WEBVTT - Crow Josh Rachele Talks About The Unfair Attacks on Coach Matthew Nicks: "It's on us" 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:02.960 Morning every day. 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:13.720 Gentlemen, Adelaide, surely Jelly, you're on the bellie flying through 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:15.640 the Gali seeing Nellie with the Shelley. 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:18.560 Please Welcome to the show, Joshua Shelley. 0:00:21.680 --> 0:00:25.600 Fresh off his birthday, payday success, announcing the right mon 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.040 Well done, Welcome to the studio, Josh Shelley. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:29.120 Thanks, guys. 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:31.880 Are you going, how are you feeling? What's what's been 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:32.680 happening this week? 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:37.080 We've been training flat out this week. Last last night 0:00:37.120 --> 0:00:39.320 we had a training session Adelaide Oval and we trained 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:39.559 in the. 0:00:39.520 --> 0:00:41.400 Morning, So two sessions a day. 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:44.160 Getting up this morning was quite a struggle. Two alarms 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:44.519 on a head. 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:47.960 That's like hazy at the gym. Yeah, two sessions each 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:48.440 and every day. 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:50.239 I got to get that working, don't you, Especially with 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:50.880 the beach waits. 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:57.120 You know what, Josh and Becks, what's hazy? We've been 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:58.560 down at the club this week. It's a bit of 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:00.400 a bit of a NodD feeling down there at the moment. 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:02.880 Is that fair to say, Yeah, it's fair to say. Definitely. 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:06.919 Monday was a big review. We had some good, honest 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:11.119 conversations with everyone. Yeah, and then as I said yesterday, 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:13.280 we had a really big training session. I don't know 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:14.840 what it was. If it was just because we've been 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:18.000 losing a couple of consecutive games, but it was very 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:20.640 intense and everyone was going one hundred percent last night. 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:22.160 I was probably more like a preseason session. 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:23.360 Yeah, right, I. 0:01:23.280 --> 0:01:25.319 Feel like, Josh, you get a reminder and maybe it 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:27.920 probably hasn't had happened too much in your time because 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:31.000 you probably started right in the guts of the rebuild. Yeah, guys, 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.760 it wasn't too many expectations, But now is this a 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:36.040 bit of a reminder of just how important this team 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:38.840 is in this town? I mean, there's expectations, and you 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.280 guys have a couple of losses, it would seem like 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:43.480 the world's against you. Is that what it feels like? 0:01:43.680 --> 0:01:46.480 Yeah, and especially of how we finished last year and 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:49.520 everyone kind of had that expectation as soon as we 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:51.080 start this season that we're going to be around the 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:54.520 seven eighth kind of sneak into the finals again, and 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:59.000 obviously not being at that expectation this season was quite disappointing. 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:01.920 But yeah, do kind of feel that pressure and that 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:04.559 external noise a lot more in this two team town. 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:09.280 I feel like there's been a lot of focus on 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:12.120 individuals at the club, and a lot of okay, how 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:13.920 do you rank the performance of this person and that 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:15.680 person that person? Which I think is a bit rich 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:18.280 coming from the media because you know, we don't like 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:19.880 it when it's turned on us. How do you rank 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:22.080 the performance of Andrew Hayes or Jodiotti or you know 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:25.520 my boss at wherever. I feel like that's been a 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:29.040 little unfair. I have to say, yeah, and singling people out. 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:31.520 Yeah, and especially when you go straight to the coaches 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:34.040 as well, because as an element of us that needs 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:36.960 to take responsibility of that, because on game day he's 0:02:36.960 --> 0:02:39.760 not out there to teachers, not teachers, but show us 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:42.240 how to kick or make the right decisions. So a 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:45.800 lot of that is on us, especially we got a 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:48.000 lot of our leaders are getting pointed out and different 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:51.519 positional changes. When if we play fine next this week, 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:53.720 for example, we beat Sydney, it kind of goes away 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:54.320 straight away. 0:02:54.400 --> 0:03:01.000 So yeah, but also and then you're like, Okay, who's 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:05.320 going to coach? Don't I have no idea? The other 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:07.079 one I love as well, which you might have seen 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:10.400 that play the kids, the kids, Okay, who's knocking on 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:11.120 the door on the sample? 