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Speaker 1: And like in that age, you don't go can I kiss?

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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome back to hear me Out. This is

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Speaker 1: a very special episode today. It's a best friend addition,

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Speaker 1: brought to you by our friends at Pandora. So today

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Speaker 1: I thought, who better to bring on than my long

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Speaker 1: term best friend Alectra.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for having I.

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Speaker 1: Was so excited.

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Speaker 2: We're all excited.

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Speaker 1: We always wanted to do it, but I'm like, this

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Speaker 1: is the perfect episode to do it. We've be best.

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Speaker 2: Friends for I think it's eleven years.

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Speaker 1: Well it was eleven. We celebrated our tent. We thought

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Speaker 1: it was our tent, but we got we miscalculated, so

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Speaker 1: we and we know a date, which I think is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that date will be the best date of mine.

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Speaker 1: Who used to gum will remember. And it's my only anniversary.

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Speaker 1: I celebrate right now.

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Speaker 2: We'll continue celebrating until the.

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Speaker 1: Time end of time. But last weekend on a like Saturday,

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Speaker 1: when was it like obviously we'd had a little bit strength.

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Speaker 1: She's like, honestly, I just don't want to do without you.

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Speaker 2: Like I know you have had friendship.

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Speaker 1: Issues, yeah, but you're my one long standing solid I've

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Speaker 3: Like I also think you're such a steady, stable friendship

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Speaker 3: And I have to worry about having dramas with friends,

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Speaker 1: Of god where its sound like cows. Basically, we just

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Speaker 3: Nobody's a tennis club. We met at a tennis club.

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Speaker 1: It was up my yeah, at my what would you

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Speaker 3: I had an older sister that was naughty, and I

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Speaker 1: And you, to me, were more I knew who Leg

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Speaker 1: Well name, it's like whatever, don't even care about you.

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Speaker 3: You just probably did the opposite. You just mouth shut.

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Speaker 3: Oh anyway, but I need to tell you back to

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Speaker 3: I think they were friends.

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Speaker 3: One of my girlfriends was staying at mine and she

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Speaker 3: That's really a thirty to forty minute walk in the

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Speaker 3: You are a little pep for my step And we

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Speaker 2: Just like she was enjoying uslf she was having that.

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Speaker 3: And I'm standing there like I've just got to make

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Speaker 3: We're sort of like in the bushes, but like under

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Speaker 1: He was a little boy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I'm just standing there like waiting, like who

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Speaker 1: I'm like at that age, you don't go can I kiss?

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Speaker 1: You know? It's kind of just like a blur of like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: He goes, he goes, all right, speed gum out.

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Speaker 1: He's weird. When you say that, my mind just flashed

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Speaker 1: some puberty blues sort of like that. They're like, what's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think he kissed a few girls before,

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Speaker 3: but this was my first kiss. And I was like,

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Speaker 3: you know, yeah, I went all right, go, let's go.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't recall the kiss. I don't

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Speaker 3: I meant fucking I am nothing, And then like not

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Speaker 3: And each week that goes on, it's like the more pressure,

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Speaker 2: I would have wanted it.

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Speaker 3: But I think at that point, you're like gloves are

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Speaker 2: As I get my first.

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Speaker 1: Stories traumatizing as they are, you know what, I think

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Speaker 3: And if they're not a little bit traumatizing them, it's

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Speaker 3: not a first kiss. Life's not that good because that's

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Speaker 1: And like, I had a really romantic first time I

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Speaker 1: There would have been a couple of hundred people there,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you'd lock people in bathrooms. You wouldn't let them

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Speaker 1: It'd be like three circles of people like crowding around

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Speaker 1: I think we were really lucky that we didn't have

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Speaker 3: And there used to be accounts where people would post

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Speaker 1: The person who posted it with person that's in an issue,

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Speaker 1: Being a little rebel she was was in line for that,

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, see, I feel like I would never

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm like, oh, And I kind of looked

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, but I still, yeah, that's like our memory,

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Speaker 3: I think your support and your friendship for me was honestly,

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Speaker 3: Like I had a really yeah. No, but yeah, dud,

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Speaker 3: I mean I wasn't the most intelligent or athletic kind

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00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:23,120
Speaker 3: of girl.

445
00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:24,960
Speaker 1: I think I just creating.

446
00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:28,320
Speaker 3: I got through it because I was a little bit conscientious,

447
00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,800
Speaker 3: but I also wasn't loving school like every other girl.

448
00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:32,240
Speaker 1: At that age.

449
00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,800
Speaker 3: But I think I struggled a bit because I had

450
00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,920
Speaker 3: a group of girlfriends that today I'm so close with

451
00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:39,680
Speaker 3: a lot of them, I.

452
00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:40,120
Speaker 2: Don't see as much.

453
00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:41,960
Speaker 3: But I had trouble because a lot of them would

454
00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:45,280
Speaker 3: like make little comments being like, oh well, like you

455
00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:47,280
Speaker 3: can't be friends with people outside of school if you're

456
00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,760
Speaker 3: friends with us. I sort of just used to be like,

457
00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:52,000
Speaker 3: oh well, like I say, you guys five days a week,

458
00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:53,920
Speaker 3: like it's such on the weekends, if I want to

459
00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,400
Speaker 3: see it easy, I want to see I want to

460
00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:57,080
Speaker 3: go hang out with you.

