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Speaker 1: This is the Fitty and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Last night fits Big one on Maps Maps.

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Speaker 3: It was the first in a party last night. I

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Speaker 3: think this is a record because I think this is

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Speaker 3: one of the first times a contestant has left after

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Speaker 3: a couple of days. Elliott was not there. Elliott was

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Speaker 3: not happy with his wife Lauren, and he sat down

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Speaker 3: with the expect John Aiken to talk about it a

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Speaker 3: little bit more.

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Speaker 1: Let's be honest. You're here on the show because you're

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Speaker 1: thirty five and single and you've been going out with

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Speaker 1: young women and it hasn't worked.

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Speaker 4: And I get that narrative that it's not a narrative,

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Speaker 4: it's just fact.

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Speaker 1: I think that you are involved in a pattern, a

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Speaker 1: toxic pattern. You've been matched with someone who, after two days,

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Speaker 1: you've decided isn't right, and you're running. I need you

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Speaker 1: to look at yourself and ask yourself, why am I

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Speaker 1: sabotaging these relationships? I don't is my own time? That's

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Speaker 1: your problem? Oh it was deep.

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Speaker 3: He lasted two days on MATS and he joins us. Now, Elliot,

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Speaker 3: welcome to the fits Me with Cad Richie Show.

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Speaker 4: Hey boys, how you doing?

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Speaker 3: Massive?

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Speaker 2: Very Elliott Massive.

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Speaker 3: Now before we start, I need to ask you, Elliot,

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Speaker 3: have you not watched the show before? Like, I mean,

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Speaker 3: do you honestly believe that they're going to match you

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Speaker 3: with someone who you would like to go onto the

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Speaker 3: show with? Did you honestly think that that was ever

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Speaker 3: going to happen?

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Speaker 4: You know, that's the biggest question ever. Already always asked me,

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Speaker 4: like they're like, haven't you seen the show? And actually,

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Speaker 4: to be fair, like in the beginning of the audition phase,

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Speaker 4: I had never watched it, Like I didn't see one episode.

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Speaker 4: I never applied for it. They had a casting agent

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Speaker 4: approached me on Instagram and be like, oh, yeah, we

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Speaker 4: should you should have auditioned for the biggest show in

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Speaker 4: Australia yep. And I didn't even know what it was,

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Speaker 4: Like I thought it could be The Block or something,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, all right, yeah, I love Reasons, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: let's have a look at it. And then when I

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Speaker 4: found out it was Mass, I kind of pulled out

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Speaker 4: and I said, look, I'm not really interested in doing this.

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Speaker 4: I watched a few episodes of the previous season. I

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Speaker 4: was like, uh, you know, it seemed like it the

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Speaker 4: patterned to me. It seemed like every season they have

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Speaker 4: like maybe one maybe two, like actual good matches that

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Speaker 4: get along, they're right for each other and have a

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Speaker 4: great time, and then the rest this contry was like yeah,

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Speaker 4: just like bickering and arguing and not suggesting.

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Speaker 2: They try to validate the series each year, can I

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Speaker 2: ask Eliet? Because Lauren is a really beautiful looking girl,

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Speaker 2: like and she's a fantastic person. So it seemed like

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Speaker 2: such a big decision and what we saw was just

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Speaker 2: you basing your decision on her age being two years

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Speaker 2: older than you.

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Speaker 3: Is that a big deal?

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Speaker 4: Well, you know it's amazing girl. Yeah, Look, no arguments there.

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Speaker 4: For me, it's it's not that I'm saying she's not.

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Speaker 4: It's just there's a lot of things that they didn't

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Speaker 4: show where we just didn't click right. And to be fair,

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Speaker 4: when I went on the show, I did it on

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Speaker 4: the thing. I actually told them up front. I was like, look,

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Speaker 4: if I get match with someone that's like outside of

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Speaker 4: what I'm looking for, like, I'll just leave it. I

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Speaker 4: said it over and over again, and so so it's like,

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Speaker 4: you know, they've just been they've just smashed their head

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Speaker 4: against the wall and said, why are you doing this

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Speaker 4: to us, like why are you leaving? And it's like, well,

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Speaker 4: I literally said exactly what I would do if you

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Speaker 4: did that, and then you did it, and then you're

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Speaker 4: like surprised at the result you got. It's like yeah, yeah, warrant.

