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Speaker 1: Go experience the male loneliness epidemic you fucking loser exactly

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Speaker 1: go have a cry go be alone go get broken

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Speaker 1: up with every girl because you're just like i don't

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Speaker 1: i'm so lonely and women hate me and why do

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Speaker 1: take a look in the fucking mirror you loser when

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Speaker 1: you get isolated yeah making the decision to leave is

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Speaker 1: more scary because you have no one and he's isolated

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Speaker 1: you from everyone yes that's what he's doing oh my

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Speaker 1: god You need to get out of this.

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Speaker 2: You need to break up with him. Please, give us

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Speaker 2: an update.

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Speaker 1: You have to break up with him. Do you want

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Speaker 1: to tell your children when they ask you, how did

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Speaker 1: you and dad meet? Oh, well, this happened, this happened,

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Speaker 1: this happened. No, you're going to fucking lie. You don't

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Speaker 1: want to lie about how you got with your fucking

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Speaker 1: future husband.

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Speaker 2: Relatable podcast is hosted by myself, Jay Craig, a.k.a.

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Speaker 3: Daddy.

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Speaker 1: And my partner in crime is Daddy Clark, a.k.a.

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Speaker 2: Mummy.

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Speaker 1: And you guys are the baddies because you're bad to

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Speaker 1: the bone, both men and women alike.

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Speaker 2: Have you noticed?

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Speaker 1: Trying to be more inclusive of the men lately.

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Speaker 4: Oh, shit. Nah, fuck them.

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Speaker 2: Have you noticed that we just start saying that really

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Speaker 1: Well, it's because it's just fully... You don't think about

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Speaker 1: I wonder if any of the baddies, like, just... We

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Speaker 1: were told actually by... Who was it? Lucy and Nikki.

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Speaker 1: They have an intro they do and they don't, it's

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Speaker 1: not an intro that's like, they just filmed two years

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Speaker 1: ago and use every day. They use, they say it

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And they could do ours.

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Speaker 2: It was like, they had like a little spill. I

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Speaker 2: was just like, Jake, the related podcast is hosted by myself.

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Speaker 4: True.

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Speaker 1: Ours is probably easier.

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Speaker 1: But, Darcy's in the studio again. She's sleeping on my lap.

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Speaker 1: I have something embarrassing to, to admit to everyone.

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Speaker 2: So, I am here, right?

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm here and I am here from the Gold

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Speaker 2: It took you so long to stop saying that. Sorry,

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Speaker 2: I was looking at my phone. I am here. I

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Speaker 1: I'm staying in Sydney with best parents, but I'm... Anyway, we,

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Speaker 1: this week, were actually supposed to do a podcast swap

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Speaker 1: Right? And so, we were going to do it ages ago.

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Speaker 1: got Pat Clifton's, like, number. So, I've got his number, right?

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Speaker 2: At the end of September. And then he read it,

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Speaker 2: It says in our text, Jay.

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Speaker 1: And I was so annoyed because I was like, I

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Speaker 2: So I've just been humbled.

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Speaker 4: All right.

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Speaker 2: So to start the episode, Jake.

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Speaker 2: After that, a nice little white lie would have gone

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Speaker 1: Like, sorry, boys.

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Speaker 4: Busy. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I would have believed it. I would have said, mate, valid.

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Speaker 2: I'll hit you up next year. Jake's emotions saved.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Can't believe it. So, we thought we could come

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Speaker 1: Appropriate to tell a white lie? Oh, you want to

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Speaker 2: But he didn't they would 100% look us up before

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Speaker 2: you've been dating for too long I'm not dating this

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Speaker 2: It with him eh You're like stalking a mate.

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Speaker 2: Now they're playing hard to get.

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Speaker 4: That's what it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not. Hey, I'm all about not playing hard

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fucking oath I am.

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Speaker 2: Please, Pat, go on a date with me. Please, Pat,

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Speaker 2: I want to fucking hang out with you so bad.

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Speaker 2: We'd be best friends, I bet. Pete Clitty, I'm fucking D-Diddy.

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Speaker 2: many you got? Four. I got four or maybe five too.

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Speaker 2: One wasn't that good, but you want to go first

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Speaker 1: No, just one you said that wasn't that good.

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Speaker 2: Oh, one that wasn't that good was like, would you

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Speaker 2: still love me if I went bald? And you just... Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you got to say yeah. Your partner's got to say yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That was like... Just wasn't that good. I thought that

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Speaker 1: Well, the funny thing is... Yeah, it's an appropriate time

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Speaker 1: You know, they would.

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Speaker 2: That was obviously fucking building up. Okay, here's a moment

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Speaker 2: Keep it up pal. I suppose it's that confidence thing. Like,

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I like it.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So, um this is when you have to tell

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Speaker 1: So I said, look, I would have been honest. I

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't have said that. Nah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 2: There's no way.

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Speaker 2: No, you can't say it. Biggest fear?

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Speaker 2: Having an ugly baby?

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Speaker 1: My baby comes out fucking fugly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'm scared, eh?

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Speaker 1: I'm terrified of that.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about this, actually. I was a cute baby,

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Speaker 2: So I'm hoping that one- Ugly baby- good teenager you want.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no.

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Speaker 2: I reckon I still want, fuck the teenager. Everyone goes

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Speaker 2: love him as much. Bro, I'm telling you, if my.

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Speaker 1: Baby's ugly, I'm going to be very honest.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be like, you as a baby? I

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Speaker 1: saw photos of Joanna, my older sister, when she was

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Speaker 2: Average, normal weight.

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Speaker 1: I was actually born huge very fat baby i was

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Speaker 1: life it's the i actually need i'm gonna ask you

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Speaker 1: gonna think it's ai Dead fucking said you're going to

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Speaker 2: Is it like fat concerning or like when they go

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Speaker 2: like Michelin man? No, proper Michelin.

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Speaker 4: I love that part.

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Speaker 2: It's like- I love that.

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Speaker 1: Dude, no. I'm telling you right now, she looks like

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Speaker 1: she got stung by 50 bees.

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Speaker 2: It's insane. I love a Michelin man, baby.

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Speaker 4: Really? Yes.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how it happens. The cheeks are so chubby.

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Speaker 2: She actually may have- Like their wrists have like a

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Speaker 2: looks like they're wearing a string around their wrists. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love that. I love that shit. Let me see

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Speaker 4: Nah.

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Speaker 1: So fucking funny though, bro. Honestly, it's, yeah. Do you

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Speaker 1: want to see? Oh, here's me as a baby.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to see me?

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Speaker 4: Nah, bro.

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Speaker 1: Is this me?

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Speaker 2: I've seen, I just need to look at a picture

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Speaker 2: of myself and your dad said we're the same. Mate,

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Speaker 2: I was an ugly kid. Weird looking nose. Your nose

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Speaker 2: like went up until now it's out. Is that me?

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Speaker 2: I don't even know if that's me or not. That's

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Speaker 2: a very different nose, eh? Like your nose is skinny

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Speaker 2: and pointy. Bro, is that you? That nose is like up. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's me.

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Speaker 4: I can't tell.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's me. I don't know. We've told on the

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Speaker 2: pod before, there was a photo of me when Jake

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Speaker 2: and I used to live together on his fridge and

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Speaker 2: I was like four.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And Jake's dad came over. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So, when Joanna moved in with me, she's like, why

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Speaker 1: And I said, that's Oddie. She goes, no, it's not.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, his mom gave it to him

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Speaker 1: and that's Oddie. She goes, no, no, no. And then

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Speaker 2: I was like, you're kidding. You fucking dumbass. Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: For fuck's sakes, bro.

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Speaker 2: It shows how much parents fucking look at their kids. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: I don't even think it looks like me. It actually

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Speaker 2: looks like you. But you used to have blonde hair.

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Speaker 2: I had blonde hair when I was younger. Funny, which

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Speaker 2: I miss.

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Speaker 1: I actually, I was born with black hair and then

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Speaker 1: I went blonde.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you went opposite to me. That's great, right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: All right. Is it my turn or your turn? No,

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Speaker 2: you're going to nowhere.

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Speaker 1: Hey, listen here, cunt. I'm going to get a fucking...

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Speaker 1: I'm going to go to Joel Creasy's hair transplant, guy.

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Speaker 4: 20 grand?

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Speaker 2: Mate, I'm going to.

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Speaker 4: Hit him up.

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Speaker 2: Bro, Turkey's cool. Go there.

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Speaker 1: I'm not flying to Turkey for a hair transplant.

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Speaker 2: It's a good start.

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Speaker 1: The only time I would do a hair transplant in

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Speaker 1: Turkey is if I'm in Europe for a trip. Finish

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Speaker 1: that motherfucker off in Turkey and fly home from there. True,

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Speaker 1: but like- I'm not going to- What is it?

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Speaker 2: Fucking 20 hours?

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Speaker 1: 19.

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Speaker 2: Brand transplant? Yeah, 19.

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Speaker 4: What am I doing?

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Speaker 1: Saving 10 grand? That's a lot of money, but fuck.

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Speaker 2: 10 grand. It's all inclusive. It's like an experience.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to- It's like a spa day.

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Speaker 4: Brandy or what?

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Speaker 2: I'll go with you.

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Speaker 1: If we got a brandy, I'd do 100%.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It's free. Should we get a brandy or- Hair

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Speaker 2: transplant on my beard. Imagine if you could. Can you? Surely.

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Speaker 2: It looks sus, but I reckon.

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Speaker 4: I wish.

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Speaker 2: Imagine being one of those people who gets a hair

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Speaker 2: transplant and it doesn't work. Like it doesn't take. Oh,

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Speaker 2: biggest fear.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Biggest fear. You'd have to just live with it then.

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Speaker 1: Spoke to a barber recently and I was like saying, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I probably need a hair transplant. He goes, nah, fuck that.

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Speaker 2: Like everyone gets hair transplants.

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Speaker 1: It's like, it's too perfect. It's too this, like having

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Speaker 1: a bit of a widow's peak. It's like natural.

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Speaker 2: And he had a widow's peak and I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: A couple of bros just, you know, being like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: gaslighting ourselves. I'll tell you what you should do. I

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Speaker 2: would do this maybe. Cheaper option and I reckon it's cool.

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Speaker 2: Tattoo the hairline on and like a couple of tattoos

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Speaker 2: around the ear and chin. So like where your widow

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Speaker 2: peak is, you just get black tattoos.

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Speaker 1: But then I always have to shave my head.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I'm pretty much bald, but I have like, it

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Speaker 1: looks like I have a little bit of hair.

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Speaker 2: If you're losing the hair anyway, you have to shave it.

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Speaker 2: But that's a cooler option, I reckon.

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Speaker 1: I was going to go full Jude Law with this

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Speaker 1: shit if I never got a transplant though.

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Speaker 2: You like to look at Jude Law.

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Speaker 1: Well, bro, that motherfucker pulls it off. You've seen a

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Speaker 1: photo of him, right?

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Speaker 2: We saw him in LA. Yeah, bro. Wait, short. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Let's see.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jude Law's fucking hairlines are so shit.

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Speaker 2: You reckon he rocks that?

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Speaker 1: But this motherfucker, like, pulls it off. Look, he just

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Speaker 1: rocks it, bro.

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Speaker 2: Fair. I reckon he rocks it. Even from, like, a

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Speaker 2: young age, he had it. That's better.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You actually kind of look like Jude Law.

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Speaker 1: One time I used to work with someone.

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Speaker 2: This is before I knew who Jude Law was.

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Speaker 1: I used to work with someone at a bar, and

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Speaker 1: she goes, you look like Jude Law, eh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, is that a compliment? And she

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Speaker 1: was like, I don't know. Went and looked him up.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, fuck.

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Speaker 6: You.

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Speaker 1: To be fair, Hollywood heartthrob when he was young.

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Speaker 2: Oh, look at him when he's young, bro. Trying to

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Speaker 2: hide that shit. He was quite cute. Good looking bloke. Anywho,

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Speaker 2: my turn. Little white lies.

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Speaker 1: Times that little white lies are appropriate. Sometimes I tell

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Speaker 1: actually just run upstairs and do a quick poo.

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00:16:21,950 --> 00:16:22,710
Speaker 2: Oh, do you actually?

452
00:16:22,990 --> 00:16:24,370
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she gets mad at me when I have

453
00:16:24,410 --> 00:16:24,650
Speaker 1: to poo.

454
00:16:25,330 --> 00:16:25,590
Speaker 3: What?

455
00:16:25,830 --> 00:16:27,620
Speaker 1: If we have to leave, she goes, and I'm like, oh, quick,

456
00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:28,940
Speaker 1: I need to poo. She goes, Jake, you've had all

457
00:16:28,980 --> 00:16:29,700
Speaker 1: this fucking time.

458
00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:30,680
Speaker 3: Oh, I get it.

459
00:16:30,700 --> 00:16:32,860
Speaker 2: So I'm kind of like valid. I get what you mean.

460
00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:34,220
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like valid, but so I'll be like,

461
00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,150
Speaker 1: oh shit, I forgot something.

462
00:16:36,470 --> 00:16:38,330
Speaker 2: But you poop like for a long time or do

463
00:16:38,350 --> 00:16:39,130
Speaker 2: you squeeze it out?

464
00:16:39,310 --> 00:16:41,890
Speaker 1: Oh, I'll rush this one out. Mate, I'll be pushing

465
00:16:41,910 --> 00:16:43,050
Speaker 1: so hard and my hernia's coming.

466
00:16:43,670 --> 00:16:45,710
Speaker 2: I thought you meant like you're in your house and

467
00:16:45,750 --> 00:16:47,550
Speaker 2: then you go to your parents' house because like, oh,

468
00:16:47,570 --> 00:16:50,930
Speaker 2: I forgot something out there. You go take a shit.

469
00:16:50,990 --> 00:16:54,370
Speaker 2: Because she doesn't like the smell. No, she's in the car.

470
00:16:54,390 --> 00:16:54,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I get you now.

471
00:16:54,990 --> 00:16:56,190
Speaker 1: And I go, oh, shit, picky.

472
00:16:56,390 --> 00:17:01,630
Speaker 2: I forgot something. Run upstairs, take a shit. And then

473
00:17:01,650 --> 00:17:02,050
Speaker 2: she'll text me.

474
00:17:03,620 --> 00:17:03,800
Speaker 4: Mr.

475
00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,419
Speaker 2: Piggy, hurry up. Are you pooping?

476
00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:06,060
Speaker 1: And then I was like, yeah.

477
00:17:07,820 --> 00:17:09,460
Speaker 2: You should take a photo of him and be like, no.

478
00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:15,390
Speaker 2: You tell me. You tell me. This one's for all

479
00:17:15,410 --> 00:17:18,850
Speaker 2: the ladies out there. Your partner's just started going to

480
00:17:18,890 --> 00:17:20,369
Speaker 2: the gym or has been going for a while or

481
00:17:20,690 --> 00:17:22,920
Speaker 2: any period of time, to be honest. And he's like

482
00:17:23,100 --> 00:17:24,240
Speaker 2: looking in the mirror at himself and he goes.

483
00:17:24,820 --> 00:17:25,639
Speaker 4: Do you reckon I've got bigger?

