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Speaker 1: With Cape Rigging podcast.

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Speaker 2: Switch You Remember with Kate Richie. Welcome to the podcast today,

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Speaker 2: A simple one. Right, we're taking your calls. Were you

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Speaker 2: in the right place at the right time. I received

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Speaker 2: an Instagram direct message yesterday from someone who played a

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Speaker 2: huge part in my life.

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Speaker 3: Twenty seven, twenty eight years ago. Whip.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: It was one of the greatest days of myself and

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Speaker 2: my mate's life. Was the nineteen ninety eight AFL Grand

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Speaker 2: Final when the La Crows won their back to back premission.

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Speaker 4: Right place, right time.

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Speaker 2: We got to be there and something happened that day

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Speaker 2: that I will never ever forget. And my child has

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Speaker 2: been missing ever since. I don't know where they are

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Speaker 2: and no, but you've got to hear what happened on

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Speaker 2: this day and the person that got in contact with me.

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Speaker 3: It's in the podcast. This is the Fitzian with Cape

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Speaker 3: Ridge podcast.

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Speaker 2: Nicholas Cage an amazing actor. Hey, I didn't know if

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Speaker 2: you know this, but I had to look after his

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Speaker 2: kitten one with my cat, and I did looked after

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Speaker 2: and you know, he didn't want to cat originally.

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Speaker 3: I'm looking for a truffle berg. So he got both

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Speaker 3: and I love it.

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Speaker 4: I'm so confused, but I love it.

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Speaker 5: I'm slightly obsessed because I don't understand how this guy

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Speaker 5: has a career in Hollywood.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 2: Well, I love him as an actor, but he's out there.

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Speaker 2: This story is out there.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: He was in Australia filming of The Surfer, which is

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Speaker 2: the trailers out. Now, when's the movie out, Tommy, It's

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Speaker 2: out pretty soon, is June fifteen.

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Speaker 3: You can watch it on stand.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: So while he was here, he was interviewed I'll get

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Speaker 2: to the I'll get to the amazing bit very soon.

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Speaker 2: But he was also asked about Nicholas Cage. Are you

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Speaker 2: aware of a couple of these bands. One there's an

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Speaker 2: Australian band that's called Nicholas Cage Fighter, and he knows

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Speaker 2: about the band and he loves the band.

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Speaker 3: The other one is someone said, have you heard about.

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Speaker 2: Nicholas Cage against the Machine?

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Speaker 3: And he doesn't know about them.

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Speaker 2: But there's a band out there that does Rage against

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Speaker 2: the Machine songs.

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Speaker 3: But the lead singer dresses.

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Speaker 2: Up as Nicholas Cage and he performs the songs in

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Speaker 2: Nicholas Cage's voice.

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Speaker 3: It's amazing. It is unbelievable. But this is the story.

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Speaker 3: Just quickly.

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Speaker 2: I need to talk about this because they were asked

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Speaker 2: about He was asked about Nick Cave, the Ossie musician

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Speaker 2: who's an absolute legend.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever met Nick Cave?

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Speaker 2: Someone said that you've been mistaken for Nick Cave before,

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Speaker 2: and he said, I don't think that there's a day

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Speaker 3: People also say, hey, Nick, you were great in The Hunger, which.

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Speaker 2: Is a David Bowie Milk film that Cage wasn't even in.

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Speaker 2: But he said, he said, I do remember that Nick

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Speaker 2: Cave was very nice to me. We were at an

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Speaker 2: animal sanctuary I believe it was Selly Animal Hospital in Texas,

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Speaker 2: and he was terrific. I went up to him, I

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Speaker 2: said hello, I shook his hand, and I said one

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Speaker 2: thing to him. I said, Nick, only one letter separates

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Speaker 2: us your Nick Cave.

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Speaker 3: I'm Nick Cage.

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Speaker 4: I don't think he would have known. I don't think

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Speaker 5: Wow, that is senerrated by one letter from Nicholas Cage.

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Speaker 2: Do you wonder if Nick Cave remembers the story, Tommy,

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Speaker 2: can we try and get Nicholas Cage on the show. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Tommy Nicholas Cage against the Machine as a red room.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, they're not crazy ideas.

