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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables, except I've become a pathological liar.

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Speaker 1: It's got to the point now where I have just

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Speaker 1: made up my entire sex life and I don't know

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Speaker 1: how to stop the spiral. Any advice on how to

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Speaker 1: confront how I feel and stop lying to my friends

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Speaker 1: about my experiences? Wait? What relatable?

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Speaker 2: The Relatable podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy,

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Speaker 2: and my co host in crime, older Ottie Clark aka Mamacita.

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Speaker 1: That sounds sexy, And you guys are the baddies the

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Speaker 1: baddie twas? Yes, But Jake, we're back again with another

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Speaker 1: Dilemmas episode. And I wanted to say that, do you

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Speaker 1: Reckon Baddies know how the Dilemmas episodes came into fruition? Ah?

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Speaker 1: Some would, some would some ogs. I like to say

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Speaker 1: this actually happened organically, because now dilemmas are quite a

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Speaker 1: common reoccurring thing on other pods as well. But we

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Speaker 1: came up with this organically, I reckon. And when we

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Speaker 1: were in the Wooden Lodge set up or maybe eight

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Speaker 1: eight months ago, probably even longer two years ago, long

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Speaker 1: time now, It actually a long time two years ago,

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Speaker 1: I was troubled in life. I still am, and for

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Speaker 1: like six weeks I came back with Oddie's weekly dilemmas.

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Speaker 1: I've got one today, Oh do you? I wanted to

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Speaker 1: start every dilemma with your own, my own or your own?

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Speaker 1: Oh so if I have one or if you both

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Speaker 1: have one? Yeah, isn't under the right theme though, And

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Speaker 1: I think it's relatable of today's episode. I did. What

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Speaker 1: is the theme, Jake? The theme is I did something

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Speaker 1: I regret. Yeah, I can make at that, Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so I did something I regret aging.

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Speaker 3: It's also out of your control exactly.

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Speaker 1: Well, my dilemma is fuck. Being an adult is hard day. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I didn't want to bring it too because it's

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Speaker 1: one of those problems where like when everyone's going through

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Speaker 1: something similar, it feels like you can't complain. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: But I still want to say, like, being an adult

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Speaker 1: and doing all the adult things is stressful, and obviously

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Speaker 1: we're in a privile this position, but I just want

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Speaker 1: to say it's hard, and that's my dilemma.

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Speaker 3: And it's very's and it's also very relatable.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I dare say ninety percent of the Badi's listening.

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Speaker 1: Are all adults? And what age you considered an adult?

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Speaker 1: Is it eighteen? I think by the government, Yeah, eighteen,

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Speaker 1: the government's eighteen. But I would say I frontal lobe

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Speaker 1: twenty five.

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Speaker 2: I think that I want to say, maybe this year

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Speaker 2: is the first year where I've felt adulting in like

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Speaker 2: though I've been I have, I have proactively been adulting.

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Speaker 1: I actually adulting Is that another word for sexy time? No,

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Speaker 1: that's adultery. So we have Actually, I feel as though

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Speaker 1: this is the first year, the age of twenty five.

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Speaker 2: Is the first year where I feel as though I

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I would say it does kind of suck.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have the thought, it's a reoccurring thought, which

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Speaker 1: is why can life just be easy? It's interesting as well,

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Speaker 1: Like I understand the So I'm a.

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Speaker 2: Big fan of being like, well, you know, at least

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Speaker 2: we're born where we're born, We are lucky. We need

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Speaker 2: to look at it that way. But then at the

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Speaker 2: you don't want to make anyone feels that they're not

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Speaker 2: My mind goes from there, like, look, no, you want

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Speaker 1: It's kind of like a double ended sword in a

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Speaker 2: Here's my question about about how adulting's kind of stop

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Speaker 2: It's like, do you think it's say money was no,

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Speaker 2: I think the things that kind of stress people out.

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Speaker 2: I could be wrong here, but very often stem from money.

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Speaker 1: I think it frees up a lot of your mindset. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I guess your the thoughts you're consuming. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: But that was my delay. You can be Celiac.

