1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:13,241 Speaker 1: Apoday Production. Welcome to the she Risers Podcast. I'm Ashy 2 00:00:13,281 --> 00:00:14,001 Speaker 1: and I'm Tiana. 3 00:00:14,361 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 2: This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to 4 00:00:17,361 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 2: be your biggest, boldest, and most authentic version of yourself. 5 00:00:20,961 --> 00:00:23,281 Speaker 1: We help you shed the shame, grow to new level. 6 00:00:23,321 --> 00:00:26,241 Speaker 1: We're gonna laugh, cry, and talk about the topics everyone 7 00:00:26,281 --> 00:00:27,801 Speaker 1: else is too afraid to talk about. 8 00:00:28,401 --> 00:00:30,721 Speaker 2: Get ready for your next level of self. 9 00:00:31,081 --> 00:00:34,481 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, Welcome back to the she rises Podcast. A 10 00:00:34,481 --> 00:00:37,721 Speaker 1: big episode today all about our Trouble Diaries. Because we 11 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: have been here, there and everywhere we have, especially me 12 00:00:42,081 --> 00:00:42,681 Speaker 1: places you. 13 00:00:42,721 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: Have, haven't you tell us about your travels? 14 00:00:44,721 --> 00:00:48,121 Speaker 1: So yeah, I went to Europe with Steve, no kids, amazing. 15 00:00:49,361 --> 00:00:51,241 Speaker 1: It was so fun, which I know you'll get pushed 16 00:00:51,281 --> 00:00:53,761 Speaker 1: back on that, but we actually this is the third 17 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:55,721 Speaker 1: time that we've booked a Europe trip. The first few 18 00:00:55,721 --> 00:00:57,881 Speaker 1: times we had to cancel. The first time was from COVID. 19 00:00:58,241 --> 00:01:00,601 Speaker 1: The second time, I think you got pregnant and we 20 00:01:00,721 --> 00:01:03,041 Speaker 1: just decided not to go. So we've been wanting to 21 00:01:03,081 --> 00:01:05,481 Speaker 1: do this trip for so long and it was amazing. 22 00:01:05,641 --> 00:01:08,321 Speaker 1: It was so cool. Into three locations. We went to Poland, 23 00:01:08,321 --> 00:01:10,161 Speaker 1: which is really random but We've always both wanted to 24 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,881 Speaker 1: go and visit the Ousewitch Camps, which I don't really 25 00:01:12,881 --> 00:01:17,761 Speaker 1: have words to describe, but it was very impactful, really 26 00:01:17,801 --> 00:01:21,161 Speaker 1: really sad, and just a lot to learn about the 27 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: history of the war camps and what they went through. 28 00:01:23,121 --> 00:01:24,361 Speaker 1: And I've read a lot of books and watch a 29 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,161 Speaker 1: lot of things on Netflix, but actually being there in 30 00:01:27,241 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: real life to actually feel the energy and to see 31 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:32,721 Speaker 1: what they went through. And even you walk through and 32 00:01:32,761 --> 00:01:35,521 Speaker 1: it's got this room full of all the kid's shoes, 33 00:01:35,601 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: and where they slept, you could feel it was just 34 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: wood and even on the lowest bunk it was all 35 00:01:40,681 --> 00:01:43,561 Speaker 1: uneven brick, and then if it rained, it gets flooded 36 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: and you're sleeping on that lower bunk, you're sleeping in water. 37 00:01:46,041 --> 00:01:49,481 Speaker 1: Like the conditions was so fucked up. I just can't 38 00:01:49,521 --> 00:01:52,121 Speaker 1: even imagine. And just learning more about what they all 39 00:01:52,121 --> 00:01:54,121 Speaker 1: had to go through, it was just so sad. So 40 00:01:54,161 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: we did that strategically at the start of our trip 41 00:01:56,281 --> 00:01:58,001 Speaker 1: so that we could process all of that and then 42 00:01:58,081 --> 00:02:00,641 Speaker 1: go into more of a joyful high vibe. So our 43 00:02:00,641 --> 00:02:03,521 Speaker 1: next stop was Switzerland, which was nature and we just 44 00:02:03,681 --> 00:02:06,401 Speaker 1: hiked and had a lot of money on food. It's 45 00:02:06,441 --> 00:02:09,881 Speaker 1: fucking expensive there, But honestly, what you see on TikTok 46 00:02:09,921 --> 00:02:12,721 Speaker 1: or postcards of Switzerland it is that. But ten times 47 00:02:12,761 --> 00:02:15,441 Speaker 1: a bad eight is so scenic and beautiful. It was 48 00:02:15,641 --> 00:02:18,361 Speaker 1: gorgeous and we got the perfect weather, so lots of 49 00:02:18,441 --> 00:02:21,161 Speaker 1: high sorts of hanging out and just enjoying nature. It 50 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:24,521 Speaker 1: was really beautiful. So we had four days there, which 51 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,681 Speaker 1: was enough. I don't feel like we needed anymore. It 52 00:02:26,761 --> 00:02:28,401 Speaker 1: was good. We actually went to the top of Europe 53 00:02:28,401 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: as well, which was like snowing the snow. That's really cool. 54 00:02:31,201 --> 00:02:32,081 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very cool. 55 00:02:32,121 --> 00:02:33,881 Speaker 1: And then from there we went to Spain. We went 56 00:02:33,921 --> 00:02:38,001 Speaker 1: to Majorca, which is very just my vibe. Summer hot 57 00:02:38,161 --> 00:02:43,041 Speaker 1: heat like I'm talking thirty eight degrees heat out, some baking, walking, gym, 58 00:02:43,401 --> 00:02:46,921 Speaker 1: road trips out to restaurants, cliff tops, beautiful beaches. It's 59 00:02:46,921 --> 00:02:49,801 Speaker 1: just perfect. And just to have that time, that quality 60 00:02:49,841 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: time where we could just fully plug into each other 61 00:02:52,161 --> 00:02:56,481 Speaker 1: and have no interruptions, no real plans, no time limits, 62 00:02:56,561 --> 00:02:58,361 Speaker 1: just chill. It was the best at but we felt 63 00:02:58,401 --> 00:03:01,401 Speaker 1: so connected, so the best time. It was definitely an 64 00:03:01,481 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: adjustment coming home. I don't feel like I ever get 65 00:03:05,121 --> 00:03:08,361 Speaker 1: post holiday blues because I love coming home to my reality, 66 00:03:08,401 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm always ready to come home, 67 00:03:10,441 --> 00:03:12,881 Speaker 1: and obviously he's so excited to see the kids. But 68 00:03:12,921 --> 00:03:16,161 Speaker 1: I definitely felt an adjustment coming home. One I was 69 00:03:16,401 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: really jet lagged and not sleeping, so that I think 70 00:03:20,121 --> 00:03:23,281 Speaker 1: just played on my emotions. Two, I was missing Tiana. 