WEBVTT - Sonia Kruger on her very public roles & her very private relationships

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome to Something to Talk About the Stella Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Sarah Lamarquin, your host and Stella's editor in chief.

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<v Speaker 2>Every week I sit down.

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<v Speaker 1>With some of the biggest names in the country, because

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<v Speaker 1>when Australia's celebrities are ready to talk, they come to

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<v Speaker 1>Something to talk About. Since nineteen ninety two, Sonya Krueger

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<v Speaker 1>has been a fixture on our screens, from her role

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<v Speaker 1>as Tina Sparkle in bas Lehman's cult film Strictly Ballroom,

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<v Speaker 1>to working as a television presenter on Morning TV and

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<v Speaker 1>hosting some of Australia's most successful reality shows, including of course,

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<v Speaker 1>Dancing with the Stars, the unexpected hit that forever changed

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<v Speaker 1>the course of her career when it first went to

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<v Speaker 1>air twenty years ago. But her private life, well, she

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<v Speaker 1>likes to keep that, including her relationship with her partner Craig,

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<v Speaker 1>the father of her nine year old daughter Maggie, just

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<v Speaker 1>that private. But on today's episode, Sonia joins me in

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<v Speaker 1>the studio to get a little more personal. We discussed

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<v Speaker 1>how she was instrumental in bringing Dancing with the Stars

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<v Speaker 1>to the screen. What life is the mother of a

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<v Speaker 1>nine year old girl is really like? How that Gold

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<v Speaker 1>Logi speech led her to therapy.

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<v Speaker 2>And how she felt when her partner Craig.

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<v Speaker 1>Was recently the one in the headlines instead of her.

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<v Speaker 1>Sonya Krueger, welcome to Stella and something to talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for having me, Sarah La marquand.

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<v Speaker 1>Dancing with the Stars new season starting next week. So, Sonya,

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<v Speaker 1>it was twenty years ago this year, can you believe it?

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<v Speaker 1>With the Stars launch two thousand and four. It was

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<v Speaker 1>after the Olympics, an Olympic year again this year, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was I believe October.

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<v Speaker 2>Very short season.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's be honest, no one really thought it was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a hit. When they talk about an unexpected hit.

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<v Speaker 1>That first season of Dancing with the Stars was it

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<v Speaker 1>and it was absolute water cooler. Everyone was watching it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking figures of a couple of million people. Such

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<v Speaker 1>a hit that then they quickly put together a new

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<v Speaker 1>series and you were back on air again in February.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, we did two series a year for a couple

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<v Speaker 4>of years there. I'd go backwards and forwards to Melbourne

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<v Speaker 4>and we'd do this one live show. It was always

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<v Speaker 4>at Tuesday night and the numbers were extraordinary and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't think anybody could quite believe that people were tuning

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<v Speaker 4>in to watch this show that was all about ballroom dancing.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it was kind of not that cool.

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<v Speaker 4>But the casting, I think is really what made those

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<v Speaker 4>series work and make any series work, because if you

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<v Speaker 4>get the right group of people and you get some

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<v Speaker 4>really interesting characters in there, then they become so engaging

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<v Speaker 4>for the audience. I think like last year, Isa Schultz,

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<v Speaker 4>he was one of those characters that the audience just

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<v Speaker 4>loved to see on the dance floor because we know

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<v Speaker 4>him on the chase, we know him as this incredible mind.

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<v Speaker 4>He was so out of his comfort zone. Even if

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<v Speaker 4>you go back to those very early series.

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<v Speaker 1>With Pauline Hanson, who you know, Pauline was not the

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<v Speaker 1>greatest dancer by a long shot, but she made it

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<v Speaker 1>all the way to the end because the audience kept

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<v Speaker 1>her there. So it's one of those things people really

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<v Speaker 1>love to get involved with the competitors on the show

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<v Speaker 1>and the personalities. And you also have seen over the

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<v Speaker 1>years people really come into their own and blossom, which

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<v Speaker 1>all sounds very trite, but there were moments over the

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<v Speaker 1>years when you were talking about Pauline Hanson, I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking Chris Bath was in one of those first few

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<v Speaker 1>series as well. Oh she was the runner up. But

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<v Speaker 1>you had this television anchor, news presenter, very you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sort of buttoned up.

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<v Speaker 4>We never see we never see their legs, right, we

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<v Speaker 4>never see a news present it's legs because they were

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<v Speaker 4>always pretty much under a desk. And Barthy, yes, just

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<v Speaker 4>bloomed on the dance floor and it was such a

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<v Speaker 4>joy to watch that happen. And we became very close

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<v Speaker 4>because we were both together.

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<v Speaker 3>Fly down to Melbourne for the show, and.

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<v Speaker 4>As she progressed through it, she just loved it more

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<v Speaker 4>and more and more until she got all the way

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<v Speaker 4>to the final. And she was in that final with

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<v Speaker 4>Aida Nicodemu and they were both extraordinary dancers, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and they look I just remember Barthy's grand finale and

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<v Speaker 4>it was ac DC I think she chose and she

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<v Speaker 4>was on top of the news desk, rocking out with

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<v Speaker 4>a good time.

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<v Speaker 3>Crazy stuff but so much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It was something that showed a whole other side of

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<v Speaker 1>her and everyone could get behind that person.

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<v Speaker 2>So is there something primal or unique?

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<v Speaker 1>What is it about dancing that you think perhaps seemed

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<v Speaker 1>to any of us?

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<v Speaker 2>But the celebrities that are featured on the show and.

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<v Speaker 1>Makes them reveal this side of themselves, not only to

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<v Speaker 1>everyone watching, but to themselves.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you've hit the nail on the head. It's primal.

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<v Speaker 4>When you look at children and babies and you put

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<v Speaker 4>music on, what happens They start to dance. They've never

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<v Speaker 4>been taught, they've never been shown. They just start to

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<v Speaker 4>move to the music, don't they. And then as they

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<v Speaker 4>get older, generally we become more self conscious, and so

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<v Speaker 4>we tend to unless we're professional dances, unless we're people

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<v Speaker 4>who go and do dance class, we tend to stop

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<v Speaker 4>dancing unless we're at a nightclub with a bunch of

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<v Speaker 4>friends and we've had, you know, a couple of Margarita's

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<v Speaker 4>and we put our handbag down, and then we lose

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<v Speaker 4>our inhibitions.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think Dancing.

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<v Speaker 4>With the Stars gives people the license to lose those

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<v Speaker 4>inhibitions on the dance floor.

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<v Speaker 3>In fact, it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Required, you have to set all of that aside in

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<v Speaker 4>order to get through a performance. And then once people

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<v Speaker 4>do it and they have that breakthrough, I think they

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<v Speaker 4>find they love it more than they expected to, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's it's giving people that license to have fun.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's why I've always loved this show, because it

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<v Speaker 4>really is like even the promo that's running at the moment,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I don't know if you've seen it, it

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<v Speaker 4>almost looks like an episode of the Muppets.

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<v Speaker 3>And I say that.

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<v Speaker 4>I say that with love because I love the Muppets.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's just there's feathers and sequins and color and

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<v Speaker 4>happiness and joy, and you get to also see the

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<v Speaker 4>other side where you know, people are moved and emotional,

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<v Speaker 4>and so it has all of that. And now we've

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<v Speaker 4>got doctor Chris Brown. So life doesn't get any better.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, when you say that, the sequence and the feathers,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the exact same reason. To go back to why

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<v Speaker 1>even probably the people that green lit the show back

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<v Speaker 1>in two thousand and four were not expecting it to

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<v Speaker 1>be that successful. Sonya, you had worked in the industry

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, been in on Strictly Ballroom and then

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<v Speaker 1>had worked as a reporter, entertainment reporter, you had been

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<v Speaker 1>a weather presenter. That felt like the moment that first

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<v Speaker 1>season of Dancing with the Stars where you really broke

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<v Speaker 1>out from television presenter with a good steady job to

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<v Speaker 1>a star to a really, you know, in the most

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<v Speaker 1>technical terms, a viable commodity and started the way for

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<v Speaker 1>the career that we have seen in the twenty years since.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you agree with that assessment and what were your

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<v Speaker 1>memories of processing that at the time. So I had

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<v Speaker 1>been doing some entertainment reporting for Today Tonight. That was

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<v Speaker 1>my full time job, and I had been in London

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<v Speaker 1>and I just turned the television on and this show

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<v Speaker 1>came up and it was called Celebrity Come Dancing. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was mesmerized by this show because it was ballroom dancing.

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<v Speaker 1>But there were people on there who I didn't particularly know,

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<v Speaker 1>but one was a sportsperson, one was a politician, one

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<v Speaker 1>was an actor. And I was just looking at this

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<v Speaker 1>show thinking this is amazing and so in my wheelhouse

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<v Speaker 1>because it's about dancing. I got back to Sydney.

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<v Speaker 4>I spoke to Peter Meakin, who was the head of

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<v Speaker 4>news at the time, and I said, you know what,

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<v Speaker 4>I saw this show in the UK. I really think

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<v Speaker 4>we should do it at seven and he went, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I think we've got the rights to it and I went,

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<v Speaker 4>you're joking. He said, no, you should talk to Brad

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<v Speaker 4>Lyons about it. So I called Brad.

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<v Speaker 3>Lions and he said, yes, all right, come and see me.

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<v Speaker 4>The dearly missed and sadly departed Brad who you know

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<v Speaker 4>who went I think far too young. But Brad really

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<v Speaker 4>didn't fill me with a lot of confidence. He kind

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<v Speaker 4>of you know, there were a few expletives, and he

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<v Speaker 4>basically said, I don't not sure why we're doing this,

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<v Speaker 4>but we ah and it better work.

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<v Speaker 3>Krueger were his final words to me on that.

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<v Speaker 4>And then we went to start shooting the show. Shooting it,

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<v Speaker 4>we were doing it live, we started rehearsing it. We

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<v Speaker 4>didn't even get through a rehearsal. It was a disaster.

