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Speaker 1: It sits in with Kate WI podcast. Welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Pretty serious topic for tonight. It's one of those things.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we all do it, except the aim is

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Speaker 1: that you do it quietly and privately and sometimes at

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Speaker 1: your workplace or the space of your own home. What

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Speaker 1: is doing a pooh cake? Besides Kate, everybody else on

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Speaker 1: the planet, all eight billion other people do.

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Speaker 2: There are some others. It's very rare, but very rare.

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Speaker 1: And there's one person that hasn't been finding the bathroom

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Speaker 1: or even a toilet at work. They've been missing the

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Speaker 1: bowl by.

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Speaker 2: Is it a man?

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Speaker 1: I think it is a man. It's not always a man, No.

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Speaker 2: It's not. There were a few females in the Queensland

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Speaker 2: area randomly poop peek. Good for them, Good for their done.

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Speaker 1: Girl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what for it when a woman ships

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Speaker 2: on the street. You know what, If you can do it,

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Speaker 2: I can do it better. Do you want to do

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Speaker 2: anything here you can do? I can do better?

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Speaker 1: Well, I'd like to see that I can pull anything

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Speaker 1: better that I can pull in.

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Speaker 2: Any we're more random than you.

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Speaker 1: Yes he can, Yes, I can.

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Speaker 2: Watch me, now watch me now? All right, it's on

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Speaker 2: the podcast. I'm so sorry about it.

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Speaker 1: Sorry about that. Guys, have a good one.

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Speaker 3: This is the Fits and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 1: I just got to text from my mom.

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Speaker 2: Yes, because I'm a textbert an expert, a textee, write

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Speaker 2: my reply, Love.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is a I love this one,

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Speaker 1: A really tricky one. It's a really really.

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Speaker 4: Hard will be the judge of that suit?

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm going to read up the message first. The

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Speaker 1: message says, Hey, Georgie, who's it from? Anna? Hey, Georgie,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to ask a favor. As you know, I

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Speaker 1: have that charity event coming up in a couple of

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Speaker 1: weeks and yes, myfh my future husband is going to

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Speaker 1: be there. Would you mind if I borrowed one of

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Speaker 1: your dresses for the night? You know how I love

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Speaker 1: the silk one. Do you think you could bring a

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Speaker 1: few in for me to try on? Hope you don't

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Speaker 1: mind me asking? Love? Anna? Now it's landed in our

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Speaker 1: court here because Georgie doesn't know how to reply, because

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Speaker 1: Georgie considers Anna to be a few sizes bigger and

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Speaker 1: doesn't want her to wear her dresses because she'll stretch them.

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Speaker 2: She won't stretch them. She'll just try them and realize

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Speaker 2: they don't fit, and then she will move on.

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Speaker 1: I know they won't fit her. Who said that, Georgie?

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Speaker 1: What do you do? What do you do in this situation?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is so simple. I can't believe the trickiest one.

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Speaker 2: This is so sh about you, mate.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what if someone came to me and said,

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Speaker 1: can I borrow your T shirt? And they were a

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Speaker 1: townhouse and it was my favorite T shirt.

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Speaker 2: And you'd say, oh, I think if I'd swim on you.

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Speaker 4: If it's like.

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Speaker 5: If you oh yeah, it's like, let's just say if

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Speaker 5: you wanted to borrow one of my shirts.

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Speaker 1: With a bit similar, if you had your favorite band

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Speaker 1: T shirt and I said, making I borrow that, you're

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Speaker 1: going to You're going to stretch it?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely no chance doesn't work like that.

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Speaker 2: It does, It doesn't. Okay, this is can I just

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Speaker 2: jump in here because I've had a thousand of messages,

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Speaker 2: thousands of these kind of messages.

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Speaker 1: From a bigger woman.

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Speaker 2: It just firstly, and it is not an idiot. She's

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Speaker 2: going to know what fits her. Her desire is to

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Speaker 2: look as fabulous, look as fabulous as she can. What

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Speaker 2: do you mean they don't know what they know what fits,

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Speaker 2: they know what they feel comfortable in. That's the most

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Speaker 2: important thing. So you just you just bring in I

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Speaker 2: can't the silk dress. You bring in a few options.

