WEBVTT - WHISKEY D*CK EXPLAINED...

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale, I want the prince charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>my kissing.

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<v Speaker 1>Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in

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<v Speaker 1>a trash bin. He's non recyclable, catching them.

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<v Speaker 2>Mut I love being love, I love love.

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<v Speaker 3>On today's episode of Where's Your Head Out, we are

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<v Speaker 3>discussing the topic of drinking whilst dating.

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<v Speaker 2>We will also be discussing what is known as whiskey dick,

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<v Speaker 2>and we'll share some good reasons why you shouldn't get

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<v Speaker 2>blackout drunk on your next date.

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<v Speaker 3>Stay tuned to hear how to make sure alcohol doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>ruin your night. Where's Your Head Out is a podcast

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Matt, Hey everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to another episode of Where's your Head At?

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<v Speaker 2>And I have some news to share. Well it isn't

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<v Speaker 2>isn't good news, But it's not good news. No, it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've gone to the doctors for my routine health check.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they become a lot less common these days,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have enough time to get around them. But

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you know what, I'm gonna put some

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<v Speaker 2>time aside. I went and did it. I got a

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<v Speaker 2>blood test and it came back with that my liver

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<v Speaker 2>has been spiked in some areas, so.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a liver.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So I asked the doctor, like, what does that mean.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, let's get some more tests done, maybe an

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<v Speaker 2>ultracent on your liver. Nothing to really stress about. But

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<v Speaker 2>you know, me a bit of a worry wart. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, well, shit, that must be liver. That's drinking. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to say, isn't that like too much alcohol?

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<v Speaker 3>Ma?

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, if you ask my girlfriend Jen, she'd say

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<v Speaker 2>it's too much alcohol. So I'm going to now stop

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<v Speaker 2>drinking for a little bit and you know, just take

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<v Speaker 2>some time off the bottle.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think you definitely should. Oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>actually worried for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the doctor assured me, she said, it's nothing to

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<v Speaker 2>worry about. I'm going to get a second opinion, take

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<v Speaker 2>the results to another doctor, see what they say. But

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I should be okay. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not turning yellow all my eyes not turning.

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<v Speaker 1>Yellows, I should be well, my fingers across for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Speaking of drinking on the weekend, I had a very big.

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<v Speaker 2>Nightmat Really, I don't think my liver would have handled it.

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<v Speaker 3>If it definitely wouldn't have actually got blackout drunk. And

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<v Speaker 3>I have not been blackout drunk for a really long time.

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<v Speaker 2>So when you say blackout drunk, do you mean you

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<v Speaker 2>don't remember anything from the night or you remember a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Or oh, I definitely remember like the first three quarters

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<v Speaker 3>of the night, and then the last quarter is just gone.

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<v Speaker 2>It's always that drink that knocks it over. What was

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<v Speaker 2>that drink that? Do you remember that much? At least?

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<v Speaker 1>So look, I was out with the girls. We were

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<v Speaker 1>having a girl's that.

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<v Speaker 3>We haven't had a girl's night in a really long time.

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<v Speaker 3>Like we've really struggled for some reason to just get

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<v Speaker 3>everyone together. Our schedules are all over the place. Everyone's

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<v Speaker 3>living in different areas as well. I feel like as

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<v Speaker 3>you get older, people start moving, you know, out to

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<v Speaker 3>the country, because like my friend just bought a house

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<v Speaker 3>in Mornington, so obviously they're a little bit further out.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I have a friend who lives in Berwick,

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<v Speaker 3>but she is moving to Malvern soon. That's Amber, our producer,

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<v Speaker 3>so I'm very excited to have her living closer. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>everyone's kind of spread out, so it's harder to get

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<v Speaker 3>everyone together.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was our first night together.

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<v Speaker 3>We were all a bit excited, and then we have

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<v Speaker 3>like this issue in our group at the moment, and

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<v Speaker 3>everyone got really emotional. This is like probably four hours

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<v Speaker 3>into the night, so there's already alcohol running around. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>there's alcohol running around, but I was obviously not having

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<v Speaker 3>a big night because I just don't have big nights anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Then we all got a little bit emotional. And then

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<v Speaker 3>because everyone was getting a little bit emotional, my remedy

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<v Speaker 3>was we shots.

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<v Speaker 1>To numb the pain naturally, yes.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I went and got everyone tequila shots, and

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<v Speaker 3>then from there we all went in turns doing rounds

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<v Speaker 3>of tequila shots.

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<v Speaker 1>And it just went so downhill so quickly, like.

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<v Speaker 2>So, what's that five or six rounds of tequila shots?

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<v Speaker 3>I think we did three to four, and then the

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<v Speaker 3>memory is nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like a bottle of tequila between you all.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm embarrassed to say it's actually gross and I haven't

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<v Speaker 3>been binge drinking for a long time. So I think

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<v Speaker 3>I used to be such a heavy drinker, which we'll

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<v Speaker 3>touch on in a minute, And I think I thought

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<v Speaker 3>I could keep up with my old standards of drinking,

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<v Speaker 3>and I just cannot.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's just.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was the same like the last couple of

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<v Speaker 2>times I've had a big night. I think I can

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<v Speaker 2>drink like I used to when I was a kid,

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<v Speaker 2>and boy, you find out the wrong way.

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<v Speaker 3>So anyway, we got extremely drunk, and then the girls

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<v Speaker 3>actually ended up calling Michael and he had to come.

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<v Speaker 1>And pick me up.

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<v Speaker 2>What from where you were having?

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<v Speaker 1>From where we were?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I was too drunk, Because I just went from

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<v Speaker 3>like fifty percent happy in the perfect spot to just

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<v Speaker 3>like Fortequila shots and just blackout.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you like that? Were any of your friends blackout?