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Speaker 1: This is the Fitting and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: There's moments in your life you're in the right spot

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Speaker 2: at the right time, and I would love to hear

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Speaker 2: from people thirteen twenty fourten if this has happened to

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Speaker 2: you and you've just gone, oh my god, I cannot

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Speaker 2: believe I'm here and what's happening around me.

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Speaker 5: Oh so you're not talking about those videos where someone

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Speaker 5: will be standing on the side of the street and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well said mate.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't really sort of looking for that, but yeah,

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Speaker 2: if you've got a story like that thirteen twenty fourteen,

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Speaker 2: get involved, because I've spoken about this before numerous times.

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Speaker 3: The nineteen ninety eight AFL Grand.

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Speaker 2: Final, and we went there for the ninety seven Grand Final,

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Speaker 2: couldn't get in, so we had to watch it across

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Speaker 2: to watch our team win itep So we went back

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Speaker 2: in nineteen ninety eight and we got tickets. It was

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Speaker 2: an unbelievable experience. And before the game started, a made

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Speaker 2: of mine, Timmy Boston and I. We were standing there

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Speaker 2: having a beer, and out of nowhere, a guy popped

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Speaker 2: up and he's, okay, volunteers, you got to come and

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Speaker 2: grab your red overalls and follow me down underneath the MCG.

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Speaker 2: And we just happened to be in the right place

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Speaker 3: My maid and I looked at each other and said,

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Speaker 2: Great, so we went down underneath the MCG and then

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Speaker 3: Got to be quick. We get in, we get out.

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Speaker 2: And that's it. The day is done, all right, So

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Speaker 2: they're all volunteers. We didn't know what was happening. Then

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Speaker 2: Whip with an ushed out onto the middle of the MCG,

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Speaker 2: the MCG before the AFL Grand Final. All of a

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Speaker 2: sudden a car comes out of nowhere and it's Muhammad Ali,

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Speaker 3: We were walking next to the car.

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Speaker 2: We were supposed to be volunteers, had no idea what

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Speaker 4: Why have I never heard this story?

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Speaker 3: I've told this story numerous.

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Speaker 2: Timeshammad Ali in the red overalls Muhammad Ali. Then what happened, right,

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Speaker 2: is that we this was before, this was pre game,

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Speaker 2: we took off our red overalls. We then watched the

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Speaker 2: Crows go on to win the Grand Final. We were inebriated,

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Speaker 2: we were celebrating. It was the greatest day ever. We

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Speaker 3: And goes, hurry up, guys, you're running late the field.

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Speaker 2: So we ran out into the field in our red

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Speaker 2: in these red overalls. I received I received a DM

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Speaker 2: who happened to be there that day.

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Speaker 3: Brad, Welcome to the show, buddy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is an unbelievable story, Brad, and fourteen years

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Speaker 5: of radio with the Big Guy, and I don't think

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Speaker 5: I've ever heard this story.

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Speaker 4: Can you validate this story?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I can definitely validate it. We were in the

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Speaker 7: a few minutes later, Muhammed Ali comes past in the car.

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Speaker 7: We're probably a meter and a half two meters away

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Speaker 5: Were you a legitimate volunteer or were you helping organize this?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 7: No, So we were in the Army at the time,

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Speaker 7: to do that every year, set up a stage and

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Speaker 7: and to sort of comment, you know, yeah, basically.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, gotcha.

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Speaker 2: So Brad, when I say right place, right time, I

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Speaker 2: just thought that we were in the right place. But

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Speaker 2: you guys had recognized me beforehand and sort of ushered

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Speaker 2: us down at the same time and knew that you

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Speaker 7: We didn't really know. We just thought I would be

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Speaker 7: this stuck with me over these years, you know, you know,

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Speaker 7: it was just there would there.

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Speaker 5: Would have been nothing subtle about it. I can imagine

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Speaker 5: in half and he's got ankle freezers.