484
00:17:26,460 --> 00:17:28,300
Speaker 2: Have to lie. Really? I reckon have to lie.

485
00:17:28,380 --> 00:17:28,700
Speaker 4: I agree.

486
00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. Guess him up. Feel that ego a little bit.

487
00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:32,340
Speaker 2: I feel like actually.

488
00:17:33,510 --> 00:17:36,730
Speaker 1: But if you tell the truth, is he going to

489
00:17:36,770 --> 00:17:38,030
Speaker 1: be more motivated to get big?

490
00:17:39,109 --> 00:17:41,510
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like, oh, it's working. I'll keep going.

491
00:17:41,820 --> 00:17:43,940
Speaker 1: Also, maybe if you lie, he thinks it's working, so

492
00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:44,580
Speaker 1: I'll keep going.

493
00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. But true, then you might be feeding his poor

494
00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:50,980
Speaker 2: workout routine. The deluge. Maybe.

495
00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:53,470
Speaker 1: No, look, I save his feelings a bit.

496
00:17:53,830 --> 00:17:56,310
Speaker 2: I ask Cassie a fair bit to feel my arms.

497
00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:57,300
Speaker 2: Because I like it.

498
00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:57,780
Speaker 4: Yeah.

499
00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,520
Speaker 2: Because it's so hard. I was like, damn, that was good.

500
00:18:00,540 --> 00:18:04,489
Speaker 2: That was fucking good, eh? Shut up, eh? What? It

501
00:18:04,550 --> 00:18:06,230
Speaker 2: made me feel good. Shut the fuck up. Do you

502
00:18:06,250 --> 00:18:07,850
Speaker 2: want to feel them?

503
00:18:08,190 --> 00:18:08,370
Speaker 3: Nope.

504
00:18:08,550 --> 00:18:10,330
Speaker 2: Feel if they're hard. Actually, tell me if she's telling

505
00:18:10,350 --> 00:18:13,190
Speaker 2: the truth. No white lies or lying. You have to

506
00:18:13,210 --> 00:18:19,179
Speaker 2: tell the truth. That's pretty soft, mate. See, that was

507
00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:23,660
Speaker 2: an appropriate white lie to keep you humble. Sometimes. Sometimes.

508
00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:26,000
Speaker 1: If Beth stinks like BO, I don't tell her.

509
00:18:31,010 --> 00:18:35,130
Speaker 2: She works outside and walks dogs and shit. Sometimes I'm like,

510
00:18:36,109 --> 00:18:39,570
Speaker 2: was it you or? No, it was you. You like

511
00:18:39,609 --> 00:18:41,450
Speaker 2: had the biggest, like you didn't mean it. You're like,

512
00:18:41,890 --> 00:18:44,750
Speaker 2: you said something once like, oh yeah, Odi's more smelly

513
00:18:44,770 --> 00:18:47,000
Speaker 2: than me or something. You are.

514
00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:48,020
Speaker 1: You're smellier than me.

515
00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:50,990
Speaker 2: I can say it to you. You said it in

516
00:18:51,030 --> 00:18:52,909
Speaker 2: like a weird... I can't remember what the context was.

517
00:18:52,930 --> 00:18:54,270
Speaker 2: You go, oh yeah, he's just smellier than me. I

518
00:18:54,290 --> 00:18:59,190
Speaker 2: was like, what? You are.

519
00:18:59,250 --> 00:18:59,630
Speaker 4: Whatever.

520
00:19:00,730 --> 00:19:04,970
Speaker 2: That one's funny. When someone gets a new tattoo... And

521
00:19:04,990 --> 00:19:05,800
Speaker 2: it's on their body for life.

522
00:19:05,820 --> 00:19:06,899
Speaker 1: Or you have to say it's good.

523
00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:09,250
Speaker 2: Yeah, fuck, that is sick. Yeah, nice one.

524
00:19:09,260 --> 00:19:09,700
Speaker 1: They spent $ 1, 200.

525
00:19:09,580 --> 00:19:12,820
Speaker 2: They were there all day. That's fucking hectic. Bro, I

526
00:19:12,859 --> 00:19:16,340
Speaker 2: love that sleeve. Hectic, bro. That wolf and clock go

527
00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:17,460
Speaker 2: together like bread and butter.

528
00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:20,889
Speaker 1: Fucking, you know, parents or family members, they'll ask me

529
00:19:20,910 --> 00:19:21,850
Speaker 1: about tattoos, you know.

530
00:19:21,869 --> 00:19:23,350
Speaker 2: Boom, boom, what does it mean?

531
00:19:23,390 --> 00:19:26,010
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, nothing, nothing. And they're kind of like, nice, nice.

532
00:19:26,510 --> 00:19:28,860
Speaker 1: And I know for a fact that that's just like

533
00:19:28,890 --> 00:19:30,340
Speaker 1: a translation for that sucks.

534
00:19:30,890 --> 00:19:31,210
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah.

535
00:19:31,230 --> 00:19:33,389
Speaker 2: What the fuck are you doing? I hate the one

536
00:19:33,410 --> 00:19:35,359
Speaker 2: where they're like, oh, what does it mean? Because a

537
00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:37,439
Speaker 2: lot of mine do have meanings, but I'm just like, oh,

538
00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:38,260
Speaker 2: it's like the way it looks.

539
00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:41,940
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes explaining the meaning is like, you don't.

540
00:19:41,700 --> 00:19:42,800
Speaker 2: Feel like doing it. Maybe we should come up with

541
00:19:42,820 --> 00:19:46,150
Speaker 2: something crazy. Like I don't know.

542
00:19:46,190 --> 00:19:50,490
Speaker 1: Or anytime someone asks, could be an auntie, could be,

543
00:19:51,030 --> 00:19:53,580
Speaker 1: I don't know, could be a fucking someone, could be

544
00:19:53,619 --> 00:19:57,340
Speaker 1: our manager, just anyone, girlfriends, parents. Someone goes, oh, is

545
00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 1: that a new tattoo? I haven't seen that tattoo. What's

546
00:19:59,560 --> 00:19:59,959
Speaker 1: that one for?

547
00:19:59,980 --> 00:20:05,080
Speaker 2: She'll be like, it's for you. That's actually not bad.

548
00:20:05,140 --> 00:20:06,720
Speaker 2: It's for you. It's for you.

549
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,200
Speaker 1: And you know, never told you, I got one more

550
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,000
Speaker 1: and that is appropriate times to tell a white lie

551
00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,740
Speaker 1: if someone gets a bad haircut yes you have to

552
00:20:16,820 --> 00:20:18,300
Speaker 1: have to have to.

553
00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,210
Speaker 2: Say no no it looks good yeah both genders too

554
00:20:21,270 --> 00:20:24,190
Speaker 2: yeah yeah yeah no no it looks good looks good 100% a.

555
00:20:24,330 --> 00:20:26,530
Speaker 1: Race actually a couple months ago beth goes and gets

556
00:20:26,550 --> 00:20:28,430
Speaker 1: her hair done right it's like one of those times

557
00:20:28,450 --> 00:20:29,889
Speaker 1: where it's 600 bucks.

558
00:20:29,850 --> 00:20:31,750
Speaker 2: One of those times every time for a girl it's so.

559
00:20:31,650 --> 00:20:34,879
Speaker 1: True um she gets a trim and you know the

560
00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:36,879
Speaker 1: coloring the toning whatever it is that takes all that

561
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:41,770
Speaker 1: time she comes home She realizes, I shit you not,

562
00:20:41,950 --> 00:20:43,810
Speaker 1: there's a part of her hair. So her hair's down

563
00:20:43,850 --> 00:20:46,670
Speaker 1: past her shoulders. There's a part of her hair where

564
00:20:46,710 --> 00:20:49,150
Speaker 1: whoever was cutting her hair accidentally chopped it up like

565
00:20:50,010 --> 00:20:52,530
Speaker 1: real high. And so she must've tried to blend it

566
00:20:52,550 --> 00:20:54,070
Speaker 1: a bit, but Beth noticed it. One of her friends

567
00:20:54,109 --> 00:20:57,250
Speaker 1: maybe noticed it in the mirror. And so then when you,

568
00:20:58,090 --> 00:21:00,530
Speaker 1: there was a specific way she styled it and you

569
00:21:00,570 --> 00:21:02,030
Speaker 1: could see that it was short. And I was like,

570
00:21:02,070 --> 00:21:05,379
Speaker 1: what the fuck? And so she messaged him and I

571
00:21:05,410 --> 00:21:07,100
Speaker 1: don't know what ended up happening. I think she might've

572
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,439
Speaker 1: got a bit of money back. I'm not entirely sure.

573
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:12,149
Speaker 1: But next time, she just went and got her hair

574
00:21:12,170 --> 00:21:13,570
Speaker 1: done recently and she had to get it coloured in

575
00:21:13,609 --> 00:21:16,590
Speaker 1: a way where it's not noticeable. To be fair, to

576
00:21:16,630 --> 00:21:19,310
Speaker 1: be fair, I hadn't, ever since she pointed it out,

577
00:21:19,530 --> 00:21:21,730
Speaker 1: it's not something I had noticed. So it's like, it

578
00:21:21,750 --> 00:21:23,600
Speaker 1: was okay, but also how fucked is that from a

579
00:21:23,619 --> 00:21:24,820
Speaker 1: hairdresser charging like 600 bucks?

580
00:21:24,859 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 2: It must happen all the time though. That's crazy. I've

581
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,699
Speaker 2: seen TikToks before, especially the colour, that's like being a scientist.

582
00:21:32,220 --> 00:21:32,460
Speaker 1: Yeah.

583
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,820
Speaker 2: And sometimes it just doesn't work and then they're leaving

584
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,179
Speaker 2: here with pictures and they want to be blonde and

585
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,979
Speaker 2: it's like fucking not that. That's awesome. I got my

586
00:21:40,020 --> 00:21:41,470
Speaker 2: hair cut. I'm not a fan of this.

587
00:21:41,420 --> 00:21:41,719
Speaker 4: One, eh?

588
00:21:42,090 --> 00:21:46,030
Speaker 2: When did you get it done? Like on Saturday. Didn't

589
00:21:46,050 --> 00:21:48,929
Speaker 2: even say anything, you dog. Didn't even notice, mate. I

590
00:21:48,950 --> 00:21:50,770
Speaker 2: don't like it. It's too long on the top. How

591
00:21:50,830 --> 00:21:52,620
Speaker 2: it flips over. Need to taper it in. I don't

592
00:21:52,650 --> 00:21:54,260
Speaker 2: like it. I'll get another one. I like the back.

593
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 2: I reckon the back looks good.

594
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 1: Wait, if you cut your hair, bud, isn't that going

595
00:21:57,340 --> 00:21:58,220
Speaker 1: to make your perm go away?

596
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,220
Speaker 4: No. No.

597
00:22:00,900 --> 00:22:03,310
Speaker 1: You're cutting what's permed off. Yeah, but like- The hair

598
00:22:03,350 --> 00:22:04,669
Speaker 1: coming through from the bottom- I've got to cut my hair, Bart.

599
00:22:04,810 --> 00:22:06,490
Speaker 1: But the hair coming through from the bottom is going

600
00:22:06,510 --> 00:22:08,450
Speaker 1: to be just your back to your natural straight hair.

601
00:22:08,470 --> 00:22:10,580
Speaker 2: It's still curly in that. You should have grown it

602
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,220
Speaker 2: out of it with the perm and kept permanent, bro.

603
00:22:12,420 --> 00:22:13,879
Speaker 2: I'm going to perm it in Bali when it's cheaper.

604
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:15,699
Speaker 1: Oh, you're going to get a perm there?

605
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know if I will. I'm a perm boy.

606
00:22:17,540 --> 00:22:19,770
Speaker 2: That's me. I'm a perm boy.

607
00:22:26,090 --> 00:22:28,129
Speaker 1: Baddies. You know what time it is. We've been doing

608
00:22:28,150 --> 00:22:29,550
Speaker 1: this for a couple of weeks now, and that is

609
00:22:29,609 --> 00:22:32,530
Speaker 1: our segment that we brought in where we talk about

610
00:22:32,950 --> 00:22:35,570
Speaker 1: nostalgic things while eating a nostalgic food.

611
00:22:36,130 --> 00:22:39,629
Speaker 2: And that food being Krispy Kreme donuts. Of course.

612
00:22:39,990 --> 00:22:42,930
Speaker 1: There's nothing better and nothing more nostalgic than walking into

613
00:22:42,950 --> 00:22:48,660
Speaker 1: a Krispy Kreme, smelling the freshly baked fucking delicious glazed donuts,

614
00:22:49,619 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 1: or whatever your favorite is.

615
00:22:50,700 --> 00:22:52,440
Speaker 2: Take a pick. I'm going to go for a little

616
00:22:52,460 --> 00:22:55,540
Speaker 2: chalky one. I'm going to go original glazed, I think.

617
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:57,700
Speaker 4: You can't beat it, honestly.

618
00:22:57,730 --> 00:23:01,130
Speaker 1: I agree. Can't beat it. But what are we talking

619
00:23:01,150 --> 00:23:01,650
Speaker 1: about today, Odi?

620
00:23:02,330 --> 00:23:06,310
Speaker 2: Today, we're going to talk about road trips. Do you

621
00:23:06,369 --> 00:23:09,649
Speaker 2: have any sort of nostalgic road trips when you were

622
00:23:09,690 --> 00:23:12,010
Speaker 2: younger that you did maybe when you first got your

623
00:23:12,030 --> 00:23:14,050
Speaker 2: P's or when you were with your family when you

624
00:23:14,070 --> 00:23:14,710
Speaker 2: were younger?

625
00:23:14,730 --> 00:23:17,170
Speaker 1: I actually think, okay, I have one with my family,

626
00:23:17,190 --> 00:23:18,620
Speaker 1: but I think I might talk about one from when

627
00:23:18,650 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: we were maybe like 18.

628
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:22,899
Speaker 4: And I.

629
00:23:24,420 --> 00:23:28,360
Speaker 1: Want to say, From about 18, when our friend group

630
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:30,830
Speaker 1: really sort of like, maybe, yeah, 18, when our friend

631
00:23:30,850 --> 00:23:33,850
Speaker 1: group sort of formed and then for like a good

632
00:23:35,070 --> 00:23:38,370
Speaker 1: two or three years, I remember we would all randomly

633
00:23:38,390 --> 00:23:40,850
Speaker 1: be like, let's go to Crescent Head this weekend. Four

634
00:23:40,890 --> 00:23:41,820
Speaker 1: hour drive from us, right?

635
00:23:41,970 --> 00:23:42,130
Speaker 4: Yeah.

636
00:23:43,220 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 1: Or we would go to Crescent Head, maybe somewhere in

637
00:23:44,980 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 1: between Crescent Head. Sometimes if it was a shorter trip,

638
00:23:46,740 --> 00:23:48,540
Speaker 1: it would be like a little spontaneous Seal Rocks trip.

639
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,220
Speaker 1: You know, shout out Seal Rocks, shout out Crescent Head.

640
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:51,020
Speaker 2: Those places are awesome.