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:15.560 Oh, and there's already so many kids playing. 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:18.280 As have you been doing much to get away from 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:20.000 footy at the moment, just to take your mind off. 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:22.760 To Yeah, I've been doing a fair bit, just usual 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:25.799 mucking around with my housemates. I've got a good mint. 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:30.040 Define mucking around with your house, because that'd be an interesting house, yeah, wouldn't. 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:30.600 It got. 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:35.960 So every kind of Tuesday. At Thursday, I go and 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:37.800 do I have a football comnt with a chung of 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:39.800 football club in the Hills with Marcine. So we go 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:43.000 and help out the kids down there. And I came 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:45.400 back to my house and I had I think I 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:48.040 had nearly seven or eight of my teammates at my house, 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:51.120 all the young boys. Jacob cooked passer for everyone because 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:55.440 we're watching Luke's Rising Star interview with Afil thirty sixty, 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:59.560 which is quite hilarious. And we get back and Jacob 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:03.480 cooked cooked past the worst pass over. He had like 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:06.560 two ko and mince. It was so dry. He tried 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:09.280 his best, poor kid, But where was the source, Jake? 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:11.880 There was no source. It was just I had all 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:14.560 my source that we've I've made with everyone with my family, 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:16.360 and he didn't I reckon. He used maybe one jarft 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:17.520 for about seven people. 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:18.839 That's the dumbest thing I've ever had. 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:21.279 A tough, tough, tough cook view, though, I feel like 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:24.000 you would want your past and your source at the toppest, 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:25.320 the most highest point of the shelf. 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:25.599 Yeah. 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:27.680 Yeah, so that was pretty funny. But if you look 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:31.120 back on Luke's interview, he's spoken and then he was 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:35.560 just in his Crow's kid with budget on man as 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:39.159 he said goodbye guys. He's turned around to go swell 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:40.120 the past that he just. 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:47.520 Got, which is absolutely brilliant. May just he said before 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:50.440 that you and Martine help out a chunker. What's that 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.240 from it? Is that just for I suppose I love 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.040 of football and wanted to help some of the youngsters. 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:57.200 Yeah, Mark's got an affiliation with some Irish guy. He's 0:04:57.200 --> 0:05:00.200 always got Irish mates. He's got things we say. He 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:02.760 contacted Mark and asked me to come along too, and 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:05.440 we went to a couple of sessions and really enjoyed it. 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:07.640 And now they're struggling football club down there. Don't get 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:10.200 a lot of numbers. So a couple of weeks ago 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:12.039 they got their first win for the season. The boys 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:13.840 were just rapped. But it's funny to see how they're 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:17.520 just slowly developing each week getting more numbers. A couple 0:05:17.560 --> 0:05:19.760 of girls are down there playing too, so yeah, it's 0:05:19.760 --> 0:05:20.640 good for the football club. 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:22.719 So that's the stuff that you probably don't see and 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:24.719 maybe you don't see enough of. Is that you and 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:26.720 market doing things like that. We've said it a couple 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:28.440 of times now. When you came out Friday's Love at 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:31.640 your school, producer Emily almost had to say to you, home, mate, 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.000 you can go. You required to be there for about 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:35.760 ten minutes, to stay for about forty five minutes. It 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:36.640 was absolutely magnets. 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:38.040 Do you like doing stuff with kids? 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:41.200 Yeah, it's fun. I always say when I was that age, 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:43.920 I would have died for any AFL player to come 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:46.880 coach my football club if he was a rookie or 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:49.640 the number one draft pick. So have to kind of 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:52.360 give that now, give that experience back kind of. Yeah, 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:53.720 it makes me feel really warm. 