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Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to the heart of it. We are

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Speaker 1: recording on gadigal Land.

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Speaker 2: We have a fairly well known couple that we have

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Speaker 2: just had a fabulous chat with, Lucky Gilbert and Irena Gilbert.

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Speaker 3: You would know them.

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Speaker 2: From The Bachelor Australia Season eight, where their undeniable connection

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Speaker 2: just bloss and amidst the drama of.

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Speaker 3: Course reality TV.

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Speaker 2: Irena was the beautiful, beautiful nurse and Lucky was just

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Speaker 2: like the wild outdoorsman.

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Speaker 1: Because because he hunk, and they had a lot of

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Speaker 1: probably a lot more attention on their season because it

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Speaker 1: was COVID.

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Speaker 3: That's right the way people saw.

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Speaker 1: It, rooting for Lockie and Irena to come together.

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Speaker 4: A great chat.

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Speaker 1: They're in a good place.

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Speaker 2: Well, they're sure, they're in Bali, they're on holiday back.

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Speaker 2: They're so kindly took time out.

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Speaker 3: With their beautiful daughter Ava.

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Speaker 2: You'll be able to hear in the background having a

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Speaker 2: few little gurgles and chirps and and.

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Speaker 1: It's a great it's a great chat. Because they did

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Speaker 1: talk about the public scrutiny that they went through. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure they are dealing still with it in some particular doubt.

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Speaker 3: They have well known faces.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, and Lockie mentioned you know, some of the

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Speaker 2: other reality shows that he did and why he did them,

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Speaker 2: and certainly in life with Ava now and how that's

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Speaker 2: changed them has been They've spoke really beautifully about that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Also I've found it interesting with Irena has returned to nursing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and she's in post op So imagine that waking up

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Speaker 1: from a four hour anesthetic and there's Irena standing, You'd

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Speaker 1: be like, yeah, what what?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: On TV Locke's got a new business which he shares

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Speaker 2: with us as well. So enjoy the chat with Lockey

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Speaker 2: and Irena.

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Speaker 1: Irena and Lockey, thanks for joining us on the heart

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Speaker 1: of it. Where have we found you today?

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Speaker 6: We are actually in Bali. We are on a family holiday.

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Speaker 4: Should we be here? Are we allowed to be talking

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Speaker 4: to you on a family holiday?

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Speaker 5: No, it's fine where I'm always on the computer, which

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Speaker 5: is good and bad, but I'm never not working. But

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Speaker 5: now it's being in Perth like Ballei's a three hour trip,

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Speaker 5: so it's cheaper quicker to get here than it is

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Speaker 5: to go back to Melbourne.

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Speaker 2: That's so true. I always forget that about Perth. How

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Speaker 2: bloody close it is to Bali.

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Speaker 3: Is so lucky.

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Speaker 5: Like, what a great same time zone? Same everything?

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Speaker 4: Is that right? Same time zone I've never been to

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Speaker 4: in Perth.

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Speaker 5: We just call at a northern suburb.

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Speaker 4: Why not?

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Speaker 1: Hey, speaking of you, you just said you're on the

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Speaker 1: computer all the time. Do you guys have any rules

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Speaker 1: around social media and computers like dinner time, bedtime, the

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Speaker 5: I'm very very bad. Like the first thing I do

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Speaker 5: in the morning is I get up check sales, check emails,

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Speaker 5: and I'm yeah, I'm because I'm running most of my

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Speaker 5: my new business just by myself. Like I'm just constantly

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Speaker 5: having to be on replies on emails and stuff. So

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Speaker 5: I'd like one hundred percent want to be off because

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Speaker 5: when we do switch off and we're just like president

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Speaker 5: in the moment, it's amazing, but it's very hard.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, indeed. And Avera's how old now?

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Speaker 7: She's fifteen months?

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Speaker 2: She's fifteen months. Oh what a gorgeous age. How did

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Speaker 2: she travel on the on the plane?

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Speaker 3: Is she all right? She good traveler, She's a really

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Speaker 7: This was her twentieth flight. Heard international trip easy. She

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Speaker 7: is a well troubled baby, yeah, very well troubled.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, stardom, young stardom young.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well that's our lifestyle, so we had to kind

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Speaker 3: Yeah, of course.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well you guys, you guys, I mean it's been

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Speaker 1: well documented. We don't need to go over the whole

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Speaker 1: we know how you met bachelor thing, what's that we

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Speaker 1: well documented how you two met. Take us with Take

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Speaker 1: us through the challenges of taking your relationship that was

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Speaker 5: It was?

