WEBVTT - Hayesy Gets Real About His Mental Health 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:09.920 Seven coffee, Settle into your seats. Jody and Hazy Madealee's 0:00:10.000 --> 0:00:11.040 favorite way to wake. 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:17.800 Up Good morning, Monday Morning. 0:00:17.920 --> 0:00:21.000 Jody and Hazy fresh off Cyril live in the Red 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:23.479 Room on Friday Night, and didn't it live up to 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:25.599 all the expectations that we had of our boys? 0:00:25.600 --> 0:00:29.040 Cyril certainly kid, I mean, he really really sets the 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:31.760 standard high, doesn't he. Yes, you live it on Friday night. 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:34.720 So everybody who went along, well done. Good start getting 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:38.200 youself some exclusive invites. Joe's what about crows and books? 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:38.559 For us? 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:41.720 This is what you'd like to see it on Monday morning? 0:00:41.840 --> 0:00:44.440 Just charging here off the back of two really big wins. 0:00:44.479 --> 0:00:45.199 Big wins. 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:47.880 Haven't we seen some big victories in the AFL in 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:48.760 the first couple of round. 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:50.280 Now spends the blowouts, isn't it. 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:52.760 It's really hard not to get super excited about the 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:55.840 crows because they look the goods in the first two weeks. 0:00:55.880 --> 0:00:58.880 Oh yeah, Is it a case of we are very 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.640 good or the position has been subpaths? 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:02.280 No? 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:04.360 I think the crows are really good. Yeah, right like 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:08.560 I think they're Yeah, they're right up there. So I 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:10.200 think the big question mark is ess and then that 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:13.679 bad and if so, then poor addat supporters licking your 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:14.600 lips for Thursday Night. 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:18.000 Oh yeah, absolutely rock into Thursday Night footy. Don't you 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:21.040 love Thursday night footage? Just the weekend comes early, guys, makes. 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:23.800 The weekend come nice and early. A big show coming 0:01:23.880 --> 0:01:26.000 up up for grabs before seven quick looking forward to 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:28.760 this nervous Red Room Global tour all powered by Speed. Yeah, 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:33.200 imagine the ultimate international music tour. You could be on there, 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:36.320 just on us via Ricky leads Him and Joel. That'd 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:37.240 be pretty sweet, wouldn't it. 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:40.520 The lineup for this thing is absolutely ludicrous, isn't it. 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:44.600 Yeah, you got past Malone, Jelly Roll, Gracie Abrams, Dean 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:49.680 Lewis or internationally just ridiculous. The Monday Morning Joke Off 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:51.160 is just around the corner. That's how we'd like to 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:52.680 kick things off on a Monday, if you don't mind. 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:53.120 Yeah. 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:56.360 Producer Molly very very ordinary in this space. So let's 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:58.279 say if you can lift her game, do. 0:01:58.120 --> 0:02:00.240 You think is this? Would this be the four often 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:02.400 storm it from Juice Moring you keeping dames. 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:04.120 For maybe fish, Yeah, something like that. 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:08.080 Let's say you've had four cracks, He's zero from four. 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:12.240 Month are you kidding you first, you last? 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:15.399 Yeah, well we were trying to see your first one. 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:18.280 I encourage you, so you reckon. Today's is sort of 0:02:18.280 --> 0:02:18.840 do or die. 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:20.400 It could be make or break. 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:23.600 Yeah, ready, are you saying that we could be culling 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:24.760 producer Molly from the joke? 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:27.760 I know I was saying, but I was thinking that. 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:31.160 At least you're saying it to my face. 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:33.880 Yeah, that's true, that's very true. All right, that's coming 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:37.520 up up seven o'clock. But let's just reflect on what 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:40.680 was a really, really fun Friday night thanks to Seal 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:43.799 of a Nervous Red Room. What a guy, what a crowd? 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:44.520 Any fun? 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:46.560 He's a big old Seal remix for you on a 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:50.000 Monday morning. Good morning on Friday night by Nervous Red Room, 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:51.880 and gluttony went off its absolute face. 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:53.320 Yeah, it was unreal. 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:56.080 And if you're wondering what it's like backstage with Cyril, 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:58.880 it's just a caravan, just a little caravan. But he 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.280 did have a rider, a few different things on his writer, 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:07.120 primarily two big bottles of gray Goose and what was 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:08.840 that shot thing that he was pouring. 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:11.000 Oh and it was some sort of fancy tequila, as 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:11.640 well as sort. 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:13.800 Of nineteen fifty two tequila or something. 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:15.280 Ten protein bu ten. 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:19.000 Protein guys just sick out direct with tequila. But he 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:21.400 put up an interesting post on the weekend. He said, today, 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:24.760 I'm finally taking everything that's happened this year in it's 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:28.160 been incredible. From six years ago with a drug addiction, 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:30.840 kicked out of my rental, not being able to afford 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:34.680 a one dollar Hamburger, to having a family, traveling the world, 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:38.280 buying my dream mute and making music for a living. 