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Speaker 7: That's correct, and twice at the time he did have

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Speaker 7: a bit of hair, so there wasn't all that he

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Speaker 7: would have fit in with the soldiers. Like myself, it

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Speaker 7: was a trip. It's the Mulody's looking thing.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I love that, Brad.

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Speaker 2: Brad, can I just say on behalf of myself and

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Speaker 2: Tim Boston, one of my very good friends. It was

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Speaker 2: one of the greatest days of our life being Crow's

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Speaker 2: supporters and seeing your team, and that doesn't happen very often.

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Speaker 3: So Brad, I just want to thank you from the

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Speaker 3: bottom of my.

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Speaker 2: Heart for one of the I thought it was right place,

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Speaker 2: right time, but you guys had picked me out, So

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Speaker 2: thank you for looking after us that day.

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Speaker 3: Brother lost.

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Speaker 5: Brady. Throw it out there though, right place, right time.

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Speaker 5: If something happened to you and you couldn't believe the

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Speaker 5: moment you found.

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Speaker 3: Yourself in, but you just went with it.

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Speaker 4: Like Fitzi's story, Jenny and Mossman, what's your story?

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Speaker 9: So I was holidaying as a teenager with my family

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Speaker 9: in Europe and we had done a day trick to Monaco. Yeah,

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Speaker 9: and there was someone that sort of approached this. They

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Speaker 9: heard that we were Aussies obviously from an accent. I

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Speaker 9: had come to this party. There's going to be a

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Speaker 9: special announcement about Australia. And basically it was the announcement

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Speaker 9: when Roun Antonio samarais on the organizing committee and now

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Speaker 9: that Sydney had won the Olympics and the.

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Speaker 7: Winner is and the winner is.

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Speaker 9: We were in the room with the Prime minister, free

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Speaker 9: booze party and it was amazing and the winner is Sydney.

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Speaker 8: So that was pretty Oh my god.

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Speaker 8: That's the Church of.

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Speaker 4: And again you've been blessed?

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Speaker 3: Did you send them through?

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Speaker 2: We want to see the five days actually to go

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Speaker 3: That's an unbelievable.

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Speaker 5: Saying for me in a small church. Indian Sutherland, you've

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 12: I do.

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Speaker 4: What happened?

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Speaker 8: So last week or the week before, we're in Rome

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Speaker 4: Wow. So they were lining up to meet him, honest?

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Speaker 3: Is this before he passed Indy?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: On the Sunday, So you were one.

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Speaker 3: Of the last to see the Pope before he passed away.

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Speaker 2: How did you feel when you found out that he

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Speaker 4: It weren't responsible for him dying, were you, Indy?

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Speaker 5: You didn't shake his hand with a dose of COVID

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Speaker 4: When you get blessed? What does he do? Does he

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Speaker 3: Fascinating, it's amazing. Well there was an indigenous woman as well.

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Speaker 3: Did you hear about that lady that was asked to.

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Speaker 2: Go to the Vatican Just before the night that he

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Speaker 5: My gods, I noticed the top trending show over the

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Speaker 5: weekend was Conclave.

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Speaker 4: Does anyone seen that?

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Speaker 3: I saw it on the weekend?

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 4: I went to the old cremorn Orphium there.

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Speaker 3: They've already commissioned conclave too. I don't think it could

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Speaker 5: The Long, the Long Road to sainthood's really good.

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Speaker 3: It's suspenseful. You will you'll love it because I wasn't

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Speaker 2: Here, right time. Is we've got some good calls here?

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Speaker 2: Tell me maybe we had that again?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well done to everyone else going to congratulations.

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Speaker 1: This is the fits in with with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 4: Guys, let's talk the Pope Leo and here is this

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Speaker 4: morning Ash.

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Speaker 5: We were talking about the Prime Minister making his way

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Speaker 4: Have I got Ash? There?

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Speaker 3: Birch music, She got you with the mouse? Have wed?

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Speaker 3: When is it?

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Speaker 4: When is the swearing in of the Pope the Pond?

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Speaker 3: I believe it's next week, isn't Ash? And then Albow

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Speaker 13: Yeah, Albow will be making the most of that trip.

