Speaker 1: Morning every day.
Speaker 2: Gentlemen, Adelaide, surely Jelly, you're on the bellie flying through
Speaker 2: the Gali seeing Nellie with the Shelley.
Speaker 3: Please Welcome to the show, Joshua Shelley.
Speaker 4: Fresh off his birthday, payday success, announcing the right mon
Speaker 4: Well done, Welcome to the studio, Josh Shelley.
Speaker 5: Thanks, guys.
Speaker 6: Are you going, how are you feeling? What's what's been
Speaker 6: happening this week?
Speaker 5: We've been training flat out this week. Last last night
Speaker 5: we had a training session Adelaide Oval and we trained
Speaker 5: in the.
Speaker 1: Morning, So two sessions a day.
Speaker 5: Getting up this morning was quite a struggle. Two alarms
Speaker 5: on a head.
Speaker 4: That's like hazy at the gym. Yeah, two sessions each
Speaker 4: and every day.
Speaker 7: I got to get that working, don't you, Especially with
Speaker 7: the beach waits.
Speaker 4: You know what, Josh and Becks, what's hazy? We've been
Speaker 4: down at the club this week. It's a bit of
Speaker 4: a bit of a NodD feeling down there at the moment.
Speaker 5: Is that fair to say, Yeah, it's fair to say. Definitely.
Speaker 5: Monday was a big review. We had some good, honest
Speaker 5: conversations with everyone. Yeah, and then as I said yesterday,
Speaker 5: we had a really big training session. I don't know
Speaker 5: what it was. If it was just because we've been
Speaker 5: losing a couple of consecutive games, but it was very
Speaker 5: intense and everyone was going one hundred percent last night.
Speaker 5: I was probably more like a preseason session.
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, I.
Speaker 7: Feel like, Josh, you get a reminder and maybe it
Speaker 7: probably hasn't had happened too much in your time because
Speaker 7: you probably started right in the guts of the rebuild. Yeah, guys,
Speaker 7: it wasn't too many expectations, But now is this a
Speaker 7: bit of a reminder of just how important this team
Speaker 7: is in this town? I mean, there's expectations, and you
Speaker 7: guys have a couple of losses, it would seem like
Speaker 7: the world's against you. Is that what it feels like?
Speaker 5: Yeah, and especially of how we finished last year and
Speaker 5: everyone kind of had that expectation as soon as we
Speaker 5: start this season that we're going to be around the
Speaker 5: seven eighth kind of sneak into the finals again, and
Speaker 5: obviously not being at that expectation this season was quite disappointing.
Speaker 5: But yeah, do kind of feel that pressure and that
Speaker 5: external noise a lot more in this two team town.
Speaker 4: I feel like there's been a lot of focus on
Speaker 4: individuals at the club, and a lot of okay, how
Speaker 4: do you rank the performance of this person and that
Speaker 4: person that person? Which I think is a bit rich
Speaker 4: coming from the media because you know, we don't like
Speaker 4: it when it's turned on us. How do you rank
Speaker 4: the performance of Andrew Hayes or Jodiotti or you know
Speaker 4: my boss at wherever. I feel like that's been a
Speaker 4: little unfair. I have to say, yeah, and singling people out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and especially when you go straight to the coaches
Speaker 5: as well, because as an element of us that needs
Speaker 5: to take responsibility of that, because on game day he's
Speaker 5: not out there to teachers, not teachers, but show us
Speaker 5: how to kick or make the right decisions. So a
Speaker 5: lot of that is on us, especially we got a
Speaker 5: lot of our leaders are getting pointed out and different
Speaker 5: positional changes. When if we play fine next this week,
Speaker 5: for example, we beat Sydney, it kind of goes away
Speaker 5: straight away.
Speaker 7: So yeah, but also and then you're like, Okay, who's
Speaker 7: going to coach? Don't I have no idea? The other
Speaker 7: one I love as well, which you might have seen
Speaker 7: that play the kids, the kids, Okay, who's knocking on
Speaker 7: the door on the sample?
Speaker 5: Oh, and there's already so many kids playing.
Speaker 4: As have you been doing much to get away from
Speaker 4: footy at the moment, just to take your mind off.
Speaker 5: To Yeah, I've been doing a fair bit, just usual
Speaker 5: mucking around with my housemates. I've got a good mint.
Speaker 4: Define mucking around with your house, because that'd be an interesting house, yeah, wouldn't.
Speaker 8: It got.
Speaker 5: So every kind of Tuesday. At Thursday, I go and
Speaker 5: do I have a football comnt with a chung of
Speaker 5: football club in the Hills with Marcine. So we go
Speaker 5: and help out the kids down there. And I came
Speaker 5: back to my house and I had I think I
Speaker 5: had nearly seven or eight of my teammates at my house,
Speaker 5: all the young boys. Jacob cooked passer for everyone because
Speaker 5: we're watching Luke's Rising Star interview with Afil thirty sixty,
Speaker 5: which is quite hilarious. And we get back and Jacob
Speaker 5: cooked cooked past the worst pass over. He had like
Speaker 5: two ko and mince. It was so dry. He tried
Speaker 5: his best, poor kid, But where was the source, Jake?
