WEBVTT - BREAKING: Stella And Filip Have Split... And It's Already Messy

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome back to the Maths Funny Podcast, Say

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<v Speaker 1>Second Podcast today. And I have some urgent breaking news

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody right now, which I've just seen like literal

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<v Speaker 1>seconds ago, and I thought I must record. But Philip

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<v Speaker 1>and Stella have broken up, apparently according to The Daily Mail,

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<v Speaker 1>who say they have quietly called time on their romance,

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<v Speaker 1>just weak shy of their one year anniversary of marrying.

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<v Speaker 1>The fan favorites have even unfollowed each other an Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>with insiders confirming their relationship ended several weeks ago. According

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<v Speaker 1>to a source close to the couple, it was Philip

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<v Speaker 1>who ultimately made the difficult decision to end a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>with the source saying it was ultimately Philip who decided

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<v Speaker 1>to you've just said that who decided to end things.

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<v Speaker 1>He'd been wrestling with it for a while and eventually

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<v Speaker 1>realized they just weren't on the same page about what

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<v Speaker 1>they wanted out of life, which to me is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of baffling to read, because well, they were, weren't they

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<v Speaker 1>from what we watched, and they both seen lovely and

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<v Speaker 1>compatible and even following them on social media since the show,

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<v Speaker 1>they've seen like things were going strong and well and

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<v Speaker 1>then the article goes on to say there was no

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<v Speaker 1>dramatic blow up, but the source said differences over their

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<v Speaker 1>future gradually became impossible. And now I'm like, and not

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<v Speaker 1>to be nosy, but I am nosy, But what were

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<v Speaker 1>the differences? I need to know? Please? There wasn't some

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<v Speaker 1>huge explosive fight. It was more of a slow realization

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<v Speaker 1>that they were heading in different directions. The source continued, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Daily Mail understands finances became one of several issues placing

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<v Speaker 1>straight in the relationship. Money wasn't the only issue, but

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<v Speaker 1>it definitely became a sticking point. Stella has always been

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<v Speaker 1>very ambitious and wanted someone who could provide the lifestyle

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<v Speaker 1>that she was looking for. Here we go, Yep, that's

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<v Speaker 1>inside claiming that she wanted a partner who could really

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<v Speaker 1>support her financially and she didn't feel fill it within

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<v Speaker 1>that position. And I'm literally reading this in real time

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<v Speaker 1>and trying to process that because to me, that feels weird,

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<v Speaker 1>and it feels like this narrative has now set that

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<v Speaker 1>Stella what is superficial and perhaps just one in men

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<v Speaker 1>for money, And like, I don't know, that doesn't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the Stella we watched and have been following on

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<v Speaker 1>social since. And then do you remember what I say

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<v Speaker 1>on this podcast all the time that when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to media articles and sources and insiders, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>always question that, well, who could this sauce bee, where

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<v Speaker 1>could this come from? And it feels like, well, this

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<v Speaker 1>has obviously this story now has obviously come from Phillip's

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<v Speaker 1>side of things. I'm not suggesting it is from Philip,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's definitely come from someone on his side. A continues, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the pair were last thing together in May, spending a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of time apart in recent months off there. A

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<v Speaker 1>few people have known star actually people had even asked me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just assumed I were. Well. People around them

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<v Speaker 1>had noticed the difference for a little while, with Philip

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<v Speaker 1>based in Melbourne for work and Stella spending more time

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<v Speaker 1>with friends in Sydney, they were living quite separate. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought they just moved into a place a few months

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<v Speaker 1>ago in Sydney together. And then the article and saying

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<v Speaker 1>Stella is absolutely heartbroken. I mean, yeah, I'd be heartbroken

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<v Speaker 1>toon not if I just got dumb by someone. But

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<v Speaker 1>then the presser alluding it's because what I'm a gold

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<v Speaker 1>digger essentially, I just wanted his cash, which just feels nah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that. Yeah, this feels icky, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>reading it and I'm just like, uh, maybe I regret

