WEBVTT - GETTING HOT IN THE KITCHEN WITH SARAH TODD (MASTERCHEF RUNNER UP)

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>my kissing style with.

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<v Speaker 1>The boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours.

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<v Speaker 3>He's in a trash bin.

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<v Speaker 1>He's non recyclable, catching them up.

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<v Speaker 2>I love being love. I love love.

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<v Speaker 4>On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we are

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<v Speaker 4>thrilled to welcome Sarah Todd into the studio.

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<v Speaker 5>Sarah is a runner up from Mastership Australia twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 5>two and we are looking forward to hearing about her

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<v Speaker 5>time on this season of the show and how it

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<v Speaker 5>differed from the last.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we have Sar.

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<v Speaker 5>We are It's hard at the runner up from Master

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<v Speaker 5>Chef Australia in the studio today.

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<v Speaker 1>We are so excited to have you in here. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? I feel like? He's really laughing at

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<v Speaker 3>me for coming second.

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<v Speaker 2>That I honestly thought you were going to win.

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<v Speaker 5>No, Well, I was backing you one hundred percent. I've

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<v Speaker 5>been watching the season. Your cooks are amazing, Michael, and

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<v Speaker 5>I actually went to your pop up before you were

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<v Speaker 5>even on the show, and I swear to god, it

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<v Speaker 5>was the best Indian food that we have ever eaten, Like,

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<v Speaker 5>hands down, it was like this Indian fusion, amazing food.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was all on you to win.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, thank you, And it's it is a hard pill

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<v Speaker 3>to swallow because it's a huge deal. I think holding

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<v Speaker 3>up that Master Chef trophy there's a lot more than

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<v Speaker 3>just the money that comes with it. I think that

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<v Speaker 3>Master Chef is really respected globally and I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>even coming second, I think is a huge, a huge thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And I mean I came night in my first season

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<v Speaker 3>and I've managed to create a career out of it

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<v Speaker 3>after that. So second, I'm not complaining.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, how did this year change from the first year

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<v Speaker 4>you went on there in two thousand and fourty And

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<v Speaker 4>what was different?

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<v Speaker 3>I definitely I walked in thinking that I wasn't going

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<v Speaker 3>to put as much pressure on me this time round,

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<v Speaker 3>because I think having that experience and working in the industry.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought I had the tools to get through it,

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<v Speaker 3>but I realized there was more pressure because it's now

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<v Speaker 3>it's credibility. It's you know, the pressure of you know,

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<v Speaker 3>showing that you can do it, showing that you're a

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<v Speaker 3>good cook, putting myself out there. I think my ego

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<v Speaker 3>was a little bit scared as well. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it took me time to go, Okay, it's fine, relax,

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<v Speaker 3>you can cook. It's just food at the end of

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<v Speaker 3>the day. It's not saving lives. And I think once

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<v Speaker 3>I got to that point where I was like, it's

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<v Speaker 3>it's okay, I can relax and I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 3>lose anything from doing this, I think I started to

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<v Speaker 3>relax and enjoy it a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you have a feeling that you were going to

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<v Speaker 5>do well well, because I mean, second is amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't. It's weird. I think I'm such an overthinker.

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<v Speaker 3>Put so much pressure on myself and I just set

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<v Speaker 3>small targets. I was like, Okay, I need to make

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<v Speaker 3>it to top ten. But until I got to top ten,

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<v Speaker 3>I was freaking out the entire time. Like every cook

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<v Speaker 3>was highly stressful. And yeah, I think that because Master

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<v Speaker 3>Chef is a show that is it's really respected. I

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<v Speaker 3>think you do take it very seriously every time you

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<v Speaker 3>walk in the kitchen. So I think that drive helped

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<v Speaker 3>me to keep pushing myself. And I didn't think that

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<v Speaker 3>I would grow in the competition. I thought that I'd

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<v Speaker 3>just go in, I'd cook the dishes that I knew,

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<v Speaker 3>But I realized pretty quickly that I needed to, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>find my own personal cooking style a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 3>I think a lot of the time I was cooking

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<v Speaker 3>dishes that were maybe replicated from something I was taught

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<v Speaker 3>in India, or it was a dish that I had

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<v Speaker 3>on my menu. But you can't just whip those kind

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<v Speaker 3>of dishes out all the time. You need to find

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<v Speaker 3>your own cooking style. And I think that. But that's

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<v Speaker 3>one piece of advice that I often had people saying

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<v Speaker 3>to me, was find your own style. And that can

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<v Speaker 3>be in any industry. But it's so hard to find

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<v Speaker 3>your own style, like you keep pulling pieces from everywhere

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<v Speaker 3>and until you get there. And I think through this season,

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<v Speaker 3>I got there.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I'm a massive fan of Master Chef. I love

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<v Speaker 4>watching it. Are the mystery Box challenge is real. They

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<v Speaker 4>legit like I think everyone wants to know, like do

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<v Speaker 4>you generally have no idea?

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<v Speaker 2>You have to make them up on the spot.

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<v Speaker 3>One hundred percent honestly. Like the first time when I

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<v Speaker 3>went into Master Chef, I was watching a mystery box

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<v Speaker 3>on TV. They lifted the lid and I started crying

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<v Speaker 3>because I was like, I can't think of anything to cook.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, this can't be real. They must let you

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<v Speaker 3>lift the box, go out the back, google some recipes

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<v Speaker 3>and come back a cook. No, they do not let

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<v Speaker 3>you google.