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Speaker 2: She tries it, and look if the dress somehow randomly

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Speaker 2: ends up damaged or it pulls apart at the scene

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Speaker 2: because silk, I know, it's very delicate, then there's a

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Speaker 2: discussion to be had about having avoid it, having it mended.

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Speaker 2: There's no need to avoid it. What do you avoid?

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Speaker 1: Okay? I love my silk dress, Kate Richie, Right, I

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Speaker 1: love my silk dress, and you're telling me I'm going

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Speaker 1: to offer it to somebody that it's not going to

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Speaker 1: it breaks at the seams.

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Speaker 2: I'm a people pleaser, aren't I. I'm okay. Maybe the

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Speaker 2: discussion is you know what I will bring in nothing.

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Speaker 1: I have fish it.

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Speaker 2: Dozen other dresses, but I really I can't bring the

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Speaker 2: silk dress because it is truly one of my favorite.

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Speaker 1: None of them fit her.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter what fits, mate, It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 5: Doesn't matter because you can you can get stretchy dresses,

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Speaker 5: can't you. Yes, you can, well, when I went into

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Speaker 5: Voodoo Child, you can get them easy.

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Speaker 2: What did you say?

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Speaker 4: Voodoo Child wasn't called voodoo what's that one where?

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Speaker 5: But see Georgie, why don't you just say that you've

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Speaker 5: got an event on that night?

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Speaker 4: Why can't you just say that Kate?

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Speaker 2: So that anyone that goes to an event, it's all

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Speaker 2: over the socials. So what does she have to do?

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Speaker 2: Like recreate the met girl after yes, like silk.

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Speaker 5: Rock up to your local function center and just get

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Speaker 5: a cut of shots out the front and just go, oh,

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Speaker 5: I've had such great times.

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Speaker 1: Wrong to say, sure, but are we the same size?

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Speaker 4: No? Oh, yes, it's wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yes, sorry, I'm so, I'm so confused. But I have

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Speaker 2: a girlfriend and Julie right, she's always at my house

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Speaker 2: borrowing things are.

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Speaker 1: A similar size, a huge weight difference here, but we

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Speaker 1: carry our weight differently, So there are certain things that

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Speaker 1: might fit in different ways for the two of us,

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Speaker 1: but generally we will fit the same.

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Speaker 2: We will fit the same frocks. But she will say

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Speaker 2: I'd love to borrow that, but I don't know, or no,

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Speaker 2: what do you She doesn't say because of the hips.

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Speaker 2: The hips don't lie.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, could.

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Speaker 1: You write, Hey, absolutely, could you confirm your size for me?

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Speaker 2: I hope, I hope you are trying to be a

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Speaker 2: pig on purpose.

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Speaker 1: Hi, what do you do in this situation? Would you

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Speaker 1: let a bigger friend borrow your dress?

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Speaker 6: I think if you're friends, then you should just be honest.

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Speaker 2: Can you say?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: What's the conversation?

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Speaker 7: Well, if you's are the same size, then yeah, sure.

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Speaker 8: If you're not, then probably wouldn't fit.

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Speaker 7: Or I think i'd just be honest before friends.

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Speaker 4: Tony is brutal.

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Speaker 2: That is brutal.

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Speaker 1: Think.

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Speaker 2: I think maybe say something like, hey, you know what?

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Speaker 2: I yeah, absolutely you can borrow that. I find it

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Speaker 2: a bit snug around here. I'm not sure how you

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Speaker 2: will find it. What about this? What about that?

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Speaker 9: Like?

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Speaker 2: That's but that's the fun of helping. Like, there is

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Speaker 2: nothing better. I'm telling you, I have a wardrobe full

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Speaker 2: of clothes. There is nothing better than making sure things

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Speaker 2: that you don't wear that often, that you love and

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Speaker 2: you know are fabulous, to see them on other people

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Speaker 2: and to have them enjoyed.

