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Speaker 1: This is fifty and Whipper Get a podcast.

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Speaker 2: Listeners walking to another fifty podcast. There's a lot of

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Speaker 2: love talking this one, guys. We go from girls competing

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Speaker 2: for a man, two broken hearts and then weddings. It's

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Speaker 2: all in there, but to kick off something completely different.

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Speaker 2: It's the most haunted road in Australia and Whipper.

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Speaker 3: We're talking about the Wakehurst Parkway. It's pretty scary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll get out of the back of my car.

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Speaker 4: It's the first time Madie degree to alerted us about

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Speaker 4: the Wakehurst Parkway yesterday and.

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Speaker 3: The calls have just been flooding in.

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Speaker 1: Extraordinary because we're talking about that footage of what looked

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Speaker 1: like a little boy on the dash can on the

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Speaker 1: Hymn Highway.

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Speaker 3: When you slow it down, it doesn't look like a

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Speaker 3: little boy. It looks like a.

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Speaker 1: Piece of rubbish or a penguin. Almost looks like a penguins.

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Speaker 1: Couldn't work it out.

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Speaker 4: Mars from bell Rose, Mars, what happened to your friend

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Speaker 4: near the Wakehurst Parkway?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, guys, my friends are runner and national there, so

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Speaker 5: he was running one probably early morning so it's not

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Speaker 5: midnight sorry, and it was a very calm night or

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Speaker 5: calm morning, and he got to a certain point and

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Speaker 5: he just felt this very heavy air and kind of

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Speaker 5: a cool breeze come past him. I never said it

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Speaker 5: was very calm. There was no wind, and he got

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Speaker 5: to a certain point, a certain spot, and it probably

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Speaker 5: lasted about ten seconds. It was this very heavy, cold

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Speaker 5: type of air that just brushed past, kind of felling

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Speaker 5: him to get out of here. I think you were saying,

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Speaker 5: and I've never he said, he's never seen himself run

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Speaker 5: home so fast quick. Something definitely there he felt.

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Speaker 1: That was you know when it's there, you know when

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Speaker 1: it comes across you.

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Speaker 3: You know what.

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Speaker 4: There's pockets of that cold air every other everywhere, study

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Speaker 4: every morning when we come in sometimes you.

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Speaker 1: Know there's there's there's a presence you feel. And I've

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Speaker 1: been in a house where there's definitely been someone there

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Speaker 1: and it wasn't until the third night at each other

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Speaker 1: and we said, doesn't feel like we're welcome here. And

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Speaker 1: that's the same feeling.

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Speaker 3: Mars the spot on because you hadn't even bought the plane.

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Speaker 3: In the house there was the last family was still

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Speaker 1: How scary is that story? That's why I gave up running,

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Speaker 1: because that could happen anytime?

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Speaker 3: Remember work resting? All right, mask on your mate been

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Speaker 3: in a Rose Bay? What happened on the Wayhurst Parkway?

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Speaker 6: Ben doll Good A boys, Hey, Ben, really good. So

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Speaker 6: basically we live in the east so we don't obviously

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Speaker 7: Cool.

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Speaker 6: And then one night we were sitting around just reading

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Speaker 6: these stories online about it, and we decided to go,

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Speaker 6: you know what, let's just.

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Speaker 3: Have a girl. Well, great, you've done the mission, knowing

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Speaker 3: you've heard about it before.

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Speaker 6: Ben exactly. So it's about twelve thirty midnight, thirty one,

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Speaker 6: and on our way there we crossed I think it

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Speaker 6: over an RBT and the police officer comes over to us.

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Speaker 6: She goes, oh, you guys are a long way from home.

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Speaker 6: We're like, yeah, we're just do our check out the

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Speaker 6: But she's telling us don't go down there alone.

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Speaker 3: She wouldn't do it.

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Speaker 6: So we're like we have to crack on. As we're

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Speaker 6: There's no one around pitch black, no one, no cars,

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Speaker 6: and this car is just over on the side, pulled

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Speaker 6: ten years old, not really beat up or anything.

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Speaker 8: No one around. We slowed down.

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Speaker 6: We didn't get out of the car, but they were

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Speaker 6: too scared. We have a look around. No one around,

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Speaker 6: Got it turned around, came back. The car's gone.

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Speaker 9: So someone could have got driven car, driven off bushes.