Speaker 5: There was no source. It was just I had all
Speaker 5: my source that we've I've made with everyone with my family,
Speaker 5: and he didn't I reckon. He used maybe one jarft
Speaker 5: for about seven people.
Speaker 1: That's the dumbest thing I've ever had.
Speaker 7: A tough, tough, tough cook view, though, I feel like
Speaker 7: you would want your past and your source at the toppest,
Speaker 7: the most highest point of the shelf.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that was pretty funny. But if you look
Speaker 5: back on Luke's interview, he's spoken and then he was
Speaker 5: just in his Crow's kid with budget on man as
Speaker 5: he said goodbye guys. He's turned around to go swell
Speaker 5: the past that he just.
Speaker 7: Got, which is absolutely brilliant. May just he said before
Speaker 7: that you and Martine help out a chunker. What's that
Speaker 7: from it? Is that just for I suppose I love
Speaker 7: of football and wanted to help some of the youngsters.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Mark's got an affiliation with some Irish guy. He's
Speaker 5: always got Irish mates. He's got things we say. He
Speaker 5: contacted Mark and asked me to come along too, and
Speaker 5: we went to a couple of sessions and really enjoyed it.
Speaker 5: And now they're struggling football club down there. Don't get
Speaker 5: a lot of numbers. So a couple of weeks ago
Speaker 5: they got their first win for the season. The boys
Speaker 5: were just rapped. But it's funny to see how they're
Speaker 5: just slowly developing each week getting more numbers. A couple
Speaker 5: of girls are down there playing too, so yeah, it's
Speaker 5: good for the football club.
Speaker 7: So that's the stuff that you probably don't see and
Speaker 7: maybe you don't see enough of. Is that you and
Speaker 7: market doing things like that. We've said it a couple
Speaker 7: of times now. When you came out Friday's Love at
Speaker 7: your school, producer Emily almost had to say to you, home, mate,
Speaker 7: you can go. You required to be there for about
Speaker 7: ten minutes, to stay for about forty five minutes. It
Speaker 7: was absolutely magnets.
Speaker 1: Do you like doing stuff with kids?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fun. I always say when I was that age,
Speaker 5: I would have died for any AFL player to come
Speaker 5: coach my football club if he was a rookie or
Speaker 5: the number one draft pick. So have to kind of
Speaker 5: give that now, give that experience back kind of. Yeah,
Speaker 5: it makes me feel really warm.
Speaker 4: That's really nice, and it's funny how much when you
Speaker 4: give back, how much, how good that makes you feel.
Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely, it's just a quick one ranking back. Gosh,
Speaker 5: he's good, he's amazing. Yeah, it's great to have him back.
Speaker 5: Even at training. He's one of my good mates. So
Speaker 5: having him back and linking up in the forward line,
Speaker 5: very excited.
Speaker 1: Very nice. He's pumped to be back to Yeah.
Speaker 5: He's very pumped. He hates sitting on the sideliness.
Speaker 7: That kid looking forward to a big, big upset win
Speaker 7: over the Swans. That would keep everyone away, wouldn't it, Oh,
Speaker 7: wouldn't that? Josh appreciate time, mate, We'll do it all
Speaker 7: again in a couple of weeks.
Speaker 5: Thanks Joseph Hazes.
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Speaker 4: into your day. And one of the biggest stories in
Speaker 4: the last twenty four hours, Jared Haynes has been released
Speaker 4: from j ol Jared Haynes, of course, the former NURL star.
Speaker 4: So his rape convictions have been quashed for a second time,
Speaker 4: so he's heading home to his family.
Speaker 1: There's still the prospect of a fourth trial. Hazy.
Speaker 6: He's only thirty six, so he's only a young young guy.
Speaker 4: He's been behind barsoom more than a year after a
Speaker 4: jury found him guilty in twenty twenty three of two
Speaker 4: counts of sexual intercourse without.
Speaker 7: Consense, It's unbelievable. So I'm from there in States, Yes,
Speaker 7: And to describe Jared Haynes at his peak like he was,
Speaker 7: I would say as good and as sort of rock
Speaker 7: star top shelf as Dustin Martin. Yeah, so you know,
Speaker 7: we just like Dustin Martin in afol Circles is an
Speaker 7: absolute gone. So Jared Haynes was at that level and
Speaker 7: had a stint over at the NFL, didn't quite make
Speaker 7: it but still played some games. Yeah, it was just
Speaker 7: this is the biggest four from grace that I've seen,
Speaker 7: possibly in.
Speaker 6: Australian sport, the biggest fall from grace.
Speaker 7: Yes, there's been a few.
Speaker 1: Wayne Carey probably one.
Speaker 4: He was an absolute rock star until his personal life
Speaker 4: took a bit of a turn.
Speaker 1: Ben Cousins, you could say. But also he's really fought.
Speaker 4: Back and gone through recovery and is now presenting the
Speaker 4: sport over there.
Speaker 1: On perfect Jen.
Speaker 7: He is on the verge. He's going to be a
Speaker 7: contestant and dancing with the stars, Oh my goodness is he?
Speaker 7: So he's on the verge of making a big comeback.
Speaker 7: I mean, Jared Haynes from here, even it's been quashed
Speaker 7: and even if it gets cleared. It sort of seems
Speaker 7: like the damages we don't.
Speaker 1: Know, I think were these sorts of things.