71 00:03:23,321 --> 00:03:28,041 Speaker 1: She was in Bali three, having two weeks off work, 72 00:03:28,321 --> 00:03:31,481 Speaker 1: especially for Hideaway. Not so much she rises, but it 73 00:03:31,641 --> 00:03:34,041 Speaker 1: just was coming back to stress. There was so much 74 00:03:34,121 --> 00:03:36,721 Speaker 1: that I think Steve had to catch up on and fix. 75 00:03:37,001 --> 00:03:39,201 Speaker 1: I just noticed the moment he was home, his whole 76 00:03:39,281 --> 00:03:42,281 Speaker 1: energy shifted into the stressing mode. And he does hold 77 00:03:42,321 --> 00:03:43,801 Speaker 1: a lot like we always talk about it, which is 78 00:03:43,801 --> 00:03:47,201 Speaker 1: in such admiration of what Steve holds in Hideaways incredible. 79 00:03:47,321 --> 00:03:50,041 Speaker 1: I could not do his job. So then I almost 80 00:03:50,041 --> 00:03:52,521 Speaker 1: felt like not a disconnect from Steve, but kind of 81 00:03:52,601 --> 00:03:55,601 Speaker 1: because we were so plugged in and they're not. And 82 00:03:55,721 --> 00:03:57,281 Speaker 1: the kids obviously were so excited to see us, and 83 00:03:57,321 --> 00:03:58,881 Speaker 1: I went into full mon mode, he went into full 84 00:03:58,921 --> 00:04:01,841 Speaker 1: work mode. That we weren't having moments of connection. So 85 00:04:01,841 --> 00:04:04,841 Speaker 1: it's been an adjustment coming back. And then I joked 86 00:04:04,841 --> 00:04:07,001 Speaker 1: to see one night, I was like, oh, I had 87 00:04:07,001 --> 00:04:08,521 Speaker 1: a passing thought that I'm going to book a random 88 00:04:08,521 --> 00:04:11,041 Speaker 1: flight to Bali, and he was like, oh my gosh. 89 00:04:11,121 --> 00:04:11,241 Speaker 2: No. 90 00:04:11,761 --> 00:04:13,041 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, of course, no, I just go 91 00:04:13,081 --> 00:04:14,601 Speaker 1: back from Europe. I want to be here with the kids. 92 00:04:14,641 --> 00:04:16,721 Speaker 1: Like she just like, I'm just missing Tiata. He's like, 93 00:04:16,761 --> 00:04:17,561 Speaker 1: I know you are. 94 00:04:17,601 --> 00:04:18,641 Speaker 2: In four weeks by this point. 95 00:04:18,801 --> 00:04:23,841 Speaker 1: Yeah. And then Steve came into the office at work 96 00:04:24,281 --> 00:04:26,601 Speaker 1: and told Clauda and I that he's sending us to Bali. 97 00:04:27,241 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 1: I honestly, Hannah, my heart thought it was a prank. 98 00:04:29,841 --> 00:04:32,481 Speaker 1: I was like, no, like what I thought he was 99 00:04:32,521 --> 00:04:35,401 Speaker 1: pranking us. But he had all these campaigns. We're building 100 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,241 Speaker 1: a content studio and hideaway and it just wasn't ready, 101 00:04:38,281 --> 00:04:39,761 Speaker 1: and he had these epic campaigns that we needed to 102 00:04:39,801 --> 00:04:42,321 Speaker 1: build content for. So he was like, honestly, you get 103 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,081 Speaker 1: to go on to ris Tiana and you get all 104 00:04:44,081 --> 00:04:46,881 Speaker 1: these campaigns done. It's a win win for everyone. I 105 00:04:47,001 --> 00:04:49,481 Speaker 1: was hesitant to go because I really missed the kids 106 00:04:49,481 --> 00:04:51,401 Speaker 1: and I wanted to be home with them. I spoke 107 00:04:51,401 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 1: to my mom about it and she's like, in the 108 00:04:52,681 --> 00:04:54,681 Speaker 1: scheme of their whole life, babe, this isn't a long 109 00:04:54,681 --> 00:04:56,801 Speaker 1: period of time. Yeah, it's not going to impact them 110 00:04:56,801 --> 00:04:58,961 Speaker 1: in a negative way. You're there for them and you're 111 00:04:58,961 --> 00:05:01,641 Speaker 1: so present all the time. Another couple of days in Bali, 112 00:05:01,721 --> 00:05:03,241 Speaker 1: it's not going to affect them. So I was like, yeah, 113 00:05:03,241 --> 00:05:05,961 Speaker 1: you're right, and I also wanted to help hideaway and 114 00:05:06,001 --> 00:05:07,681 Speaker 1: I also missed you, and I was like, okay, okay, 115 00:05:07,721 --> 00:05:10,961 Speaker 1: we'll go. So then, yeah, I've been home for just 116 00:05:11,001 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: over a week, and we booked our flights and we 117 00:05:13,361 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: left for Bali on the Sunday and Tiana had no idea. 118 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,801 Speaker 1: I'd also checked in with Tiana's brother. I'd called him 119 00:05:18,841 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: and just said like, I'm planning on doing this. Is 120 00:05:20,961 --> 00:05:22,681 Speaker 1: this okay? Can I stay with you at the end 121 00:05:22,681 --> 00:05:24,041 Speaker 1: of the trip. How do you feel about it? I 122 00:05:24,041 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: just want to check in with him, and he was 123 00:05:25,241 --> 00:05:27,921 Speaker 1: all on board, so excited. So we were organizing how 124 00:05:27,961 --> 00:05:31,241 Speaker 1: we're going to surprise Tiana. He planned the cafe and 125 00:05:31,601 --> 00:05:33,121 Speaker 1: even on the day he was like, let me know a 126 00:05:33,121 --> 00:05:35,561 Speaker 1: new land because this bitch is hungry and she's trying 127 00:05:35,561 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: to get me out the door, so I'm trying to 128 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: keep her behind. We just like tie it perfectly. And 129 00:05:39,921 --> 00:05:41,921 Speaker 1: then if you don't follow us on Instagram, we posted 130 00:05:41,921 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: a video but Tianna had messaged me and was like, 131 00:05:44,081 --> 00:05:45,961 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, eight months until our retreat. And I 132 00:05:46,001 --> 00:05:48,281 Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, gat me to Bali. I'm 133 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:50,521 Speaker 1: literally on a bike on my way to meet her. Oh. 134 00:05:51,761 --> 00:05:53,521 Speaker 1: So I walked up from the cafe and tapped her 135 00:05:53,521 --> 00:05:56,521 Speaker 1: on the shoulder, and you look dead. You were so shocked. 