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Speaker 13: But he's had a busy few hours.

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Speaker 3: Pope Leo.

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Speaker 13: He fronted about six thousand journalists overnight as well for

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Speaker 5: Get a heads up if you're Vlenski, do you get

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Speaker 4: Or do you look at it and go a new number?

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Speaker 4: Who is I'd heads up?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Has he done his first TikTok or anything? Yeah? Yeah, Ash?

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Speaker 2: Has he done anything sort of differently or no Tiktoks.

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Speaker 3: I mean there's still time though.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think he's on. Be real. Let's talk about

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Speaker 5: Now, whether this is real or not, I don't know,

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Speaker 5: but on TikTok there's ever three million people that have

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Speaker 4: And it is a zoom call. I'm going to set

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Speaker 5: It's a zoom call between a mother and a daughter

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Speaker 4: Org My mom.

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Speaker 5: Hooked up with the pope what yep, before he was

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Speaker 5: Mom had had some couch time for her sins with

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Speaker 2: Well that's who did we know, Sarah who worked you

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Speaker 2: her mom hooked up with Malcolm term But like I mean,

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Speaker 3: That's the story that you remember forever out.

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Speaker 5: Of mine who had when it was Margot Robbie for

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Speaker 2: That was amazing and he was shattered when her career

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Speaker 3: He was absolutely shattered.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't he the city and with a w Kate WHITCHI podcast?

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Speaker 6: I like.

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Speaker 4: Good? I liked him. D it's weted?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what?

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Speaker 5: It does have to be just the start of a relationship.

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Speaker 5: It might also be a relationship you've been in for

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Speaker 4: Mightn't be going that well. So you're going to make

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Speaker 4: a call. Am I going to stay with them? Or

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Speaker 3: Caroline in Freshwater?

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Caroline, How we're good?

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Speaker 3: Carolina.

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Speaker 2: If you've seen the derodis, the electric bikes around the

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Speaker 3: Control at the moment they are.

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Speaker 6: I'm a big fan of them, but yes, they do

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Speaker 4: True, Caroline. What's the name of the person you've been seeing?

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Speaker 6: Dan?

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Speaker 3: Dan the Man? Let's talk. How long have you been

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Speaker 3: seeing Dan the Man?

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Speaker 6: For Carol, I'm thanking him for about six months or

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Speaker 3: Daniel, She's it's fresh I can spill it's fresh water.

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Speaker 3: Fresh water. Yeah, all right. What are the good things about?

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Speaker 3: What's the good things about Dan?

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Speaker 6: Okay, so we've got three pros. I've got one. He's

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Speaker 3: Dream Yeah, very very good.

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Speaker 6: The third one is always has time on the weekend

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Speaker 6: to do really fun things like goes to the beach

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Speaker 6: and whatever.

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Speaker 4: Prioritize lifestyle, lifestyle.

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00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 6: Lifestyle, yeah yeah yeah. And then the con so relates

451
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,960
Speaker 6: to the cooking one. So every time I'm really good

452
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 6: at making dinner, but then when we're eating, he just

453
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,520
Speaker 6: moans the whole time while he eats.

454
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 4: What do you mean moans because he's enjoying food.

455
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:47,200
Speaker 6: Or like like everybody he takes.

456
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,479
Speaker 4: He like he's happy with his own cooking.

457
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but like doesn't realize it. And

458
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 6: then I'll just stare at him and he'll just be

459
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Speaker 6: and he'll I said, your moaning and he's like still going.

460
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 3: Can just quickly before you go onto another con.

461
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,159
Speaker 2: But if he's if he's the one that's cooking and

462
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 2: doing all the hard work, I think he deserves.

463
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 3: A moan every now and then when he has.

464
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Speaker 6: Yeah, that is a good point. I mean, it's very

465
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 6: fat like it's I mean, but it was also like

466
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 6: we're talking very plain food, so it doesn't it's I

467
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 6: would say, we're.

468
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 4: Not happy with the cooking. Okay, you're not happy with

469
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Speaker 4: the cooking camera.

