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Speaker 1: Is it sits in with Kate Podcasts the phone Buddy,

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Speaker 1: You've got a feeling that your partner's trying to kill you. No,

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Speaker 3: We've been trying for years.

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Speaker 2: So what it does.

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Speaker 1: It cuts out all the noise around me, and I've

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Speaker 3: So hang on a minute. Are you one pillow under

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Speaker 1: Yes, right, yes, I'll have a pillow over at the

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Speaker 3: Some people think about using earplugs.

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Speaker 1: Yes, now, I actually find it really comfortable having a

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Speaker 1: I've waken up a couple of times whip and my

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Speaker 2: Her and she was staring at me. And you know what,

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Speaker 2: that's beautiful. Your wife's staring at you. But she sort

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Speaker 3: Do you know that's why they call it a death stair.

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Speaker 2: You do realize that day, is it? Yeah? Death stare

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Speaker 2: she's thinking about. I just didn't know you. I didn't

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Speaker 3: You gone, they just thinking that couch would look beautiful

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Speaker 1: Then the other night, I I've got a saw back

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Speaker 1: So I said to BJ, I said, honey, can you

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Speaker 2: My wife's trying to kill me.

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Speaker 3: Give me a long, hang on a minute, shirt off,

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Speaker 2: Oh what is that? Taking so much skin off my back?

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Speaker 2: It looks like a tattoo. The massage gun. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: know what? I realized she while she was doing that,

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Speaker 3: She would have seen it start to bleed, and still

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Speaker 1: Just and like I said, I've got a mushroom pie

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Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on with my wife. I

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Speaker 3: Were you instructing her, you're on the spot, keep going please,

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Speaker 1: Well, you just just before we went to ash at

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Speaker 2: You just did what's what's the sign that your relationship

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Speaker 2: is due?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when you maybe the four layers of skin she's

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Speaker 1: Go hi Ryan?

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Speaker 4: How are you?

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Speaker 2: Tommy? Where do you register for the singles party? It's

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Speaker 2: not too late, Never too late. Bjay's already registered.

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Speaker 3: Sorry mate, we can't take exits.

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Speaker 2: With Cape Ridgie podcast.

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Speaker 3: A couple of weeks off, guys and I went south

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Speaker 3: Lisa's parents and we were to the Southern Highlands. Oh gotcha,

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Speaker 2: You have so many holidays God's country. It's been a

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Speaker 3: So awesome to get down there. Had a great Easter

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Speaker 2: It sounds amazing. Yes, I had to miss that.

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Speaker 3: You pick something up because we Lisa doesn't like to

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Speaker 4: And we used to be like the power couple on

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Speaker 3: Walkers that I might see. So she said, you know what,

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Speaker 2: You will walk alone. And anyway Liverpool just runninglish Premier.

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Speaker 3: Could not help myself, so the Partnership Walking Band was introduced,

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Speaker 3: You know, when you're walking towards somebody and it's just

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Speaker 2: Enthusiastic way too? You're trying to hard And I said, well.

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Speaker 3: This is the fitsy and with her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: Do you bruise easier as you get older? Like I

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Speaker 1: feel like I'm a are you bruising?

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Speaker 3: Are you?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a hemophiliate, Like you know, the

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Speaker 2: But do you remember your nanda?

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Speaker 3: Like my nanny Norma was always don't do that. Old

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Speaker 3: bruise I bruise easily. I befoot you bruise me again? Sorry?

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Speaker 2: So I fell off my bike, it'd do you know what?

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Speaker 1: And I think it's because I was so tired. I

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Speaker 2: Five k bike ride as well. That's how sad that is.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's not that far. I was so tired.

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Speaker 1: To my wife, BJ goes where and I said, I

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Speaker 3: So so this point is you pulling up in the driveway,

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 2: Go back to the start chain. Can you show whip again?

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Speaker 1: There's a young guy walking and I thought I was

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Speaker 2: Right in her hand. No, mate, I'm alright. What I like.

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Speaker 3: About it is the bloke really, he's laughing the smile

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Speaker 2: To get out of these?

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Speaker 1: And watch me get up here? Watch me get up here?

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Speaker 1: Whip like just Jess, I'm too hot.

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Speaker 2: Look at me.

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Speaker 1: I'm an old man, mate, I'm an old man. And

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Speaker 1: then you contemplate life. You go, what am I doing

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Speaker 3: Can I point out something else here?

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Speaker 2: For? Do you know what I like about this the

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Speaker 3: You're on the ground, so you're lying on the ground,

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Speaker 3: you're taking your helmet off. There's a family across the road.

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Speaker 2: Getting out of the car.

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Speaker 3: You would know the family, they would know you, and

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Speaker 1: They're all laughing. Everyone's going to smile on this on

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Speaker 1: their face. Like I said, I get inside. My wife's

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Speaker 1: first reaction was like, oh great, let's have a look

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Speaker 1: at the vision. She then cuts it up right and

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Speaker 1: she sends it to Chay, So now I know that.

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Speaker 2: Work's got it. Then a day later, Whip. A day

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Speaker 2: later I get home.

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Speaker 1: She's got a couple of friends over for a cup

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Speaker 2: Watching the video.

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Speaker 3: As we are now. And I'm hoping Tom it's on

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Speaker 2: Them sitting Do you want to see the on my bat? Yes,

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Speaker 3: Drop your strides, mate, Do you want me to drop

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean you didn't have to lower your pants that that's

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