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Speaker 9: They were doing away.

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Speaker 6: There was no one around.

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Speaker 9: They would have been hiding.

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Speaker 3: They were doing something.

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Speaker 1: And you're solid and I was really waiting for the

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Speaker 1: cliffhanger there, mate, car destroys.

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Speaker 3: We need to check out negative to three point one

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Speaker 3: this morning.

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Speaker 1: Any great story?

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Speaker 3: Thanks Buddy, Darren and Narravane or all the Leaches boys.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, how are you going? So this happened in the

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Speaker 8: mid nineties, so there wasn't many houses down there, so

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Speaker 8: we were driving down there was two cars. Would have

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Speaker 8: been again sort of about midnight on a Friday night,

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Speaker 8: clear night, driving down the road. So I was in

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Speaker 8: and a flat tire or some The two, the driver

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Speaker 8: and the passenger wide as ghosts, shaking and they said,

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Speaker 8: we just hit a person. We hit a woman. And

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Speaker 8: I'm like, okay, we had looked. They said they didn't

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Speaker 8: feel any bumps, didn't see anything, but they were physically shaken,

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Speaker 8: and exactly like your first caller said they when they

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Speaker 8: hit her, or they thought they hit a freezing cold air,

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Speaker 8: really cold air straight through the car and nothing on

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Speaker 5: And that was it.

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Speaker 8: So we didn't see anything, but they were physically shaking,

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Speaker 8: gray shaking, and they could not wait to get in

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Speaker 8: a believer, and I was only young then, but it

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Speaker 8: was only until probably a couple of years after that

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Speaker 8: I actually found out about the Wakers Parkway ghost and

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Speaker 8: how she eventuated. So yeah, it's I definitely believe there's

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Speaker 9: It's hard not to believe, isn't there.

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Speaker 3: So I wanted to for ghost.

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Speaker 4: The ghost knows now that there's a lot of dash

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Speaker 4: cams out there, and she's going out. I'm not doing

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Speaker 4: it no more. I'm going to get busted soon. Cold

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Speaker 4: weather thing, I'm over it.

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Speaker 3: I like warm weather. I might go there. Ghost in Jamaica.

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Speaker 3: I didn't think she care.

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Speaker 1: I think she went from the way.

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Speaker 4: You know what, if you're going to be a to Jamaica,

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Speaker 4: you go to an island, but I don't stay where

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Speaker 4: they die.

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Speaker 3: You get a choice, mate.

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Speaker 1: No you don't. You do you did?

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Speaker 3: You're allowed to do whatever.

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Speaker 1: You might head to Jamaica.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hang out on the beach. I'll go freak these

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Speaker 3: people out on the beach.

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Speaker 1: Here's some warm mare thirteen twenty four ten. Has anybody

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Speaker 1: been to Jamaica and soon a ghost? Tommy, We've got

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Speaker 1: to go down there. Yeah, someone has to go around midnight?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just after or just after midnight, you know, Friday night.

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Speaker 3: It's tough for us. We're not Yeah on a Friday night.

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Speaker 1: Who's going to do it?

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Speaker 3: Scotches? I mean I do, Sarah, someone comes with me

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Speaker 3: that it has to be a female.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, but all these other callers that have not been female.

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Speaker 1: Tommy, you've come with me then?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm part female. So that works.

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Speaker 4: We could do this, but see, this is the thing.

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Speaker 4: Once you pump it up, and so you're going to

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Speaker 4: do it, you have no chance of seeing anything that's

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Speaker 4: the topic.

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Speaker 1: Just like I'm trying to work out whether it'd be

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Speaker 1: great radio or the greatest of time for me and

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Speaker 1: for our listeners a year.

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Speaker 3: You think of effort versus reward.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't balance out because I don't think any story

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Speaker 1: can be better than the stories we've already heard.

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Speaker 3: You would look like a was driving up and down.

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Speaker 1: Put my hand up. We do need a female. We'll

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Speaker 1: do a gender test on Tommy this afternoon. We'll find

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Speaker 1: out whether he.

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Speaker 4: Is there any ghost runners out there Tommy that you

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Speaker 4: know people that chase Oh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, ghosts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you want to send a hunter, Yeah, we zero

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Speaker 1: a hunter or get out of the guys. We went

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Speaker 1: to the quarantine station with get onto those guys. They've

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Speaker 1: got like technical readers, they can feel presence, they've got

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Speaker 1: temperature thermometers, changes.