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<v Speaker 2>How long do you have just like on the spot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you just lift the lid and then you have

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<v Speaker 3>to start cooking, like there's no googling in between, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>So terrifying it is.

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<v Speaker 5>There's no mental blanks because no one's had a mental

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<v Speaker 5>blank from my recollection watching the show, have they?

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<v Speaker 3>There's definitely mental blanks. You're thinking what did I do that?

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<v Speaker 4>It's literally like me opening the pantry every night when

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<v Speaker 4>I get home.

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<v Speaker 2>What can I cook it?

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<v Speaker 1>Here?

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<v Speaker 3>Google? Yah? Even still the same.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you think of this year? Have you cooked

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<v Speaker 2>the dreaded rocken Bush? Is that what it was?

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<v Speaker 5>Kro Rock?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. What it is,

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<v Speaker 2>but it looks scary.

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<v Speaker 3>I have never made a crook and bush and made it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's shoe pastry, so I've made that before,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's just the level of what my crook and

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<v Speaker 3>bush pastry is not really my thing. I'm more savory

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<v Speaker 3>for sure, so I usually in my restaurant give it

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<v Speaker 3>to the pastry team to do. But I wouldn't let

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<v Speaker 3>me bring anyone into MASTERSHEV this season, so it was

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<v Speaker 3>a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a little tricky.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's maybe cook one and let me know how you go.

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<v Speaker 5>I have a question because I did your YouTube series recently.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, when I say recently, this was like back in November, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Think, and you had just told me that you were

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<v Speaker 5>on this season of Master Chef and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have been filming pretty much up until that time. Like

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<v Speaker 1>that seems like so long. How long have you been

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<v Speaker 1>filming for?

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<v Speaker 3>It's about six months filming. It is huge. It's sixty

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<v Speaker 3>one episode, so it's yeah, it's massive. And I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's like this crazy apprenticeship where you are just thrown

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<v Speaker 3>into everything about food, and I think that's why you

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<v Speaker 3>grow so much. You're just living and breathing food. So

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<v Speaker 3>it's it's an amazing thing to go through.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you said before you found your style on what

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<v Speaker 4>your cooking style was, it's Indian inspired. What made you

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<v Speaker 4>come up with this inspired?

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<v Speaker 2>Quaisin?

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<v Speaker 3>So my son is half Indian, so I lived with

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<v Speaker 3>his family for some time, so Punjabi family, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was really quite crazy because I would be studying at

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<v Speaker 3>French culinary school and bringing home these classical French dishes

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<v Speaker 3>and then my son's grandma would be throwing in these

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<v Speaker 3>spices and making you know, beautiful Indian dishes, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was such a contrast in dishes. So I just fell

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<v Speaker 3>in love with it. I remember her watching Bollywood on

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<v Speaker 3>TV and throwing spices into a pot, and I'm sitting

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<v Speaker 3>there trying to write it down. But it's like, Indian

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<v Speaker 3>food isn't about writing down recipes. It's about, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>just feeling the food, putting love into it, and just

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<v Speaker 3>finding the balance.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh what is your favorite dish?

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<v Speaker 3>Gosh, you know what, there's so many now. I think

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<v Speaker 3>my favorite's probably gema, which is like a it's a

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<v Speaker 3>spiced mince meat. But I think it's probably partly also

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<v Speaker 3>due to nostalgia, and it's one of the first dishes

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<v Speaker 3>that I tried that were authentically North Indian and my

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<v Speaker 3>son still loves it now, So it's one we cook

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<v Speaker 3>a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Food is like that though.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I am from the UK, as you know, and

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<v Speaker 5>when we go back to the UK, like we have

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<v Speaker 5>this ret like I love like haggisneat some Tatty's.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is like, you know, the quintessential Scottish dish.

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<v Speaker 5>And I've like let other people or like friends of

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<v Speaker 5>mine try it and they're like, ugh, what is that?

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<v Speaker 5>But I'm like, it's so nostalgic and it reminds me

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<v Speaker 5>you of being with family, and food is such a

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<v Speaker 5>nostalgic thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, that's the thing. I think with food, you

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<v Speaker 3>can bring up so many emotions through dishes, and I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's just so powerful. And I think even when

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<v Speaker 3>it comes down to creating dishes and menus, now I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not just going to put a dish on the menu

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<v Speaker 3>because I like it. It's got to have some sort

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<v Speaker 3>of emotion, you know, connected to me or connected to

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<v Speaker 3>the people that are trying the food, or you know,

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<v Speaker 3>using produce from where you are. I think it's important

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<v Speaker 3>to just add a bit of love and connection to

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<v Speaker 3>the dish, and people think that's, you know, pretty cliche

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<v Speaker 3>or you know, put love into your food, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>actually very true and you can see that when you

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<v Speaker 3>remember dishes from your childhood. Mine's corned beef that my

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<v Speaker 3>men used to make, and it's just like I love it,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's the same thing. Not everybody loves that, so

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<v Speaker 3>it's the nostalgia that connects well.