470
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,479
Speaker 6: No it's no, no, no, it's very good cooking. But

471
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:28,959
Speaker 6: I'm like, it's not five star micht In restaurant.

472
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 4: You know, we have some high expectations here.

473
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Speaker 3: Any other any other cons carol?

474
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Speaker 1: Umm?

475
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 6: Or the other one was when he this is a

476
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,119
Speaker 6: real weird one. He has like forty five minutes scoldering

477
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 6: hot showers, but like so hot to the point that

478
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,199
Speaker 6: he sets the fire alarm off and then has to

479
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,399
Speaker 6: like run out of the shower completely wet to like

480
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 6: turn the fire alarm off.

481
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Speaker 4: And is he moaning when he does that?

482
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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's doing something else. What else? Any other consumm?

483
00:22:59,480 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 10: Oh?

484
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 6: The other one? He has three phones and says.

485
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 10: It's the.

486
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 5: Three phones are for work, are they yeah?

487
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 4: And does he leave them out? Does he like does

488
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 4: he know that you know he has three phones?

489
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 14: Yeah?

490
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he's has them like lined up perfectly next

491
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 6: to each other.

492
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,919
Speaker 5: Okay, I think that's he's he's open about his three phones.

493
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,679
Speaker 5: So he's a handy man and he's cooking, like you

494
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 5: know what I mean, Sissy, you got yourself marriage material here?

495
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would stay with him as well. How old

496
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Speaker 2: are you, Caroline?

497
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Speaker 3: Can I ask twenty four? Twenty four? Okay, so you're

498
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Speaker 3: young as well.

499
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Speaker 2: I mean it's not very often you're going to find

500
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Speaker 2: a handy man on the on the northern beaches that

501
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Speaker 2: can cook as well.

502
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Speaker 3: Caroline, I'd go with whip on that one.

503
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Speaker 4: Yes, it's playing extra soup. You're going to be okay, Caroline,

504
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 4: hanging in there phone.

505
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Speaker 6: I'll give him another six months maybe, Oh, call us back.

506
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 3: In six months with a brand new list.

507
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Speaker 12: We'll call.

508
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Speaker 6: Yeah, we'll call back in six months of a new lit.

509
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Speaker 12: I'll keep you guys.

510
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Speaker 4: Thank you, Carol.

511
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 3: Rebecca in Sydnam high back.

512
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Speaker 15: Hi, how are you?

513
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 4: Oh that sounds.

514
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 3: Nervous, Matt little bit. Let's talk about the old. Welcome Matt.

515
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 3: How long have you been with Matt?

516
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 15: That eighteen months?

517
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,880
Speaker 2: He sounds like a dream boat to May. Why dreamboat back?

518
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 15: He's really compassionately volunteers in the community.

519
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 5: Except you know what a community member, a valued community

520
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 5: member is priceless.

521
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Speaker 3: That's amazing.

522
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 15: He loves to help.

523
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Speaker 4: Oh, well, that's great. He's got a big heart.

524
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 15: Anything else he helps you around the house. He always

525
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 15: brings the bins up and down the driveway.

526
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Speaker 3: Yes, without effort by him, if he's prepared to do that.

527
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 4: And what about him will recycle?

528
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 3: What about his physical features? What do you love about him? Back?

529
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 3: Is it his guns? Is it his chest? What is it?

530
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 15: Well, he's not going to go bold anytime too, because

531
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Speaker 15: he's got a great head of hair.

532
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,199
Speaker 4: Is a good head of hair? Is the overall a

533
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 4: hairy guy?

534
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 15: No, he's not an overall hairy guys. Just body said.

535
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 4: That's a shame because I know girls like overall hairy guys.

536
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 3: He's not on hair dizzy.

537
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 4: Doesn't matter if natural fine meds are fine, whatever. If

538
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 4: you don't like something, change.

539
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 3: You wouldn't want to do that, that's for sure, all right.

540
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 5: So he sounds like I've never dream boat and Beck,

541
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 5: I can only assume on the intimate side, things.

542
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:22,399
Speaker 4: Are on track.

543
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 15: Yes, things are on track.