461
00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:59,280
Speaker 1: And we used to go to Chadst and we'd put

462
00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:03,280
Speaker 1: colored contact in different ones every weekend, purple contacts, and

463
00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,960
Speaker 1: go to fucking Chadston with these, but we would reuse

464
00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:10,080
Speaker 1: them and use each others. We had like one set

465
00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,199
Speaker 1: that we would just share between us, which is so

466
00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:17,040
Speaker 1: hi problems is incredibly lucky. But I think everything just

467
00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:18,639
Speaker 1: grew from there. And saying that, I'm not saying we

468
00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:20,679
Speaker 1: didn't have problems. We went through our I reckon like

469
00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:23,960
Speaker 1: six months to a year patches back in the day

470
00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:26,360
Speaker 1: where a real big issues.

471
00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:28,200
Speaker 2: Like sibling fights.

472
00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:31,760
Speaker 3: I think like started off like we obviously really wanted

473
00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:33,439
Speaker 3: to be friends and spent time with each other, and

474
00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:34,600
Speaker 3: that was great. But then I think you went to

475
00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,520
Speaker 3: Marshmead and I heard of rumor that you thought said

476
00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:37,760
Speaker 3: I was.

477
00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:41,480
Speaker 2: Annoying, and I was so sad and I was like, I.

478
00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,080
Speaker 1: Was getting letters, but the letters stopped coming from leg

479
00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:46,720
Speaker 1: and I didn't realize why. And it was because obviously

480
00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,199
Speaker 1: she'd heard that I'd said this rumor, but I couldn't.

481
00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:54,040
Speaker 1: She wasn't sending me letters.

482
00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,560
Speaker 3: Like I had this one guy friend that was like, yeah,

483
00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:55,960
Speaker 3: I just got to let you know, like easy things,

484
00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:56,800
Speaker 3: you're fucking annoying.

485
00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:00,919
Speaker 1: I'm like, I didn't. I could have maybe said it

486
00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:02,560
Speaker 1: back then, but I don't think that I.

487
00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,320
Speaker 3: Probably was really annoying to be fair, writing love letters

488
00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:11,280
Speaker 3: like cute me, fuck you, I'm writing you letters you

489
00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:11,960
Speaker 3: let us back.

490
00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:15,560
Speaker 1: It was my only form of fucking contact but we had,

491
00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:17,240
Speaker 1: you know, fights here and there. A lot of the

492
00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:19,439
Speaker 1: fights I think also stemmed from issues I have with

493
00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:22,320
Speaker 1: my past relationship and just how insecure I was with

494
00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,359
Speaker 1: everything going on there. So I think I projected a

495
00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:27,359
Speaker 1: lot of that. But I'd say in the past five years,

496
00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:30,080
Speaker 1: we've pretty been We've been pretty fucking solid the last

497
00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:30,440
Speaker 1: five years.

498
00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,680
Speaker 2: So I think that there's no breaking us at this point.

499
00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:34,919
Speaker 1: No, I think we've hit the I hit what's that

500
00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:36,440
Speaker 1: thing that if your friends are someone for seven years,

501
00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:38,320
Speaker 1: are friends for whatever is it? Seven? Some of you

502
00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:38,840
Speaker 1: learned that.

503
00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,600
Speaker 3: I'm very confident that we're past whatever point.

504
00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:43,560
Speaker 1: It is that. Yeah, I think I think we're locked in.

505
00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,080
Speaker 3: I'm excited though there's so many fun chapters to come

506
00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:49,760
Speaker 3: to Little Husbands. Yeah, I can't wait to see you

507
00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:51,120
Speaker 3: in a loving relationship.

508
00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,760
Speaker 1: I know you haven't. Like Leg's been through that, been

509
00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:54,960
Speaker 1: through both of them.

510
00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:55,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

511
00:18:55,440 --> 00:19:00,520
Speaker 3: Look, to say that Easy's had a traumatic dating expence and.

512
00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:03,119
Speaker 2: Life is an understatement.

513
00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,600
Speaker 3: Actually, Like I think I need to just preface to

514
00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:09,200
Speaker 3: all of the listeners out there, how strong Easy has

515
00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:13,440
Speaker 3: been through all of this, like looking back at Little Us,

516
00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,440
Speaker 3: like thinking about all the shit that like you went

517
00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:18,000
Speaker 3: through is actually so not normal, even with the girls,

518
00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,320
Speaker 3: and that just like girls and drama, like every every

519
00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:22,399
Speaker 3: friendship has drama, but this was next level. It was

520
00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:26,920
Speaker 3: like segregation, like excluding. It was borderline bullying from like

521
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:27,880
Speaker 3: a lot of the guys like.

522
00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:29,880
Speaker 1: You can only come like if you don't bring easy.

523
00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,440
Speaker 1: That's where issues came because I understood, like leg would

524
00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:35,919
Speaker 1: want to be there and at these parties, but like

525
00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:38,600
Speaker 1: this is my ex boyfriend going, yeah, everyone can come,

526
00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:40,919
Speaker 1: but not easy. They would actually like verbalize that right

527
00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:42,679
Speaker 1: there and a text say that, and my friends would go.