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:55.960 That's really nice, and it's funny how much when you 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:57.799 give back, how much, how good that makes you feel. 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:01.440 Yeah, definitely, it's just a quick one ranking back. Gosh, 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.400 he's good, he's amazing. Yeah, it's great to have him back. 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:06.320 Even at training. He's one of my good mates. So 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:08.640 having him back and linking up in the forward line, 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:09.760 very excited. 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:12.600 Very nice. He's pumped to be back to Yeah. 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:14.480 He's very pumped. He hates sitting on the sideliness. 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:19.000 That kid looking forward to a big, big upset win 0:06:19.240 --> 0:06:22.120 over the Swans. That would keep everyone away, wouldn't it, Oh, 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.400 wouldn't that? Josh appreciate time, mate, We'll do it all 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:25.320 again in a couple of weeks. 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:26.440 Thanks Joseph Hazes. 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:29.560 Here's what you're waking up to Adelaide. 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:35.360 Breaking news, what news today, snooze. 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:38.200 News, all the inflation you need to know, just smash 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:40.280 into your day. And one of the biggest stories in 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:42.479 the last twenty four hours, Jared Haynes has been released 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:45.159 from j ol Jared Haynes, of course, the former NURL star. 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:49.080 So his rape convictions have been quashed for a second time, 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:50.720 so he's heading home to his family. 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:53.719 There's still the prospect of a fourth trial. Hazy. 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:57.840 He's only thirty six, so he's only a young young guy. 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:00.800 He's been behind barsoom more than a year after a 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:03.040 jury found him guilty in twenty twenty three of two 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:04.520 counts of sexual intercourse without. 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:07.679 Consense, It's unbelievable. So I'm from there in States, Yes, 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:11.280 And to describe Jared Haynes at his peak like he was, 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:15.840 I would say as good and as sort of rock 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:18.360 star top shelf as Dustin Martin. Yeah, so you know, 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:21.480 we just like Dustin Martin in afol Circles is an 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:24.040 absolute gone. So Jared Haynes was at that level and 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:25.920 had a stint over at the NFL, didn't quite make 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:28.800 it but still played some games. Yeah, it was just 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:32.000 this is the biggest four from grace that I've seen, 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:33.280 possibly in. 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:35.280 Australian sport, the biggest fall from grace. 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:37.400 Yes, there's been a few. 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:39.480 Wayne Carey probably one. 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:43.080 He was an absolute rock star until his personal life 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:44.240 took a bit of a turn. 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:47.560 Ben Cousins, you could say. But also he's really fought. 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:49.560 Back and gone through recovery and is now presenting the 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:50.320 sport over there. 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:50.800 On perfect Jen. 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:52.520 He is on the verge. He's going to be a 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:54.880 contestant and dancing with the stars, Oh my goodness is he? 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:57.400 So he's on the verge of making a big comeback. 0:07:57.520 --> 0:08:00.000 I mean, Jared Haynes from here, even it's been quashed 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:02.800 and even if it gets cleared. It sort of seems 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:04.520 like the damages we don't. 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:05.840 Know, I think were these sorts of things. 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:08.360 If you've been to jail for rape, that that mud sticks, 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:10.320 doesn't it for the rest of your life. 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:11.560 It's an incredible story. 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:14.920 But yeah, I mean it's been ongoing and ongoing and 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:17.360 unbelievable stuff. Huge in the eastern sides. 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:20.280 Michael Slater, Slater, that's a big force. 0:08:20.600 --> 0:08:22.960 Really begind That's quite a list, isn't there. You could 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:25.160 really knuckle down if you're working on sen. 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:27.520 But we're not. 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:29.080 So we're going to go to Abbey in the newsroom. 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:30.440 Now he's got a panda update. 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:32.440 We're going to change pace a little bit here, guys, 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:37.560 because change base. We are on Panda Watch today, Panda 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:41.400 chat because Wang Wang and Fernie sorry Wang Woman Fernie, 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:45.920 as Jodie likes to say, are leaving Adelaide dimp down 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:47.959 m sound effects today. 