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Speaker 3: All the corections. Yeah every pop merchants.

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Speaker 1: No, mate, they're professionals. And you're right. I wouldn't know

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Speaker 1: what I'm doing because we dealt with these guys. And

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Speaker 1: when you leave the quarantine station after doing the ghost tour,

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Speaker 1: you have.

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Speaker 11: To drive out and picture it like a wall, like

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Speaker 11: a wall as you drive through and say, don't follow

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Speaker 4: It will go a moment from Ghostbusters where we find

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Speaker 4: the ghost marshmellow man we came we saw here.

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Speaker 3: That would be awesome to a great video. But I'm

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Speaker 3: pretty busy this week. New study has been done. This

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Speaker 3: is really interesting. I'm into this one now.

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Speaker 4: The name of the study is I saw him first.

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Speaker 4: Competitive nonverbal flirting among women, the tactics.

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Speaker 3: Used and their perceived effectiveness confused.

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Speaker 1: Hang on a minute. So this is something social that

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Speaker 1: exists already.

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Speaker 3: So okay, well let's go to the nightclub.

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Speaker 1: Now here we go, guys.

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Speaker 3: So psychological research it has been published as well.

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Speaker 4: So this study indicates the behaviors that women engage into

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Speaker 4: caution other women that a potential partner is theirs.

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Speaker 3: So this is when two separate girls lock onto one man, Sarah,

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Speaker 3: you've got.

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Speaker 4: A march of territory to the tactics that you use

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Speaker 4: to get his attention or to get the other girl away.

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Speaker 1: Right, And these girls don't know each other. No, okay, no,

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Speaker 1: they're not part of someone's been spotted as hot meat.

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Speaker 1: They're under attack.

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Speaker 4: The researchers first ninety one heterosexual women to think about

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Speaker 4: situations in which they competed with other.

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Speaker 3: Women for access to a man and list the non

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Speaker 3: verbal actions that they'd engaged in. Let's go through them. First.

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Speaker 3: One eye contact with the guy, stare down. So that's

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Speaker 3: the big one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you've got to get him because you know, if

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Speaker 4: you're a guy at a bar and you see two

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Speaker 4: different girls looking at you, bang, you're giving a little

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Speaker 4: bit to both of them.

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Speaker 10: Sarah, isn't it who holds your gays? You know for

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Speaker 10: that second longer?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: And you go, oh yeah, okay, that's the thing.

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Speaker 1: That second longer you're talking about can be so quick,

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Speaker 1: so minute, like a nano moment with that was longer.

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Speaker 1: We're going home tonight.

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Speaker 3: This is a good one. It's business dancing in his

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Speaker 3: line of sight.

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Speaker 10: Oh yeah, peacocking, isn't it. It's in front of them

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Speaker 10: on the.

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Speaker 3: Dance floor and writing sea girls moving.

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Speaker 11: Okay, So if you're dancing over here, if you're dancing

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Speaker 9: It's shopping trolley, definitely, the screeper.

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Speaker 10: What else could you it's the it's the you know

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Speaker 10: risky is when you're over the Yeah, but after twenty

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Speaker 10: five it's not attracting, right, Okay, sure you blow.

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Speaker 4: The next one is the second one that you had

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Speaker 9: Right, okay, encouragement. You know you're on the right track,

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Speaker 4: I mean this is a If you're doing them all together,

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Speaker 11: Imagine the cop I've noticed you, I've noticed you. There's

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Speaker 4: Is this one's bitter conjecture on this one touching him

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Speaker 10: Yeah, or just the arm on the hands on the arm,

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Speaker 12: It's not.

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Speaker 3: It could have been a knee to the could have

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Speaker 9: That sexy cooking Just to be Hans, this is.

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Speaker 3: A good one. Giggling at his joke.

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Speaker 9: It's all about the ego.

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Speaker 3: For you guys. Yeah, that's talking sending him laughing at it.

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Speaker 1: Of the hip and shoulder.

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Speaker 3: That's a bit awkward there, you're going a bit far.

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Speaker 9: Wouldn't a guy love it though?

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Speaker 10: Because it's two women fighting over him, Even if it's

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Speaker 1: Could possibly lead to something we're all thinking, aren't we?