528
00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:46,919
Speaker 1: So it's like I'm that happened so fucking often for

529
00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,720
Speaker 1: about a year, almost every single party I wasn't allowed

530
00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:51,960
Speaker 1: to be at because my ex was there, and yet

531
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,760
Speaker 1: the girl that he cheated on me with was allowed

532
00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:55,840
Speaker 1: to be there. It's like when I say that all

533
00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,400
Speaker 1: these things happen and it sounds really dramatic, like I'm

534
00:19:58,400 --> 00:19:59,320
Speaker 1: not exaggerating it.

535
00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:01,600
Speaker 3: No, it was so fucked up, Like it got to

536
00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:03,639
Speaker 3: the like Ease would be crying every week and like

537
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 3: fair enough, her emotions would bottle up because this would

538
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,600
Speaker 3: be happening every single weekend and it wasn't like, oh

539
00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:10,440
Speaker 3: she had other plans. It's like we had one group

540
00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,400
Speaker 3: of friends and she was just not allowed to come,

541
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden, like she just fucking

542
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 3: flip her little everyone, which is so valid, through that amount.

543
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:22,800
Speaker 1: Of torment, it was like a volcano, and like I'd

544
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 1: be there.

545
00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,600
Speaker 3: Being like, is I understand like it, try and calm down,

546
00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,600
Speaker 3: like let's because I knew. It got to the point

547
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,359
Speaker 3: where everyone would come to me and be like wait,

548
00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:30,320
Speaker 3: leg though, like.

549
00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:31,760
Speaker 2: Is he's really crazy?

550
00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,600
Speaker 3: She's too loud, she yells at everyone, and I'm like, yeah, guys,

551
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 3: but you don't realize, like you're actually being fucking horribly horrible,

552
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 3: like really mean. And then everyone just sort of like

553
00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 3: took her as face value and when you'd scream, they'd

554
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 3: be like, she's nuts. But I think a lot of

555
00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 3: people didn't actually realize the extent of what was going on.

556
00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,480
Speaker 3: I think you came out of your screaming era and

557
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,080
Speaker 3: now you're like, I'll kill them with a little bit

558
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:53,720
Speaker 3: of kindness.

559
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I am a bit of a killing with kindness

560
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:55,960
Speaker 1: these days.

561
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, Whereas I think I'm the opposite. Now, I'm like, we.

562
00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,640
Speaker 1: Took a little bit of each other, but I feel like, yeah, yes,

563
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,919
Speaker 1: I need it a little bit more of you and me.

564
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 1: All right, So that's enough about the beginning of us.

565
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:09,479
Speaker 1: But I thought, obviously it's called hear me out, so

566
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,719
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into your submissions, but first give us

567
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 1: to hear me out.

568
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 2: All right, Okay, hear me out.

569
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:19,160
Speaker 3: The speed of windscreen wipers feels like a major competition.

570
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,720
Speaker 3: Like when it's raining and you've got your windscreen wipers on,

571
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 3: like if it's going too fast, I'm embarrassed. But the

572
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 3: speed of the rain, it's embarrassing. Like the person in

573
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,400
Speaker 3: front of you is like casually doing it here, like.

574
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 1: They don't really care that the rain's hitting their windscreen.

575
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 1: But I'm going like bang bang, and I'm like I'm

576
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 1: so embarrassed right now, like to turn this down. Yeah,

577
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:38,360
Speaker 1: I know what you mean.

578
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,400
Speaker 3: And on my car there's only one setting and it's

579
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,639
Speaker 3: like fully hectic, like automatic, yeah it's automatic. Well no,

580
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 3: I have to flick it on. But it's like there

581
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 3: isn't a slower speed.

582
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 1: Oh so you're embarrassing.

583
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:50,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm embarrassing. Every time I got my windscreen wipers,

584
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,160
Speaker 3: I am embarrassed by trying to avoid and then I'm

585
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,640
Speaker 3: like glazing my eyes through like one hundred thousand rain.

586
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:57,479
Speaker 1: It makes it look like you're like really scared.

587
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:01,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm panicking right now. Yeah, but yeah, that's a.

588
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 3: That's an pick. If you're wind screenwipe is a speedy

589
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 3: especially guys, just a little one. The word perinase is yuck.

590
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 3: I don't want to elaborate on that. I just think

591
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 3: it's disgusting.

592
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 1: Perineise like very very mayo. Yeah, what's peronaise? I don't

593
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 1: know mayonnaise.

594
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 3: I've never had it, but someone said it the other

595
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 3: day and I just looked at them and it was like, like, kindly,

596
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 3: don't say it.

597
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 2: You can use it, but don't.

598
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: Say would you prefer Perry Perry Mayo over pernaise?

599
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 2: I just don't say any of it.

600
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 1: Like, but it's describing.

601
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 2: A favor of I want some Peri Mayo.

602
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,480
Speaker 1: No, it's Perry Perry Mayo.

603
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 3: If you're going to say it, yeah, yeah, Perry Peri

604
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 3: may That's way better than perinaise.

605
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, parinase is like you're trying to be Gormet, but

606
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 1: we're talking about mayonnaise right now.

607
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like that salad cream stuff like that's an.

608
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, my ex boyfriend used to eat this

609
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,239
Speaker 1: fucking thing and we used to laugh about it.