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<v Speaker 2>Or was it just you? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? But I went down first because I haven't drunk

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<v Speaker 3>in ages, So I was the first man out. And

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<v Speaker 3>slowly they started like dropping off like flies.

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<v Speaker 1>Like everyone was not in a good way.

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<v Speaker 3>Our group chat in the morning was just filthy, like

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<v Speaker 3>everyone was just like sending selfies and we all looked

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<v Speaker 3>haggard and like gross, and everyone was like ill.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, did anyone share anything that you'd done while you

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<v Speaker 2>were drinking then or yeah, And.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like people are like, oh, I remember when

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<v Speaker 3>you fell over here, and I'm like, I fell over

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<v Speaker 3>in public.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it wasn't good. I had to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Picked up and taken home. If you saw me that night,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so sorry. It was disgusting. I will be on

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<v Speaker 3>better behavior from now on until.

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<v Speaker 2>The tequila shots come out again.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm banned from tequila shots. Michael was like, that

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<v Speaker 3>can't happen again, no more tequila shots, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree completely.

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<v Speaker 3>So Matt, let's get into our topic of alcohol and dating.

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<v Speaker 2>And we touched on before about how we used to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to drink a lot more than we can now.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you like to touch on your habits growing off

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<v Speaker 2>with drinking.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, it's really strange because I'm going to start by

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<v Speaker 3>saying I actually listened to a podcast recently and it

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<v Speaker 3>was this girl talking about her binge drinking habits and

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<v Speaker 3>how she was a really bad drinker and literally everything

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<v Speaker 3>she said I've done.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just never thought it was.

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<v Speaker 3>A problem because drinking is so normalized in Australian culture.

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<v Speaker 2>I think part of the culture in Australia especially growing

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<v Speaker 2>up as like a twenty year old eighteen year old,

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<v Speaker 2>and that is to go out and just get absolutely

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<v Speaker 2>black out drunk. Yeah, like there's no other ways around it.

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<v Speaker 2>Even still, like if the boys get together, like we're

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<v Speaker 2>all like drinks flow and like you're like, yeah, come on,

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<v Speaker 2>like who can drink? The most sort of thing that's

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon. That's a big part of Australian culture.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like when was the last time I got together

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<v Speaker 3>with my friends or you got together with your friends

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<v Speaker 3>and you did something that didn't revolve around drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I don't remember even like I can't remember either.

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<v Speaker 2>Even living with my housemates, like on a Friday night,

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<v Speaker 2>it would say, let's have a couple of beers and

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<v Speaker 2>watch the footage. Before you know, we're all drunk ass,

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<v Speaker 2>like we're all sloppy messes. Yeah, just because that's like

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<v Speaker 2>the culture. You're sitting in there drinking and before you

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<v Speaker 2>know it, like one drink becomes ten.

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<v Speaker 3>Really yeah, And I think that's the thing that I

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<v Speaker 3>realized when listening to this podcast that kind of triggered

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<v Speaker 3>something within me. All of my core memories growing up

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<v Speaker 3>in my twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>All revolve around alcohol.

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<v Speaker 3>Without fail, every single one of them, like ninety nine percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Jen, my girlfriend, she always says, can you please

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<v Speaker 2>tell me a story that doesn't start off with I

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<v Speaker 2>was so fucked or I was so Yeah. She pulls

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<v Speaker 2>me up on it all the time because I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>over there, I was so pissed or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, just have one one story from your past

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<v Speaker 2>that doesn't revolve around that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think that's the thing as well growing up

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<v Speaker 3>is my mentality was just so all or nothing. I

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<v Speaker 3>never actually learned to just have one or two drinks

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<v Speaker 3>going out. In fact, I actually had the mindset that

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<v Speaker 3>having one or two drinks was a waste of time

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<v Speaker 3>because it's a waste of calories that I could not

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<v Speaker 3>be having. And so then I would just get to

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<v Speaker 3>the weekend and binge drink like an animal, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was just foul.

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<v Speaker 1>Like looking back, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, my poor body, I need to like be the

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<v Speaker 3>healthiest person alive to make up for all of the

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<v Speaker 3>trauma that I have caused my body.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I was thinking about that in empty calories and

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<v Speaker 2>all that sort of stuff drinking. I would go all

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<v Speaker 2>week like eating religiously, like so healthily training like so much,

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<v Speaker 2>and then on the weekend just to blow out and

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<v Speaker 2>have a massive night on Saturday and to undo almost

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<v Speaker 2>everything that I've done that whole week.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>That became like a routine in my everyday life. And

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<v Speaker 2>to think what like just stupid now if you look back, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I just didn't make sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Like, growing up, I was such a party girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I loved partying, like I still do to a

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<v Speaker 3>certain degree, but I'm so much better. Like I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>go out to a club, I'd go out to a bar.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I wouldn't really stay out past twelve now, like

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<v Speaker 3>I've definitely settled down stay out those kids.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I used to go out three four times

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<v Speaker 1>a week.

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<v Speaker 3>I used to be a host at a nightclub, so

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<v Speaker 3>I'd get paid a retainer every week to bring all

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<v Speaker 3>my friends to the club.

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<v Speaker 1>It became my job essentially.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'd get like twenty drink cards that I was

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<v Speaker 3>meant to share with everyone and probably half three quarters

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<v Speaker 3>to myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm guilty of that as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was just.

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<v Speaker 3>Such a big part of me growing up. And as

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I never saw a problem with it because

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<v Speaker 3>it's so normalized.

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<v Speaker 2>What a should you have your first drink?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I had my first drink at seventeen, and

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<v Speaker 3>that was because which is older? Which is older? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's because my parents were super street.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>If I had a drink earlier, like, would I have

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<v Speaker 3>maybe learned to have one or two?

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, I really don't think so. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was a good thing that my.

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<v Speaker 3>Parents were so strict and I didn't start drinking earlier

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<v Speaker 3>because it has a massive effect on developing brains.