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:50.680 So the premiere of China was here yesterday and he's 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:52.120 gone right and taking them home. 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:55.160 So no, so he's coming over this weekend. There will 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:58.360 be an official announcement this weekend when he visits the zoo. 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:01.200 But basically, what's going to happen is wango and FUNI 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:04.439 came here to pro create. That's one job that was 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:08.440 fifteen years ago, and they've not done that. You say, 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:11.840 my love life is slow, that's a lot slower. So 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:14.880 they are going to go back to China and we're 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:16.920 going to get two new pandas. 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:18.520 It's a bit exciting. 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:22.000 Trade them in, yes, boring, trading some pandas that actually 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:24.319 want to make with each other. Come on, Yeah, more 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:24.520 of that. 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:27.320 This is the equivalent of a middle aged man having 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:30.840 a crisis and training in his wife for his secretary 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:32.040 who's twenty one years old. 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:34.360 This is what they're both getting booted. So it's not 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:37.080 even like it's just funny. They're both going yeah right, 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:39.640 So yeah, new ones will come in this apparently it 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:43.000 will happen around November. I have emailed the Zoo because 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.560 I've asked for a little bit more information. So once 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:46.920 they email back, I'll let you know. 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:49.760 There's some questions without notice, ladies, and in terms of 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:52.800 this particular situation. So with these two, are they just 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:55.320 not doing it at all? I know the fertility window 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:57.640 for pandas is really really small. One, are they just 0:09:57.679 --> 0:09:58.520 not doing it at all? 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:00.680 Like this we had a couple of shadow pregnant yees 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:04.360 or miscarriages. So yeah, okay, so that's definitely trying. 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:05.640 It has times without done. 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:06.000 Yeah. 0:10:06.040 --> 0:10:09.600 So basically I was reading something yesterday where they there's 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:13.719 been a lot of yeah, what's it called topic pregnancies 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:16.640 and things like that. So they're doing it, but it's 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:19.000 just not sticking, not working. 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:21.000 Right, It's not working because I just want it? 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:21.280 Is it? 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:22.960 One Wong's the boy? 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:25.160 Yes, I just want Sony means lucky girl. 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:27.600 Lucky girl, she's not lucky it all. Let's just put 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:29.920 that out there. But one long, you just wonder whether 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:31.520 he's doing everything the right way? 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:32.240 What do you mean? 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:34.600 But also, sorry, it's twenty twenty one. 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:36.680 To educate him, it's twenty twenty four. 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.760 Maybe they don't want to be parents, Maybe they don't 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:40.520 want to have babies. 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:42.480 Has anyone asked them? 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:44.720 Has anyone said, do you want to father a child? 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:46.800 Maybe he's like, I like living the bachelor life. 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:48.960 How does astros as well? When you just know that 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:50.760 they've been mating all night and you turn up into 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:56.000 the enclosure and there's just condom wrappers everyone, it's not 0:10:56.160 --> 0:11:00.320 the point of this exercise. He's like, I've just been safe, baby. 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.240 Why do we put you on this show? 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:08.679 Anyway? That's your postion snooze news. That's the vital information 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:09.960 that you need to notice. 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:14.120 I went to the Thunderbirds game on Saturday night, and 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:18.040 at halftime, as you do, just went for a little 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:21.480 whittle in the toilet. So I was sitting in the 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:24.199 cubicle and there was a woman next to me who 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:27.240 obviously had taken her i'd say, little toddler, little girl 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:30.760 to the toilet. Was very quiet in there. I'm pretty 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:33.120 sure it was like me, her and one other person, 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:38.000 so really quiet, and then next minute I hear this 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:44.640 little voice go, mummy, you've got a lot of hair 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:49.199 on your vagina. 