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Speaker 1: Three is never crowd?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Sorry, arms? Three is?

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Speaker 1: So I was thinking. I mean, it's not crazy to

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Speaker 9: Once and were you dating someone in that.

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Speaker 3: Finish?

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Speaker 1: No, it was about two thirty in the afternoon. Two

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Speaker 1: of the guys wanted to meet them down on the

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Speaker 1: every now and then. We'll never do it again.

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Speaker 3: Just at Christmas time.

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Speaker 1: No, not with my family. Tom. Tom's reference in the

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Speaker 1: back of my question. You in the relationship, and you

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Speaker 1: I was in the relationship.

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Speaker 3: I was wanted to bite County Jennis. I didn't want this.

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Speaker 1: Just stop sun boating with the top off.

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Speaker 12: Let's go camping once a year. We go just to

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Speaker 3: Really weird. This is and the other good one. The

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Speaker 3: the hate stare. Yeah, it's the glaring. It's the eye rolls.

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Speaker 3: O my god. That dress. Yeah yeah, who would dance

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Speaker 3: like that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Probably the girl that I'll take home if you're

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Speaker 1: not interested, there's the answer.

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Speaker 9: So there you have standards.

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Speaker 3: Who's the study ladies like everyone and for a man,

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Speaker 3: just go through one of those.

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Speaker 1: You win. Stop he's rolling his shoulders back. Look at

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Speaker 1: it with that handlebar mustachet. Smile up stair because I'm

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Speaker 1: getting excited. I'll take you to the Levy Bank. Very

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Speaker 1: sad story over the weekend. Harry potterst Helen McCrory, whose

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Speaker 1: husband is Damian Lewis. And if you've watched Billions, Homeland

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Speaker 1: Homeland said that was before Billions, you would know exactly

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Speaker 1: who he is. And Harry Potter fans Leonard would know

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Speaker 1: exactly who she is.

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Speaker 10: Streak her Malfoy's mum. But she was in loads of

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Speaker 10: other stuffy She was in Peaky Blinded.

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Speaker 3: So good was she violent in that one? Because everyone is,

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Speaker 3: Yeah she was.

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Speaker 12: She was this sort of the sister or cousin and

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Speaker 12: Like do you just believe her?

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Speaker 3: She wasn't the matriarch, was she? I always loved the

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Speaker 3: mate she was the matriarch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was the matriarch, the powerful one that makes

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Speaker 4: They're always in a gown, they're always in a ninety,

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Speaker 3: You don't kill him, don't need to get dressed.

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Speaker 1: I won't get dressed, but don't kill that guy.

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Speaker 9: She was very beautiful.

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Speaker 1: She passed away after a long butter with can to

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Speaker 1: age fifty two, very very sad. What's interesting is, and

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Speaker 1: I've always wondered what I would do in this position

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Speaker 1: to leave Lisa or Lisa was to leave me. She

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Speaker 1: said to her husband, Damian Lewis as she passed away,

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Speaker 1: knowing that he still has a long life to live.

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Speaker 1: Have lots of girlfriends after I die.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's it.

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Speaker 1: And I think that's a beautiful thing to do, because

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Speaker 1: I've been in that situation where I thought to myself

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Speaker 1: if I was going I would say to Lisa, find

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Speaker 1: a good man. Find a good man, and you know

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Speaker 1: what that means.

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Speaker 9: It's nice.

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Speaker 10: And she said it to the kids, because they've got

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Speaker 10: two young kids as well.

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Speaker 9: She said, love is not possessive.

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Speaker 3: Go out alone to find one.

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Speaker 1: You know, you've had your warm up. Ok, you got

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Speaker 1: your first one out of the way. Find a good man,

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Speaker 1: and she would know what that means. So we'll look

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Speaker 1: after you, be honest, look after the kids, and play

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Speaker 1: the role that you could try and replace me. Possible.

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Speaker 3: Don't you dare look at anybody. I'll be looking down

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Speaker 3: on you. I'll be on your shoulder. You can't stop it.

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Speaker 3: If Damian.

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Speaker 1: If Damian Lewis is in his.

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Speaker 13: Fifties as well, and he'scent looking, he's a looking guy,

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Speaker 13: and he's got a life to live, and he wants

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Speaker 13: someone special in his life to share it with and

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Speaker 13: also play a role in the kids lives.