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<v Speaker 2>Well take it from me, who had my first real

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<v Speaker 2>piss up at fifteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's why you're a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's probably explains a lot. No, I took We

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<v Speaker 2>had a house party and I remember going to my

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<v Speaker 2>dad's bar and I took a bottle of jim Bean

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<v Speaker 2>black of all things. Oh no, made myself and my

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<v Speaker 2>mate a couple of black glasses. They couldn't drink it.

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<v Speaker 2>So me still, I've still got this this attitude while

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to waste alcohol, so drunk all these

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<v Speaker 2>drinks and next thing you know, I remember just sitting

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<v Speaker 2>on my front doorstep vomiting everywhere. Oh no, I have

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<v Speaker 2>not been able to drink bourbon.

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<v Speaker 3>Since when you had your first kiss with Jen, we drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so our first date obviously was done at a

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<v Speaker 2>period where restaurants weren't open. So what you would do

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<v Speaker 2>is you'd go Well for most dates I think people

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<v Speaker 2>doing and they met in that period of time, was

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<v Speaker 2>they would go on like walks. So we met up

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<v Speaker 2>at the botanical gardens the Tan, got an apparole each

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<v Speaker 2>and walked, so.

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<v Speaker 3>You were on a like a healthy walk and you

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<v Speaker 3>still managed to get alcohol.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's funny, it didn't even end up being a

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<v Speaker 2>walk of the Tan. We ended up going stuff this,

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<v Speaker 2>let's just walk through the gardens and get drunk. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>pretty much. So we had a couple of drinks and

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<v Speaker 2>then we went back to hers and had a drink there,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we went back to mine and kept drinking

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<v Speaker 2>with me and my roommates.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it makes sense, Like first dates are extremely scary

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<v Speaker 3>and you need the Dutch courage.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean personally, I don't think I need it

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<v Speaker 2>to buy a.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't then why did you have it?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe I just love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt's in denight.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to think that I can back myself into

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<v Speaker 2>a first date that I don't need social lubricant of

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<v Speaker 2>a drink, but maybe I do subconsciously. I remember one

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<v Speaker 2>of the first things I said to Jen when we

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<v Speaker 2>started dating. We were at hers and we were drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>We stayed up till like maybe three am, drinking on

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<v Speaker 2>like the first week of hanging out, and I actually

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<v Speaker 2>said to it, You're one of the first, if not

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<v Speaker 2>the only girl I've actually stayed up with and just

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<v Speaker 2>spoken to and drunk and not thought about, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>taking to bed and just doing the deed, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>actually into talking to you and like, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>it's a deeper level. So I think maybe alcohol maybe

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<v Speaker 2>made that. Did you drink on your first date with Michael?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So it's interesting because I don't know if I've

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<v Speaker 3>ever told this story on the podcast, but Michael and

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<v Speaker 3>I's first date actually started at nine thirty PM one.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a very late one, so Michael had been

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<v Speaker 3>out all day. He was a bottle of wine deep.

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<v Speaker 1>He was trying to.

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<v Speaker 3>Convince me to come out, and I was like, I've

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<v Speaker 3>just had like pasta and garlic bread. I'm like really

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<v Speaker 3>settled in for the night. And I knew he was

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<v Speaker 3>like a bit drunk. So I was like, you're already like.

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<v Speaker 1>Halfway there, if not most of the way there, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think so.

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<v Speaker 3>And he was like, no, no, no, like I've soave

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<v Speaker 3>it up a bit. I really want to do this day.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to flip a coin. If it's heads, we'll

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<v Speaker 3>go on the day. If it's not, we'll stay home. Anyway,

0:13:46.360 --> 0:13:49.079
<v Speaker 3>he lied it was tales. We were meant to stay in,

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<v Speaker 3>but he was like it was heads. He was a

0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:56.360
<v Speaker 3>fake video evidence. Anyway, So I had twenty minutes to

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<v Speaker 3>get ready for our first date because he was like

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<v Speaker 3>coming in an uber to pick me up.

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<v Speaker 2>That's an hour and ten minutes less than normal.

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<v Speaker 3>Geez. I mean it was very quick, but I can

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<v Speaker 3>get ready really quickly. So I was like, you know what,

0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:09.839
<v Speaker 3>fuck it.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't look at me like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I can.

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<v Speaker 1>You would not know.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, I was like, okay, quickly get ready. Obviously, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>like this guy's a bottle deep. So what I did

0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:27.240
<v Speaker 3>was I went to my little bar. No no, no, no,

0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:30.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm not that bad, and I poured two shots of

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<v Speaker 3>tequila and literally drunk two shots of Secula in a

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<v Speaker 3>row mid doing my makeup in the hopes to kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like, I don't know, give myself some courage. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know, I find a first dates super intimidating, like

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<v Speaker 3>very stressful, Like I shake.

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<v Speaker 1>I just get so overwhelmed and.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, what am I going to talk about? I literally,

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<v Speaker 3>before a first day will go to Google and be

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<v Speaker 3>like things to talk about on a first day.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, what's happening in pop culture?

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<v Speaker 3>Should I quickly listen to a podcast so I have

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<v Speaker 3>something to talk about?

0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:09.360
<v Speaker 1>Like I freak out, like I doubt myself.

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<v Speaker 3>And then it's so funny because I literally will get

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<v Speaker 3>on the date and then I'm like the most confident

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<v Speaker 3>person ever.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just like the pre worry.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know, I never have that nerves before

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<v Speaker 2>a first date. I'm sort of sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so jealous.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I going back in myself that I know, like

0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:27.760
<v Speaker 2>I know what to talk about in that, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>pretty good at talking.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's all mine. But it's just like this self doubt.

