WEBVTT - TYPE A VS TYPE B + TV WHILE YOU SLEEP?!

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<v Speaker 1>Hello and welcome to another episode of Where's Your Head At?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Matt.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome, Anna. Where's your head at today?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 1>I have had the craziest week. I've just got back

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<v Speaker 1>from Byron.

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<v Speaker 2>There's just a lot going on.

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<v Speaker 4>We have a lot to debrief.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good. I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>Where's your head at, more importantly?

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<v Speaker 3>It's good. I've got Bali coming up, but before Bali,

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<v Speaker 3>I've got NFL. So you know how I'm a massive

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<v Speaker 3>NFL fan. We were just speaking about it before.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really realize how big of a deal this

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<v Speaker 1>was that the NFL was coming to Melbourne. And they're

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<v Speaker 1>playing a game on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that right?

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<v Speaker 3>Friday morning. So it'll be a Thursday night game back

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<v Speaker 3>in America. So they'll watch it Thursday night, but it'll

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<v Speaker 3>be our morning because of the time difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, so the game is in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>It's 10 a.m. The same as Super Bowl because it's

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<v Speaker 3>the same time.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>So we'll be watching it the same time we watch

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<v Speaker 3>Super Bowl.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's not on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's on Friday.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>I fly out Saturday. So I've got to have a

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<v Speaker 3>big day watching the game.

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<v Speaker 2>Have got to.

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<v Speaker 3>I got offered tickets from a.

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<v Speaker 2>It's your dream day.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I know, I know. I got offered tickets,

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<v Speaker 3>but I kindly turned them down because I was going

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<v Speaker 3>with my mates. So my whole fantasy league's going. There's

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<v Speaker 3>12 of us. So we have two rows of six

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<v Speaker 3>behind each other. Don't know how we scored that, lucked out.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not going to be like awesome tickets. They're going

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<v Speaker 3>to be probably like in the back, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's going to be fun just with all the boys.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all about who you're there with, isn't it?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly. Like you can be front row by yourself or

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<v Speaker 1>you can be back row with your best friends.

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<v Speaker 2>What are you picking?

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<v Speaker 3>Back row with your best friends.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I did pick. Back row with your best friends.

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<v Speaker 3>That's literally why I was like, I'd rather be with

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<v Speaker 3>the boys.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, we did the fantasy on the weekend, the draft.

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<v Speaker 2>It's back, guys.

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<v Speaker 3>It is my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Favorite time of the year from that.

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<v Speaker 3>Controls my life. I actually drafted AI, said mine was

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<v Speaker 3>the best over the other teams. I didn't think it was, but.

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<v Speaker 2>What did?

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<v Speaker 3>AI said I drafted the best team.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you put it into chat too?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we all do. Yeah, it gave us back. Our team,

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<v Speaker 3>my team was the best. So hopefully I have a

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<v Speaker 3>good season this year. And I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 3>saw my Instagram story, but the loser has to run

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<v Speaker 3>five kilometers while we open a tab. And however much

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<v Speaker 3>the tab is, they have to pay for.

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<v Speaker 2>That is like your worst nightmare.

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<v Speaker 3>I do pick up fuels. Actually, I'll tell that story

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<v Speaker 3>off air.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying you don't pick up the bills, but like.

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<v Speaker 4>Running.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't run.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's a bit of both, let's be real.

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<v Speaker 3>When they asked me for the... We'll go to the

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<v Speaker 3>next topic.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing's going to make you run faster, let's be real.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, then you have to pick that up. But the EverLab,

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<v Speaker 3>and they asked me, what am I training for? And

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<v Speaker 3>I said, to look hot.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, my God.

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<v Speaker 1>So just for anyone who's not across it, Matt and

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<v Speaker 1>I are both doing EverLab.

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<v Speaker 2>How is yours going? What part are you up to?

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<v Speaker 3>I did the MRI.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, talk us through the MRI, because... Matt called me

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<v Speaker 2>about this and I thought it was so hilarious.

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<v Speaker 3>It's, I'm sorry if anyone actually has to do this, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, cause they're sick and that, but it was,

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<v Speaker 3>I was a bit confronted by it. I was a

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<v Speaker 3>bit scared.

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<v Speaker 2>You were a bit claustrophobic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I didn't think I was claustrophobic, but I got

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<v Speaker 3>in there and I was like, whoa. Yeah. Like it's

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<v Speaker 3>cause it's intense. They put the weighted thing on you.

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<v Speaker 2>On your face.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>On your face as well. Like a Darth Vader mask.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like sitting there and originally I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>know how still you had to sit. So I was

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<v Speaker 3>still like, moving like my face, like looking around and shit.

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<v Speaker 3>And then she goes over to the speaker, she goes, Matt,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to need you to just be completely still.

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<v Speaker 3>Like don't move your tongue, nothing. So I was so

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<v Speaker 3>still the whole time. Like my arm went dead. My

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<v Speaker 3>back was like just getting real numb from laying there.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you find it?

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<v Speaker 2>My arm also went dead, my right arm. I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was in there.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember having a thought being like, cause you,

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<v Speaker 1>you are basically in this machine for about 30 to

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<v Speaker 1>45 minutes, give or take. If you move more than

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<v Speaker 1>you're in for longer, which is why I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>in my mind, I was like, just be as still

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<v Speaker 1>as possible so that I can be out of here quicker.

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<v Speaker 1>But I remember thinking this is kind of scary. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I remember thinking.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I always go to this point.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, so many other people before me have

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<v Speaker 1>done it. And then the woman was like, oh, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a mom. Like, this is probably going to be a

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<v Speaker 1>break for you. So then I was like, oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is actually a break. It's actually quite nice, relaxing. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I was imagining myself on a beach in Thailand.

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<v Speaker 3>That works.

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<v Speaker 4>It was actually quite nice.

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<v Speaker 3>That actually works, yeah, with the humming of the noise.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like mind over matter.