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:52.760 There was no way, there was no way that I 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:55.400 could have predicted did you go to I was like, 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:57.760 where we go with this bang? 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:00.480 And then I could hear the mother just like awkwardly. 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:07.040 Oh, anyway, as it happens, we both flushed and walked 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:09.640 down at the same time. And because at that point 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:12.760 I had the giggles and she saw me laughing, I 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:15.880 was like, oh, interesting toilet conversations. 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:21.000 She looked at me and she was so embarrassed. 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:23.360 She was like, oh, yeah, it turns out I knew 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:26.240 the woman actually, and then we started talking about how 0:12:26.280 --> 0:12:30.120 we knew each other. But she was so mortified, and 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:31.800 I was retelling this story to produce it. 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:34.400 EMM, and you had something similar with your toddler. 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:37.000 I did. So another Saturday, tur it must happen on Saturdays. 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:38.800 We were at swimming and I had to take him solo. 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.600 So I had to get changed after swimming out of 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:43.520 my bathers, but I also had to go to the toilet. 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:44.840 I was like, all right, come on, Max, let's go. 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:47.560 So it's two and a half and he's learning to 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:49.839 go to the toilet, so he's learning the proper names 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:54.040 for thanks. So take my one piece off. Not attractive 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:55.760 at all, but I mean they're trying to get it done. 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:58.880 Go to the toilet and stand up, start getting dressed, 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:01.560 and he just points and he goes, Mummy, you have 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:11.400 a penis. In the loudest voice. No no, no, no, no, 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:15.640 mummy has a vagina. Boy, daddy's got a penis. Trying no, Mummy, 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:17.679 you have a penis. And so I'm out of there 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:19.959 as quickly as I can. Pull my stuff on, get 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:22.000 out of there, and once again, you go out and 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:23.840 there is another mum there with kids, and she just 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:24.280 kind of goes. 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:29.480 I tried to correct him. It's yeah, it's so embarrassing. 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:31.520 I got this from a really good source. Actually, you too. 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:33.200 Henry to the toilet one day and he. 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:35.000 Pointed to you and said, Daddy, isn't that supposed to 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:36.559 be with your penis? 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:41.200 Penis? I was like, what are you talking about about? 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:46.880 It's there, no, no, no, no vagina kids in my right. 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:50.400 They know not what they say. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:14:01.920 My Really, it is so time for a let's go girl. Yeah. 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:04.600 This is where we take all those off conversations that 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:07.600 we have pertaining to being a woman and we bring 0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:10.040 them on air and then sometimes. 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:11.920 We invite Andrew Hayes to join him and give his opinion. 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:17.000 Not very often, though here if you need. 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:19.840 So we were having a chat about this the other 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:22.440 day because Brad Pitt, what about this, made a confession 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:25.120 to Jennifer Aniston about Angelina Ghly. 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:27.800 Before their divorce. So this is how it all unrolled. 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:28.440 Can you remember? 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:30.840 So Brad and jen met and it was beautiful and 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:34.680 they played characters on Friends and they fell in love 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:36.520 and there was that I always remember that photo and 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:38.120 I reckon they're at the baseball or something, and he 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:41.600 was my primary and arms. Everyone was sort of really 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:44.320 enamored by the love story. But then he went off 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:46.880 and filmed Mister and Missus Smith and that's when he 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:50.880 developed feelings for Angelina. Now, according to Courtney Cox, who's 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:55.800 obviously Jen's bff, she came out and said, I don't 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:58.320 think he started an affair physically, but I think he 0:14:58.360 --> 0:15:00.560 was attracted to her. There was a connection, and he 0:15:00.720 --> 0:15:03.960 was honest about that with Jen. Most of the time, 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:06.200 when people are attracted to other people, they don't tell. 