544
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,120
Speaker 2: Good, Okay, so we need to know let's get onto

545
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 2: the cons They are welcome Matt.

546
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: What what's wrong about Matt?

547
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 10: At the dinner table?

548
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 15: He likes to tap and shake his legs while he's

549
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 15: sitting there to get blood circulation.

550
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 5: Does he say it's for blood circulation or is it

551
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 5: just nervous about giving direct feedback about your cooking.

552
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 15: I could be both.

553
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 4: You know, do you do most of the cooking back?

554
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 12: Or is it?

555
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 4: Beck's the cook? Okay, so shaky leg. He's got shaky leg,

556
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 4: restless leg.

557
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 3: Syndrome, cons any other cons.

558
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 15: To send me a bill after we've been out for

559
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:03,120
Speaker 15: dinner to pay half.

560
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 4: No, he doesn't. He's joking though, isn't he.

561
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 12: Beck?

562
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 11: No?

563
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 2: Oh, you've been going out for eighteen months. He's got

564
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 2: to step up as a man and take that over.

565
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 3: Beck.

566
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Speaker 15: I know I keep telling him that, what about it?

567
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Speaker 2: I mean we've spoke about physical features before. He has

568
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 2: great head of hair. Anything that you don't like about him.

569
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Speaker 15: Beck, Unfortunately he's had too many chocolate bars. He's missing

570
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 15: a few teeth at the back of his mouth. To

571
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 15: kiss him, you can fill the holes with your tongue.

572
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:44,360
Speaker 3: Is he going to do something about it? Beck? Oh?

573
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 15: Yeah, I think he is.

574
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 3: I mean, I.

575
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 4: Can't have you for these.

576
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 3: If he gets the ch.

577
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 5: You can get a gold tooth here if he's if

578
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 5: your tongue is sliding between the gaps of his pigs

579
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 5: and then I don't know if that's the sort of

580
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 5: thing you want to be doing.

581
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 4: That's so much of a turn on, is it, Beck?

582
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 15: Not really.

583
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 5: I mean people have weird things. I mean, if you're

584
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 5: into gums by all means, but I don't think many

585
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 5: people are.

586
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 3: I don't mind having it. I don't mind having a

587
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 3: couple of teeth missing.

588
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 4: I mean it's to.

589
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,479
Speaker 2: Take him out every now and then and just do

590
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 2: the old stare down a kid, which is quite funny.

591
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: There's some party tricks involved with that as well. Look,

592
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Speaker 2: I disagree with me from this one. I'd say i'd

593
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 2: stick with him back.

594
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 3: I would stick with.

595
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 5: What so you're saying, you get home from a beautiful

596
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 5: night out, you're excited to go back, and maybe there's

597
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 5: a bit of love to make And first thing when

598
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 5: you walk in the door, he sends you a bill,

599
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,679
Speaker 5: so you have to pay half the dinner, and then

600
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 5: you start making out and digging the leftover food out

601
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:50,199
Speaker 5: of the gaps in his teeth.

602
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 3: Do you know why he's doing it?

603
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 2: They may because he's been volunteering all day and taking

604
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 2: the bins cut and also brushing his views.

605
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 5: We go to the main that he has, we go

606
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 5: to the third party on this ash. You're listening to

607
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 5: the pros and cons list from Beck. You aren't going

608
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 5: to decide whether relationship is over or it continues, hang

609
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 5: under it or dumped ash you're on.

610
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 13: I think if he gets the holes in his mouth sorted.

611
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 4: He doesn't keep him. We can't do it.

612
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 3: He's Gettinger's mate, he's getting inches.

613
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,120
Speaker 4: She never said he was getting denters?

614
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 3: Is he getting to speak?

615
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 15: He might use be the money that I don't pay

616
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 15: that I pay for for the bill for the dinner.

617
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 4: You'll be paying for half the dents as well.

618
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 5: All right, bet, good lads, that was a beautiful, gosh,

619
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Speaker 5: how hot a movie?

620
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 2: Who would play Beck and who would play Matt? Well,

621
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Speaker 2: Matt Damon would probably be able to play Matt.

