreds of

517
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Speaker 1: thousands of dollars of debt. Yeah, and then they go, well,

518
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Speaker 1: there's a housing crisis, so if you don't have a

519
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Speaker 1: million dollars, you can't buy a house either. Yeah, like

520
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Speaker 1: they'll let a kid get into hundreds of thousand dollars

521
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Speaker 1: of debt. I was lucky.

522
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Speaker 2: I was doing exercise physiology before I quit for this podcast.

523
00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 2: When I started to work, I had a five grand debt.

524
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Speaker 2: I did three months five k.

525
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow, that doesn't seem like that much, to be

526
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Speaker 1: completely fair, I guess it's not like a fucking law degree.

527
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Speaker 2: No, no, no, but I think it accumulates over time. I

528
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Speaker 2: think at the end of it, mine was going to

529
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Speaker 2: be like sixty eight or something.

530
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Speaker 1: Shit, that is so much money. It might have been

531
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Speaker 1: a subsidized one.

532
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Speaker 2: And that's type of thing. Yeah, and it's a hex.

533
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 2: It's called a hex's that. I assume every country has

534
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Speaker 2: the equivalent.

535
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Speaker 1: It's good. I'm so glad. I think that's one of

536
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: the perks of trades. Yeah. They pay you to be there. Yeah. See,

537
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: I got paid to go to tape. Yeah. I get

538
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: paid to go to my school. I don't know why

539
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: education isn't that And there's too many people going to

540
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 1: university now because our parents and their generation has said,

541
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Speaker 1: if you've got to UNI, you're going to be successful.

542
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, And now there's all these people getting these degrees

543
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 2: and they're coming out of it, and I really like

544
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:46,639
Speaker 2: that anymore.

545
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Speaker 1: It's not many jobs I think, like back in the day,

546
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Speaker 1: it used to be like that though, right, if you

547
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 1: were properly educated, you actually did very well. Now everyone's

548
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Speaker 1: probably educated, but true, I guess, like everyone from high

549
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 1: school is pretty well educated. But also it's just more

550
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Speaker 1: of a maybe the Internet change things, no idea AI,

551
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: who the fuck knows, but I mean, I guess think

552
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 1: about it, the Internet did change things YouTube, oh fucking Spotify, music,

553
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: being a podcast, Like you don't actually need a degree

554
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: to make money anymore. Oh yeah. From our perspective, I saw,

555
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was a dilemma or a

556
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: DM and someone was saying, we've never experienced this, and

557
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 1: we like AI because it makes our lives easier. But

558
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: these people who have been through this mainstream education system

559
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: have learnt something that's already out of date. And then

560
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: someone's coming in.

561
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 2: With AI and it makes their job completely irrelevant or

562
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Speaker 2: many of the roles in their job, which they've been

563
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 2: taught for three four years irrelevant and you're like, holy shit,

564
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 2: it's so terrible in that type of version.

565
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Speaker 1: Fuck, dude, that is so true. On the topic of AI,

566
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Speaker 1: have you seen that there is an AI actress no

567
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: and human being managers and agents want to sign her, really,

568
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: an AI actress. It's crazy. And I was just thinking

569
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: as I found out about it. Maybe I think it

570
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: was the other day. I think I was with like Beth,

571
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: Cassie and Viv at that market and they were talking

572
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 1: about this. So do you see that, you know that actress,

573
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: that AI actress wants that people want to sign And

574
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,199
Speaker 1: I was just thinking, that is at least three steps

575
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: too far from ridiculous. That is three steps too far

576
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: from me open AI or whatever it's called a chatjebyt

577
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: I am fully on board with Chatgebeyt. I'm so fine

578
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 1: with that. Yeah.

579
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 2: Well, I think that's an extension of Google exactly.

580
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It's like it is my new Google. Yeah.

581
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: But once they make a literal digital AI human that

582
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,119
Speaker 1: is an actor and people want to sign it. But

583
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 1: like when you pay the actor, right, So let's just

584
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 1: say some manager gets signed by this AI person or

585
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 1: this manager signs the AI actress. First of all, is

586
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: the AIE actual artificially intelligent enough to actually make that

587
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: decision for herself? Or is it whoever created the AI actress? Right?

588
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: And then once she does become sentient, what's she gonna do?

589
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,360
Speaker 1: Fucking She's probably gonna file a lawsuit because they were

590
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: just making decision for her for a whole life and

591
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: the whole world's gonna crumble.

592
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 2: Well, that is a big moral dilemma, terrifying. If she

593
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 2: can make decisions for herself or if it's the creator.