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Speaker 4: It was more like we had very different family goals

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Speaker 4: in mind, and so something like that. I get it.

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Speaker 4: I get it, Like you know, oh, you can work

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Speaker 4: on it, you can work on all these things. But

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Speaker 4: if she's not really that interested in having family and

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Speaker 4: that's something that's like the most important thing for me,

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Speaker 4: she could be she could be Miranda krr. It doesn't

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Speaker 2: She want to have a family?

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Speaker 4: She said her words exactly. Her words exactly were, look

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Speaker 4: at the most, I would have one child, like I

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Speaker 4: am going to freeze my eggs, and then later on

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Speaker 4: in life, I'll consider having one kid. And that to

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Speaker 4: me is like it's just two different futures. No, no, no,

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Speaker 4: I want someone that's excited to be a mom and

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Speaker 4: is like that's what I want to be in life,

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Speaker 4: not someone that's like, oh, look, I don't want it

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Speaker 4: to get in the way of you know, my career

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Speaker 4: or whatever like that, because.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, so we need it all right. So

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Speaker 3: you so you were approached to go on the shape,

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Speaker 3: you were hesitant about doing it. Right, Look, you're very

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Speaker 3: hesitant to do it. You said, this is what I'm

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Speaker 3: looking for. They obviously didn't give you what you want

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Speaker 3: and you said to him, looking, if it's if I'm

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Speaker 3: not feeling this, I'm leaving. Right. So after two days

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Speaker 3: you said, well, guys, you're not doing Can I ask

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Speaker 3: you what extent did they go to to keep you

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Speaker 3: on the show and try to get you didn't rock

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Speaker 3: up to the dinner party last night? What extent did

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Speaker 3: they go to to get you to that dinner party?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 3: What were they have foring you?

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Speaker 4: Oh, you don't even want to know. They begged him

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Speaker 4: that meeting I had with John. You know, the funniest

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Speaker 4: thing is I just went home and I was like, look,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to be a part of the show.

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Speaker 4: I left the honeymoon. It was in Fraser Island, and

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Speaker 4: I'm like I'm going home, like I'm done with this,

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Speaker 4: Like obviously it didn't work out, and I want to

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Speaker 4: just kind of like do as much damage controls a lot,

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Speaker 4: like obviously going to maybe look bad whatever and then

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Speaker 4: they begged him, pleaded for me to come and sit

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Speaker 4: down with John. They're like, we need to put an

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Speaker 4: ending to this, so you need to come and sit

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Speaker 4: to John, sit down and speak to John. I had no, like,

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Speaker 4: I get nothing out of going and meeting with John's.

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Speaker 4: And then I sit down with John and the first

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Speaker 4: thing that comes out of his mouth is, so, Elliott,

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Speaker 4: you begged me to have this meeting. I was like,

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Speaker 4: and my reaction was like, this is stupid, and I

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Speaker 4: went to walk out, and they all came over. They're like, no, no,

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Speaker 4: we'll do it differently. We'll do it differently. Oh, so, Elliott,

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Speaker 4: I've organized this meeting. Of course that doesn't get shown.

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Speaker 4: The original gets shown. And they've got me.

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Speaker 2: Of course, like you're midding my head, welcome man or something,

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Speaker 2: Welcome to TV.

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Speaker 3: So my responses, this is where we need to tell me.

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Speaker 4: You're in a toxic You're in a toxic cycle, and

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Speaker 4: you're thirty five and single and this isn't working.

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Speaker 1: You know what I said?

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Speaker 4: I said my last relationship lasted long into two days though,

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Speaker 4: So it turns out I'm a better matchmaker than you

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Speaker 4: guys are. But obviously that doesn't get shown.