Speaker 4: If you've been to jail for rape, that that mud sticks,
Speaker 4: doesn't it for the rest of your life.
Speaker 1: It's an incredible story.
Speaker 7: But yeah, I mean it's been ongoing and ongoing and
Speaker 7: unbelievable stuff. Huge in the eastern sides.
Speaker 6: Michael Slater, Slater, that's a big force.
Speaker 7: Really begind That's quite a list, isn't there. You could
Speaker 7: really knuckle down if you're working on sen.
Speaker 1: But we're not.
Speaker 6: So we're going to go to Abbey in the newsroom.
Speaker 6: Now he's got a panda update.
Speaker 9: We're going to change pace a little bit here, guys,
Speaker 9: because change base. We are on Panda Watch today, Panda
Speaker 9: chat because Wang Wang and Fernie sorry Wang Woman Fernie,
Speaker 9: as Jodie likes to say, are leaving Adelaide dimp down
Speaker 9: m sound effects today.
Speaker 4: So the premiere of China was here yesterday and he's
Speaker 4: gone right and taking them home.
Speaker 9: So no, so he's coming over this weekend. There will
Speaker 9: be an official announcement this weekend when he visits the zoo.
Speaker 9: But basically, what's going to happen is wango and FUNI
Speaker 9: came here to pro create. That's one job that was
Speaker 9: fifteen years ago, and they've not done that. You say,
Speaker 9: my love life is slow, that's a lot slower. So
Speaker 9: they are going to go back to China and we're
Speaker 9: going to get two new pandas.
Speaker 1: It's a bit exciting.
Speaker 7: Trade them in, yes, boring, trading some pandas that actually
Speaker 7: want to make with each other. Come on, Yeah, more
Speaker 7: of that.
Speaker 4: This is the equivalent of a middle aged man having
Speaker 4: a crisis and training in his wife for his secretary
Speaker 4: who's twenty one years old.
Speaker 9: This is what they're both getting booted. So it's not
Speaker 9: even like it's just funny. They're both going yeah right,
Speaker 9: So yeah, new ones will come in this apparently it
Speaker 9: will happen around November. I have emailed the Zoo because
Speaker 9: I've asked for a little bit more information. So once
Speaker 9: they email back, I'll let you know.
Speaker 7: There's some questions without notice, ladies, and in terms of
Speaker 7: this particular situation. So with these two, are they just
Speaker 7: not doing it at all? I know the fertility window
Speaker 7: for pandas is really really small. One, are they just
Speaker 7: not doing it at all?
Speaker 4: Like this we had a couple of shadow pregnant yees
Speaker 4: or miscarriages. So yeah, okay, so that's definitely trying.
Speaker 7: It has times without done.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 9: So basically I was reading something yesterday where they there's
Speaker 9: been a lot of yeah, what's it called topic pregnancies
Speaker 9: and things like that. So they're doing it, but it's
Speaker 9: just not sticking, not working.
Speaker 7: Right, It's not working because I just want it?
Speaker 4: Is it?
Speaker 7: One Wong's the boy?
Speaker 1: Yes, I just want Sony means lucky girl.
Speaker 7: Lucky girl, she's not lucky it all. Let's just put
Speaker 7: that out there. But one long, you just wonder whether
Speaker 7: he's doing everything the right way?
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 6: But also, sorry, it's twenty twenty one.
Speaker 1: To educate him, it's twenty twenty four.
Speaker 9: Maybe they don't want to be parents, Maybe they don't
Speaker 9: want to have babies.
Speaker 1: Has anyone asked them?
Speaker 9: Has anyone said, do you want to father a child?
Speaker 9: Maybe he's like, I like living the bachelor life.
Speaker 7: How does astros as well? When you just know that
Speaker 7: they've been mating all night and you turn up into
Speaker 7: the enclosure and there's just condom wrappers everyone, it's not
Speaker 7: the point of this exercise. He's like, I've just been safe, baby.
Speaker 9: Why do we put you on this show?
Speaker 7: Anyway? That's your postion snooze news. That's the vital information
Speaker 7: that you need to notice.
Speaker 4: I went to the Thunderbirds game on Saturday night, and
Speaker 4: at halftime, as you do, just went for a little
Speaker 4: whittle in the toilet. So I was sitting in the
Speaker 4: cubicle and there was a woman next to me who
Speaker 4: obviously had taken her i'd say, little toddler, little girl
Speaker 4: to the toilet. Was very quiet in there. I'm pretty
Speaker 4: sure it was like me, her and one other person,
Speaker 4: so really quiet, and then next minute I hear this
Speaker 4: little voice go, mummy, you've got a lot of hair
Speaker 4: on your vagina.
Speaker 7: There was no way, there was no way that I
Speaker 7: could have predicted did you go to I was like,
Speaker 7: where we go with this bang?
Speaker 6: And then I could hear the mother just like awkwardly.
Speaker 4: Oh, anyway, as it happens, we both flushed and walked
Speaker 4: down at the same time. And because at that point
Speaker 4: I had the giggles and she saw me laughing, I
Speaker 4: was like, oh, interesting toilet conversations.
Speaker 1: She looked at me and she was so embarrassed.