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Speaker 2: Oh you. My biggest pet peeve is when someone with

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Speaker 2: because it's like, well, how about you let us experience that?

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Speaker 1: Hey, how about you let us be the judge of that.

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Speaker 1: Don't you you tell me how I will feel if

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Speaker 1: Funny doesn't being happiness?

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Speaker 3: Get rid of all, yeah, get rid of yours, Jesus.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a dilemma this week. Oh no, I'm

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Speaker 1: We're talking about I'm getting a car. Yeah, I have

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Speaker 2: I regret, but I really really am trying to find

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Speaker 1: What can't go barefoot in my house?

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Speaker 2: Because no, because no matter how many times you vacuum

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Speaker 2: when something gets stuck to the bottom on my feet.

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Speaker 1: What about because you're a clean streak, now, those shoes

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm leaning towards crocs, you know. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: Today's dilemmas for this week at least, is I did

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Speaker 2: something I regret. The baddies have obviously submitted their dilemmas.

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Speaker 2: Would you like me to go first?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 2: So last year I quit my job to start a

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Speaker 2: my old office, resulting in me sleeping with my old boss.

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Speaker 1: Don't see where you eat.

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Speaker 2: I don't actually regret the act of it, because it

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Speaker 2: new job is not working out, and I kind of

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Speaker 2: want to return to my old job. But can I

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Speaker 2: you're always welcome back, But does that apply now? Part

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Speaker 2: of me thinks we can totally be professional again. But

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Speaker 2: am I delusional?

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Speaker 1: Let me just sit on my high horse. No.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think unfortunately that that job is no longer

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Speaker 2: unless that boss leaves.

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Speaker 1: But if he's the owner of the company, he's not leaving. Ah,

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Speaker 1: Could you Levy for your sexy time to get a promotion.

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Speaker 1: He said it was good. You said you do it,

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Speaker 1: You did it a few times, do it again? The

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Speaker 1: manager role? Fucking whatever you want. Yeah, I'll come back,

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Speaker 1: But what do you Reckon's worse? So ex boyfriend has

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Speaker 1: been broken up with, she then sleeps with her boss

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Speaker 1: or boy best friend. Which is worse the bees?

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Speaker 2: Ooh, that is such a good question. Um, the best friend.

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Speaker 2: I think it's worse to sleep with the best friend

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Speaker 1: I feel like the boss is unexpecting. I think that

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Speaker 2: When you find out, it's like I didn't even know

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Speaker 4: And then you'd be like rethinking every single thing she's

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Speaker 4: ever said about her boss, and you'd be like, every

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Speaker 4: time she spoke about him, was she thinking about fucking him?

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Speaker 1: And that's the male mind, And it could be a

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Speaker 2: Obviously, Yeah, she probably she never obviously never would have

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but fuck I Reckon, what about four?

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Speaker 3: Obviously we can't answer this because we're not girls.

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Speaker 2: But for a girl. Is it worse for if she's

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Speaker 2: just broken up with a boyfriend? Oh no, sorry, no,

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend's just broken up with you, right? Is it

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm kind of like against being blind

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Speaker 3: But also so you don't really know the boss, so

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Speaker 1: I think the best friend's the worst. Yeah, true, the

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Speaker 1: best friend's worse. Yeah, because also you would have said, like,

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Speaker 3: Was like it's fine, it's fine.

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Speaker 2: And the worst thing about it is is like the

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Speaker 2: fact that it's not a surprise.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the worst thing about it would be I knew that.

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Speaker 1: You're like I knew it, and you'd be like, I'm

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Speaker 1: a fool. This man just made a fool of me. True,

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Speaker 1: But okay, this battie in the situation is the one

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Speaker 1: who has slept with the boss.

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Speaker 3: Your question are you delusional, Yes you are.

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Speaker 1: You can't go back there? Why not? Why can't they

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Speaker 1: be responsible adults and just disassociate sex is just sex, Jake?

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Speaker 1: Sex is not just sex. I agree with you.

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Speaker 3: Sex is it's it's an intimate act.