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Speaker 6: It was difficult because you have such a public relationship

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Speaker 6: and it's you know, on national TV, and everyone's so

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Speaker 6: it that we feel like we owe them that and

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Speaker 6: that's kind of the life that we have, but we

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Speaker 6: also want to keep some things quite private and personal.

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Speaker 6: And it's just finding the balance between what's too much

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Speaker 6: I think it's taken us a good couple of years

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Speaker 5: I think it was. It was definitely harder for Irena

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Speaker 5: because obviously I've done every TV show under the sun,

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Speaker 5: so lucky, been under the scrutiny of like people and

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Speaker 5: So for me it was it was harder because it

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Speaker 5: was pretty hard at the start for Arena because everyone

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Speaker 5: be like, oh, why aren't you doing this? Why we

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Speaker 5: haven't seen you here? We were like, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: did you guys break up? And it's like, no, we

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Speaker 5: was either traveling. It's just like everything was like if

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Speaker 5: like I wasn't seen in a story for a week,

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Speaker 5: everyone like, oh, they're broken up, and then there will

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Speaker 5: be a Daily Mail article and it's just Irena took

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Speaker 5: a million good and bad review articles about me.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, like we're engaged, when we won't engage, then

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Speaker 6: we're secretly married, then we're secretly broken up, and.

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Speaker 5: Then we have a couple kids and then it's pretty funny.

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Speaker 2: I actually, I mean I've personally sort of been in

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Speaker 3: That's the hardest place for me to be is that I.

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Speaker 5: Don't think many people would be okay with it. Like

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Speaker 5: I think I'm very tough and can take like any

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Speaker 5: kind of criticism and stuff. But you'll get a million

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Speaker 5: good comments and then the one comment that just like

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Speaker 5: all about to say it, yeah, yeah, one rattled me.

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Speaker 5: It was like someone just like we put up a

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Speaker 5: was up for like twenty four hours straight of just

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Speaker 5: like there was nothing whatsoever of Like we had all

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Speaker 5: the tests, we had everything, but like just a small

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Speaker 6: Was like, there's something wrong with Ava, like you know,

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Speaker 6: And then I took it. I flew her to Melbourne

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Speaker 6: Even there and the pediatricians like, she she's perfectly helpful.

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Speaker 5: And then I wouldn't even he didn't believe. I didn't

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Speaker 5: I had to talk to the doctor. But yeah, no

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Speaker 5: matter what how strong you are, I think you can

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and when it's I think it's probably way harder

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Speaker 2: Like there's one level when it's yourself, but when it's

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Speaker 3: No, you are blocked and deleted for I have to process.

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Speaker 4: That and I want to and write. I have this

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Speaker 2: Email and it never works.

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Speaker 4: I mean will say to me, you should write them

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Speaker 3: Irina.

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Speaker 2: Did you have like people in the streets sort of

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Speaker 2: he had have chosen the other person? Did anyone ever

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Speaker 2: you when you first sort of went public outside of

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Speaker 2: The Bachelor.

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Speaker 6: Not in person because we our seasons during COVID, so

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Speaker 7: Was coming up to anyone publicly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but.

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Speaker 6: I definitely had a lot of messages saying he shouldn't

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Speaker 7: Picked someone else. I don't understand why he picked you.

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Speaker 7: You're boring, You're just a nurse.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, I kind of had to block it out

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Speaker 6: and trust our relationship and trust what we had, and

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Speaker 6: that's kind of I think what got me through a

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Speaker 2: Did that ever like play into challenges in the relationship.

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Speaker 3: Were you always rock solid?

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Speaker 6: Like the beginning was really hard so and I think

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Speaker 6: COVID kind of helped and kind of didn't help. I

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Speaker 6: had to make a decision to move to Perth straight away,

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Speaker 6: so we never did kind of a long distance. We

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Speaker 6: kind of went from the show to living together instantly,

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Speaker 6: and I think that also added pressure that we were like, oh,

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Speaker 6: we're living together. I've moved my life across Australia without

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Speaker 7: Been to Perth or anything.

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Speaker 6: So there was many factors that kind of contribute at

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Speaker 6: the beginning. But I don't think that it was ever

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Speaker 6: or me having doubts about like his feelings towards me.