Speaker 4: She was like, oh, yeah, it turns out I knew
Speaker 4: the woman actually, and then we started talking about how
Speaker 4: we knew each other. But she was so mortified, and
Speaker 4: I was retelling this story to produce it.
Speaker 1: EMM, and you had something similar with your toddler.
Speaker 8: I did. So another Saturday, tur it must happen on Saturdays.
Speaker 8: We were at swimming and I had to take him solo.
Speaker 8: So I had to get changed after swimming out of
Speaker 8: my bathers, but I also had to go to the toilet.
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, come on, Max, let's go.
Speaker 8: So it's two and a half and he's learning to
Speaker 8: go to the toilet, so he's learning the proper names
Speaker 8: for thanks. So take my one piece off. Not attractive
Speaker 8: at all, but I mean they're trying to get it done.
Speaker 8: Go to the toilet and stand up, start getting dressed,
Speaker 8: and he just points and he goes, Mummy, you have
Speaker 8: a penis. In the loudest voice. No no, no, no, no,
Speaker 8: mummy has a vagina. Boy, daddy's got a penis. Trying no, Mummy,
Speaker 8: you have a penis. And so I'm out of there
Speaker 8: as quickly as I can. Pull my stuff on, get
Speaker 8: out of there, and once again, you go out and
Speaker 8: there is another mum there with kids, and she just
Speaker 8: kind of goes.
Speaker 1: I tried to correct him. It's yeah, it's so embarrassing.
Speaker 1: I got this from a really good source. Actually, you too.
Speaker 6: Henry to the toilet one day and he.
Speaker 4: Pointed to you and said, Daddy, isn't that supposed to
Speaker 4: be with your penis?
Speaker 7: Penis? I was like, what are you talking about about?
Speaker 7: It's there, no, no, no, no vagina kids in my right.
Speaker 7: They know not what they say.
Speaker 1: My Really, it is so time for a let's go girl. Yeah.
Speaker 4: This is where we take all those off conversations that
Speaker 4: we have pertaining to being a woman and we bring
Speaker 4: them on air and then sometimes.
Speaker 6: We invite Andrew Hayes to join him and give his opinion.
Speaker 7: Not very often, though here if you need.
Speaker 4: So we were having a chat about this the other
Speaker 4: day because Brad Pitt, what about this, made a confession
Speaker 4: to Jennifer Aniston about Angelina Ghly.
Speaker 1: Before their divorce. So this is how it all unrolled.
Speaker 1: Can you remember?
Speaker 4: So Brad and jen met and it was beautiful and
Speaker 4: they played characters on Friends and they fell in love
Speaker 4: and there was that I always remember that photo and
Speaker 4: I reckon they're at the baseball or something, and he
Speaker 4: was my primary and arms. Everyone was sort of really
Speaker 4: enamored by the love story. But then he went off
Speaker 4: and filmed Mister and Missus Smith and that's when he
Speaker 4: developed feelings for Angelina. Now, according to Courtney Cox, who's
Speaker 4: obviously Jen's bff, she came out and said, I don't
Speaker 4: think he started an affair physically, but I think he
Speaker 4: was attracted to her. There was a connection, and he
Speaker 4: was honest about that with Jen. Most of the time,
Speaker 4: when people are attracted to other people, they don't tell.
Speaker 4: At least he was honest about it. It was an
Speaker 4: attraction that he fought for a period of time. No,
Speaker 4: he's coming in hot and early.
Speaker 7: Yeah, super aggressive, nice and early. At least he was
Speaker 7: honest about it. I just speak on behalf of the
Speaker 7: human race, don't I. They talk about everything that you're thinking.
Speaker 7: You're right, yeah, I'm like, what if it's fleeting, Well,
Speaker 7: must be what if it's fleeting. Yeah, well, if it's
Speaker 7: a fleeting, little stupid thing that's going on your brain,
Speaker 7: You're like, I feel like this, and then ten minutes later,
Speaker 7: I actually, no, I don't feel like that night. Well
Speaker 7: you said it, now it stays with.
Speaker 4: You for It's a good point because at some point
Speaker 4: in your life you could be with someone you're like,
Speaker 4: this person is my universe, and then maybe five years
Speaker 4: later you go, oh my god, I haven't thought about
Speaker 4: him in six months. You know what I mean, what
Speaker 4: do you think he's read abby?
Speaker 1: This would be interesting.
Speaker 10: Well.
Speaker 9: I'm very much on the camp of no, you don't
Speaker 9: say something because you're right. It can be a fleeting thing.
Speaker 9: You see someone and you think, oh, you know, but
Speaker 9: the grass is always greener on the other People say
Speaker 9: the grass always greener on the other side, but I say.
Speaker 1: It's greener where you water it.
Speaker 9: And I think when you're in a long term relationship,
Speaker 9: you've got to like things get hard and tough, and
Speaker 9: like Hazey has spoken about, you're in the trenches and there's.
Speaker 1: Children and all of this.
Speaker 9: So you're not always going to have this lusty Oh
Speaker 9: my god, come here and I want to rip your
Speaker 9: clothes off with your partner. But you've got to keep
Speaker 9: falling in love, and you've got to keep doing the
Speaker 9: things that you first fell in love with them.
Speaker 1: You've got to keep doing that. You've got to keep
Speaker 1: the spark a lot that's.