136 00:05:56,921 --> 00:05:59,041 Speaker 2: You're like, oh my god. I didn't know what to 137 00:05:59,081 --> 00:05:59,761 Speaker 2: do with myself. 138 00:06:00,081 --> 00:06:03,481 Speaker 1: It was so exciting and emotional and adrenaline and all 139 00:06:03,521 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: the things. And yeah, I spent the next four days 140 00:06:06,841 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: obviously met with Tiana then and then went back to 141 00:06:08,521 --> 00:06:10,041 Speaker 1: the villa. Claudie and I were booked in and we 142 00:06:10,081 --> 00:06:12,561 Speaker 1: spent the next four days filming all their Highway content. 143 00:06:13,001 --> 00:06:14,841 Speaker 1: Worked all day and then editor all afternoon. 144 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 2: It was big. 145 00:06:15,361 --> 00:06:18,121 Speaker 1: It was a lot of energy out. It was hustle. 146 00:06:18,201 --> 00:06:19,761 Speaker 1: Campaigns are amazing. And then I got a couple of 147 00:06:19,841 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: days with Tiana and her brother, which was so beautiful. 148 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,881 Speaker 1: It was the best. And Tiana and her brother are 149 00:06:24,961 --> 00:06:27,281 Speaker 1: very very close, and you've only ever spoken so highly 150 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,361 Speaker 1: of him, so it's really excited to get to know him. 151 00:06:29,361 --> 00:06:31,721 Speaker 1: And we just had beautiful times. I felt like I'd 152 00:06:31,721 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: met him before and we were just all hanging out. 153 00:06:33,921 --> 00:06:35,481 Speaker 1: We have this group chat now and it's just like 154 00:06:35,481 --> 00:06:39,041 Speaker 1: three little best cycle sisters. 155 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:39,521 Speaker 2: It's the best. 156 00:06:40,001 --> 00:06:41,361 Speaker 1: He's such a legend. I love him. 157 00:06:41,641 --> 00:06:42,361 Speaker 2: I love him so much. 158 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,481 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was amazing, And then I was ready to 159 00:06:44,481 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: come home. At that point. On Sunday, I also got 160 00:06:46,481 --> 00:06:48,401 Speaker 1: really congested from the aircorn in Bali, and I felt 161 00:06:48,401 --> 00:06:50,481 Speaker 1: a bit low energy. I think I was just jet lag, 162 00:06:50,521 --> 00:06:53,361 Speaker 1: worn out coming off sleeping tablets too. Oh that's brutal. 163 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:55,561 Speaker 1: So now I'm home, I'm like happy to be home, 164 00:06:55,601 --> 00:06:57,481 Speaker 1: back of my routine. But what a whirl wind. It 165 00:06:57,561 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 1: was so fun. 166 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 2: It definitely is an adjustment to come back for her, 167 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 2: especially because you were at the even at the end 168 00:07:02,121 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 2: of the trip, like already so tight all of the trouble. 169 00:07:05,361 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 2: It was like a few weeks up to back and 170 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,481 Speaker 2: then coming again. Yeah, you know, it definitely is an 171 00:07:09,481 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 2: adjustment to go from holiday mode to back into life mode. 172 00:07:12,921 --> 00:07:14,761 Speaker 1: Life. And it's not that anything's wrong with my life. 173 00:07:14,761 --> 00:07:16,721 Speaker 1: I loved my life. It's just different. 174 00:07:16,881 --> 00:07:19,041 Speaker 2: It's just you can feel the difference between holiday mode 175 00:07:19,041 --> 00:07:19,681 Speaker 2: and life mode. 176 00:07:19,801 --> 00:07:23,481 Speaker 1: Yeah, energetically, like responsibility mode, you're looking after two humans, 177 00:07:23,521 --> 00:07:25,841 Speaker 1: you've got multiple businesses. You're running, you've got deadlines, you've 178 00:07:25,841 --> 00:07:27,921 Speaker 1: got financial goals, you've got staff to pay, staff to 179 00:07:27,961 --> 00:07:31,441 Speaker 1: look after. It's like hot. Yeah. Yeah, it kind of 180 00:07:31,521 --> 00:07:33,001 Speaker 1: saved it. For two weeks and I was in Europe. 181 00:07:33,081 --> 00:07:34,401 Speaker 1: I didn't think about work at all. 182 00:07:34,681 --> 00:07:34,881 Speaker 2: Yeah. 183 00:07:34,881 --> 00:07:36,321 Speaker 1: I was just like, this is my time to have 184 00:07:36,321 --> 00:07:38,561 Speaker 1: fun with my husband. And we had so much fun. 185 00:07:38,641 --> 00:07:40,321 Speaker 1: So he it was an adjustment. Yeah, you go, I 186 00:07:40,321 --> 00:07:41,681 Speaker 1: feel like I'm kind of out the other side now. 187 00:07:41,681 --> 00:07:42,801 Speaker 2: I feel good. That's good. 188 00:07:43,161 --> 00:07:44,721 Speaker 1: Does it tell us about your tip to Bali? 189 00:07:45,201 --> 00:07:48,801 Speaker 2: Oh goodness, where do I start? Honestly, Balley was so good. 190 00:07:48,841 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: I think leading up to Balio and right before having gone, 191 00:07:51,721 --> 00:07:53,681 Speaker 2: we went through this little bit of a period where 192 00:07:53,721 --> 00:07:55,441 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, okay, like everything is starting to 193 00:07:55,441 --> 00:07:57,361 Speaker 2: feel a little bit heavy, Like again, like I love 194 00:07:57,441 --> 00:07:59,721 Speaker 2: my life and so grateful for all the responsibilities and 195 00:07:59,761 --> 00:08:02,601 Speaker 2: things that I get to do, like work and podcasts 196 00:08:02,601 --> 00:08:04,801 Speaker 2: and all of that. I love it. Literally, I could 197 00:08:04,801 --> 00:08:07,041 Speaker 2: talk about it till the cows can parme. But there 198 00:08:07,121 --> 00:08:08,521 Speaker 2: was a point where I was like, oh, I'm feeling 199 00:08:08,561 --> 00:08:10,481 Speaker 2: a little bit heavy, Like everything's starting to feel a 200 00:08:10,521 --> 00:08:12,281 Speaker 2: bit heavy. Everything's starting to stack, and I could just 201 00:08:12,321 --> 00:08:14,801 Speaker 2: like really use like a perspective