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<v Speaker 4>Speaking of loving your dishes, how did the judges find

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<v Speaker 4>your dishes? Did they take nicely to it or were

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<v Speaker 4>they a bit nasty about him?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, did you have any.

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<v Speaker 3>Him or I think I did have some pretty tough

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<v Speaker 3>criticism throughout the competition because the judges expected a lot

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<v Speaker 3>from me as well, and I think that was good

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<v Speaker 3>for me. I think it just really made me make

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<v Speaker 3>sure that I pushed myself to the limit and executed

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<v Speaker 3>my dishes really well. And I expect that of myself

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<v Speaker 3>as well. So I think they love my food and

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<v Speaker 3>there's a lot of amazing dishes that I did throughout

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<v Speaker 3>the competition, but I definitely think that I had some

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<v Speaker 3>tough criticism at times.

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<v Speaker 1>Here was your toughest critic on the judging panel?

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<v Speaker 3>I think probably Jock, I would say that, Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's because it's that same thing. He really

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<v Speaker 3>did expect a lot from me, and he doesn't cook

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<v Speaker 3>it in a similar way, but he knows those French

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<v Speaker 3>techniques really well. It's the way he started his career. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and then he kind of fuses it with Australian ingredients.

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<v Speaker 3>So mine's kind of similar where it's French techniques with

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<v Speaker 3>Indian flavors. So I think that's why he pushed me

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<v Speaker 3>so hard.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, look, let's talk about more of your career

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<v Speaker 5>and your love life and.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything in between next.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Sarah, we have known each other for a very

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<v Speaker 5>long time. I don't know if a lot of people

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<v Speaker 5>know this, but we actually modeled together back in the day.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's so amazing to see how far your career

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<v Speaker 5>has come. Honestly, so proud of you as a friend.

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<v Speaker 5>You've done amazing and exceeded every single expectation.

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<v Speaker 1>And some so.

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<v Speaker 5>You studied culinary arts at Licordon Blur, is that right? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>and you traveled to India to refine your style. You've

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<v Speaker 5>opened multiple restaurants in India, which is amazing. You've also

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<v Speaker 5>been on several TV shows, including My Restaurant in India,

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<v Speaker 5>which has aired in one hundred and fifty six different

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<v Speaker 5>countries world wide.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, what the hell, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't even know this about you, didn't It's not

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<v Speaker 5>one hundred and fifty six.

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<v Speaker 1>Countries world why, that's super impressive.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. No, Honestly, I think that there's something about our

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<v Speaker 3>like when we were modeling, Like looking back at those days,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that there's something about I think the lifestyle

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<v Speaker 3>that we live that gives us a lot of tools

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<v Speaker 3>to be able to push ourselves and work really hard.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I'm so proud of you as well, totally smashing

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<v Speaker 3>it and it's like, yeah, I mean, it does feel

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<v Speaker 3>like another lifetime ago, but it's just so good to

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<v Speaker 3>see what you're doing now as well. It's amazing, kicking

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<v Speaker 3>kicking over, it's so good.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because Sarah actually, as I mentioned before, asked me

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<v Speaker 5>to come on her YouTube series and it was the

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<v Speaker 5>first time that we reconnected in ages And obviously I

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<v Speaker 5>love papaya salad and you taught me how to cook it,

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<v Speaker 5>which I'm eternally grateful for. But I was thinking when

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<v Speaker 5>we were doing that, like, when was the first time

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<v Speaker 5>you really got into cooking? Because yeah, like obviously we

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<v Speaker 5>were modeling, and obviously I had no idea about your

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<v Speaker 5>extraordinary cooking talent.

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<v Speaker 1>When did you get into that?

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<v Speaker 3>I used to love cooking desserts when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 3>which is strange because now it's the opposite. But I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like in the modeling days, you really need to

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<v Speaker 3>understand food. You're kind of like an athlete, like you

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<v Speaker 3>need to really nourish the body and understand food. And

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<v Speaker 3>I really did start to get into it then. But

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<v Speaker 3>I always have loved flavor, so it was like finding

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<v Speaker 3>this way to make healthy dishes that have a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of flavor. So it was kind of it started around

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<v Speaker 3>those that time, and I think also down to the travel,

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<v Speaker 3>like living in all of these different countries. One of

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<v Speaker 3>my nostalgic memories was being in Germany and having this,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, living with a host family and they couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>speak English and speak German, but I remember this very

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<v Speaker 3>interesting dish which was like a warm cucumber till dish,

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<v Speaker 3>which it was just it was such an incredible flavor.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never had anything like it. But it made me

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<v Speaker 3>realize that food brings people together no matter what language

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<v Speaker 3>you speak. So for me, I think That's when it

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<v Speaker 3>started to you know, the different cultures and different cuisines

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<v Speaker 3>started to really get my mind ticking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>You also have two cookbooks as well. How'd you go

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<v Speaker 4>about making those? To start on them?