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Speaker 6: I think that part was always solid. It was more

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Speaker 6: just the pressures of I guess having a relation, a

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Speaker 3: We can hear beautiful.

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Speaker 4: High, she's gorgeous.

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Speaker 5: Wing, but no, I don't. I don't think we ever

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Speaker 6: For seven people to come from Perth, yeah, so incredible.

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Speaker 7: It's basically just non stop dancing.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, there's just dancing and drums and like it's

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Speaker 6: So Lockie's best man held the like the traditional flask

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Speaker 5: But oh, there's so many well, there's so many traditions

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Speaker 5: It's I was only just thinking this yesterday. But it's

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Speaker 6: Like people tell you, when you have kids, you feel

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Speaker 7: I'm like, yeah, because you run around just like.

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Speaker 3: She really has it. Has it changed? Has it changed

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Speaker 2: Like you've done some you know, You've done some adventure

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Speaker 5: You can't describe it, can you. You really like someone

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it doubles, it grows, doubles. It's not less, it doubles.

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Speaker 4: She's an absolute ripper.

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Speaker 6: She's NonStop. This is her energy all the time. She's go,

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Speaker 3: Do you miss the nursing world, Irena.

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Speaker 7: I'm still nursing?

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Speaker 3: Are you still nursing?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 6: off and went back quite quickly. Yeah, but I do

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00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 6: it part time, so part time, full time mum, but

448
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 6: part time nurse.

449
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 3: Yeah you still love it though, suh.

450
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:17,680
Speaker 7: Absolutely.

451
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, It's not a job that you do for anything

452
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 6: other than you love it because you know it's not

453
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 6: the most you know, we don't get paid the best,

454
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 6: but it's the most rewarding jobs.

455
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 7: But I love nursing.

456
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

457
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,439
Speaker 1: When you're nursing to people, your patients ever recognize you from.

458
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 7: The Telly in So.

459
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,919
Speaker 6: I'm a recovery nurse, so I see patients after they

460
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 6: wake up from an analytic Oh yeah, and some of

461
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 6: the stuff that they say is just hilarious. And then

462
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 6: I get messages on Instagram later on going, oh my god,

463
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 6: I thought it was a dream.

464
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,439
Speaker 7: That I saw you, but you were really there. What

465
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 7: did I say to you?

466
00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:58,239
Speaker 5: So?

467
00:22:58,359 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's great.

468
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 3: I could have sworn. I woke up and there was

469
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 3: this beautiful nerve. She look really familiar kind of ben

470
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 3: are you? Are you a bit of an adventure woman

471
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,360
Speaker 3: as well? Irena? Have you done some of the adventure

472
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 3: of stuff with Lockie.

473
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 6: I've certainly become a little bit more adventurous since being

474
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 6: with Locke. Like I've done what we do done. I've

475
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 6: done skydiving, great white.

476
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,439
Speaker 5: Sharksol where did you do that?

477
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 7: Up in mt We've done them, wild dolphins.

478
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 5: I went hiking overnight like mountain bike for driving a

479
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 5: lot more. I My thing was I just like threw

480
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 5: her into it like that. We did a lap around

481
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 5: Australia straight off the back of the show Don't do

482
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 5: not recommend it three months into relationship, spending eight months

483
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,879
Speaker 5: in a car together. It was very testing, but I

484
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 5: think that's why we're closer together. But I threw her

485
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 5: in the deep end, which I probably should have went

486
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 5: a little bit slower, but she took it like a champ.

487
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 5: I think there was like a hashtag going around about

488
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 5: our trips. It was like free Irena. She was abstantely

489
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 5: like these crazy trips and everything.

490
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, so was that with a caravan.

491
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 5: Now we did it with rooftop ten and just like

492
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 5: a camper trailer with like pull out kitchen. So yeah,

493
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 5: we did eight months that. It had no shower, no toilet,

494
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 5: like it was just rough.

495
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 2: What would you say has been your best sort of

496
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:44,439
Speaker 2: adventure wise trip so far the two of you.

497
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 5: Some of the member of moments are the fights, but

498
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 5: I'll go, oh, no, this one's funny, because it's pretty funny.

499
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,679
Speaker 5: We were in the middle of Northern Territory. It was

500
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 5: like we were one hundred and sixty kilometers away from

501
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,640
Speaker 5: camp and we're down this dirt road. It's like forty degrees.

