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Speaker 1: It's seven being fat, It's Nanny bad greet.

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Speaker 1: Hello, just for a Girl's Girls Guide, Okay American, I know,

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Speaker 1: I'm really like just itching to be back there.

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Speaker 1: Like more fun.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, on this week's episode, our Girl's Guide is about boys.

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Speaker 1: Just the thing we love to talk about all the fucking.

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Speaker 2: Guy We're like, why not just make it into an

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Speaker 2: episode and just talk a little bit about men men,

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Speaker 2: But today we are describing our type in men, like

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Speaker 2: what we look for looks wise, personality wise, like kind

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Speaker 2: of narrowing it down, and like what we're looking for,

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Speaker 2: and then future prospects of like on a first date,

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Speaker 2: what we kind of like from a guy, what we

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Speaker 2: like that they do, things that we.

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Speaker 1: Look for red flags. Maybe just kind of like narrow

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Speaker 1: it down and to have like a clear line as

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Speaker 1: to what we're looking for in the future. Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: is helpful to you guys listening, and this is helpful

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Speaker 1: for me for you because I feel like I'm your

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Speaker 1: wingwoman and I really try to help you out. But

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Speaker 1: every time I like, approach a guy for you, You're like,

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Speaker 1: not my type. I'm like, maybe you need to expand

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Speaker 1: your horizons first.

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Speaker 2: Of all, completely firstly, but we do have a very

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Speaker 2: similar type. I think it's similar physical type. Yes, there

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Speaker 2: difference in type. Yes, but they are they can be

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Speaker 2: similar sometimes. So basically, Sam, if you bring me a

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Speaker 2: boy that you yourself would not be interested in, probably would yeah,

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Speaker 1: Because sometimes there is like usually there's a bit of

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Speaker 1: want to like Okay. For example, the other night, this

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Speaker 1: like easy, like I want to get her attention, like

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Speaker 1: you're her best friend. And I was like, lots to Instagram.

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Speaker 1: I'll send her your profile.

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Speaker 2: She guys ten out of ten for you.

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Speaker 1: I messaged her out. I'm like, there's ten out of ten,

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Speaker 1: send you his profile. I made sure I checked his

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Speaker 2: He was so lovely.

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Speaker 1: I was like yeah, this is the guy for Easy,

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Speaker 1: and he goes, Nah.

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Speaker 2: He wasn't physically my type and he wasn't yours either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what he looks like any I

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Speaker 2: Well, generally everything comes with personality. Like it's like I

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Speaker 1: Really matter, yes, yeah, but Easy and I have like

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Speaker 1: will like send her like this hot guy on TikTok

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Speaker 1: and she's like, yeah, yeah, that's the one. They're normally

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Speaker 2: Always it's always the internationals, the sexy sexy man.

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Speaker 2: But he just see a hot guy do a video

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Speaker 2: on TikTok and you're like, please tell me this boy

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Speaker 1: but describe your physical type on paper.

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Speaker 2: We're going physical.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the first one. Physical type.

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Speaker 2: So this is gonna sound shallow, but we're going physical.

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Speaker 1: Things, yes, like I look at you in a bar

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Speaker 1: and you tick every box for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and let's just preface by saying, yes, there's outlies.

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Speaker 2: Yes it's not babol and all. Personality is more important.

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Speaker 1: But if you had to describe, yes, all right, physical

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Speaker 1: type on paper. Brown hair yep, definitely tanned yep has

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Speaker 2: So usually like kind of a talent, like you know,

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Speaker 2: I love skin, olive skin, teeth white and nice. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Tattoos. I like patchwork tattoos, stick a tattoos tall above

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Speaker 2: six foot yep. Shaggy language like shaggy long hair. Usually

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Speaker 2: I don't like boys that shave their legs. I do,

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Speaker 2: I don't like a hairy chest and back. I just

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Speaker 2: don't like that. No, I'm like that, but I don't

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Speaker 2: I like light eyes obviously, but that's not like super key.

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Speaker 2: when you see your Love Island and shit, and there's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I feel like you. There's like a yeah,

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Speaker 2: Like if any of you have seen that season where

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Speaker 2: But not so not like I spend my whole life

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Speaker 2: You're just like in shape. Like I'm not too picky

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Speaker 1: But I know a guy for you that, like we

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Speaker 1: Austin Henry.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he's gorgeous. Yeah, he is really good looking.

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Speaker 2: He's that guy that posts like videos with his it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he's good.

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Speaker 1: He's gorgeous. He's your type.

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Speaker 2: I wonder how old he is, but like, yeah, he's

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Speaker 2: definitely my type. I like the dark hair, like the

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Speaker 2: He was the first blonde that even kids.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never gone for a blow like bonds.

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Speaker 2: Blonds are gorgeous. Like, don't get me wrong, I don't

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Speaker 2: Get drawn. Yeah, like the most serious like dark, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, you're gonna ask you about my time probably.