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<v Speaker 3>She said that to me when she saw me.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're actually claustrophobic, you can't just say to someone,

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<v Speaker 1>mine doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she said that to me because she could tell

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<v Speaker 3>I started to get a bit of that look on

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<v Speaker 3>my face when they were putting the stuff on. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, I don't know about this. How

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<v Speaker 3>hard were you grasping that thing?

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<v Speaker 2>The little button.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I had it like in my hand.

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<v Speaker 2>I was relaxed.

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<v Speaker 3>Really relaxed. I had that pretty squeezed in my hand

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<v Speaker 3>because that's what I felt.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that's because I, like, when I get

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<v Speaker 1>stressed out, historically I've clenched my jaw and then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>get a headache from clenching my jaw. So I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>like trying to release my stress by being like, like

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<v Speaker 1>relax your jaw. But now I get Botox in my

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<v Speaker 1>masseter muscles. So like it relaxes itself, but like it does,

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<v Speaker 1>it gives you a headache if you clench too.

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<v Speaker 4>Much, you know?

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<v Speaker 3>I nearly dosed off in there at one point. I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I did.

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<v Speaker 2>Weren't you stressed?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, at one point when I got, I got a

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<v Speaker 3>bit chill towards the end and then I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, fuck, if I fall asleep, imagine

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<v Speaker 3>waking up in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Where am I? What's going on? What's going on? I

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<v Speaker 3>actually had a weird dream last night.

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<v Speaker 2>Really?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to talk about it on here. It

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<v Speaker 3>was just weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Fair enough.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of dreams, this is like somewhat related, but it

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<v Speaker 1>just like perks my memory because I have been, this

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<v Speaker 1>is so random. I've been sucked in to what I

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<v Speaker 1>think is like, it's like an ad on TikTok, right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's called DreamScript AI.

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<v Speaker 1>And basically, I don't know how I started watching this,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's basically like I'm like on the scroll and

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<v Speaker 1>like scrolling TikTok and this DreamScript production comes up. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like basically like an AI cartoon, but it's like very realistic,

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<v Speaker 1>but you definitely know it's like a cartoon.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you watch them? I've got over the AI videos

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<v Speaker 3>now of stuff. Like, I used to love them, you know, like,

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<v Speaker 3>when they have, like, the fruit cheating on each other

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<v Speaker 3>and all that.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you ever seen that?

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<v Speaker 3>No. People would have seen that listening. It was so funny. Really? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's, like, I skip past them now.

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<v Speaker 4>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>But this is, like, one where it's, like, this, like,

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<v Speaker 1>really hot, like, mafia boss, and then he, like, this woman, like,

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<v Speaker 1>applies for a job, and she's, like, there to, like,

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<v Speaker 1>look after his child, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Then they fall in love.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's the same thing, but they're used to his fruits.

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<v Speaker 3>They used to be like bananas and like apples in

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<v Speaker 3>their characters. And they were playing out scenes like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is like real life. Like, okay, now I'm

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<v Speaker 2>getting confused because it's not real life.

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<v Speaker 3>It's AI.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like AI, like good looking characters.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've been fully sucked in to the point where like,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I'll go on TikTok because I'm like, I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>what happens in this story.

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<v Speaker 4>Next, but I haven't actually bought it.

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<v Speaker 1>Cause I'm like, I can't buy like an AI dream script,

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<v Speaker 1>like TV show.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But it's so good, Matt.

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<v Speaker 3>All right. Send one to me next time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll send one to you. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>anyone else has been sucked into this or if it's

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<v Speaker 2>just me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, no. If anyone's actually bought it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so good if you've bought it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the thing is I was thinking about it

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, well, people watch cartoons. What's the difference

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<v Speaker 1>between an AI, you know? It's like the same thing, right?

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<v Speaker 2>True. It's a bit more realistic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It's probably the same thing. Like I watch American

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<v Speaker 3>Dad every night. It's a cartoon. Yeah. Animation.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you watch every night?

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<v Speaker 3>Before I go to sleep, I'll watch a- To get

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<v Speaker 3>you to sleep? It's actually really weird. People, people that

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<v Speaker 3>have like, obviously stayed the night at mine. I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's quite, cause I'll watch a movie and then I'll

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<v Speaker 3>put on American dad afterwards. And like, I won't even

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<v Speaker 3>finish an episode. Like I don't have to turn it

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<v Speaker 3>off just for my brain or a sitcom.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. I have a question for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you always have to, cause I have a TV

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<v Speaker 1>in my room and I love having a TV in

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<v Speaker 1>the bedroom. I hate not having a TV in the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you always turn the TV off before bed or

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<v Speaker 1>do you fall asleep?

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<v Speaker 2>With the TV running.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so I turn it off. I have to. I

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<v Speaker 3>have to have the room dead silent. Same, I have

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<v Speaker 3>to turn it on. An ex of mine would have

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<v Speaker 3>to leave it on. And it is, fuck, I hated

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<v Speaker 3>waking up in the middle of the night and it's

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<v Speaker 3>just some random person talking in the back. I hated it.

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<v Speaker 3>I hated it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'd have to quickly find the remote and try

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<v Speaker 3>to turn it off. Yeah. I need silence.

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<v Speaker 1>It honestly, because the other night I fell asleep early

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<v Speaker 1>and then Michael was sleeping still awake. We've been falling

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<v Speaker 1>asleep very early at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what's wrong with Michael.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been like, I've been falling asleep at eight and

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<v Speaker 1>then like the next night I'm up and about and

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<v Speaker 1>he's asleep at eight.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, what is wrong with us? Like anyway, exhaustion, whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But Michael stayed up later than me and he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>turn the TV off because he's obviously fallen asleep.

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<v Speaker 2>And I woke up with the light room on, stressful,

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<v Speaker 2>the TV on.

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<v Speaker 3>The light on in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, light on in the room, TV on. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was only like 10.30 and I was like, it was

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<v Speaker 1>really rattled about it. Like very, like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>pinched my anxiety a lot. No, I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>like some sort of sport.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I can't, I just hated it.