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<v Speaker 4>There was no auto Q. Daryl worked with Q cards.

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<v Speaker 4>What was written on those was illegible hieroglyphics, and so

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<v Speaker 4>the whole thing was very free wheeling, as live as.

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<v Speaker 3>You could get.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I think when the numbers came in the

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<v Speaker 4>next day, everybody was just gobsmacked. So, yes, I was

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<v Speaker 4>lucky in that I ended up on a show in

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<v Speaker 4>primetime that had a huge amount of viewers. And yet

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<v Speaker 4>there was some bizarre and I don't want to sound

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<v Speaker 4>completely woo about this, but you know, when the universe

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<v Speaker 4>takes you in a certain direction, and I sort of

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<v Speaker 4>feel like that happened with Dancing with the Stars.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I had no idea that you had had

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<v Speaker 1>that role and were responsible really for them green lighting it.

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<v Speaker 2>Had those conversations with Peter and Brad.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think I was responsible for them green they had,

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<v Speaker 4>they had green layout, but to actually then say, well,

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<v Speaker 4>we have this property, let's actually put it together. Which

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<v Speaker 4>was a similar thing that happened with Strictly Ballroom. Because

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<v Speaker 4>I heard they were making that movie, I knew I

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<v Speaker 4>would be involved because of my dancing background, so I

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<v Speaker 4>asked for a role, and.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it does.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes you can sit back and wait for things to come,

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<v Speaker 4>but if there's something that you're really passionate about, ask

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<v Speaker 4>the question because you just never know where you might

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<v Speaker 4>end up.

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<v Speaker 1>Surely you've got a big bunch of flowers or two,

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<v Speaker 1>not just for being the co host of this massive,

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<v Speaker 1>unexpected breakout hit, but also somebody that did say to

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<v Speaker 1>Peter and Brad, hey, I think we should do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I can't take the credit because I think they

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<v Speaker 4>had already planned to do it. I just don't know

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<v Speaker 4>how much confidence they had. I think it was one

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<v Speaker 4>of those this is it was not it's a certainty,

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<v Speaker 4>if you know what I mean. It was very much

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<v Speaker 4>going to be we'll roll the dice and we'll see

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<v Speaker 4>what happens. Every year, networks need to constantly refresh and

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<v Speaker 4>evolve and bring in new product, and you know that's

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<v Speaker 4>the job of our programmers, the people who go overseas

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<v Speaker 4>every year and look at what's out there. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>things don't work here, and sometimes they do, and they

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<v Speaker 4>work for a very long time, like Dancing is it

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<v Speaker 4>twenty year proposition, or shows like Idle, you know, have

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<v Speaker 4>this incredible heritage the voice. These big global franchise shows

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<v Speaker 4>I think live for a long time, and that's why

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<v Speaker 4>they're very they're coveted by the networks and they're protected.

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<v Speaker 1>And they grow and they evolve over the years. They

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<v Speaker 1>can go off air for a couple of years and

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<v Speaker 1>then they'll come back on a different network or a

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<v Speaker 1>different host. Which all the things that have happened in

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<v Speaker 1>this twenty year period of Dancing with the Stars. You

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned Darryl Sonya, So that's obviously Darryl Sommers, who was

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<v Speaker 1>your co host there for the first few seasons, and

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<v Speaker 1>as you say it was filmed live in Melbourne. Darryl

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<v Speaker 1>very iconic, especially Melbourne personality. Over the years, you have

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<v Speaker 1>had a few different co hosts, and doctor Chris Brown

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<v Speaker 1>is your co host this year. Now, I did want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you about Chris because he is part of

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<v Speaker 1>the extended Stellar family, like self is a Stellar columnist,

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<v Speaker 1>being a previous guest here on something to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>He is going to be upstairs in the skybox when

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<v Speaker 1>the contestants received their scores. And for the first time ever, Sonya,

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<v Speaker 1>you are actually taking on the main hosting role.

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<v Speaker 2>Now a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 3>You're making me nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, you had the whole show riding on your shoulders

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<v Speaker 1>when it launch. If it hadn't worked in two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>and four, Krueger, we told you, yes, right, you can.

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<v Speaker 4>Have doesn't work, you blame someone else there, and if

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<v Speaker 4>it does work, it's all you.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people, myself included, would hear that and think, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>thank goodness about time. I've actually written columns over the

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<v Speaker 1>years saying if co hosts were moving on, how about

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<v Speaker 1>Sonya Krueger just host the show full time. I've asked

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<v Speaker 1>you about that over the years, and you've said no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I like having my part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So some people would say, great, this has been a

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<v Speaker 1>gender role reversal twenty long years in the making.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a really progressive move.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and that's not really the case. Is it something

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<v Speaker 2>for you?

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<v Speaker 1>You've just thought, Okay, I've decided, I'm ready. What's happened,

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<v Speaker 1>what's changed?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I think for me, like I've hosted shows, big

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<v Speaker 4>shows on my own, I've hosted The Voice and Big Brother.

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<v Speaker 4>I think with Dancing with the Stars, I did have that.

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<v Speaker 3>All care, no responsibility.

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<v Speaker 4>I could be in the green room and kind of

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<v Speaker 4>get away with murder in there.

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<v Speaker 3>But when Chris came on board, it was obvious that even.

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<v Speaker 4>From a practical perspective, being across the mechanics of a show,

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<v Speaker 4>that I had a lot more experience in that regard.

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<v Speaker 3>And also Chris really.

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<v Speaker 4>Wanted to be able to come and have fun, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and just really have some fun. So the obvious place

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<v Speaker 4>to do that is in the green room. So we thought,

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<v Speaker 4>well why not. It doesn't it's you know, it's something

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<v Speaker 4>people have said in the past that that should happen.

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<v Speaker 4>And then we thought, okay, let's just do it this

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<v Speaker 4>way and see how it goes.

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<v Speaker 3>I still get to have.

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<v Speaker 4>As much, if not more fun, because now I'm very

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<v Speaker 4>close to those judges, and so it's almost more fun,

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<v Speaker 4>I think, teasing them than some of.

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<v Speaker 3>The celebrities, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So I've really enjoyed being able to be down on

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<v Speaker 4>the floor and in amongst the action and talking to

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<v Speaker 4>the dancers and performers and celebrities once they've finished, too,

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<v Speaker 4>like cut off the press.

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<v Speaker 3>They've literally just on.

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<v Speaker 4>A routine, and I get to find out what the

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<v Speaker 4>experience was like for them, talk to the judges, and

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<v Speaker 4>then watch Chris and he makes me laugh with what

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<v Speaker 4>he's doing upstairs in the green room. So we don't

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<v Speaker 4>actually call it the green room anymore. It's the sky Lounge,

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<v Speaker 4>or you know, it's had a few different names. We'll

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<v Speaker 4>have to come up with a specific name for Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>Up next the gold Logi speech that stopped the Nation

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<v Speaker 1>and the Therapist's advice that stops Sonya in her tracks.

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<v Speaker 2>You mentioned hosting other shows on your own, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>You also, of course, are the host of The Voice,

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<v Speaker 1>which will also be back with the new season a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit later this winter. I understand that's been filmed.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a few new coaches joining the show this year,

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<v Speaker 1>Adam Lambert, Leanne Rhymes, Cape Miller Haike.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you spill a little bit of tea.

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<v Speaker 1>About working with some of those biggest names in music

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<v Speaker 1>that you have worked with in your years hosting The Voice.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, look, it's really quite surreal at times, because you'll

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<v Speaker 4>be sitting there and I remember what I started, and

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<v Speaker 4>I walked past Ricky Martin's chair, and Ricky smells amazing,

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<v Speaker 4>to the point where I was like.

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<v Speaker 3>What's that colone you're wearing? Ricky? It's comte de.

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<v Speaker 4>And he is just one of the nicest, sweetest people,

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<v Speaker 4>but just incredible to look at and to smell. I

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<v Speaker 4>know that sounds very baby Reindeer of me, but he's divine.

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<v Speaker 4>And then you've got people like CeAl, the Madden Brothers,

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<v Speaker 4>Jesse j Kelly, Rowland, Boy George. You know, to have

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<v Speaker 4>worked with all of those people is incredible. And then

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<v Speaker 4>along comes Adam Lambert, who is just the epitome of

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<v Speaker 4>glam rock. You know, he brings it.

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<v Speaker 3>He makes me feel like such a wallflower.

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<v Speaker 4>I've just spent four hours in hair and makeup and

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<v Speaker 4>I look plain next to you Leanne Rhymes, who is

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<v Speaker 4>just a door And I'll tell you why because we

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<v Speaker 4>share a birthday, so where Soul Virgo sisters. I think

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<v Speaker 4>that's what that's you know, as soon as I said

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<v Speaker 4>we have the same birthday, she went, ah, I see

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<v Speaker 4>you so yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And Kate Miller hide Key to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Was just a complete surprise package because she's classically trained,

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<v Speaker 4>she's had so much experience represented Australia at Eurovision. Is

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<v Speaker 4>incredibly articulate, but also comes out of left field at

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<v Speaker 4>times and you know you're you sort of raise your

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<v Speaker 4>eyebrows and go, wow, did I just hear that?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>So I think I think the audience will be really

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<v Speaker 4>really surprised by the new lineup and getting to know

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<v Speaker 4>those coaches.