Speaker 7: Why, that's why she's the best. And can I just
Speaker 7: be honest with you for a second, Abby, I love.
Speaker 1: You, but you're right. Your relationship changes and evolves.
Speaker 4: Sometimes you're really close with your partner, and then at
Speaker 4: those times where it's like an elastic band where you're
Speaker 4: stretching and you're not so close, that's when other people
Speaker 4: might catch your eye. It just doesn't sit well to
Speaker 4: go home and say I'm really attracted to this person,
Speaker 4: because does it do more damage.
Speaker 7: Thought It's always going to be there, even like, oh,
Speaker 7: by the way, yeah I was. That was just a
Speaker 7: random stupid thing, and it's always going to plan your
Speaker 7: hit though, Yeah, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 9: Yeah, anyway, I'm not in a relationship, so don't take
Speaker 9: anything of what I say seriously. But that's my opinion.
Speaker 3: This happened to my best friend a couple of years ago.
Speaker 3: When she first started dating her partner. She went on
Speaker 3: a trip and met someone else over there. Nothing happened, nothing,
Speaker 3: you know, no cheating, But she called me and said, oh,
Speaker 3: I think I'm I'm quite into this person, but I've
Speaker 3: got this relationship back home. She came home and told
Speaker 3: her partner and told him and reashored him that nothing
Speaker 3: was going to happen, but felt that she needed to
Speaker 3: be honest and they're still together years later.
Speaker 7: So it was a bit of this because I can imagine.
Speaker 4: I think it's really important to remember we're all human beings,
Speaker 4: like we're not essentially supposed to be monogamous with our
Speaker 4: whole lives, that you're always.
Speaker 9: I know a great my grandparents were married for over
Speaker 9: sixty years.
Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is you can be anonamous, but
Speaker 4: you will always be attracted to other people.
Speaker 1: That's the nature of being a human.
Speaker 3: What is a swing.
Speaker 7: Exactly? What's going on here?
Speaker 1: Oh, Joe's keys in the ball?
Speaker 10: Lodi?
Speaker 7: Do you know what I do as well? I could
Speaker 7: have picked it, especially with Greg thirteen twenty four ten.
Speaker 7: This whole situation is very, very perplexing. Admitting to your
Speaker 7: partner that you have feelings for someone else. I mean,
Speaker 7: do you tell your partner? What do you do? Have
Speaker 7: you been in this situation? Yeah, tricky one.
Speaker 6: Was it a case of I'm attracted to that person?
Speaker 1: Now I'm not jogging?
Speaker 7: Do you tell your partner if you have feelings for
Speaker 7: someone else? We'll take your calls next very interesting situation.
Speaker 7: Of course, no judgment in this space. Maybe you've been
Speaker 7: in the situation. We'd love to hear from him.
Speaker 1: You mean no judgment in this space. You just got
Speaker 1: me a swinger. I'm I'm not judging you, Anonymous, this
Speaker 1: happened to you.
Speaker 7: Yes, take us through and take us through all the details, Anonymous.
Speaker 10: I was in a good five or six year relationship
Speaker 10: with now my ex, and I came home one day
Speaker 10: and told him that I had feelings for a different guy.
Speaker 10: He didn't take it too well and we ended up
Speaker 10: breaking up for an hour. A year and a half later,
Speaker 10: I'm still with the guy I had a crush with.
Speaker 7: So this is like a genuine similar situation because.
Speaker 1: And so, are you happy that you went home and said.
Speaker 10: That, yes, okay, definitely okay.
Speaker 4: I'm guessing that he wasn't very happy that you came
Speaker 4: home and said that not really no.
Speaker 10: But it was better off for the better for my
Speaker 10: mental health.
Speaker 7: But yeah, yeah, So Anonymous, can I ask you, was
Speaker 7: the aim to try and work through it with your
Speaker 7: partner at the time, or was it almost like a
Speaker 7: bit of a bit of a precursor to a breaker
Speaker 7: checking out?
Speaker 10: We tried for a good couple of months to make
Speaker 10: it work.
Speaker 4: Yep.
Speaker 10: And I tried. He tried for a little bit, and
Speaker 10: then I went back to the same old usual stuff,
Speaker 10: and then I just I just went I'm out. I've
Speaker 10: got feelings, like strong feelings for somebody else. And yeah,
Speaker 10: I went with my gut and trusted it.
Speaker 4: But it sounds like you weren't that happy with the
Speaker 4: relationship to begin with.
Speaker 10: For a good couple of years. No, but we tried,
Speaker 10: We tried everything try and make it work, and then yeah,
Speaker 10: we kind of just went w I kind of just
Speaker 10: went and went with my gut with the strong feelings
Speaker 10: I had to try and make myself happy.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it sounds like Anonymous gave him a giant chart.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yep.
Speaker 6: Let's go to our second Anonymous call on this one.
Speaker 4: Good morning, Okay, what happened with you?
Speaker 11: I also was the one that came home and told
Speaker 11: my now that I had feelings for his best friend.
Speaker 11: He basically said, well, I think you need you need
Speaker 11: to tell him and find out if there's anything there.
Speaker 11: So I did, and there wasn't and that was kind
Speaker 11: of the end of it. And then, you know, probably
Speaker 11: not coincidentally, we broke up a few months later, or
Speaker 11: he left me a few months later.