641
00:23:51,100 --> 00:23:54,610
Speaker 1: But no matter what, I remember we would always either

642
00:23:54,630 --> 00:23:56,590
Speaker 1: drive in two cars or one car, depending on how

643
00:23:56,609 --> 00:23:59,310
Speaker 1: many people were going. And we would always stop at

644
00:23:59,350 --> 00:23:59,949
Speaker 1: Buller Dealer.

645
00:24:00,109 --> 00:24:00,369
Speaker 4: Yes.

646
00:24:00,950 --> 00:24:03,310
Speaker 1: And we would go there. And at Buller Dealer, small

647
00:24:03,350 --> 00:24:06,300
Speaker 1: little town, right? It's just off the freeway, small little town.

648
00:24:06,890 --> 00:24:08,930
Speaker 1: And there is a pub.

649
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,780
Speaker 2: This pub, bro. This was our fucking place.

650
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:14,300
Speaker 4: It was.

651
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,780
Speaker 1: You go, sit in the back. We would always go

652
00:24:16,820 --> 00:24:20,460
Speaker 1: around lunchtime. And then it's just rolling hills. I remember

653
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,570
Speaker 1: everyone was just like, first time we went there, We're like,

654
00:24:22,590 --> 00:24:25,010
Speaker 1: let's just stop here. We'll get a feed. Lunchtime before

655
00:24:25,030 --> 00:24:25,690
Speaker 1: we get to Crescent Head.

656
00:24:25,710 --> 00:24:26,210
Speaker 4: Blah, blah, blah.

657
00:24:26,690 --> 00:24:29,109
Speaker 1: And then we're like, what the hell? This place is magnificent.

658
00:24:29,710 --> 00:24:31,030
Speaker 1: I don't know why we never ended up just like

659
00:24:31,050 --> 00:24:32,010
Speaker 1: camping there for a few days.

660
00:24:32,030 --> 00:24:34,950
Speaker 2: There's literally... We wanted beach, that's why. Yeah, but there's

661
00:24:34,990 --> 00:24:36,110
Speaker 2: a campsite on the back of the pub.

662
00:24:36,750 --> 00:24:37,020
Speaker 4: Literally.

663
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,100
Speaker 2: And everyone goes there and stops there. It's so convenient.

664
00:24:39,300 --> 00:24:40,740
Speaker 2: And land's really cheap there. How come we should buy

665
00:24:40,780 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 2: there just for fun? I've thought about that. You can

666
00:24:42,900 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 2: get like fucking 40 acres for like $ 250, 000.

667
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:44,649
Speaker 4: Why not?

668
00:24:44,660 --> 00:24:48,820
Speaker 1: Yeah. Why not?

669
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:49,500
Speaker 2: I suppose it's inland.

670
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: If you build a little house on it, does it

671
00:24:50,740 --> 00:24:51,830
Speaker 1: just go off in price heaps or no?

672
00:24:52,090 --> 00:24:54,190
Speaker 2: Nah, I don't know. It probably will. I mean, like,

673
00:24:54,210 --> 00:24:57,510
Speaker 2: there's nothing to do with this. The Hexen Bypass, mate,

674
00:24:57,630 --> 00:25:01,290
Speaker 2: probably increases the value of that place. You could live

675
00:25:01,310 --> 00:25:04,660
Speaker 2: in Buller Dealer working in Newey. Yeah, 100%. Hey. Probably

676
00:25:04,660 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 2: 45 minutes.

677
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:05,880
Speaker 1: Shout out Buller Dealer.

678
00:25:05,940 --> 00:25:06,140
Speaker 4: Yeah.

679
00:25:08,230 --> 00:25:08,990
Speaker 2: You know what they need there?

680
00:25:09,109 --> 00:25:10,070
Speaker 1: What? A Krispy Kreme shop.

681
00:25:10,130 --> 00:25:10,929
Speaker 2: They do.

682
00:25:11,150 --> 00:25:11,710
Speaker 4: That'd do well.

683
00:25:11,790 --> 00:25:13,630
Speaker 2: A lot of people stop in Buller Dealer. They do

684
00:25:13,690 --> 00:25:15,930
Speaker 2: need a Krispy Kreme. That would have added two. Imagine

685
00:25:15,950 --> 00:25:17,340
Speaker 2: if a Krispy Kreme shop was there. Imagine that.

686
00:25:17,950 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: Krispy Kreme, what are you doing?

687
00:25:19,300 --> 00:25:19,659
Speaker 2: We love you.

688
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: Get a Krispy Kreme shop in Buller Dealer.

689
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:23,199
Speaker 2: Have you got one?

690
00:25:24,260 --> 00:25:24,379
Speaker 3: I do.

691
00:25:24,380 --> 00:25:25,939
Speaker 2: Well, I know that one would be nostalgic for you.

692
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 2: That was nostalgic for me.

693
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,660
Speaker 1: Because I will stop at Buller Dealer with Beth now.

694
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 1: It's our spot we stop at.

695
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 2: Me and Cassie do as well.

696
00:25:30,380 --> 00:25:30,780
Speaker 1: How good is that?

697
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,179
Speaker 2: It's so good. Hopefully we get to do that with

698
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 2: our kids. And by then there'll be a Krispy Kreme there.

699
00:25:38,670 --> 00:25:43,270
Speaker 2: Nostalgic road trips for me would have to be age

700
00:25:43,330 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 2: period between, my memory forms are like eight or nine.

701
00:25:47,300 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 2: I'm going to say eight or nine through about 15.

702
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,100
Speaker 2: My dad owned a farm in a place called Eureka,

703
00:25:52,180 --> 00:25:53,649
Speaker 2: which was- Eureka! 45 minutes from Byron Bay.

704
00:25:53,660 --> 00:25:53,730
Speaker 1: Hmm.

705
00:25:58,010 --> 00:25:59,950
Speaker 2: And we would drive there from the Central Coast, which

706
00:25:59,990 --> 00:26:02,310
Speaker 2: back then felt like 10 hours. It was probably eight.

707
00:26:02,410 --> 00:26:06,310
Speaker 2: Probably was 10 hours. Stopped halfway because dad didn't want

708
00:26:06,330 --> 00:26:08,710
Speaker 2: to drive the whole thing. Me and my brother, I

709
00:26:08,710 --> 00:26:11,580
Speaker 2: have a core memory of my brother's friend. And my

710
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 2: brother is three years older than me and so is

711
00:26:14,180 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 2: a friend. So I was like, oh, I'm hanging out

712
00:26:15,420 --> 00:26:16,820
Speaker 2: with these guys for like two weeks. And they like

713
00:26:16,940 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 2: have to include you.

714
00:26:17,619 --> 00:26:17,939
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

715
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,900
Speaker 2: They have to include you. We're going surfing. We're going

716
00:26:19,980 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 2: to like skate park.

717
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 1: Was the best part of that going back from like

718
00:26:23,380 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: school holidays when you've gone out there and saying to

719
00:26:24,980 --> 00:26:26,420
Speaker 1: your friends, yeah, let's go out to my dad's farm.

720
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:26,980
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

721
00:26:28,540 --> 00:26:30,379
Speaker 2: I remember being sick and like dad would pack the

722
00:26:30,420 --> 00:26:34,699
Speaker 2: trailer so we'd have a ute trailer surfboards skateboards and

723
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 2: we just drive up there and like not have a

724
00:26:36,380 --> 00:26:38,490
Speaker 2: worry in the world and like the farm was dingy

725
00:26:38,510 --> 00:26:39,850
Speaker 2: didn't really have a house had a shed on it

726
00:26:39,869 --> 00:26:42,310
Speaker 2: with like a drop toilet but it was just fun

727
00:26:42,350 --> 00:26:44,930
Speaker 2: and i loved it and i the core memory of

728
00:26:44,970 --> 00:26:47,770
Speaker 2: that trip was there it's still there we went to

729
00:26:47,830 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 2: it in the closest town can't remember what it is

730
00:26:51,260 --> 00:26:53,470
Speaker 2: there's a magic shop Oh, yeah, I remember going to here.

731
00:26:53,590 --> 00:26:54,890
Speaker 2: It's called Abracadabra.

732
00:26:54,930 --> 00:26:55,590
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

733
00:26:55,650 --> 00:26:57,390
Speaker 2: I remember going there. That was cool. And we went there.

734
00:26:57,430 --> 00:26:59,210
Speaker 2: It wasn't as cool when we were adults, but as

735
00:26:59,250 --> 00:27:01,729
Speaker 2: a kid, man. I would have been nostalgic about it.

736
00:27:01,950 --> 00:27:05,270
Speaker 2: That place was going into Harry Potter. Oh, yeah, yeah, literally.

737
00:27:05,290 --> 00:27:08,570
Speaker 2: What's the wand shop in Harry Potter? Yes, yeah. What's

738
00:27:08,590 --> 00:27:08,930
Speaker 2: that called?

739
00:27:09,390 --> 00:27:11,270
Speaker 1: I forget, but that was what.

740
00:27:11,010 --> 00:27:13,230
Speaker 2: It was like. It felt like that, and it's still there.

741
00:27:13,260 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 2: I don't know how it makes money. Whenever I think

742
00:27:16,020 --> 00:27:18,340
Speaker 2: about nostalgia and trips like that, I think of that

743
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,199
Speaker 2: Abracadabra place. Amazing.

744
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:20,860
Speaker 4: How cool.

745
00:27:21,109 --> 00:27:23,050
Speaker 2: So, guys, look, couldn't recommend it more.

746
00:27:23,109 --> 00:27:25,390
Speaker 1: Sit down with your friends, talk about nostalgic road trips,

747
00:27:25,450 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: nostalgic things you used to do as kids, maybe nostalgic

748
00:27:28,020 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: things you did only a few years ago that bring

749
00:27:29,619 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: back good memories. Do it with some Krispy Kremes in

750
00:27:31,619 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 1: hand and enjoy.

751
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,859
Speaker 2: If you could be bothered, go buy some Krispy Kremes

752
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,530
Speaker 2: from your local shop, head to Buller Dealer, and then

753
00:27:38,570 --> 00:27:39,710
Speaker 2: experience like we've experienced.

754
00:27:39,730 --> 00:27:39,990
Speaker 3: Yes.

755
00:27:40,270 --> 00:27:40,710
Speaker 4: Oh, my God.

756
00:27:40,730 --> 00:27:42,790
Speaker 2: We'll let it go.

757
00:27:46,810 --> 00:27:50,350
Speaker 1: Baddies, time for dilemmas. If you want to get a

758
00:27:50,350 --> 00:27:54,340
Speaker 1: dilemma read, submit it via the link in the description.

759
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:55,980
Speaker 1: They're all anonymous.

760
00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:57,899
Speaker 2: Before we get to them, Jake, have you had any

761
00:27:57,940 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 2: dilemmas recently?

762
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: No.

763
00:28:00,980 --> 00:28:01,140
Speaker 4: What?

764
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: Put a little bit of chocolate on my white pants.

765
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:05,419
Speaker 2: That's a dilemma. I hate that.

766
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 1: One dilemma I'm experiencing at the moment is if I

767
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,460
Speaker 1: went and sat on the toilet, I could shit, but

768
00:28:10,500 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to just break up our.

769
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 2: Little rhythm here. I think I'm just going to hold it. Okay, go.

770
00:28:15,410 --> 00:28:17,450
Speaker 2: Darcy farted earlier too and I didn't want to say anything.

771
00:28:18,010 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 2: Kind of ruined my donut eating experience. You don't want

772
00:28:21,859 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 2: to get anything from upstairs quickly?

773
00:28:23,060 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 4: Look at her.

774
00:28:23,380 --> 00:28:26,060
Speaker 1: Her nose is in her butt and it stinks, bro.

775
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 2: How did she sit like that? Probably why she likes

776
00:28:28,700 --> 00:28:35,959
Speaker 2: me so much. Do you have any dilemmas? No, not really.

777
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 2: To be fair, life's been good. Oh, my tummy. But

778
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: that's a dilemma we always talk about on Patreon for

779
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 2: $ 8. 99 a month. If you want exclusive dilemmas, to hear

780
00:28:45,100 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 2: about Jake and myself's tummy issues, as well as you

781
00:28:48,860 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 2: get the book club five days early and the community

782
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,940
Speaker 2: over there is absolutely insane. We've been doing a little

783
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 2: bit more chitty-chatty in the high group chat. So if

784
00:28:55,940 --> 00:28:57,740
Speaker 2: you join the Patreon, you get access to this group

785
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,340
Speaker 2: chat where we'll be asking a few questions. Today I

786
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,260
Speaker 2: asked just how are the baddies going? What are you

787
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 2: doing today? It's the only place you can actually have

788
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:05,860
Speaker 2: a conversation with other baddies.

789
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:06,660
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah.

790
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,420
Speaker 1: You can literally just put a thing in there and

791
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:09,030
Speaker 1: talk to the baddies.

792
00:29:09,070 --> 00:29:10,290
Speaker 4: Yeah. Hectic.

793
00:29:10,790 --> 00:29:12,390
Speaker 1: Anyway, my dilemma.

794
00:29:12,890 --> 00:29:14,210
Speaker 2: Is yelling ever okay?

795
00:29:15,250 --> 00:29:16,470
Speaker 1: Hey boys, I'm a big fan of the show and

796
00:29:16,490 --> 00:29:18,250
Speaker 1: I love the friendship you guys have with each other.

797
00:29:18,370 --> 00:29:20,820
Speaker 1: My dilemma is in regards to partner yelling. I have

798
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,060
Speaker 1: been dating someone on and off for 18 months, but

799
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 1: I feel I have changed a lot as a person

800
00:29:24,780 --> 00:29:28,190
Speaker 1: during that time and maybe not changed for the better. Oh,

801
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,620
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I feel like I have stopped.

802
00:29:30,780 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 2: Oh, interesting.

803
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:34,410
Speaker 1: I've had to stop training at my regular gym with

804
00:29:34,430 --> 00:29:36,550
Speaker 1: my coach because he was a male, which my boyfriend

805
00:29:36,590 --> 00:29:38,150
Speaker 1: found uncomfortable. Fuck him off.

806
00:29:39,850 --> 00:29:39,950
Speaker 4: Break.

807
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:44,020
Speaker 2: Up agree i don't need to hear anymore uh.

808
00:29:42,940 --> 00:29:44,780
Speaker 1: Uncomfortable that he was a male so i stopped training

809
00:29:44,820 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: altogether he doesn't want me having male friends either so

810
00:29:47,460 --> 00:29:48,940
Speaker 1: i've had to cut off the few male friends that

811
00:29:48,980 --> 00:29:52,030
Speaker 1: i had he yells when we disagree or argue even

812
00:29:52,050 --> 00:29:53,870
Speaker 1: though i've told him i'm upset when he raises his

813
00:29:53,950 --> 00:29:56,170
Speaker 1: voice but he just but he says it's just words

814
00:29:56,730 --> 00:29:58,210
Speaker 1: am i in the wrong for asking my partner to

815
00:29:58,270 --> 00:30:00,700
Speaker 1: not yell when we disagree How do you guys handle

816
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: arguments or disagreements with Cassie and Beth? Any advice is appreciated. Okay, wait.