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Speaker 1: It's selfish to say, hey, no, it's not come on.

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Speaker 10: We have this chat at home on all the time,

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Speaker 10: and I say to Gary, you will never meet anyone else.

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Speaker 10: Even if I die, You do not live on, You

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Speaker 10: do not meet someone else. You mourn me every single day?

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Speaker 1: Is forty right? You get hit by a car this afternoon.

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Speaker 9: Thanks, okay, Wednesday sucks.

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Speaker 1: You're gone.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, Sarah, I didn't see you.

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Speaker 9: And yet I feel like you may have.

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Speaker 3: Reverse so quickly over again.

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Speaker 9: Untill I can hit later and you feel real bad.

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Speaker 3: You got the kids from school, And now I know

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Speaker 3: that is that image.

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Speaker 1: Imagine say to Gary for the rest of his life,

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Speaker 1: that he couldn't have anyone special to share the rest

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Speaker 9: I am the most special person he'll ever meet.

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Speaker 1: Of course, he's going to miss you, he's going to

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Speaker 1: pay tribute to you. He might take half an hour

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Speaker 3: I said, meditate. Can we look? Can you look at

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Speaker 3: the other side of things?

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Speaker 4: Because you know what, if your partner passes away, I

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Speaker 4: couldn't be stuff going out there.

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Speaker 1: Else someone might come into your life fits you might

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Speaker 1: be here at work, and then.

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Speaker 10: Can we strip it back to what BJ does for you?

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Speaker 10: That's of a non romantic variety. I suspect you would

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Speaker 10: want a companion, let's call it fla companion slash, someone

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Speaker 10: to do some things for you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I suppose hopefully she does go as the kids

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Speaker 1: But imagine people imagine being sixty right, and I go, oh,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind going on a holiday make up to Darwin.

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Speaker 1: I figure, who wants to come with me? No one,

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Speaker 1: I'll just I'll book I'll book a flight, a single

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Speaker 12: And there's a there's a guy here at work. We

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Speaker 12: won't we won't name. He's an elder gent and he's

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Speaker 12: he's single, and and and there's two parts which is

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Speaker 12: just awesome.

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Speaker 14: He is.

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Speaker 12: Firstly, he says, once you get to a certain age

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Speaker 12: very much looking for a bit of companionship and having

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Speaker 12: a great time. And he goes, you relive your youth,

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Speaker 12: for example. I love this one he was And again

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Speaker 12: what sixty five sixty seven he met up with a

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Speaker 12: go to a car park and they were just canoodling

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Speaker 12: you're sixty seven year old. And they had to be

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Speaker 12: it on a back.

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Speaker 1: Seat, if you're the policemen, I would have said I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry as you were yourself.

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Speaker 3: No, the policeman was like, sorry, you've just run over

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Speaker 3: Sarah mcgilbro.

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Speaker 1: Let's move on to broken hearts. Guys, we've all been

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Speaker 1: there where someone said, it's not you, it's me. I'm

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Speaker 1: out of this relationship. See you later. Hurts, doesn't it, Guys?

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Speaker 1: It hurts. But you know what you're talking to myself?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, I thought you were just no room by yourself. No.

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Speaker 1: No, it's that moment where you realize that what you

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Speaker 1: thought was the love of your life and the most

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Speaker 1: she doesn't want you anymore. He doesn't want you anymore,

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Speaker 1: and that hurts. Slenno's tearing up. Who was that broke

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Speaker 1: your heart? Leno, I don't want to talk about it, sorry, mate.

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Speaker 3: Name was Lisa. Oh, I'm married to Yeah, she left

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Speaker 1: Man, You are kidding me. What I didn't realize though,

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Speaker 1: that there's actually an effect on your heart, a cardiac

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Speaker 1: injury on your heart when you have a broken heart, or.

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Speaker 3: You've done a few heart muscles playing footy before.

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Speaker 1: I've got muscle memory though.

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Speaker 9: That's no ticker, that's.

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Speaker 1: But I get that quite often. So they're suggesting that

448
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:37,360
Speaker 1: there's a weakning of the left ventricle, the heart's main

449
00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 1: pumping chamber, and it's weakened when you are stressed to

450
00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:42,920
Speaker 1: that emotional level.

451
00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 3: So it's like doing a hammy on your heart.