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<v Speaker 2>They seem like a lot of work goes into them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know what, It's just like research and travel

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<v Speaker 3>around India. My second one is, you know, a pretty

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<v Speaker 3>cool one. I think because I got to experience all

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<v Speaker 3>these dishes around India and then bring that back into

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<v Speaker 3>a book. I really wanted to show people that Indian

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<v Speaker 3>food doesn't need to be so complicated, and that I'm

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<v Speaker 3>Australian I have learned the cuisine you know, to this

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<v Speaker 3>point just from travel and research and all of that,

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<v Speaker 3>and anyone can I think people feel like Indian cuisine

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<v Speaker 3>is really complicated, So I think I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>simplify it in the book and give people an option

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<v Speaker 3>to try it at home.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I'm not a big cook. I get told by

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<v Speaker 4>my girlfriend all the time that I'm a terrible Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't like cooking. I can't find the love

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<v Speaker 4>for it, Like, I don't know why is there any

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<v Speaker 4>advice on how I can be more of a chef

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<v Speaker 4>and cook her a meal here and then leave it

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<v Speaker 4>all on her shoulders.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's just like going for it and not

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<v Speaker 3>having fear around cooking. I think we walk into the

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<v Speaker 3>kitchen and think it's going to fail. It's just about

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<v Speaker 3>going you know what, if it fails, just add a

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<v Speaker 3>bit of masala or salt or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So you're even saying whereas I don't know, now,

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<v Speaker 4>can you keep it more simple for the flea? I

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<v Speaker 4>might get your book? Where do I find your book?

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<v Speaker 4>Then to get some recipes and or cook something out

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<v Speaker 4>of there.

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<v Speaker 3>On my website. I should have brought you on.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll give you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll well for everyone listening and they want to get

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<v Speaker 4>a book where and they find it on your website?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, Sarah tud dot com today you.

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<v Speaker 5>Then you go, so, look, you've I've worried with a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of chefs in your time, but also in Master Chef.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you have a favorite big name that you've enjoyed

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<v Speaker 5>cooking with or you've got a lot of inspiration from.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think Shannon Bennett to be honest. First of all,

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<v Speaker 3>he's an amazing guy. He has this really calm nature

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<v Speaker 3>in the kitchen, and I think when you're trying to

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<v Speaker 3>cook at such a high level, having that support in

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<v Speaker 3>the kitchen and he just knows his stuff, so he is, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>really inspiring. And I think he's kind of that new

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<v Speaker 3>generation of chefs where they're really nurturing rather than the

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<v Speaker 3>old school ways of yeah, quite abusive in the kitchen

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<v Speaker 3>at times, which is like that, that's not just god,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, that's just the way the industry was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was really a tough industry for chefs. I worked

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<v Speaker 3>in kitchens in London and yeah, like it was really

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<v Speaker 3>really tough and long hours, long days and you'd start

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<v Speaker 3>at eight a m. In the morning, work until one

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<v Speaker 3>am and do that five or six days a week

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<v Speaker 3>and it was tough. So I'm glad that the industry

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<v Speaker 3>has changed and a bit more regulated now because it

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<v Speaker 3>brings the love back into it. And yeah, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>something you can do. I mean that you can't live

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<v Speaker 3>a life and work those hours.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So you've done a lot in your career. What

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<v Speaker 4>do you think your next step is? Maybe a documentary?

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<v Speaker 3>She's done it all. I don't know whether I really

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<v Speaker 3>want to. Yeah, I mean, you're going to delve into

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<v Speaker 3>enough information today. Yeah, it's amazing having enter into to

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<v Speaker 3>give her some tips on cooking and now she can

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<v Speaker 3>give me some.

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<v Speaker 2>On that note, Let's get into that next.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Sarah, you've had an amazing career, but we want

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<v Speaker 5>to talk on something that we've never really heard you

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<v Speaker 5>talk on publicly, at least.

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<v Speaker 2>Your dating life.

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<v Speaker 4>So I reckon we start off by asking you are

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<v Speaker 4>you single and ready to mingle or are you taking

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<v Speaker 4>are you a committed relationship, a situation ship?

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<v Speaker 2>Where are you at?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm single?

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<v Speaker 2>You're single?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So, Sarah, you have a son. His name is Phoenix.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell us about him?

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<v Speaker 3>My son is eleven years old and he's a little angel.

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<v Speaker 3>He's the cutest I think. When Mastership asked me to

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<v Speaker 3>come back on the show, I sat down with Phoenix

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<v Speaker 3>and I was, look, I've been asked to go back

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<v Speaker 3>on Master Chef. Obviously it's going to be a big

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<v Speaker 3>time commitment, and I just want to ask you if

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<v Speaker 3>you're okay with this and you know what your thoughts are.

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<v Speaker 3>And he was like, He's like, well, if it was me,

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<v Speaker 3>I would do it, but you have to do whatever

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<v Speaker 3>makes you happy. It's like eight months ago, ten years old.

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<v Speaker 3>So this time round you and I say, this little

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<v Speaker 3>angel is like, you know, such an amazing boy, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think we have a really good bond and relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>I think for us, after, you know, separating from his dad,

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<v Speaker 3>it was all about communication. And I think you forget

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<v Speaker 3>that kids are pretty smart, switched on, and just by

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<v Speaker 3>communicating about things you can really make things a lot easier. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How old were you when you got pregnant with Phoenix?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>Twenty three, that's quite young. Yeah, it's young, young mom. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was young, still.

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<v Speaker 3>In the modeling days. So yeah, it was all right. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>I just like eat lots of food.