shift, a bit of 202 00:08:14,801 --> 00:08:16,721 Speaker 2: a reset, you know. So I was like, all right, cool. 203 00:08:16,961 --> 00:08:18,721 Speaker 2: So I was really looking forward to going to Bali, 204 00:08:18,761 --> 00:08:20,641 Speaker 2: and the moment that I got there, I just felt 205 00:08:20,641 --> 00:08:23,641 Speaker 2: like the freest bird one. I love Bali And for 206 00:08:23,641 --> 00:08:25,721 Speaker 2: anyone who doesn't know, I've been going to Bali since 207 00:08:25,761 --> 00:08:27,561 Speaker 2: I was little, Like my mom and dad used to 208 00:08:27,561 --> 00:08:29,801 Speaker 2: take us to this one resort where they would go 209 00:08:29,921 --> 00:08:32,321 Speaker 2: every single time. They have videos of us dancing on 210 00:08:32,361 --> 00:08:34,161 Speaker 2: the side of the pool. You know, our four phones 211 00:08:34,161 --> 00:08:37,881 Speaker 2: were a thing, and we had to entertain ourselves. We 212 00:08:37,881 --> 00:08:40,321 Speaker 2: would go to this one place. And I've gone back 213 00:08:40,641 --> 00:08:43,201 Speaker 2: almost every second year or something like that since. And 214 00:08:43,201 --> 00:08:45,721 Speaker 2: then I had a break over COVID and then you know, 215 00:08:45,801 --> 00:08:47,961 Speaker 2: going in May was the first time that we had gone. 216 00:08:48,001 --> 00:08:50,241 Speaker 2: It was is we're second time back. And I went 217 00:08:50,321 --> 00:08:51,801 Speaker 2: for like three and a half weeks and my brother 218 00:08:51,841 --> 00:08:53,881 Speaker 2: and I booked and we were like, should we go 219 00:08:53,961 --> 00:08:55,961 Speaker 2: to Bali? And so we were just like, fuck it, 220 00:08:56,041 --> 00:08:58,521 Speaker 2: let's book it. And we've spoken for at least ten 221 00:08:58,641 --> 00:09:01,641 Speaker 2: years of going on a trip together, just us two solo. 222 00:09:01,681 --> 00:09:03,361 Speaker 2: We've spoken about it, we've planned it. We're like, we 223 00:09:03,361 --> 00:09:04,721 Speaker 2: should go to New York, we should go here, and 224 00:09:04,761 --> 00:09:06,881 Speaker 2: you know, we just were like, screw it, we can 225 00:09:06,921 --> 00:09:09,521 Speaker 2: go to Bali. We can work together, we can do 226 00:09:09,641 --> 00:09:12,681 Speaker 2: our thing and kind of balance a working holiday with 227 00:09:12,841 --> 00:09:16,481 Speaker 2: like play and fun. Yeah, you know, And as soon 228 00:09:16,481 --> 00:09:18,921 Speaker 2: as I got there, it was honestly everything that I needed, 229 00:09:19,041 --> 00:09:21,121 Speaker 2: Like it was the reset that I needed to pull 230 00:09:21,161 --> 00:09:23,921 Speaker 2: me out of like home environment and get myself into 231 00:09:23,961 --> 00:09:27,321 Speaker 2: a new space. I always feel so free when I'm 232 00:09:27,321 --> 00:09:29,121 Speaker 2: in Bali, whether it's being on the back of the 233 00:09:29,201 --> 00:09:33,601 Speaker 2: bikes or just being away from your usual home. Yeah, 234 00:09:33,641 --> 00:09:34,801 Speaker 2: your usual routine. 235 00:09:34,521 --> 00:09:35,961 Speaker 1: And the energy there, it's different. 236 00:09:36,121 --> 00:09:38,361 Speaker 2: Something about the energy is different. It's very healing, and 237 00:09:38,401 --> 00:09:40,641 Speaker 2: I feel like a different version of myself. It's like 238 00:09:40,721 --> 00:09:43,841 Speaker 2: I get really creative and I get very feminine. And 239 00:09:43,961 --> 00:09:46,761 Speaker 2: also in saying that, I felt super driven while I 240 00:09:46,801 --> 00:09:49,081 Speaker 2: was in there too, like you know, had my own 241 00:09:49,161 --> 00:09:51,121 Speaker 2: momentum in business while I was over there. But then 242 00:09:51,121 --> 00:09:53,361 Speaker 2: I was also like you know, hustling in the morning, 243 00:09:53,401 --> 00:09:55,201 Speaker 2: and then I was also still making time for training 244 00:09:55,201 --> 00:09:57,401 Speaker 2: and walking and exercising, and then we would go to 245 00:09:57,441 --> 00:09:59,641 Speaker 2: a beach club in the afternoon and then go to 246 00:09:59,681 --> 00:10:02,841 Speaker 2: a really really beautiful dinner. So I think going over 247 00:10:02,881 --> 00:10:06,161 Speaker 2: there and not having to rush was really nice. You know, 248 00:10:06,241 --> 00:10:08,441 Speaker 2: normally go to Bali for a week till a week 249 00:10:08,481 --> 00:10:10,321 Speaker 2: and a half. I had three and a half weeks 250 00:10:10,361 --> 00:10:12,641 Speaker 2: for my brother there. And the place that we stayed 251 00:10:12,641 --> 00:10:15,081 Speaker 2: in was so immaculate. It's so beautiful and felt like 252 00:10:15,121 --> 00:10:17,161 Speaker 2: a home away from home, and I'm really grateful that 253 00:10:17,201 --> 00:10:19,721 Speaker 2: we did stay there. But it also allowed me to 254 00:10:20,081 --> 00:10:22,561 Speaker 2: create a routine in Bali as well, So it wasn't 255 00:10:22,561 --> 00:10:23,841 Speaker 2: like I was on a holiday. I was like, well, 256 00:10:23,881 --> 00:10:26,161 Speaker 2: not like everything's off the table. I was still in Bali, 257 00:10:26,241 --> 00:10:28,681 Speaker 2: still working, still doing my routine, but I was in 258 00:10:28,721 --> 00:10:32,281 Speaker 2: a different country. So cool, and it just shifted something 259 00:10:32,321 --> 00:10:35,321 Speaker 2: in me, like the introspection and the self reflection that 260 00:10:35,361 --> 00:10:36,961 Speaker 2: I was able to do while I was over there. 261 00:10:37,401 --> 00:10:39,601 Speaker 2: I've said this to Ashi, I'm like, I feel like 262 00:10:39,641 --> 00:10:43,281 Speaker 2: a new woman. It gave me perspective on what I wanted, 263 00:10:43,361 --> 00:10:45,761 Speaker 2: how it was being, how I was showing. Oh, boundaries 264 00:10:45,921 --> 00:10:49,201 Speaker 2: helping me. Yeah, boundaries helping me, you know, expand my 265 00:10:49,281 --> 00:10:53,041 Speaker 2: capacity for what I can hold mentally, emotionally and financially, 266 00:10:53,121 --> 00:10:55,281 Speaker 2: all of those different things. And just this thing came 267 00:10:55,321 --> 00:10:57,721 Speaker 2: over me. It was like this certainty of like I 268 00:10:57,801 --> 00:10:59,841 Speaker 2: know what I need to do, I know what I 269 00:10:59,881 --> 00:11:02,081 Speaker 2: want to focus on, I know what boundaries I need 270 00:11:02,081 --> 00:11:04,041 Speaker 2: to set, and I know where I'm leaking my energy. 