817
00:30:04,620 --> 00:30:08,140
Speaker 1: First thing I want to say is what he probably

818
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:12,700
Speaker 1: doesn't understand is the sort of male privilege that he

819
00:30:12,740 --> 00:30:14,530
Speaker 1: is taking advantage of when he yells at you.

820
00:30:14,910 --> 00:30:15,070
Speaker 4: Yes.

821
00:30:15,330 --> 00:30:20,450
Speaker 1: Because, look, I assume you're not afraid. I'm assuming here,

822
00:30:20,530 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: but you might not be afraid that he is.

823
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,660
Speaker 1: Sorry, let me rephrase this.

824
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 5: When.

825
00:30:29,850 --> 00:30:34,710
Speaker 1: a man yells, it is coming off obviously as anger,

826
00:30:35,090 --> 00:30:38,830
Speaker 1: but it's also like a violent thing, yelling, right? And

827
00:30:38,910 --> 00:30:43,420
Speaker 1: so if he's yelling at you, you're going to be

828
00:30:43,500 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: scared of him. And so what he's doing is he's

829
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,300
Speaker 1: taking advantage of a bit of a power trip that

830
00:30:51,180 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 1: like yelling is going to scare you. So it's not

831
00:30:54,610 --> 00:30:57,830
Speaker 1: fair for him to yell when you're asking him not

832
00:30:57,870 --> 00:31:00,170
Speaker 1: to yell. Because he's taking advantage of a bit of

833
00:31:00,210 --> 00:31:03,590
Speaker 1: a male privilege there because men historically are so violent

834
00:31:03,610 --> 00:31:09,050
Speaker 1: towards women. And that would include yelling. So right now

835
00:31:09,290 --> 00:31:12,900
Speaker 1: he's doing something very fucked up, especially because you have

836
00:31:12,980 --> 00:31:13,900
Speaker 1: asked him to stop.

837
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 2: Well, it's another level of control. He's controlling and saying

838
00:31:17,980 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 2: who you can see, but then also that yelling. Although

839
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 2: it's just like words, like he says, that's also another

840
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,209
Speaker 2: way of gaslighting you. But that is control because like

841
00:31:26,230 --> 00:31:27,930
Speaker 2: Jack said, men are bigger.

842
00:31:28,180 --> 00:31:28,380
Speaker 4: Yeah.

843
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,860
Speaker 2: And his way of feeling like he's in control is

844
00:31:30,900 --> 00:31:33,780
Speaker 2: to be louder than you, bigger than you. And that's

845
00:31:33,820 --> 00:31:35,479
Speaker 2: how he feels like a man. It's very toxic.

846
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:36,100
Speaker 4: Yeah.

847
00:31:36,220 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 1: And look, he may never get physical with you, but

848
00:31:39,700 --> 00:31:42,940
Speaker 1: that is just something that like you actually don't know.

849
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 2: All these are warning signs though.

850
00:31:44,850 --> 00:31:45,070
Speaker 4: Yeah.

851
00:31:45,090 --> 00:31:46,450
Speaker 1: A hundred percent warning signs.

852
00:31:46,470 --> 00:31:46,890
Speaker 2: Think of the.

853
00:31:47,310 --> 00:31:52,490
Speaker 1: So he's like, he's starting to already control you, you know,

854
00:31:53,510 --> 00:31:55,350
Speaker 1: with the thing of you not training anymore because he

855
00:31:55,370 --> 00:31:56,810
Speaker 1: doesn't want you training with a male coach.

856
00:31:57,630 --> 00:31:57,850
Speaker 2: So.

857
00:31:57,850 --> 00:32:01,250
Speaker 1: 100% breakup with this guy.

858
00:32:01,450 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 2: This is 100% breakup worthy. Outside of that, conflict resolution

859
00:32:06,660 --> 00:32:09,340
Speaker 2: in relationships, we can talk about that. I think this

860
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 2: one's completely unhealthy and you need to get out before

861
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 2: it does hopefully not turn into an issue, but it

862
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 2: could turn into an issue. But conflict resolution, I remember

863
00:32:16,860 --> 00:32:18,380
Speaker 2: when I first started dating Cassie, I think I've said

864
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: it before, we had our first ever fight and she

865
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,270
Speaker 2: yelled at me. And I don't yell. And I make

866
00:32:24,290 --> 00:32:27,450
Speaker 2: the conscious choice not to do that. And I just, like,

867
00:32:27,470 --> 00:32:30,350
Speaker 2: we're having a conversation, disagreement, whatever, arguing, which is fair,

868
00:32:30,390 --> 00:32:33,530
Speaker 2: happens in relationships. And she yelled at me. And I said, hey,

869
00:32:33,550 --> 00:32:36,190
Speaker 2: I was like, stop. We're allowed to have a fight.

870
00:32:36,590 --> 00:32:39,410
Speaker 2: Don't ever raise your voice at me. We love each other.

871
00:32:40,090 --> 00:32:42,170
Speaker 2: Don't do that. That doesn't win anything. I know the

872
00:32:42,190 --> 00:32:45,050
Speaker 2: emotions are there. And then she, like, I don't think

873
00:32:45,090 --> 00:32:48,430
Speaker 2: she'd ever had a man not arc back up at her.

874
00:32:48,450 --> 00:32:52,340
Speaker 2: I took a step away from the issue and said, like, No,

875
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:54,500
Speaker 2: this isn't... We can resolve the problem, but we're not

876
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,660
Speaker 2: doing it this way. And ever since then, we've never

877
00:32:56,700 --> 00:32:59,860
Speaker 2: ever yelled at each other ever again. Yeah. I've raised

878
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:02,180
Speaker 2: my voice by accident when I didn't think I have,

879
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: but apparently I have. He's like, hey, don't you fucking

880
00:33:04,700 --> 00:33:08,540
Speaker 2: yell at me. But I think there's never ever an

881
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,860
Speaker 2: appropriate time to yell at someone in a relationship if

882
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 2: you love them.

883
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,260
Speaker 1: No, yeah. And then in terms of conflict resolution, I

884
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: would say, you know, if you're having an argument or

885
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,140
Speaker 1: a disagreement with the person you love.

886
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: Something that you got to try and do is stop

887
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,060
Speaker 1: and think this isn't, you know, we're not against each

888
00:33:29,100 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: other here.

889
00:33:29,420 --> 00:33:30,070
Speaker 2: We love each other.

890
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,310
Speaker 1: You know, we're not against each other here. Let's try

891
00:33:32,330 --> 00:33:35,250
Speaker 1: and separate ourselves from the problem. It's us two against

892
00:33:35,310 --> 00:33:37,650
Speaker 1: the problem. And so if you can kind of think

893
00:33:37,670 --> 00:33:40,290
Speaker 1: of it like that, then it's a lot easier to do.

894
00:33:40,310 --> 00:33:42,730
Speaker 1: I would say with Beth and I, when it comes

895
00:33:42,790 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: to conflict, like we've had disagreements. We've never had huge fights.

896
00:33:51,540 --> 00:33:52,140
Speaker 4: We....

897
00:33:54,340 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: I just like, I listen. She's good at articulating things.

898
00:33:58,780 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: And so if I just, it's pretty rare that I

899
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:05,060
Speaker 1: would say something and then she says that that hurts

900
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: her feelings and tells me why. It's pretty rare for

901
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,650
Speaker 1: me to be like, that's invalid. I'm quite often like, oh,

902
00:34:09,670 --> 00:34:10,129
Speaker 1: that makes sense.

903
00:34:10,170 --> 00:34:10,550
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

904
00:34:11,090 --> 00:34:13,210
Speaker 1: And that's how it usually ends like that.

905
00:34:13,230 --> 00:34:13,930
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

906
00:34:14,430 --> 00:34:16,210
Speaker 1: So I think some people just aren't open to listening.

907
00:34:16,230 --> 00:34:19,430
Speaker 2: Which is unfortunate for a lot of people in relationships.

908
00:34:20,650 --> 00:34:23,500
Speaker 1: I also just hate fighting. Like, I just don't like it.

909
00:34:23,910 --> 00:34:26,650
Speaker 2: Neither do I. I just hate it. I think, like,

910
00:34:26,670 --> 00:34:28,950
Speaker 2: it's fine to fight in a relationship, like, here and there.

911
00:34:28,969 --> 00:34:29,910
Speaker 1: Oh, 100% it's fine.

912
00:34:29,969 --> 00:34:33,270
Speaker 2: It's just, like, I think when the fighting becomes, if

913
00:34:33,310 --> 00:34:35,630
Speaker 2: you're in a heated argument and you're thinking, like, I

914
00:34:35,690 --> 00:34:38,710
Speaker 2: fucking hate this person, and there's, like, a sort of

915
00:34:38,730 --> 00:34:41,250
Speaker 2: a vendetta or your mindset is I need to win this,

916
00:34:41,890 --> 00:34:43,569
Speaker 2: that's when there's an issue. But if you're just, like, no,

917
00:34:43,610 --> 00:34:44,830
Speaker 2: I feel this way, you feel that way, and there's

918
00:34:44,850 --> 00:34:47,950
Speaker 2: a disagreement, I think that is perfectly healthy. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

919
00:34:48,150 --> 00:34:49,950
Speaker 1: You're allowed to disagree on things, too.

920
00:34:50,110 --> 00:34:51,110
Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, 100%.

921
00:34:51,110 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: You are allowed to disagree on things.

922
00:34:52,140 --> 00:34:53,580
Speaker 2: You're not the exact same person.

923
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,900
Speaker 1: But I want to reiterate that you really need to

924
00:34:56,940 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: break up with this guy because it's the beginnings of

925
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 1: a very controlling relationship. And once again, when a man

926
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,590
Speaker 1: yells at a woman, he is taking advantage of a

927
00:35:06,610 --> 00:35:10,549
Speaker 1: power trip because that is scary for a woman inherently.

928
00:35:10,910 --> 00:35:12,110
Speaker 2: So it is not fair.

929
00:35:12,610 --> 00:35:12,810
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah.

930
00:35:12,830 --> 00:35:14,089
Speaker 2: And if you're thinking, I don't know if you said

931
00:35:14,130 --> 00:35:16,610
Speaker 2: anything like, oh, he's a nice man or whatever. He

932
00:35:16,930 --> 00:35:19,710
Speaker 2: wants you to stop getting PT'd by a male because

933
00:35:19,750 --> 00:35:21,370
Speaker 2: he only sees women sexually.

934
00:35:22,770 --> 00:35:27,460
Speaker 1: And he thinks that... So, he's basically, in a way,

935
00:35:28,300 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: saying that, like... So, it makes him uncomfortable because, number one, he's, like,

936
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: very insecure about it, right? But it's making.

937
00:35:36,020 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 2: Like, what it is.

938
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 1: Is it kind of not saying, you know, if you

939
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: keep getting PT'd by this guy, like, he just wants

940
00:35:44,219 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 1: to fuck you.

941
00:35:45,180 --> 00:35:45,700
Speaker 2: And so, but.

942
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,459
Speaker 1: what he is then saying is I'm with you because

943
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:49,919
Speaker 1: I just.

944
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 4: Want to fuck you.

945
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 2: Well, he's saying any woman in the world I look at,

946
00:35:53,140 --> 00:35:53,779
Speaker 2: I just want to fuck.

947
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 5: Yeah.

948
00:35:54,420 --> 00:35:56,339
Speaker 2: That's what all men think. Yeah. Which is wrong.

949
00:35:56,460 --> 00:35:58,459
Speaker 1: And I know we've been on the record saying guys

950
00:35:58,500 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 1: and girls can't be best friends, but like, we actually

951
00:36:02,900 --> 00:36:05,700
Speaker 1: have had a few baddies comment from past episodes being like, no, no,

952
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 1: it works for us, work for us. And then I've

953
00:36:07,060 --> 00:36:08,540
Speaker 1: replied being like, oh, look, I mean, if it works

954
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:08,739
Speaker 1: for you.

955
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,490
Speaker 2: What's the best friend, but this is also a professional thing.

956
00:36:11,530 --> 00:36:14,430
Speaker 2: If I'm a PT and I'm PTing a woman, There's

957
00:36:14,469 --> 00:36:15,750
Speaker 2: not a single thought in my brain that I want

958
00:36:15,770 --> 00:36:16,190
Speaker 2: to fuck her.

959
00:36:16,430 --> 00:36:16,710
Speaker 4: Yeah.

960
00:36:17,090 --> 00:36:17,850
Speaker 2: Here's the thing, right?

961
00:36:18,150 --> 00:36:18,489
Speaker 1: Oh, no.

962
00:36:19,770 --> 00:36:20,290
Speaker 2: Here's the thing.

963
00:36:20,770 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 1: He also, you know, you've stopped hanging out with the

964
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:27,379
Speaker 1: small amount of male friends that you did have, right? Now, look,

965
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:29,500
Speaker 1: I know Odie and I are on the record saying

966
00:36:29,540 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 1: guys and girls can't be best friends. I still think

967
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 1: it doesn't work.

968
00:36:32,780 --> 00:36:34,570
Speaker 2: Out often, right?

969
00:36:34,950 --> 00:36:38,210
Speaker 1: But if Beth had friends.

970
00:36:38,010 --> 00:36:42,310
Speaker 2: That are guys, right, before we met, a platonic thing,

971
00:36:44,100 --> 00:36:45,140
Speaker 2: Give a fuck.

972
00:36:44,900 --> 00:36:45,900
Speaker 1: If she wants to hang out with them.

973
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,180
Speaker 2: Like, that's fucking insane. It comes back to the controlling thing, too,

974
00:36:50,219 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 2: because when you get isolated, making the decision to leave

975
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,500
Speaker 2: is more scary because you have no one. And he's

976
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:56,500
Speaker 2: isolated you from everyone.

977
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,460
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what he's doing. Oh, my God. You need

978
00:36:59,500 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: to get out of this. You need to break up

979
00:37:00,580 --> 00:37:00,790
Speaker 1: with him.

980
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:01,260
Speaker 3: Please.

981
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: Give us an update. You have to break up with him.

982
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,020
Speaker 2: All right, my turn. I'm 19, and I've been seeing

983
00:37:06,060 --> 00:37:09,660
Speaker 2: this guy for about six months. We're not officially boyfriend

984
00:37:09,700 --> 00:37:12,930
Speaker 2: and girlfriend, but we've basically been acting like it. We

985
00:37:12,969 --> 00:37:15,589
Speaker 2: sleep together, stay at each other's houses, see each other

986
00:37:15,650 --> 00:37:18,819
Speaker 2: most weekends, and I've met his friends and family. The

987
00:37:18,900 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 2: problem is that a few weeks ago, I found out

988
00:37:21,540 --> 00:37:23,720
Speaker 2: he had slept with another girl while we were seeing

989
00:37:23,780 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: each other. When I confronted him, he said that because

990
00:37:27,020 --> 00:37:31,370
Speaker 2: we were never officially together, he technically didn't do anything wrong.