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<v Speaker 1>All of this television that you've done over the last

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<v Speaker 1>two decades, a lot of live TV. Not that many

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<v Speaker 1>people in Australia have that many hours of live TV

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<v Speaker 1>under their belt. That's something we talk about a lot

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<v Speaker 1>with the hosts of the breakfast TV shows. Yes, because

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<v Speaker 1>you really have to navigate anything could happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they're the best.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you're in the country anchoring a show like

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<v Speaker 1>a Dancing with the Stars, finale when it was being

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<v Speaker 1>filmed live. If something is going to go wrong, you've

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<v Speaker 1>really got to be thinking quickly on your feet. I'm curious,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, how your confidence has grown. Anyone that

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<v Speaker 1>is working in any field, whatever it is, you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you start to really find yourself and realize that

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<v Speaker 1>there's skills you've developed and honed that you're probably taking

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<v Speaker 1>for granted, except when you look back and think, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably didn't know that five, ten, fifteen years ago. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>And the second part of my question, I suppose I

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned that sort of fearlessness that I think that energy

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<v Speaker 1>that you have always brought to your television work and

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<v Speaker 1>your presenting work. Does knowing that you are prepared for

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<v Speaker 1>anything to potend go wrong when you're anchoring live TV

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<v Speaker 1>give you a certain agility And I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>fearlessness is the word, but just know I've probably really

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<v Speaker 1>got this and in your real life, in your offscreen life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, which part of the question do I answer?

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<v Speaker 3>First?

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<v Speaker 4>I think the experience of doing it day in day out,

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<v Speaker 4>and I came through a morning news program when I

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<v Speaker 4>first started to and then onto primetime television. Making mistakes

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<v Speaker 4>is really what is where you learn how you learn.

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<v Speaker 4>And I try to instill this in Maggie, for example,

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<v Speaker 4>my daughter, because I want her to understand it's okay

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<v Speaker 4>to make mistakes. None of us are perfect. None of

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<v Speaker 4>us can get it right one hundred percent of the time,

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<v Speaker 4>and if you don't make mistakes, you don't learn from it.

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<v Speaker 4>So and I think that's the thing. Oftentimes it seemed

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<v Speaker 4>to me that the audience.

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<v Speaker 3>Enjoyed the mistakes too.

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<v Speaker 4>They didn't love you know, if the show was so

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<v Speaker 4>slick it looked like it could have been pre recorded

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<v Speaker 4>and edited and everything was just perfect, it kind of

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<v Speaker 4>became a little boring, you know. They like that danger

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<v Speaker 4>mouse aspect of live or as live television. So there

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<v Speaker 4>is something to be said for experience. Definitely doing it,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, year in, year out, does bring you a

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<v Speaker 4>certain amount of confidence. And I think I learned too

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<v Speaker 4>that when you look at a show and you come

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<v Speaker 4>to a grand finale and you think, what's the worst

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<v Speaker 4>thing that could happen here? And it happened to me

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<v Speaker 4>on the voice one night. We had this full proof

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<v Speaker 4>method of when it came to announcing the winner, the

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<v Speaker 4>voice would be given to me in my ear from

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<v Speaker 4>the producer and I would have it on a card

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<v Speaker 4>to make sure that we had crosschecked.

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<v Speaker 3>It was all in hand.

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<v Speaker 4>And I never really liked to look at who the

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<v Speaker 4>winner was on the card until just before, because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not a great actor and I didn't want to, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>accidentally sort of look at somebody or they're quite paranoid

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<v Speaker 4>if you were looking at them, and you don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to give it away. So got to that moment, I

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<v Speaker 4>said the winner the voice is. I looked at my card.

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<v Speaker 4>The name was given to me in my ear and

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<v Speaker 4>they were different. And in that moment, I really didn't

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<v Speaker 4>know what to do, and there was nothing I could

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<v Speaker 4>say because I couldn't say it well, I couldn't say.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly, Hey, guys, you're being watched, you're being listened to,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right, And so I signed, I paused. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I may have touched my ear piece and sometimes that's

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a sign. And so they repeated

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<v Speaker 1>the name in my ear, still different from the name

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<v Speaker 1>on my card, and I it was almost like the

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<v Speaker 1>the whole room just stopped, and I think people were thinking, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the longest dramatic.

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<v Speaker 4>Case the probably just say it, yes, just say it,

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<v Speaker 4>and you know what I did. I probably shouldn't admit this,

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<v Speaker 4>but at that moment, I took a punt on who

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<v Speaker 4>I thought was going to win, and at that exact

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<v Speaker 4>moment they realized in the control room something was wrong,

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<v Speaker 4>and so they said the name again, and that's what

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<v Speaker 4>we went with. So the name on the card was

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<v Speaker 4>wrong and right.

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<v Speaker 1>And is that what you would have done? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>what you were when you say there was a punt?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well yes, it was kind of like I have

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<v Speaker 4>to pick one here and I don't know which way

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going, but I'm going to go. I'm just and

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<v Speaker 4>luckily for me, it just happened at the same time

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<v Speaker 4>that they confirmed it again in my ear. So but

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<v Speaker 4>that left me with some very sweaty palms. I can

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<v Speaker 4>tell you it must have felt.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what the real time was.

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<v Speaker 1>It might have only been eight ten seconds, but it

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<v Speaker 1>must have felt eight years.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I think it came after it was after the

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<v Speaker 3>Sarah Murdock situation had occurred, and everybody was really afraid

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<v Speaker 3>of making that mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is why they're like, foolproof, You've got the car

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<v Speaker 1>and the go wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So did that then when you got on the

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<v Speaker 1>other side of that, did you As you say, you

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes say to yourself, well, what's the worst that could

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<v Speaker 1>go wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, arguably the worst went wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 4>I survive and everybody's survives, and I think that's the

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<v Speaker 4>thing is also to keep it in perspective.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that nobody dies.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a television show, and it's a singing competition, or

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<v Speaker 4>it's a dance in competition. You know, so these things

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<v Speaker 4>it's entertainment, and really, you know, we just have to

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<v Speaker 4>give ourselves a reality check from time to time that

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<v Speaker 4>you know what if as long as we're having a

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<v Speaker 4>good time, the audience will be having a good time

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<v Speaker 4>with us, and mistakes will happen, and we probably just

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<v Speaker 4>need to be a little kinder all round to ourselves

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<v Speaker 4>and each other.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's that's good advice for life.

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<v Speaker 3>For life.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk a little bit about the Logis. You won

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<v Speaker 1>Gold LOGI last year and you are nominated again this year.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations in two categories, including Gold. You were not someone

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<v Speaker 1>who instantly won Logis early in your career. You often

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<v Speaker 1>have people that can be on really successful shows and

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<v Speaker 1>for some reason aren't included in Logis, and then there'll

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<v Speaker 1>be something ten twenty years later, and then you have

0:24:23.200 --> 0:24:27.560
<v Speaker 1>people like Kylie Minogue where in that Scott and Charlene

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<v Speaker 1>Era was just winning all of the logis all at once.

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<v Speaker 1>So for you when you first got your first nomination,

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<v Speaker 1>because it had been a few years in the making,

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<v Speaker 1>what did it.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean to you?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it was just incredible really because I had

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<v Speaker 4>never personally been nominated for a LOGI.

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<v Speaker 3>The shows that I worked.

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<v Speaker 4>On had been so Dancing had been, The Voice had been,

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<v Speaker 4>Big Brother had been, but I had never been nominated.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even think even when I first started out

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<v Speaker 4>there was like a Best New Talent nomination.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just kind.

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<v Speaker 4>Of grew used to the fact that the shows would

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<v Speaker 4>be nominated, and that was great because I think the

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<v Speaker 4>other thing is to operate under the illusion that any

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<v Speaker 4>of us as hosts really are white people tune in.

0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:15.960
<v Speaker 4>They don't they come for the show, they don't come

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<v Speaker 4>for us.

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<v Speaker 3>We hopefully facilitate a good time, you know, that's why

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<v Speaker 3>we're there. So to get that.

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<v Speaker 4>First nomination and to have it be a Gold LOGI

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<v Speaker 4>nomination was.

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<v Speaker 3>Just wow, this is all I need. This is the

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<v Speaker 3>best prize ever.

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<v Speaker 2>And then of course you won, and you seem genuinely surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>Not you talked earlier, you don't think you're the best actor.

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:45.720
<v Speaker 1>We see it the Oscars where you do have the

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<v Speaker 1>world's best actors, and there'll be someone and everyone knows

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<v Speaker 1>that that person is going to win that.

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<v Speaker 2>Year, and then they will go, oh, what me. But

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<v Speaker 2>for you, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Genuinely seemed surprised when your name was called last year

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<v Speaker 1>as the winner of Gold, like.

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<v Speaker 4>I was, because to me, I just felt that Hamish

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<v Speaker 4>is just that he's so lovable. Everybody loves Hamish, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and he'd won it so many years in a row.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that's the other thing too. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes you get winners, multiple winners, they win over a

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<v Speaker 4>couple of years, and like I said, just to be

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<v Speaker 4>nominated in that group of people, I can't even explain

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<v Speaker 4>what that is like too, because you know, somebody like

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<v Speaker 4>Sean Mcaloff, who I think is a genius, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>even feel worthy of being in the same group as

0:26:33.960 --> 0:26:37.200
<v Speaker 4>someone like Sean Mcaliff, you know, so, And whether that

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<v Speaker 4>is imposter syndrome or or I don't think it is.

0:26:41.040 --> 0:26:41.960
<v Speaker 3>I just think.

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<v Speaker 4>There are some very, very talented people out there, and

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes it's weird to be included in that group.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I was shocked. I was.

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<v Speaker 4>I was also slightly delirious because I've been going since

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<v Speaker 4>about eight in the morning, because we've done the red

0:26:57.160 --> 0:27:02.560
<v Speaker 4>carpet coverage and we've been shooting rooftop openers, and it

0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 4>was by this stage it was like midnight or something.

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<v Speaker 2>They go on a bit, yes, the old logies.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, can we tighten that up this year?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, your speech then, your acceptance speech actually made more

0:27:14.600 --> 0:27:17.520
<v Speaker 1>headlines I think than anything else that happened all night.

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<v Speaker 2>You wrote about.

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<v Speaker 3>Italy, how brilliant it was.

0:27:20.920 --> 0:27:23.560
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's a matter of debate. Let's say you did

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<v Speaker 2>write about.

0:27:24.080 --> 0:27:27.440
<v Speaker 1>It later in Stella you said, I've rewridden that acceptance

0:27:27.440 --> 0:27:31.480
<v Speaker 1>speech in my head over and over again ever since.