271 00:11:04,561 --> 00:11:07,161 Speaker 2: And it was just this whole like lifelike cleanup, but 272 00:11:07,321 --> 00:11:09,481 Speaker 2: just like a Titan of the belt, you know of 273 00:11:09,521 --> 00:11:11,281 Speaker 2: like okay, cool, Like I don't have boundaries here, Okay, 274 00:11:11,321 --> 00:11:13,161 Speaker 2: pull it in. Yeah I'm not speaking up here. Okay, 275 00:11:13,201 --> 00:11:15,761 Speaker 2: pull it in, you know. And then by doing those 276 00:11:15,761 --> 00:11:18,241 Speaker 2: things and cleaning up those areas and also having the 277 00:11:18,281 --> 00:11:22,081 Speaker 2: time to just really rest and like settle in, be 278 00:11:22,161 --> 00:11:24,601 Speaker 2: in my feminine enjoy, be on the back of a bike, 279 00:11:24,681 --> 00:11:27,001 Speaker 2: listening to like my new favorite playlist which is called 280 00:11:27,321 --> 00:11:30,441 Speaker 2: My New Life by Tea Dash Wild with Double D 281 00:11:30,601 --> 00:11:32,281 Speaker 2: if you want to listen to it, and just listening 282 00:11:32,321 --> 00:11:34,281 Speaker 2: to those musics and feeling so free. 283 00:11:34,601 --> 00:11:35,401 Speaker 1: It's the best feeling. 284 00:11:35,601 --> 00:11:38,201 Speaker 2: A big thing in my life, my personal what's it 285 00:11:38,241 --> 00:11:41,961 Speaker 2: called my human design, my life challenges, my gene keys, 286 00:11:41,961 --> 00:11:44,361 Speaker 2: all of that. Something that I have to overcome in 287 00:11:44,401 --> 00:11:46,481 Speaker 2: my life is feeling like a prisoner in my life. 288 00:11:46,561 --> 00:11:48,681 Speaker 2: It's like a psychological battle that I have to face. 289 00:11:49,201 --> 00:11:51,521 Speaker 2: And so for me, it was like a moment of 290 00:11:51,521 --> 00:11:54,121 Speaker 2: that for me, of like breaking down that feeling of 291 00:11:54,161 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 2: feeling like a prisoner mentally, psychologically in my own challenges 292 00:11:58,561 --> 00:12:01,561 Speaker 2: and being like whoa, Like, you're actually already free, You're 293 00:12:01,601 --> 00:12:04,521 Speaker 2: already supported, you're already loved, you're already chosen all of 294 00:12:04,561 --> 00:12:07,041 Speaker 2: these things, and I just like, I got to enjoy myself. 295 00:12:07,361 --> 00:12:10,201 Speaker 2: I love it so nice and with your brother too, 296 00:12:10,281 --> 00:12:12,401 Speaker 2: And yeah, getting to spend time with my brother was 297 00:12:12,641 --> 00:12:16,001 Speaker 2: so healing, like him and I so obviously when we 298 00:12:16,041 --> 00:12:17,761 Speaker 2: lived at home, we lived together, and all of my 299 00:12:17,801 --> 00:12:19,801 Speaker 2: older sisters they had already moved out, so it was 300 00:12:19,801 --> 00:12:21,881 Speaker 2: just Nick and I. So from a really young age, 301 00:12:21,881 --> 00:12:23,881 Speaker 2: we built a really strong bond, like we will right 302 00:12:24,041 --> 00:12:27,081 Speaker 2: or die, always there for each other, been through every hardship, 303 00:12:27,161 --> 00:12:30,241 Speaker 2: every challenge together from the get go, and that just 304 00:12:30,361 --> 00:12:32,641 Speaker 2: helped us build a really really beautiful bond. And more God, 305 00:12:32,681 --> 00:12:34,201 Speaker 2: the amount of times I had to tell people that 306 00:12:34,201 --> 00:12:38,081 Speaker 2: we weren't together and in a relationship was actually so wild, 307 00:12:38,561 --> 00:12:40,441 Speaker 2: so funny. It was so funny, and they're like, oh, 308 00:12:40,441 --> 00:12:41,721 Speaker 2: my god, have fun with your new man. I'm like 309 00:12:41,761 --> 00:12:45,241 Speaker 2: ill because my brother, it's my little brother. Stop that. 310 00:12:45,601 --> 00:12:48,241 Speaker 2: And he's very gay by the way, he is not 311 00:12:48,721 --> 00:12:50,961 Speaker 2: barking up that kind of tree tell you that right 312 00:12:51,001 --> 00:12:55,641 Speaker 2: now it doesn't like women, but ill. Yeah and yeah, 313 00:12:55,681 --> 00:12:57,881 Speaker 2: getting to spend quality time with him just it was 314 00:12:57,921 --> 00:13:00,801 Speaker 2: so nice to reconnect with him, replug back in because 315 00:13:00,841 --> 00:13:02,961 Speaker 2: even when we lived in Sydney, we only got to 316 00:13:02,961 --> 00:13:05,841 Speaker 2: see each other every two weeks. Every two weeks, yes, 317 00:13:05,961 --> 00:13:08,001 Speaker 2: we had a fortnightly dinner where we would catch up 318 00:13:08,001 --> 00:13:10,041 Speaker 2: and go over goals and chat and check in with 319 00:13:10,081 --> 00:13:12,641 Speaker 2: each other. And then it went from that to me 320 00:13:12,721 --> 00:13:15,561 Speaker 2: moving to the Gold Coast and then having just not 321 00:13:15,641 --> 00:13:17,681 Speaker 2: even being able to see each other every six months, 322 00:13:17,961 --> 00:13:19,881 Speaker 2: you know. So being in Bali was amazing for that 323 00:13:19,961 --> 00:13:22,841 Speaker 2: because it helped us reconnect in that sense and reprioritize 324 00:13:22,841 --> 00:13:25,241 Speaker 2: our dynamic and now we go, okay, cool, they're going 325 00:13:25,241 --> 00:13:28,001 Speaker 2: to book something else in or we're going to chat 326 00:13:28,001 --> 00:13:29,761 Speaker 2: with each other and make sure that we're flying back 327 00:13:29,801 --> 00:13:32,281 Speaker 2: and forth and take turns so that we can reconnect 328 00:13:32,321 --> 00:13:35,361 Speaker 2: with each other. That's beautiful. Yeah, being in Bali really 329 00:13:35,361 --> 00:13:37,601 Speaker 2: got me excited for the retreats as well. You know, 330 00:13:37,601 --> 00:13:39,921 Speaker 2: we've got our retreats next year in May and then 331 00:13:39,961 --> 00:13:42,961 Speaker 2: another one in September, and being over there was just 332 00:13:43,041 --> 00:13:45,961 Speaker 2: confirmation of like, I'm so excited for what we're doing 333 00:13:46,121 --> 00:13:50,561 Speaker 2: and how impactful it's going to be. Something about something 334 00:13:50,561 --> 00:13:53,121 Speaker 2: about the energy in Bali is just absolutely next levels. 335 00:13:53,161 --> 00:13:54,801 Speaker 1: And so know that there's women coming that have never 336 00:13:54,881 --> 00:13:57,321 Speaker 1: been to Bali. We get to show them and help 337 00:13:57,401 --> 00:14:01,241 Speaker 1: them feel and experience it all. It's just so exciting, absolutely. 