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<v Speaker 3>Also, I think first dates are intimidating because you're like

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<v Speaker 3>what if I don't like them? And then I literally

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<v Speaker 3>like how do I get out of this? Or like

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<v Speaker 3>am I just gonna sit there? And I have this

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<v Speaker 3>really bad thing where I struggle to tell people the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'll just like go along with a date and

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<v Speaker 3>like pretend everything's all sweet, and then.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of it, I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that was a nightmare. But at the time, you think.

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<v Speaker 3>The guy probably is like, oh, she's into me because

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to drink after drink, had shots trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>through the dance.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but it's because I don't want to hurt their

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<v Speaker 3>feelings and I feel bad like just making it clear

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<v Speaker 3>that I'm just not vibing them, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be rude.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's like this really like weird complex where I

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<v Speaker 3>want them to like me even though I don't like them.

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<v Speaker 2>All Right, So then say you're going on a first date,

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<v Speaker 2>you're nervous. Would you ever have one that didn't revolve

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<v Speaker 2>around drinking.

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<v Speaker 3>The only date that I can remember that I've had

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<v Speaker 3>that didn't revolve around drinking was.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was like eighteen, still in school.

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<v Speaker 3>I went I had a movie day, and I remember

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<v Speaker 3>my mom had, like I think I wasn't I couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>drive yet, so my mom had dropped me off and

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<v Speaker 3>I literally got dropped off. I was like hiding in

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<v Speaker 3>the bathroom, so I was early, so I did. I

0:16:46.000 --> 0:16:49.520
<v Speaker 3>didn't want him to see me yet because I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>want to have too much talking time before the movie,

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<v Speaker 3>because that's how nervous I was.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I remember I called my.

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<v Speaker 3>Mom back and I was like, pick me up. I

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<v Speaker 3>can't do it. It's too strong, and she was like, Anna,

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<v Speaker 3>just go on the date. I'm not picking you up,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was forced into the day.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you nearly stand him off?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And I literally at the moment I saw him, we

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<v Speaker 3>awkwardly hugged and then I was like trembling.

0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I was shaking. I was like, this is the nightmare.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the nightmare.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you just watch the movie then and leave?

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<v Speaker 1>Like we watched the movie the whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>I like had my hands by my side and he

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<v Speaker 3>kept like trying to hold my hand. He leaned in

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<v Speaker 3>for a kiss at the very end, and I was

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<v Speaker 3>like no, no, no, no, no no no, and then

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<v Speaker 3>he did it. I was like, fuck it, I have

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<v Speaker 3>to do it because I don't want to. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want him to like feel uncomfortable. So then I kissed

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<v Speaker 3>him back and then I was like, Okay, thanks for

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<v Speaker 3>the date.

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<v Speaker 1>By sea later just like ended up ghosting.

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<v Speaker 2>Safe to say he never got a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't him. It was more to do with me.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think my insecurity is around first dates and

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<v Speaker 3>just like the pressure I put on myself and the

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<v Speaker 3>constant overthinking that I will do before it, which just

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<v Speaker 3>I totally psych myself out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so the drinking definitely makes that a lot easier

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<v Speaker 2>for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the drinking has and I think that's why I

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<v Speaker 3>turned into such a binge drinker. It's sad to say,

0:18:11.200 --> 0:18:15.159
<v Speaker 3>but it totally numbed those feelings of anxiousness of worry,

0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:18.080
<v Speaker 3>and I was just my confident, normal self, which if

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not drinking alcohol, I still will get to the

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<v Speaker 3>day and I will end up being myself.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just like the pre date worry that I numbed.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so how much should you drink on a first day?

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<v Speaker 3>Because we've established that we all tend to go a

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<v Speaker 3>bit ott, But how much should you drink?

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<v Speaker 2>Map enough that you feel confident in yourself but you're

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<v Speaker 2>not messy drunk and slurring your words. I feel, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to find that lines. If you feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you're toppling over, maybe have a glass of water.

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<v Speaker 1>Water is key when drinking as well.

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<v Speaker 3>They do say that three is generally the golden number

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<v Speaker 3>of drinks. So one is customary kind of like release

0:19:01.000 --> 0:19:04.439
<v Speaker 3>the nerves. Second drink can be used to feel your

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<v Speaker 3>date out a bit more, kind of open up a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit. And then three is kind of like reserved

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<v Speaker 3>for the dates when you're kind of into each.

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<v Speaker 2>Other and it's going a little bit further.

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<v Speaker 3>It's going a bit further, things are kind of warming

0:19:17.920 --> 0:19:18.439
<v Speaker 3>up a little.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're onto your third drink, you might be feeling

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit horny by then as well.

0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Drinking can make you horny, like we can't deny that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, it definitely does. I don't know. Why does

0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:33.000
<v Speaker 2>it make your blood flow everywhere? I don't know, because

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like when you start.

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<v Speaker 3>Drinking, and I mean, drunk sex is really fun and

0:19:37.800 --> 0:19:40.600
<v Speaker 3>inhibitions are lowerd It's good.

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<v Speaker 2>Drunk sex is fun if you're not too drunk. And

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<v Speaker 2>we have the problem of whiskey dick, or also referred to,

0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:53.679
<v Speaker 2>as I've learned as Foster's floff over there gave us

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<v Speaker 2>that one. All right, let's touch on whiskey dick next.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Matt, we all know what whiskey dick is that

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<v Speaker 3>I want to hear it from you.

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<v Speaker 1>What is your definition of whiskey dick?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? So before I get into what a whiskey

0:20:10.800 --> 0:20:12.919
<v Speaker 2>dick is, I'm going to touch on some other names

0:20:12.920 --> 0:20:16.040
<v Speaker 2>that it might be called. Oh God, for other listeners

0:20:16.040 --> 0:20:19.639
<v Speaker 2>that are like, hang on, is that this? It is shot,

0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:26.400
<v Speaker 2>pull with a rope, bong dong, brown party liquor, Foster's floppy,

0:20:27.080 --> 0:20:34.720
<v Speaker 2>Southern poison, taffy pulling, rubber knife, jackie ending, richard, whiskey.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yahk ya, We're going to start there.