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Speaker 1: Well, I said, what about this?

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Speaker 4: I love it when you wear my pemation jacket. I

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Speaker 4: love that.

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Speaker 2: It's so great And even Julie my girlfriend's daughters are

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Speaker 1: I love I love it. My future husband's going to

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Speaker 1: be there, so he's obviously a guy that she's keen on.

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Speaker 1: Then maybe she reckon. Maybe she's a stabbing the dound.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you reply with, oh my god, he's going to

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Speaker 1: be there, let's go shopping together.

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Speaker 2: She's borrowing because not everyone can go out and buy

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Speaker 2: a frock for an event. And if she knows, there's

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Speaker 2: a whole wardrobe full of stuff that should be used.

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Speaker 2: I mean, especially in this day and age with what

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Speaker 5: Can we take Marissa, Marissa Impetersham your thoughts?

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Speaker 4: Marissa, are you gonna have you got a story on this?

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Speaker 9: Yes, I'm going to feel my friend, so we just

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Speaker 9: close up to say no, that's just gonna look terrible.

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Speaker 3: And you, especially if you're going to meet up your

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Speaker 9: Be future husband and want to look terrible.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I love you.

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Speaker 2: I do like that that attitude. I think it's because

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Speaker 2: I think I'm sitting here being highly offended when you

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Speaker 2: when you say yeah, when you say it, Marissa, it's fine,

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Speaker 2: when Whipper says it, it sounds different. Let's be honest,

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Speaker 2: it sounds terrible.

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Speaker 1: Sorry for the way I'm saying it, Marissa, I suppose

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Speaker 1: and Kate Richard any other girl offended by my accurate

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Speaker 1: don't call her a peches.

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Speaker 4: They would.

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Speaker 2: He's the pop.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we're going to win this situation. You're

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Speaker 1: just going to I thought we.

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Speaker 2: Were going to Darien.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, No, Darien's.

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Speaker 2: From Darien from Drumoyne.

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Speaker 4: No we're not baby Reindeer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. This is the with Kate Richie podcast. What did

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Speaker 1: you say on a c A last night man?

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Speaker 4: That would do you know what?

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Speaker 5: Because the stories have been quite seriously a lot of dodgies,

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Speaker 5: a lot of chunks that would do for a humorous

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Speaker 5: one at some stage, Kate.

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Speaker 2: And novelty story.

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Speaker 4: Do you know?

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Speaker 5: You know it is quite humorous when Langdon comes off

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Speaker 5: the back of the promo laughing, Okay, have a listen

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Speaker 5: to the court.

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Speaker 2: We his pants down.

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Speaker 1: It's a terf war.

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Speaker 2: He's got no shame. He's just a shameless peak.

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Speaker 4: A mystery dumper with a did he have it?

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Speaker 1: Your curve is my curve toilet? Yes?

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Speaker 2: The dak dropper who keeps calling it pats place.

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Speaker 3: He's come at least fifteen times.

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Speaker 4: Who is the Pooh.

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Speaker 1: Bandit literally sticks?

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Speaker 2: Who's that a first story tomorrow? That's our program?

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Speaker 1: I'm Ali Langdon thanks.

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Speaker 4: To be company.

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Speaker 1: The fact they put a fart sound effected.

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Speaker 2: I thought that was you just was that a little fart.

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Speaker 1: That was in the Prim's a little pop up in

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Speaker 1: the prime for Allie?

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Speaker 4: Who is our voiceover man? Tommy who does the will bill?

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Speaker 1: He's been in the studio.

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Speaker 5: Well Phil, Phil gives this, he gets the script, he

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Speaker 5: does the voice over and unfortunately had to create the

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Speaker 2: You did not.

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Speaker 1: Truly please move microphone below the waist?

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Speaker 2: Fifteen times? Who's the poop?

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Speaker 1: Who writes that?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 1: Is there's some one considered a journalists the Channel nine.

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Speaker 2: Let me please?

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Speaker 1: Let me, let me do the pooh one.

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Speaker 4: It's in the.

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Speaker 2: Sprinkling the band.