991
00:37:32,390 --> 00:37:35,190
Speaker 2: I was obviously hurt, but I decided to give him

992
00:37:35,230 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 2: another chance because I really like him. The part that's

993
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,180
Speaker 2: making me feel insane is that he now gets jealous

994
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 2: whenever I talk to other guys and has even questioned

995
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:48,779
Speaker 2: me who I'm texting, while still refuses to actually make

996
00:37:48,820 --> 00:37:52,029
Speaker 2: things official with me. Then last weekend, I went out

997
00:37:52,050 --> 00:37:54,450
Speaker 2: with my friends and ended up kissing another guy.

998
00:37:54,670 --> 00:37:55,029
Speaker 4: Hell yeah.

999
00:37:55,310 --> 00:37:58,110
Speaker 2: I haven't told him because technically we're still not together,

1000
00:37:58,190 --> 00:38:02,750
Speaker 2: but I feel guilty because I know he'd be furious. Now,

1001
00:38:02,830 --> 00:38:05,270
Speaker 2: I'm stuck because part of me thinks I have no

1002
00:38:05,350 --> 00:38:08,180
Speaker 2: right to be upset about what he did if I've

1003
00:38:08,219 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 2: technically done the same thing. But another part of me

1004
00:38:11,060 --> 00:38:13,739
Speaker 2: feels like there's a massive difference because I only did

1005
00:38:13,780 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 2: it after finding out he had already slept with someone else.

1006
00:38:17,340 --> 00:38:19,980
Speaker 2: Do I tell him what happened and risk ending everything

1007
00:38:20,020 --> 00:38:23,790
Speaker 2: we have or keep quiet because we were never actually exclusive?

1008
00:38:24,370 --> 00:38:26,450
Speaker 2: And at this point, should I even be trying to

1009
00:38:26,489 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 2: make this relationship work when he clearly wants all the

1010
00:38:29,420 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 2: benefits of having a girlfriend without actually calling me his girlfriend.

1011
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:37,390
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not going to lie. Like, I'm so sorry.

1012
00:38:37,410 --> 00:38:39,969
Speaker 1: I'm going to just like be so mean and honest

1013
00:38:40,010 --> 00:38:43,430
Speaker 1: right now. I understand these things can be hard. You

1014
00:38:43,450 --> 00:38:46,250
Speaker 1: can think you have something, but you genuinely have nothing.

1015
00:38:46,590 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: I'm so, so sorry. Read back the dilemma you just

1016
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 1: sent and pretend it's one of your friends sending a

1017
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 1: dilemma to us. And then you're listening to Odi read

1018
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,299
Speaker 1: that out. And you're just thinking to yourself, What the

1019
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: fuck are you doing? Have some self-respect and leave this guy.

1020
00:39:02,500 --> 00:39:02,700
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1021
00:39:02,820 --> 00:39:03,419
Speaker 2: Like, I'm sorry.

1022
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,420
Speaker 1: I understand these things are going to happen, right? And

1023
00:39:08,460 --> 00:39:11,029
Speaker 1: it's going to happen all the time. But like, it's

1024
00:39:11,140 --> 00:39:14,490
Speaker 1: very annoying when someone sends in a dilemma like that

1025
00:39:15,330 --> 00:39:19,870
Speaker 1: and you've been so like manipulated or, I don't know,

1026
00:39:19,870 --> 00:39:21,720
Speaker 1: just maybe love bombed.

1027
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,140
Speaker 2: And then and then manipulated.

1028
00:39:23,140 --> 00:39:26,190
Speaker 1: Like he's full telling you, like I did nothing wrong

1029
00:39:26,190 --> 00:39:30,660
Speaker 1: because we weren't technically technically together. And then you're like, okay,

1030
00:39:30,739 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: well I'm hurt, but whatever, I guess you're right. Like, no,

1031
00:39:33,260 --> 00:39:36,930
Speaker 1: that's fucked up. And then you're now like, Oh, like,

1032
00:39:37,780 --> 00:39:41,210
Speaker 1: do you want to fucking be on your deathbed? Or

1033
00:39:41,230 --> 00:39:43,790
Speaker 1: do you want to think about this? Would you want

1034
00:39:43,830 --> 00:39:46,450
Speaker 1: to be a mom and have your daughter be Be like, oh,

1035
00:39:46,469 --> 00:39:48,089
Speaker 1: this is what this guy's doing, but I really like him.

1036
00:39:48,110 --> 00:39:49,470
Speaker 1: Should I give away everything we have.

1037
00:39:49,330 --> 00:39:50,330
Speaker 2: Or should I leave? And you're going to be like,

1038
00:39:50,350 --> 00:39:52,330
Speaker 2: what the fuck's wrong with you? Would you want that

1039
00:39:52,390 --> 00:39:55,029
Speaker 2: guy to be the fucking father to your children?

1040
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:55,460
Speaker 4: No.

1041
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:57,940
Speaker 1: Do you want to tell your children when they ask you,

1042
00:39:57,980 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 1: how did.

1043
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 2: You and dad meet? Oh, well, this happened, this happened,

1044
00:40:01,060 --> 00:40:02,580
Speaker 2: this happened. No, you're going to fucking lie.

1045
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,700
Speaker 1: You don't want to lie about how you got with

1046
00:40:04,739 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: your fucking future husband.

1047
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 2: Exactly. You know what I mean? I'm sorry.

1048
00:40:09,660 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 1: You need to like have way higher respect for yourself

1049
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:13,700
Speaker 1: and fuck this guy off.

1050
00:40:14,300 --> 00:40:15,070
Speaker 2: Oh, I couldn't agree more.

1051
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:15,390
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1052
00:40:15,930 --> 00:40:20,250
Speaker 2: And showing empathy. She's young. She's dumb. This is what

1053
00:40:20,290 --> 00:40:22,230
Speaker 2: happens when you're young and dumb and you've never loved before.

1054
00:40:22,850 --> 00:40:28,029
Speaker 2: But like Jake said, think about... For love to work,

1055
00:40:28,050 --> 00:40:30,550
Speaker 2: you have to be one, be confident in yourself. Two,

1056
00:40:30,830 --> 00:40:34,109
Speaker 2: be confident in the other person. This motherfucker doesn't know

1057
00:40:34,190 --> 00:40:36,870
Speaker 2: what he wants. You don't know what you want. And

1058
00:40:36,969 --> 00:40:39,049
Speaker 2: you're not showing yourself self-respect.

1059
00:40:39,210 --> 00:40:39,410
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1060
00:40:39,810 --> 00:40:43,690
Speaker 2: Yeah. It's very, very... it's hard to hear.

1061
00:40:43,550 --> 00:40:45,390
Speaker 1: Like when those things get read out it's hard to

1062
00:40:45,450 --> 00:40:47,330
Speaker 1: hear and here's the thing right it's like the difference

1063
00:40:47,370 --> 00:40:49,430
Speaker 1: between the dilemma I read and the dilemma Audie read

1064
00:40:49,469 --> 00:40:54,299
Speaker 1: is like there is so this girl is actually like

1065
00:40:54,380 --> 00:40:55,739
Speaker 1: she's been on and off with this guy but like

1066
00:40:55,780 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 1: they're dating dating right even though they've been on and

1067
00:40:58,900 --> 00:41:02,339
Speaker 1: off and then he is like practicing this guy it's

1068
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 1: like he's practicing like a sort of I don't want

1069
00:41:05,420 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: to say I don't think it's coercive control I don't

1070
00:41:08,260 --> 00:41:10,259
Speaker 1: think that's it I could be wrong I would love

1071
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:11,620
Speaker 1: for someone to correct me in the comments but like

1072
00:41:13,340 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: To be fair, I guess we said to her, like,

1073
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: get out of that fucking relationship.

1074
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 2: But, like, you're not even in one. It's hard.

1075
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:20,060
Speaker 1: It's hard.

1076
00:41:20,100 --> 00:41:22,460
Speaker 2: It's hard. This one's, like, just manipulation.

1077
00:41:22,620 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1078
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:28,250
Speaker 2: And it's, like, because I'm struggling to articulate what's in

1079
00:41:28,290 --> 00:41:28,969
Speaker 2: my brain.

1080
00:41:29,190 --> 00:41:29,570
Speaker 4: Try.

1081
00:41:31,070 --> 00:41:35,790
Speaker 2: When you love someone and, like, let me think about this.

1082
00:41:36,430 --> 00:41:38,430
Speaker 1: Here, let me say something while you think about this.

1083
00:41:38,450 --> 00:41:39,750
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is what I was going

1084
00:41:39,770 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: to say, right? But. This is me going back to

1085
00:41:42,540 --> 00:41:44,100
Speaker 1: being mean. And I hope I'm not making you cry

1086
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: or anything, but I'm just trying to be super brutally honest.

1087
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:49,230
Speaker 1: This guy doesn't love you, right? Because if he did,

1088
00:41:49,969 --> 00:41:53,230
Speaker 1: you would be together, right? He wouldn't have slept. Like

1089
00:41:53,270 --> 00:41:55,589
Speaker 1: you would have been fucking dating within a couple months

1090
00:41:55,610 --> 00:41:58,089
Speaker 1: of seeing each other. He wouldn't have slept with someone

1091
00:41:58,150 --> 00:41:59,910
Speaker 1: else because he would have been like, no, I really

1092
00:41:59,989 --> 00:42:01,969
Speaker 1: like this girl and I want to be with her

1093
00:42:01,989 --> 00:42:04,700
Speaker 1: and I don't want to ruin that, right? So that's

1094
00:42:04,820 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: one thing to think about.

1095
00:42:05,660 --> 00:42:09,020
Speaker 2: Or that's basically where I'm getting with this. Like when

1096
00:42:09,060 --> 00:42:11,430
Speaker 2: you know you know, And you'll do everything in your

1097
00:42:11,469 --> 00:42:14,250
Speaker 2: power and a good person, a good man will do

1098
00:42:14,350 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 2: everything in their power to make that relationship work because

1099
00:42:16,620 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 2: they're falling in love. You don't just go sleep with

1100
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 2: someone because, oh, we weren't exclusive. fuck off then yeah

1101
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 2: if you like someone you don't sleep with someone else

1102
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 2: yeah it's very simple there's no like oh we didn't

1103
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 2: actually put a title on it so i did nothing

1104
00:42:28,860 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 2: wrong that's when you say fuck off you dumb cunt yeah.

1105
00:42:31,739 --> 00:42:34,230
Speaker 7: Like dead set like if someone says to you oh

1106
00:42:35,130 --> 00:42:37,989
Speaker 7: i didn't actually technically do anything wrong because we aren't

1107
00:42:38,130 --> 00:42:41,350
Speaker 7: officially dating i know we've been like hanging out for

1108
00:42:41,450 --> 00:42:43,690
Speaker 7: six months and i'm getting all the girlfriend benefits on

1109
00:42:43,730 --> 00:42:48,140
Speaker 7: a fucking like little situationship fucking, what a payslip, whatever

1110
00:42:48,180 --> 00:42:49,260
Speaker 7: people say with their little.

1111
00:42:49,219 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: Acronym or their little fucking metaphor about it. It's like,

1112
00:42:51,420 --> 00:42:54,740
Speaker 1: how about fuck off? Go experience the male loneliness epidemic,

1113
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:55,760
Speaker 1: you fucking loser.

1114
00:42:55,900 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 4: Exactly.

1115
00:42:56,180 --> 00:42:57,720
Speaker 2: Go have a cry. Go be alone.

1116
00:42:57,739 --> 00:42:59,339
Speaker 1: Go get broken up with every girl because you're just like,

1117
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:00,940
Speaker 1: I don't ever want to put a label on it.

1118
00:43:00,940 --> 00:43:01,989
Speaker 1: I don't ever want to put a label on it.

1119
00:43:01,989 --> 00:43:05,010
Speaker 1: And now I'm so lonely and women hate me.

1120
00:43:05,370 --> 00:43:07,930
Speaker 2: And why do women hate me? I'm such a good guy.

1121
00:43:07,950 --> 00:43:09,109
Speaker 1: How about take a look in the.

1122
00:43:09,130 --> 00:43:14,190
Speaker 2: Fucking mirror, you loser. For fuck's sakes. It's so annoying.

1123
00:43:14,700 --> 00:43:17,860
Speaker 2: And it's sad that you have been, as a result,

1124
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,500
Speaker 2: affected by this guy, this man's poor actions.

1125
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1126
00:43:20,980 --> 00:43:22,219
Speaker 2: But you just need to step up and be like, no,

1127
00:43:22,260 --> 00:43:26,259
Speaker 2: I deserve better. You're way better off being alone, not

1128
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 2: dealing with any type of this shit at all. So

1129
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:29,940
Speaker 2: much better.

1130
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: Be alone and, yeah, respect yourself much higher. Go tell

1131
00:43:34,739 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 1: your mum about this. See what she says.

1132
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:36,950
Speaker 2: She's going to be like, oh, sweetie.

1133
00:43:37,090 --> 00:43:37,530
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1134
00:43:37,810 --> 00:43:38,570
Speaker 1: Oh, sweetie.

1135
00:43:38,670 --> 00:43:40,070
Speaker 2: This is how you learn. This is how you learn.

1136
00:43:40,230 --> 00:43:40,410
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1137
00:43:46,910 --> 00:43:50,430
Speaker 2: Baddies, we are back with Oddy's VC. Yeah, let's go.

1138
00:43:50,820 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 2: What's that, Jake? Oddy Venture Capitalism. Yeah, and it's eventuated

1139
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,259
Speaker 2: from Oddy's Shark Tank, where Jake came to me months

1140
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,860
Speaker 2: and months ago with business ideas, and he hit on

1141
00:44:01,900 --> 00:44:06,260
Speaker 2: week two with some type of divide in a bed.

1142
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:08,140
Speaker 2: We've landed on the name The Bed Divider.

1143
00:44:08,650 --> 00:44:12,070
Speaker 1: Somebody actually commented somewhere. I didn't go reply to it

1144
00:44:12,090 --> 00:44:15,230
Speaker 1: because I was like, fuck no. I just like came

1145
00:44:15,270 --> 00:44:17,930
Speaker 1: on my phone. Someone was like, I fear this is

1146
00:44:18,010 --> 00:44:18,590
Speaker 1: a thing already.

1147
00:44:19,290 --> 00:44:19,690
Speaker 4: Nah.

1148
00:44:20,070 --> 00:44:23,650
Speaker 2: Surely, nah. There's no way. No, there's a, remember how

1149
00:44:23,730 --> 00:44:25,410
Speaker 2: I brought to the pod one week and there was

1150
00:44:25,670 --> 00:44:27,730
Speaker 2: a company called like Bed Border.

1151
00:44:28,270 --> 00:44:29,549
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was the thing on the outside.

1152
00:44:29,610 --> 00:44:31,270
Speaker 2: On the outside. There's nothing on the middle and there's

1153
00:44:31,310 --> 00:44:33,670
Speaker 2: no technology out there. We'll patent that shit when it

1154
00:44:33,710 --> 00:44:34,170
Speaker 2: comes out.

1155
00:44:34,430 --> 00:44:37,810
Speaker 1: Actually, that border thing that you found, I actually think

1156
00:44:37,830 --> 00:44:38,049
Speaker 1: it's cool.