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Speaker 2: I'm just working myself up for it. Yeah yeah, now

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Speaker 2: tell me about you, babe.

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Speaker 1: I have quite a specific type, but then I don't

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Speaker 1: but there is a consistent trend amongst the people I

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Speaker 1: have dated. They're all above six three. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what it is, but I do really like a tall guy.

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Speaker 1: I think it's because I'm really short, so I know

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Speaker 1: is just to like high, Like I just love knowing that,

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Speaker 1: like I am a little girl, Like I just love

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Speaker 1: being really little baby. Yeah, Like I just want to

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Speaker 1: bubble wrap, Like I just love at all. Probably above

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Speaker 1: I really care about my health. We have a similar vibe.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, athletic, but I don't want you to be

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Speaker 2: Similar, you don't live in a gym.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you can go for a run, yeah yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like we can be active together totally tanned stick a

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Speaker 2: I like a mullet.

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Speaker 1: I I love malet like a shaggy mullet. I do

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Speaker 1: love shorter sides, like I don't want your length hair

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Speaker 1: I don't like the LEA was a bit. It was

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Speaker 1: just his hair, Yeah, that was just his hair. I

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Speaker 1: do like teeth, but it doesn't really really bother me.

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Speaker 1: Nice smile, light eyes. Yeah, I like a cute face.

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, like a cute little smile.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, we're very much the same. This guy I

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Speaker 1: have been obsessed with on TikTok Australian. He's not Australian,

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Speaker 1: he's American. His name is you guys can search him

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Speaker 1: up Ian Fonds.

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Speaker 2: Show me a squizz.

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Speaker 1: He's very athletic. But he's like Tarzan, like he's.

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Speaker 2: I saw you. I now also have a name up.

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Speaker 2: I'll show you after. But yeah, he's.

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Speaker 1: He's fucking hot.

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Speaker 2: That's so that body is InCred incredible, Yeah, beautiful. Okay,

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Speaker 2: but there's another guy I'll name jumping. So, my favorite

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Speaker 2: favorite favorite man on TikTok, my absolute dream man in

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Speaker 2: the whole word world is Stephen Kelly. He's got a

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Speaker 2: girlfriend who is drop dead fucking beautiful. Like his girlfriend

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Speaker 2: like they are perfect together. But this boy like kills me,

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Speaker 2: but shout out to his girlfriend, like.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, just like beautiful kids, Do you have a

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Speaker 1: guy that comes to your head that is an outlier

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Speaker 1: from your original type but you find hot, Like, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna fucking name drop you please. I know him and

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Speaker 1: we follow each other so this. But his name is

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Speaker 1: Isaac Kennedy.

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Speaker 2: I'm much with him on right.

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Speaker 1: He's like not really my type. His tattoos, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: his tattoos are a little bit different from my type.

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Speaker 1: But he's hot. But he's not my type. But he's hot,

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Speaker 1: Like I can appreciate him. He's good looking, he's got

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Speaker 1: very similar aspects of your type.

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Speaker 2: But then he is like lighter and hair and like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: like he probably is someone in your type, just like

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Speaker 2: missing the hair, yeah, brunette, No, you just he's like.

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Speaker 1: He's like a blondie, but yeah, yeah, yeah, but he

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Speaker 1: would be my type as well, but like not on paper,

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Speaker 1: he wouldn't be I.

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Speaker 2: Like people listening will be like setching up these guys.

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Speaker 1: But Stephen, girls, man, what's something that like a guy

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Speaker 2: Make a plan. Yeah, let's get dinner at seven. I'll

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Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? Not? Oh, what do

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Speaker 2: I'll fucking go anywhere. I really, I'll drive to Bloody

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Speaker 2: I just don't. I like to know their interested. They

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I find Yeah, and you and I sometimes can

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do the planning, because if I

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Speaker 2: If you guys don't know what we mean by being

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I struggle to let someone look after me, and

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Speaker 1: Will not let me do that? Yeah, And like I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my I think say my key like funny. I

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Speaker 2: I want a boy that just makes me laugh all

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Speaker 2: Like I haven't had that, Like both my other relationships

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Speaker 2: like I wanted you to be someone I just enjoy

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Speaker 2: being around it. Yes, I'm in stitches all the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I just feel like a little girl, like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's something I want look at. I so

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Speaker 2: just like he like you think you foul this man,

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Speaker 2: I'm just envisioning step about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's a brute, like he's a big jim bro.

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Speaker 2: No, but that's his body is sexy and the blue eyes,

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Speaker 2: the curly dark hair. I do like curly hair. I

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Speaker 2: that like long sort of shaggy, yeady bear like brownie. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like a guy that I can like just like

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Speaker 1: like a guy that like isn't nervous to like single

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Speaker 1: dance around me, because like I really love being around music.

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Speaker 1: I like love singing in the car, like I love

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Speaker 1: like just being weird like that, sing the songs with you,

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Speaker 1: come on, look les enjoy a bit of tataste with

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Speaker 1: I said that, like a bit of JB. Like yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't like but like a little bit of JB.