0:20:37.720 --> 0:20:43.280
<v Speaker 2>Pushing rope, softy punch, bottle of jack, Everlasting, gummy wre beer, pickle,

0:20:44.760 --> 0:20:49.879
<v Speaker 2>whiskey trick. There. The list goes on Jesus gris, but

0:20:50.119 --> 0:20:52.840
<v Speaker 2>essentially it can have a many names, but essentially it

0:20:52.880 --> 0:20:54.960
<v Speaker 2>is when a man has drunk too much and he

0:20:55.040 --> 0:20:58.520
<v Speaker 2>cannot get an erect penis. All right, So everyone knows

0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:01.359
<v Speaker 2>alcohol can slow your reaction time. So what it does

0:21:01.440 --> 0:21:04.119
<v Speaker 2>is it makes it difficult to focus and concentrate. So

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<v Speaker 2>when a man is having sex, their central nervous system

0:21:08.119 --> 0:21:10.840
<v Speaker 2>isn't working like it normally would if say they were sober,

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<v Speaker 2>which then can affect the dick and how hard it erects, right,

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<v Speaker 2>so it can affect the blood flow to your penis.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if I want to ask this question.

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<v Speaker 1>Has this ever happened to you?

0:21:23.880 --> 0:21:26.640
<v Speaker 2>I think every man can safely say yes, it has.

0:21:26.880 --> 0:21:29.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's common, right, I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you had a man have a whiskey dick before?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, not in recent times.

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<v Speaker 3>I think maybe when I was younger, it's more just

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<v Speaker 3>like you just wouldn't have sex because they're like, I'm

0:21:41.119 --> 0:21:41.719
<v Speaker 3>too drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that we're trying, and they're like, oh, whiskey dick.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, do you call it out? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>a thing? Oh whiskey dick?

0:21:50.560 --> 0:21:52.720
<v Speaker 2>Hey, I can't get hard, there's no blood flow into

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<v Speaker 2>the mask.

0:21:55.240 --> 0:21:56.920
<v Speaker 1>Can you undo a bit of whiskey dick?

0:21:57.000 --> 0:21:59.480
<v Speaker 3>If you're like, I've got whiskey dick right now, can

0:21:59.520 --> 0:22:02.320
<v Speaker 3>you maybe eat some food and then the whiskey dick

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<v Speaker 3>will go away?

0:22:03.320 --> 0:22:05.520
<v Speaker 2>Maybe have a glass of water, sleep it off, and

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<v Speaker 2>if you.

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<v Speaker 1>So, you're just saying way to the.

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<v Speaker 2>Morning, Way to the morning. I think it's the safest,

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<v Speaker 2>which could ruin some situations. I feel.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you react as a guy in that situation,

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just say it's a one night stand. You've taken

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<v Speaker 3>a girl home, she's super hot, and you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, tonight's gonna be fun night.

0:22:25.600 --> 0:22:28.359
<v Speaker 3>You're about to do the deed, and you're like, fuck,

0:22:28.560 --> 0:22:31.800
<v Speaker 3>I've got some whiskey, dick, what do you say?

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<v Speaker 2>I think the best thing to say is to assure

0:22:35.240 --> 0:22:37.880
<v Speaker 2>the girl that it's not them, So don't make them

0:22:37.880 --> 0:22:41.359
<v Speaker 2>feel it's personal. Say look, I'm sorry, but like you

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't have pored me that extra. Don't put the flame

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<v Speaker 2>on them. No, just say I shouldn't have had that

0:22:49.280 --> 0:22:52.480
<v Speaker 2>extra drink. We've had too many. Maybe let's sleep it

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<v Speaker 2>off and see how we go. Or do you want

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<v Speaker 2>to go and have a glass of water and I

0:22:55.119 --> 0:22:56.560
<v Speaker 2>can cook something in the kitchen?

0:22:56.680 --> 0:22:58.960
<v Speaker 1>Like, oh, why don't you go down on them?

0:22:59.280 --> 0:23:01.159
<v Speaker 3>Be like I don't want to have sex with you.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to pleasure you and take the attention off.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that how you would prefer a man to be?

0:23:06.440 --> 0:23:12.520
<v Speaker 2>Is that what you? Yeah? Is that a question? Well? Fuck,

0:23:12.600 --> 0:23:19.000
<v Speaker 2>here we go, I'm learning me. Well yeah, true, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so maybe you just say hang on, this isn't my night,

0:23:21.119 --> 0:23:21.720
<v Speaker 2>this is your night.

0:23:22.640 --> 0:23:24.840
<v Speaker 1>That's the perfect way to resolve the issue.

0:23:24.840 --> 0:23:26.520
<v Speaker 2>In my opinion, I was just trying to make him

0:23:26.520 --> 0:23:28.320
<v Speaker 2>feel comfortable, to let them know that it's not them

0:23:28.359 --> 0:23:29.960
<v Speaker 2>and it's the alcohol's fault, and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just make them food. You're like, if I'm not getting pleasure,

0:23:33.240 --> 0:23:34.000
<v Speaker 1>none of us are.

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<v Speaker 2>You're right you go down on them. At least someone's

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<v Speaker 2>getting off tonight.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what drinks do you think would affect your dick

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<v Speaker 3>the most?

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<v Speaker 2>So, even though it's called whiskey dick, whiskey doesn't cause it.