610
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,719
Speaker 3: So sorry, yeah, this is sort of like I had

611
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 3: to be there thing.

612
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,360
Speaker 1: We laughed about it so much. He would eat cucumbers

613
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 1: with salad cream, and like neither of us had ever

614
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:57,639
Speaker 1: ever heard salad cream was it's like a really thin mayo.

615
00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 1: We kind of watery. Ill. Anyway, if anyone eats it,

616
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 1: I will know what you eat it with.

617
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:03,959
Speaker 2: All right, maybe this will be the last one.

618
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 1: Now you can do.

619
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,880
Speaker 3: People who walk slow should have their own lane.

620
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 1: Because it's my biggest Hey, I say, like, probably the

621
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: fucking purpose, get off the fucking sidewalk.

622
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 3: Prams, pushbikes. Yeah, that's annoying. You shouldn't probably be on

623
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 3: the road, or if you are on the road, walk

624
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 3: with a bit of purpose. But then there's just people

625
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 3: I feel like that genuinely don't have anything that they're

626
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 3: going to. Where are you walking to? Why are you

627
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 3: literally dawdling along? You may as well just be like

628
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 3: I just I.

629
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: Hate it, get out that. Honestly. I all people that

630
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:35,919
Speaker 1: walk slowly, but there's two or three of them and

631
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 1: they're slightly separated from each other to basically block the

632
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 1: whole part. I will angrily. I know this is rude,

633
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 1: but it annoys me to such a high level. Go

634
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: excuse me and like zoom past.

635
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 3: I'll like shake my keys, like if I'm on an

636
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 3: escalator and someone's like taking both sides up, like it's normal.

637
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 2: You go to the left. Don't excuse me, you're not there?

638
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, I just shake my keys or like

639
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 3: stump so that they know I'm there. But if they

640
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 3: don't move, I'm like, what are you doing? Like common sense?

641
00:23:58,240 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 3: It's obnoxious.

642
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: Road. I have another thing that's kind of contradictory to that.

643
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: Hear me out. It's really rude for you to get

644
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 1: angry that someone's in your way if you haven't told

645
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: them that you're there, you know, when like yeah, people

646
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: like go like and they are annoyed because you're in

647
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: their way. But I'm like, you didn't even say excuse me?

648
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 1: How fuck am I meant to know that you're behind me?

649
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 3: That's pretty valid, But sometimes I'm like, just have a

650
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 3: bit of understanding of yours surround.

651
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:21,639
Speaker 1: They're coming up to me like a fucking cat. I

652
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 1: can't hear anything, and all of a sudden they're like move,

653
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, let me know you're behind me.

654
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 3: I'm not going to say move, I'm going to say like.

655
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 1: Or they go like oh and they have I'm like,

656
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:31,919
Speaker 1: let me know you're there, and I will move to

657
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: the left swiftly.

658
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 3: Okay, you're actually talking about this other one the other day.

659
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 3: People should think more about what socks they wear before

660
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 3: they go out and wear heels. I know this is

661
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 3: so niche, but like, I think that is so unattractive

662
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 3: to see a sock line that's like indented on your

663
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Speaker 3: ankle if you're wearing high heels.

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Speaker 1: So like leg will like pre take her socks off

665
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Speaker 1: like a couple hours prior.

666
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Speaker 2: I never remember, but I do think I should because.

667
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Speaker 1: The other day I tried something on and she's like,

668
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Speaker 1: oh my god, you're gonna have sock lines. And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: that's an issue for you, Like mind go away in

670
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Speaker 1: like fifteen minutes.

671
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

672
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 2: No, I don't know.

673
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,719
Speaker 3: Maybe it's my circulation. I also really despise. I don't know,

674
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 3: maybe I'm gonna I feel like I might have to

675
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:10,880
Speaker 3: say some people like if you do this, I'm sorry.

676
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,439
Speaker 3: People who have coffee table books that are like Vogue,

677
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 3: Prata and all the brands are despise.

678
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 2: I think it's like.

679
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 1: I get the Vogue ones really like just I.

680
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 3: Think like old Vogue books are beautiful, but like having

681
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 3: like those Prada like.

682
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: Like we're not talking Vogue magazines, were those like Vogue,

683
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: big sort of hard backed books that just say Vogue

684
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: or Prata on the like, and then all their couch

685
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:32,919
Speaker 1: pillows are gray and like silver.

686
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 3: I think it's like like a little bit chugy or like,

687
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 3: I don't know, yeah, like a bit tacky like it is.

688
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 3: It's like you don't have any sort of like interesting

689
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 3: art or like cool things or anything usually yeah, yeah, anyway, yu.

690
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, let's get into submissions. So, as I mentioned earlier,

691
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Speaker 1: this episode is brought to you by Pandora. So we're

692
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Speaker 1: gonna be going through some submissions of your best friend

693
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Speaker 1: memories and got some charms and tokens the peace we'll

694
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Speaker 1: like share with their best friends. All Right, My best

695
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 1: friend and I had just gotten out of long term

696
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: toxic relationships and we went to a music festival where

697
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 1: we got absolutely wasted. Our two is this One thing

698
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 1: led to another and we were in a tattoo booth

699
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: getting horrible matching tattoos on our lower hip undies area.

