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<v Speaker 1>Apodjaye Production.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to another episode of Am I A Bad Mom? Podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>And we're on social media as well at am I

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<v Speaker 2>Am I a bad mum for not going the extra mile?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like as a mum, you constantly go an

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<v Speaker 3>extra mile, don't you. Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>But on this acad talking about it in the car.

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<v Speaker 2>We've touched on this subject before in that it's very

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<v Speaker 2>last minute that we find out things often because we're

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<v Speaker 2>not very good reading the newsletter, are we rich? No,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not my agenda because it's not in bullet point

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<v Speaker 2>form separated now just for me, just with the bullet points.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, rah dot dot dot dot dot. Knowing my kids

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<v Speaker 3>are in prep and grade two, that's all you need

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<v Speaker 3>to know.

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<v Speaker 2>This is all you need to know. What I do

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<v Speaker 2>now is I scroll down, bearing in mind my kids

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<v Speaker 2>are now in the last year of primary school. I

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<v Speaker 2>scrolled down to the calendar at the end, and that

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<v Speaker 2>tells me everything I need to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know when pajama.

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<v Speaker 2>Days and we're Orange Day because we've had these dramas before.

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<v Speaker 2>But on this particular occasion, Amelia was doing a presentation

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<v Speaker 2>for HASS. What is has something to do with science,

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<v Speaker 2>isn't it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was gonna say, I was going with that.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me google it us Siri.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Siri, what does HASS stand for?

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<v Speaker 2>She's done, She's just we need to we need to

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<v Speaker 2>google home in here, I get sick of Siri. On

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<v Speaker 2>a separate note, I can search for it on the

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<v Speaker 2>web myself.

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<v Speaker 4>The whole point of it is for her to tell us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, anyway, has History and Social Science?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, okay, something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, she had to do a presentation, and she said

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<v Speaker 2>to me, this was at seven.

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<v Speaker 3>Pm Humanities and Social Sciences. Okay, yep, that'sas.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was seven pm on a Monday night and

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<v Speaker 2>she is eating her dinner and I get an email saying,

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<v Speaker 2>just a reminder that people need to bring in their

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<v Speaker 2>props tomorrow for the HAS presentation. And so I've said,

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<v Speaker 2>have you got props that you have to take in?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you need to take in?

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<v Speaker 2>She went, oh, yeah, where's Dad? I said, he's at

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<v Speaker 2>the gym doing boxing. She said, can you call him?

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<v Speaker 2>Tell him to swing by the shop on the way home,

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<v Speaker 2>because I need to pick up some things for my costume. Oh, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you need a costume and props? She said, yeah for tomorrow. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So I said, wait for it. I said, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you need? I've got my phone out ready to text him.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you pop into.

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<v Speaker 1>The Can you pop into ku?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, something easy. It's gonna be, isn't it? Something that's

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<v Speaker 1>open till nine?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Already seven?

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<v Speaker 3>Ye?

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<v Speaker 2>She said, I need a fake mustache, a kid sized

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<v Speaker 2>man suit, four easels colored card, and a bell. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>where do you find a fake mustache and a kid

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<v Speaker 2>in size man suit?

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<v Speaker 4>Get dad to just drop in the cam up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but fortunately adult don't say you know all this

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<v Speaker 3>in your dress up box.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, we've just gone to another part of our friendship.

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<v Speaker 1>No, if I tell you what was in the dress up?

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<v Speaker 2>Jay and I have gone to a few dress up

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<v Speaker 2>parties over the years, and we keep all the costumes.

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<v Speaker 1>And what he.

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<v Speaker 2>Did have was a Jesus costume.

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<v Speaker 1>So sheesu kin, she changed who she was.

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<v Speaker 4>Jesus was in a I don't really know actually what

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<v Speaker 4>Jesus was.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't in a.

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<v Speaker 2>Suit, but what was part of the costume was the

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus beard and mustache.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, good, so that colored in or something or

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<v Speaker 3>just stayed white.

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<v Speaker 1>I gave her the whole beard.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't white, it was brown. It's not center brown beard.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what he looks like the sand of what religious?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need to be. You don't need to be religious.

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<v Speaker 2>Center know the difference between Jesus and Santa.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, she's got the beard mustache. I've lost you. We've

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<v Speaker 1>lost you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So we've got the beard and the mustache. So

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<v Speaker 2>we've managed to make a suit just out of for

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<v Speaker 2>some reason. Also in the dressed up box was a

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<v Speaker 2>brown suit. But it's like, do you know those costumes

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<v Speaker 2>that you can get Christmas time with the blow up Rudolph,

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<v Speaker 2>do you know what I mean? And the blows up

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<v Speaker 2>and then it looks like you're riding the reindeer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So somehow we had one of those, and so there

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<v Speaker 2>was a pretend suit for the man.