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Speaker 1: It's sad, and it's probably not what you want to hear.

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Speaker 1: But you made your bed, now you've got to sleep

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Speaker 1: in it. Also, why do you want to go back

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Speaker 1: to the old job it's better?

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Speaker 2: Well, the new job seemed better, But in between the

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Speaker 2: thinking the colmdown of whatever drugs was on.

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00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 1: It's the worst thing ever, Like it's the worst thing.

434
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,120
Speaker 1: That's pure depression right there, bro.

435
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 2: I just I was thinking the colmdown of the drugs

436
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,359
Speaker 2: she must have been on, and then the fact that

437
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 2: she's also worked up the coach to call me. If

438
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 2: I deny, she might just end everything. Like I know

439
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 2: I would, I know I would think of that, you know,

440
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 2: I know I would be.

441
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 1: Like what am I doing with my life? Like last resorts?

442
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: So I picked, so I gave her the lift home.

443
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,399
Speaker 1: I was like, fucking Then I remember just being like,

444
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:42,919
Speaker 1: you're fucking You're dumb. You're a better man than I. Oh,

445
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: you're you're silly. You're good to think. And I've definitely

446
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 1: had some like.

447
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:56,879
Speaker 2: Messages where I've missed an X and I've just like

448
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,919
Speaker 2: worked at the coach to send her hey, just and

449
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,360
Speaker 2: then you just think I do.

450
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: That my drunkness is I'm happy that this is my

451
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 1: type of drunk is when I get too pissed, I

452
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: don't go on my phone at all. Yeah, Like that

453
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 1: thing's in my pocket, I don't even touch it. Yeah,

454
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm not one of those people. It doesn't cross my mind. Yeah, mum,

455
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: one those people whips it out and goes to like

456
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 1: my contacts and shit, No, I'm glad. I'm not. But

457
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 1: I want to say to the battie who's done this

458
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 1: and any other bardies, I guess I think it's more

459
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: of a he would just shrug it off. Yeah, yeah,

460
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: it's not that bad. I think it's fine. Yeah, alrighty,

461
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 1: I did something I regret. I went out with the girls,

462
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: had one too many spicy marks, and was in that

463
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:43,719
Speaker 1: emotional love everyone phase of my drunk cycle. Then I

464
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: saw my ex standing at the bar, the X that

465
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 1: I cried over for a couple months. Instead of walking

466
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 1: away like the healed queen that I am, my body

467
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:58,159
Speaker 1: went to let's ruin our life real quick. We kissed

468
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: what like full on dramatic movie kiss. The worst part

469
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: there's this new guy. He texts me good morning and

470
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: actually listens, And now I feel like I've cheated on

471
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: a man I'm not even technically with. My friends are

472
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 1: divided between it meant nothing and you need therapy and

473
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 1: and now I don't know how to face either of them.

474
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: The ex all the perfect guy. I might just ruined

475
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: things with what do I do? Oh man, this is

476
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: like another.

477
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 3: Ah, you're allowed to regret this.

478
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're one hundred percent allowed to regret this.

479
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 2: What do you do? I think you just don't do anything. Like,

480
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 2: let's be honest, you didn't go home with the ex diden.

481
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 1: I don't know if that implies it. You kissed him

482
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 1: and kissed him movie kiss him. Yeah, it sounds like

483
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 1: she just hooked up at the club, Like, I mean,

484
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: what's I'm just trying to think you're like, maybe you

485
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,400
Speaker 1: aren't fully over him.

486
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 3: There's a way to look at this in a way

487
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 3: where it's.

488
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: Like, maybe you're not fully over him.

489
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 2: You know, you probably should end things with the nice

490
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 2: dude because you know, I dare say if you were

491
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 2: fully over your rex, you wouldn't have gone up.

492
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: And there's also the argument playing Devil's advocate that like,

493
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,439
Speaker 1: how long have you been talking to this dude? Is

494
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 1: it a week? I don't think you m on't flat.

495
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 1: I don't think it's right. But also you have a

496
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: leg to stand on of, Like I don't know, you're

497
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: allowed to do whatever you want. Yeah, you're exclusive.