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:40.080 I really love working hard and doing what I do, 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:41.280 and I wouldn't be able to do it if I 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:42.920 didn't have your support, So thank you so much. 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:44.320 In his to twenty twenty five. 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:46.440 Yes, sire, the really nice to say as well that 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:48.280 when you meet someone like that and they just he 0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:51.040 was the lovely guy, a genuine lovely guy, as was 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:53.720 his entorege. If you made some managers and stuff, there 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:56.440 just a really really good cruisy sea boxs like that 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:59.080 guying Well, he's absolutely killing it, and it's someone who 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:01.840 really really appreciates it's each and every opportunity that he gets. 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:03.840 Yeah, and if you're worried if Cyril was staying at 0:04:03.840 --> 0:04:05.240 the Best Western near the airport. 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:06.120 Don't worry about that. 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:07.040 Don't worry about it all. 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:09.360 Because when he finished his set on Friday night, he 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:11.480 was retiring to the penthouse at. 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:16.960 Where he's staying. He's like, oh, it's placed in the city. 0:04:16.960 --> 0:04:22.159 It's like I am like, yeah, that's the one. 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:26.080 Like, oh my god, your little eyes were lighting up, 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:28.239 just waiting for an invitation to go back and party 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:29.400 with Cyril at his penthouse. 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:31.800 You what are you going to do back at your hotel? 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:35.719 I probably go to sleep, Okay, cool, cool, have a 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:41.840 good night, have a good one. Congratulations and thank you 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:43.360 for everyone he turned out as well. It was such 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:43.760 a good crow. 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:46.839 Yeah yeah, and amazing ground. Thank you everyone who supported 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:48.800 the Red Room. Let's do it all again. I want 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:49.479 to do it all again. 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:53.040 Yes this week. That's too sure, that's too short. We'll 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:55.039 cook something else happening in the back of the in 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:58.880 the scenes morning the following segment audiences. 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.640 And graphic language and nudity, not that you'll see it 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:03.640 is easily offended. 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:05.880 Well, you're about to find out just how easily. 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:12.760 Your father he's only money, nothing, not. 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:15.800 This is a chance for us to get maybe just 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:17.640 a little bit blue, maybe just a little bit ris 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:21.160 gay things really sort of wholesome up after seven. 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:24.960 Yeah, and what has landed on my desk is something 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:28.760 that I think is a great, big battle conspiracy from 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:31.720 you below to make us women think that we need 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:32.440 to have more sex. 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:33.839 What do you go? 0:05:34.120 --> 0:05:36.599 So, Apparently, according to a survey, if you want to 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:38.599 live a happy and healthy life, expert say. 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:40.440 You need to have sex more often than you think. 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:46.800 Amen, sister, It's apparently good both mentally and physically. Experts 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:49.080 are advising people to have regular sex if they want 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:51.280 to be happy. Refraining from sex for too long can 0:05:51.320 --> 0:05:53.839 actually cause depression and anxiety. 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:58.640 Yeah, okay, okay, So what is this? Did you did 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:00.800 you compile the study or you get this from some 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:01.520 sort of journal? 0:06:01.600 --> 0:06:03.719 I certainly did not. This was in some sort of 0:06:03.960 --> 0:06:08.760 fancy journal. This is actually the Journal of Sexual Medicine. 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:09.400 Oh, very good. 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:10.279 Did you know that existed? 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:13.400 It's quite the journal. She said, the Christmas party. Crazy, 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:16.719 those guys, these guys party, I'll give you. 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:19.839 I just want to turn up to the Adelaide Convention Center. 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:23.719 It's got Christmas party for the Journal of Sexual Medicine naked. 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:26.120 You're like, what's going on here? Oh, it's a sex 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:27.040 journal guys. 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:31.800 Closing. Okay, so this is the alarming part. 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:35.640 It found that women aged between twenty and fifty nine 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:38.640 who were getting frisky less than once a week had 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:40.400 a much higher risk of early death. 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:43.159 See that's that's what we're talking about. 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.400 It is the kind of bullsh that my husband's trying 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:46.000 to sell to me. 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:49.640 If you don't have sex with. 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:51.160 Me, you're going to die. 