Speaker 7: Yeah, so obviously. And was that I suppose that the
Speaker 7: nucleus of the breakup, this whole situation.
Speaker 11: Well, no, like that's not the reason he used. But
Speaker 11: you know, looking back, this was a million years ago.
Speaker 11: Looking back, neither of us were happy anyway, which is
Speaker 11: probably why I started developing feelings for someone else.
Speaker 4: And so talk us through that conversation with the best friend.
Speaker 4: You just sat them down and said I've got feelings
Speaker 4: for you. Do you reciprocate?
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, basically yeah, And what did he say, you know, well,
Speaker 11: that's my best friend. You know, I don't feel the
Speaker 11: same I, you know, see you as a friend. That
Speaker 11: was kind of it, that kind of you know, kind
Speaker 11: of washed my feelings anyway, because it probably had nothing
Speaker 11: to do with him. That was probably more more the
Speaker 11: relationship anyway.
Speaker 1: That you're in.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, And so do you do you regret making
Speaker 4: the decision to tell him tell both of them.
Speaker 11: No, no, because there was so much, so much guilt
Speaker 11: that it was, you know, ruining our relationship anyway. So yeah,
Speaker 11: I think being honest was the right thing to do. Yeah,
Speaker 11: Like I wouldn't change it. It wouldn't have wouldn't have
Speaker 11: saved the relationship if I hadn't said it.
Speaker 4: So no, yeah, wow, thank you so much for honesty.
Speaker 4: Really appreciate that.
Speaker 7: Battles So that's a love the bang. It's a nice
Speaker 7: little contest where two people go head to head. And
Speaker 7: I'll tell you what, I can't even describe the hatred
Speaker 7: that comes with this, the competitiveness and everything that just
Speaker 7: sees two people going so aggressively against each other that
Speaker 7: it feels like a war in the studio, do you
Speaker 7: know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Jane's there's a lot of ducks and drakes that goes
Speaker 4: on behind the scenes with selection with our songs, and
Speaker 4: we don't know. I don't know what you've chosen. You
Speaker 4: don't know what I've chosen until this moment in time.
Speaker 4: So it's a genuine surprise when we do our reveal
Speaker 4: and sometimes to.
Speaker 7: Be honest with you, and maybe it's happened to you,
Speaker 7: It's definitely happened to me that I'll have my song
Speaker 7: and then I hear your song and in my head
Speaker 7: and I'm like, damn it, I wish I had your song.
Speaker 7: I'm still going to endorse my song and try and
Speaker 7: get the win.
Speaker 1: That never happens in reverse, just so you know, doesn't it.
Speaker 7: Or maybe it should because I'm leaving twelve to seven.
Speaker 7: That's right, it's twelve to seven.
Speaker 1: We have a theme meat and every week. This week
Speaker 1: it is sweet Treat Beats.
Speaker 4: This is on the back of our great search for
Speaker 4: the best donut in South Australia and it was National
Speaker 4: Donut Day last week.
Speaker 1: So you know what, why not?
Speaker 7: Yeah? Good call?
Speaker 1: You want to go first?
Speaker 7: How about ladies first?
Speaker 1: Why do you do it everywhere? You go first? For one?
Speaker 7: Okay, I go first. Here's a sweet treat for you,
Speaker 7: feek shake. Really so this was your first preference? Was it?
Speaker 7: Keep those feelings to yourself in the heat of the battle.
Speaker 7: I'd keep those feelings.
Speaker 4: I just wonder what goes on with the producers because
Speaker 4: I did suggest this song.
Speaker 6: I was feered aggressively in another direction.
Speaker 7: What do you mean?
Speaker 8: I would like to clarify that the person that locks
Speaker 8: in their song first gets the song. So, Jody, if
Speaker 8: you're a little bit earlier with your song choice, you
Speaker 8: may have gotten this song.
Speaker 7: I'll say, as well, said him, very well, said produced him.
Speaker 4: What I will say some of us have a life,
Speaker 4: another thing to worry about.
Speaker 1: So where were you off to?
Speaker 8: Yes, a gym class while we were still here working hard. Pilarates,
Speaker 8: pilarates important.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and quite coincidentally, she was probably instead of going
Speaker 7: plartis off to get milkhack. So I've got Calise and
Speaker 7: you have go and describe your song.
Speaker 4: What have you got? Well, I've long said on this
Speaker 4: show there is an artist that is missing and we
Speaker 4: need to play much, much more of and that is
Speaker 4: fifty cents.
Speaker 7: It's a good song. It is a really really good song.
Speaker 7: What about do you know what? I'm not going to
Speaker 7: go into it. I'm not going to break it down,
Speaker 7: but the lyrics on paper to this song very goodness.
Speaker 7: How they hell away.
Speaker 1: With this I don't know.
Speaker 4: But we do play lunch by Billie Eilish, So here
Speaker 4: we are all right.
Speaker 7: It is a sweet treat theme. You've got candy shop
Speaker 7: by fifty cent versus Kalise milkshake? It your votes in
Speaker 7: at Jody and Hazy.
Speaker 1: I reckon the blokes will get around for.
Speaker 7: Okay, Oh there you go. There's a play. But can
Speaker 7: we just establish that your first choice would have been Kalise?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 9: I yes, you sent through about fifty choices.