0:27:31.680 --> 0:27:34.600
<v Speaker 2>To recap for people. You made a joke about Hamish.

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<v Speaker 1>You've mentioned fellow Gold LOGI nominee Hamish Blake, and.

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<v Speaker 4>I've joked with Hamish. Hamish and I have the same agent,

0:27:41.119 --> 0:27:43.679
<v Speaker 4>Mark Clemens. He's here tonight and I said to him,

0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:45.800
<v Speaker 4>I said, Mark, who did you vote for? Put him

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<v Speaker 4>on the spot, and he was like, well, sonya, I

0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:52.240
<v Speaker 4>think people are a little over Hamish and I went, no, Ma,

0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:56.280
<v Speaker 4>surely not no, he's he's the odds on favorite.

0:27:55.880 --> 0:27:57.159
<v Speaker 3>To win, and he went no.

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<v Speaker 4>And frankly, I'm secretly hoping he'll leave the age and

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<v Speaker 4>see so I can concentrate all of my efforts on you, Sonya.

0:28:04.119 --> 0:28:07.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm just kidding. Obviously Mark did not say that. I'm paraphrasing.

0:28:08.560 --> 0:28:10.359
<v Speaker 2>It was perceived to fall flat.

0:28:10.440 --> 0:28:12.960
<v Speaker 4>Hamish and I have the same manager, and he was

0:28:13.000 --> 0:28:15.679
<v Speaker 4>sitting next to Hamish and I put Mark on the

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<v Speaker 4>spot earlier in the day.

0:28:16.920 --> 0:28:20.520
<v Speaker 3>I said, who did you vote for? And we'd like to.

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<v Speaker 1>Tease Mark quite a bit, Oh, I'm sure, having Sonya.

0:28:24.359 --> 0:28:28.520
<v Speaker 4>And and we we've pranked him, we've teased him, we've

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:30.760
<v Speaker 4>done all sorts of things to him, and so I

0:28:30.800 --> 0:28:34.440
<v Speaker 4>thought it would be funny to say, you know, frankly, Hamish,

0:28:34.640 --> 0:28:37.080
<v Speaker 4>Mark didn't vote for you. He voted for me, and

0:28:37.480 --> 0:28:39.800
<v Speaker 4>just between you and me, he's lost interest in you,

0:28:40.000 --> 0:28:41.920
<v Speaker 4>like it might be best to find another agent.

0:28:42.040 --> 0:28:43.560
<v Speaker 3>That was where I was going.

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:46.720
<v Speaker 4>But I think the audience was very tired and my

0:28:46.840 --> 0:28:50.520
<v Speaker 4>delivery wasn't brilliant, So at that point I thought I

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:52.240
<v Speaker 4>just need to get off this stage now.

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:55.960
<v Speaker 2>Well, Hamish was a guest on something to talk about

0:28:56.000 --> 0:28:58.320
<v Speaker 2>just a couple of months ago, and we spoke about

0:28:58.320 --> 0:29:00.240
<v Speaker 2>that moment and he said.

0:29:00.200 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 5>I know she's joking. I don't care for it. I

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:05.680
<v Speaker 5>didn't care for two seconds at like foolishly or not.

0:29:06.640 --> 0:29:09.520
<v Speaker 5>I'd sometimes take like weeks off Instagram, so I just

0:29:09.680 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 5>wasn't on social media. Like we finished the night and again,

0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:16.720
<v Speaker 5>love that sonya one. She deserves it. It was great.

0:29:17.040 --> 0:29:18.920
<v Speaker 5>So yeah, I was like, great, we can go home.

0:29:19.080 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 5>Like I went home. I when cuddled my daughter in

0:29:22.040 --> 0:29:23.960
<v Speaker 5>bed and I was actually sitting there thinking this is

0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:26.760
<v Speaker 5>so nice. This is great. I get to like lie here,

0:29:27.280 --> 0:29:29.440
<v Speaker 5>I don't have to I'm not doing media. I don't

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:30.520
<v Speaker 5>have to wake up in the morning and do the

0:29:30.520 --> 0:29:34.560
<v Speaker 5>today Like there's again I'm very grateful for the honor

0:29:34.600 --> 0:29:37.280
<v Speaker 5>when it happens, if it ever happens, but there is

0:29:37.320 --> 0:29:39.240
<v Speaker 5>a silver lining to not having to do media in

0:29:39.280 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 5>the next day. So I was just having a final

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:43.560
<v Speaker 5>time and then I didn't realize until probably a little

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:46.600
<v Speaker 5>bit later, like maybe late in the next day, and

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:48.400
<v Speaker 5>by that stage, like the new cyclic gone and I

0:29:48.400 --> 0:29:49.880
<v Speaker 5>probably should have done the right thing. I was prepaty

0:29:49.880 --> 0:29:51.760
<v Speaker 5>should have posted something and said I don't care about

0:29:51.800 --> 0:29:54.320
<v Speaker 5>this at all, but I just wasn't paying attention to it,

0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:58.120
<v Speaker 5>so unfortunately for something like the blowback happened. And then

0:29:58.840 --> 0:30:00.719
<v Speaker 5>I can't remember she mailed me or I emailed her,

0:30:00.720 --> 0:30:03.320
<v Speaker 5>but I kind of realized late that next day that

0:30:03.720 --> 0:30:05.720
<v Speaker 5>she was copping heat for this, so I think I

0:30:05.800 --> 0:30:06.720
<v Speaker 5>maybe emailed her.

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 4>And these things they play on your mind, and I did,

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:11.680
<v Speaker 4>and I know Hamish mentioned this too. I send him

0:30:11.680 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 4>an email the next day or the day after, and

0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 4>I just said, look, I hope I didn't offend you,

0:30:16.160 --> 0:30:18.520
<v Speaker 4>that I really was just trying to make a bit

0:30:18.520 --> 0:30:21.400
<v Speaker 4>of a joke about this and tease Mark. And he

0:30:21.440 --> 0:30:26.440
<v Speaker 4>wrote the sweetest email back to me, and that's you

0:30:26.440 --> 0:30:28.200
<v Speaker 4>know why we love Hamish.

0:30:28.360 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 3>Plus you can give a good speech.

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<v Speaker 2>Did it take the shine off that goal for you?

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:38.280
<v Speaker 4>I think I was expecting to feel this amazing happiness

0:30:38.280 --> 0:30:41.920
<v Speaker 4>and joy and wanting to drink champagne and just have

0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:45.680
<v Speaker 4>a really good time. But I was beating myself up.

0:30:46.200 --> 0:30:50.640
<v Speaker 4>And this gets back to that concept of we can

0:30:50.680 --> 0:30:53.600
<v Speaker 4>be very hard on ourselves. I think, and no matter

0:30:53.640 --> 0:30:57.800
<v Speaker 4>what anybody else writes, I think I am my own

0:30:57.880 --> 0:31:01.160
<v Speaker 4>worst critic and nothing anyone else wrote could make me

0:31:01.200 --> 0:31:03.520
<v Speaker 4>feel worse than what I'm saying to myself in my

0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:06.880
<v Speaker 4>own head. But luckily for me, you know, I have

0:31:07.120 --> 0:31:11.400
<v Speaker 4>some really fantastic friends and family who started to point

0:31:11.400 --> 0:31:12.760
<v Speaker 4>out a few things to me. They were like, you

0:31:12.800 --> 0:31:16.960
<v Speaker 4>know what, Sonya, in how many years of the logo

0:31:17.120 --> 0:31:20.200
<v Speaker 4>sixty nine to seventy years of the logis there's only

0:31:20.400 --> 0:31:22.560
<v Speaker 4>you know, been sixteen female winners.

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 3>That's an achievement.

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:27.280
<v Speaker 4>You know, you're one of sixteen women to take home

0:31:27.360 --> 0:31:30.520
<v Speaker 4>the gold LOGI and it's yours and you deserve it.

0:31:30.600 --> 0:31:33.200
<v Speaker 4>And you know, they were kind of pointing out all

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:35.400
<v Speaker 4>the things that you just mentioned to me, which was

0:31:35.560 --> 0:31:40.479
<v Speaker 4>really lovely, and so yeah, I think it's an interesting thing.

0:31:40.520 --> 0:31:42.560
<v Speaker 4>And I put this in the Stellar article. You know

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:44.560
<v Speaker 4>it did. It did bother me to the point where

0:31:44.880 --> 0:31:47.400
<v Speaker 4>I spoke to someone about it because I couldn't stop

0:31:48.160 --> 0:31:52.240
<v Speaker 4>berating myself internally. And I spoke to a psychologist who said,

0:31:52.280 --> 0:31:55.320
<v Speaker 4>I don't watch much television, Sonya, but what I want

0:31:55.320 --> 0:31:57.880
<v Speaker 4>you to do is I want you to practice being kind.

0:31:57.760 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 3>To yourself and practices sort.

0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:04.800
<v Speaker 4>Of kindness you employ with those young men you work

0:32:04.840 --> 0:32:07.520
<v Speaker 4>with on beauty in the geek and I went, oh, you,

0:32:07.680 --> 0:32:14.120
<v Speaker 4>that's Sophie Monk, and.

0:32:14.040 --> 0:32:16.160
<v Speaker 3>You know that put it all in perspective for me.

0:32:16.720 --> 0:32:19.280
<v Speaker 4>For a start, I felt very flattered because she's fifteen

0:32:19.360 --> 0:32:23.120
<v Speaker 4>years younger than me, so thank you, I'll take that. Also,

0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:27.320
<v Speaker 4>he was really embarrassed. This kind of lessened my embarrassment

0:32:27.400 --> 0:32:28.200
<v Speaker 4>for some reason.

0:32:29.240 --> 0:32:30.720
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, there.

0:32:30.680 --> 0:32:31.680
<v Speaker 2>Was still good advice.

0:32:31.760 --> 0:32:32.840
<v Speaker 3>Though I need advice.