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<v Speaker 1>So, oh my god, it's amazing, amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>So you were twenty three when you had Phoenix and

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<v Speaker 5>were you engaged to his dad at the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we were engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, right, And how long were you engaged for?

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<v Speaker 3>Not that long, to be honest, I think it was

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<v Speaker 3>about six eight months.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, And how long was the whole relationship?

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<v Speaker 3>It was about three years.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, so about two and a bit using he proposed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, so we yeah, felt pregnant. Phoenix was an accident. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so happy surprise, Happy surprise.

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<v Speaker 1>Surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and yeah, like I look back now, and really,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that for me, everything happens for a reason,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think that it really did shape me as

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<v Speaker 3>a person, and I think it really did give me

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<v Speaker 3>the drive to do what I'm doing today.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why did you and your ex breakup? Then?

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<v Speaker 3>I think that it wasn't the right fit. I think

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<v Speaker 3>that he's an amazing person, but us in a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>just wasn't right and it wasn't the healthiest relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Co parenting Phoenix in Look, it took.

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<v Speaker 3>A long time to get to this point. I think

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<v Speaker 3>the first few years were really really rocky, and I

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<v Speaker 3>think that time heals all. In the beginning, it was

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of frustrations from both sides in the beginning,

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<v Speaker 3>And there was one day when Phoenix's dad called me

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<v Speaker 3>up and he was like, look, you're not a bad person.

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<v Speaker 3>I've just realized you're not a bad person, and that

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<v Speaker 3>I have realized that we just need to make this

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<v Speaker 3>work now. And I think it was kind of like

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<v Speaker 3>a switch in his mind to realize that we're not

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<v Speaker 3>out to get each other. It's we're here raising a

0:20:12.840 --> 0:20:16.639
<v Speaker 3>beautiful little human and it's something that we can do

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<v Speaker 3>together even if we're not in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it must be a really hard transition, like I

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<v Speaker 5>couldn't imagine. And he's a little bit older than you,

0:20:23.680 --> 0:20:24.000
<v Speaker 5>is that.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, he's about fourteen years older, so the age

0:20:28.200 --> 0:20:30.800
<v Speaker 3>gap was there. And the thing that I feel most

0:20:30.880 --> 0:20:33.359
<v Speaker 3>lucky about is the fact that he's an incredible father

0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:38.040
<v Speaker 3>and he gives Phoenix everything. He's you know, so present

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<v Speaker 3>when he's with Phoenix. He's constantly you know, doing things

0:20:42.040 --> 0:20:45.359
<v Speaker 3>and teaching him, and yeah, is a great father. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really lucky about that.

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<v Speaker 5>Phoenix is a very lucky little boy because I know

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<v Speaker 5>you're an amazing mom, so he's hit the parent jackpot.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, well, that's the thing. I think when you

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<v Speaker 3>need to realize you need to be happy as well.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think separation is never easy when kids are involved,

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<v Speaker 3>and it takes a long time to get to a

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<v Speaker 3>point where it's comfortable. But I think that we realized

0:21:08.000 --> 0:21:10.960
<v Speaker 3>that us being happy was the most important and we

0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:14.000
<v Speaker 3>got to that point and yeah, it's it's okay. I

0:21:14.040 --> 0:21:17.280
<v Speaker 3>think kids are so resilient. I think that it's tough

0:21:17.280 --> 0:21:21.800
<v Speaker 3>in the moment, but they just really can you handle

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<v Speaker 3>a lot more than probably we can at times, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's just about love, like giving kids love and

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<v Speaker 3>support and that's what they really need.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you had any other serious relationships since him?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have. I have. It's always been quite difficult

0:21:37.119 --> 0:21:40.480
<v Speaker 3>because for me it feels like every relationship is a

0:21:40.520 --> 0:21:44.199
<v Speaker 3>long distance relationship because I mean, I'm half in India

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<v Speaker 3>and half in Australia for most of the year since

0:21:46.520 --> 0:21:49.280
<v Speaker 3>Master Chef the first time round, So one way or

0:21:49.320 --> 0:21:51.879
<v Speaker 3>another it's going to be a long distance relationship because

0:21:51.880 --> 0:21:54.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm traveling back and forth. It's never easy. I think

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<v Speaker 3>for me, I've kind of come to terms with it,

0:21:57.920 --> 0:21:59.520
<v Speaker 3>but I think a lot of other people find it

0:21:59.560 --> 0:22:02.880
<v Speaker 3>hard because they're maybe not used to it. So that's

0:22:02.920 --> 0:22:05.560
<v Speaker 3>definitely affected relationships for me in the past.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you find the pressure of, like, every time you

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<v Speaker 4>date someone, there is that pressure of bringing them home

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<v Speaker 4>to Phoenix and introducing them and that they have to

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<v Speaker 4>be like you don't want to bring everyone to introduce

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<v Speaker 4>them to Phoenix. So is that an added pressure you find?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know what, I have in the past introduced

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<v Speaker 3>Phoenix to a partner reasonably early on, but I realized

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<v Speaker 3>that as a parent, I need to be pretty smart

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<v Speaker 3>about this. And the thing is for me, I'm the parent,

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<v Speaker 3>right The person that you're bringing into the relationship doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>have that same responsibility where you know, if they meet Phoenix,

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<v Speaker 3>they're not thinking, you know, I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 3>in his life and then disappear from his life, Whereas

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<v Speaker 3>that's the first thing on my mind. So, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I think I've realized pretty quickly that I need to

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<v Speaker 3>be quite smart about that.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you go about dating?