Speaker 4: I mean, I said through too, and then they were
Speaker 4: poo pooed and I was sent off in the fifty
Speaker 4: cent direction.
Speaker 9: Maybe start thinking about this like today for next week,
Speaker 9: so you get in a day earlier and then you
Speaker 9: secure your song that you really wanted and if I
Speaker 9: wanted your food.
Speaker 7: Back, that's the problem.
Speaker 1: Isn't trying to help you here? No, I'm not trying
Speaker 1: to him.
Speaker 4: No, you're not.
Speaker 6: I choose a song every week and you slag it off.
Speaker 1: That's how Okay, I don't different accounts for him, that's how.
Speaker 1: How is that trying to help me pick up better
Speaker 1: song than babes?
Speaker 7: You go, great point, great point, Apps, all right, get
Speaker 7: voting at it, Jody and Hazy, and we will announce
Speaker 7: the winning song, which probably be my It's moro at
Speaker 7: eight o'clock.
Speaker 4: And it is that sort of arrogance that you need
Speaker 4: to vote against, do you know?
Speaker 7: I am commident about though, jod'es and that is nervous
Speaker 7: handball blitz and just the quality of the contestants that
Speaker 7: we're attracting with this thing.
Speaker 1: We saw it.
Speaker 4: We saw the talent on display last year with Lincoln
Speaker 4: and Michael the brothers took it out, one of them
Speaker 4: one on thousand dollars, the other one one five hundred.
Speaker 4: You know who cleaned up in that situation. Mum, Mum
Speaker 4: and dad fifteen hundred bucks for the family, have a one.
Speaker 7: Hundred dollar kitty that night. Yeah, very nice. So yes,
Speaker 7: I mean, do yourself a favor right now, register your
Speaker 7: details rather than overplayer one to hopefully it get us
Speaker 7: to come out to your school and talk about handball,
Speaker 7: but also to get your self involved to score what
Speaker 7: is the biggest trophy in the world. I'd probably say
Speaker 7: speaker than the kids, and also a thousand bucks. I
Speaker 7: know what you're saying, James. You're sitting there like, for
Speaker 7: goodness sake, educate me in this space when it comes
Speaker 7: to handball.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, sure.
Speaker 7: Do you want me to take you down a little
Speaker 7: journey where not just the handball history, also what it
Speaker 7: means to South Australia and nate the world this beautiful sport.
Speaker 1: I mean, do I have a choice?
Speaker 7: I don't think you do. Sit down, strap yourself in
Speaker 7: and be quiet for the next two minutes. Place. Okay,
Speaker 7: go listen to this. Children gather around and listen closely
Speaker 7: to Uncle hazy, for I have a curious tale to
Speaker 7: share with you about a marvelous game called handball. It
Speaker 7: has little known how handball became so popular. The heritage
Speaker 7: might not ever become clear, but what is clear is
Speaker 7: a profound impact this great sport has had on Adelaide,
Speaker 7: nay the world. But let me give you a little
Speaker 7: injection of knowledge on its origins. Once upon a time,
Speaker 7: in the magical streets of France in the nineteen fifties,
Speaker 7: kids played a game called sidewalk square on the cracks
Speaker 7: of the pavement. It was a simple game, but oh
Speaker 7: so much fun. But here in Australia, the legend of
Speaker 7: handball began. On a special day, July fourth, nineteen fifty four,
Speaker 7: an American folklorus named Dorothy visit our sunny shawes, exploring
Speaker 7: primary schools to see what games kids play and guess
Speaker 7: what handball was the king of them all. Fast forward
Speaker 7: to the early two thousands, while the beats of Eminem,
Speaker 7: Black Eyed Peas and Green Day wrote the soundtrack of
Speaker 7: Our Lives, handball was quietly uniting the country. It was
Speaker 7: the unsung hero of the playground and our hearts. Then
Speaker 7: in twenty thirteen, a true handball legend emerged from the
Speaker 7: courts of a Brisbane State school none other than the
Speaker 7: fearless Prime Minister at the time, Kevin Right. His graceful
Speaker 7: morders on the handball court sparked a wildfire of passion
Speaker 7: across Australia that couldn't be contained. Handball's magic lies in
Speaker 7: the pure joy it brings, spreading smiles and laughter far
Speaker 7: and wide. So even though its origins might be a
Speaker 7: bit of a mystery, we can all appreciate the wonderful
Speaker 7: way it has touched our lives. And where does this
Speaker 7: epic tale end? Well on July twentieth at Adelaide Oval
Speaker 7: with thousands of fans and a whopping one thousand dollars
Speaker 7: cash prize. So keep playing, keep smiling, and who knows
Speaker 7: you'll be the next Campbell Blitz Champion. Sometimes you hear stories,
Speaker 7: particularly stories over seas, and just makes you go, oh my,
Speaker 7: very guysh that sounds painful? Makes together like this, what's that?