594
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 1: If she can make decisions for herself and she's AI,

595
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 1: she's also already the smartest thing on the planet. Yeah, exactly.

596
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 1: I think we're very far away from that, but I

597
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: know if we are, it's kind of scary. We are

598
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 1: flying cars before that. I don't want all this stuff, honestly,

599
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: I would much. I want flying cars too. That stuff

600
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: scares me. Hey, I would prefer interplanetary fucking what's it

601
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: called civilizations?

602
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a colonization, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

603
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: Like a colony on Mars.

604
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

605
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: I want to be like Red Rising. So if they

606
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: made slaves, but I hope we gave you some good advice, baddie. Yeah,

607
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: what were we talking about? AI?

608
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 2: All right, Batties, we are back with Field versus Field,

609
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: and today Jake, we're talking all about relationship expectations. Let's

610
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 2: goay alrighty, So on regular apps, we're exclusive right after

611
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Speaker 2: three dates.

612
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: And how you own a toothbrush at their place.

613
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 2: Compared to Field looking for casual, open or long term.

614
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 1: Everyone's on the same page. Field's about connection on your terms,

615
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: there's no pretending. There's no need to write your profile

616
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: like a job application and pretend to be what someone

617
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: else wants. Download Field and meet people who match your

618
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Speaker 1: vibe from day one. Link is in the description. Wow,

619
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Speaker 1: Batties up next, you got ig question? We switched up

620
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: the order this week on you Sneaky Sneaky. We weren't

621
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: where where we might have been where we weren't going

622
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 1: to do it. Yeah, we always do it, always do it.

623
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Speaker 1: This week's question is beyond appearance? What makes someone truly

624
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: attractive out of that surface level stuff? Yeah? Okay, a

625
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: little bit deep, okay, okay, this one. Let me know

626
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: if you even understand this hand placement where they placed

627
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: their hand in all capitals as well do you get it.

628
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: I have no idea what hand placement means. I think

629
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Speaker 1: it means where they place their hand when they interact

630
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: with you, maybe on himself or herself. I was thinking

631
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Speaker 1: her or on I don't know her. I don't know.

632
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: I have no idea it was. I have no idea.

633
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: That's why I asked you, well, I think, yeah, I

634
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 1: think it's hand placement to like lower back, upper quad

635
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: like that quad.

636
00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, were touching it, fucking kneecaps.

637
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: No, I'm like a here type with permission of callse

638
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: I'm like a here type of guy.

639
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 2: Yeahah yeah yeah, behind closed doors, it gets to me higher, okay,

640
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 2: beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive?

641
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: How they treat other people facts? Yeah, agreed, How they

642
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: treat a server, yeah, waitress, A lot of those ones.

643
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: I think it tells a lot about a person, just

644
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: like how much they value the interaction and other people's

645
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: lives around them. Yeah, and just like kind of general respect.

646
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Speaker 2: It puts a sour taste in my mouth when you

647
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 2: see someone treat like a wayter in particular, or anyone

648
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 2: any interaction and they like do something bad or a

649
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 2: rude or obnoxious and you're.

650
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: Like, Oh, you're a weird person, aren't you. I be honest,

651
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: I like it would make me anxious to be rude

652
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: because of the confrontation of it. I've had people be

653
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:00,239
Speaker 1: rude to me when I worked at a restaurant, and

654
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 1: I just think, like it makes me anxious to think

655
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 1: that they can just like do that.

656
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 2: I don't know why I could never hate, Like, even

657
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 2: if someone was rude to me, Like something within me,

658
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 2: isn't there.

659
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: To be like, hey, yeah, don't do that. I don't

660
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: know if for something that's just like kind of maybe

661
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: like being scared a confrontation, But even if a waiter

662
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: like spilt a drink on me, I'll be like, oh,

663
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: like sorry, I got on your way.

664
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 2: I'm even this is in the digital world. I'm too

665
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 2: scared to say something in person because we're in BALI.

666
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: I've been leaving a lot of reviews. Oh yeah, and

667
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 2: even if it's not the best, holy a great review.

668
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

669
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,239
Speaker 2: I like to support the business because I'm thinking, like,

670
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: this could really impact the business if I leave at

671
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 2: four instead of five, So I'm like five out of

672
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 2: five best experience.

673
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 1: She talks about when she gets reviews at the cafe

674
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: she manages, and every now and then she gets a

675
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: bad one. Maybe they had an off day or something,

676
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: and it's just it is the funniest thing to me

677
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: that people will go in and write a bad review.