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<v Speaker 4>Hated it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like one of my pet hates.

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<v Speaker 1>If you follow my socials, you might've seen that I

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<v Speaker 1>have done MRIs and blood tests and all of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>And they did find a lump in my left breast.

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<v Speaker 1>So I called you- In Byron. And I was freaked out,

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't I?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I was like, what the fuck is going on? Because, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you do testing and stuff like that, but you never

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<v Speaker 1>expect to find anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Doesn't, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So, anyway, I have, I kind of pushed it off

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<v Speaker 1>because I was like, it's going to be fine. And

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm breastfeeding, you know, like, I feel like everything's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of, you know, like, there's lots of, like, milk

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<v Speaker 1>flowing through there, like, whatever. And, like, you can get lumps,

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<v Speaker 1>you can get blocked ducts and things like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you get cysts?

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<v Speaker 2>You can get cysts.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can get lots of things like that because

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<v Speaker 1>of breastfeeding. And it was so interesting, like even seeing

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<v Speaker 1>my bloods, because I'm still breastfeeding, there was so many

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<v Speaker 1>things in my bloods that were just really off. And sometimes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you just like forget that breastfeeding actually has

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<v Speaker 1>such like a big impact on your body. Even my

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<v Speaker 1>fertility levels were at like a zero.

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<v Speaker 4>And I Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because I'm breastfeeding. I think when you're breastfeeding, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like quite hard to get pregnant. So it's interesting seeing

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<v Speaker 1>your bloods and like, you know, things that are a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit high or low or whatever. But, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's like knowledge is power. So it's good

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<v Speaker 1>to be on top of it.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I have.

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<v Speaker 1>My appointment with the doctor tomorrow and then I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to have to get a ultrasound on my breast. Hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>it's just something breastfeeding related.

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<v Speaker 3>Hopefully. I would assume it would be. On that, I

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<v Speaker 3>did say on the last episode or the episode before

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<v Speaker 3>that I've been waking up with headaches. And I had

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people message me. But one individual, one

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<v Speaker 3>lady did say that apparently when the seasons change, her

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<v Speaker 3>husband gets headaches as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Really?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never heard that.

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<v Speaker 3>And then sent me the, what do you call it?

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<v Speaker 3>Like the Googled thing about it. So I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe it must be more of a common thing. Because

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of other people said they've been getting it

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<v Speaker 3>as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, right.

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<v Speaker 3>And they're gone, by the way, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>What, the headaches?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been drinking six martinis a night and not getting any.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just a hangover, guys.

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<v Speaker 3>It felt like a hangover even when I hadn't been drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know what? Brittany Hockley posted something very interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>For anyone who suffers from migraines, which I have in

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<v Speaker 1>the past, I feel like getting Botox in my.

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<v Speaker 2>Jaw is like.

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<v Speaker 3>It's gotten rid of it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, when I clench my jaw, it then

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<v Speaker 1>transfers to my head and then it gives me a migraine.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, I'm I don't sense my jaw really unless I'm

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<v Speaker 3>on a photo shoot.

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<v Speaker 4>You're always sensing your jaw. What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just trying to get the right angles. My jaw

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<v Speaker 3>actually looks like this.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, my God. Stop looking at the screen in front

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<v Speaker 4>of me.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually got invited to the shop the other day,

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<v Speaker 3>to a shop opening.

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<v Speaker 2>I did see that.

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<v Speaker 3>Mate, that guy. I said when they invited, I said, look,

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<v Speaker 3>he's a puppy and he's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>How old is he?

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<v Speaker 3>18 months.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, right.

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<v Speaker 3>He is a puppy and.

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<v Speaker 2>He just- He's got that puppy energy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Golden retriever, like very cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Very cute, yeah. And he was the star. Everyone was

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<v Speaker 3>loving him there. Got my nails done. Do you like them?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I did notice your nails are done. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>a clear, shiny.

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<v Speaker 3>Shellac-y thing in the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it shellac?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what it is?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>You told me.

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<v Speaker 3>You said surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you go under a lamp?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that's going to stay on there for a

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<v Speaker 2>few weeks. It looks good. Don't get me wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually don't mind it.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually really like it. This could be like a

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<v Speaker 2>new thing.

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<v Speaker 3>For the guys. I think I'm going to bring it in.

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<v Speaker 1>So on his ring finger, you have, oh, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it looked like an M. Upside down, it looks like

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<v Speaker 1>an M, but it's the Adidas sign.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I might run my nails getting done more.

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<v Speaker 4>You should.

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<v Speaker 3>I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks good.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I'd go colored.

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<v Speaker 2>I like the clear with like a little sticker on.

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<v Speaker 3>It looks cool. I might keep getting it done. We

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<v Speaker 3>should go on nail dates.

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<v Speaker 2>We should.

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<v Speaker 1>You sometimes do come on nail dates and you just

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<v Speaker 1>sit in the massage chair and I get.

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<v Speaker 3>My nails done. Well, now I can get my nails done.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I can actually get them done with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Barley, who are you going with? What's happening?

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<v Speaker 3>Got a wedding. I'm MCing. I'm staying in a villa

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<v Speaker 3>with a bunch of my mates. I'm actually excited for this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm shocked that you haven't been writing your speech past

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<v Speaker 1>me because I haven't heard- I haven't written it.

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't written it. It just reminded me. Fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>It's next week, dude.

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<v Speaker 3>You know how I go into things.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's someone's wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I've got some lines.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my God.

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<v Speaker 3>We should probably get onto that, actually.

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<v Speaker 1>How wild is that to have an emcee that hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>written a speech a week out from your wedding?

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<v Speaker 2>I would be stressing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just going to go out there and feel the crowd.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? You know my style of life.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to feel the crowd, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you need to have direction.

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<v Speaker 1>I am.