452
00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:49,359
Speaker 1: Could a little bit different. I think it'd slightly different.

453
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,840
Speaker 10: Distressed, wouldn't it squeezing your heart.

454
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,600
Speaker 1: After traumatic events. That's why people say after a bad

455
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,800
Speaker 1: breakup or a broken heart, you're grieving. You are grieving.

456
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Speaker 1: So such as you know the death of a loved

457
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,000
Speaker 1: one in a family or a separation of a breakup,

458
00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:04,879
Speaker 1: you can have this issue.

459
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 3: I disagree with it.

460
00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 1: I reckon you can't.

461
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 3: When you go through a broken it's not a broken heart.

462
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 3: I reckon, it's more your guts. It goes it's your stomach,

463
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 3: It goes deep into your stomach and you feel sick.

464
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I think that's.

465
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 9: Part of the moment in the right when.

466
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 1: You get you feel sinking feeling.

467
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:29,360
Speaker 10: The longer you're still mourning and missing someone, I think

468
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 10: it is your heart.

469
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 3: My heart's been associated with love forever. You know what

470
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 3: I mean?

471
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,240
Speaker 4: You know the heart symbol, we love, We get a symbol.

472
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 4: But I don't know if it is the feeling that

473
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:38,879
Speaker 4: you get has got nothing to do with your heart.

474
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 1: Okay, so it has been sumped and he's suffering from

475
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Speaker 1: a broken gup.

476
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Speaker 10: I don't reckon you've ever had your heart proppully broken?

477
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 10: Fits like I think you've had that breakups, but it

478
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:52,879
Speaker 10: has your heart been really broken from me.

479
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 3: As well? More like a question.

480
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 1: Well, I've been in a situation and I remember the

481
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,720
Speaker 1: girl as well saying, mate, chest actually hurts. I feel

482
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 1: the pain, the impact that's had.

483
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 3: It's sitting on it.

484
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 9: When you feel like there's elephant on your chest.

485
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 1: Get up, mate, you're dump.

486
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 10: Tingling in my arm because you've cut off circulation.

487
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 3: Just get off me.

488
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 1: My university think they've come up with the drug guys

489
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,120
Speaker 1: to help ease the stress on the heart after a breakup.

490
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 9: You don't need to drudge, you know what.

491
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,400
Speaker 1: I remember going to see like a life coach psychiatrist

492
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 1: after a terrible breakup. Oh yeah, And I said to him,

493
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 1: you know what are you thinking? What's the best way forward?

494
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 1: And he was a very wise old man, and he said,

495
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: with four hundred without a word.

496
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 3: Of what's your spiry date on your credit card? Just

497
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 3: before you give me, he said.

498
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 1: I want you to go out this weekend. I want

499
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Speaker 1: you to go out. This is going to be step

500
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 1: one on how we get over.

501
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 3: That's with him, kiss me.

502
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 1: Hang on a minute, this is weird.

503
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:56,920
Speaker 3: Well you need to move on.

504
00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 7: I've paid before, you're throwing the rest. And he said,

505
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 7: I want you to go out and try and kiss

506
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 7: five girls.

507
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 1: I want you to go out to try and kiss

508
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,920
Speaker 1: five girls, five girls in your life. And I said,

509
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: may not be doubling my numbers, but I remember.

510
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 12: Thinking girls are meant to be realistic and measureable.

511
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 11: No, but I remember all he was trying to do

512
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 11: was break the distraction of what I thought was everything

513
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 11: to going out finding yeah, perspective and finding something exciting

514
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 11: and getting back to the basics of what.

515
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 1: It was like to find it again.

516
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 9: You could just YouTube that.

517
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 3: Though, that's not what I was looking for.

518
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 11: And Tommy, I don't know if you remember, but we

519
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 11: went to it. You were probably around at the time.

520
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 11: I asked you to wear that wigs and you had

521
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 11: those fake boobs.

522
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:54,640
Speaker 3: It looked great.

523
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 9: That that is friendship.

524
00:23:56,080 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 3: I should really took one for the team. You beautiful.

525
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 1: But I remember I went to this bar and I

526
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 1: was like, oh man, okay, this is flat, but I

527
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 1: got a lift. I got a chin up, chest out,

528
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: chins up, carry a little bit of hope on my

529
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: shoulder and just head to the bar and start chatting

530
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 1: and maybe move in for as it is.