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Speaker 3: So this is what we have to This is what

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Speaker 3: we have to work here. And I know and I can, Elliott,

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Speaker 3: because you are a villain in Australia at the moment

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Speaker 3: and everyone's going but you you think, mate, if you

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Speaker 3: stuck around and anyone watched the dinner party last night,

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Speaker 3: Tim him is a villain at the moment as well.

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Speaker 3: But if you stuck around, you just I don't know

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Speaker 3: what you would have had to go through. So last

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Speaker 3: night everyone was talking you're out, You're out of it

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Speaker 3: now and you'll be forgotten about in a week or time.

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Speaker 2: You'll be back.

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Speaker 3: Lauren, Lauren last night. I just need to bring this

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Speaker 3: up as well. But this is her at the dinner

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Speaker 3: party last night. We just need to get your thoughts

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Speaker 3: on this is this is what this is what she

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Speaker 3: had to say.

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Speaker 1: So what did he say when he left or he

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Speaker 1: didn't say anything?

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Speaker 3: He wanted someone who was twenty five, He wanted five children.

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Speaker 4: You know if he didn't get exactly what he wanted

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Speaker 4: that he was gonna leave. He also had really bad bo.

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Speaker 3: So need to bring this do you have hell?

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Speaker 2: Bo?

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Speaker 3: Elliott?

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Speaker 4: Hell? Hell hath no fury like a woman's storn? Right?

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Speaker 3: I mean, you got to be careful here.

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Speaker 4: She said about one hundred more things than that, So

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Speaker 4: like that's them showing like one little thing like she was.

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Speaker 4: She was complaining about like my stubble, like like anything

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Speaker 4: that she could. She was like, oh this, and so like,

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Speaker 4: I don't take it personally. I mean, obviously she was

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Speaker 4: put in a very bad situation. And actually, like they

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Speaker 4: don't show this, but I felt really really bad to

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Speaker 4: got on the show saying, look, if you match you

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Speaker 4: I leave. If I stay, I mean, I'm like, oh, well,

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Speaker 4: you know what fuck use is my word?

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Speaker 2: It means nothing.

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Speaker 4: And then at the same time, obviously I didn't go

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Speaker 4: was gonna, you know, reflect negatively on her. But what

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Speaker 4: it doesn't show is the fact that there was a

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Speaker 4: lot of stuff she didn't like about me. She just

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Speaker 4: wanted to And look, this is where this becomes a

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Speaker 4: little bit of a lot of people. A lot of

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Speaker 4: people fail on that show just because they want to

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Speaker 4: be on camera and yeah, and that was not what

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Speaker 4: I was there for.

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Speaker 2: We've got to rap, but I want to go to

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Speaker 2: go to the news. I was going to get to

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Speaker 2: the news, but I think you'll end up probably with

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Speaker 2: her and having a few more kids to one. So

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to see you guys.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, Elliott, Just before you go, can we

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Speaker 3: just make this clear now that you're out of the show,

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Speaker 3: are you being paid by anyone? Like, is there any

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Speaker 3: publications that have got you on board or are you

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Speaker 3: doing anything now? No, we ever paid you for this?

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Speaker 4: No, no, it sucks hate.

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Speaker 3: No, No, it's you.

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Speaker 4: Guys mentioned about the infamy and you would think that,

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Speaker 4: But everywhere I go, people come up wanting yourself in

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Speaker 4: there like you're a legend. Every guy is like like

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Speaker 4: the wait nearby, They're like, I would have done the

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Speaker 4: same thing. I haven't had one person say something like

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Speaker 4: negative to me in person, but you read the comments

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Speaker 4: and you think that I'm like going to be burned

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Speaker 4: at the stake or something.

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Speaker 2: Watching.

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Speaker 3: Well, look, the only I mean you weren't painted very well.

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Speaker 3: But the only good thing that you've done is got

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Speaker 3: out of there in two days. So we appreciate you

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Speaker 3: coming on the show and giving an ISS your time, Elliott,

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Speaker 3: thank you very much.

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