678
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 1: I know, and I one time got when I had

679
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: my Troopie. I went to a smash repair place to

680
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: get some rust fixed and they said that so I

681
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: paid like thousands of dollars. It was a four thousand Troopies,

682
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: a big full driver in early here. Yeah, so four

683
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 1: thousand dollars right, And when I picked it up, they go, yep,

684
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: you know, it's probably last night, another five years, and

685
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: I was like sick. Six months later, rust back. But

686
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: right after I picked it up and he said it's

687
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: gonna last five years, and it looked great. I left

688
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 1: a good review and it went back, and so I

689
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: didn't go back. But when the rust came back, I

690
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: wanted to go change my review, but it was locked

691
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: in and Google wouldn't let me. I should have left

692
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: another one update. Six months later, I couldn't. Fuck. I

693
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: was trying my best. I was like, fuck, these guy's

694
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: a fucking I never really bad reviews either.

695
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 2: I guess it's where your line is so like at

696
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 2: a cafe, for example, if it's a bad experience, I've

697
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 2: lost twenty dollars. If I've lost four thousand, I'm leaving

698
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 2: a bad review. I think my line's maybe like yeah,

699
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: over two fifty, okay, that's my life.

700
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 1: Also for something in Bali, they ask for reviews, a

701
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: Google review. That's what I look for when I'm done

702
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: a cafes or restaurant. Good reviews. Yeah. And even so

703
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 1: when they ask, I think, like, even if it wasn't

704
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: that good, I say yeah, yeah, yeah, and so I go.

705
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: I leave five stars. The vibes were great, the atmosphere

706
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: was great. I just say great about everything, just because

707
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like what they may yeah, why not?

708
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 2: The business needs longevity and you can help.

709
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,760
Speaker 1: So I think that tells a lot facts, all right,

710
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: Beyond appearance, What makes someone truly attractive Their voice. I

711
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: saw a lot of them. Do you think girls like

712
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: a kind of maybe you know, like you and I

713
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 1: or they're.

714
00:34:55,280 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 3: Like, hold hold on to the headboard, hold on, hold on.

715
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 1: Can do it? You can't do it when you're laughing,

716
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:22,319
Speaker 1: hold look at me, look at me, take your parents off.

717
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 1: I can't say it, And I say, I need to

718
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 1: say it really quick, because what.

719
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 2: Did Casue say there was he He's like, do you

720
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,240
Speaker 2: have my finger, my tongue, oh yeah, my cock?

721
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah? And she goes and then she goes, I

722
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: need She points at his dick and she goes, I

723
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: need that in me right now. Damn it.

724
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:49,319
Speaker 2: Bro Well, we're either both blessed or curse because everyone

725
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 2: thinks we sound the same.

726
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: I know, body just said that we do need to

727
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: get better at using each other's names and be like,

728
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: oh yeah, Jake's talking. It's kind of people do say.

729
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:03,919
Speaker 1: It's really difficult. Also, people think we're brothers here more

730
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 1: than in Australia. Yeah, well that's a cultural thing, I guess.

731
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: I mean I get. But I told you about how

732
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: you and I haven't been to that were room. So

733
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,439
Speaker 1: it's a little restaurant, right, that's funny where you're get nicey,

734
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: goying and other stuff. You and I hadn't been there

735
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: together this trim all right. You went the night before me,

736
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: and when I went, they said you want the same

737
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 1: thing as yesterday, and I was like, I was like,

738
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 1: they have to be talking about audio and I was like,

739
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 1: oh no, I haven't been here. Oh really, it. I

740
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: was like talking about not being able to leave bad reviews.

741
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: I might use this to my advantage. Why, like, if

742
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: you go to a restaurant, I know.

743
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 2: You're going somewhere, I'll go there before and be like

744
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 2: a dick.

745
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 1: To me?

746
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 2: Beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive? Making you feel safe?

747
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: How can someone make you feel safe?

748
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 1: Is it more of a I would say for me,

749
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: it's like a feeling secure. That's how I would feel.

750
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: I feel like it's different for a girl, though, Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

751
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: for a girl because they actually actually can be in

752
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: danger that it would probably feel really good and they

753
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: would be more attracted to you if but when they're

754
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: with you, they feel genuinely safe. I feel about their safety. Yeah.

755
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 2: It's like or it is not the right word, like

756
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,240
Speaker 2: what you put out into the world, just like your being,

757
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 2: how you feel. Yeah, you feel I feel different ways

758
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 2: around different men.