502
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 5: We're fighting about something, something stupid, like it always is,

503
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 5: and I'm driving now I'm like, nah, take the car,

504
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 5: go you you get So I got out middle of

505
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 5: nowhere dirt road forty forty degrees. Then she jumps in

506
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 5: the driver's seat. I'm just legging it down this road

507
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 5: like walking, and she goes, god, fine, go leave, and

508
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 5: she just starts throwing my stuff out the window. The

509
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 5: stuff she was throwing out was a bag, sunscreen, lip bomb,

510
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,719
Speaker 5: and a map, a water bottle. So I'm there with

511
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 5: my bag picking up the stuff. Come yep, thank you,

512
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 5: and then she took off. I was like, oh, so

513
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 5: then I legged it into the bushes, trying to trick

514
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 5: her that I was gone. I see her driving back

515
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:41,879
Speaker 5: trying to find me, and then I get back in

516
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 5: the car and then it's all fine. But that's a

517
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 5: vorable moment.

518
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 4: But I mean, you can't react that.

519
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: That would be a funny reenactment, you know, put a

520
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 1: drone up in the air and see.

521
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,400
Speaker 3: A car take this farm, you bustard all.

522
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 1: So face on that when you do argue, and like,

523
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 1: how how does it go?

524
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 4: Making up?

525
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: What do you how do you get through those disagreements?

526
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 5: I don't even know. We just realize how stupid the problem.

527
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 5: I think. I think we've become like the trip around Australia,

528
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 5: We've got so good at working out what kisses each

529
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 5: other off so quickly. So that's why our arguments get

530
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 5: to a point where it's just like, oh my god,

531
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 5: we're being stupid, and then we just kind of move on.

532
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 5: But I don't know if there's anything that we do

533
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 5: that most of.

534
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 6: The time it's you coming to me and apologizing, and

535
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 6: then all the.

536
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 5: Time I'm apologizing, you never.

537
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,959
Speaker 6: Apologize, and then and I'm like, oh, yeah, we're being

538
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 6: a bit ridiculous, aren't we and it's always over like

539
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 6: the most silliest things, like we will literally fight over

540
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 6: like where a sunglass, where I'll put his sunglasses or.

541
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 5: You know, and I've always miss play. It's never me

542
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 5: at the start.

543
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 6: It's just something something really silly, and that we will

544
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 6: turn it into something ridiculous and we will kind of

545
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 6: get over it. But like for the serious things, we

546
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 6: you know, we're still learning and we're still especially now

547
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 6: with the child. It makes things so different, Like having

548
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 6: a kid just escalates things. So now it's more, you know,

549
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 6: we're learning to communicate a lot better. And I think

550
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 6: that you know, with Ava, now we've really learned how

551
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 6: to talk to one another and talk with kindness even

552
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 6: when we're.

553
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 7: Upset with each other.

554
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 6: And I think that's been a really big difference, and

555
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 6: that we try not to, you know, get to a

556
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,959
Speaker 6: point where where we're you know, escalating and screaming at

557
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 6: each other for no reason.

558
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 5: So like I've been very like kind of I guess

559
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 5: you can call it that, the Marcho kind of persona

560
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 5: and stuff. And I actually only recently just started seeing

561
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 5: like a not a she's like a coach, like a

562
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 5: business coach and the life coach as well, and like

563
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 5: we did all the stuff that I do not like,

564
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 5: like all the the healing and like she laid me

565
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 5: down on the ground and then talked about my past

566
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 5: and then I'm crying and like doing all this stuff

567
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 5: that I hate, Like I am, like I get chills

568
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 5: even thinking about it because I don't like that kind

569
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 5: of stuff. But just even from that kind of coaching

570
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 5: or whatever you want to call it, has made huge changes.

571
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 5: So a shout out to her. She's changed me amazingly

572
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 5: and anyone else. So that's a march o man that

573
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 5: thinks that all this woo woo stuff is kind of

574
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 5: not for them. Just get to go, because it did

575
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 5: help me out quite a bit.

576
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 4: What was it that made you lean into that?