531
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Speaker 3: And I remember with.

532
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: Talking to this girl and she was like hot on

533
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: the flirt, like really pushing, pushing up hard, and I

534
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: just walked in. So I'd known that the little bit

535
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 1: of hope on the shoulder was keeping me in good

536
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 1: Steed because she was right on it. And then visiting

537
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: or good Stead it was nice. It was a donkey.

538
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: And then I remember being at the bar. I said,

539
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: let's have a drink or drinking we're flirting. I'm thinking, right,

540
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm going to get five attempts for a kiss here.

541
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: I'll go in for one right now. But she just said,

542
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 1: hang on a little, hang on a minute. I'm going

543
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 1: to grab my bag. Maybe we go back to your place.

544
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: And I went, oh god, the instruction was a kiss?

545
00:24:58,880 --> 00:24:59,959
Speaker 1: How am I going to get five of them?

546
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 9: Can I finish this story? Does she run to a text?

547
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 1: If this Steve has got the stamina?

548
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 14: Was she? Did?

549
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,679
Speaker 3: She her back running away?

550
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 1: She never came back.

551
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 3: I mean, when you get married, it's a big commitments. Sarah,

552
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. You're locking in the rest

553
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:22,199
Speaker 3: of your life you.

554
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 9: Sometimes this is true.

555
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 4: This is the thing though, there are people that are

556
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 4: going into weddings these days with maybe.

557
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 3: A couple of things on the side.

558
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,880
Speaker 4: If you're starting this is you are starting a marriage

559
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 4: by a fling on the side or a mistress on

560
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Speaker 4: the side.

561
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:43,439
Speaker 3: Doesn't look good at all.

562
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: Can ask a question, do you think the divorce rate

563
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: is now higher because it's more socially acceptable to go

564
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: your separate ways than it was back in the day,

565
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: Or people don't respect the word of marriage as much

566
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 1: as they used to, like back in the day, if.

567
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 3: Things were birational thing, isn't it you just kind of

568
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 3: you're tough it out?

569
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 12: Isn't that specifically you go through what marriage is?

570
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, like that's it, that's the rename.

571
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: But whether whether it's socially acceptable to be divorced or

572
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: people just can't be bothered going through the tougher times,

573
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 1: that's what I'm asking.

574
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 3: What's a bit thing?

575
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's a bit bos isn't it. It's a bit

576
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 9: of one of the same.

577
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: So true, I'll write that down.

578
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 4: Aubrey Aubrey's forty one years of age, married the love

579
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Speaker 4: of their life justin Unfredfred.

580
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 3: Thirty five years.

581
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 4: They so she becomes Aubrey Unfred. Tough name, but Aubrey

582
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,640
Speaker 4: Unfred loved Justin so much. They've been together for six years,

583
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 4: finally got married Magnificent day. Magnificent day, and they'd.

584
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 3: Organized a honeymoon, but it was a couple of weeks.

585
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:52,479
Speaker 4: After the wedding. Sarah, so she's laying next to her husband.

586
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 4: She thought, I'll go on to Facebook just to see

587
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 4: what some of the wedding guests have put up photos,

588
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 4: just to remember the day. And you go over there,

589
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,439
Speaker 4: grab yourself a beer, relaxed while I'm on the computer.

590
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 4: While she's on there, she gets a Facebook message from

591
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 4: a stranger who claimed to be the daughter of a

592
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 4: woman who Justin had been secretly dating.

593
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 3: This is the day after the wedding, kidding me.

594
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: The next day, Justin someone else.

595
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 4: Devastated, Aubrey asked for proof of the relationship and was

596
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 4: sent screenshots showing sexual conversations.

597
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 3: Come on. She later confronted Justin a car buyer, and

598
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:29,919
Speaker 3: that just.

599
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: Says it all, doesn't second hand, I would suggest that

600
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 1: just says it all.

601
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 9: A car buyer, car.

602
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: Trader.

603
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 3: It's another term for a second half.

604
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 4: It's a stinker who admitted to an eight month affair

605
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 4: with another woman, and he'd even been messinging her on

606
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 4: their wedding day.

607
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 9: Why do you bother getting married?

608
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 14: Like?

609
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 9: What a waste of money and time in church? I

610
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 9: got the first one to do some more.