759
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

760
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 2: It's just that fear, that vibe some dude puts off

761
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 2: into this world and you feel safe and secure.

762
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: Sometimes you feel vibes around dudes where you think I

763
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: don't feel safe. Yeah, And it's not always like it's safety.

764
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 1: It's just like unpredictability. You don't know what they're gonna do.

765
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: So yeah, and it's like we experience it with mate.

766
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 2: It's not to the same magnitude, of course, but you're like, oh,

767
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 2: I don't know, especially when they start drinking, like, oh,

768
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 2: I don't know what these guys are gonna do.

769
00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna exit the scenario. No for real, Okay. Beyond appearance,

770
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: what makes someone truly attractive? Quote, I'll take care of it. Oh,

771
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 1: let me take care of it. So they do like

772
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: that apparently, Yeah, I'll do that. I'll take care of it.

773
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: I'll book it about it, I'll book it. I love

774
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 1: the book it little. I like booking stuff as well.

775
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: I like it. It's a control thing.

776
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 2: Beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive?

777
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: Confidence? Without being cocky? I saw that right, and I

778
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: was thinking, where's the line. There's a fine line.

779
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's your actions speak for themselves, okay.

780
00:38:54,640 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 1: Or you're not verbally confident, Yeah, you're physically confident. I guess,

781
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: just like how you walk around life and what you do,

782
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: how you carry yourself. Yeah, Cassie said, I put off

783
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: shy vibes. Yeah yeah, yeah, but I mean you're a

784
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: confident person still, yeah, in my own head, I don't know.

785
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 1: I wonder what I give off, I mean, shy vibes.

786
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: Did she mean that as an insult?

787
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 2: Was she like, no, we're planning one of those games,

788
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: and it was like it was like a deep questions

789
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 2: game and like a card came out. I was like,

790
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 2: how would you like think that person is if you've

791
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 2: met them for the first time, And she said shy.

792
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 1: Yeah that's valid. Yeah, yeah, that's valid. I would say

793
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: as well, you mean what do I give off? I

794
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 1: don't know.

795
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 2: Actually, probably like you're like a combination of either confident

796
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,280
Speaker 2: or like you could give off very like airheady.

797
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what like first time. I actually I

798
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: don't even take that as an insult. I mean, I

799
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe it's meant as an insult. I don't know.

800
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: But my parents they used to say, like they used

801
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 1: to say that I can Jake's off with the fairies. Yeah,

802
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:03,879
Speaker 1: and then I live in my own world. I think

803
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: you do. I think that's what it is.

804
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 2: And it was a fire line between confident or like

805
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 2: he's not even on our planet.

806
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:14,359
Speaker 1: True, yeah, like he he's like there's a fine line

807
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: between confident and oblivious. Yeah, I would find if I'm

808
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 1: on my own, not confident, not confident. But if I'm

809
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: with a group of people, I think then if someone

810
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:26,720
Speaker 1: looking in would think, yeah, he's a confident person.

811
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 2: What's the best thing about this podcast? We wouldn't have

812
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 2: been able to do it about each other.

813
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 1: Hell no, I don't know how people. I did passenge

814
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: Princess for a couple of times, and I was like,

815
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: fuck doing this on my own. Bro. I get a

816
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 1: message every now and then like when's it coming back? Guys,

817
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 1: it's not coming about I can't do it. Like the

818
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: events we go to and stuff like all alone my

819
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 1: I was going to go to one on my own

820
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 1: and not long ago, and then but I asked Beth

821
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: and she wanted to go. Yeah, fucking like the brand also,

822
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,399
Speaker 1: but she she tries to get me to talk to people.

823
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 1: She goes, I was like, we should leave, Like we came,

824
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 1: we did our thing, we should leave. She goes, is

825
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: not not until you, not until you what's it called network?

826
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: Until you do networking? All right? And I was like, watch,

827
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:07,840
Speaker 1: she goes, two new people. You have to talk to

828
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,719
Speaker 1: two new people? Flat out? I said, no, that's a

829
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: that's a great thing from her. Also, she's not coming

830
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 1: when I'm there. I was straight up. I was like no,

831
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:17,359
Speaker 1: because if that was me, I would have been like, yeah,

832
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: let's go. No. Yeah, you and I feed off each other,

833
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 1: like we've been here. If one of us we came,

834
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 1: we've been here long enough. Oh we have been no evidence,

835
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 1: there is phono evidence on our story that we were here.