0:23:51.080 --> 0:23:54.040
<v Speaker 2>It's literally any drink I can do it. As long

0:23:54.160 --> 0:23:57.200
<v Speaker 2>as you've drunk too much alcohol, it will happen. So

0:23:57.760 --> 0:24:01.840
<v Speaker 2>I think it's called whiskey dick common because whisky is

0:24:01.840 --> 0:24:04.280
<v Speaker 2>a stronger drink, and if you have what a couple

0:24:04.280 --> 0:24:06.199
<v Speaker 2>of them, it's going to affect you more than if,

0:24:06.320 --> 0:24:08.920
<v Speaker 2>say you've had twelve beers. You know, in the equivalent

0:24:08.960 --> 0:24:11.320
<v Speaker 2>would be a lot more beers for that. So I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's why it's called that. But any alcohol can

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<v Speaker 2>really do the trick.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know that.

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<v Speaker 3>There is actually a female equivalent, and it's called whiskey clip.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't know. It looks like I'm hearing it

0:24:23.359 --> 0:24:26.240
<v Speaker 2>looks like I'm hearing a lot of new facts here today.

0:24:26.040 --> 0:24:28.360
<v Speaker 1>Or new it's a learning experience for all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's why you tune in.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's three states of whiskey clit. So the first

0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:37.320
<v Speaker 3>one is delayed orgasm, so it takes you longer to

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<v Speaker 3>reach your point of climax. And then the second one

0:24:40.280 --> 0:24:42.679
<v Speaker 3>is no orgasm at all, and then the third is

0:24:42.920 --> 0:24:46.119
<v Speaker 3>the stimulation is just not possible, Like even when you

0:24:46.160 --> 0:24:49.240
<v Speaker 3>stimulate the clit, you're just not feeling anything, Like you're

0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:51.199
<v Speaker 3>just you're just way too drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So say a woman is feeling whiskey clip, what

0:24:55.240 --> 0:24:56.240
<v Speaker 2>is your advice for them?

0:24:56.280 --> 0:24:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Then to sleep it off, babe.

0:25:00.119 --> 0:25:03.200
<v Speaker 2>So not to say I'm sitting this one out it's

0:25:03.240 --> 0:25:07.679
<v Speaker 2>your time. Doesn't go both ways.

0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:12.320
<v Speaker 3>Touche, you know what, Maybe I should be like, it's

0:25:12.359 --> 0:25:13.560
<v Speaker 3>turn for your BJ.

0:25:14.800 --> 0:25:17.120
<v Speaker 2>But maybe he's Scott whiskey dick, and everyone just goes

0:25:17.200 --> 0:25:19.640
<v Speaker 2>Maybe tonight's not the innings. We sit this one out

0:25:19.640 --> 0:25:21.760
<v Speaker 2>and tomorrow morning we go into bed again.

0:25:21.960 --> 0:25:25.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, something I want to talk about alcohol and breakup.

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<v Speaker 2>Snap, It's literally like they go hand in hand.

0:25:27.840 --> 0:25:29.200
<v Speaker 1>They go hand in hand.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't say breakup without alcohol.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel every single breakup that I've ever gone through.

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<v Speaker 3>My alcohol intake has gone up significantly, and that is

0:25:38.480 --> 0:25:42.879
<v Speaker 3>simply because I'm really upset. My emotions are at a high,

0:25:43.000 --> 0:25:46.600
<v Speaker 3>and I want to drown those feelings.

0:25:46.200 --> 0:25:49.479
<v Speaker 2>Drown those sorrows. As they say, when you've broken up

0:25:49.480 --> 0:25:52.359
<v Speaker 2>with someone, nothing is better than going out and having

0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:55.680
<v Speaker 2>a big night drinking and just forgetting about everything and

0:25:55.760 --> 0:25:56.520
<v Speaker 2>just having fun.

0:25:56.680 --> 0:26:00.920
<v Speaker 3>The problem is when you drink after a breakup, it's

0:26:00.960 --> 0:26:05.000
<v Speaker 3>literally like getting a beach ball and pushing it under water.

0:26:05.160 --> 0:26:07.480
<v Speaker 3>It's just going to come straight back up to the sad,

0:26:08.440 --> 0:26:10.800
<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean. Like, dude, those nights they

0:26:10.840 --> 0:26:13.680
<v Speaker 3>start some bit, you do end up at four am

0:26:13.760 --> 0:26:14.840
<v Speaker 3>crying in a kebab shop.

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<v Speaker 2>I was about to say, just talking to anyone that

0:26:17.200 --> 0:26:20.960
<v Speaker 2>will listen about your breakup and their ear off. And

0:26:21.240 --> 0:26:23.119
<v Speaker 2>I know I don't find this, I don't get it

0:26:23.160 --> 0:26:25.560
<v Speaker 2>that bad, but I know you do. You get anxiety

0:26:25.560 --> 0:26:26.440
<v Speaker 2>the next day after you.

0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:27.880
<v Speaker 1>Drink, any terrible anxiety.

0:26:27.960 --> 0:26:29.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so all you're doing is just going to spike

0:26:29.880 --> 0:26:31.359
<v Speaker 2>that the next day as well if you drink.

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:33.359
<v Speaker 3>That's a problem with breaking up and alcohol is you

0:26:33.480 --> 0:26:35.520
<v Speaker 3>just hop back on the horse the next night because

0:26:35.520 --> 0:26:37.919
<v Speaker 3>you're like, I need to keep drinking so that I

0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:41.199
<v Speaker 3>can again get rid of those feelings. I think for me,

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:44.600
<v Speaker 3>the reason why I've always been so reliant on alcohol.

0:26:45.000 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 3>You can push down those feelings for a little bit,

0:26:47.840 --> 0:26:49.720
<v Speaker 3>and that helps me because then it gives you more

0:26:49.760 --> 0:26:51.879
<v Speaker 3>time to accept it, and then I guess you just

0:26:52.040 --> 0:26:55.960
<v Speaker 3>deal with all of the crazy emotions that is a

0:26:56.000 --> 0:26:59.480
<v Speaker 3>breakup when you have actually accepted.