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Speaker 1: If you don't get a poo band and once every

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Speaker 5: I'm sick of welfare cheats Love Rats, we need Rob.

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Speaker 1: More Pooh bandits on the show stick around for that tonight.

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Speaker 7: They're fits in with a with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: We're on. It's time for sixty second starts Richie time

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Speaker 1: still standing Now visit Sydney's Ultimate Care Experience Dealer, Sydney City.

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Speaker 1: Keya over it in Street, Alexandria, She's a.

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Speaker 5: K sportage Essex Hybrid. It's ran you two twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 5: Cat from Orang Park. You're in the running, Cat, congrats sane.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're after your daughter's state champs this weekend? Is

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Speaker 8: Next week?

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Speaker 9: Yet?

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Speaker 1: What does she do?

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Speaker 8: He's a hockey player?

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Speaker 4: Tough cat?

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Speaker 2: She had any.

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Speaker 5: the inner sixty seconds? What are we up to? Hundred

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Speaker 1: Cat three?

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Speaker 5: What's hard? A taco or a tortilla taco taco. Yes,

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Speaker 5: Who plays Thomas Shelby in the TV show Peaky Blinders.

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Speaker 8: I don't know his name, but I know what he

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Speaker 4: Killian Murphy.

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Speaker 5: Over to Kate Kate Hacks is an original series from

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Speaker 5: West Stream.

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Speaker 5: What tree sits in the middle of iconic Sydney? The

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Speaker 4: The Oaks an oak tree?

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Speaker 5: Which name when prefixing twenty is a type of disinfectant spray?

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Speaker 4: Correct? Other than Cole's what's a store?

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Speaker 5: I can use fly by cards at IgA incorrect?

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Speaker 2: Over to Cat.

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Speaker 4: Name of Sydney suburbs starting with D.

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Speaker 1: Cat's got a one hundred dollars Cat? Thanks me, bye,

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Speaker 1: thank you, well done and you're in the running for

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Speaker 1: the car brand new key ready.

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Speaker 8: That's fantastic. Thank you.

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Speaker 7: This is the Fitsy and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: You know when they say don't bring your work home.

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Speaker 4: Get permission. I always get permission.

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Speaker 1: If you're not engaged, to play around a little bit

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Speaker 4: So did you tell you cheat?

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Speaker 5: What if you cheated with someone else while you're with Lisa,

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Speaker 5: are you talking about mine?

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Speaker 1: Bit little bit before a bit of nookie.

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Speaker 2: You guys became engaged. Would you be okay with it now?

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Speaker 1: It's got a message from a mate, Trent Peterson. He said,

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Speaker 1: It's got kids in Thailant, Kelly and Scofield. Tello, Hi Kell,

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Speaker 1: What happened to you?

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Speaker 8: We were engaged to be married after nine and a

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Speaker 2: He was with her the old fishing chest.

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Speaker 8: I landed on him the minute he walked in the door.

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Speaker 7: Look, it was actually after we were married, and I

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Speaker 7: I think she had been actually stalking me for a while,

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Speaker 7: I took everything on face you, I just and it

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Speaker 7: me grow up a lot. And it's taken We're still together,

450
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Speaker 7: so we're twenty five years on now, but it was

451
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 7: really deep, deep counseling that got us to a point

452
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Speaker 7: where I could act, and to this day I still

453
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 7: don't fully trust him. I love him, well, yeah, and

454
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 7: there was just there was just so much unfair that

455
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 7: we kept saying. And but you know, to his credit

456
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 7: and at the same time, I don't want to credit

457
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 7: anyone who who's threw it around on anyone, but to

458
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Speaker 7: his credit, he's really shown up to every counseling session

459
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Speaker 7: and they have not been easy. And to this day,

460
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Speaker 7: for a commitment that he made to me that we

461
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 7: would remain together. He must go to counseling every week,

462
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 7: and we must come together as a couple and work

463
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Speaker 7: and be in processed the whole time to the daily

464
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Speaker 7: part because I won't. I can't relaxt without knowing that

465
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Speaker 7: there's therapy and work going on there.