836
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: She was like, no, no, need a network talk to

837
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:35,879
Speaker 1: two new people, and yeah, I just flat I was like, no,

838
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: not that me. Beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive?

839
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 1: A slutty watch? A slutty watch? Is that from a dude?

840
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: Like I was, I'm pretty sure she means like a watch, Like, yeah,

841
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 1: how does a dude have a slutty watch? How's a

842
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: girl have a slutty watch? How could a watch be slutty?

843
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 1: A lot of gold, a lot of diamonds. I don't

844
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: like watches. I don't mind him to a certain extent.

845
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 1: There's a time and a place for a good watch,

846
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: but not the big, chunky ones. I don't I don't

847
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: know how you can have a slutty watch either, don't agree.

848
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: I'm not a nah who I feel like wouldn't it

849
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:18,919
Speaker 1: be sludy it'd be naked? Well, I mean by definition, yes,

850
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: it would be. By definition it would be slutty.

851
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 3: Yes.

852
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 1: Wouldn't it be more slutty than not wear a watch

853
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: or like lefs skin? Yeah? Like more so more skin showing. Yeah, yeah,

854
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: I just not a watch guy. There's wrisk bleat bringing baddies.

855
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 1: Do you like seeing a guy in a watch? I

856
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,720
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like no one would care. Also

857
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: my okay, so you know those people that will buy

858
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 1: like a fucking five hundred thousand dollars watch or thirty

859
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 1: thousand or something. Yeah, if you're wearing a watch over

860
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: I want to say anything over two thousand dollars, right,

861
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: this could be a hot take, but I think if

862
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: you're wearing a watch over two thousand dollars, it's the

863
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: same reason that you buy a super expensive car, or

864
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: the same reason that you maybe drive super fast in

865
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: a slow area and rev the shit out of your car.

866
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 1: It's just to show off. Because also, I'm not gonna

867
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 1: look at a watch that's fifty thousand dollars and be like,

868
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: I can't believe that guy's wearing a fifty thousand dollars watch.

869
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: Because I don't know what that looks like. I don't

870
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: know what watch is fifty thousand dollars. Most people don't know.

871
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: It's a big thing in America. It's like they wear

872
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: I can already hear I can hear the rebuttals from

873
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: some men. Oh yeah, I don't think they're listening to this,

874
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: but I can hear bottles, and I know exactly what

875
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: someone hearing this who wears an expensive watch would say.

876
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 1: They would say, well, you're not the person I'm trying

877
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: to impress, am I. But also that's the line. They're cocky,

878
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: not confident. They're trying to show how successful they are,

879
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 1: when in reality, just them walking and they're being should

880
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: be confidence enough. Yeah, it's a bigger thing in America.

881
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 2: How they all like they like those birds in the

882
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 2: davidad Brouh documentary, how they're like put their cocking, they're

883
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 2: peacocking their feathers and like, I've got a big watch,

884
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 2: I've got a big chain. Like in reality, like if

885
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:10,879
Speaker 2: it was just a nice, well dressed man, that's confidence enough.

886
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 2: Jacob A LORDI, for example, that guy confidences.

887
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 1: True, he is kind of pretty good. Yeah, I reckon,

888
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,479
Speaker 1: does he dress good? Or is he just hot? Does

889
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,879
Speaker 1: he dress good? Or is he just tall? I reckon?

890
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 2: I reckon he dresses good because he's long and to

891
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 2: dress that good and be long.

892
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 1: As had tall. Yeah, I meant both cons hopefully. I

893
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 1: don't know. I've never seen it. Actually, Yeah, what do

894
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: you reckon? Checkob a lordie O can ickon he's decent

895
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: looking but also has style. No, I was actually I

896
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 1: was asking about how do you think his dick ish hue?

897
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: I reckon it is he's actually is he like six seven?

898
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: He's tall? Yeah, everything's proportioned, quite slim, everything's proportional, I reckon, Yeah,

899
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 1: I reckon. Yeah. True. I guess it's like if you

900
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: get the a lot of gross gene in one area

901
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 1: or no, you're gonna get it in every area. Yeah,

902
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 1: I would think so. Yeah.

903
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 2: Beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive? Being good with kids?

904
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:14,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can totally see that. I'm not great, you see,

905
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:18,800
Speaker 1: I am open, open and honest about not really liking

906
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: kids very much. But when I'm with them, because it's

907
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 1: always for like a short amount of time, I do

908
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 1: have fun and play with them. I have fun. Do

909
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 1: I always feeling a little bit out of place and awkward.