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:07.760 At least he was honest about it. It was an 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:10.680 attraction that he fought for a period of time. No, 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:14.200 he's coming in hot and early. 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:16.960 Yeah, super aggressive, nice and early. At least he was 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:21.080 honest about it. I just speak on behalf of the 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:24.080 human race, don't I. They talk about everything that you're thinking. 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:29.880 You're right, yeah, I'm like, what if it's fleeting, Well, 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:32.080 must be what if it's fleeting. Yeah, well, if it's 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:34.000 a fleeting, little stupid thing that's going on your brain, 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:36.720 You're like, I feel like this, and then ten minutes later, 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:38.280 I actually, no, I don't feel like that night. Well 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:39.280 you said it, now it stays with. 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:41.320 You for It's a good point because at some point 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:43.000 in your life you could be with someone you're like, 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:46.040 this person is my universe, and then maybe five years 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:48.240 later you go, oh my god, I haven't thought about 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:50.600 him in six months. You know what I mean, what 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:53.920 do you think he's read abby? 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:55.040 This would be interesting. 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:55.720 Well. 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:58.720 I'm very much on the camp of no, you don't 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:02.520 say something because you're right. It can be a fleeting thing. 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:04.720 You see someone and you think, oh, you know, but 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:06.960 the grass is always greener on the other People say 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:09.240 the grass always greener on the other side, but I say. 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:10.840 It's greener where you water it. 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:13.320 And I think when you're in a long term relationship, 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:16.440 you've got to like things get hard and tough, and 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:19.240 like Hazey has spoken about, you're in the trenches and there's. 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:20.000 Children and all of this. 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.960 So you're not always going to have this lusty Oh 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:24.280 my god, come here and I want to rip your 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:26.880 clothes off with your partner. But you've got to keep 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:28.600 falling in love, and you've got to keep doing the 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:30.720 things that you first fell in love with them. 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:32.160 You've got to keep doing that. You've got to keep 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:33.440 the spark a lot that's. 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:37.200 Why, that's why she's the best. And can I just 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:39.000 be honest with you for a second, Abby, I love. 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:45.200 You, but you're right. Your relationship changes and evolves. 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:47.560 Sometimes you're really close with your partner, and then at 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:50.040 those times where it's like an elastic band where you're 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:52.840 stretching and you're not so close, that's when other people 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:56.320 might catch your eye. It just doesn't sit well to 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:58.280 go home and say I'm really attracted to this person, 0:16:58.320 --> 0:17:01.480 because does it do more damage. 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:03.040 Thought It's always going to be there, even like, oh, 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:04.960 by the way, yeah I was. That was just a 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:06.879 random stupid thing, and it's always going to plan your 0:17:06.920 --> 0:17:08.119 hit though, Yeah, do you know what I mean? 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:10.800 Yeah, anyway, I'm not in a relationship, so don't take 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:13.159 anything of what I say seriously. But that's my opinion. 0:17:13.280 --> 0:17:16.760 This happened to my best friend a couple of years ago. 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:20.280 When she first started dating her partner. She went on 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:24.480 a trip and met someone else over there. Nothing happened, nothing, 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:27.320 you know, no cheating, But she called me and said, oh, 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:29.760 I think I'm I'm quite into this person, but I've 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:31.760 got this relationship back home. She came home and told 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:34.360 her partner and told him and reashored him that nothing 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:35.760 was going to happen, but felt that she needed to 0:17:35.760 --> 0:17:37.400 be honest and they're still together years later. 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:40.280 So it was a bit of this because I can imagine. 0:17:41.640 --> 0:17:44.720 I think it's really important to remember we're all human beings, 0:17:44.880 --> 0:17:48.800 like we're not essentially supposed to be monogamous with our 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:50.560 whole lives, that you're always. 0:17:52.800 --> 0:17:57.080 I know a great my grandparents were married for over 0:17:57.200 --> 0:17:57.840