498
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,120
Speaker 3: If you're exclusive, then you did the wrong thing.

499
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: But only exclusive doesn't have to be said. It's you

500
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,399
Speaker 1: kind of know if it's exclusive or not. I agree.

501
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: So Yeah, if you were under.

502
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 2: The perception you guys are exclusive and you did that,

503
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 2: then you should probably be the bigger person or be

504
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 2: like the person that owns what they did.

505
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 1: And and I don't know, you might not have to

506
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: tell him, but you can just end things with him. Yeah,

507
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 1: I think you ought to him if you think you

508
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 1: were in the exclusive phase. Yeah, but if you're not,

509
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: you're in your hot girl error and like you having fun,

510
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: like and if it was just a kiss, like I

511
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: don't know, regret it, move on, grow, don't do it again. Yeah,

512
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: just don't do it again. Yeah, just don't do it again. Crazy,

513
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And most of these are going to

514
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: be about their exes. I don't know I've got. That's

515
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: the biggest regrets I see. I think I have two more.

516
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 1: One of them is not about an ex.

517
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 2: And I also think no, but both of mine an't

518
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 2: about xes. Okay, Okay, this one's actually quiet, juicy, quite juicy.

519
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 1: Okay.

520
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 2: I twenty five females slept with a guy twenty three male.

521
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 2: I didn't plan on sleeping with him. We both agreed

522
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: to only go for a drive together, and then, of course,

523
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 2: one thing led to another and we decided to go

524
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 2: back to his house. We used protection as it was

525
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 2: the first time we met after matching on Tinder about

526
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:15,919
Speaker 2: a week prior. When he finished, I could feel in

527
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 2: quotes the warmth so the condom had broken oh, and

528
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 2: instantly questioned it and jumped up. We both panicked and

529
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 2: he paid for my morning after pill thirty five dollars.

530
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,680
Speaker 2: She's added in here as I cannot take birth control

531
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 2: due to the severe side effects of all of them.

532
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 2: Fast forward a few weeks and I go to get

533
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 2: a blood test for a screening and the doctor orders

534
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: a pregnancy test as well. I was like waste of time,

535
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 2: but didn't refuse as it was already on the pathology

536
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 2: form STI tests were all negative except herpes won which

537
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 2: is the cold saw type, which I already knew I

538
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 2: had because someone kissed me as a baby and I

539
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 2: contracted it. Thank you for sharing that information. However, the

540
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 2: pregnancy results were positive. Oh No, I kept the pregnancy

541
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 2: as I have fertility issues, so if I aborted, I

542
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: could potentially never conceive again. Thanks to PCOS and ad denomiosis, which.

543
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: There's two things.

544
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: I never told him about the pregnancy, and now I'm

545
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 2: thirty eight weeks pregnant with his with his daughter and

546
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 2: have and about to have a C section on December

547
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 2: first due to my prior c section five years ago.

548
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: I regret not telling him because now he's in a

549
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 2: relationship and I can't contact him about the baby. He

550
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 2: did tell me he didn't want a trial right now anyway,

551
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 2: So even so, he did tell me he didn't want

552
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 2: a child right now anyway, So even if he knew,

553
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 2: he'd probably still be uninvolved anyway. I'm just upset and

554
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 2: regret that he doesn't know about his daughter on the way.

555
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 2: But given the fact it's from a one night stand,

556
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 2: he paid for m AP morning off pill and said

557
00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 2: he didn't want a child, I decided it was best

558
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 2: to not reach out eight months ago. Should I still

559
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 2: reach out to him and tell him, regardless of relationship

560
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: status or if he doesn't want a child now, our

561
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 2: daughter's name will be I don't think I'm going.

562
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: To say the name.

563
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 3: This could be real. Why do you give us the name?

564
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 3: You might have to bleep that.