1157
00:44:38,790 --> 00:44:40,879
Speaker 2: Off that's competition what are you talking about that's.

1158
00:44:40,780 --> 00:44:42,740
Speaker 1: Not competition they're not dividing us yeah.

1159
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 5: But i feel like they're in the bad game we

1160
00:44:44,660 --> 00:44:46,739
Speaker 5: should do is actually we should get this idea right

1161
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,140
Speaker 5: yeah what we should do is we should make this

1162
00:44:48,219 --> 00:44:50,049
Speaker 5: idea we should trademark it and then sell it to

1163
00:44:50,090 --> 00:44:53,110
Speaker 5: them for a couple mil make a quick buck.

1164
00:44:52,989 --> 00:44:55,370
Speaker 2: Oh yeah we'll give sarah her 30 you're.

1165
00:44:55,250 --> 00:44:57,910
Speaker 5: All about a quick buck uh we're in for the

1166
00:44:57,950 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 5: long run yeah quick buck quick fuck.

1167
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 2: I know about a quick fuck, I do. Yeah, you

1168
00:45:04,020 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 2: do know about a quick fuck. How do you know?

1169
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:12,720
Speaker 2: Because I've asked Cassie. Oh, yeah. So, baddies, as Jake mentioned,

1170
00:45:12,980 --> 00:45:16,500
Speaker 2: Sarah is not actually a part owner in this. She's

1171
00:45:16,540 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 2: just helping us out. She is the baddest baddie who

1172
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 2: won the competition about a year ago, and she's been

1173
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 2: working in the background on making this bed divider happen. So,

1174
00:45:25,739 --> 00:45:27,800
Speaker 2: we're just going to give her a ring and catch

1175
00:45:27,860 --> 00:45:29,690
Speaker 2: up with her and see where she's at with it.

1176
00:45:29,690 --> 00:45:31,129
Speaker 4: Mm-hmm. Hello.

1177
00:45:31,350 --> 00:45:33,430
Speaker 2: Sarah, how are you going?

1178
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 6: Good, thanks. How are you guys?

1179
00:45:35,660 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 2: We're good. We're excited. We're very excited. First things first

1180
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,259
Speaker 2: is how did you go in handball?

1181
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:42,980
Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.

1182
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 6: It was good. We came fourth out of the seven teams,

1183
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 6: which this is the first time New Zealand's got a

1184
00:45:50,460 --> 00:45:53,439
Speaker 6: team to the Oceania champs, and I think the first

1185
00:45:53,460 --> 00:45:55,010
Speaker 6: actual Oceania champs.

1186
00:45:55,620 --> 00:45:56,919
Speaker 2: Hey, that's pretty good.

1187
00:45:56,940 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 6: We got smacked by Australia, though, which.

1188
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:04,550
Speaker 2: Sucks, but.

1189
00:46:04,910 --> 00:46:07,190
Speaker 2: Let's go! We are good at sports, to be fair.

1190
00:46:07,270 --> 00:46:07,989
Speaker 2: We love that.

1191
00:46:08,030 --> 00:46:13,989
Speaker 6: Yeah, and actually, Australia is training for the Olympics because

1192
00:46:14,110 --> 00:46:16,989
Speaker 6: when you're hosting in, I think, it's 2032, you get

1193
00:46:17,010 --> 00:46:18,750
Speaker 6: a free entry for the handball team.

1194
00:46:18,790 --> 00:46:21,710
Speaker 2: Oh, do you get a free entry if you host?

1195
00:46:21,730 --> 00:46:24,669
Speaker 2: That's such a scam. I mean, no, think about World Cup.

1196
00:46:24,690 --> 00:46:27,410
Speaker 2: They get a free entry. If they host. True.

1197
00:46:27,510 --> 00:46:28,310
Speaker 1: And they never do well.

1198
00:46:28,430 --> 00:46:29,890
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1199
00:46:29,910 --> 00:46:30,330
Speaker 4: Okay.

1200
00:46:30,350 --> 00:46:31,390
Speaker 2: Well, up Australia. Is there.

1201
00:46:31,830 --> 00:46:36,020
Speaker 1: Before we move on, actually, what is New Zealand's national sport? Rugby.

1202
00:46:36,140 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 4: Rugby. Rugby, yeah.

1203
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 2: They are good at rugby.

1204
00:46:39,180 --> 00:46:39,259
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1205
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 2: What's the team called again?

1206
00:46:41,580 --> 00:46:43,259
Speaker 1: What's the team called again? It's the All Blacks, mate.

1207
00:46:43,300 --> 00:46:43,980
Speaker 4: Come on.

1208
00:46:44,020 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 2: No, what's the... The Haka. Is that what it's called?

1209
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:46,700
Speaker 2: How do they go? No, they do that.

1210
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:47,220
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1211
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, they do the Haka at the start. Yeah, I

1212
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:50,730
Speaker 2: used to love that as a kid. I thought it

1213
00:46:50,750 --> 00:46:51,569
Speaker 2: was scary as fuck.

1214
00:46:51,590 --> 00:46:55,270
Speaker 1: Hands down, biggest aura moment for any sports team ever.

1215
00:46:55,739 --> 00:46:58,939
Speaker 1: across the entire world is like, it would be so

1216
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: scary to be facing them when they do the Haka.

1217
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,420
Speaker 1: You'd be like, what are we going to do now?

1218
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,140
Speaker 1: We don't have anything. Anyway, sorry, Sarah.

1219
00:47:06,219 --> 00:47:09,250
Speaker 6: Actually, when we versus Tahiti in our third, fourth final,

1220
00:47:09,469 --> 00:47:12,570
Speaker 6: they started with one and it was incredible to see.

1221
00:47:12,610 --> 00:47:14,570
Speaker 2: Did you guys do one? Yeah.

1222
00:47:15,469 --> 00:47:15,649
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1223
00:47:15,770 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 6: We didn't actually do one. But we opened with a

1224
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:24,060
Speaker 6: waiata and closed the ceremony with a waiata, so like

1225
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 6: a song. Yeah, the Tahiti team opened, started the match

1226
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 6: with a haka and it was just incredible to be

1227
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:32,620
Speaker 6: standing there having them facing you doing that.

1228
00:47:32,780 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 2: Did you win? Did you beat them?

1229
00:47:35,180 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 6: No, we were up by like six in the first

1230
00:47:38,940 --> 00:47:40,620
Speaker 6: half and then they came back in the second half.

1231
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:42,910
Speaker 4: So it worked. Yeah.

1232
00:47:42,930 --> 00:47:43,470
Speaker 1: It worked.

1233
00:47:43,489 --> 00:47:45,310
Speaker 2: They got in your head. They got in your head.

1234
00:47:45,330 --> 00:47:46,230
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1235
00:47:46,830 --> 00:47:49,370
Speaker 2: Well, Sarah, have you been listening to the pod and

1236
00:47:49,390 --> 00:47:53,250
Speaker 2: our feedback we mentioned on one of the episodes to

1237
00:47:53,310 --> 00:47:54,110
Speaker 2: your diagrams?

1238
00:47:54,910 --> 00:47:56,270
Speaker 6: Of course I've been listening to the pod.

1239
00:47:56,550 --> 00:48:01,980
Speaker 2: Imagine if she just goes, no, I haven't been listening. Yeah. Well, firstly,

1240
00:48:02,020 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 2: thank you very much for the drawings. They're very detailed

1241
00:48:04,900 --> 00:48:09,780
Speaker 2: and good. And we landed on either the magnet with

1242
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:13,930
Speaker 2: the cushion or the rope. We've kind of combined those

1243
00:48:14,010 --> 00:48:17,020
Speaker 2: two ideas, the rope and the ratchet, into one. One idea.

1244
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:20,290
Speaker 2: What did you think about those two? Yeah, I loved it.

1245
00:48:20,489 --> 00:48:22,490
Speaker 6: I was kind of on the same line with thinking

1246
00:48:22,530 --> 00:48:24,890
Speaker 6: it was going to be those ones. The proper ones,

1247
00:48:24,989 --> 00:48:27,270
Speaker 6: I wasn't thinking it would work, but I added it

1248
00:48:27,330 --> 00:48:29,390
Speaker 6: just in case you were like, actually, this is how

1249
00:48:29,430 --> 00:48:29,780
Speaker 6: it could.

1250
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 2: Good idea with the ratchet, eh? Yeah, the ratchet is brilliant.

1251
00:48:35,090 --> 00:48:39,310
Speaker 2: And we had one sort of advancement maybe. It came

1252
00:48:39,330 --> 00:48:41,330
Speaker 2: to me when I was falling asleep one night. Development.

1253
00:48:42,110 --> 00:48:44,290
Speaker 2: My girlfriend was sitting next to me and she was

1254
00:48:44,350 --> 00:48:49,049
Speaker 2: moving around. Kicking him. Kicking me. Choking him. Pulling the dude.

1255
00:48:49,110 --> 00:48:51,910
Speaker 2: Literally choking me. Literally choking you. I had this thought

1256
00:48:51,930 --> 00:48:53,910
Speaker 2: when I was fucking dying. I was like, how can

1257
00:48:53,930 --> 00:48:57,270
Speaker 2: I solve this issue? And so I think Jake and

1258
00:48:57,370 --> 00:48:58,990
Speaker 2: I love the ratchet idea.

1259
00:48:59,010 --> 00:48:59,350
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1260
00:48:59,610 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 2: Because with the magnet and the cushion thing, That idea

1261
00:49:03,580 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 2: kind of worked with we have to sell our own sheets, correct?

1262
00:49:08,930 --> 00:49:09,260
Speaker 4: Pretty much.

1263
00:49:09,450 --> 00:49:12,009
Speaker 2: To slit the magnets in. So that one's a bit like.

1264
00:49:12,010 --> 00:49:14,469
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think there would be a way to attach

1265
00:49:14,469 --> 00:49:16,859
Speaker 6: the magnets that isn't selling on cheap but i think

1266
00:49:16,890 --> 00:49:18,590
Speaker 6: it would be a bit more complicated.

1267
00:49:18,300 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 2: Yes yes yes but my i set it on i

1268
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 2: don't know if the episode comes out because the way

1269
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,319
Speaker 2: we do things is like it's.

1270
00:49:25,260 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 6: Just it's just a pillow bit around the.

1271
00:49:27,540 --> 00:49:30,420
Speaker 2: The ratchet yes so it has came out that's my idea.

1272
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 6: Yeah and And actually, Steph Price commented on, I think,

1273
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,420
Speaker 6: YouTube suggesting the same thing on the episode before.

1274
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: So you're stealing Steph's idea and claiming it is your own,

1275
00:49:40,140 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: you dog.

1276
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:44,779
Speaker 2: Hands down, organic idea. You liar. Hands down, organic idea

1277
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:45,340
Speaker 2: from my brain.

1278
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:46,500
Speaker 4: Liar.

1279
00:49:46,500 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 1: 100%. What do you mean? I had it before the

1280
00:49:48,410 --> 00:49:52,330
Speaker 1: episode was published. Coincidence, I think not. If Steph posted

1281
00:49:52,410 --> 00:49:56,190
Speaker 1: a comment. Before that, nah. We don't know it was before.

1282
00:49:56,370 --> 00:49:58,620
Speaker 6: I'm pretty sure it was different.

1283
00:49:59,060 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 2: Anyway, I thought it was organic, but maybe it was

1284
00:50:01,580 --> 00:50:03,580
Speaker 2: one of those times where you see something and you

1285
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,020
Speaker 2: think it's your own. It says you. I'll say something

1286
00:50:06,060 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 2: and then two hours later, you'll be like, I've got

1287
00:50:08,140 --> 00:50:10,110
Speaker 2: an idea. I fucking already told you about it. It

1288
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,730
Speaker 2: went after me, mate. This is about you, not me.

1289
00:50:13,130 --> 00:50:13,850
Speaker 4: So, yeah.

1290
00:50:13,910 --> 00:50:17,870
Speaker 2: So, to reiterate to everyone who maybe hasn't been listening,

1291
00:50:18,230 --> 00:50:21,270
Speaker 2: the idea is a ratchet strap that attaches to the

1292
00:50:21,330 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 2: front and back of the bed. And then along the rope,

1293
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,700
Speaker 2: maybe you can slide it up and down, is a

1294
00:50:26,900 --> 00:50:30,339
Speaker 2: nice soft pillow. One, to create that divide. Two, also

1295
00:50:30,390 --> 00:50:33,250
Speaker 2: can be used for sexy time. Ticks every box, Sarah.

1296
00:50:33,290 --> 00:50:34,470
Speaker 2: What do you think? Any issues?

1297
00:50:35,670 --> 00:50:38,469
Speaker 6: I think it's great. And I remember in one of

1298
00:50:38,489 --> 00:50:40,989
Speaker 6: the episodes, you suggested a three-part one that you could

1299
00:50:41,010 --> 00:50:43,350
Speaker 6: actually fold over as well instead of having to slide

1300
00:50:43,370 --> 00:50:44,009
Speaker 6: it through the rope.

1301
00:50:44,070 --> 00:50:44,800
Speaker 2: That was Jake, yes.

1302
00:50:44,820 --> 00:50:48,649
Speaker 6: So I'm thinking let's Add that in as well.

1303
00:50:48,770 --> 00:50:49,130
Speaker 4: I like it.

1304
00:50:49,190 --> 00:50:51,069
Speaker 6: And then you've got the pillow, but then you can

1305
00:50:51,130 --> 00:50:53,029
Speaker 6: unfold it as well into, like, a three-part thing.

1306
00:50:53,350 --> 00:50:54,450
Speaker 4: I like it. It'll be great.

1307
00:50:54,610 --> 00:50:55,750
Speaker 2: Okay, this is great. This is great.

1308
00:50:55,790 --> 00:50:56,070
Speaker 4: Okay.

1309
00:50:56,350 --> 00:51:00,060
Speaker 1: Also, can this at any point, like, could this double

1310
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 1: as one of those things that keeps your fitted sheet

1311
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,140
Speaker 1: on the bed? You ever get really annoyed with the

1312
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 1: fitted sheet, like, kind of, like, flicks up over one

1313
00:51:07,260 --> 00:51:07,760
Speaker 1: of the corners?

1314
00:51:08,140 --> 00:51:09,340
Speaker 4: Yeah. Oh.

1315
00:51:09,850 --> 00:51:11,710
Speaker 6: That is a great idea.

1316
00:51:11,750 --> 00:51:12,710
Speaker 2: Yes, there we go.

1317
00:51:13,150 --> 00:51:15,029
Speaker 1: I'm glad you're here, because Odi probably was going to

1318
00:51:15,050 --> 00:51:16,630
Speaker 1: steal that in about two weeks.

1319
00:51:17,050 --> 00:51:20,190
Speaker 2: I was about to say different issue. We'll fucking solve

1320
00:51:20,230 --> 00:51:23,810
Speaker 2: that later. It probably would keep, because it's so tight

1321
00:51:23,850 --> 00:51:27,570
Speaker 2: on the middle, though. It might just keep it from moving. Okay.

1322
00:51:27,590 --> 00:51:28,180
Speaker 1: That's a good point.