910
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 2: I guess I need like exposure therapy though true, yeah

911
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 2: a baby still never held one.

912
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: It's so funny, Like I find it so funny she

913
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: never held a baby. But to be fair, it's like,

914
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: you have a pretty small family. I should just go

915
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: off to someone. I am that cold. Could you imagine

916
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 1: having a kid? Could you imagine you have your kid

917
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 1: right and you're out and someone kinds up, he goes, look,

918
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm twenty five. I've actually never held a kid. You

919
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 1: might help hold it. I'd be like, no, you're not

920
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: stuck with mine.

921
00:45:56,239 --> 00:46:00,439
Speaker 2: No, yeah, you need someone who's like a blood relative. Yeah,

922
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 2: so they can't say no.

923
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 1: But so baby baby No. Like I don't think I'm

924
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: bad with them, but I don't hold him, really be

925
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: bad with him, true, don't do anything. But I don't

926
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 1: like holding him because death if you fall, like literal death.

927
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,879
Speaker 1: And then but a kid that's old enough to run around.

928
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: I like little boys because they love fucking around. I

929
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: like to entertain.

930
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 4: I am look, I have a cousin with a kid

931
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 4: named Riley, and he's very funny because.

932
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 2: He is a very boyish boy, and.

933
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: I like to witness it.

934
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 5: No, no, I like, I don't even like him. I

935
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 5: hate it, Actually, I hate him him.

936
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 2: I like the baby sit my cousin's kid.

937
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:14,359
Speaker 1: You better better my time. Beyond appearance, what makes someone

938
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 1: truly attractive? This one is the smell. Oh yeah, something

939
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:25,319
Speaker 1: about a smell. I love it too. Actually, I've I've

940
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 1: always questioned whenever you walk past someone, and for me,

941
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 1: it's always like a man, right because obviously pretty much

942
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: all women smell good for some reason, it's because they're clean.

943
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 1: Because but when a man walks past me and he

944
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,919
Speaker 1: and I can smell his cologne and it's not too much,

945
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: it's it actually smells good. I just think, how the

946
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 1: hell can I do that? And I'll do like five sprays.

947
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 1: I never get complimented.

948
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,359
Speaker 2: I think my skin absorbs it more a I really

949
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 2: think it does. I feel like it comes down to that.

950
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 2: I just soak it up and then it's gone.

951
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:06,880
Speaker 1: I just can't. Yeah, Harry said that he does like

952
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 1: eight sprays. I've never once thought he smelled really nice

953
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: when he I've only one time thought he smell really nice,

954
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 1: and that was when he came to your birthday lunch

955
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 1: and probably sprayed right before. Yeah, you know, he would

956
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: have yeah. But I was like, I was like, fuck,

957
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: you smell good, and he goes, yeah, it's spread like

958
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,399
Speaker 1: eight sprays ship and I was like, that's yeah. I'm

959
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 1: like too when I do it. Yeah, I'm a I'm

960
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 1: a I've been doing this four four certainly not enough.

961
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: Beth does not ever compliment me. I've never once exactly,

962
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: you never once thought it smell good? If anything, I

963
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:42,800
Speaker 1: can smell like you're detergent from your clothes. Yeah, I rolled, wait,

964
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 1: I rolled recent on me. Doesn't last, It doesn't last.

965
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: It's not very good.

966
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 2: Maybe it needs that spray of effect of the particles

967
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 2: like enter your bloodstream.

968
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: How the hell do we smell good? I need? I

969
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 1: want to up my scent game. At least you're trying

970
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,439
Speaker 1: like I want to. I want to do a live

971
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 1: show and have a meet and green. And then in

972
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: the Facebook group, a couple of the baddies are like,

973
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: how fucking good did they smell? Is that what you want?

974
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: That's what I want? You here you go?

975
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 2: That would actually make me feel every fifteen minutes, we'll

976
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 2: go back and spray.

977
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: You know what, though, that might be what people do.

978
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: Maybe they might have one with them when they when

979
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:18,879
Speaker 1: they get some water.

980
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 2: They maybe maybe beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive

981
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:26,720
Speaker 2: when the goal in bed is to please the woman?

982
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: Yeah? I like that. Yeah I do too. And you

983
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 1: know what would require that? A frontal low.

984
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 2: Yeah I like it too because it kind of like

985
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 2: turns me on.

986
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: When that was one of my answers, by the way,

987
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 1: front of low front development that was too seamless went

988
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 1: over my head.