466
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Speaker 2: So please don't when you said something about stupid me

467
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Speaker 2: for trusting, I do think that it's not silly you,

468
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 2: because I think all of us will you know, we

469
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:33,040
Speaker 2: want to see the best in people, but we want

470
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Speaker 2: to believe in people. I mean, I'm sure there is

471
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,119
Speaker 2: a lot of gray area and you've both got your

472
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Speaker 2: own stories going on there.

473
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Speaker 7: Yeah, look, you know he made me fall in love

474
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Speaker 7: with me, and I think that was part of the

475
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Speaker 7: reflection that I had to really think about, and that

476
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Speaker 7: was all the parts of me that I had well

477
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 7: and truly abandoned. He made me love those parts of me.

478
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Speaker 7: So I had to look at why those mirrors were

479
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Speaker 7: important for me to run those tapes through him, other

480
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 7: than actually look at my own reality. And so it's

481
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 7: really made me actualize in a way that I never

482
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 7: had the opportunities before to do. But it hasn't come

483
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Speaker 7: without pain, and and yeah, there are gnawing moments where

484
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 7: I fall into that trap of questioning everything again and.

485
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Speaker 8: I but we have Yeah.

486
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Speaker 7: We have a dance that we have together now where

487
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Speaker 7: we know how to reassure each other about our accountability

488
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Speaker 7: and make it one hundred percent transparent.

489
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Speaker 8: You know.

490
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Speaker 1: And that's Do you mean an actual physical dance?

491
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Speaker 7: No, No, we just have this dance, emotional.

492
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Speaker 1: Dance that we do with each other.

493
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Speaker 7: Now, that's that's sort of a well worn path.

494
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Speaker 2: Everyone has a dance. You and Lisa have a dance,

495
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 2: BJ and Fitzie would have it the way, the dance

496
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Speaker 2: that goes on with how they communicate with each other.

497
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Speaker 1: So FAA is very very strong, very strong person to

498
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Speaker 1: be able to do that. I would have thought I

499
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 1: can't likes a huge strength.

500
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Speaker 5: I can't for them how you can stay, Sophia, But

501
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 5: I understand there are feelings there as well.

502
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 4: But yeah, it's it's you are a very strong woman.

503
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Speaker 4: Thanks for you.

504
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: Cool God, I thought you know that's a big topic.

505
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 1: I mean, Tommy hit me.

506
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 4: Obviously. You learned so much in relationships.

507
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: Do you remember when you flew that girl to New York? Yeah,

508
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 1: that's awesome, mate, you didn't have to do that that

509
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: was didn't have to you know what popped in They

510
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: opened up making stories up again.

511
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 2: It's what he does. He gets paid well.

512
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 5: He obviously had to get a few things off his

513
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 5: chest at the end of the show today, and I'm

514
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 5: glad you did.

515
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 4: Mate.

516
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:39,360
Speaker 5: Your counselor is obviously working over time.

517
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Speaker 1: Tommy on a blant mattress. If you're a bit bigger

518
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: than the other party, does the mattress kind of all

519
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: the egos into the I've never been on a blot mattress,

520
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: but he bought it. Not ano accommodation.

521
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 5: Mattress is discussed by the way, three members of the

522
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 5: HR department outside the studio.

523
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Speaker 4: What are they doing there?

524
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: Fit and with with Kate Wichie.

525
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 4: Podcast, Hey can we talk in RL? I want to

526
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 4: talk about the Dragons. Have we got the Dragons Club

527
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 4: song in there?

528
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: Jess?

529
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 4: Is it? It's around?

530
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 5: They're currently four and five, they're won four and five.

531
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Speaker 5: I think a few of the fans are a bit

532
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 5: upset with them at the moment.

533
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 4: But they've had a couple of good wins.

534
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 5: It's just a little one percent is that they're not

535
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 5: getting right at the Saint George Dragons at the moment winning.

536
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 2: Secondly, they do get flogged.

537
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: That's one missing mate. What's gone? Okay?

538
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 5: So Jack Bird played his one hundred and fiftieth NRL

539
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 5: game on the weekend.