700
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 1: We both woke up in the morning, had no idea

701
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: why or how this happened. One day we'll both get

702
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: it lasered off. But in the meantime, it is a

703
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: random object that we share, So don't tell us what

704
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: it is, you know what. I actually don't think that's

705
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: all that bad Meleg and I have spoken about getting

706
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 1: matching tattoos before.

707
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, we wanted to get about that. I'm glad we

708
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 2: didn't do.

709
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 3: We used to sit out on the top of your

710
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 3: balcony and watch the bats fly over while we'd cry

711
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 3: about our fucking low life problems.

712
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: So when chain smoke fucking rolling cigarettes and watch the

713
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 1: bats fly overhead. So I actually I support that unless

714
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 1: it's an ugly tattoo. Yeah, okay, number two not really

715
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 1: a charm or a token. But my best friend and

716
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 1: I got each other's names tattooed after only knowing each

717
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: other for three months.

718
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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's be real, whatever age you are, if you've

719
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 3: only had a friendship for three months, like it probably

720
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 3: probably is either like you'd be lucky if at last.

721
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking it probably has. If they're sending this.

722
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's cute. Of our house.

723
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 3: But like majority of friendships, I guess when you're younger,

724
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 3: like some people like maintain those friendships, but when you're older,

725
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 3: it's sort of like people come in and out of

726
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 3: your life depending on what you've gone through. Yeah, I

727
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 3: don't think making a decision to get a tattoo after

728
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:22,880
Speaker 3: three months is probably.

729
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: Of each other's names. That's a very relationship of you. Yeah,

730
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: we met through her ex and now four years later

731
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: we're closer than ever, even though she moved to the

732
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 1: other side of the country and neither of us now

733
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,479
Speaker 1: talk to her. X. I think slay that you're still friends.

734
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: I feel like getting a matching tattoo is smarter than

735
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: each other's names because you can always write it off

736
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: if yet not not being friends.

737
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've got a matching tattoo that.

738
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Speaker 3: You love, don't.

739
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,959
Speaker 1: Too. Actually, between my friendship group, we all share a

740
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: pair of pink, fluffy handcuffs. Got them out of a

741
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: vending between at schoolies. Hang on, are they going like

742
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 1: guys tonight? I'm feeling like I'm really gonna need the handcuffs.

743
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 2: Can you like bring them to Yeah?

744
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 3: Look, I don't think I'm the type of person that

745
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 3: would use those in general, but like if I were

746
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 3: to be the type, I think I just get my own.

747
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 1: I also don't want to know when you're feeling like

748
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 1: you're about to use no offense.

749
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 3: We're the kind of friendship where we.

750
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 1: Don't have we don't have sex lives to each other.

751
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 3: What oh yeah, yeah, oh my god, I've heard that's

752
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 3: so wrong. Yeah, we don't, no, but I don't think

753
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 3: like we need to go into the nitty gritty of

754
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 3: each other's sex lives.

755
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 1: That's likely we've known each other since you were so young.

756
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: That to me, it's almost like you're like, we know

757
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: what's happening, we don't need to hear about it. It's

758
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,439
Speaker 1: like my sister, like some friends, I might, but like

759
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: still and then it's like I don't feel like we're

760
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: people that get really into that sort of stuff. I'm

761
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: very private with that stuffing, So you all right. My

762
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 1: Bessie and I shared a notes app called Emergency Excuses

763
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: that we used to get each other out of awkward situations,

764
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: complete with fake text call scripts and my cat just

765
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: vomited messages. I think that's really smart.

766
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a great one.

767
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 3: I think that, like, I've never had to use an excuse,

768
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 3: because I'm not the kind of girl, I don't write

769
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 3: it out kind of girl. I never went on many

770
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 3: dates growing up, but like, yeah, I feel like I

771
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 3: would love that if I was like Strog, that.

772
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: Would be so handy. I've never though i'd been on

773
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: a date where I'm like, I immediately need to get

774
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: out of this that I can't just like get out

775
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:15,479
Speaker 1: of it myself. Like I'll kind of say I've got

776
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: to leave. I've got early morning like that kind of

777
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 1: stuff is usually two wines and then I'm like that's enough.

778
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: Oh I did lie to someone once. This was my

779
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 1: only time lying. It was like, we got a coffee,

780
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: went back to his I was like, I've never been

781
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 1: so bored and had nothing to say with someone ever ever.

782
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: Ever that when I left, I'm pretty sure it was

783
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: actually you. I said, oh, I've got to go legs

784
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: mums cooking me dinner, Like I really got to leave.

785
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: It was four pm, such a random excuse, and it

786
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: was four pm, so I didn't realize it was so

787
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 1: early because I thought, surely times moving faster than it

788
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: is for you. I was so bored that I'd been

789
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: there for like twenty five minutes I said I had

790
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: to leave to go have dinner at four. Oh yeah,

791
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: sorry mate, So you're assuming he knew that was a lie?

792
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: After bed?