577
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 5: I don't like to say, like we just dug into

578
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 5: Like I don't like the word trauma because I think

579
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 5: everything you just need to turn it. You either turn

580
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 5: it into a negative or a positive. So whatever happened,

581
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 5: it's up to you. But just went back and just

582
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 5: found out reasons why I'm doing stuff now, and like

583
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 5: you kind of work out like, hey, that's not the

584
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 5: way it's meant to be. But you're just programmed to

585
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 5: think that that's the way it is. And then literally

586
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 5: there was one thing just with some things that it

587
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 5: was just a switch and I go, oh, well that

588
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 5: wasn't the right thing that happened to me years ago,

589
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 5: like and it just it just kind of fixed it

590
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 5: pretty pretty good.

591
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 6: Because what she explained was that, like, you know, it's

592
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 6: and I think on one of your episodes, you guys

593
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 6: spoke to someone about it.

594
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 7: It's your part.

595
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 6: Your childhood comes out when you have a serious adult relationship,

596
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 6: and things that you did as a child and how

597
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 6: you coped with things then comes out later on in life.

598
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 6: So and I think that's what we've learned, and it's

599
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 6: learning about how to adapt that but adapt it into

600
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 6: an adult relationship and over romantic relationship.

601
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 3: Absolutely.

602
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 4: It also feels like that too with.

603
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: Parenting as well, that you're faced with that now you've

604
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: got aver in front of you, and it's that choice

605
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: to go okay fit you know innately, you know the

606
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 1: way that how you were parented in that moment, and

607
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: then you go and that I know, I remember that

608
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: feeling not good. I need to make a different choice.

609
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: But it's that unconscious side of you when that takes over.

610
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 1: It it can be make things a lot more challenging.

611
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, very like because we if anyone looked at us,

612
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 5: they would be like, Arena is going to be the

613
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 5: overprotective like watching her all the time, and I'm just

614
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 5: going to be full free range because we loved the show.

615
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 5: What was the show, Parental Guidance?

616
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 3: Great show.

617
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 5: But then I'm like massively helicopter parent, like terrible helicopter parent.

618
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 5: Like even if she's on a swing, like I am

619
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 5: losing it because I do not want her to get hurt.

620
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 5: Where for me, I'm just like that's insane because I

621
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 5: take all the risks in the world, but like, nah,

622
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 5: I have to be there with her at all times.

623
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would have.

624
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 2: I would have one hundred picked you is that as

625
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: the dad who throws the kid up into the air

626
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 2: and chucks him in the pool to learn how to

627
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 2: swim and you know all that stuff.

628
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 3: Wow, that's wild, that's really interesting.

629
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm getting better, but yeah I'm still nowhere near her,

630
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 5: like we're out camping my mates or like, oh, helicopter helicopter.

631
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, but they do. I mean that's the thing that

632
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 4: builds their own.

633
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: Resilience, you know, let them fall over pick themselves up.

634
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:27,479
Speaker 4: You're okay.

635
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 7: I think we did.

636
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, we do pretty well with that. Like my big thing.

637
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 5: My big thing is I just like if she falls

638
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 5: and hurts herself or like she does something wrong or fails,

639
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 5: that I praise that fail, not like a participation award

640
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 5: kind of style, but like get up, like it's okay

641
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 5: to fail and try again and then then succeed. Like

642
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 5: I don't want her to think like failing is a

643
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 5: bad thing, like because I think in my life I've

644
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 5: failed at a thousand things. I've started, heaps of businesses

645
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 5: that have failed. I've failed so many times. But I'm

646
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,959
Speaker 5: just not scared of failure. And that's the one thing

647
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 5: I'd love to beach Ova.

648
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 3: I love that.

649
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 2: So what is next for both of you? Sort of

650
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: personally and professionally.

651
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 5: I just started up a new company in Australia selling

652
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 5: full drive gear. But the whole reason behind it was

653
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 5: since I've got Ava and the family, now I knew

654
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 5: that you'd have like your family, your hobbies and your

655
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 5: business your work, and then the one thing that would

656
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 5: dwindle down is your hobbies. And for me, hobbies is

657
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 5: how I express myself how I like. That's just my

658
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 5: whole life besides these two. So I was just like, oh,

659
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 5: what can I do to create a business around my hobbies,

660
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 5: which is around outdoors and full driving and stuff. So

661
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 5: created a new company and then that's given me enough

662
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 5: time to work on that and also spend a lot

663
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 5: of time with my family as well.

664
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 2: How about for you, Irena, anything next for you personally

665
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 2: or professionally.