338 00:14:00,801 --> 00:14:02,761 Speaker 2: Being in Bali for that amount of time. I could 339 00:14:02,761 --> 00:14:05,361 Speaker 2: have stayed longer, to be honest, but I was seeing 340 00:14:05,361 --> 00:14:08,441 Speaker 2: you so much, and I was like, oh, my work wife, 341 00:14:08,681 --> 00:14:10,361 Speaker 2: And then when you surprised me, Oh my god, do 342 00:14:10,361 --> 00:14:12,921 Speaker 2: you know what to do with myself? I honestly was 343 00:14:13,041 --> 00:14:15,601 Speaker 2: so shocked. I went through a wave of emotions the 344 00:14:15,681 --> 00:14:18,481 Speaker 2: day that you guys surprised me, because I was just like, 345 00:14:18,561 --> 00:14:20,321 Speaker 2: but I just texted you five minutes ago and you 346 00:14:20,321 --> 00:14:22,001 Speaker 2: said I miss you and I wish I was in Bali. 347 00:14:22,001 --> 00:14:23,241 Speaker 2: But then I'm looking at you and I was like, 348 00:14:23,241 --> 00:14:25,921 Speaker 2: what the fuck is happening? And then I laughed, and 349 00:14:25,961 --> 00:14:27,641 Speaker 2: then I dropped down, and then I cried, and it 350 00:14:27,721 --> 00:14:31,521 Speaker 2: was just so like, so much emotion, and I just 351 00:14:31,561 --> 00:14:34,681 Speaker 2: remember feeling so grateful because I'm kind of the one 352 00:14:34,681 --> 00:14:35,841 Speaker 2: who loves doing the surprises. 353 00:14:35,921 --> 00:14:36,681 Speaker 1: I was so good at it. 354 00:14:36,721 --> 00:14:39,041 Speaker 2: I love the planning. I love making people feel that way. 355 00:14:39,201 --> 00:14:40,481 Speaker 1: You love making people feel special. 356 00:14:41,281 --> 00:14:43,081 Speaker 2: But it was so nice to be able to like 357 00:14:43,161 --> 00:14:45,441 Speaker 2: receive that. You know, I'm always usually the person who 358 00:14:45,441 --> 00:14:47,041 Speaker 2: does that, so to be on the receiving end of that, 359 00:14:47,121 --> 00:14:48,961 Speaker 2: I was just like, fuck, I feel so loved and 360 00:14:49,001 --> 00:14:52,521 Speaker 2: it feels so nice to receive that. And yeah, that 361 00:14:52,521 --> 00:14:54,841 Speaker 2: felt really really good. And then it was good because 362 00:14:54,841 --> 00:14:56,521 Speaker 2: we got to spend like a whole week together or 363 00:14:56,561 --> 00:14:59,321 Speaker 2: just under a week together in Bali and do content 364 00:14:59,441 --> 00:15:02,001 Speaker 2: and chill and just spend time together. And even though 365 00:15:02,161 --> 00:15:04,081 Speaker 2: you'd just been traveling all that time, it was so 366 00:15:04,241 --> 00:15:06,801 Speaker 2: nice for us to just after having spent time apart, 367 00:15:06,841 --> 00:15:09,041 Speaker 2: to come back together and to just be with each other. 368 00:15:09,121 --> 00:15:10,121 Speaker 1: I know, I know, beautiful. 369 00:15:10,201 --> 00:15:11,561 Speaker 2: You know. There were times where we were going off 370 00:15:11,561 --> 00:15:13,481 Speaker 2: for adventures and doing dinners and doing this, but then 371 00:15:13,561 --> 00:15:15,281 Speaker 2: sometimes we were just sitting and chilling and watching a 372 00:15:15,321 --> 00:15:17,721 Speaker 2: movie and not saying anything to each other, just seeing 373 00:15:17,721 --> 00:15:19,801 Speaker 2: each other's energy again. And it's so funny. When we 374 00:15:19,841 --> 00:15:21,801 Speaker 2: first got back together, we first had our dinner and 375 00:15:21,841 --> 00:15:23,801 Speaker 2: it was the three of us, us in Claudia, and 376 00:15:23,881 --> 00:15:26,001 Speaker 2: we sat down for dinner. We were laughing and giggling 377 00:15:26,041 --> 00:15:27,801 Speaker 2: and it was so much fun. And then we messaged 378 00:15:27,801 --> 00:15:30,441 Speaker 2: each other. We got on separate bikes and we messaged 379 00:15:30,441 --> 00:15:31,641 Speaker 2: each other. We're like, oh my god, that was the 380 00:15:31,681 --> 00:15:33,761 Speaker 2: fucking best. I messed you so much and it was 381 00:15:33,841 --> 00:15:37,001 Speaker 2: just we almost had to like replug back into each other. Yeah, 382 00:15:37,881 --> 00:15:39,601 Speaker 2: so cool. I remember saying to you. I was like, 383 00:15:39,641 --> 00:15:43,401 Speaker 2: we just need us all the time. Yeah, I know. 384 00:15:43,521 --> 00:15:45,641 Speaker 1: And it's funny. I got a couple of a couple 385 00:15:45,841 --> 00:15:49,161 Speaker 1: maybe maybe two or three where people were concerned that 386 00:15:49,321 --> 00:15:50,201 Speaker 1: I ruined your trip. 387 00:15:50,321 --> 00:15:51,321 Speaker 2: Oh yes, Yeah. 388 00:15:51,361 --> 00:15:53,121 Speaker 1: There was a couple that came through and one lady 389 00:15:53,121 --> 00:15:56,881 Speaker 1: that was really convinced that I had imposed and I'd 390 00:15:56,921 --> 00:15:58,961 Speaker 1: ruined your trip, that you needed space for me. She 391 00:15:59,081 --> 00:16:00,921 Speaker 1: was like saying all this stuff then, But and I 392 00:16:00,961 --> 00:16:03,081 Speaker 1: did bring it to team. I have full trust that 393 00:16:03,121 --> 00:16:05,481 Speaker 1: if Tiana ever felt anything, she would tell me, tell 394 00:16:05,481 --> 00:16:07,801 Speaker 1: me everything. Like there's just if anything's ever wrong or 395 00:16:07,801 --> 00:16:10,081 Speaker 1: feeling icky, or there's a concern or there's a worry, 396 00:16:10,121 --> 00:16:13,481 Speaker 1: we just bring it intraway. We're all about transparency and 397 00:16:13,521 --> 00:16:16,441 Speaker 1: preventing breakdown in our relationships, not just with each other 398 00:16:16,441 --> 00:16:18,241 Speaker 1: but anyone in our life. Now, that's just the standard. 399 00:16:18,281 --> 00:16:20,361 Speaker 1: We have for each other. But there was a moment 400 00:16:20,361 --> 00:16:22,281 Speaker 1: where I was like, oh, I'm going to bring it 401 00:16:22,321 --> 00:16:24,721 Speaker 1: to her in case anything's come up. And you were 402 00:16:24,721 --> 00:16:27,001 Speaker 1: so reassuring. But I would love you to talk about that, 403 00:16:27,001 --> 00:16:29,081 Speaker 1: because there definitely was a few that were thinking that 404 00:16:29,281 --> 00:16:31,121 Speaker 1: was there any moments for you? Not at all. 405 00:16:31,201 --> 00:16:33,681 Speaker 2: So when you first came, I did check with my brother, 406 00:16:33,881 --> 00:16:35,961 Speaker 2: like just I just had a conversation with him yea 407 00:16:36,161 --> 00:16:37,641 Speaker 2: that I was like, oh, hey, like I just want 408 00:16:37,641 --> 00:16:39,401 Speaker 2: a triple check, like this is okay for you because 409 00:16:39,441 --> 00:16:41,001 Speaker 2: it was like our accommodation and the trip that we 410 00:16:41,081 --> 00:16:43,321 Speaker 2: booked and stuff like that. And again same thing with Nick. 411 00:16:43,401 --> 00:16:45,401 Speaker 2: He would absolutely tell me, you know, and I was like, 412 00:16:45,521 --> 00:16:48,081 Speaker 2: just wanted to triple check and he was like, oh 413 00:16:48,081 --> 00:16:49,761 Speaker 2: my god, no, like this is the best thing ever. 414 00:16:49,801 --> 00:16:51,241 Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, what do you mean? Like, I'm so 415 00:16:51,281 --> 00:16:52,841 Speaker 2: happy to have her here and get to know her 416 00:16:52,841 --> 00:16:55,281 Speaker 2: and all of the things. And just to confirm with 417 00:16:55,361 --> 00:16:57,881 Speaker 2: anyone who was questioning that it absolutely did not ruin 418 00:16:57,881 --> 00:17:00,801 Speaker 2: my trip. If you watched my stories, I literally cry 419 00:17:00,801 --> 00:17:03,201 Speaker 2: out of my stories because I was saying how beautiful 420 00:17:03,241 --> 00:17:05,241 Speaker 2: it was to have you there and to be able 421 00:17:05,281 --> 00:17:06,921 Speaker 2: to see you after the time that we spent apart. 