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<v Speaker 3>The toilets are that way.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why me and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Work well on a podcast, because I'm like, we need purpose,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, I'm going to feel it out.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll see what I say. Well, I just said before,

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<v Speaker 3>I wrote no, no. I should stop admitting that I

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<v Speaker 3>come with no notes. I should stop admitting. I have

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<v Speaker 3>in my brain, even in the chat the other day,

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<v Speaker 3>I said I could find it somewhere on my phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I put it down there somewhere. I can't remember. Was

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<v Speaker 3>that type A, type B?

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<v Speaker 2>Your type, like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm type B, but I'm like, I sound, I look

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<v Speaker 1>like a type A next to you, but I'm actually

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<v Speaker 1>a type B.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm not full type.

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<v Speaker 3>Am I full type B? Depends.

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<v Speaker 2>You're definitely not type A.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not organized.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not. What were we saying at the wedding? Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>in Bali, I'm very excited.

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<v Speaker 2>If you need any help, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I might have to ask you some. I'm opening with, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Matt Zukowski.

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<v Speaker 2>We know. You said it on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all I've got. That's all I've got. And I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's Troy McClure. I think it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're starting strong, you need to have moments of

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<v Speaker 1>real funny lines.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be all right. I've got this. I've got this.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you giving yourself a drinks limit if you're an emcee?

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I wasn't thinking about anything like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you don't want to get too wasted.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to drink bing tangs though.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not drinking bing tangs.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to drink bing tangs.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you will. I love a bing tang.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what? Something that Michael and I were talking.

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<v Speaker 1>About the other day, we love going to a country

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<v Speaker 1>and having the local beer. Well.

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<v Speaker 2>There is nothing better.

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<v Speaker 3>Call me old fashioned, Anna, but when I get a cuisine,

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<v Speaker 3>I get the beer to match.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, nice.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that. So if I get like Chinese, I'll

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<v Speaker 3>get a tingsheng. If I get Italian, I'll get a peroni.

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<v Speaker 3>And so on.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the Japanese beer in Asahi?

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<v Speaker 1>Asahi.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, they're good.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what was great in Byron? Stone and Wood.

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<v Speaker 3>I love Stone and Wood. Oh, so good. Did we go,

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<v Speaker 3>we went to, no, we were going to go to

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<v Speaker 3>the brewery?

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<v Speaker 1>No. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember we went to that random concert in that, where

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<v Speaker 3>the brewery is? Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And we have never, okay, Matt and I went to

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<v Speaker 1>this random concert.

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<v Speaker 2>It was at a bookstore library.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was, no, I remember it being like a, No. It

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<v Speaker 3>was in a factory.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it looked like a cafe, but it was a library.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like a Byron, cool, like hippie. It was

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<v Speaker 2>very cool.

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<v Speaker 3>What was it?

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<v Speaker 2>This is the thing. This is the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Why were we there?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I can talk about this now because

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<v Speaker 1>like the person who this is about like isn't going

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<v Speaker 1>to listen now because it's like too far gone.

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<v Speaker 2>Like there's too much time spread.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like we have so many stories, but

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<v Speaker 1>I need to give them a bit of time.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think we were all drinking. Matt was with

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<v Speaker 2>his ex. I was with Michael.

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<v Speaker 1>The four of us were, like, drinking somewhere. We were

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<v Speaker 1>pretty drunk. And then we went to this random, like,

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<v Speaker 1>library cafe thing, right?

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<v Speaker 4>Why did we go there?

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<v Speaker 3>How did we find out about it?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was a friend of a friend had

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<v Speaker 1>told us. And it was, like, a really cool. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was, like, everyone was local. And everyone was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think there was like some people stoned there and

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<v Speaker 1>like people were drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we were wasted. There was heaps of people drunk.

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<v Speaker 4>When I say wasted, I just mean drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>Like full Byron.

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<v Speaker 3>Full Byron.

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<v Speaker 1>But the guy, there was, and then there was a

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<v Speaker 1>guy in the corner of the room playing guitar, singing,

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<v Speaker 1>amazing voice, incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it like gives you chills.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually don't know where this story is going. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't remember much, but I actually don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Michael and I talk about this, like we've spoken about

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<v Speaker 2>it like often.

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<v Speaker 3>What? I don't remember what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that funny. I just think it's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>The guy was like, because Michael used to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the lead singer of a band once upon a time.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically what happened was this guy was singing and And

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<v Speaker 1>he was looking at me dead in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Eyes and not breaking eye contact with me.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was going somewhere else. Thank God it

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<v Speaker 3>went that way.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And then, like, I would, like, look over at Michael.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Michael after was like.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I've done that once before.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, just looking at, like, the same girl in the

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<v Speaker 1>crowd the whole night because.

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<v Speaker 2>He could tell the guy was just staring at me

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<v Speaker 2>in the eyes.

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<v Speaker 4>It was actually pretty uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, he wasn't hot as a guy?

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't about hot. Like, with Michael, he's, like, singing

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<v Speaker 2>to a group of people and he was looking at

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<v Speaker 2>me dead in the eye.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you guys went front road, you know? You guys, like,

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<v Speaker 3>walked right up.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no.

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<v Speaker 2>We were all standing at the back.

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<v Speaker 3>I have no memory of this. Like, the surroundings, but

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<v Speaker 3>I don't... It was raining?

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<v Speaker 2>It was, like, raining, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I remember it raining, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And there was, like, a veranda around.

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<v Speaker 3>We left early.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And you guys stayed.

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<v Speaker 2>We stayed, yeah. But, like, this guy was, like, giving

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<v Speaker 2>me serious eye contact.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And, like, I was, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Why.

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<v Speaker 3>Wasn't he looking at me?

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<v Speaker 2>Where was this going? I love it how you make

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<v Speaker 2>it about you.