622
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 3: I would say, Rebecca Black, did she play.

623
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 4: That from the Friday Songs role? Yeah? Yeah, absolutely?

624
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 3: Fred?

625
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 2: It's Fred and are both friend doesn't have tea?

626
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 4: I mean.

627
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 3: Rolls off potang.

628
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: This is the Fitting and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast

629
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Speaker 1: Tradees have a listen.

630
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 5: Maybe you're out and about on the work site. What's

631
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 5: the first thing people do you reckon when they wake

632
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 5: up in the morning and they pick up their phone.

633
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 5: A little bit of social media? Maybe jump on Tinder, swipe, swipe, swipe, Well, just.

634
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 3: See where you can get the cheapest can of V.

635
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 3: So true.

636
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 5: If you're a trader, you're looking for your V this morning,

637
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 5: you might pick up the Traveler pie and then swipe, swipe, swipe, Tinder, swipe, swipe, swap.

638
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 5: A guy on social media has come out. He's an

639
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 5: expert on social behaviors, Ryan James, and he has come

640
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 5: out and said, we are creating a new breed of men.

641
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 4: Have a listen to this.

642
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 14: On tender amount of average attractiveness has to swipe right

643
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 14: two hundred times to get one coffee, and then four

644
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 14: of those five coffees will ghost him. They will decide

645
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 14: they don't want to meet him or they want to

646
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 14: show up. That means a guy of average attractive has

647
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 14: to swipe right a thousand times to get one coffee.

648
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 14: Now what does that tell that guy? Women don't value me,

649
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 14: women make me feel rejected. And then they go online.

650
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 14: They see these misogynists telling them it's not your fault.

651
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,959
Speaker 14: And these men become much more prone to misogynistic content,

652
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 14: much more prone to nationalistic content blaming other people for

653
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 14: the lack of economic opportunity. They start sequestering from society.

654
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 14: I worry that we are literally evolving a new species

655
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 14: of asexual asocial mail. And if a man by the

656
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Speaker 14: age of thirty hasn't either lived with someone or married someone,

657
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 14: there's a one in three chance he's gonna have a

658
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 14: substance abuse problem.

659
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 5: Wow, that's pretty full interesting theory, big big number and

660
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 5: big climate at the end there that if a man

661
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Speaker 5: by the age of thirty hasn't lived with somebody or

662
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 5: dated someone, that.

663
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Speaker 4: They have a one in three chance of substance abuse.

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Speaker 4: Massive climb. Trying to you one tinder? Is this going on.

665
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Speaker 3: Thirteen twenty four ten and I was giving us kill

666
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 3: from Scyfields.

667
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Speaker 4: Good morning, Now, what are your thoughts on that?

668
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 12: Noah, Oh, we made bishop. He has a scroll for

669
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 12: his tinder. Every morning he's got the tinder gold and

670
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 12: he just swaped swaps. And then when you see him

671
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 12: at like Moco and he'd be looking at him gets

672
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 12: some rough one day.

673
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Speaker 2: So Noah, on the way to the work side, he's swiping.

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Speaker 3: So he's setting up his night that night. Is that correct?

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Speaker 12: He's just getting ready to play out through them now, no.

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Speaker 5: Sick witness, buddy keeping clean mate, Noah, Noah, I.

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Speaker 2: Need to ask, I need to ask, is he a

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Speaker 2: good looking blake?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 3: Do you honestly think he's a good looking bike yourself?

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Speaker 12: He's a good looking yeah, Noah.

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Speaker 4: What's the difference between Tinder and Tinder gold? Like? If

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Speaker 4: you have the gold one, what do you get for that?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 12: He just unlimited low. He just swap swipe, swap and

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Speaker 12: then you can just keep going. Right? How old does

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Speaker 12: he know twenty fix?

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Speaker 5: And how long has he been on tender four? I

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Speaker 5: mean does he normally line up one day to week

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Speaker 5: or how often is he dating?

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Speaker 12: I don't know. He gets he gets a fuel week,

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Speaker 12: he gets a fuel week, Okay, he.