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<v Speaker 1>doing this breaking news pod. I'll still post it, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Stella appeared to publicly acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>to break up for the first time in a lengthy

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<v Speaker 1>and emotional Instagram post on Monday, in which she admitted

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<v Speaker 1>she had made mistakes during the relationship. Wait, how am

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<v Speaker 1>I so out of the loop and everything? Let me

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<v Speaker 1>go Stella's Instagram Oh yeah, big caption of Stella sat

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<v Speaker 1>on the beach looking into the distance. It would be

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<v Speaker 1>easy to tell this story by deciding who was right

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<v Speaker 1>and who was wrong, to point fingers to protect my ego,

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<v Speaker 1>to pretend I was, Oh, this is giving chat GPT distraction,

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<v Speaker 1>But no, I'm not here for that. Far from it.

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<v Speaker 1>I made mistakes, I have regrets, and while those truths

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<v Speaker 1>are painful to sit with, there were also incredible gifts.

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<v Speaker 1>But only if we choose to receive them that way,

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<v Speaker 1>only if we meet them with humility and a deep,

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<v Speaker 1>honest look within ourselves. This past week, I went to

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<v Speaker 1>the depths of it, and I have a feeling, and

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<v Speaker 1>I have a feeling. The roller coaster isn't quite over yet.

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<v Speaker 1>There are still feelings to be felt. Life was a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful way of teaching us, sometimes gently, and sometimes when

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<v Speaker 1>we miss the gentle lessons, life delivers one that's heartbreakingly loud.

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<v Speaker 1>This one was loud. Boy, it was loud. Without this experience,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably would have continued believing that my urgency, my directness,

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<v Speaker 1>my need to know, my constant drive forward were simply

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<v Speaker 1>signs of ambition, that they were motivation, and that they

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<v Speaker 1>were strengths. And in many ways they are. They've helped

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<v Speaker 1>me build a life I'm incredibly proud of. But this

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<v Speaker 1>relationship quietly revealed something I couldn't see before, something sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>sitting quietly beside that ambition, fear of uncertainty, fear that

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<v Speaker 1>the future I dreamed of might somehow slip through my fingers.

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<v Speaker 1>Fear has a remarkable way of disguising itself. Sometimes it

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<v Speaker 1>looks like ambitions. Sometimes it looks like high standards. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it hides behind being driven. Sometimes it even convinces us

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<v Speaker 1>that we're simply trying to love well. But when fear

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<v Speaker 1>quietly takes the wheel, the people that we love don't

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<v Speaker 1>always experience our intentions. Sometimes they experience pressure, sometimes they

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<v Speaker 1>experience control. Sometimes they experience someone who is so focused

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<v Speaker 1>on tomorrow they alter that they unintentionally missed the beauty

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<v Speaker 1>of today. This has been one of the hardest mirrors

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever had to look into, not because it fills

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<v Speaker 1>me with shame. Love isn't only about having a good heart.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about the impact we leave on the heart. Standing

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<v Speaker 1>opposite adds that is a lesson I'll carry with me out. Fuck, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all happening today. My takeaway from that is like

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<v Speaker 1>Stella maybe pushed them away in some way which stems

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<v Speaker 1>from like a fear and abandoned issue, maybe attachment style stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's reflective of that. I'm realizing that I I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really like the other stuff about she just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>his money. Yeah, I mean, that's probably it for this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'll go try to figure things out myself and

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<v Speaker 1>actually read this again properly. But wow, that was unexpected. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked them too as a couple, I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I never really met them. I've briefly spoke

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<v Speaker 1>to Stella online, like very briefly, and I thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was lovely. I thought her recent like thoughts reading the

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<v Speaker 1>rip surgery and that very articulated, quite grounded and had

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<v Speaker 1>a great perspective. So yeah, this surprises me and like

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<v Speaker 1>saddens me in a way, which is funny because in

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<v Speaker 1>that last episode I was like, I'm so joyous today.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I feel sad. Say up.