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<v Speaker 4>Why wasn't he looking at me?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's a talent. Trust me, it's a talent.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, we have loved receiving your feedback about our headline episode,

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<v Speaker 1>our second episode that we do, and the feedback about

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<v Speaker 1>how people think maybe it's a bit short, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>what we're kind of trying to work out is do

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<v Speaker 1>we want to get rid of the headline episode? Do

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<v Speaker 1>we want a hotline episode? So let's continue chatting because

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<v Speaker 1>we love getting your feedback. It's honestly so good for

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<v Speaker 1>us hearing what you guys want to listen to.

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<v Speaker 3>We do it for you.

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<v Speaker 2>We do it for you. So yeah, let us know.

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<v Speaker 1>We also have a new fun game that we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to play today. It's called the Blue and Pink Game

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<v Speaker 1>or the Pink and Blue Game. And basically it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Just because we get so.

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<v Speaker 1>Many of you guys reaching out, we thought that it

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<v Speaker 1>would be fun to kind of incorporate one of the

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<v Speaker 1>messages that we've received into this game.

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<v Speaker 3>And what we give the opinion, if it's blue, the

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<v Speaker 3>guy's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Or if it's pink, the girl's right. So basically we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to hear out the listener.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to read it out.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'm going to say pink if I agree

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<v Speaker 1>with the girl or blue if I agree with the guy.

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<v Speaker 3>And you're going to do the same thing i'm probably

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<v Speaker 3>just going to say pink girls are always.

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<v Speaker 1>Right no but we have to be honest because it's

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<v Speaker 1>a male female perspective so of.

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<v Speaker 3>Course and i bring nothing but honesty to this podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay should we jump in go ask this question okay.

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<v Speaker 1>My boyfriend says he needs a night out with his

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<v Speaker 1>friends every single weekend. I think once in a while

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, but every weekend it feels like too much.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's being unreasonable?

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<v Speaker 3>So every weekend he wants a boys night.

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<v Speaker 2>I think pink. Like, I think she's right. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think he needs a weekend out every night. Who do

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<v Speaker 2>you think's right?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Pink or blue, first and foremost.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, obviously I think pink.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't need to go out every.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely thought you were going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Say blue there. That's what I'm trying to say. I

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<v Speaker 3>love going to the pub with my mates and having

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<v Speaker 3>a beer.

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<v Speaker 2>But every weekend?

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<v Speaker 3>If I could, I would.

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<v Speaker 2>So then you should say blue.

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<v Speaker 3>But then again, if you love someone and you're with

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<v Speaker 3>a partner, there's nothing better than watching a movie and

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<v Speaker 3>having a pizza with them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It depends what stage in your.

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<v Speaker 1>Life you're at. I feel like you're trying to say pink,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like you deep down want to say blue.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think you should just say it.

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<v Speaker 4>Purple.

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<v Speaker 3>We can't do that. Okay, blue. I love going to

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<v Speaker 3>the pub with my mates and having a drink and

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<v Speaker 3>watching the footy. Do I need to do it every week?

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<v Speaker 3>Probably for my health, I shouldn't. I should have a

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<v Speaker 3>week off. Maybe bros should as well. But yeah. There

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<v Speaker 3>is nothing better than hanging out with someone you love, though.

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<v Speaker 3>Your girlfriend and eating and watching pizza and, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I do love that, but I love getting time with

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<v Speaker 3>the boys at the pub. Can he bring his girlfriend? No,

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<v Speaker 3>you can't really bring your girlfriend to the pub, can you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, of course you can bring your girlfriend to the pub.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's boys' time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but from what he's saying, it's boys strictly time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if everyone hangs out together, I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>like the optimal situation.

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<v Speaker 3>It depends. Some girlfriends don't get along with the guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Like we're very lucky in our group. A couple of

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<v Speaker 3>the girlfriends are like one of the boys. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And they'll come. They'll be fine. They get it. But some,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, firsthand, a lot of my exes, they couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>be there. They don't get it. Yeah. Do you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that in the stage of life that I'm in,

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<v Speaker 1>If Michael wanted to go out with the boys every weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that that's maybe a bit much. In saying that,

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<v Speaker 1>if Michael has ever said to me, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with the boys, I'm like, absolutely go for it. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>have you time. If Michael's like, I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the gym, I'm like, absolutely go for it. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think like it's a bit different when like one

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<v Speaker 1>person has to like look after the baby on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course.

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<v Speaker 1>As opposed to like having quality family time together. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>I love hanging out with our friends all together. And like,

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<v Speaker 1>if he wants to go hang out with the boys,

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<v Speaker 1>like every second weekend or something, I'm like, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, if let's be, if you're mature about it, you

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<v Speaker 3>can go to the pub and have a beer and

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<v Speaker 3>have a Palmer and watch the game and go home.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have to have a blowout. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have someone waiting at me for me, a kid

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<v Speaker 3>or family waiting for me at home. So if I

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<v Speaker 3>choose to choose to have a blowout, that's my own,

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<v Speaker 3>my provocative. Do you know what I mean? But if

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<v Speaker 3>you have a partner or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you say my provocative?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Prerogative. Prerogative. I don't even know that word. What

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<v Speaker 3>does that word mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Prerogative.

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<v Speaker 3>Prerogative.

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<v Speaker 4>That's, like, my choice.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's my choice. Yeah. And if I had a

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<v Speaker 3>partner at home, I would definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a tricky one, isn't it? Because, like, immediately

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<v Speaker 1>you go to, like, be on her side. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think I definitely am, but, like, I think.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I think I'm on her side.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think, like, everyone should.

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<v Speaker 1>Just do what they want to do. But, like, if

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<v Speaker 1>you have responsibilities... Like, you know, looking after kids, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you also do need to, like, take that into consideration

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<v Speaker 1>as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course. And I'm 100% behind that. But if you're, if,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, if you can go and just have a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of beers and not blow out, go do that.

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<v Speaker 3>But if not, and you know what? Nobody wants their

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<v Speaker 3>mid-sode of cavum on a leash, do they? And, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>tell them what to do. You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>And be like a real fucking, that's... The thing is,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't believe in.

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<v Speaker 2>People being on a leash. I think if you're like

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<v Speaker 2>partners with someone.