565
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, shit, Okay, I think the answer is simple, even

566
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: though you're thirty eight weeks tell him. I think you

567
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: have to tell him because and also you're never going

568
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: to know if you even that he might have the

569
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: information given to him and then be like, holy fuck,

570
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 1: that's my daughter. I do want to be involved. Yeah,

571
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: you never know, and like he's the thing though it's

572
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: a I dare say you don't want to be with him,

573
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: a one night stand. You don't even really know the guy, Yeah,

574
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: and like class half full, like it's a blessing. You

575
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: got to have a kid. You said it was going

576
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 1: to be very, very hard. Maybe he had really really

577
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: good swimmers.

578
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 3: Hey, and that's all the more reason to be with him,

579
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 3: because what if his swimmers are great?

580
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's not a great reason. I think

581
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: tell him. He deserves to know. And the good thing

582
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: about telling him is you seem like you're completely happy

583
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: with being independent, so his response doesn't matter. If he

584
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: goes all weird and awkward and ghosts you, well least

585
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: he knows, and if he wants to support you, then

586
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: good and you've done your part.

587
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 2: Here's my thinking as well, like anyone that's like any

588
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 2: sort of normal would get the information that if I

589
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 2: got the information that I was a fucking dad and

590
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 2: this baby's going to be born within weeks, I would

591
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 2: be obviously in shock, but also I'd be like, I

592
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 2: also did that. Yeah, if my second thing would have

593
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 2: been would then be I really wish you would have

594
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: told me, because even if you know, I would have

595
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 2: probably said no, I don't want to keep it. But

596
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:55,719
Speaker 2: it's obviously her choice, her body, her choice, and if

597
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 2: you wanted to keep it, then at least I would

598
00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 2: have had some notice. But hindsights, as we all say,

599
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 2: a bitch, So I think you should tell him because

600
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 2: even I just think if anyone is any sort of

601
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 2: morally normal, I think the baby kind of deserves to like,

602
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 2: yeah for him, Yeah, and then the baby will hopefully

603
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 2: have a father.

604
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. I reckon, you could be a boss us bitch

605
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 1: right now too. Contact him, don't say anything, and then

606
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: should rock up and your belly's there. Fuck, he's got

607
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 1: a girlfriend, I know, but he's still had sex of us.

608
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: It's not like he didn't do it.

609
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, no, yeah, I'm just thinking like the

610
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 2: girlfriend the girl's dating now when.

611
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: She kind of deserves to know it too, that he

612
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: has a kid one hundred percent. So I think, just

613
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 1: do it and then you can deal with the consequences

614
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: and you're in a good position so it doesn't matter.

615
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 1: Fingers crossed for you. Yeah, I think I'm you kind

616
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: of anticipating his response just because he said the morning

617
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: after pill, but.

618
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,959
Speaker 2: Like and also because you met him, like you know,

619
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 2: I'm assuming the one time and that one time kids

620
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 2: were brought up and he said he doesn't want kids

621
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 2: right now, and it's like, that's the thing where obviously

622
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 2: he doesn't want kids right now, but he's never been

623
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 2: in this situation where a kid actually was potentially going

624
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 2: to happen. Yeah, so if he wants kids one day

625
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 2: and there's a kid right now, I dare say he

626
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 2: wants a kid.

627
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so that's how it has changed.

628
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, look, hindsight, you obviously should have told him

629
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 2: earlier on, but you haven't, so tell him now.

630
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: I think. So alrighty, this one is good. I did

631
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: something I regret. My best friend asked me if her

632
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: outfit looked good, and she meant it she was vulnerable,

633
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: but I was exhausted, delusional and accidentally said, yeah, it's

634
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 1: something in a sarcastic tone. My best friend asked me

635
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: if her outfit looked good, and she meant it she

636
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: was vulnerable, but I was exhausted, delusional and accidentally just said, yeah,

637
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:54,239
Speaker 1: it's something in a sarcastic tone. She completely missed the

638
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: sarcasm and thought it was my supportive tone. Now she's

639
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: been wearing the same outfit for days when we've been

640
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: going out, telling everyone dot dot Dot said it was

641
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 1: so cute. People compliment her and she looks right at me,

642
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: like I'm her stylists. I feel like I'm living a lie,

643
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: and every time I see her, I feel personally responsible.