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:55.680 Couldn't say, ladies, save yourself, do yourself a fucker. 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:58.240 A job. 0:06:58.360 --> 0:06:59.640 That is a good job. 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:02.560 Monday morning joke off. 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.200 Way to start it were just a little injection of humor. 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:11.280 It's joddy, very funny, by the way, produce extremely funny. 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:14.560 Not not so much, not so much. It's a work 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:15.280 on producer. 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:18.080 It's a fun time of the week. Unless your name 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:21.680 is Molly Rose. It always ends in tears. Okay, who 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:23.200 wants to go to this, Molly, Let's get you out 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:23.440 of the way. 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:26.920 Joke got started, all right. 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:31.440 What's the difference between the Carlton Football Club and Mosquitos. 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:35.200 Mosquitoes eventually stop sucking. 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:43.920 And you can say that because you're in car and order, 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:48.280 So that makes sense. I'll go next, Joe. Is that okay? 0:07:48.520 --> 0:07:48.800 Okay? 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:51.160 Sure, all right, here we go. The teacher asks the 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:54.680 class to use the word harassment in a sentence. After 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:57.160 thinking for a long time, Little Johnny. And we all 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:58.280 know about Little Johnny. 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:00.240 Everyone is very familiar with his work. 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:02.840 What a character, and we're on edge when Little Johnny 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:04.880 puts his hand up. He put his hand up and 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:08.280 he said, well, I'm still sad that my girlfriend left me. 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:10.240 Harassment A lot to me? 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:13.600 Harass is that her name? 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:13.800 Is that? 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:14.640 The girlfriend's name? 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:21.280 The harassment a lot to me? Harassmant a lot to me. 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:28.560 Let me get this, ladies. It has. 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:34.400 John His girlfriend's name is harassed. 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:36.599 It is a different accent there as well. Okay, the 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:39.600 key is listening, folks. You really got to keep your 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:40.080 ears out. 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:41.640 Okay. 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:44.080 A man comes home after a hard day's work and 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:47.640 opens the refrigerator to get a soft drink. Inside, he 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:49.320 sees a wombat taking a nap. 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:51.400 What are you doing in my fridge? 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:54.079 The man asked, and the wombat opens one sleepy eye 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.240 and says, isn't this a Westing House? 0:08:57.080 --> 0:08:59.040 Yes, the man replies, well. 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:02.120 Then the wombat says, shutting his eyes again, I'm going 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:05.600 the West. 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:08.760 What let's go to issues with hiss and art classic. 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:12.200 Then that said her name was Hilras. 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:14.439 Gout the weally really good jokes. 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:22.040 There sealed section with Tiff one from Jan's first Yes. 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:24.640 We do this seation every week as well Joe's. And 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:27.679 this is the sealed section featuring the lovely Tiff war. 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:30.400 Little ray of Sunshine has just entered the building. Good morning, 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:34.160 she is Hi everyone. Hi, You've got your envelope. You're 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:34.960 ready to open it? 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:35.240 Yeah? 0:09:35.280 --> 0:09:36.559 Actually, hazy, would you help me out? 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:40.600 Okay, I'm very good at the loves opening an envelope. 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:49.760 Cool owing youself every week every. 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:52.880 Week, these scars on these hands, what. 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:53.080 Do you go? 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:53.880 This week? 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:58.240 We're talking brides and grooms and this immense pressure for 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:00.480 the groom to sort of shut a tear. 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:03.079 I recently intended my sister's wedding. 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:09.600 Yes, you would be such a distraction at. 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:15.800 I tell you what I did. Look beautiful, That's what I'm. 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:18.160 Sure you did. But I say more so the stuff 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:20.240 of the background. Yeah, I was singing along with. 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:25.080 There was ever a there was ever a bridesmaid that 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:27.000 wanted to outshine the bride. 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:31.000 Hello, It's not that I wanted to, It just happens. 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:37.960 My sister looked gorgeous. I looked gorgeous, and then her husband, 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:39.840 my brother in law, Sean at the top, and that 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:42.600 this is what happens. The bride comes out, then everyone 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:44.880 goes enough of you, Sam, We want to see what 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:45.520 Sean's doing. 0:10:45.840 --> 0:10:46.520 Is he crying? 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:51.160 And thankfully he did. Because these in this day and age, 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:53.320 I feel there's a rhetoric that if your groom doesn't cry, 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:56.040 he hates you really, he thinks you look ugly. 