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<v Speaker 3>You'd hate to see my bedroom then.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my God, Matt. It's all too much.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I actually don't like buy into that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like he's on a leash. I feel like you should

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<v Speaker 2>be like, you're a partnership.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>Like someone's like, should never be telling one person to do,

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<v Speaker 1>someone shouldn't be getting told off 24 seven.

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<v Speaker 2>It should be like, you're like living a joint, you know, life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Where like everyone inputs. On a leash seems so like.

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<v Speaker 4>You're so creepy. What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Call me a good boy.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't.

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<v Speaker 2>You're freaking me out.

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<v Speaker 1>Ew.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're going what?

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<v Speaker 2>We're going pink.

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<v Speaker 3>Pink. Done.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Matt, what would you do?

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<v Speaker 1>You find out your partner has been messaging their ex.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing physical has happened, but they've been hiding the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>from you. Do you confront them and give them a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to explain or is the fact they hit it

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<v Speaker 1>enough for you to walk away?

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<v Speaker 3>What's the expression? Kanye says it in one of his songs.

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<v Speaker 3>Deception is the only felony or something. Kanye says that.

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<v Speaker 3>Because they're hiding it from you. So like if you

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<v Speaker 3>do that stuff, don't hide it from me. Tell me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you have to be honest.

0:25:06.290 --> 0:25:07.090
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you have to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you want to talk to a person on

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<v Speaker 1>the planet, you should be telling your partner. Like I

0:25:12.510 --> 0:25:15.010
<v Speaker 1>think transparency is key. And you know, some people will

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<v Speaker 1>be like, yeah, no worries. Like go have a chat

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<v Speaker 1>or talk to them about this. I think like if

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<v Speaker 1>you're hiding it, then it almost feels like there's something

0:25:24.570 --> 0:25:28.010
<v Speaker 1>still there for that person or you're still keeping a

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<v Speaker 1>door half cracked.

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<v Speaker 3>If you hide something from your partner, it means you're

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<v Speaker 3>doing something wrong and you feel guilty. You are doing

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<v Speaker 3>something wrong. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree.

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<v Speaker 3>End of story. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>A hundred percent. So I think like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Walk away or actually, you know what? Hmm.

0:25:42.770 --> 0:25:45.609
<v Speaker 1>I think you can have a conversation about it. I

0:25:45.650 --> 0:25:49.780
<v Speaker 1>think it's something that a conversation can definitely sort out.

0:25:49.859 --> 0:25:52.440
<v Speaker 1>I think especially if like, obviously if they're like meeting

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<v Speaker 1>up behind your back, I personally would take that a

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<v Speaker 1>lot differently to if I saw messages.

0:25:58.300 --> 0:25:59.919
<v Speaker 3>Also.

0:25:59.980 --> 0:26:02.159
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it's like the disloyalty thing is like the

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<v Speaker 2>real kicker.

0:26:03.040 --> 0:26:06.419
<v Speaker 3>And how they handle it will show their maturity and

0:26:06.440 --> 0:26:07.680
<v Speaker 3>will show you if you want to stay or not.

0:26:07.859 --> 0:26:10.360
<v Speaker 1>But then it's just like that thing of like, Now

0:26:10.400 --> 0:26:12.399
<v Speaker 1>you've not told me about this. What else aren't you

0:26:12.420 --> 0:26:14.290
<v Speaker 1>telling me about? And I feel like sometimes that's how

0:26:14.330 --> 0:26:17.929
<v Speaker 1>relationships truly go downhill because the moment that there's one

0:26:17.990 --> 0:26:23.450
<v Speaker 1>little thing, then the partner who feels like lied to

0:26:23.770 --> 0:26:26.250
<v Speaker 1>becomes a little bit more overbearing or might check the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and then the other person gets more defensive and

0:26:29.190 --> 0:26:30.830
<v Speaker 1>then it just becomes this conflict.

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<v Speaker 3>And they might hide other things that they think they're

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<v Speaker 3>going to get in trouble for, but it's harmless.

0:26:34.230 --> 0:26:34.490
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And, but then it's just like, it's just this conflict

0:26:36.410 --> 0:26:39.390
<v Speaker 1>that feels deeply unnecessary, which is why I just feel

0:26:39.430 --> 0:26:42.710
<v Speaker 1>like honesty is always the best policy. When we had

0:26:42.750 --> 0:26:45.359
<v Speaker 1>that lie detector guy on the podcast and he was

0:26:45.380 --> 0:26:49.200
<v Speaker 1>saying people lie on average 40 times a day, even

0:26:49.220 --> 0:26:52.060
<v Speaker 1>if it's white lies or like, you know, like veering.

0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:53.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm really not surprised by that.

0:26:53.740 --> 0:26:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm so surprised by that. I cannot believe that.

0:26:58.680 --> 0:27:01.419
<v Speaker 3>An average person lies 40 times a day. I don't.

0:27:01.820 --> 0:27:02.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't lie.

0:27:02.580 --> 0:27:04.240
<v Speaker 2>Literally, you ask them.

0:27:04.119 --> 0:27:06.220
<v Speaker 3>How they are and they say, good. That's a lie.

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:07.359
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay.

0:27:07.480 --> 0:27:09.739
<v Speaker 1>I get how that's a lie. That's like number one.

0:27:09.780 --> 0:27:11.740
<v Speaker 1>But like, I feel like I'm not lying more than

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<v Speaker 1>doing one of those at least like five times a

0:27:14.820 --> 0:27:15.760
<v Speaker 1>day is probably max.

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<v Speaker 3>I get asked multiple times a day, how are you?

0:27:17.940 --> 0:27:18.660
<v Speaker 3>And I'll say, yeah, good, man.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you're lying a lot more than you're bringing

0:27:21.900 --> 0:27:24.550
<v Speaker 1>the average up. But I don't think they're meaning like that.