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<v Speaker 4>Then? What's your preferred thing? How do you like to

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<v Speaker 4>meet people, what's your what's.

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<v Speaker 2>Your go to?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, there's no real way, like I don't really I

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't say that I even go out much or I'm

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<v Speaker 3>kind of a homebody. It's quite a strange thing. I

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<v Speaker 3>think that when your life is so you know, you're

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<v Speaker 3>out there all the time for your work, then when

0:23:08.640 --> 0:23:10.399
<v Speaker 3>I have my own time, I like to kind of

0:23:10.440 --> 0:23:14.200
<v Speaker 3>be at home and chill the Phoenix. So there's no

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<v Speaker 3>real way to be honest.

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<v Speaker 5>But you know what, something that I was thinking as

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<v Speaker 5>well is obviously you cook like you're cooking on TV,

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<v Speaker 5>you're cooking at work, you're cooking for your son. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>sure is there ever any time to cook for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's like I think that when you get home,

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<v Speaker 3>you just want to have simple, quick, easy meals. So

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<v Speaker 3>I do. I like to just whip up quick dinners

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<v Speaker 3>and yeah, I mean it's very rarely for me though,

0:23:40.600 --> 0:23:43.359
<v Speaker 3>it's usually always from Phoenix off and I do. I

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<v Speaker 3>like make really quick meals when I'm home alone, so

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<v Speaker 3>I prefer cooking for others.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you ever have a partner cook for you like

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<v Speaker 4>a man and then he brings like what is this?

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<v Speaker 2>What is this? I would not want to cook for

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<v Speaker 2>a chef.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know whether I have actually had any man

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<v Speaker 3>cook for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty intimidating.

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<v Speaker 2>Well there you go.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually there's any males out there listening. Maybe someone should

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<v Speaker 4>cook for you if.

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<v Speaker 3>You have the balls to cook with harah. Do you

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<v Speaker 3>know what as a chef, you just want a simple dinner,

0:24:17.320 --> 0:24:20.560
<v Speaker 3>like it doesn't matter if it's not like crazy extravagant,

0:24:20.600 --> 0:24:22.880
<v Speaker 3>but someone cooking for you is a really nice thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm not, you know, heavy critic when it comes

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<v Speaker 3>to food, like I just it's more about the act

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<v Speaker 3>of doing it, that's all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you been teaching Phoenix how to cook.

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<v Speaker 3>A little bit?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>So especially through the lockdowns, we started cooking a lot

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<v Speaker 3>together and he doesn't love it as much as I do.

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<v Speaker 3>He makes a mean poachhag on TOAs and some paratas

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<v Speaker 3>as well, and different you know Indian dishes. So yeah,

0:24:49.920 --> 0:24:50.800
<v Speaker 3>he's already.

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<v Speaker 2>Doing better than that nights old.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got a little kid at home now, so I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sure you're I can't pach you an egg, really.

0:25:00.160 --> 0:25:05.159
<v Speaker 4>I don't think I would hardboil one, and.

0:25:05.200 --> 0:25:07.080
<v Speaker 5>I could learn and think we need to do some

0:25:07.119 --> 0:25:13.159
<v Speaker 5>private lessons with all of us. So I have a question,

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<v Speaker 5>because obviously you're an amazing chef. You have restaurants in India.

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<v Speaker 5>You potentially might bring out a restaurant in Melbourne soon,

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<v Speaker 5>is that right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I've been thinking about it. So I think

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<v Speaker 3>for me, you know, the last eight years of kind

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<v Speaker 3>of traveling back and forth to India, just when the

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<v Speaker 3>lockdowns happened, I realized I was at a point where

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<v Speaker 3>I was pushing myself to a crazy limit. And when

0:25:41.720 --> 0:25:44.800
<v Speaker 3>the lockdown started, I think I was almost at the

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<v Speaker 3>point of an almost breakdown, Like I was exhausted, Like

0:25:49.040 --> 0:25:52.439
<v Speaker 3>I would be on a plane every third day, you know,

0:25:52.560 --> 0:25:55.400
<v Speaker 3>I would fly internationally for a couple of days and

0:25:55.880 --> 0:25:58.840
<v Speaker 3>constantly jet lagged, and I think it really took me

0:25:58.880 --> 0:26:02.159
<v Speaker 3>about three months to recover. And I think for me,

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<v Speaker 3>like lockdowns were actually a really good thing and it

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<v Speaker 3>made me realize that, you know, do I want to

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<v Speaker 3>go back to that same lifestyle that I was living

0:26:10.920 --> 0:26:14.840
<v Speaker 3>before of constantly flying back and forth, you know, internationally,

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<v Speaker 3>And so now I think when the even the Master

0:26:18.520 --> 0:26:20.840
<v Speaker 3>Chef opportunity came up, I saw it as a good

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<v Speaker 3>opportunity just to kind of relaunch me back into Australia

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<v Speaker 3>so that I can go, you know what, maybe a

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:30.200
<v Speaker 3>bit more of a stable lifestyle is something that I want.