793
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 1: All right? Now after bed. Now we've got some best

794
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: friend stories. Late last year, I went to Queensland with

795
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: four of my best friends. One night we decided to

796
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: grab ice cream. It was super impromptu, impromptu. I didn't

797
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: say those said it. It's like super you said it

798
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: imprompt impromptu? Am I saying it right? Impromptu? Like leg

799
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: says dance instead of dance the end of that. No,

800
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: they've done. It was super impromptu better and none of

801
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: us were dressed in our clothes that we'd like to

802
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: be seen in. I'm talking no bra toes, out of

803
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: our slides, et cetera. On our way to grab said

804
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: ice cream, we passed the slingshot ride in Surface Paradise

805
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: and one of our friends was like, imagine if we

806
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: went on that and my best friend Verity. Every time

807
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: I hear that name, it makes me think of the

808
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: Colleen Hoover book that's like fucking scary as and I

809
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: took it as let's go on it instead of wow, Yeah,

810
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,959
Speaker 1: great idea? Lol? Who would ever do that? One thing

811
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 1: led to another, and next thing you know, we paid

812
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: for a ride and all lined up together. Let's take

813
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: a second to remember that we're all dressed like absolute

814
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: fools in our clothes that never should have seen the

815
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: light of day. As we get on the ride, I

816
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: keept reminding Verity that I had no bra on and

817
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: was super nervous that we'd go upside down and everyone

818
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: would get a free show. We got in the ride

819
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 1: no free show, unfortunately, but as you may know, they

820
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 1: record you on it and you get the video afterwards

821
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 1: to watch it home on a USB. When the ride finishes,

822
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: Veritie and I are talking about how much fun we had,

823
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: couldn't stop laughing. Verity then proceeds to tell me she

824
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: has no bra on, no underwear on, and is on

825
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: her period. What the like her friend wasn't wearing like

826
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 1: bra Undy's aim was on a period, and that she

827
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 1: was worried the whole time that her tampon was gonna

828
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: fly out and hit someone. Can you imagine?

829
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 3: I but like that just wouldn't happen, Like we could.

830
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: Tampon's full out when you probably.

831
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 3: Sometimes not unless you've got like a really heavy period.

832
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: I don't and mine used to fall out on a pee.

833
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 2: I see too, little Babe, that good okay.

834
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: We also had no idea that this video had sound.

835
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: After we got off the ride, the people running the

836
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: slingshot will like, make sure you watch the video, Like, yeah,

837
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: make sure you watch your home. They literally sat us

838
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: down in front of everyone waiting for the ride and

839
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: played our video on full volume. Everyone heard Verity and

840
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: I talk about how we had no underwear and they

841
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: had to do at least ten people waiting and even

842
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: more people watching the sling shot. We still talk about

843
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: this almost every time we hang out. It's on the

844
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: most embarrassing, funny experience we've had together and pretty much

845
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,479
Speaker 1: sums us up as individuals row dogging life one underwear

846
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: less slingshot. Right at the time, It's like if people

847
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: knew that I wasn't wearing under it feel like I'd

848
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,239
Speaker 1: be so embarrassed because they'd be like, look, how did

849
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 1: they know?

850
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 3: Aren't they on the ride at this point they're talking

851
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 3: about it.

852
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 2: No, so they've got a full peep show.

853
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: They've got a full peep show. Well they can't actually

854
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: see it, but everyone knows how easy love the pod.

855
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 1: I hope you're doing well. To be honest, that wasn't

856
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: even that crazy.

857
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 2: I wanted to know, like something someone, to.

858
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: Be able to see the UNDI see that. Well, no,

859
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: there isn't any So I guess I'm glad for them.

860
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 1: How easy love the pod. Hope you're doing well. Thank gil,

861
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 1: he says. Every time I respond to those, I sound

862
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: like a fucking gremlin. I go like inkyl, No, I

863
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: think it's cute. No, but thank you, thank you. One

864
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: of the funniest memories was with my best friends last

865
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: year and we went to the Philippines. I know, crazy

866
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: place a visit for a holiday, but the scenery was

867
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 1: genuinely breathtaking. Picture this. My best friend is terrified of

868
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: getting rabies and recent fair that's me. Leg's the biggest

869
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: fucking hypochondriact. Like I can't even get it was.

870
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 3: There was a rabies outbreak in Bali and you guys

871
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 3: were just mosing on around these dogs. I'm like, sorry,

872
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 3: they looked sick.

873
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: They do look sick. I don't touch on it with rabies.

874
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: I'm not going to touch a dog ever on in

875
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: a place like.

876
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 2: That, neither really.

877
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 3: But I also think like I just had my guard up.

878
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 2: I had to stay away.

879
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, fair enough, shit across the road. I'm like, I

880
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: think we're more likely to be hit by a bick

881
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 1: crossing the road that many times than we are by

882
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: a dog. And we recently witnessed a tourist getting attacked

883
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: by a monkey at Monkey Island on Thailand, So let's

884
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 1: say we were a little bit scarred. Fair One night,

885
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 1: we were walking back from dinner, by the way, the

886
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: place we happened to stumble across was the worst rated

887
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: restaurant on the island, while we witness the cook vaping

888
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: behind the kitchen door and another cook doing his zipper

889
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 1: up in the kitchen, and you ate their girls.

890
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,359
Speaker 3: Vaping's gotten to the point where it's that common as

891
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 3: much as like, I don't, yeah, but I think I

892
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 3: like everyfriend's vaping. Like it's like maybe, yeah.

893
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 1: But like you're not going to walk into Noble and

894
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 1: see the chef puffing.

895
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 2: Away if they're in Thailand, they're not.