611
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 1: Just time for her to get out of the relationship

612
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: with a couple of wedding press.

613
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 3: You've already done that one, No I did. Do you

614
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 3: want to do it again? And we'll set a delivery.

615
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 4: Aubrey Lynn has married Justin unfriend found out that Justin

616
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 4: had an affair on the.

617
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: Side of the day after Justin someone else.

618
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 9: Second time, you've done that game?

619
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 3: Work well?

620
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: See the impact? No one was listening the first time.

621
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 3: Soon after the wedding? Did you find out that they

622
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 3: were cheaterable? Mim in Rose Bay? What happened at the

623
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:31,360
Speaker 3: wedding you attended?

624
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: Mim?

625
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 3: Hello, bem, mem we'll come back to her. Just a meme?

626
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 1: Are there?

627
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 3: It is minimum phone reception there? What happened? What happened

628
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 3: at the wedding that you attending? Him?

629
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 14: They were having an affair before they even got married.

630
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 3: Wow, So did it all come out at the wedding? Meme?

631
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 14: Or was it after well, no, no, no, they went

632
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 14: on the honeymoon. The best man went on the honeymoon.

633
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: This is getting weird.

634
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 14: And with the groom as well, you mean, yeah, yes,

635
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 14: so you used to do everything in a group, and

636
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 14: they all they were having an affair and we all

637
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 14: thought that before the wedding. She got caught and we said,

638
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 14: you're mad to go through with it, don't do it.

639
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 14: You're in love with the best man, and she was like, no, no, no. Anyway,

640
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 14: cut a long story short. The whole day she got

641
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 14: did the you know, set of ours, got married, went

642
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 14: on the honeymoon, went skiing in Canada, and she got sprung.

643
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 5: Being the best man.

644
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 3: What I would pay money?

645
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 14: And then now she's married.

646
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 9: At least they stayed together.

647
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 3: There is no silver lining.

648
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 10: It was worth it because they're now together and married and.

649
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 3: Come on and mmm, she could have done.

650
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 14: Everyone at everyone at the wedding was talking about them

651
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 14: and what about what.

652
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 3: About that taking off?

653
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: My question was boring compared to where you're going here, man,

654
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: That is nicking off on the wedding day for a

655
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: little bit of how's are going? Probably in the.

656
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 8: Toilet, a little bit of a photo.

657
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: We get it. We get it. You don't need to

658
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: spell it out.

659
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 5: You're hearing me.

660
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 3: We get it.

661
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 4: We definitely get it. We'll get a few more lines

662
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 4: up there after. Georgia on the Northern Beach is how

663
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 4: soon did they cheat?

664
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 3: After the wedding? Georgia?

665
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 15: Yeah, how guys?

666
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 3: Are you doing good? Georgia? What's the story?

667
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 15: So we were this wedding and we were friends with

668
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 15: the groove and beautiful day. We went to the toil

669
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 15: and the girls, and when we walked out of the

670
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 15: store was cheating on his brand new wife with one

671
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,719
Speaker 15: of the bridesmaids.

672
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Speaker 5: On the in the toilet.

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Speaker 3: So were they just kissing or were that were there's

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Speaker 3: a little bit more involved.

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Speaker 14: There was a law more.

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Speaker 1: By way dumb.

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Speaker 9: You can't last.

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Speaker 3: Georgia. What happened next?

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Speaker 15: There was a bit of a very awesome lance. There

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Speaker 15: was a very like we just looked at each other

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Speaker 15: and we never spoke about her again. Like we just

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Speaker 15: walked out and we we forgot about about it. Yeah,

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Speaker 15: that was it again.

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Speaker 4: Because I've always dreamed of going to a wedding when

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Speaker 4: they're just about to start the ceremony and the bride'smaids

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Speaker 4: come out.

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Speaker 3: And go whoa whoa stop.

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Speaker 4: We just busted Dave out the back with the Maid

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Speaker 4: of Honor Jannis, and now we're going for it in

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Speaker 4: the toilets because you know what, I think a majority

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Speaker 4: of the females ceremony would.

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Speaker 1: Be like, oh, the majority of the males would be like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: could you imagine where do we go from here?

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Speaker 10: You're always forty minutes late to wedding, so you'd driss

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Speaker 10: it anyway.

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Speaker 1: You'd be underdressed and late.

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Speaker 3: Let's not worry about that.

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