540
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Speaker 4: He's been, he has been.

541
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Speaker 1: Well.

542
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 5: Jack Bird is an amazing player, played at a few

543
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,159
Speaker 5: different clubs, but one hundred and fifty games for players

544
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 5: are pretty big milestone.

545
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not related to Greg byrd is he don't know?

546
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: He was?

547
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 4: He was an enforcer for New South Wales. Greg Bird wasn't.

548
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:56,439
Speaker 1: He he was?

549
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 2: I think he played for the shar.

550
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 5: Love No, I don't think he is a relation. But anyway,

551
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 5: he played his one hundred and fiftieth game and I

552
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 5: like this. But the Dragons do this thing where they

553
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 5: get a personalized guernsey for a milestone game. So you

554
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 5: get written on there it says Jack Bird one hundred

555
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 5: and fiftieth game, Sharks versus Dragons sports Bet Stadium or

556
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 5: points Bett Stadium.

557
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 4: Get that right, They wouldn't be happy with that.

558
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 5: And then it's got the date on there, and you

559
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 5: know what, then he gets to keep that forever, Kate.

560
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 2: And it's lovely. He can hand it on to his

561
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 2: children or yes, mar.

562
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 5: Or like Nathan Buckley in the AFL After a while,

563
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 5: if you keep all that stuff, you then get to

564
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 5: sell it and you give half of it to your

565
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 5: ex wife in a divorce settlement.

566
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: And you've got all those options, which.

567
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 5: He's just done at the moment as well. I think

568
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,199
Speaker 5: Russell Crowe did that as well, didn't he?

569
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Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I guess that's what they deserve.

570
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, So anyway, these are just the little one percenters

571
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 5: that fans are going if the Dragons are going to

572
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 5: start winning. Why does Jack Bird on his personalized jersey

573
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 5: has Jack Bird one hundred and fifty NRL game Sharks

574
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,239
Speaker 5: versus Dargons.

575
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: Dargons.

576
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 2: Dragons need to be dragons Sharks versus Dargons.

577
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 4: They've spelt it dargons.

578
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: Sounds like some sort of Game of Thrones episode.

579
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 2: I mean, come on, boys, who's doing the shirts?

580
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 1: There was Dungeons and Dargons, and then there.

581
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 5: Was Farmanu Brown who played his first game.

582
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 4: For the cub.

583
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 5: Now, if you're a debut on for the club, but

584
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 5: you get a guernsey that you get a jersey that

585
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 5: you get to keep forever. Yeah, they've put the wrong

586
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 5: date of his debut game.

587
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 4: They've put the sixteenth of June. We're not even in

588
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 4: JUNI yet.

589
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 2: Is this all for the same game? Is the same

590
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 2: person that did the shirts?

591
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: I know what you're thinking, guys, I'm not working for them.

592
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: You're thinking it was not me?

593
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 4: And then you've got the classics?

594
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: Are you know?

595
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 4: The no regirts is always a big one. The tattoo

596
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 4: that people get.

597
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 5: Regrets can be a word that you can misspell.

598
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 4: It's on your.

599
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 5: Lower back, and you've got no regrets.

600
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: And Campbelltown, welcome to the show. What was spelled incorrectly? Mate?

601
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 3: Morning Bells?

602
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:13,479
Speaker 8: How are you all?

603
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 3: You two?

604
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: Kate? Thank you?

605
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 3: John Well. I was overseas and I've seen a sign

606
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 3: that said shoplisters will be prosecuted. Well it matt to

607
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 3: say that and actually spell shoplisters will be prostituted.

608
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: Also, many people trying to shop left there, John.

609
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 2: You aligned right after?

610
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 6: What? Okay?

611
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 9: So I had two favorites. One was a council sign

612
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 9: and instead of saying penalty exceeds, it said penalty exceed

613
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 9: They didn't put a D in it, they put an

614
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 9: extra E. And the other one, which was just the best.

615
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 9: Across the bottom of a printing shop about forty five

616
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 9: centimeters high. They were advertising that they provided Telstram boardband.