0:27:24.630 --> 0:27:25.550
<v Speaker 1>I think it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>True. You know, I don't know. What's a lie that

0:27:28.770 --> 0:27:29.869
<v Speaker 2>people would often tell?

0:27:29.890 --> 0:27:31.910
<v Speaker 4>I can't even think of a lie.

0:27:31.930 --> 0:27:33.710
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to think of that one today. I've done.

0:27:33.730 --> 0:27:35.379
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I've lied today.

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<v Speaker 3>You look to the right.

0:27:36.720 --> 0:27:38.700
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, I realized I looked to the right and

0:27:38.720 --> 0:27:40.440
<v Speaker 1>then I was like, what am I lying about?

0:27:40.460 --> 0:27:43.899
<v Speaker 3>No, right's memories. Is it? Yeah. Left is making him up.

0:27:44.820 --> 0:27:45.280
<v Speaker 3>I listened.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that left. Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

0:27:47.960 --> 0:27:48.899
<v Speaker 3>Left is imagination.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>That's doing like left eye, right eye.

0:27:52.450 --> 0:27:55.540
<v Speaker 3>That's imagination. Right is a memory.

0:27:55.820 --> 0:27:56.100
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:27:56.119 --> 0:27:59.340
<v Speaker 1>Should we play a little game that's going very viral

0:27:59.400 --> 0:28:00.060
<v Speaker 1>at the moment?

0:28:00.100 --> 0:28:01.100
<v Speaker 4>It's a bit of fun.

0:28:01.119 --> 0:28:06.510
<v Speaker 1>Basically, I'm going to pick a number. Matt's going to

0:28:06.530 --> 0:28:09.310
<v Speaker 1>pick a number. And it's the person who can guess

0:28:09.330 --> 0:28:12.669
<v Speaker 1>first what that number is wins. We're not going to

0:28:12.770 --> 0:28:14.850
<v Speaker 1>show them. We're just going to have them on our phone.

0:28:15.310 --> 0:28:18.500
<v Speaker 1>And then they'll just be on the screen. Then go

0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:22.040
<v Speaker 1>into that soundproof room because the audio's on out there.

0:28:22.060 --> 0:28:26.800
<v Speaker 3>Okay, guys. I'm in here now. I'm watching Anna in

0:28:26.820 --> 0:28:35.580
<v Speaker 3>the soundproof studio. I'm tossing up between the numbers 67, 69,

0:28:35.580 --> 0:28:39.320
<v Speaker 3>and 99. I think if I say 69, she'll guess

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:42.680
<v Speaker 3>too quickly because that's too obvious. So I'm going to

0:28:42.700 --> 0:28:44.830
<v Speaker 3>go with 99 because it's between 1 and 100. Or

0:28:45.050 --> 0:28:48.070
<v Speaker 3>do I go with number 1? Hey, I'm still talking

0:28:48.090 --> 0:28:54.460
<v Speaker 3>to everyone. Just wait. That's so funny. All right, so

0:28:54.480 --> 0:28:57.700
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to go with 99 for fun. All right,

0:28:57.720 --> 0:28:59.560
<v Speaker 3>let's do that. All right, you can come here, Nana.

0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:03.180
<v Speaker 2>Okay, don't prank me. Like you have to have a number.

0:29:03.220 --> 0:29:05.660
<v Speaker 3>I have a number. I was tossing up between a couple.

0:29:05.680 --> 0:29:07.770
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm going to write this down on my phone

0:29:07.790 --> 0:29:08.570
<v Speaker 2>because I feel like I need to.

0:29:08.570 --> 0:29:09.270
<v Speaker 3>I've written mine down.

0:29:09.690 --> 0:29:10.190
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:29:10.590 --> 0:29:11.270
<v Speaker 3>I'll go first.

0:29:11.490 --> 0:29:11.810
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:29:12.110 --> 0:29:15.950
<v Speaker 3>If I brought this age home, would my family be

0:29:16.010 --> 0:29:16.600
<v Speaker 3>okay with it?

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:17.840
<v Speaker 2>No.

0:29:20.570 --> 0:29:22.590
<v Speaker 3>Blake's just left the house.

0:29:24.110 --> 0:29:24.450
<v Speaker 2>That's it.

0:29:24.970 --> 0:29:27.970
<v Speaker 1>If I had this many drinks on a night out,

0:29:29.010 --> 0:29:31.960
<v Speaker 1>would I be alive? Rip.

0:29:32.420 --> 0:29:35.960
<v Speaker 3>You'd be dead. R.I.P. Yeah. If I had this many

0:29:35.980 --> 0:29:37.860
<v Speaker 3>drinks on a night out, would I be alive?

0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:37.940
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:29:38.440 --> 0:29:38.620
<v Speaker 4>No.

0:29:41.200 --> 0:29:42.060
<v Speaker 3>Think about that, though.

0:29:42.300 --> 0:29:43.260
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:29:43.740 --> 0:29:44.540
<v Speaker 3>I do drink a lot.

0:29:44.820 --> 0:29:48.420
<v Speaker 1>If this was my body count, would Michael be happy?

0:29:48.440 --> 0:29:51.390
<v Speaker 3>I feel like Michael wouldn't care either way, but no.

0:29:51.750 --> 0:29:52.190
<v Speaker 3>But no.

0:29:52.210 --> 0:29:52.270
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:29:56.000 --> 0:29:57.300
<v Speaker 2>I don't know why I asked that.

0:29:57.320 --> 0:29:59.660
<v Speaker 4>Like, it didn't get me any further along. Okay, go.

0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:01.960
<v Speaker 3>The same for me. If I had this body count,

0:30:01.980 --> 0:30:03.180
<v Speaker 3>would my partner be okay?

0:30:03.580 --> 0:30:03.880
<v Speaker 4>No.

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:06.660
<v Speaker 1>What?

0:30:06.680 --> 0:30:10.420
<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's confusing. It's between one and a hundred, yeah?

0:30:10.460 --> 0:30:11.570
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:30:11.590 --> 0:30:12.370
<v Speaker 2>So what was the question?