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<v Speaker 1>What is the man riding reindeer? Anyway? I don't know?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's brown, pinstripe.

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<v Speaker 3>Gangster.

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<v Speaker 2>The funny thing is, though, is the Jays like pinning

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<v Speaker 2>this suit to her, like rolling up the sleeves and

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<v Speaker 2>making it fit her better but this suit is made

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<v Speaker 2>of the thinnest like nylon material. I said, she's going

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<v Speaker 2>to go into school. People are gonna think that your suits.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>In this podcast before, but Holly what I just am

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<v Speaker 3>trying so hard to bring it back.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, they're in a brown pin striped suit.

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<v Speaker 2>She wears the worst material people. That's what's really making

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<v Speaker 2>me because wearing it wear some horrible cheap suits.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's got that.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's got her outfit sorted, stop past office works,

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<v Speaker 2>got the easels and the cardboard and actually, then this

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<v Speaker 2>is where I turned from a bad mom into a

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<v Speaker 2>good mum. Well, although we just pulled together. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I just make myself even better because we're at

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<v Speaker 2>the stage now where you know, we're on wine down time,

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<v Speaker 2>showers start speaking about bedtime, lunchboxes need to be made,

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<v Speaker 2>Jay and I hadn't eaten dinner, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Of that stuff going on. She's got all in a panic.

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<v Speaker 2>Because she hasn't printed out the stuff she needs to

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<v Speaker 2>print out to stick on the card to then make

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<v Speaker 2>the presentation. So then I've said, okay, we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>do it as a family.

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<v Speaker 1>So the four of us.

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<v Speaker 2>In there printing out sticking it onto the paper. Tell

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<v Speaker 2>you what else we did, because it's olden days. She

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<v Speaker 2>was being someone from the olden days. We tea stained.

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<v Speaker 1>All the paper, you know how you Yeah, I love

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<v Speaker 1>that around the edge.

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<v Speaker 4>It's very creative.

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<v Speaker 2>And then one of them had the idea to set

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<v Speaker 2>fire to the edges to make it look burn.

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<v Speaker 4>That's awesome. Yeah, that was my next question.

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<v Speaker 3>Was a lot of talk about dressing up, and I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know who she dressed up as, so it's just

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<v Speaker 3>someone in the olden days.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the man that invented Cobb and Cob, something to

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<v Speaker 2>do with the gold Rush.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that suit would have been absolutely facts for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's a speared.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good job she wasn't in your house to

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<v Speaker 1>dressed as Santa. Same thing. The sad part.

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<v Speaker 3>Is both of my kids he got dressed up tomorrow

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<v Speaker 3>and I was already like, how.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I just pull it together with whatever we've got

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<v Speaker 4>instead of having to send them in brand new stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't dress them up as Jesus because you have no

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<v Speaker 2>idea what.

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<v Speaker 1>He looks like.

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<v Speaker 3>My kids want to dress up tomorrow as a hero,

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<v Speaker 3>go as your hero. Gracie wants to go as a cowgirl. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know why because it's not her hero. She said,

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<v Speaker 3>you used to like riding horses.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you're a hero yea. So she said, I want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Dress up as a cowgirl. So I said, oh, that's fine,

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<v Speaker 3>we can pull it together.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got boots.

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<v Speaker 4>She goes, yeah, I want to wear that red shirt,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, what red shirt?

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<v Speaker 3>Another one of those mum moments where I've thrown it

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<v Speaker 3>out because I thought she had. So now I have

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<v Speaker 3>to go past kmart and try and find like a

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<v Speaker 3>checkered shirt.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to be Jesse out of toy story.

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<v Speaker 4>That I thought, I have Jesse the dress up for

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<v Speaker 4>me my size. We could just pin that because we

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<v Speaker 4>do something.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you have that?

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<v Speaker 3>We dress up every year for Halloween, all four of us,

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<v Speaker 3>and that was mine for last year.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I feel like this episode is not

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<v Speaker 2>very relatable because I don't think there's anyone out there

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<v Speaker 2>with a Jesse costume or Jesus costume just hanging around

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<v Speaker 2>in the wardrobe.

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<v Speaker 3>What I'm going to take from this episode is I

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<v Speaker 3>probably need to do a few more studies around religions

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<v Speaker 3>and appearances and you reckon don't invite me to a

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<v Speaker 3>fancy dress.