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:36.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so the you know you're seeing someone that's getting

0:32:36.160 --> 0:32:40.240
<v Speaker 1>their television shows that they're you know, glamorous, beautiful, blonde

0:32:40.240 --> 0:32:42.600
<v Speaker 1>female host mixed up. But apart from that, it's actually

0:32:42.680 --> 0:32:45.120
<v Speaker 1>still really good advice, isn't it to show yourself a

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:46.040
<v Speaker 1>bit more compassion?

0:32:46.160 --> 0:32:48.840
<v Speaker 4>And I wish I could promise that if there was

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:51.040
<v Speaker 4>to be a do over, and I don't expect that

0:32:51.080 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 4>there will be at all, but if there was, I

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:55.440
<v Speaker 4>wish I could promise people an amazing speech, but I can't.

0:32:56.240 --> 0:32:58.560
<v Speaker 4>I think I'd have to rely on chat, GPT or

0:32:58.600 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 4>something to write it.

0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:05.440
<v Speaker 2>And coming up Sonya on what being a mother of

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:06.000
<v Speaker 2>a nine.

0:33:05.880 --> 0:33:10.200
<v Speaker 1>Year old is really like, I wanted to ask you

0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:13.080
<v Speaker 1>about something else that you referred to in your columns,

0:33:13.080 --> 0:33:16.640
<v Speaker 1>which is motherhood. You mentioned Maggie, your daughter, who is

0:33:16.720 --> 0:33:20.760
<v Speaker 1>now nine. You write about her in a really self deprecating,

0:33:20.920 --> 0:33:27.640
<v Speaker 1>refreshing but genuinely lovely way. It's very Sonya Krueger approach

0:33:28.320 --> 0:33:31.440
<v Speaker 1>at nine? How is that age? And how is your

0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:37.480
<v Speaker 1>relationship with Maggie evolving as she's nearing double digits?

0:33:37.600 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 3>I know, I know, nine and a half. It's crazy.

0:33:41.400 --> 0:33:45.240
<v Speaker 3>She's obsessed with skincare, like most nine and a half.

0:33:45.200 --> 0:33:47.520
<v Speaker 2>Year olds are now at the moment, aren't they.

0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:51.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's really she makes me feel like, you know,

0:33:52.000 --> 0:33:54.720
<v Speaker 4>I don't know what I'm doing at all, and she

0:33:54.960 --> 0:33:58.640
<v Speaker 4>questions me about you know, what cleans are amusing? And

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:03.080
<v Speaker 4>so shift the shift between when they are you know,

0:34:03.160 --> 0:34:06.880
<v Speaker 4>your babies to starting school and then the development from

0:34:06.920 --> 0:34:10.160
<v Speaker 4>there is pretty rapid fire, isn't it for parents?

0:34:10.840 --> 0:34:12.760
<v Speaker 1>Happens so quickly? I mean, I know it's a cliche,

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:15.040
<v Speaker 1>but it does. You really see it?

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:15.520
<v Speaker 3>You do?

0:34:16.040 --> 0:34:19.240
<v Speaker 2>It's a whole other era. Most with every birthday.

0:34:18.800 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 4>And what part of me, you know, I look back

0:34:20.600 --> 0:34:22.920
<v Speaker 4>at photos like every mum and go.

0:34:22.880 --> 0:34:25.280
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, look at her. There she was four

0:34:25.360 --> 0:34:27.240
<v Speaker 3>and she was just a baby.

0:34:28.200 --> 0:34:31.120
<v Speaker 4>I also love the fact that now she and I

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:34.560
<v Speaker 4>can spend time just hanging out. You know, we'll have

0:34:34.600 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 4>these amazing conversations and.

0:34:37.520 --> 0:34:41.200
<v Speaker 3>Just her curiosity about life in general.

0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:45.440
<v Speaker 4>And I remember nine specifically because it was when I

0:34:45.480 --> 0:34:49.040
<v Speaker 4>discovered ballroom dancing. And I think at the age of

0:34:49.120 --> 0:34:51.640
<v Speaker 4>nine and ten, you really start to find the things

0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:54.560
<v Speaker 4>that you'd love and the things you're passionate about. And

0:34:54.640 --> 0:34:58.160
<v Speaker 4>so I really want her to be passionate about tennis

0:34:58.520 --> 0:35:01.399
<v Speaker 4>because I want to do circuit right.

0:35:03.000 --> 0:35:05.920
<v Speaker 2>Is she no cooperating? No?

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:08.400
<v Speaker 4>No, I mean I'd like to go to Roland Garrison

0:35:09.040 --> 0:35:10.600
<v Speaker 4>do the Grand Slam circuit.

0:35:10.600 --> 0:35:11.799
<v Speaker 3>But she's not. She's not.

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:15.000
<v Speaker 2>Maggie's not falling, She's not picking up what I'm putting down. No,

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 2>is there a plan? B?

0:35:17.040 --> 0:35:18.720
<v Speaker 3>Well, good question.

0:35:19.480 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 4>Strangely enough, Maggie is a very expressive person, and I

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:26.480
<v Speaker 4>feel she she's.

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:29.480
<v Speaker 3>Got this natural of dramatic ability. I didn't have that.

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 4>I was a terrible actor, hence c strictly ballroom. But

0:35:33.400 --> 0:35:40.920
<v Speaker 4>she actually has this really strong dramatic vibe. And I

0:35:40.960 --> 0:35:43.960
<v Speaker 4>probably wouldn't advise her to become an actor because I

0:35:43.960 --> 0:35:47.520
<v Speaker 4>think there's not a lot of job security there. It's

0:35:47.560 --> 0:35:51.480
<v Speaker 4>often fraught within security. You know, she'd be better off

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:56.080
<v Speaker 4>probably going and doing a communications degree and becoming a journalist.

0:35:56.160 --> 0:36:01.560
<v Speaker 4>She might she might have a bit more.

0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:04.520
<v Speaker 2>Solid Wow, maybe stick with skin care. Maybe she could

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:05.800
<v Speaker 2>become a science.

0:36:05.520 --> 0:36:09.960
<v Speaker 4>Or another profession lord, a dentist, you know, a doctor something. Yeah,

0:36:10.040 --> 0:36:13.319
<v Speaker 4>maybe actually say lives that would be great. But yes,

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:16.719
<v Speaker 4>kids they find their own passion at that age, so

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:19.799
<v Speaker 4>I'm really kind of interested to see what that might be.

0:36:19.920 --> 0:36:22.719
<v Speaker 4>I was joking, semi joking about the tennis thing.

0:36:23.800 --> 0:36:27.279
<v Speaker 1>You felt pregnant with Maggie when you were forty eight. Now,

0:36:27.400 --> 0:36:30.799
<v Speaker 1>unlike some celebrity pregnancies, you were very open from the

0:36:30.840 --> 0:36:34.399
<v Speaker 1>outset about the challenges that can come with conceiving at

0:36:34.400 --> 0:36:37.480
<v Speaker 1>that age. Was that a conscious decision for you in

0:36:37.600 --> 0:36:41.160
<v Speaker 1>being so transparent, not wanting to pedal false hope to

0:36:41.280 --> 0:36:41.800
<v Speaker 1>other women.

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:45.200
<v Speaker 4>I didn't want to mislead any other women out there

0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:47.560
<v Speaker 4>and have them think, oh, it's a miracle. You know

0:36:47.640 --> 0:36:51.279
<v Speaker 4>this happened, you know, absolutely naturally and there was no

0:36:51.320 --> 0:36:55.719
<v Speaker 4>scientific intervention here, because I feel like that kind of

0:36:55.760 --> 0:36:58.680
<v Speaker 4>happened to me. And maybe if I'd known that a

0:36:58.719 --> 0:37:01.840
<v Speaker 4>little bit earlier, wouldn't have waited so long. I would

0:37:01.880 --> 0:37:05.800
<v Speaker 4>have taken other steps. Now, the brilliant thing is women

0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:09.080
<v Speaker 4>can freeze their eggs. That option wasn't available for me

0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:12.400
<v Speaker 4>at that time. So my advice to a lot of

0:37:12.400 --> 0:37:14.040
<v Speaker 4>women out there is, if you do want to kind

0:37:14.040 --> 0:37:17.319
<v Speaker 4>of you know, have some security later in life to

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:20.120
<v Speaker 4>know that you can fell pregnant, just just freeze your

0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:22.800
<v Speaker 4>eggs now. Do it now if you can. And also

0:37:22.880 --> 0:37:25.240
<v Speaker 4>for those of us who couldn't do that or didn't

0:37:25.280 --> 0:37:29.200
<v Speaker 4>have that option, to normalize the fact that families come

0:37:29.280 --> 0:37:32.400
<v Speaker 4>in all different shapes and sizes, and whether your baby

0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:37.440
<v Speaker 4>is adopted, you know, whether it's a blended family. No

0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:40.120
<v Speaker 4>matter what it is, it's still your family, and it

0:37:40.160 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 4>doesn't change the amount of love that you have in

0:37:42.080 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 4>your heart.

0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:46.080
<v Speaker 1>I think it was really generous and important of you

0:37:46.280 --> 0:37:47.480
<v Speaker 1>to be upfront about it.

0:37:47.520 --> 0:37:47.759
<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

0:37:47.960 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 4>I've actually had a lot of women over the years

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:53.239
<v Speaker 4>thank me because they've gone on to have their own

0:37:53.280 --> 0:37:56.920
<v Speaker 4>families as a result of reading about my story, and

0:37:56.960 --> 0:38:00.719
<v Speaker 4>I think if I've managed to help somebody else, that

0:38:00.800 --> 0:38:03.200
<v Speaker 4>makes me feel good. The flip side of it is,

0:38:03.400 --> 0:38:05.840
<v Speaker 4>it is very much up to the individual, and I

0:38:05.840 --> 0:38:09.000
<v Speaker 4>think if somebody wanted and chose to keep that private,

0:38:09.120 --> 0:38:11.799
<v Speaker 4>I think they should be totally.