989
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 2: Like me again, beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive

990
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 2: the drive to accomplish something.

991
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: Oh damn, yeah that is kind of sexy. I like

992
00:49:56,640 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 1: it when they get passionate. Yeah, yeah, I reckon. Maybe

993
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 1: I need to be more unapologetic in my passions. Who

994
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: are you apologizing to? I wouldn't say, like, I apologize, right,

995
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I like golf. I wouldn't say I apologize.

996
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: I should say that too fair. But let's say I

997
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 1: am Maybe that comes out. I was going to say

998
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: we like work life balance. Yeah, I agreed, and so

999
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,280
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I work you know, sixty hour weeks,

1000
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:36,320
Speaker 1: no on the pod. And I was going to say,

1001
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:40,240
Speaker 1: maybe I should be more unapologetic in my passions and grinding,

1002
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: grind and grind. But then that's going to take the

1003
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:43,320
Speaker 1: love out of it. So I was that's why I

1004
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 1: didn't say it. Oh so yeah, I thought you were

1005
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:47,479
Speaker 1: going to. I was gonna say, like, maybe I should

1006
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,839
Speaker 1: start grinding apology in eighty hour weeks, nothing but the pod.

1007
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: This is my passion. Make it big, make it big,

1008
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,600
Speaker 1: make it big. But then I was like thinking about

1009
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 1: it while I was about to say it, and I was, well,

1010
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't say it.

1011
00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 2: I was going to say, being facetious, we've grinded the

1012
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:06,280
Speaker 2: pod enough already that it's in a place where we're happy,

1013
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 2: true but contempt, Yeah, where we could definitely get bigger.

1014
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: N that's yeah. We need word of mouth. Yeah, that's

1015
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,839
Speaker 1: our goal. So every single batty listening to this, go

1016
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: tell a friend, to tell a friend about the pot.

1017
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 1: I've always wanted so sometimes like I've never wanted to

1018
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: be the person that you know, so we promote Patreon.

1019
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 1: We've been forgetting to promote five stars. We're not very

1020
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:30,479
Speaker 1: good at.

1021
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:32,760
Speaker 2: Five star two guys, while you're yeah, yeah.

1022
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 1: But people that are really good at that and do

1023
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: it consistently, I d say it works. It does work.

1024
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: We know it works when we say it. Yeah, I'm

1025
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 1: going to start telling all the baddies. Tell a friend,

1026
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:46,280
Speaker 1: to tell a friend. I'm going to make you feel guilty.

1027
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 2: If you love us, prove it well. The best thing

1028
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 2: is when someone you know says they're really good. That's

1029
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:57,280
Speaker 2: better than any fast of you anywhere.

1030
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. I would one hundred percent trust someone saying you know, oh,

1031
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: like the way I started listening to Shits and Gigs

1032
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 1: was as someone said, I recommend them, they're really good.

1033
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: But also, if you were to tell me about someone

1034
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: about a podcast, I would go and give it a chance.

1035
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: There's lots of times where I just wouldn't even give

1036
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: a podcast a chance unless it's from someone exactly agreed. Okay,

1037
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm going to rattle a couple off. Beyond appearance? What

1038
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 1: is something that's truly beyond appearance? What makes someone truly attractive?

1039
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 1: Keeping their home clean? But I can see that. I

1040
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: can see that as well. The look girls, if you

1041
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 1: know you know what was that?

1042
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,280
Speaker 2: I could see your grin in the background.

1043
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:46,879
Speaker 1: I couldn't hold it. You do what you do it?

1044
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 2: Look, bro, I am talking about trying to be attractive change. Yeah,

1045
00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 2: and I've tried it, and it's not good. It's not good.

1046
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 2: You got those baby blue eyes.

1047
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: But all right, last one, someone who isn't jealous or

1048
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,279
Speaker 1: insecure in a relationship that's actually really good.

1049
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 2: Okay, let me rattle a few off too. Beyond appearance,

1050
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:13,799
Speaker 2: what makes someone truly attractive?

1051
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 1: Five star aftercare? Oh wait, after care like post sex.

1052
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: That so I was thinking, yea, yeah, after cares like

1053
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,800
Speaker 1: five starfter care. I think looking after yourself in the partner.

1054
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 1: Hey girl, here, let me give you a towels jump

1055
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 1: in the sauna. We just had to workout. Let's get

1056
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 1: let's get a massage. Not taking themselves too seriously.

1057
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that when he does not give his

1058
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 2: opinions on topics he has no idea about, but is

1059
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 2: willing to learn.