422 00:17:07,121 --> 00:17:08,841 Speaker 2: It was a shock to the system to spend four 423 00:17:08,881 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 2: weeks apart. 424 00:17:09,961 --> 00:17:11,361 Speaker 1: Oh my god, almost. 425 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 2: Every day together for the last two years. Never do 426 00:17:12,921 --> 00:17:15,521 Speaker 2: that again, never, never, And it was a dream. Like 427 00:17:15,561 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 2: the moment that I realized you were actually with me 428 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 2: and the shock well where off. I was like, holy fuck, 429 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 2: we're both in BALI like, what a beautiful thing that 430 00:17:23,561 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 2: I get to experience, that we have the ability to 431 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 2: make that happen, and this is a memory that I'm 432 00:17:27,721 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 2: going to hold onto forever. 433 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 1: It was so special. 434 00:17:29,761 --> 00:17:33,041 Speaker 2: It was so special, and like, yes, my brother and 435 00:17:33,120 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 2: I we booked that holiday and all the things, but 436 00:17:35,001 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 2: like we had already spent two weeks of being together 437 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:40,281 Speaker 2: so plugged in, and then what I got to experience 438 00:17:40,321 --> 00:17:42,761 Speaker 2: with the three of you was something like I'll never 439 00:17:42,801 --> 00:17:45,041 Speaker 2: forget I will never forget it. We were just like 440 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 2: sitting out by the pool and talking and literally there 441 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 2: were moments where I was sitting there and I got 442 00:17:49,241 --> 00:17:53,161 Speaker 2: teary because I was watching you and my brother connect 443 00:17:53,321 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 2: and I'm like, two of my favorite humans in the 444 00:17:55,441 --> 00:17:58,241 Speaker 2: world are literally connecting, and the three of us get 445 00:17:58,281 --> 00:18:00,160 Speaker 2: to be here together. It just felt so special for me. 446 00:18:00,360 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 2: So special, you know, so, there were so many reasons 447 00:18:02,681 --> 00:18:04,640 Speaker 2: why that trip was so beautiful, and you coming to 448 00:18:04,681 --> 00:18:07,801 Speaker 2: surprise me was something I'll honestly never forget, you know. 449 00:18:08,001 --> 00:18:10,640 Speaker 2: So't just social memory for anyone who thinks that she 450 00:18:10,761 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 2: ruined my whole I'm like you, guys, don't get how 451 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 2: I'm obsessed. 452 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:16,561 Speaker 1: We are no maybe in your friendship dynamic that might happen. 453 00:18:16,561 --> 00:18:19,001 Speaker 2: And you know something else, there was something that somebody 454 00:18:19,001 --> 00:18:20,440 Speaker 2: had said to you around O. I hope there was 455 00:18:20,481 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 2: no work talk. Yes, that was me. One. I don't 456 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:28,920 Speaker 2: want space from her. Two. What we do is so impactful. 457 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,360 Speaker 2: It's not just like clocking into a job that we 458 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:32,961 Speaker 2: don't love, do you know what I mean? And we've 459 00:18:32,961 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 2: both experienced that where we've been in things that we 460 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:38,321 Speaker 2: don't love doing. But together we bounce off each other's 461 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,281 Speaker 2: energy like or it's not even funny, you know, we 462 00:18:41,321 --> 00:18:43,801 Speaker 2: are together, we're thinking about Deeas we become more creative 463 00:18:43,801 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 2: when we're together, our energy just like continues to grow 464 00:18:47,041 --> 00:18:49,961 Speaker 2: and expand when we are together, being amplifize. That's right. 465 00:18:50,001 --> 00:18:51,721 Speaker 2: And so even if we are together and we are 466 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:54,001 Speaker 2: focusing on work, it's because we want to, not because 467 00:18:54,041 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 2: we have to. Everything that we've done for she rises 468 00:18:56,481 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 2: is heart led, purpose led, and passion fueled. And that's 469 00:18:59,880 --> 00:19:01,481 Speaker 2: why I believe it works the way that it does. 470 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,761 Speaker 1: It never feels like work, Like even when we have 471 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: money come into account both like get paid for this, 472 00:19:07,241 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: it feels like free money. Yeah, this is not real, right, Yes, 473 00:19:12,281 --> 00:19:14,481 Speaker 1: so yeah, there was that concern. Hey, yeah, she said, 474 00:19:14,481 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: I hope there's no work talk, and I remember being like, 475 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,281 Speaker 1: what do you mean your hope? Yeah, it's like, oh, 476 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,361 