Speaker 7: Do you know what I mean? And I'm just going
Speaker 7: to read you the story fresh from the US if
Speaker 7: you don't mind. A sixty three year old man sneezed
Speaker 7: and coughed at the same time it happens, does it?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 7: Eating breakfast at a US diner only to find his
Speaker 7: coal and had fallen out of his body. That's not
Speaker 7: supposed to be there. The man who was with his
Speaker 7: wife was at a Florida restaurant. He felt a wet sensation,
Speaker 7: after which came a sharp pain. The man had recently
Speaker 7: undergone abdominal surgery, with the doctors assuring him the incision
Speaker 7: had healed, but when he lifted up his shirt, he
Speaker 7: saw several inches of his coal and coming out of
Speaker 7: his surgical words. So jose, I'm gonna spell it out
Speaker 7: for it. You got a cough, he got sneeze, put
Speaker 7: together and then sometimes post abdominal surgery and then all
Speaker 7: of a sudden you're in all sorts, do you know
Speaker 7: what I mean? Never painted a picture for.
Speaker 4: It, very graphically, and it feels like to me you
Speaker 4: spent a lot of time on that.
Speaker 7: You know, may particular when it comes to medical things.
Speaker 7: I do thorough research, Yes you do. The an ambulance
Speaker 7: was summoned in paramedics when they found three inch opening
Speaker 7: with large amounts of bow visible. Likely the blood loss
Speaker 7: was minimal and there was no damage to the exposed organ.
Speaker 7: Once he was taken to the hospital. Surgeons put his
Speaker 7: bow back into his abdomen and they were like, what
Speaker 7: are you doing there, Feller?
Speaker 1: Get back in there, Get back into your.
Speaker 7: Heart, Get back in there bum thirty, twenty fourteen, when's
Speaker 7: your bum falling out? Thirteen and twenty four to ten?
Speaker 7: When is your coal and craved in? When have you
Speaker 7: popped your pup a valve? Can you imagine? What about
Speaker 7: his poor wife as well? It's like check, plase, what's
Speaker 7: happened over here? My husband's just holding his ars in
Speaker 7: his lap.
Speaker 6: Extraordinary scenes in Mexico.
Speaker 4: So there has been another selfie death this week and
Speaker 4: it was all caught on camera.
Speaker 1: Horrendous.
Speaker 4: So a woman trying to take a selfie as a
Speaker 4: train comes down the tracks and bang.
Speaker 1: Hits a woman train.
Speaker 7: Woman vi by a selfie.
Speaker 1: Who's the winner in that one? Ever?
Speaker 7: Train winds every time?
Speaker 4: So I thought I'd take a trip around the globe
Speaker 4: and just just highlight some of the selfie deaths that
Speaker 4: have happened. A thirty two year old woman from North
Speaker 4: Carolina died after her vehicle crossed the Median strip and
Speaker 4: burst into flames moments after posting a selfie online after
Speaker 4: she heard this song on the radio and thought she'd
Speaker 4: sing along.
Speaker 7: Gosh, that's not funny at all, Harry me.
Speaker 1: She wasn't happy.
Speaker 4: In the Philippines, a fifteen year old boy was critically
Speaker 4: wounded after accident shooting himself while taking a selfie when
Speaker 4: he had his other hand holding a gun to his chin.
Speaker 4: So he's got one hand holding the phone up, another
Speaker 4: gn on his chin and bang.
Speaker 1: Accidentally.
Speaker 4: Pakistan, a fifteen year old boy was taking a selfie
Speaker 4: with a toy gun when police thought it was real
Speaker 4: and open fire and killed him.
Speaker 7: Ah, that's a little bit concerning.
Speaker 4: Japanese tourists fell off a staircase to his death while
Speaker 4: taking a selfie at the taj Mahal. A Chinese businessman
Speaker 4: named Jia le Jeune tried to take a selfie with
Speaker 4: a one and a half ton walrus at a zoo
Speaker 4: in lea wars.
Speaker 7: Horus Horace wasn't feeling it was.
Speaker 4: He he's entered, so he's entered the enclosure, and the
Speaker 4: walrus promptly attacked him. Later, they explained that the warris
Speaker 4: thought he was just like she was, just giving a hug,
Speaker 4: so attacked him. Has tackled him and then taken him
Speaker 4: into the pool and drowned him, and then promptly tried
Speaker 4: to give the zoo keeper a hug as well. While
Speaker 4: she was at it, tackled the zoo keeper, drowned the
Speaker 4: zoo keeper.
Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, the Wars went on.
Speaker 1: A rampage all over a selfie.
Speaker 7: There's a message in that. I mean, if you're going
Speaker 7: to take a selfie with Warris, definitely show the photo
Speaker 7: that you've taken it some feet.
Speaker 1: She wasn't happy, like that is my worst side. What
Speaker 1: are you doing.
Speaker 9: I've asked you multiple times for top taking photos of
Speaker 9: bee multiple times.
Speaker 1: I've had enough.
Speaker 7: Would have death role that Abby does when he grabs
Speaker 7: your takes you underwater, just spins you around.
Speaker 4: And in one of the most high profile disks in Australia,
Speaker 4: your hamstring was seen taking a selfie ride after your
Speaker 4: tackle side against the Elizabeth Eagles.
Speaker 1: It's a selfie stick too and then bag hamstring.
Speaker 7: Dead gone, still hasn't recovery, by the way, blown itself
Speaker 7: with sixteen different bits. It was a good photo though,
Speaker 7: it's a message and all that do not It takes
Speaker 7: selfies full stop