1323
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:28,779
Speaker 2: We'll see what happens.

1324
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:30,460
Speaker 1: And then if we get one and it doesn't fix

1325
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: that issue, you know what?

1326
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 4: Fuck it.

1327
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:33,410
Speaker 2: We'll fix that issue while we're at it. I do

1328
00:51:33,450 --> 00:51:33,930
Speaker 2: know a company.

1329
00:51:33,950 --> 00:51:35,630
Speaker 6: Well, I'm just thinking, is there a way to add

1330
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Speaker 6: a rope thing that goes around the corners then with

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00:51:38,050 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 6: it that keeps the corners down?

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00:51:39,820 --> 00:51:40,340
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 2: Just rope the whole bed. Yeah.

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00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:47,380
Speaker 1: Mummify let's just wrap a bed in glad wrap and

1335
00:51:47,420 --> 00:51:51,009
Speaker 1: just not use it let's do what old people do

1336
00:51:51,030 --> 00:51:52,830
Speaker 1: with their lounges they put plastic around the thing and

1337
00:51:52,850 --> 00:51:54,210
Speaker 1: just be like you're not allowed.

1338
00:51:53,910 --> 00:51:57,590
Speaker 2: To sit on it put that on our girlfriend's side

1339
00:51:57,610 --> 00:51:59,950
Speaker 2: be like you can't sleep there yeah yeah the floor

1340
00:52:00,050 --> 00:52:05,049
Speaker 2: there's a floor there all right so this is where

1341
00:52:05,070 --> 00:52:08,070
Speaker 2: we're a little bit stuck Where do you want to

1342
00:52:08,110 --> 00:52:09,270
Speaker 2: go from here, Sarah?

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00:52:09,290 --> 00:52:10,310
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.

1344
00:52:10,370 --> 00:52:12,870
Speaker 2: Making sure it's still fun, you're enjoying it, you're enjoying

1345
00:52:12,890 --> 00:52:15,110
Speaker 2: your time, part of the bed divider team. Oh, 100%.

1346
00:52:15,110 --> 00:52:15,650
Speaker 4: I'm enjoying it.

1347
00:52:15,790 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 2: Awesome, awesome. Okay, that's good. That's tick number one. So

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00:52:18,140 --> 00:52:20,380
Speaker 2: we're thinking a prototype probably is the next step.

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00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 6: Yep, sounds good.

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00:52:22,300 --> 00:52:28,580
Speaker 2: Would you be happy to initiate the build process? Yeah,

1351
00:52:29,020 --> 00:52:29,379
Speaker 2: of course.

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00:52:29,540 --> 00:52:32,069
Speaker 6: In the next two weeks, I actually have a bit

1353
00:52:32,090 --> 00:52:34,989
Speaker 6: of a study break so I can focus more on

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00:52:35,030 --> 00:52:36,009
Speaker 6: getting this prototype done.

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00:52:36,190 --> 00:52:37,390
Speaker 1: Bloody oath, send us a bill.

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00:52:37,530 --> 00:52:38,330
Speaker 2: Perfect. Fucking oath.

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00:52:38,489 --> 00:52:39,550
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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00:52:39,570 --> 00:52:41,710
Speaker 2: We'll pay you. Sarah didn't want to be paid last time.

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00:52:41,750 --> 00:52:43,549
Speaker 2: She's like, we'll wait. Nah, you got to take money. No, no,

1360
00:52:43,610 --> 00:52:45,490
Speaker 2: she does. But she didn't want to be like paid

1361
00:52:45,530 --> 00:52:46,980
Speaker 2: last two weeks ago. She's like, we'll wait to get

1362
00:52:47,020 --> 00:52:49,620
Speaker 2: the final product. She's there for the long run. Right, okay.

1363
00:52:49,660 --> 00:52:51,320
Speaker 2: I like it. The commitment. Yeah, the commitment.

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00:52:51,340 --> 00:52:53,219
Speaker 6: Well, I didn't want you to think that I was

1365
00:52:53,260 --> 00:52:54,859
Speaker 6: just going to come up with some ideas. You pay

1366
00:52:54,900 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 6: me and then I'm done. Oh yeah, I'm done now.

1367
00:52:56,540 --> 00:52:58,320
Speaker 6: So I was like, I'm waiting for that to get

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00:52:58,340 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 6: to the prototype.

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00:52:59,180 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 1: To be fair, even if you did and then we

1370
00:53:00,500 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 1: took your idea and made money, all we had to

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00:53:01,860 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 1: do was pay for the idea.

1372
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.

1373
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,390
Speaker 2: That is true. But no, I feel like this has

1374
00:53:07,410 --> 00:53:10,290
Speaker 2: been a great group effort and... Not really.

1375
00:53:10,330 --> 00:53:11,150
Speaker 1: Sarah did most of it.

1376
00:53:11,270 --> 00:53:11,710
Speaker 4: I feel like.

1377
00:53:13,650 --> 00:53:15,350
Speaker 2: You came up with the idea, mate. That's a good point.

1378
00:53:15,770 --> 00:53:16,330
Speaker 2: That's a good point.

1379
00:53:16,570 --> 00:53:18,569
Speaker 1: We wouldn't be here without Oddy's idea for Shark Tank,

1380
00:53:18,590 --> 00:53:20,370
Speaker 1: my idea for the business and then Sarah's ideas for

1381
00:53:20,390 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: making it.

1382
00:53:20,710 --> 00:53:25,509
Speaker 2: There we go. Team effort. And then, Oddy, I guess

1383
00:53:25,530 --> 00:53:27,390
Speaker 2: we could get the product working and then would you

1384
00:53:27,410 --> 00:53:29,030
Speaker 2: be willing to test it with your partner?

1385
00:53:29,890 --> 00:53:32,580
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's what I figured I'd do. So I'd make it,

1386
00:53:32,730 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 6: test it and then... find a way to somehow get

1387
00:53:37,300 --> 00:53:38,859
Speaker 6: it to you guys as well so then you can

1388
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:39,830
Speaker 6: let us know.

1389
00:53:39,700 --> 00:53:43,529
Speaker 2: Would love a voice message from your partner like a

1390
00:53:43,570 --> 00:53:45,390
Speaker 2: zero input from us just what he thinks about it

1391
00:53:45,430 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 2: yeah yeah yeah I will let him know it'll be

1392
00:53:49,260 --> 00:53:50,900
Speaker 2: the first review yeah yeah.

1393
00:53:50,660 --> 00:53:54,140
Speaker 6: I am partly worried because I realised planning all of this.

1394
00:53:54,500 --> 00:53:56,779
Speaker 6: This is not helpful for me though, because I really

1395
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:58,360
Speaker 6: like to be able to lean over and just have

1396
00:53:58,400 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 6: my kid.

1397
00:53:58,660 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 4: On the floor.

1398
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 2: We're helping him.

1399
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:02,320
Speaker 6: I'm like, what am I actually planning against myself?

1400
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:06,140
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes. But sometimes in relationships, you've got

1401
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:10,660
Speaker 2: to sacrifice your partner. And this might be one of

1402
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:13,489
Speaker 2: those times. Yes, you guys can do 50-50 with the

1403
00:54:13,510 --> 00:54:15,009
Speaker 2: bed divider, without the bed divider.

1404
00:54:16,010 --> 00:54:16,310
Speaker 1: All right.

1405
00:54:16,730 --> 00:54:20,170
Speaker 2: Well, we'll leave it there, Sarah. We'll text you some details.

1406
00:54:20,210 --> 00:54:21,810
Speaker 2: And if you have any questions as well about the

1407
00:54:21,870 --> 00:54:25,150
Speaker 2: finalization of what we actually... think of how this could work.

1408
00:54:25,650 --> 00:54:28,100
Speaker 2: We'll make that happen. But firstly, thank you very much

1409
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 2: and we'll talk to you soon.

1410
00:54:30,060 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, look forward to it.

1411
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:31,299
Speaker 2: Thanks, guys.

1412
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:31,860
Speaker 4: Perfect.

1413
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:32,379
Speaker 1: Have a good day.

1414
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:32,820
Speaker 4: Bye.

1415
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:35,219
Speaker 3: See you.

1416
00:54:35,260 --> 00:54:36,839
Speaker 2: I'm so excited. Sarah's a weapon.

1417
00:54:36,940 --> 00:54:41,020
Speaker 1: I'm so excited for this because Beth's been, ever since,

1418
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if I, I think I told the

1419
00:54:42,100 --> 00:54:44,850
Speaker 1: story about Henry eating his hair. Ever since then, Beth's

1420
00:54:44,870 --> 00:54:46,550
Speaker 1: been too scared to let him, to keep him in

1421
00:54:46,590 --> 00:54:48,350
Speaker 1: his crate. She's just like being a bit of a

1422
00:54:48,350 --> 00:54:50,490
Speaker 1: worrywart about it, right? And so he's just been chilling,

1423
00:54:50,530 --> 00:54:51,430
Speaker 1: sleeping on the end of the bed.

1424
00:54:52,010 --> 00:54:54,489
Speaker 2: Henry, I can, do you reckon, now you've just said that,

1425
00:54:54,570 --> 00:54:57,290
Speaker 2: Henry's a fucking little brat. He's probably ate his hair

1426
00:54:57,310 --> 00:54:59,110
Speaker 2: to do exactly what Beth's doing.

1427
00:54:59,170 --> 00:54:59,410
Speaker 4: I know.

1428
00:54:59,870 --> 00:55:02,569
Speaker 1: Fuck her, right? Anyway, sleeps in between her legs or

1429
00:55:02,610 --> 00:55:05,430
Speaker 1: maybe something like that. So if he's sleeping in between

1430
00:55:05,469 --> 00:55:07,509
Speaker 1: her legs, she sleeps like a triangle.

1431
00:55:07,530 --> 00:55:10,190
Speaker 2: Yeah. And I have dead set. We have a king

1432
00:55:10,230 --> 00:55:10,870
Speaker 2: bed at the moment.

1433
00:55:10,890 --> 00:55:11,170
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1434
00:55:11,989 --> 00:55:14,089
Speaker 1: I genuinely have this much space. And to everybody that's

1435
00:55:14,110 --> 00:55:15,450
Speaker 1: just listening, it's like 300 millimeters.

1436
00:55:15,469 --> 00:55:19,580
Speaker 2: Bro, I'm telling you, like when I'm older, or next

1437
00:55:19,620 --> 00:55:22,410
Speaker 2: time I, why do beds last so long? Like 10

1438
00:55:22,410 --> 00:55:23,270
Speaker 2: years or whatever.

1439
00:55:23,570 --> 00:55:24,969
Speaker 1: They can last as long as you want them to last.

1440
00:55:24,989 --> 00:55:27,350
Speaker 2: True, but we have like an expensive, shout out to Koala.

1441
00:55:27,390 --> 00:55:30,940
Speaker 2: They have this actually great bed. Good bed. 10 out

1442
00:55:31,060 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 2: of 10 bed. I might hit them up for when

1443
00:55:33,140 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 2: I move out of my parents' place. I want two

1444
00:55:34,860 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 2: king singles next to each other. How big of a

1445
00:55:39,260 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 2: space between? I don't even care because the way a

1446
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,609
Speaker 2: bed like- No, Odi, don't. That would just totally make

1447
00:55:46,660 --> 00:55:52,340
Speaker 2: our idea useless. No, but that's a $ 3, 000 idea. Oh,

1448
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 2: our idea is like one bed instead of two beds.

1449
00:55:55,020 --> 00:56:00,839
Speaker 2: Ours will be hopefully $ 89. 99. Obviously, it's going to be $ 69.

1450
00:56:00,739 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 4: 99.

1451
00:56:00,780 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 2: True, true. And also, guess where else you can buy it?

1452
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:04,280
Speaker 2: Depends on materials.

1453
00:56:04,300 --> 00:56:07,700
Speaker 1: You can buy it at Adair's, Meijer, David Jones. Maybe

1454
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:08,410
Speaker 1: Kmart can pick it up.

1455
00:56:08,410 --> 00:56:11,310
Speaker 2: We don't know this. Now, fuck Kmart. That is dropship stuff.

1456
00:56:11,350 --> 00:56:12,969
Speaker 2: An adult shop. An adult shop.

1457
00:56:13,630 --> 00:56:13,989
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah.

1458
00:56:14,050 --> 00:56:17,210
Speaker 2: I like that. Let's start there. I want to be

1459
00:56:17,250 --> 00:56:18,549
Speaker 2: one of those people. You know, back in the day,

1460
00:56:18,610 --> 00:56:20,230
Speaker 2: how like when you had a product, you'd just go

1461
00:56:20,270 --> 00:56:22,910
Speaker 2: into like, A general shop and be like, hey, I

1462
00:56:22,950 --> 00:56:24,870
Speaker 2: sell the bed by now. Do you want to stock

1463
00:56:24,930 --> 00:56:26,290
Speaker 2: it for me? I can get you 50 units.

1464
00:56:26,390 --> 00:56:26,549
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1465
00:56:26,730 --> 00:56:28,470
Speaker 2: Let's start doing that with sex shops.

1466
00:56:28,730 --> 00:56:29,610
Speaker 1: That's a good idea.

1467
00:56:29,690 --> 00:56:29,810
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1468
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:37,819
Speaker 2: Baddies, it's time for comments. If you want to get

1469
00:56:37,860 --> 00:56:40,140
Speaker 2: a comment read, simply comment on the episode you are

1470
00:56:40,180 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 2: listening to. I've got episode 41. He's so fucking hot.

1471
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 2: Ella Hopeskin. Okay. Thoughts on the bed divider. I think

1472
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:53,780
Speaker 2: the magnets could be tricky to wash in the machine

1473
00:56:54,130 --> 00:56:56,950
Speaker 2: if sewn into the sheet. Magnets in the washer or dryer,

1474
00:56:56,989 --> 00:57:00,049
Speaker 2: question mark? Nah, good idea. All right, but I don't know.

1475
00:57:00,370 --> 00:57:02,290
Speaker 1: Unlucky for you, you haven't listened to this episode yet,

1476
00:57:02,350 --> 00:57:04,890
Speaker 1: so we've got an even better idea. I got YouTube,

1477
00:57:05,050 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 1: episode 42, all men want is sex. Ashley Allen. Hey,

1478
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 1: so I found you guys through your Throne of Glass recaps.

1479
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:13,900
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah.

1480
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:14,260
Speaker 2: Hectic.

1481
00:57:14,870 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 1: Enjoy your respect for each topic you discuss from books

1482
00:57:17,430 --> 00:57:20,900
Speaker 1: to submitted questions. You maintain empathy while deep diving and

1483
00:57:20,940 --> 00:57:21,820
Speaker 1: providing advice.

1484
00:57:21,940 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 2: It is powerful.

1485
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:25,500
Speaker 1: I didn't really have any empathy this fucking week. To

1486
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:28,030
Speaker 1: the girl, such anyone being pressured by your partner. I've

1487
00:57:28,050 --> 00:57:30,090
Speaker 1: been with my now husband for 10 years. I have

1488
00:57:30,410 --> 00:57:34,530
Speaker 1: my own hangups around intimacy due to PTSD. He has

1489
00:57:34,570 --> 00:57:37,610
Speaker 1: never pressured me for more, even when we go through gaps.