1060
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:47,760
Speaker 1: Oh that's a good one. I reckon. When I was younger,

1061
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: I reckon I was a lot more opinionated than I

1062
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: am now.

1063
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 2: Well, you can always think of those people who are

1064
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 2: I don't know is know it all? It's the right thing,

1065
00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 2: Like they think they know everything and they want to

1066
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 2: have an opinion on everything, and they're very uneducated.

1067
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 1: On everything, and they're like, this is how it is.

1068
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: You don't know anything. Shut up. Learn. But something as

1069
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 1: simple as I used to have this mindset that so

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Speaker 1: when it comes to say, losing weight, right, I used

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Speaker 1: to have this mindset where it's like, literally, just be

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Speaker 1: in a calorie deficit, right, and not that that isn't

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Speaker 1: the right answer. But I've come to kind of think

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Speaker 1: like that's a bit of an maybe an ignorant answer.

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Speaker 1: I think it's maybe a bit naiven, a bit ignorant,

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Speaker 1: and it's not always that simple. So now whenever the

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Speaker 1: topic comes up, I'm not like I try and keep

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Speaker 1: my mouth shut. Well, you just answer that there.

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Speaker 2: It's maturing and the people who are so opinionated when

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Speaker 2: they aren't educated aren't for sure.

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Speaker 1: Did I tell you last time I was at my

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Speaker 1: dad's place in Queensland? Yeah, yeah, you told that. He

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Speaker 1: was talking to my stepmom and Beth and I was

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Speaker 1: eating dinner while they were talking, and he was talking

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Speaker 1: about how he was doing no alcohol trying to lose

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Speaker 1: a bit of weight. And then he goes, yeah, like

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Speaker 1: he goes, it's not just about the food though, it's

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Speaker 1: mainly about the exercise. And to be fair, I do

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Speaker 1: know for a fact it's the opposite. But I was like,

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Speaker 1: and Bet said after it, she goes, you you were

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Speaker 1: really trying to get a nushut then were I was

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Speaker 1: like yeah, I was just like he'd lost a bit

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Speaker 1: of weight and they didn't want to take away from

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Speaker 1: his progress, and I didn't want to be like dad,

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Speaker 1: shut the fuck.

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Speaker 2: Well, the most relatable thing is all about he's listening's

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Speaker 2: parents aren't educated on how to lose weight, and they

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Speaker 2: all with those fads, those like magazine articles with all

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Speaker 2: these different things that never were to be fair.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to fat at the moment. Actually in Australia,

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Speaker 1: the low FOMMT, I wouldn't say that's a actually a

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Speaker 1: good point. That's more of just like cutting out something

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Speaker 1: because that sucks. Like fads are meant to be all

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Speaker 1: right still, you know a fad is where it's like

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Speaker 1: eat what you want and lose weight. Yeah, okay, bad

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Speaker 1: is This week in the studio we have Radid say hello,

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Speaker 1: Radid hello hello. So this week we wanted to try

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Speaker 1: and learn to say have a wonderful day. In Indonesian,

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Speaker 1: I have a wonderful or have a good day, whatever

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Speaker 1: is easier. Smog damn it.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no, well okay, so in Indonesian we've

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Speaker 2: been stuffing up I think our phrases don't translate. If

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Speaker 2: you wanted to say to someone walking on the street,

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Speaker 2: like have a good day, what would you say In Indonesian.

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Speaker 1: You would say that, you would say that. Actually, I

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Speaker 1: have a question that in Indonesia is it common to

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Speaker 1: leave a cafe or a venue or maybe you were

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Speaker 1: having lunch with a friend. Is it common to say, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, have a good day. Is that a common

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Speaker 1: thing you would say to someone? Ah, maybe it's common thing.

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Speaker 1: But know what is many people use English too? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Very by Yeah, a very bilingual country, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: What about baddie, I didn't know that's the one that three?

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Speaker 1: Also he was like, it didn't really translate. Ok, baddie

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Speaker 1: doesn't translate? How about super simple? What's your welcome summer? Summer?

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Speaker 1: We know that one? And Arry mccasy is thank you?

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Speaker 1: What about yes? If we say what about this? You're beautiful? Okay,

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Speaker 1: we can do this. Okay, come come chick, you're beautiful

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Speaker 1: for the women or is it different for men? Call

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Speaker 1: if we say you're hands two men? Is okay? For

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Speaker 1: the baddies out there? Thank you so much? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: And BADDI is that that's it? For today Yeah, stay bad, enjoy,