Speaker 1: maybe if you don't like your job, I can understand 477 00:19:20,360 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 1: why you would say that, but I think you understand 478 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: how much we love it. Yeah, it's not work now, 479 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,601 Speaker 1: it's not. We get to yeah and be together and 480 00:19:26,681 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 1: make positive impact in women's lives, like this is cool. 481 00:19:28,921 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 2: And this is also something we spoke about on the 482 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,761 Speaker 2: way up here to film this morning. Was I shared 483 00:19:33,801 --> 00:19:35,721 Speaker 2: with you, like how grateful I am that we get 484 00:19:35,721 --> 00:19:37,881 Speaker 2: to do this together, Like we don't just get to 485 00:19:37,921 --> 00:19:40,561 Speaker 2: create impact, we also get to do it literally with 486 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:42,801 Speaker 2: our best friends. Yeah, and that's something that you know, 487 00:19:42,961 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 2: not everyone. Yeah, and I'm just so grateful for that. 488 00:19:47,921 --> 00:19:52,360 Speaker 1: Daily. Yeah, and then we're already planning twenty twenty seven. Yeah, Okay, 489 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,401 Speaker 1: so we've got two Barley Tips next year. Town don't 490 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:56,481 Speaker 1: I really want to go to America together? We're both 491 00:19:56,481 --> 00:19:59,041 Speaker 1: being obviously separately, but really with a couple of places 492 00:19:59,041 --> 00:20:01,121 Speaker 1: really want to go and just explore together. And we're 493 00:20:01,120 --> 00:20:03,481 Speaker 1: also planning Okay, well, we do the two Barleyer treats 494 00:20:03,521 --> 00:20:05,321 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty six, which is next year, they're all 495 00:20:05,321 --> 00:20:08,201 Speaker 1: booked out. Then we do them again in twenty twenty seven. 496 00:20:08,201 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 1: Then my question mark, I mean, yes we will be 497 00:20:12,120 --> 00:20:13,841 Speaker 1: and yeah, there's just so many cool things we want 498 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:15,481 Speaker 1: to do. Like tonight in the hotel room, we're staying 499 00:20:15,481 --> 00:20:17,721 Speaker 1: in Brisbane for the podcast. We're going to plan out 500 00:20:17,801 --> 00:20:19,761 Speaker 1: all of next year because there's just so much that 501 00:20:19,801 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: we want to do. 502 00:20:20,321 --> 00:20:22,160 Speaker 2: There's so much, and there's so much we have coming 503 00:20:22,201 --> 00:20:23,801 Speaker 2: as well, so we're trying to figure out like our 504 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:26,360 Speaker 2: timeline and what it looks like. And then also, you know, 505 00:20:26,360 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 2: we were having a conversation this morning, right we were 506 00:20:28,241 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 2: asking the question like do we do a retreat in Australia? Yeah, 507 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,161 Speaker 2: is that something we explore because there were so many 508 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,481 Speaker 2: women who were like, I just can't do Bali because 509 00:20:35,481 --> 00:20:37,041 Speaker 2: I have commitments or I have children and I can't 510 00:20:37,041 --> 00:20:38,641 Speaker 2: get somebody to look after my kids for a whole 511 00:20:38,681 --> 00:20:40,761 Speaker 2: week or you know, things like that, So it's also 512 00:20:40,801 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 2: something that we have in mind. 513 00:20:42,120 --> 00:20:45,041 Speaker 1: Definitely, we've got a physical product coming out which you 514 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,481 Speaker 1: guys are going to absolutely love. And then we've also 515 00:20:47,521 --> 00:20:49,521 Speaker 1: got something for our online girlies. Yep, we've got our 516 00:20:49,561 --> 00:20:52,001 Speaker 1: Bali retreats, we've got the podcast. Obviously we're going to 517 00:20:52,041 --> 00:20:54,361 Speaker 1: have many intimate events next year, and then yeah, we're 518 00:20:54,360 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: planning an Australian retreat, so that's really exciting. There's so 519 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,281 Speaker 1: much happening behind the scenes and we're just are so 520 00:20:59,281 --> 00:21:01,160 Speaker 1: grateful we get to experience it, not only together but 521 00:21:01,201 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 1: with all of you as well. So if you're listening, 522 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 1: thank you so much being a part of our journey. 523 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,081 Speaker 2: We're so grateful. Honestly, it craves the world to us 524 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,880 Speaker 2: when we hear and read your messages that you send in, 525 00:21:10,041 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 2: when you guys send in bestie advice, like it means 526 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:13,561 Speaker 2: a lot to us that you trust us to lead 527 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:14,441 Speaker 2: you in that it does. 528 00:21:14,521 --> 00:21:16,241 Speaker 1: We don't ask as often, but if you ever listen 529 00:21:16,281 --> 00:21:18,561 Speaker 1: to an episode and it really resonates with you, or 530 00:21:18,561 --> 00:21:20,401 Speaker 1: you send it to a girlfriend like we would love 531 00:21:20,441 --> 00:21:22,361 Speaker 1: you to post us on your stories, or you share 532 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 1: it to a friend or leave a positive review. It 533 00:21:24,521 --> 00:21:26,401 Speaker 1: does help support what we do as well. 534 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:26,801 Speaker 2: It does. 535 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:30,001 Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks guys, We'll see you in the next episode. 536 00:21:30,041 --> 00:21:30,681 Speaker 2: Thanks so much. 537 00:21:30,921 --> 00:21:32,001 Speaker 1: Bye.