0:26:59.119 --> 0:27:01.719
<v Speaker 2>That you're single, So denial is that.

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:04.840
<v Speaker 3>And also, like you might have had a drunken kiss,

0:27:05.359 --> 0:27:07.760
<v Speaker 3>you might have been able to remember that there's other

0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:10.000
<v Speaker 3>people out there and like that person is.

0:27:09.960 --> 0:27:11.080
<v Speaker 1>Not the be all and end all.

0:27:11.600 --> 0:27:14.679
<v Speaker 3>Like it seems like a hard concept to wrap my

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:18.320
<v Speaker 3>head around to go through a breakup stone cold sober,

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:21.520
<v Speaker 3>so like you'd need to be just doing all of

0:27:21.560 --> 0:27:27.000
<v Speaker 3>that healthy, healthy, healthy work on yourself, but to like

0:27:27.080 --> 0:27:29.680
<v Speaker 3>a high standard, And I just don't know if i'd

0:27:29.720 --> 0:27:33.440
<v Speaker 3>be on that level if I was in a breakup mindset.

0:27:33.680 --> 0:27:36.080
<v Speaker 3>Maybe you are that motivated person who's like, you know what,

0:27:36.160 --> 0:27:37.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to get up every day.

0:27:37.920 --> 0:27:39.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to go to the gym.

0:27:39.800 --> 0:27:42.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to get rid of that nervous, anxious, stressed

0:27:42.920 --> 0:27:46.240
<v Speaker 3>out energy, Like I mean, that is a great way

0:27:46.280 --> 0:27:47.800
<v Speaker 3>to get over a breakup, as opposed to.

0:27:48.119 --> 0:27:52.080
<v Speaker 2>I've done it. I've done it both ways. Yeah, one breakup,

0:27:52.119 --> 0:27:54.720
<v Speaker 2>my toxic one. I did go out and drink a

0:27:54.720 --> 0:27:56.639
<v Speaker 2>lot and party with my mates. But then again we

0:27:56.640 --> 0:28:00.520
<v Speaker 2>were coming out of lockdown, so it was spirit that

0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:01.920
<v Speaker 2>I was like, Okay, well we can do all this

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:03.760
<v Speaker 2>sort of stuff in So I was going out drinking,

0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:07.719
<v Speaker 2>but my breakup before that, and I threw myself into gym,

0:28:07.720 --> 0:28:10.719
<v Speaker 2>myself into like working out, getting like getting that body

0:28:10.800 --> 0:28:12.880
<v Speaker 2>that makes people regret what they've done.

0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:17.840
<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, look, you've done both what way do you

0:28:17.840 --> 0:28:18.800
<v Speaker 3>think is the best way.

0:28:18.680 --> 0:28:23.320
<v Speaker 2>To go for me? Personally? I was definitely going to gym. Yeah,

0:28:23.440 --> 0:28:25.280
<v Speaker 2>felt and like working out that way.

0:28:25.359 --> 0:28:27.240
<v Speaker 1>And look, I think, like I don't think me and

0:28:27.280 --> 0:28:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Michael are going to break up touch wood touch wood

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:29.880
<v Speaker 1>for me.

0:28:31.560 --> 0:28:34.800
<v Speaker 3>On wood, but if we did, I think maybe that

0:28:35.000 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 3>is a route that I would be open to taking.

0:28:37.560 --> 0:28:39.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm happy to go to gym with you, Anna and

0:28:39.160 --> 0:28:41.920
<v Speaker 2>work out and get you back on that horse metaphorically

0:28:41.960 --> 0:28:50.840
<v Speaker 2>and physically. It's that time of the episode again that

0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:53.360
<v Speaker 2>we all love. It's where you ask us where our

0:28:53.400 --> 0:28:55.480
<v Speaker 2>heads are at and we answer your questions.

0:28:55.720 --> 0:28:56.440
<v Speaker 1>Let's do it.

0:28:56.640 --> 0:28:58.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay, this comes around our first listening today. They have

0:28:58.800 --> 0:28:59.520
<v Speaker 2>written in and.

0:28:59.440 --> 0:29:02.960
<v Speaker 3>Said I was messaging this guy and he invited me

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:06.480
<v Speaker 3>out for drinks at a bar, and when I met

0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:09.120
<v Speaker 3>him there, he asked me what I wanted to drink.

0:29:09.680 --> 0:29:11.920
<v Speaker 3>I asked for a red wine, and then he ordered

0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 3>just one for me and then proceeded to tell me

0:29:15.160 --> 0:29:18.320
<v Speaker 3>he doesn't drink. I'm completely fine with being sober, but

0:29:18.360 --> 0:29:20.680
<v Speaker 3>at the time I felt a bit tricked into drinking

0:29:20.800 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 3>by myself by the whole way he did it. I

0:29:23.760 --> 0:29:26.720
<v Speaker 3>also felt a bit ashamed by him because he told

0:29:26.760 --> 0:29:30.280
<v Speaker 3>me how much better it was not to be drinking anymore,

0:29:30.600 --> 0:29:34.239
<v Speaker 3>and how much better his life is. Am I an

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:36.080
<v Speaker 3>asshole for seeing this as an ick?

0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:38.000
<v Speaker 2>What do you think Anna, if you were in that

0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:39.760
<v Speaker 2>situation and a guy I did that to you.

0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 3>Look, I don't think that someone not drinking should be

0:29:44.280 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 3>an ick. I think it kind of does make you

0:29:46.320 --> 0:29:50.960
<v Speaker 3>an asshole if you feel that way, Like, yeah, ideally

0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 3>you kind of want to be similar to someone, Like

0:29:53.760 --> 0:29:55.480
<v Speaker 3>if you're drinking, you want them to drink.

0:29:55.840 --> 0:29:57.760
<v Speaker 1>If you eat me, you kind of want them to

0:29:57.840 --> 0:29:58.200
<v Speaker 1>eat me.