896
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 1: It's not like right, But I also don't touch your

897
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: pants when you're about to cook my food.

898
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, true, I do get weirded out about the whole

899
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 3: hands thing, Like people every chef doesn't wear gloves, like

900
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 3: all their hands are all over it. Like regards to

901
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 3: if they've washed their hands, it's like, I know.

902
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 2: It's going to be mad.

903
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: I try not to think about it too much because like,

904
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: I don't trust that men wash their hands after that

905
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 1: every time. And what people don't think is so disgusting.

906
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: I always talk about this with you. Guys, have just

907
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 1: held your penis in your hand?

908
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, you know what I mean.

909
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 1: It's like girls who're like, you'll like, but like you're

910
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: holding toilet paper and that's all you're touching. You know.

911
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: These boys are like holding.

912
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 2: It and then like and then they take at the end.

913
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: Open the fucking door. Yeah. So there's something wise than

914
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: when you've got a boyfriend and they've got little fucking

915
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,439
Speaker 1: spot pee in their underwear and I'm like, why don't

916
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: you just tap the end of it with some toilet

917
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: paper and clean that look. Once we left, we read

918
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,879
Speaker 1: the reviews. I said, didn't no, and instantly rushed backs

919
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: to take two Traveland tablets each. Safe to say, we

920
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: always check the reviews of a restaurant now first. Anyways,

921
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: we were walking back from dinner and somehow my friend

922
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:20,919
Speaker 1: stumbled over a rat, like seeing one and falling over

923
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: one is so fucked that's right, a fucking rat and

924
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,240
Speaker 1: tripped over it. He fumbled over it so hard, blood

925
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 1: squirted everywhere. Oh my god, is he he killed it?

926
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: He killed the rat? Will hurt the rat? Blood squirted,

927
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: everyone managed to splash on his foot. Safe to say

928
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: the rat was dead and it was fresh road kill.

929
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: Screaming and terrified, my friend left his thongs behind next

930
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: to the dead rat in the middle of the road

931
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: and ran back to our hostel barefoot. Poor rat, she said,

932
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: but yes, it's still an animal. Once getting back to

933
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: the hostel, he freaked out so much and conducted the

934
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: irrational Google searches you do that.

935
00:35:55,480 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, major chat GBTB.

936
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, which always say you're dying, and convinced himself that

937
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 1: he needed to get the rabies shot asap, which we

938
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: were previously told was around five hundred Australian dollars.

939
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 3: OIE is so expensive for medical bills. I paid seven

940
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 3: hundred Australian dollars to get like an iv grip and

941
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:14,320
Speaker 3: a few tests.

942
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: I paid eighty bucks for an IVY group.

943
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 3: But they've got a they've got a great healthcare system,

944
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,720
Speaker 3: like they are really quick. They turn around time forgetting

945
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 3: my blood results.

946
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 1: Was yes, she had salmonella.

947
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had salmonella.

948
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 3: Ye.

949
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 1: But then what Annabel says that salmonella is a stream

950
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,240
Speaker 1: of barley bad No.

951
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,320
Speaker 3: No, but and they tell when I got back to Melbourne,

952
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 3: they told me that they don't even medicate people who

953
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 3: have salmonella.

954
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 2: I told them I can.

955
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 3: I'm like sitting in my deathbed, like I've got salmonella.

956
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: Why can't I eat real chicken? Then someone tell me, yeah, God,

957
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if it's true, but we're on a

958
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: very small islands in the Philippines, which I doubt had

959
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: a hospital anyway. He obviously did not catch rabies and

960
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: didn't even have a cart on his foot anyways. But

961
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 1: in our time of crisis, our brains always think the worst.

962
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: Leg thinks the worst. Always Leg's on those people that

963
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: she hates that I get funny. It's like if I

964
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 1: have a cold, I'm taking a qundril and I'm stiff,

965
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: and I sometimes even just have a paddle. You're a

966
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: doctor's visit for every cold car I think.

967
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 3: Call me some slack. My mum raised me to be

968
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 3: so hypervigilant. I think it's gotten to the point where,

969
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 3: like she like she's fear. What's that thing? It's like

970
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 3: health anxiety. I think, yeah, yeah, I think I have

971
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 3: health anxiety. You do have health anxiety, like as soon

972
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:19,240
Speaker 3: as there's.

973
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 2: One glimpse of like not being one hundred percent while I'm.

974
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: Like, yep, which is why I get so confused by

975
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,360
Speaker 1: like all of my Like, I have some severe elements

976
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: going on, and I kind a.

977
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: Bit emotional when you tell me about them. You're like,

978
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 2: I'm itching. Everyone. My whole bodies is.

979
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: Bruised leg, which is fal and all my almost was

980
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: in tears because she thought it looks like I've been

981
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:38,240
Speaker 1: fucking assaulted. I was like, oh, it's just itching.

982
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 3: Your illness has not been solved, so I hasn't I

983
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 3: have a mystery illness. I'm my seeing guys hormatologious out

984
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 3: there that can Oh I can have some.

985
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: My sleep study this morning because I needed to sleep more.

986
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 3: Literally we're on the phone last night. I said, go

987
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 3: to bed, this is going to be so good for

988
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 3: you at eleven am.

989
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: And I wake up at ten and I'm like, I'm

990
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: so tired. I need to sleep a little bit more.