644
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to crush her confidence, but I also

645
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 1: don't want this outfit to become her personality. What do

646
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,479
Speaker 1: I do? Wait, so the outfit is obviously bad.

647
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, but people are complimenting her, So you've kind of

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Speaker 2: like dodged a bullet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in a sense, I think this is so fine. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If it's an outfit everyone else likes and you're the

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Speaker 1: only one that doesn't like it, and she likes it,

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Speaker 1: it's obviously a good outfit and you just had a

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Speaker 1: bad lack of judgment on the day.

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Speaker 3: But you seem to have had good judgment on the

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Speaker 3: day live the lie.

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Speaker 1: But also, is it like when you go out everyone says, oh,

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Speaker 1: you look good when someone's put effort in and you

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Speaker 1: can see the effort irrespective of how good it looks,

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Speaker 1: there's a little compliment here in it. Is it those

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Speaker 1: type of ones or is it like people analyzing it

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Speaker 1: and thinking, yeah, you look good. Because there's a difference.

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Speaker 1: I want to know how often you see her, because

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Speaker 1: like I for how often I see you?

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Speaker 2: If I set an outfit looks good once, even if

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Speaker 2: even let's say I wasn't lying, like I actually liked

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Speaker 2: the outfit and I did think it looked good. So

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Speaker 2: if I told you an outfit you're wearing looks good once,

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Speaker 2: and then every time we hung out you seemed you

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Speaker 2: were wearing it, I'd be like, dude, I like it,

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Speaker 2: But like you, is this a coincidence?

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Speaker 1: Always? I'd be like, what's going on here? True?

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, is there like at least just I

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Speaker 2: had a different shirt, And isn't there.

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Speaker 1: Like a stereotype where like girls don't wear the same

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Speaker 1: outfit more than once?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I think like they definitely wear the

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Speaker 2: same outfit more than once. But this, I think the

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Speaker 2: stereotype is always that whenever they have an event come.

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Speaker 1: Up, it's gonna be a different one At the event for.

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Speaker 2: Some reason, they don't have anything to wear and like

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Speaker 2: and I go through this with Beth quite often. She'll like,

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Speaker 2: she'll go, there's been multiple times where Beth's gone and

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Speaker 2: maybe spent like which I actually encourage it. I do think,

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Speaker 2: you know, once or twice a year you should go

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Speaker 2: spend like, I don't know, five hundred bucks on new

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Speaker 2: clothes or just a couple hundred dollars whatever you want,

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Speaker 2: just buy some new outfits.

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Speaker 1: So Beth will do it.

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Speaker 2: And then and then a while will go by, and

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Speaker 2: then an event will come up and she'll be like,

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Speaker 2: I've got nothing aware and I'm like, what did you

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Speaker 2: buy when you went?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: Did you not buy outfits? She's like, I just.

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Speaker 3: They interesting, it's just so funny. I'm like, did you

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Speaker 3: buy outfits the day you went?

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Speaker 1: Maybe they just sick of them by then? Who knows? True?

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Speaker 1: So are we locking in if everyone's complimenting? Yeah, what's

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Speaker 1: the problem? Is a dilemma? A lie? What do you

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Speaker 1: just like feel guilty or some shit? Probably? Yeah? Fuck

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Speaker 1: I think if people are complimenting her and you're the

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Speaker 1: only one that seems to its ouf, it's not nice.

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Speaker 1: It's an opinion thing. Yeah, it's an opinion thing.

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Speaker 3: And you should live this fucking lie until you die.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that is before we keep going.

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, we will have to let you know that the

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Speaker 2: rest of the Dilemma is.

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Speaker 1: Going to be on Patreon behind a paywall. Imaginary war inserted. Now, no,

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Speaker 1: we're talking, so sorry, but I'm also not sorry because

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Speaker 1: we got to pay the bills. Yeah, we do, and.

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Speaker 2: next week we are going to do the topic for

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Speaker 2: Dilemmas is I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place.

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Speaker 2: So there's a link in the description for you to

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Speaker 2: submit your dilemmas that fall into that theme, and we'll

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