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Speaker 1: And like you're not afraid to like you're not afraid

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Speaker 1: like I don't want you to prove anything to me

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Speaker 1: and like anything like that. I just like want you

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Speaker 1: you get quite regularly that I feel like I haven't had.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I did have it with my expert. Something

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Speaker 1: I'm a leyo.

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Speaker 2: I like attention. I like to feel like I'm like

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Speaker 2: all the time because maybe it's my I just I'll

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Speaker 2: like attention. Okay, feed me attention and I will melt.

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Speaker 1: In your hands.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm really giving out my secrets right now.

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Speaker 2: But it's like, if I see a boy on Friday,

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Speaker 2: like I don't want them to be afraid to like, oh,

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Speaker 2: let's do something on Sunday again. Yeah, I don't need

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Speaker 2: to wait a whole week. I like to feel wanted

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Speaker 2: or I actually tend to lose interest quite quickly if

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Speaker 2: like there has been it's been quite a while since

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Speaker 2: I've probably been seeing someone. Yeah, and it's because I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I just get I get bored. I yeah, lose interest

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Speaker 1: I think the thing with you, though, and how we

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Speaker 2: A lot more casual, You're a lot more open.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that too, Yeah, but I'm a lot more casual.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't want to go out for a dinner

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Speaker 1: But I'm kind of like if he's like, oh, can

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Speaker 1: I see you next, I'm like, oh, I'm free Sunday

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Speaker 1: Like I know the guy I'm kind of hanging out with.

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Speaker 2: Guys into my life unless I feel like, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: mean I think I've been heard a couple of times

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Speaker 2: and like in order to let someone me and Sam

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to disrupt that part because I'm

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Speaker 1: like super content with where I am that I kind

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Speaker 1: I'm not a wine and dine, I join my life. Yeah, like,

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Speaker 1: let's just like do something together. Like the guy that

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Speaker 2: But I also I'm like, if it's a weekend. Don't

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Speaker 1: Until I don't like them. I don't do sleepovers necessarily

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I will like my own space, but I

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Speaker 2: I do like a first date to be like drinks

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Speaker 1: Then like after the first date, maybe you can be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Like let's hold my shopping bags. Do not hold myself

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Speaker 2: while I shop, completely care.

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Speaker 1: But when you go to shopping with a guy, they

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Speaker 1: you end up shopping.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't say with a guy, I just yeah, because

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't feel comfortable like just letting him sit there

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Speaker 2: or I like rummish.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like you would like go to the market

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Speaker 2: like I very much struggle to like open myself up

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Speaker 2: let's just see where it goes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm very much like that, which is very interesting.

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Speaker 2: How like I've honestly it scares me and it stresses me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know why I'm like that.

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Speaker 2: I do think it probably does have a lot to

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Speaker 2: come from like my past relationships not working out well.

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Speaker 2: I like, wouldn't I don't like to think that that's

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Speaker 2: why I'm like that, but it must be because I

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Speaker 2: haven't always been this way. I think I am scared,

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Speaker 2: and I'm scared of embarrassing, not embarrassing. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like I do definitely have a shield around

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Speaker 2: me in regards to dating, and I like him, but

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Speaker 2: I don't quite know how to fix it yet. But

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't say I'm a data. I'd say you're a

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Speaker 2: bit of a data. You're more of a data than

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Speaker 2: I am.

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Speaker 1: But I wouldn't call them dates. I just like hang

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Speaker 2: But that's like they're not dates technically, But I'd say

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Speaker 1: Right, Like I would say, post my last relationship, I've

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The rest I've just kind of just hung out with. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you've done it. You like activities, Yeah, yeah, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: let's just grab a walking, grab a walk, crab a

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Speaker 1: coffee and go over a walk. Get to know me there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, that's why when unpacking our trauma and.

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Speaker 2: Need to have a little conversation like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys really know the needy gritties of what

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Speaker 1: we're looking for. And in the dating scene, are you

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Speaker 1: open to having a boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: I want a boyfriend. Yeah, Like I've been single for

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Speaker 2: three years now, Like I love having a boyfriend. But

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Speaker 2: then it's like I also because I've done my little

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Speaker 2: sort of dalyan dating around, whereas you're freshly single.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, see, I'm not open to having no boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready. I love having a boyfriend, like someone that.

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Speaker 1: I'm like not not ready, but I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 1: care what you're looking for it. Yeah, if it happens,

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Speaker 1: it happens. But if it doesn't, doesn't like I'm not

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Speaker 1: looking for it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we're looking for it. Never seems to work

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Speaker 2: out anyways, exactly how we go?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's our little girl's guide this week.

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Speaker 2: I'll type in men, hope you guys enjoyed, and dams

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Speaker 2: always open if you look like Stephen Kelly.

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Speaker 1: And Stephen Kelly, please and thank you.

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Speaker 2: All right, guys, we love you so much. We'll see

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Speaker 2: you on Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Bye,