1490
00:57:37,970 --> 00:57:39,900
Speaker 1: There are men out there that will understand whether you

1491
00:57:39,940 --> 00:57:42,180
Speaker 1: have a diagnosis or not. There are men who will

1492
00:57:42,220 --> 00:57:44,850
Speaker 1: stop mid hookup just because you asked them to. Do

1493
00:57:44,870 --> 00:57:46,870
Speaker 1: not settle for a man who makes you feel pressure

1494
00:57:46,910 --> 00:57:49,310
Speaker 1: to do anything you aren't comfortable with no matter how

1495
00:57:49,350 --> 00:57:50,350
Speaker 1: long you have been together.

1496
00:57:51,010 --> 00:57:52,150
Speaker 2: Yes.

1497
00:57:52,430 --> 00:57:52,710
Speaker 5: Yes.

1498
00:57:52,970 --> 00:57:56,910
Speaker 2: Very well said. That was in relation to someone's partner

1499
00:57:56,930 --> 00:58:01,020
Speaker 2: wanting to have sex with him five times every week.

1500
00:58:01,340 --> 00:58:02,380
Speaker 2: That was last week's dilemma.

1501
00:58:02,420 --> 00:58:02,620
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1502
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:03,700
Speaker 1: Five out of seven.

1503
00:58:03,740 --> 00:58:06,180
Speaker 2: Two weeks ago. Bro, that pissed me off too. Oh,

1504
00:58:06,860 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 2: All right, baddies, it's time for one of you to

1505
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:11,390
Speaker 2: sign off the episode. The link will be in the

1506
00:58:11,430 --> 00:58:13,430
Speaker 2: description and we can call you and ask for a

1507
00:58:13,510 --> 00:58:16,450
Speaker 2: riddle or a quote or you can tell us a joke.

1508
00:58:16,490 --> 00:58:20,030
Speaker 2: You can do whatever you want. Literally. Jake, today, who

1509
00:58:20,230 --> 00:58:21,210
Speaker 2: are we going to call?

1510
00:58:21,330 --> 00:58:24,170
Speaker 1: Brady. And we're actually... This will be the second time

1511
00:58:24,190 --> 00:58:26,290
Speaker 1: we call Brady because I believe we called him once

1512
00:58:26,450 --> 00:58:27,290
Speaker 1: and he was driving.

1513
00:58:27,490 --> 00:58:29,990
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he said he couldn't pick up his notes. Yeah.

1514
00:58:30,110 --> 00:58:30,470
Speaker 1: That's all right.

1515
00:58:30,490 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 2: We'll fucking.

1516
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:33,500
Speaker 1: We'll give Brady another try, see what happens. What if

1517
00:58:33,540 --> 00:58:34,820
Speaker 1: it's like Brady that we.

1518
00:58:35,850 --> 00:58:36,010
Speaker 4: It was.

1519
00:58:36,210 --> 00:58:37,750
Speaker 1: There's two men that we've called. One of them we

1520
00:58:37,790 --> 00:58:38,510
Speaker 1: needed to call back.

1521
00:58:38,590 --> 00:58:42,450
Speaker 2: Was it Brady? We're going to find out.

1522
00:58:42,470 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 1: We're about to find out.

1523
00:58:43,130 --> 00:58:46,150
Speaker 2: I know Brady's on Patreon, but... Legend. I see his name.

1524
00:58:46,470 --> 00:58:47,330
Speaker 4: Hello, this is Brady.

1525
00:58:47,590 --> 00:58:49,810
Speaker 2: Brady. It's Odie and Jake from the Relatables podcast. We're

1526
00:58:49,830 --> 00:58:50,350
Speaker 2: calling you back.

1527
00:58:50,370 --> 00:58:52,650
Speaker 4: Oh, hey. How's it going?

1528
00:58:52,770 --> 00:58:53,430
Speaker 2: Really good.

1529
00:58:53,470 --> 00:58:53,910
Speaker 1: How are you?

1530
00:58:53,930 --> 00:58:56,530
Speaker 4: I'm doing good. I'm doing good. How are you, boys?

1531
00:58:56,790 --> 00:58:57,410
Speaker 4: We are.

1532
00:58:57,470 --> 00:59:00,550
Speaker 1: We're doing very well. And we were actually conversing before

1533
00:59:00,570 --> 00:59:04,910
Speaker 1: we called you, and we were wondering if... we've called

1534
00:59:05,010 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: two men in the last couple of months, right? One

1535
00:59:07,220 --> 00:59:08,950
Speaker 1: of them we needed to call back because they were

1536
00:59:08,970 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 1: driving and we were wondering if it was you it

1537
00:59:11,970 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 1: was not me that's all right any of anyway do

1538
00:59:14,500 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 1: you want to start the episode again.

1539
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 4: Who was sure i'll give it a go yeah no.

1540
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 2: No no yeah brady you're on patreon.

1541
00:59:21,060 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 4: Buddy yeah i'm patreon yeah.

1542
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:26,020
Speaker 2: I see where are you from i see your comments

1543
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,770
Speaker 2: I'm in Perth. Perth? Hell yeah. Let's go. The men

1544
00:59:29,810 --> 00:59:31,830
Speaker 2: in Perth like us, eh? Yeah, we need to go

1545
00:59:31,850 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 2: to Perth. Yeah, we do, eh?

1546
00:59:33,490 --> 00:59:34,689
Speaker 4: You do. I think you need to do a live

1547
00:59:34,710 --> 00:59:35,270
Speaker 4: show here.

1548
00:59:35,370 --> 00:59:40,140
Speaker 2: Scary, Brady. Wait, Brady, what would you want to see

1549
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:40,780
Speaker 2: at a live show?

1550
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,340
Speaker 1: Because we're like mad scared to do it because we've

1551
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:44,700
Speaker 1: been to live shows where they're like really funny. So

1552
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: we think, oh, a live show needs to be funny,

1553
00:59:45,980 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 1: needs to be like entertaining, blah, blah, blah. What would

1554
00:59:47,860 --> 00:59:48,940
Speaker 1: you want to see at a live show?

1555
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1556
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:53,150
Speaker 3: I guess it's just like a live podcast like you

1557
00:59:53,170 --> 00:59:55,430
Speaker 3: guys just being you guys and just doing your thing.

1558
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 4: And I'm sure you can get some crowd interaction involved. Yes.

1559
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:03,890
Speaker 2: We'll call you at the end, Brady. We'll get Brady

1560
01:00:03,930 --> 01:00:04,260
Speaker 2: on stage.

1561
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, get him up.

1562
01:00:04,780 --> 01:00:05,750
Speaker 2: Keep signing up.

1563
01:00:05,810 --> 01:00:07,270
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can get on stage with

1564
01:00:07,290 --> 01:00:09,710
Speaker 1: your voice next to mine. You've got a deep, sexy voice.

1565
01:00:10,850 --> 01:00:12,850
Speaker 2: Are you like 6'7? You sound tall. Yeah, how tall

1566
01:00:12,870 --> 01:00:13,070
Speaker 2: are you?

1567
01:00:14,050 --> 01:00:14,950
Speaker 4: I am actually 6'7. Fuck off!

1568
01:00:15,030 --> 01:00:18,310
Speaker 2: No, you're not. You're not coming on stage with us, Brady.

1569
01:00:18,350 --> 01:00:19,590
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

1570
01:00:19,910 --> 01:00:22,550
Speaker 2: How did I guess that? You're lying.

1571
01:00:22,710 --> 01:00:26,870
Speaker 4: Yeah, Jake. Jake, you can stand in between me and Odi. No. No, bro.

1572
01:00:26,930 --> 01:00:29,230
Speaker 2: Imagine Brady's like 5'4. So, yeah, I'm 6'7.

1573
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:29,380
Speaker 4: 6'7.

1574
01:00:29,380 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 2: No, we've got to meet Brady. Brady, are you single?

1575
01:00:35,580 --> 01:00:36,790
Speaker 4: I am figuring it out.

1576
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:38,820
Speaker 2: Oh, Brady! Let's find Brady a lady!

1577
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:39,310
Speaker 5: He's 6'7!

1578
01:00:39,380 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 2: That would be Perth's segment.

1579
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:44,590
Speaker 4: Find and love Brady. Shit. I gotta say, Brady's not

1580
01:00:44,610 --> 01:00:46,830
Speaker 4: looking for a lady. He's looking for a man.

1581
01:00:46,850 --> 01:00:49,050
Speaker 2: He's looking for a man. That's alright. We can help

1582
01:00:49,070 --> 01:00:50,350
Speaker 2: you with that. Yeah, we can help you with that.

1583
01:00:50,370 --> 01:00:53,590
Speaker 2: Sorry for assuming. No, we can help you with that too.

1584
01:00:53,710 --> 01:00:55,620
Speaker 4: Even with your limited male audience?

1585
01:00:55,660 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 2: Hey, mate.

1586
01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 1: If they're listening to us, at least they're hopefully healthy.

1587
01:00:58,940 --> 01:01:04,080
Speaker 2: They're probably good men. Six, seven.

1588
01:01:04,180 --> 01:01:05,060
Speaker 4: Oh, six, seven.

1589
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 1: Go do the hand thing.

1590
01:01:05,700 --> 01:01:09,850
Speaker 2: Sorry. So, yeah, sorry for putting you on the spot again,

1591
01:01:09,890 --> 01:01:12,050
Speaker 2: but are you happy to sign off the episode with

1592
01:01:12,130 --> 01:01:14,130
Speaker 2: a riddle, a quote, anything you live by again?

1593
01:01:14,150 --> 01:01:17,870
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I found my notes from when you last

1594
01:01:17,950 --> 01:01:19,790
Speaker 3: called me and what the riddles I had prepared.

1595
01:01:19,810 --> 01:01:21,910
Speaker 4: So, I guess we're going with another riddle.

1596
01:01:21,990 --> 01:01:24,140
Speaker 2: You made us laugh. I remember that comment.

1597
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 4: Okay, let's go. Okay. All right. It's another dirty one.

1598
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. Sorry.

1599
01:01:35,430 --> 01:01:36,550
Speaker 2: You are a man.

1600
01:01:36,570 --> 01:01:37,390
Speaker 1: You are a man, Brady.

1601
01:01:37,410 --> 01:01:38,170
Speaker 2: It's all right.

1602
01:01:38,190 --> 01:01:38,350
Speaker 4: Yep.

1603
01:01:39,550 --> 01:01:42,910
Speaker 3: You stick your poles inside me. You tie me down

1604
01:01:42,930 --> 01:01:45,990
Speaker 3: to get me up. I get wet before you do.

1605
01:01:46,650 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 3: What am I?

1606
01:01:47,330 --> 01:01:47,710
Speaker 1: I got this.

1607
01:01:47,750 --> 01:01:49,650
Speaker 4: A tent. Oh, thanks.

1608
01:01:50,230 --> 01:01:51,890
Speaker 2: Oh, shit.

1609
01:01:51,930 --> 01:01:52,550
Speaker 4: The poles thing.

1610
01:01:52,590 --> 01:01:54,110
Speaker 2: As soon as you said it, I was like, oh.

1611
01:01:54,210 --> 01:01:55,530
Speaker 2: As soon as you said tie me down to lift

1612
01:01:55,550 --> 01:01:56,410
Speaker 2: me up, I thought I'm done.

1613
01:01:56,430 --> 01:01:56,690
Speaker 4: I've got this.

1614
01:01:56,750 --> 01:02:00,450
Speaker 2: I didn't have that idea. Well, Brady, thank you very

1615
01:02:00,510 --> 01:02:02,130
Speaker 2: much for saving the episode.

1616
01:02:03,370 --> 01:02:05,090
Speaker 4: Thank you. Thank you for the call. It's been great.

1617
01:02:05,330 --> 01:02:07,230
Speaker 2: And we'll see you in Perth, hopefully.

1618
01:02:07,350 --> 01:02:07,730
Speaker 4: Yes.

1619
01:02:08,030 --> 01:02:10,970
Speaker 2: We've got your number, Brady, so we'll be calling you

1620
01:02:10,990 --> 01:02:11,430
Speaker 2: to meet up.

1621
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:15,140
Speaker 4: Can't wait. Thanks, boys. Have a good day. You too.

1622
01:02:16,780 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 2: He'll just have to wear some flat shoes for you, mate.

1623
01:02:19,100 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 2: I'm just going to get some heel juice. What are

1624
01:02:20,540 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 2: you talking about? I'm going to have to get stilts.

1625
01:02:22,940 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 2: Six foot seven. It'd be so funny. He's definitely six, seven,

1626
01:02:26,060 --> 01:02:28,700
Speaker 2: but like live show, get him up, have a full segment.

1627
01:02:28,780 --> 01:02:32,390
Speaker 2: And then like, he's not six, seven. Six, seven deep voice.

1628
01:02:32,660 --> 01:02:34,689
Speaker 2: I guess that off his voice. I swear to God,

1629
01:02:34,710 --> 01:02:37,910
Speaker 2: if he's ripped, I'd walk off. We've talked to two

1630
01:02:37,970 --> 01:02:40,090
Speaker 2: men from Perth who we've met through the podcast, haven't

1631
01:02:40,110 --> 01:02:44,140
Speaker 2: met Brady in real life. How tall is Harry? 6'5.

1632
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:44,210
Speaker 3: 6'5.

1633
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 2: What's 12 and Harry? What are they eating? Harry has

1634
01:02:46,780 --> 01:02:48,420
Speaker 2: a deep voice too. What are they eating in Perth?

1635
01:02:48,460 --> 01:02:51,300
Speaker 2: Harry has a really deep... What's in the water over there, bro? Yeah,

1636
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:54,430
Speaker 2: what the hell? It's the desert heat. Get some, bro.

1637
01:02:54,490 --> 01:02:56,670
Speaker 2: It's not really the desert. I thought it was. Is

1638
01:02:56,730 --> 01:03:00,150
Speaker 2: it considered... No, it's not. Everyone in Perth just lives

1639
01:03:00,170 --> 01:03:00,630
Speaker 2: on the water.

1640
01:03:00,650 --> 01:03:04,150
Speaker 1: Bro, you can have a desert that meets the ocean.

1641
01:03:04,670 --> 01:03:04,990
Speaker 2: Can you?

1642
01:03:05,230 --> 01:03:05,430
Speaker 4: Yes.

1643
01:03:05,470 --> 01:03:08,180
Speaker 2: Doesn't it kind of go the opposite of a desert then?

1644
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:09,700
Speaker 4: No.

1645
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:15,130
Speaker 2: Desert means like Desert. You can have desert that meets

1646
01:03:15,170 --> 01:03:19,350
Speaker 2: the water. Let us know below. And then while you're

1647
01:03:19,370 --> 01:03:23,209
Speaker 2: doing that, baddies, on YouTube, we are going for 50,000 subscribers.

1648
01:03:23,250 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 2: Be sure to sub, hype, like, comment. Thank you very much.

1649
01:03:27,780 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 2: And stay bad.