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Speaker 3: Always concreds. No scaffolders on the scaffo, mate, speaking mate,

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Speaker 3: make sure I've got your ticket? Third and twenty four

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Speaker 3: ten fellas get involved because I The.

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Speaker 4: Other thing is you're not going to ask what he

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Speaker 4: has for breakfast?

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Speaker 3: What do you have for breakfast?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 12: May I normally have a world on son world.

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Speaker 2: On congratulations welcome to the club, so that some below

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Speaker 2: you can imagine when his stomach's turning around.

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Speaker 3: So there's a thousand swipes.

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Speaker 2: Though I must admit I actually agree with the guy

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Speaker 2: that that must be pretty deflating.

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Speaker 3: It would be if and if you're getting hoasted.

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Speaker 2: Three or four times out of those two hundred swipes,

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Speaker 2: ghosting would have to be the ultimate kick in the face.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because you know what.

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Speaker 2: You've gone all the effort, you've found, you finally found someone,

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Speaker 2: you've done yourself up.

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Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden they haven't rocked up.

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Speaker 3: That must So then.

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Speaker 2: You're watching so what they're saying, you're watching social media

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Speaker 2: whip and then all these absolute pigs of blokes like

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Speaker 2: Andrew Tata saying it's not your fould, it's not your fauld,

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Speaker 2: and they start listening to these male chauvinistic dicks.

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Speaker 5: They feel like someone's you know, speaking their language. And

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Speaker 5: then you turn up for the date, the person's not

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Speaker 5: there and you're getting another canav and a smoke on

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Speaker 5: the way home. Pretty fuch ten and traders, if you're

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Speaker 5: out there and you want to comment, if you're swiping

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Speaker 5: hard and trying to get a date, so it is, that.

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Speaker 3: Would be very deflating.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what, though, when do you get to

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Speaker 2: an age where you go, I really I don't want

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Speaker 2: to swipe anymore.

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Speaker 3: I really want to settle down well, if I think

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Speaker 3: you've got to get out of that's that's an addiction.

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Speaker 2: If you're on Tinder and you're swapping two hundred times

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Speaker 2: on the way to the work side every morning, that's

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Speaker 2: an addition.

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Speaker 5: Well, you would say that if dating apps worked, they

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Speaker 5: wouldn't exist.

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Speaker 4: Wow, we'll hang on.

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Speaker 3: Ash. Just a beautiful Ash just got married and she

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Speaker 3: met her partner on a dating app.

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Speaker 4: Oh sorry, ashwrichud was that on?

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Speaker 13: That was on Tinder?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so right on the spot? Here were you?

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Speaker 3: Were you?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 3: Were you swiping? Did you ever get ghosted? Ash?

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 13: No, never ghosted?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: What about that footballer?

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Speaker 3: Don't do this? Can I ask? Ash? How many dates

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Speaker 3: did you go on before you found your husband?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 13: Yeah, And I would say like a handful. Yeah, And

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Speaker 13: obviously you're chatting to a lot of people as well,

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Speaker 13: and a lot of those don't eventuate in dates.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 13: But I think this this mentality that if you get

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Speaker 13: reject to then it gives the green light to misogynistic behavior.

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Speaker 13: I think that's pretty problematic.

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Speaker 3: You couldn't agree more.

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Speaker 2: Well, but see, do you know what this is what

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Speaker 2: flicks up in their feed though? It's the algorithm and

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Speaker 2: do you know what? They get so deflated though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the rejection is part of life.

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Speaker 13: It is the people aren't always going to say yes,

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Speaker 13: like you don't have to be everyone's cup of tea.

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Speaker 4: That is part of life. But I think it's the compound.

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Speaker 5: If someone's gone for a year and they just continue

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Speaker 5: to get rejected, that's when it becomes a little bit

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Speaker 5: dangerous to what they're then looking at Michael's in Mount Druid.

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Speaker 4: You're a bit older, are you me?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Okay, a different one's carbon dating.

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Speaker 4: That's how i'll you are. I've been able to date

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Speaker 4: you back to the fifties.

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