0:29:58.400 --> 0:30:01.680
<v Speaker 3>Like sometimes people might get annoyed or a bit turned

0:30:01.720 --> 0:30:04.200
<v Speaker 3>off if they're dating a vegetarian or a vegan when

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:06.760
<v Speaker 3>they're a meat eater. But I don't think that we

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:09.160
<v Speaker 3>should be judgmental. I think we should try to be

0:30:09.200 --> 0:30:13.560
<v Speaker 3>more accepting. But in saying all of that, I feel

0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:16.040
<v Speaker 3>like he probably should have told her that he wasn't

0:30:16.080 --> 0:30:19.000
<v Speaker 3>going to drink before offering to get her a drink.

0:30:19.120 --> 0:30:20.400
<v Speaker 1>Just communication. You know.

0:30:20.760 --> 0:30:22.520
<v Speaker 2>Look, if he'd offered to get her a drink and

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:24.640
<v Speaker 2>said I'm not drinking, that would have been better. But

0:30:24.720 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 2>then if he's going on to make her feel guilty

0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:30.480
<v Speaker 2>and ashamed for actually drinking, like that's wrong. Like I

0:30:30.480 --> 0:30:32.920
<v Speaker 2>hope he's not sitting there preaching that, like you shouldn't drink.

0:30:33.000 --> 0:30:34.400
<v Speaker 2>Life so much better without drinking.

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:36.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's like mid red wine and he's like, my

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:39.800
<v Speaker 3>life has changed completely and drastically since not drinking, and

0:30:39.800 --> 0:30:40.640
<v Speaker 3>she's like, well fuck.

0:30:40.920 --> 0:30:43.800
<v Speaker 2>Like, I've dated heaps of vegetarians, heaps of vegans, and

0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:45.680
<v Speaker 2>I have no problem with it personally because they're not

0:30:45.680 --> 0:30:47.760
<v Speaker 2>sitting there trying to preach their ways onto me, and

0:30:47.800 --> 0:30:49.400
<v Speaker 2>they don't mind if I'm sitting there with a big

0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:53.040
<v Speaker 2>Scotch filet in on my way, like they're chill with that.

0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:55.040
<v Speaker 2>So as long as that he's not sitting there preaching.

0:30:55.440 --> 0:30:57.200
<v Speaker 2>That would give me the ick if a girl was like,

0:30:57.240 --> 0:30:58.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, like one of those girls who was a

0:30:58.520 --> 0:31:01.280
<v Speaker 2>vegetarian was like, look all these cows are dying in

0:31:01.280 --> 0:31:02.800
<v Speaker 2>that and I'm not trying to finish my mistake, and I'm like,

0:31:02.840 --> 0:31:03.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to know this.

0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:07.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's all about just respecting what each person chooses

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:10.360
<v Speaker 3>to do with their life. Not everyone is the same,

0:31:10.440 --> 0:31:13.400
<v Speaker 3>and that's what makes everyone so unique and interesting.

0:31:13.560 --> 0:31:15.800
<v Speaker 2>And that's actually the beauty of going on first date.

0:31:15.880 --> 0:31:19.320
<v Speaker 2>You get to meet new people words see they're different quirks.

0:31:20.160 --> 0:31:23.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay, the next listener has written in and they.

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:26.480
<v Speaker 2>Have said I am always so nervous before going on

0:31:26.600 --> 0:31:29.480
<v Speaker 2>dates that I take the drinking a bit too far

0:31:29.640 --> 0:31:31.880
<v Speaker 2>each time and end up being drunk for the last

0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:34.280
<v Speaker 2>few hours of the date. I feel like it may

0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:38.760
<v Speaker 2>be unattractive to my potential dates, and maybe the reason

0:31:38.880 --> 0:31:41.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't always hear back from them. How do I

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:43.480
<v Speaker 2>stop drinking too much on dates?

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I can relate to this.

0:31:45.040 --> 0:31:48.640
<v Speaker 3>I think I'm that person who sometimes takes it too far.

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:52.280
<v Speaker 3>I think for me, something that's worked is just giving

0:31:52.280 --> 0:31:54.880
<v Speaker 3>yourself a limit, like setting a limit. And if you

0:31:54.960 --> 0:31:57.560
<v Speaker 3>are a big drinker, you can literally set up a

0:31:57.600 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 3>five drink limit, like at the maximum that's a lot.

0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:03.560
<v Speaker 3>But if you're a big drinker, then at least you

0:32:03.640 --> 0:32:06.720
<v Speaker 3>have a cutoff and no matter what, you won't break it.

0:32:07.680 --> 0:32:10.800
<v Speaker 2>I think that you just maybe go in. I is

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<v Speaker 2>there's something else I can sue your nerves as well? Maybe, like,

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<v Speaker 2>is there any other like meditations you can do, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>have like a stress band or something, so if you're

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<v Speaker 2>feeling nervous, you can just flick that and then even

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<v Speaker 2>if the date sees and acknowledges that could be a

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<v Speaker 2>good conversation starter and you explain that you are nervous

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<v Speaker 2>to be on this date, and if he's a welcoming guy,

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<v Speaker 2>he'll be like, oh look, and he'll make you feel

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<v Speaker 2>at ease. Yea, I know, I would.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you really want to be like pinging

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<v Speaker 1>your wrists?

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<v Speaker 3>Uti fat?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean under the table? If you just do it

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<v Speaker 2>and that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, look, I totally understand what it's like to over

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<v Speaker 3>drink on a first date, so I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think for me, setting.

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<v Speaker 3>A limit three drink limit, four drink limit, five drink limit,

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<v Speaker 3>whatever it is for you works.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is nice to have a beer to take

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<v Speaker 2>the nerves off, or a wine a d but just

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<v Speaker 2>be within your limits.

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