0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 3>Entitled to do that.

0:38:13.440 --> 0:38:18.200
<v Speaker 1>Maggie was born in twenty fifteen. You've also referenced a

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:20.719
<v Speaker 1>couple of times in your columns in a really beautiful

0:38:20.760 --> 0:38:25.319
<v Speaker 1>way your beloved father, Adrian, who passed away that same year.

0:38:26.160 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 1>It's a big question, Sonya, and I understand if you'd

0:38:29.640 --> 0:38:31.919
<v Speaker 1>rather also not get into it, but can I ask

0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:37.799
<v Speaker 1>you about navigating those twin experiences of new life your

0:38:38.200 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 1>much long for daughter and then grief losing your much

0:38:43.160 --> 0:38:46.520
<v Speaker 1>love father within such a close period of one another.

0:38:46.960 --> 0:38:50.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's not easy. I mean, I think the loss

0:38:50.080 --> 0:38:55.080
<v Speaker 4>of a parent is always it's a really devastating thing

0:38:55.160 --> 0:38:57.040
<v Speaker 4>to have to go through, and we all have to

0:38:57.080 --> 0:38:57.640
<v Speaker 4>go through it.

0:38:57.760 --> 0:38:59.480
<v Speaker 3>This is the crazy part about it.

0:39:00.080 --> 0:39:02.920
<v Speaker 4>And somebody said to me once, it's like you become

0:39:03.000 --> 0:39:05.960
<v Speaker 4>part of this club of people who've lost their dads,

0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:11.279
<v Speaker 4>and only other people who've lost their dads understand what

0:39:11.320 --> 0:39:15.680
<v Speaker 4>that feels like. Yeah, and luckily Mom is still alive.

0:39:15.760 --> 0:39:20.920
<v Speaker 4>So you know, my mother's genes stretch well into the

0:39:21.040 --> 0:39:23.200
<v Speaker 4>nineties and the hundred, so I'm hoping Mom's going to

0:39:23.200 --> 0:39:26.120
<v Speaker 4>be around for quite a bit longer. Dad was a

0:39:26.160 --> 0:39:28.840
<v Speaker 4>little bit on borrowed time. He'd been sick for about

0:39:28.840 --> 0:39:32.040
<v Speaker 4>eight years, so we kind of knew that it was coming.

0:39:32.080 --> 0:39:34.239
<v Speaker 4>And in a way, I feel like he held on

0:39:35.000 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 4>to meet Maggie. I think he really wanted me to

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:43.000
<v Speaker 4>have a child. And that makes me so emotional actually

0:39:43.000 --> 0:39:46.960
<v Speaker 4>even even talking about it, because I don't feel like

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:51.800
<v Speaker 4>he's gone. I feel like he's still watching over of course.

0:39:51.560 --> 0:39:52.399
<v Speaker 2>And he would be.

0:39:52.920 --> 0:39:55.880
<v Speaker 1>It is so lovely that he knew that what he

0:39:56.000 --> 0:39:59.799
<v Speaker 1>longed for you had happened. Yeah, we talked a little

0:39:59.800 --> 0:40:03.000
<v Speaker 1>bit about Maggie and you know, jokes aside what she

0:40:03.200 --> 0:40:06.479
<v Speaker 1>might come to do when she's older. For a mother

0:40:06.560 --> 0:40:08.440
<v Speaker 1>of a daughter, I'm a mother of two sons, by

0:40:08.480 --> 0:40:12.160
<v Speaker 1>the way, so I don't have this experience. What would

0:40:12.160 --> 0:40:16.200
<v Speaker 1>you hope for her in the world that you didn't

0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 1>have she grows through her twenties and thirties.

0:40:19.600 --> 0:40:23.800
<v Speaker 4>It's very important for me to make sure that Maggie

0:40:23.880 --> 0:40:29.120
<v Speaker 4>understands the power of independence, and I think for women

0:40:29.440 --> 0:40:34.839
<v Speaker 4>in general, it's integral to our security. And you know,

0:40:34.920 --> 0:40:39.120
<v Speaker 4>we can be married, we can be in relationships. Sometimes

0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:42.640
<v Speaker 4>those things don't last, and I see all too often

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:46.880
<v Speaker 4>women who end up in a situation where they're financially compromised,

0:40:47.080 --> 0:40:48.400
<v Speaker 4>and this can.

0:40:48.360 --> 0:40:51.799
<v Speaker 3>Lead to all sorts of stress.

0:40:51.880 --> 0:40:55.960
<v Speaker 4>And that internal leads to health issues, and that really

0:40:56.000 --> 0:40:59.040
<v Speaker 4>concerns me. So for me, I really would like to

0:40:59.080 --> 0:41:06.200
<v Speaker 4>instill in her the importance of being financially and emotionally independent.

0:41:09.320 --> 0:41:11.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to find the right words.

0:41:10.800 --> 0:41:13.360
<v Speaker 4>For this, because I would like for her to be

0:41:13.560 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 4>confident enough to call out a situation if she didn't

0:41:17.640 --> 0:41:21.919
<v Speaker 4>feel comfortable. And I think that's the thing. Maybe when

0:41:21.920 --> 0:41:24.400
<v Speaker 4>I was growing up, you kind of just sort of,

0:41:25.400 --> 0:41:27.719
<v Speaker 4>you know, it was less talked about, I guess, And

0:41:27.719 --> 0:41:30.279
<v Speaker 4>the fact that we're even having these conversations now is

0:41:30.320 --> 0:41:33.120
<v Speaker 4>a good thing, because if you don't feel comfortable, you

0:41:33.280 --> 0:41:35.640
<v Speaker 4>need to be able to verbalize it, and you need

0:41:35.719 --> 0:41:39.840
<v Speaker 4>to be able to verbalize it at the highest level.

0:41:39.880 --> 0:41:42.560
<v Speaker 4>And so I want her to always feel that she

0:41:42.719 --> 0:41:45.799
<v Speaker 4>can come to me or speak up if there is

0:41:45.840 --> 0:41:47.400
<v Speaker 4>something that she doesn't.

0:41:47.040 --> 0:41:48.480
<v Speaker 3>Feel right about.

0:41:49.160 --> 0:41:54.160
<v Speaker 4>So those kinds of things I think bring to young

0:41:54.200 --> 0:41:58.520
<v Speaker 4>women a certain agency, and that's what I would like

0:41:58.600 --> 0:41:59.720
<v Speaker 4>to see going forward.

0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:02.839
<v Speaker 1>Something else I think that we talk about a lot

0:42:02.880 --> 0:42:05.200
<v Speaker 1>at Stella and here on something to talk about that

0:42:05.680 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 1>a lot of my guest feel is getting better for

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:11.760
<v Speaker 1>women is the visibility of women in all walks of life,

0:42:11.760 --> 0:42:15.560
<v Speaker 1>but particularly in pop culture in Shock Horror over forty,

0:42:16.000 --> 0:42:18.279
<v Speaker 1>because there was a time really not that long ago,

0:42:18.920 --> 0:42:20.960
<v Speaker 1>when you know, you were like, oh, well she's had

0:42:20.960 --> 0:42:21.360
<v Speaker 1>a baby.

0:42:21.400 --> 0:42:23.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, good luck that you had a good career.

0:42:23.200 --> 0:42:23.600
<v Speaker 2>Off you go.

0:42:24.480 --> 0:42:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Just turned thirty now, so should be moving behind the

0:42:27.400 --> 0:42:31.680
<v Speaker 1>scenes now. So I have published multiple covers of you

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:35.120
<v Speaker 1>in my time as a magazine editor in chief, most

0:42:35.160 --> 0:42:38.640
<v Speaker 1>of them at Stella, but one for instance, at Body

0:42:38.680 --> 0:42:41.200
<v Speaker 1>and Soul a few years ago, where we answered the

0:42:41.280 --> 0:42:45.160
<v Speaker 1>question where honestly, people were asking, how is Sonya Krueger

0:42:45.480 --> 0:42:46.560
<v Speaker 1>so ageless?

0:42:47.200 --> 0:42:48.480
<v Speaker 2>We've talked a little.

0:42:48.280 --> 0:42:52.200
<v Speaker 1>Bit about the responsibility fair and unfair, that sits on

0:42:52.560 --> 0:42:56.080
<v Speaker 1>women in the spotlight to help change these conversations the

0:42:56.120 --> 0:43:01.400
<v Speaker 1>way that you did around being candid about issues of infertility,

0:43:01.480 --> 0:43:03.160
<v Speaker 1>IVF struggles.

0:43:02.600 --> 0:43:03.320
<v Speaker 2>Egg donation.

0:43:04.080 --> 0:43:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Are you aware of what a beacon you've been for

0:43:06.480 --> 0:43:08.120
<v Speaker 1>so many Australian women.

0:43:08.040 --> 0:43:10.440
<v Speaker 2>About honestly defying age.

0:43:11.440 --> 0:43:14.400
<v Speaker 4>No, but that's lovely, thank you. I mean, it's just

0:43:14.440 --> 0:43:16.440
<v Speaker 4>you know what I'm stuck on. It's the word beacon

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:20.520
<v Speaker 4>because when I was a teenager and I'd hang out

0:43:20.560 --> 0:43:22.880
<v Speaker 4>at the beach with my friends on the Gold Coast.

0:43:23.560 --> 0:43:27.439
<v Speaker 3>My hair was white blonde from being in the surf

0:43:27.480 --> 0:43:30.480
<v Speaker 3>all the time, and I was very tanned because we

0:43:30.640 --> 0:43:33.480
<v Speaker 3>did not have the whole kind of we weren't across

0:43:33.520 --> 0:43:36.200
<v Speaker 3>the whole sun protection issue. And they used to call

0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:36.600
<v Speaker 3>me the.

0:43:36.520 --> 0:43:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Beacon because I think because like I literally was glowing.