617
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: They dropped the r out of the broadband. Who's got that?

618
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: Give it back?

619
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 6: Now?

620
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 5: It is brilliant Down at our footy club. My best

621
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 5: mate Keeps is a sign writer and he misspelled Australia.

622
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 4: He left the r out of Australia.

623
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 5: So it's still down there, Kate, You don't think for

624
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 5: every time there's footy presentations, everyone's going, how good is

625
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 5: this country Austalia?

626
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 2: So I know, I do wonder though sometimes if some

627
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 2: of these businesses make the mistake on purpose, because then

628
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 2: it's you know, oh, you know about that printing shop

629
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 2: with it that's spelled incorrectly and it's the only printing

630
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 2: shop you ever think of.

631
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 1: That's what Starbucks does. They deliberately write your name ridiculously

632
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: on the side of the coffee cup so that you

633
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: take a photo and put it on Instagram and go,

634
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: look how that spelled my name? Starbucks Promotion Banks. It's

635
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: actually do it.

636
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 4: It's kind of nave in Carla, what spelling mistake did

637
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 4: you say?

638
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: Niv.

639
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 11: I've seen an article in the newspaper there a little

640
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 11: while ago, and I was gonna go kids getting mentoring

641
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 11: and all this sort of stuff. But they completely mucked

642
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 11: up the headline and it said kids experienced their force

643
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 11: hind job job, yeah boy, and actually said fourth hand job.

644
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: We got that.

645
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, something that needs to be rectified, rectified.

646
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: Very worthy and should never be forced.

647
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 4: Leaving Merrickville, what have you got for us?

648
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 2: Live?

649
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 10: There was a short pot and it's excited to say

650
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 10: that student can count two one hundred, but instead of

651
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 10: putting they actually missed the count.

652
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 5: I mean water for a school kid, that is, Jackpotter

653
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 5: did teach to writing that.

654
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 2: I mean, for goodness sake, you'd move schools, wouldn't you.

655
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: You'd have to. Tommy, Remember I organized a hot date.

656
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, Kate, if you're familiar with the story

657
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: with Yeah, organized a.

658
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 2: Hot day maybe just to date.

659
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: With Sophia Viagara, which was awesome. And to commemorate the

660
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: date that we went on, I gave her a plate

661
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: with a picture of the two of us and it

662
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 1: had the date. Thanks for organizing that, Tommy. He left

663
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: the r out of Thursday. Yes, fusta fusterday.

664
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Speaker 4: Yes, it wasn't the worst experience.

665
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 2: I wonder if she's still got it.

666
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: She would she'd have the fust day plate, Nikki's and Penrith.

667
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: What do you got next?

668
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Speaker 10: I was in the States a few years back and

669
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Speaker 10: I went to a book reading and book signing for

670
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Speaker 10: Dave Grohl's mother, Virginia, and we were actually university and

671
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 10: the sign said today's book reading Vagina grol Somebody had

672
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 10: either taken the A out or mixed R.

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Speaker 2: There are so many questions I want to ask about that. Firstly,

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Speaker 2: why is Dave Girl's mother writing a book? And secondly, children.

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Speaker 3: She's in the rock star's a.

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Speaker 2: Shame imagine imagined turning up and it wasn't girls. It

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Speaker 2: was actually a talking.

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Speaker 4: It could be a drag name, could be a drag name.

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Speaker 2: So confusing all of it.

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Speaker 4: Ryan and Miranda, what was the spelling mistake?

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Speaker 1: Ryan?

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Speaker 2: Morning?

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Speaker 6: Everyone? What a sty mistake? But my wife is dyslexi.

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Speaker 6: My nephew wants her to reading a science book and

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Speaker 6: she goes, I'm not going to read this book. It's

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Speaker 6: a bit inappropriate to look at it all about organisms.

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Speaker 6: She opens the first page. She goes, look at this,

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Speaker 6: there are five main different types of orgasms.

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Speaker 2: And do you want to run us through the five?

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Speaker 1: Right? Cake?

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Speaker 6: When I find them out.

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