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:58.000 So that's a lot of pressure. I know that's a 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:00.840 lot of pressure. So for blokes, I mean so many 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:03.520 different situations when you have to perform these expectations, that's 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.960 when you don't perform. Indeed, it's got to be organic. 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:07.160 It's another example. 0:11:09.080 --> 0:11:11.160 I can't think of enough top of my head right now. 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:12.720 It has to be organic, deaf, you must. 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:14.559 This is where I would love to hear from brides 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:16.480 and grooms here on thirteen twenty four ten. Is there 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:19.640 an expectation that if the groom doesn't cry, then he 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:21.720 doesn't love you enough? That seems to be the chitter 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:24.120 chatter amongst the other women in the at the wedding. 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:25.720 I think it's a generational thing. 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:27.520 I don't think back in the day, because we surveyed 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:29.640 all the older fellas in the ten years first we did, 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:31.320 and all of them said, no, I didn't cry. 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:33.679 Cry, I'm happy. Why would I cry? 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:36.439 Yeah, they were almost like berating these younger blokes who 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:36.880 do cry. 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:38.520 They were like, what do they cry for? 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:40.440 But then is it a social media trend because now 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:42.319 a lot of weddings get filmed and it's just become 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:46.920 this thing where the groom cries? But Jones, did Gregy cry? 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:48.400 When you come up with which Gregory you're gonna have 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:54.640 Gregy the second greg who's to say? 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:55.160 I don't know. 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:57.280 He was so hot and sweaty because we got married 0:11:57.280 --> 0:11:59.120 in Berlin. He was wearing a suit, so I don't 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:00.640 know if they were tears or if it was just 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:01.760 sweat pouring down his cheeks. 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:02.840 I'd be sweating and was marrying. 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:05.959 That's the big question. And what we're crying about was 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:07.800 the fact that you guys wearing thongs and you knew 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:08.640 that you regret that. 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:11.320 Used to become you look on the songs We're on 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:11.680 a beach. 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:13.439 Did you really wear thongs on your wedding day? I 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:16.400 didn't wear cry that. 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:19.400 Brings a tear to your I bored like a baby. 0:12:21.280 --> 0:12:23.360 And it is the moment when you first see your 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:25.440 bride walking down there, and it's a song that you 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:28.440 both connect with as well. It's a really, really emotional. 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:30.000 If I was to put you on the spot and 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:32.040 tell you to name the song that your bride walked 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:32.640 down the arm. 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:36.840 It was rock at them. 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:39.800 The paper Kites, I can't come remember it's a beautiful song, 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:43.920 paper Kites Bloom, It's Bloom sing it really nice. I 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:44.960 don't put the pressure on that now. 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:50.560 Four ten get involved in the conversation. Are you a bride? 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:53.360 Do you expect your new husband to cry? Or are 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:55.240 you a groom? And do you feel the pressure to cry? 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:57.720 Just a really really precious situation. 0:12:57.880 --> 0:12:58.080 Yeah. 0:12:58.080 --> 0:12:59.960 And also we've got teddy swimstickers to give away to. 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:02.760 Best call this morning. Score yourself some teddy swims tickets 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:05.160 will take your cars next thirteen twenty four ten Please 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:05.640 get involved. 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:10.720 Has sealed section with Ti from. 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:15.200 Janie's first Yeah she is, and she's brought something very 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:19.280 very close to her heart this morning, so close, so it. 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:20.400 Is go for it. 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:23.400 You just what your sister get married and my sister, Yeah, 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:26.200 she got married. She tied the knot yep. 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:27.800 Oh nice, Oh here it is. 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:29.760 Oh it wasn't to this song, but can you imagine 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:30.160 if it was. 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:33.520 Has anyone actually got married to this song? 0:13:33.679 --> 0:13:33.800 No? 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:36.560 Ever, No, she's too generic. I like it. 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:39.920 It's nice, loyal, But everyone turns when the bride comes 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.120 up there, it's like, oh, well, bride, But then everyone's 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:43.920 head back to the groom. 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:47.160 Whiplash. Everyone's gone to look to see if he's crying. 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:50.640 Yeap. You think it used to be all eyes on 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:51.040 the bride. 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:51.400 It did. 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:53.319 Now the groom gets some attention because he's supposed to 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:54.040 put it on the water wall. 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:56.400 Yeah, and everyone's staring intohim, being like, you better cry, 0:13:56.440 --> 0:13:57.920 and thankfully Sean did. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:13:58.320 Yeah. 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:01.480 And so we're asking the question on thirteen twenty four 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:03.480 ten or your bride you expect your man to cry? 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:05.480 You were groomed? Do you feel pressure to cry? 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:08.120 We spoke a little bit before about what song that 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:11.320 your beautiful white walked down the aisle two as you 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:13.720 were sobbing like a baby and you found it there. 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:16.200 It's in the system of the paper. Quite's blown acoustic version 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:22.760 of this. Can I see? Does make me feel it? Feeling? 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:29.120 I feel very nice? Shows you walk down to. 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:32.640 This sad muss there she goes. 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:35.400 Actually cry right now? 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:37.760 Do you know really making cry jokes? 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:41.360 Your husband, Greggy texted me, oh no, after we discussed 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:44.200 it whether he cried and he said, cried when I 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:49.080 realized what I'd done. 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:49.560 Money. 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:52.840 All right, we're taking callse certeen twenty four ten. Now 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:56.240 let's go to Shane in all longa downs. Shane, take 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:58.440 us through it. Did you cry? Do you feel did 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:00.160 you feel pressure to cry? 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:03.480 The pressure maye then when you're in the moment, mate, 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:05.640 until you just play on your emotions, mate, and just 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:06.200 let it go. 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:07.400 Mate, gone on the days of. 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:10.280 Being big strong men. Mate, We can express our emotions 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:10.640 as well. 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:11.600 That's fine. 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:16.720 Did you use the word mate in your speech to 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:18.760 the reception on Tippy did? 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:20.600 Yeah? I did? 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:23.920 Mate. 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:26.480 My wife said my bladder is too close to my 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:32.600 eyble just wengh out my face all been there? 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:33.840 Oh dear. 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:38.080 Okay, let's go to Haila in Highbury. Did I say 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:38.400 that right? 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:38.840 So? Halo? 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:40.680 Yeah, thank you? 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:42.760 Okay. So do grooms have to cry? 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:45.960 What's the go I feel that they do. 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:49.440 I would hate. 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:53.200 If my boyfriend didn't cry when I walk. Doesn't love me? 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:56.200 Does he know this hailor have you? 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:57.400 Does he know I have. 0:15:57.440 --> 0:16:00.320 Had the conversation with him. I said to him, I 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:02.680 really hope that you're going to cry when I walk 0:16:02.720 --> 0:16:05.880 down the aisle. So we've had the conversation before. 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:08.000 It's a lot of pressure to put on it, isn't it. 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:08.880 That is tough, isn't it? 0:16:08.960 --> 0:16:09.160 Yeah? 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:13.000 Oh, let's take more calls thirteen and twenty four. Ten ladies, 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:14.840 are you a bride and do you expect him to cry? 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:15.040 Or? 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:18.000 Grooms? So, do you feel the pressure to shed a 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:20.440 tear or two? It's a beautiful, beautiful moment, But when 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:23.000 there's pressure to do something like that, sometimes it's the 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:24.280 last thing that your body wants to do. 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:31.040 Daisies sealed section with Tiffan from ten News First. 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:33.880 Ah, there she is tiof one from ten Years First 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:36.000 who recently attended to her sister's wedding. 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:38.480 That's me, yeah, and tell us what happened? 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:42.440 Well everyone, Yes, it's about you, Sam Sis. Mind you. 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:45.200 Everyone wants to see if the groom is crying. Yeah, 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:46.880 it's a thing in this day and age. Everyone wants 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:48.800 to know is the groom shedding a tear? 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:51.280 It comes off the back of viral social media video, 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:53.840 sure where that's just on the and the particular moment 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:55.800 where the groom there's one famous one where he turns 0:16:55.840 --> 0:16:58.920 around and just absolutely almost falls over. Yeah, you know 0:16:58.960 --> 0:16:59.280 the one. 0:16:59.320 --> 0:17:00.000 I do know the one. 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:01.320 It seems like it's almost fake. 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:04.480 But now everyone wants that or expects it. Yeah, and 0:17:04.520 --> 0:17:06.200 if they don't, it means your groom hates you. 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:08.840 And then and then if it doesn't happen, then then 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:12.640 all the women at the reception are all bitually going, oh, 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:19.320 well he didn't try in this example, do I really 0:17:19.440 --> 0:17:22.320 love her enough? All right, let's go to Erin from Enfield. 0:17:22.359 --> 0:17:23.440 Good morning, Erin. 0:17:24.000 --> 0:17:25.760 Good morning, guys, how are you good? 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:26.160 Good? 0:17:26.280 --> 0:17:26.560 Okay? 0:17:26.560 --> 0:17:28.760