0:43:41.040 --> 0:43:42.560
<v Speaker 2>No, so whilightlight triggered.

0:43:44.280 --> 0:43:46.400
<v Speaker 3>Let's just try to don't dig those photos.

0:43:46.400 --> 0:43:50.560
<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, no, no, that's all right, but no,

0:43:50.600 --> 0:43:54.200
<v Speaker 4>that's it's a massive compliment. They also see me after

0:43:54.280 --> 0:43:57.880
<v Speaker 4>I've been through a fairly lengthy process with hair and makeup,

0:43:57.920 --> 0:44:00.920
<v Speaker 4>and I certainly don't look like the way I look

0:44:00.960 --> 0:44:04.960
<v Speaker 4>on television first thing in the morning at all.

0:44:05.040 --> 0:44:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's all spoken miras to a degree, because

0:44:07.480 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 1>we live in the Instagram filterage where everyone.

0:44:10.239 --> 0:44:11.640
<v Speaker 2>Has got capacity to that.

0:44:11.800 --> 0:44:14.360
<v Speaker 1>And in fact, I'm sure we talked about Maggie and

0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:17.239
<v Speaker 1>that generation being into skincare. We also know by the

0:44:17.280 --> 0:44:19.560
<v Speaker 1>time they're doing the year ten and Year twelve formals,

0:44:19.560 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 1>they may all be getting ready for the Oscars. So

0:44:22.239 --> 0:44:25.000
<v Speaker 1>it's not though as though everyone isn't playing around with that.

0:44:25.120 --> 0:44:28.080
<v Speaker 4>But I can I just say, I feel it's more attitude.

0:44:28.440 --> 0:44:33.319
<v Speaker 4>I feel it's more internal than external, because you and

0:44:33.360 --> 0:44:35.680
<v Speaker 4>I both know people who are probably younger than us,

0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:41.480
<v Speaker 4>who come across as being more I want to say serious, responsible,

0:44:41.520 --> 0:44:43.080
<v Speaker 4>not those words, but do you know what I mean?

0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:46.960
<v Speaker 4>Probably honestly, at times I look at myself and I'm

0:44:47.040 --> 0:44:49.319
<v Speaker 4>kind of like, Sonya, you need to grow up, you

0:44:49.400 --> 0:44:53.160
<v Speaker 4>really do. I still feel the same way I felt

0:44:53.160 --> 0:44:56.800
<v Speaker 4>when I was, you know, twenty five. So the question

0:44:56.920 --> 0:44:59.960
<v Speaker 4>of optimism and pessimism comes into it. I've always been

0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:02.359
<v Speaker 4>in a glass half full person. I've always been very

0:45:02.360 --> 0:45:05.160
<v Speaker 4>optimistic about life, and I think.

0:45:05.000 --> 0:45:07.720
<v Speaker 3>Those sorts of attitudes will keep.

0:45:07.600 --> 0:45:12.480
<v Speaker 4>You young really, and a curiosity having fun, laughing with

0:45:12.520 --> 0:45:16.320
<v Speaker 4>your friends, having a good time, you know that old saying.

0:45:16.360 --> 0:45:18.120
<v Speaker 4>You know, life's not always a party, so you might

0:45:18.160 --> 0:45:19.520
<v Speaker 4>as well dance while you're there.

0:45:19.880 --> 0:45:20.680
<v Speaker 3>It's all of that.

0:45:20.960 --> 0:45:24.399
<v Speaker 4>I think that really keeps us young, our attitude and

0:45:25.480 --> 0:45:28.560
<v Speaker 4>less so, you know, we can work on the other

0:45:28.840 --> 0:45:32.400
<v Speaker 4>aspects of it, but really, if you're like my dad

0:45:32.440 --> 0:45:34.880
<v Speaker 4>was eighty, but he was when he died, but he

0:45:35.239 --> 0:45:38.600
<v Speaker 4>was still had that twinkle in his eye and was

0:45:38.880 --> 0:45:39.800
<v Speaker 4>very young at heart.

0:45:40.120 --> 0:45:44.480
<v Speaker 1>Also, of course, we're living longer, so where in our careers,

0:45:44.560 --> 0:45:48.200
<v Speaker 1>in our personal life, you have people starting new jobs

0:45:48.560 --> 0:45:50.160
<v Speaker 1>at a time where it was like, oh that that

0:45:50.239 --> 0:45:50.960
<v Speaker 1>ship has sailed.

0:45:51.000 --> 0:45:53.640
<v Speaker 2>We don't accept that. Now people will.

0:45:53.400 --> 0:45:57.440
<v Speaker 1>Start new relationships, they'll start over, they'll move houses, they'll

0:45:57.440 --> 0:46:01.440
<v Speaker 1>take big risks in their life. Were not accepting male

0:46:01.560 --> 0:46:04.120
<v Speaker 1>or female that we have to pack up. And I

0:46:04.160 --> 0:46:07.000
<v Speaker 1>think that's part of what this whole wider cultural thing.

0:46:07.120 --> 0:46:10.919
<v Speaker 1>So I actually really agree with you. I think, yes,

0:46:11.000 --> 0:46:13.719
<v Speaker 1>of course, you know we're not being disingenuous. We know

0:46:13.760 --> 0:46:16.359
<v Speaker 1>there's a physical component to these conversations. But I do

0:46:16.400 --> 0:46:19.720
<v Speaker 1>think so much of it is just actually thinking, well,

0:46:20.160 --> 0:46:22.520
<v Speaker 1>why do I have to quote unquote grow up?

0:46:22.920 --> 0:46:27.399
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well true, true, or grow old? And I think,

0:46:27.440 --> 0:46:30.680
<v Speaker 4>you know, inevitably we do, but it's we have to

0:46:30.760 --> 0:46:32.960
<v Speaker 4>choose how we want to age, I suppose, And I

0:46:33.000 --> 0:46:36.000
<v Speaker 4>guess you know the fact that in our fifties we

0:46:36.000 --> 0:46:38.360
<v Speaker 4>do tend to have this rebirth where were all of

0:46:38.360 --> 0:46:41.760
<v Speaker 4>a sudden, you know, we're not going out clubbing, we're

0:46:41.800 --> 0:46:45.520
<v Speaker 4>certainly not doing that. We're probably doing a bit of exercise,

0:46:45.680 --> 0:46:47.120
<v Speaker 4>and we're thinking about what we're.

0:46:46.960 --> 0:46:49.279
<v Speaker 3>Eating, and we're not drinking as much as we used to.

0:46:49.400 --> 0:46:51.040
<v Speaker 4>So I think we do go through a bit of

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:54.680
<v Speaker 4>a health renaissance, and that that is the other thing.

0:46:54.719 --> 0:46:57.440
<v Speaker 4>When we go through that renaissance, then often we'll go, oh,

0:46:57.440 --> 0:46:59.520
<v Speaker 4>I might work on my look. I might change my hair,

0:46:59.600 --> 0:47:02.400
<v Speaker 4>color up hair, or do something different or try a

0:47:02.400 --> 0:47:03.000
<v Speaker 4>new fashion.

0:47:03.560 --> 0:47:04.920
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, now.

0:47:04.680 --> 0:47:09.840
<v Speaker 4>It's perfectly acceptable to do that, and to not for

0:47:09.920 --> 0:47:12.920
<v Speaker 4>women in particular, I think become invisible with age.

0:47:13.160 --> 0:47:15.880
<v Speaker 2>I think invisible is the keyword, isn't it. It's just

0:47:15.960 --> 0:47:17.399
<v Speaker 2>it's about visibility.

0:47:17.480 --> 0:47:19.880
<v Speaker 1>And as we always say, you can't be what you

0:47:19.920 --> 0:47:22.839
<v Speaker 1>can't see, and we're seeing it, which makes us think

0:47:23.160 --> 0:47:24.080
<v Speaker 1>that work could be it.

0:47:24.239 --> 0:47:26.160
<v Speaker 3>You can't be what you can't see.

0:47:26.600 --> 0:47:30.520
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to ask you about your partner, Craig, because

0:47:30.520 --> 0:47:33.759
<v Speaker 1>you and Craig are not a high profile couple. You're

0:47:33.760 --> 0:47:36.840
<v Speaker 1>obviously one of the most high profile women in the country,

0:47:36.880 --> 0:47:39.759
<v Speaker 1>but you have never been on red carpets together. You

0:47:39.800 --> 0:47:42.399
<v Speaker 1>don't post about each other on social media. We don't

0:47:42.400 --> 0:47:46.200
<v Speaker 1>see those big, real posts on one another's birthdays, so

0:47:46.640 --> 0:47:51.360
<v Speaker 1>there's no celebrity nickname for you. But of course, in April,

0:47:51.520 --> 0:47:54.839
<v Speaker 1>Craig stepped down as Seven Networks Director of News and

0:47:54.960 --> 0:47:58.799
<v Speaker 1>Public Affairs, which saw his name in the headlines as

0:47:58.840 --> 0:48:02.439
<v Speaker 1>opposed to yours. And I wanted to ask you what

0:48:02.520 --> 0:48:08.160
<v Speaker 1>that experience was like of suddenly as is very private couple,

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<v Speaker 1>having his name out there as well, and what challenges

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<v Speaker 1>if any, that presented for you as a.

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<v Speaker 3>Couple, well as a couple.

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<v Speaker 4>Really no challenge, because I think the one thing that

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<v Speaker 4>Craig has always been for me and I for him

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<v Speaker 4>is rock solid, you know, and in an industry that

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<v Speaker 4>can be a little bit fickle at times, you'd need

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<v Speaker 4>to have someone who you know is in your corner

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<v Speaker 4>and has your back, and we certainly we are that

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<v Speaker 4>person for each other, I guess, you know. The thing

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<v Speaker 4>for Craig, He's had such an incredible career. He started

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<v Speaker 4>as a copy boy on the mirror, you know, he

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<v Speaker 4>worked his way up through the television ranks and really

0:48:55.160 --> 0:48:57.440
<v Speaker 4>climbed the mountain to become like the head of news

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<v Speaker 4>at Channel seven.