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<v Speaker 3>So my goal out of all of this has just

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<v Speaker 3>been to kind of settle more here in Australia and

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:39.639
<v Speaker 3>not be living such a crazy life. And yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's for me having those routes here and opening

0:26:43.760 --> 0:26:46.840
<v Speaker 3>a restaurant is something that would give me that stability

0:26:46.880 --> 0:26:49.920
<v Speaker 3>and yeah, have work here more permanently.

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<v Speaker 5>I love that you're thinking of opening a restaurant, but

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<v Speaker 5>since you haven't yet, I want to get some recommendations

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<v Speaker 5>from you on where to take a first day. What's

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<v Speaker 5>a good first dates for our listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't really know. I haven't really thought

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<v Speaker 3>about this, not really a I don't really go on dates,

0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:12.919
<v Speaker 3>like it's very strange.

0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:17.640
<v Speaker 5>So let's just say you're going on a first day.

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<v Speaker 5>What are the elements the restaurant has to have.

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<v Speaker 1>To make the date good?

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<v Speaker 3>I think that for me, it has to have a

0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 3>nice ambiance for sure. But I don't know. I think

0:27:29.280 --> 0:27:31.399
<v Speaker 3>I've gotten to that point where I'm not a person

0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:33.640
<v Speaker 3>that you know, wants to go to like an overly

0:27:33.760 --> 0:27:36.280
<v Speaker 3>rowdy kind of place like one of the restaurants I

0:27:36.320 --> 0:27:40.840
<v Speaker 3>love is Aru, which is really beautiful, you know, warm

0:27:40.920 --> 0:27:43.880
<v Speaker 3>interiors and it's nice and quite cozy. You know, there's

0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:45.840
<v Speaker 3>little kind of nooks and you feel a little bit

0:27:45.880 --> 0:27:48.280
<v Speaker 3>more private in a place like that. I think it

0:27:48.359 --> 0:27:51.760
<v Speaker 3>just has to be a good environment for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>YE love that.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that nice as well.

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<v Speaker 3>It has to be good food. I mean, I don't

0:28:00.200 --> 0:28:03.440
<v Speaker 3>want to be like hating the food and bad service.

0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:07.520
<v Speaker 4>That you guys can share together really romantic and intimate

0:28:07.560 --> 0:28:09.280
<v Speaker 4>and then into some cocktails and you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, planning the day with thanks.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so you're currently single, You've had an ex boyfriend

0:28:17.520 --> 0:28:19.840
<v Speaker 5>who was in India and you had to do like

0:28:19.880 --> 0:28:23.120
<v Speaker 5>a long distance you have your ex fiance.

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:25.160
<v Speaker 1>In between this.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sure you've had a few situationships where you've seen

0:28:28.280 --> 0:28:30.439
<v Speaker 5>a couple of guys here and there. Do you have

0:28:30.440 --> 0:28:34.760
<v Speaker 5>any embarrassing dating stories, because we love some embarrassing dating stories.

0:28:34.800 --> 0:28:35.680
<v Speaker 1>And where's your head at?

0:28:36.000 --> 0:28:38.680
<v Speaker 3>You know what I mean? I think that for me,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like not overly a data Yeah, Like I'm not that.

0:28:42.800 --> 0:28:46.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't really, it's quite strange. I think it's like

0:28:46.520 --> 0:28:49.960
<v Speaker 3>for me, when something feels right, then I kind of

0:28:50.000 --> 0:28:52.800
<v Speaker 3>go for it and jump into it. But I'm not,

0:28:53.120 --> 0:28:55.800
<v Speaker 3>like I really don't go on a lot of days.

0:28:56.720 --> 0:28:59.920
<v Speaker 3>This is a dating podcast. I'm here for advice. Hang on,

0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:02.840
<v Speaker 3>I let you turn this around advice.

0:29:02.880 --> 0:29:06.200
<v Speaker 2>Guys. What you're doing wrong in the start is not

0:29:06.240 --> 0:29:07.080
<v Speaker 2>going on dates?

0:29:07.240 --> 0:29:09.120
<v Speaker 3>Okay? Really okay?

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:10.640
<v Speaker 1>Do you need any dating advice?

0:29:11.160 --> 0:29:11.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, go for it.

0:29:12.000 --> 0:29:13.560
<v Speaker 1>You have to ask us a questions.

0:29:13.920 --> 0:29:14.320
<v Speaker 2>Ask us.

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:18.200
<v Speaker 3>I mean, you know my situation, right, and it's a

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:21.960
<v Speaker 3>crazy lifestyle in terms of work commitments and all of that.

0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:24.680
<v Speaker 3>Like what would you suggest to you know, if someone

0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:27.160
<v Speaker 3>is very busy with work and there's a lot of

0:29:27.200 --> 0:29:29.920
<v Speaker 3>travel involved, you know, and I think especially these days,

0:29:29.960 --> 0:29:33.600
<v Speaker 3>women are in the workforce and working you know, really

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:36.640
<v Speaker 3>hard jobs and busy jobs. Like what would you you know,

0:29:36.800 --> 0:29:39.280
<v Speaker 3>there's two people in a relationship and if they're both busy,

0:29:39.360 --> 0:29:40.560
<v Speaker 3>Like how do you work that out?