0:30:12.930 --> 0:30:15.510
<v Speaker 3>If I had this body count, would my partner be angry?

0:30:15.950 --> 0:30:19.210
<v Speaker 2>Yes. All right.

0:30:19.410 --> 0:30:20.050
<v Speaker 4>Okay, my turn.

0:30:20.430 --> 0:30:21.390
<v Speaker 2>Is mine over 50?

0:30:21.390 --> 0:30:21.490
<v Speaker 1>Yes.

0:30:26.110 --> 0:30:29.550
<v Speaker 3>Do we ask those questions though? Yeah, just one. Is

0:30:29.590 --> 0:30:30.990
<v Speaker 3>mine 99?

0:30:30.990 --> 0:30:31.150
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:30:31.350 --> 0:30:34.910
<v Speaker 4>Damn it. That was so dumb.

0:30:35.790 --> 0:30:38.520
<v Speaker 2>Am I capable of having this many sour straps?

0:30:39.020 --> 0:30:39.600
<v Speaker 3>At once?

0:30:39.620 --> 0:30:39.700
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:30:40.700 --> 0:30:40.980
<v Speaker 3>No.

0:30:41.000 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay. I love sour straps.

0:30:42.980 --> 0:30:48.780
<v Speaker 3>Do you? Could I have this many coffees a day? No. No.

0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:54.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm obviously higher than 50. Okay. I'm obviously not.

0:30:54.900 --> 0:30:57.180
<v Speaker 2>Have I had Botox this many times in my life?

0:30:57.500 --> 0:30:57.720
<v Speaker 3>Yes.

0:30:58.140 --> 0:30:59.219
<v Speaker 2>More than 50?

0:30:59.220 --> 0:30:59.620
<v Speaker 3>Probably.

0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:01.100
<v Speaker 4>Jesus, no.

0:31:01.320 --> 0:31:04.220
<v Speaker 3>How many times do you get Botox? Months and months?

0:31:04.810 --> 0:31:08.550
<v Speaker 2>No. Like once every six to eight months.

0:31:08.650 --> 0:31:11.930
<v Speaker 3>Then no, no, no. When did you start getting it?

0:31:12.370 --> 0:31:13.170
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, dude.

0:31:14.050 --> 0:31:15.330
<v Speaker 4>Three years ago, four, five.

0:31:15.350 --> 0:31:17.490
<v Speaker 3>No, definitely not then, no. If this many people came

0:31:17.530 --> 0:31:20.630
<v Speaker 3>back to the afters, would I be happy?

0:31:21.120 --> 0:31:21.580
<v Speaker 2>Yes, absolutely.

0:31:23.110 --> 0:31:28.010
<v Speaker 3>You know, being in the middle. More fun. This doesn't

0:31:28.050 --> 0:31:28.670
<v Speaker 3>help me at all.

0:31:28.890 --> 0:31:29.209
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know.

0:31:29.230 --> 0:31:31.330
<v Speaker 1>These questions aren't helping me. I need to like narrow

0:31:31.370 --> 0:31:33.470
<v Speaker 1>it down. Am I above 65?

0:31:33.470 --> 0:31:33.690
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:31:34.010 --> 0:31:34.250
<v Speaker 1>Fuck.

0:31:34.890 --> 0:31:37.020
<v Speaker 3>Am I above 6'7?

0:31:37.420 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 4>Yes.

0:31:39.540 --> 0:31:39.830
<v Speaker 2>Am I 6'7?

0:31:39.820 --> 0:31:39.960
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:31:40.080 --> 0:31:42.100
<v Speaker 2>That was one of my short answers.

0:31:42.140 --> 0:31:42.450
<v Speaker 4>Am I 69?

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:42.660
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:31:42.720 --> 0:31:44.060
<v Speaker 3>You are such a child. Fuck, I have no idea

0:31:44.080 --> 0:31:44.400
<v Speaker 3>what I am, hey?

0:31:52.140 --> 0:31:54.180
<v Speaker 2>Would you be happy if I lived to this number?

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:54.959
<v Speaker 3>Yes.

0:31:56.640 --> 0:31:57.100
<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay.

0:31:57.380 --> 0:31:57.979
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I would be.

0:31:58.000 --> 0:31:58.680
<v Speaker 4>Okay.

0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:00.500
<v Speaker 3>Would you be happy if I lived to that number?

0:32:00.540 --> 0:32:02.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Am I 99?

0:32:02.640 --> 0:32:03.040
<v Speaker 3>Yes, you are.

0:32:03.100 --> 0:32:07.610
<v Speaker 2>Do you want one more chance?

0:32:08.530 --> 0:32:10.910
<v Speaker 3>Am I 80? Yes!

0:32:10.930 --> 0:32:14.930
<v Speaker 4>No way! Good job. Yeah.

0:32:21.310 --> 0:32:22.010
<v Speaker 3>I mean, she was... 88.

0:32:22.010 --> 0:32:22.150
<v Speaker 1>88.

0:32:22.150 --> 0:32:24.570
<v Speaker 3>I knew it was going to be a double number.

0:32:25.070 --> 0:32:26.080
<v Speaker 3>I was tossing up between 6, 7, 69.

0:32:26.070 --> 0:32:29.170
<v Speaker 1>It's the number of money and power.

0:32:29.190 --> 0:32:32.040
<v Speaker 3>There you go. That's me. I believe I actually guessed

0:32:32.080 --> 0:32:32.920
<v Speaker 3>it and you did as well.

0:32:32.940 --> 0:32:34.600
<v Speaker 4>There you go. Okay, guys.

0:32:34.640 --> 0:32:38.920
<v Speaker 2>That is all we have time for. Until next time.

0:32:39.120 --> 0:32:39.480
<v Speaker 3>See you.

0:32:39.540 --> 0:32:40.000
<v Speaker 2>Bye, guys.

0:32:40.040 --> 0:32:40.120
<v Speaker 1>Bye.