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<v Speaker 3>And that is a tough job.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a really really difficult job for anybody twenty four

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<v Speaker 4>to seven.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of pressure. There's a lot of stress

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<v Speaker 3>that I think as an individual you absorb a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of And the thing I.

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<v Speaker 4>Love about Craig as a boss that when he decided

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<v Speaker 4>to resign and step down the messages of support that

0:49:24.440 --> 0:49:28.879
<v Speaker 4>he got from his staff were so beautiful, and there

0:49:28.880 --> 0:49:33.040
<v Speaker 4>were handwritten notes and cards, and I had phone calls

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<v Speaker 4>from people, you know, And I think the thing is

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<v Speaker 4>that Craig, you know, for a few years now, he's

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<v Speaker 4>been saying to me, you know, he kind of he's

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<v Speaker 4>not ready to retire, but he, I think needed to

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<v Speaker 4>step back from such a demanding job, especially when we

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<v Speaker 4>have a child who's nine and she requires his attention

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<v Speaker 4>to at times, as do I. So it was just

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<v Speaker 4>the timing was right for him to step out, take

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<v Speaker 4>a break. And then I'm excited to see what comes

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<v Speaker 4>next for Craig because he really is and I know

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<v Speaker 4>I'm biased, but he really is one of the best

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<v Speaker 4>in the business. He's had such a huge wealth of experience.

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<v Speaker 4>He's been one of the you know, fairest fairest bosses,

0:50:24.360 --> 0:50:26.799
<v Speaker 4>and he was my boss for a time there. He

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<v Speaker 4>was tough, but very fair, and I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>has you know, an amazing amount of integrity and a

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<v Speaker 4>very very high ethical bar. So you know, I know

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<v Speaker 4>that there'll be something, something fun that comes for Craig

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<v Speaker 4>where he can actually maybe indulge a passion even which

0:50:47.160 --> 0:50:48.720
<v Speaker 4>is sport so who knows.

0:50:48.960 --> 0:50:50.640
<v Speaker 3>With Craig, it could be.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe tennis dad. Do you know maybe maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's a bit more NRL and cricket right, Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe maybe he should get into ten My final question,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually wanted to go back to nineteen ninety two

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<v Speaker 1>when you tore up the dance floor in a costume

0:51:07.440 --> 0:51:12.120
<v Speaker 1>made of fruit as Tina Sparkles in Strictly Boreroom. Jia

0:51:12.239 --> 0:51:16.319
<v Speaker 1>Corettes was recently in Stella and she told us she

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<v Speaker 1>still gets approached by people. Do you still get approached

0:51:20.040 --> 0:51:20.480
<v Speaker 1>about it?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's really funny.

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<v Speaker 4>People have so much affection for the movie, and I

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<v Speaker 4>think it came at a time when Australian film.

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<v Speaker 3>Was really kind of taking off.

0:51:30.680 --> 0:51:33.080
<v Speaker 4>I think we had Muriel sweating Priscilla, Queen of the

0:51:33.120 --> 0:51:35.880
<v Speaker 4>Desert Strictly Ballroom, and we were getting a lot of

0:51:35.960 --> 0:51:40.000
<v Speaker 4>international attention. And it was this little homegrown movie that

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<v Speaker 4>cost you know, a couple of million dollars to make,

0:51:42.280 --> 0:51:46.719
<v Speaker 4>but it had huge international success therefore, and I think

0:51:46.719 --> 0:51:48.279
<v Speaker 4>the story was so heartwarming.

0:51:48.320 --> 0:51:51.200
<v Speaker 3>People really loved all of those characters.

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<v Speaker 4>I read Jea's interview that you did because I love

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<v Speaker 4>hearing from the other cast members to see what their

0:51:58.440 --> 0:52:00.719
<v Speaker 4>experiences are like. In the fact that she was saying,

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<v Speaker 4>would be awesome if Baz did a sequel, and yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm all for it too. I think it would be

0:52:06.200 --> 0:52:09.080
<v Speaker 4>a great, a great thing to see, just to just

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<v Speaker 4>to basically catch up with the whole cast.

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<v Speaker 3>You know Stephen Grace, you know the guy who played

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<v Speaker 3>the Little Boy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yes, how he would be obviously a grown man.

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<v Speaker 4>He's a grown man. He's doing Chicago at the moment

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<v Speaker 4>in Sydney. I bumped into him literally on Monday, just gone.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, it's quite a quite an it's a phenomenon

0:52:26.520 --> 0:52:30.200
<v Speaker 4>that film, I think in terms of Australian culture.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, it's nice to be. It's still nice to be.

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<v Speaker 4>People sometimes get nervous, like, oh do you not like

0:52:35.840 --> 0:52:36.680
<v Speaker 4>people bringing it up?

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<v Speaker 3>I love it when people bring it up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nice to have something that is still so loved

0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:48.640
<v Speaker 1>and is a completely uncomplicated, unproblematic part of the cultural landscape. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go back to nineteen ninety two. What advice would

0:52:52.160 --> 0:52:57.399
<v Speaker 1>you give yourself starting off on this fascinating career that's

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<v Speaker 1>gone down all these paths, some that you could never

0:53:00.320 --> 0:53:02.520
<v Speaker 1>predicted as you were saying earlier not to get woo

0:53:02.520 --> 0:53:07.400
<v Speaker 1>woo about it, but moments that you have probably manifested,

0:53:07.560 --> 0:53:12.080
<v Speaker 1>moments that you've stumbled into, and that advice you would

0:53:12.120 --> 0:53:16.880
<v Speaker 1>give yourself, how will that take you into whatever the

0:53:16.920 --> 0:53:20.160
<v Speaker 1>next big adventure is for you?

0:53:20.160 --> 0:53:22.359
<v Speaker 3>You know, I think for me.

0:53:24.560 --> 0:53:32.879
<v Speaker 4>What advice would I give myself? Well, surround yourself with

0:53:33.480 --> 0:53:37.160
<v Speaker 4>the best people you can possibly find, and don't ever

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<v Speaker 4>be afraid I think of doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think sometimes people maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe maybe like because I'm a bit of a collaborator

0:53:46.280 --> 0:53:48.759
<v Speaker 4>though when I work, I like to work with other people.

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<v Speaker 4>I like to brainstorm ideas. I like to know that

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<v Speaker 4>you know that this person is a great writer, or

0:53:55.600 --> 0:53:58.200
<v Speaker 4>this person is fantastic with hair and makeup, and this

0:53:58.280 --> 0:54:02.080
<v Speaker 4>person knows how to lighter shoine, this cameraman is the

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<v Speaker 4>best in the business.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:54:04.200 --> 0:54:08.920
<v Speaker 4>Surround yourself with great people and you will automatically be

0:54:09.080 --> 0:54:14.600
<v Speaker 4>elevated with them. And that's obviously something that you can't

0:54:14.640 --> 0:54:18.399
<v Speaker 4>necessarily choose to do. That comes after a period of time.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess where you've been in the business for a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit longer. When you're starting out, find as many

0:54:26.840 --> 0:54:29.479
<v Speaker 4>learn as much as you possibly can, and often work.

0:54:29.520 --> 0:54:32.400
<v Speaker 4>Experienced kids will come to me and they'll say, you know,

0:54:32.760 --> 0:54:35.080
<v Speaker 4>how do I get your job? And I'll say you

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<v Speaker 4>go and start start shooting stories, writing stories, Learn how

0:54:40.000 --> 0:54:44.320
<v Speaker 4>to edit, learn how to write a short form story,

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<v Speaker 4>a longer form story.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at the.

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<v Speaker 4>Pictures, find your own music for the track. Just be

0:54:49.960 --> 0:54:54.120
<v Speaker 4>as creative as you possibly can be. Learn about promos,

0:54:54.239 --> 0:54:56.840
<v Speaker 4>learn about marketing, try and learn as much as you

0:54:56.920 --> 0:55:00.160
<v Speaker 4>can about the business. And I think that will I'll

0:55:00.280 --> 0:55:04.480
<v Speaker 4>take you forward and stand you in good stead, because

0:55:04.480 --> 0:55:07.239
<v Speaker 4>it's not enough these days to just kind of be

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<v Speaker 4>a presenter.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't.

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<v Speaker 4>That's just a very one dimensional way to look at it.

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<v Speaker 4>So be multi dimensional.

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<v Speaker 2>Multi dimensional.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it sounds like you've always been multi dimensional though,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, I didn't know that you were someone

0:55:22.200 --> 0:55:25.640
<v Speaker 1>that really helped galvanize a few people at the network

0:55:25.719 --> 0:55:28.160
<v Speaker 1>to have that entity they had in Dancing with the

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<v Speaker 1>Stars and actually get it on air on two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>and four.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean multi dimensional work there.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Sarah.

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<v Speaker 1>Sonya Krugad, Thank you so much for coming into the

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<v Speaker 1>studio to talk to me today. It's been really lovely

0:55:40.960 --> 0:55:41.879
<v Speaker 1>to speak to you.

0:55:42.080 --> 0:55:44.040
<v Speaker 3>Lovely to talk to you too, And.

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<v Speaker 4>I hope you'll be able to make something of this

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<v Speaker 4>that's slightly better than my Logi's speech.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I was going to say good luck at the logis,

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<v Speaker 1>because whatever happens, I cannot wait to watch. Dancing with

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<v Speaker 1>the Stars. Premiere is Sunday, July seven on Channel seven

0:56:00.080 --> 0:56:03.160
<v Speaker 1>and seven plus. And if you've enjoyed this episode, then

0:56:03.200 --> 0:56:05.480
<v Speaker 1>make sure you're following us because I'll be back with

0:56:05.600 --> 0:56:09.359
<v Speaker 1>another exclusive guest, maybe even two. Now there's a big

0:56:09.440 --> 0:56:12.000
<v Speaker 1>hint on something to talk about next week.