0:29:40.720 --> 0:29:43.440
<v Speaker 4>I reckon, just keep up the chats, like keep talking,

0:29:43.640 --> 0:29:46.400
<v Speaker 4>stay like intimate over those chats. I know that, Like

0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:49.880
<v Speaker 4>when my girlfriend goes away, our conversations are a lot

0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 4>more intimate, so we stay more in touch with each other,

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:55.040
<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean, Like, yeah, I don't know

0:29:55.080 --> 0:29:56.840
<v Speaker 4>how close you are with them, but you know, like

0:29:56.920 --> 0:29:59.520
<v Speaker 4>FaceTime each other. And I feel like if they don't

0:29:59.560 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 4>understand and that you're busy and you're both busy and

0:30:01.800 --> 0:30:03.720
<v Speaker 4>they get annoyed at that, then they're not the one

0:30:03.800 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 4>because that's your lifestyle. That's the way you're living your life,

0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:08.200
<v Speaker 4>and that you're not going to change for anyone, even

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:10.200
<v Speaker 4>if they mister right, you shouldn't change for them. They've

0:30:10.240 --> 0:30:12.120
<v Speaker 4>got to understand who you are and what comes with you.

0:30:12.200 --> 0:30:14.440
<v Speaker 5>Well a man, It's an interesting topic because like there's

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 5>mister right, and then there's mister like the right time,

0:30:17.360 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 5>And like I always think that the right time, like

0:30:21.040 --> 0:30:24.200
<v Speaker 5>timing is everything right, Like you can meet someone.

0:30:24.000 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Who's perfect, but if your schedules aren't aligning, then maybe

0:30:28.160 --> 0:30:29.440
<v Speaker 1>they're not mister right.

0:30:29.640 --> 0:30:32.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I think that I do believe in

0:30:32.600 --> 0:30:35.640
<v Speaker 3>things happening at the right time and what you need

0:30:35.640 --> 0:30:38.280
<v Speaker 3>to learn at that time or what's yeah, what is

0:30:38.360 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 3>right for you at that time. I do believe in that.

0:30:40.880 --> 0:30:43.440
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I think that it also comes down to

0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:47.000
<v Speaker 3>a lot of that communication and understanding. You need to

0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:50.440
<v Speaker 3>have trust because I think when it comes to you know,

0:30:50.520 --> 0:30:53.600
<v Speaker 3>travel and being away, you can't be constantly thinking at

0:30:53.600 --> 0:30:56.360
<v Speaker 3>the back of your mind that maybe they're doing something

0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:58.239
<v Speaker 3>or you know that the trust isn't there.

0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:00.840
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I wouldn't even be in that situation that suck.

0:31:01.320 --> 0:31:05.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well if she isn't that situation, let's not make

0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:06.280
<v Speaker 5>her feel.

0:31:07.640 --> 0:31:07.840
<v Speaker 4>Well.

0:31:07.880 --> 0:31:08.880
<v Speaker 2>I mean no, that's what I'm saying.

0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:11.320
<v Speaker 4>If you're in that situation, I find a way to

0:31:11.360 --> 0:31:13.600
<v Speaker 4>get out of that situation. Shouldn't be if you're with

0:31:13.640 --> 0:31:15.600
<v Speaker 4>a partner and you feel like you can't trust him.

0:31:15.560 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 1>What's the point.

0:31:16.320 --> 0:31:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, But ultimately, I mean, if you're in a relationship

0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:22.280
<v Speaker 3>and you're away a lot of the times, like people

0:31:22.400 --> 0:31:26.240
<v Speaker 3>need love and they need, you know, to have someone around.

0:31:26.400 --> 0:31:29.160
<v Speaker 3>I think at times, what's your love language I don't know.

0:31:30.560 --> 0:31:33.640
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I reckon them a few.

0:31:34.160 --> 0:31:35.959
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, iRED myself across.

0:31:37.080 --> 0:31:39.560
<v Speaker 4>Can you find someone that can actually maybe get time

0:31:39.600 --> 0:31:41.560
<v Speaker 4>off and trouble with you and then they have a

0:31:41.560 --> 0:31:42.120
<v Speaker 4>part of your life.

0:31:42.120 --> 0:31:44.360
<v Speaker 2>I could work remotely, they could work with you.

0:31:44.440 --> 0:31:47.240
<v Speaker 3>Go yeah, but it's not that simple. Yeah, I just go,

0:31:47.440 --> 0:31:49.680
<v Speaker 3>here's the resume. You need to travel.

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:57.600
<v Speaker 4>I mean a story. People started flying. Put your email.

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<v Speaker 5>Addressed man Sarah, this is in so much fun. Thank

0:32:01.720 --> 0:32:05.320
<v Speaker 5>you so much for coming in again. Congratulations on all

0:32:05.360 --> 0:32:08.239
<v Speaker 5>of your success. Honestly, I'm so proud of you as

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:10.680
<v Speaker 5>a friend, and I'm so glad that the world is

0:32:10.680 --> 0:32:12.600
<v Speaker 5>getting to see how amazing you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Until next time, looking forward.

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<v Speaker 3>To thank you. That's it, Bye, thank you Bye,