991
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,280
Speaker 1: And I canceled my fucking sleep study.

992
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 2: What time did you get to bed after you ate

993
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 2: your goods?

994
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 1: Man three?

995
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 3: Is he cause me a one at night? It was

996
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 3: just putting my head down to the pillow. I'm not

997
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 3: like as bad of a sleeper as her, but I

998
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 3: do go to bed late. And I'm like, all right,

999
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 3: I'll answer my phone. Hey is hey, leg help me

1000
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 3: out here?

1001
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: So this is what I've eaten today. It's twelve thirty.

1002
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 1: Can I order guzman? I do it. I'm like, all right,

1003
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: it's already all in my cart.

1004
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 3: So you stayed up till three eight? Canceled your morning?

1005
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 1: Hey? It came like ten minutes later. I ate it

1006
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:33,800
Speaker 1: ended up canceling the sleep study, which I'm now just

1007
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: going to reschedule over the phone.

1008
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all right, Like.

1009
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 1: It's a console and then I'll do this.

1010
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 2: I'll tell you it's all right. But I do think

1011
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: you should have gone.

1012
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's move on.

1013
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 3: Move on.

1014
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: Finally, my best friend and I in our young fun

1015
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 1: era before kids used to go to Oh my god,

1016
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 1: does that mean you have kids? And you listen to

1017
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 1: my podcast? That makes me so happy? Like people are

1018
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: all so many people say they listen and I'm.

1019
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 3: Like, and you wonder what demographic is I mean you

1020
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 3: obviously have a little bit of insight into it, but

1021
00:38:58,360 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 3: like that's really good.

1022
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,959
Speaker 1: So thank you for still listening and still thinking I'm interesting. Okay.

1023
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: We used to go to America once or twice a year,

1024
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: and when we were there, we had one rule. You

1025
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 1: could only say no once. Their rule was like, which

1026
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: I like.

1027
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:14,240
Speaker 3: Was like that movie Yesterday, Yes Got My Mom, No Yesterday.

1028
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 1: There's also a movie called yes Man with Jim Carrey.

1029
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 3: No, it's like where they say yes to everything for

1030
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 3: one day, Like you get your parents to take you out,

1031
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 3: and they have to say yes to everything.

1032
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: Oh right, I did it with my.

1033
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 3: Mom one day, but like she's pretty much a yes woman,

1034
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 3: yes always. Yeah, it wasn't that exciting.

1035
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 1: I like that you can say no once, though, because

1036
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: then at least you feel like you have a little

1037
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: bit of a safety blanket, do you know what I mean?

1038
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, because if you have little shitty kids, they're gonna

1039
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 3: like rinse the fuck out of that.

1040
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 1: Oh no, but this is her and a friend, not

1041
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: to their kids. It's just when they used to go

1042
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: to America, they'd say you could only say no once.

1043
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

1044
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. If we were placed in a situation you had

1045
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 1: to decide whether it was worse to using your no

1046
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: or not and just doing it. It led to many

1047
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 1: occasions that probably weren't the safest. Free bottles of champagne,

1048
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: giving out your number to some randoms at VIP after parties,

1049
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: and a few celebrity kisses, Oh my god, got many

1050
00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 1: funny memories that we would normally say no to at home.

1051
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 1: I don't think either of us ever used or no.

1052
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: I think that's such a great thing to do on

1053
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: like a girl holiday.

1054
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 3: I like that because sometimes like is he and I

1055
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:09,919
Speaker 3: can both like as soon as there's a negative vibe

1056
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 3: that comes across from either one of us, we ourselves,

1057
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 3: Whereas it's like half the time, we probably would have

1058
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 3: had a really fun night.

1059
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, if we just stuck it out a little bit.

1060
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 2: But maybe we should do that next time we go out.

1061
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 3: Except when Leg and.

1062
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: I are together, we tend to stay very in our

1063
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: comfort zone because it's like, shit's so like sometimes we've

1064
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 1: had some really like bad nights and we're like so of'

1065
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: either of us. We're very homebody too, so like we'd

1066
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: prefer to sit at home and eat pasta. And I

1067
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,879
Speaker 1: get the slight instinct that she's feeling the same game

1068
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:35,319
Speaker 1: over us.

1069
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 3: On Thursday, We're like, hmm, should we go out? No? No?

1070
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: Go home?

1071
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,400
Speaker 3: Is he's making homemade pasta? No, you made homemade pizza

1072
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 3: and I was making on a geary?

1073
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: Yeah? All right. We've had so many memories and charms

1074
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 1: throughout the years together, and I'm sure there's going to

1075
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 1: be many more. But whether your charm represents a tattoo

1076
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 1: going wrong or a stolen sign from macas Pandora, lets

1077
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: you carry the ones that actually last forever. So thank

1078
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: you again, Pandora, and thank you leg and we will.

1079
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 1: I think we need to do another one of these.

1080
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like we could go on for hour.

1081
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 1: We could get into the juices.

1082
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 3: Maybe we have like a really juicy, really juicy on say.

1083
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: It all shot it. Yeah, let's just say it all shot.

1084
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 2: It next time, come bad with shots, but I'll give

1085
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 2: it a go.

1086
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm not all right.

1087
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 2: Good bye, guys,