666
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 6: Professionally, I feel like I'm pretty that, Like I I

667
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 6: could have been a nurse now for fifteen years, so

668
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Speaker 6: I feel like that's been a huge part of my

669
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 6: life and I love it, but now I kind of

670
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 6: want to transition into like and I never ever thought

671
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 6: i'd say this, I want to be a full time mum.

672
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

673
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 6: I've always loved my job and loved my career, but

674
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 6: I hate spending time away from Ava, and especially if

675
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 6: we have more kids. I want to be, you know,

676
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 6: as present as I can, but by still providing you know,

677
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 6: a good role model for Favor and you know, a

678
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 6: good example for her. So it's just finding that balance,

679
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 6: I guess right.

680
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 1: I'm always curious about people who go on the on

681
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: the on the TV shows, on the reality shows and things.

682
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: If it's especially like what you guys did with The Bachelor.

683
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 1: Am I am I on this to meet somebody or

684
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 1: I'm on this to you know, build fame and you know,

685
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: an acting career or something like that. Clearly you both

686
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: went on to well, I I say clearly with you, Irena,

687
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: you went on you're a nurse. It doesn't feel like

688
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: you were going on there to do TV. Whereas Locke says,

689
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: I've done every bloody TV show.

690
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 4: In the book, well since then, since then? You know, But.

691
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: If someone came to you and said, oh, we've got

692
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 1: this idea for a TV show.

693
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:17,479
Speaker 4: Now that you've got.

694
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 1: Your businesses set up, you're a bit more in it,

695
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 1: got your future laid out in how you want it

696
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: and taking responsibility for your own stuff. Like lock you're

697
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 1: setting up your business. If someone did come up and say, oh,

698
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: I would love you to do more TV, is that

699
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: is that.

700
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 4: Something that you would do again? Or is that been there,

701
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 4: done that? Moving on?

702
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 6: The way I see is The Bachelor has given me

703
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 6: my whole life, like it's given me Locky and now Ava.

704
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 6: So I'm so grateful for the show. So I feel

705
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 6: like if there was an opportunity for something else, I

706
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,479
Speaker 6: don't know what it would bring. So it's only brought

707
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 6: me something. I've only had one experience and it's only

708
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 6: been a positive. So I'd be open to it if

709
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 6: it didn't take me away from a long time away

710
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 6: from Ava, that will be my only thing.

711
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 7: Lockie's different, He's open to one.

712
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,760
Speaker 5: Is just like I love. Back when I was like twenty,

713
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,320
Speaker 5: I just kind of said to myself, I'm going to

714
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 5: say yes to every opportunity. Like so then that took

715
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 5: me playing sports around Europe, traveled the world, Survivor Bachelor,

716
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,919
Speaker 5: met my wife, got my daughter. So I don't that's

717
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 5: the same as Ireen. I think. I think we both

718
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 5: like in terms of your question, we would never do

719
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 5: it to like boost anything. It would be like if

720
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,399
Speaker 5: it sounds cool, sounds fun, like it's something that we enjoy,

721
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 5: it doesn't take away from our family, Yeah, we'd give

722
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 5: it a go, but like, yeah, we wouldn't be going,

723
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 5: oh we can boost this, we can do that, we'll

724
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 5: get this from this. We just we literally just want

725
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 5: to have fun and just provide as much as we

726
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 5: can for our family.

727
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, all right.

728
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 2: We do something called the rapid heartbeat, and it's just

729
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 2: sort of quick fire questions. It will ask you both

730
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 2: the same question and just keep your answers short.

731
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 4: What brings you joy?

732
00:35:59,000 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 5: Ever?

733
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? Over, What's one habit that you each do that

734
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 2: the other finds adorable? It's adorable, guys. I know everyone

735
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 2: thinks I'm going to say annoying, it's adorable. What habit

736
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: do you find in the other person that's adorable?

737
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:21,399
Speaker 5: Mine is backscratches. What it starts is popping, and then

738
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 5: I get.

739
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 6: Mine is just catching locking Ava having cuddles together.

740
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: Yea dream destination that you have yet to visit.

741
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 6: Antarctica Me Spain, Mexic Crew.

742
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 3: Last question, one word to describe each.

743
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 5: Other caring.

744
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 7: Teddy bear.

745
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 3: That's right, that's that's a new one. We've never had

746
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 3: Teddy never had Teddy Bear. I love that.

747
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 2: We're going to let you go back to your lives.

748
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,320
Speaker 2: You two and Ava and Barley.

749
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Speaker 4: Thank you so much, guys,