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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Fitzi and Whipper podcast.

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Speaker 2: What would you do if your mother in law or

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Speaker 2: father in law said, Hey, that honeymoon thing you've got

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Speaker 2: going on, I might come along. I mean, you've been

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Speaker 2: in shock, wouldn't you, because honeymoon's meant to be a

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Speaker 2: time where you really get to do just my god,

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Speaker 2: if you would take any clothes at all, sure, I

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Speaker 2: mean make sure they're skimpy. But honeymoons are a special

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Speaker 2: one on one husband and wife time, aren't they?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 1: It's a it's a great Where did you guys go?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 5: I didn't do too much.

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Speaker 2: We went up to Kualia in the wed sundays An

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Speaker 2: island there just for about four nights.

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Speaker 3: But you're already away, Sarah. You didn't get to go

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Speaker 3: on a honeymoon, did you?

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Speaker 4: Straight back in?

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Speaker 1: Why is that?

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Speaker 4: Well? We were at work.

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Speaker 5: Work.

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Speaker 3: What about the holidays?

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Speaker 1: Why don't your book in honeymoon?

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Speaker 4: Well we have two kids, so it's sort of.

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Speaker 2: Just sir, I can't have excuses. Gary sitting at home.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't do a lot with his life, and he's thinking,

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Speaker 2: when is his honeymoon thing?

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Speaker 5: Going to pray out, he'll be fine.

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Speaker 1: Do you go, mate? Kosamu? Oh you beauty, Thailand magnificent.

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Speaker 3: That was such a great trip first, and you know what,

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Speaker 3: you look back at the photos.

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Speaker 1: Now, God, you were young, you're in good nick and

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Speaker 1: I had hair.

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Speaker 5: Look at you now.

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Speaker 1: It was just a real happy time.

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Speaker 4: You ever play that game with the kids hanging there?

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Speaker 5: Big guys, I really enjoyed life.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we're going to give you Bruno Mars tomorrow tickets tomorrow,

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Speaker 2: just to keep you happy. This woman has gone on

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Speaker 2: and spoken about how her mother in law waited for

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Speaker 2: the hobby to go to work and then said, hey,

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Speaker 2: about that up and coming honeymoon, I thought I might

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Speaker 2: come along, not even a do you mind if I

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Speaker 2: come along? Or I was thinking about and I wanted

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Speaker 2: to ask just to I thought I might come along.

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Speaker 2: That's so bad, terrible way to put it, and ended

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Speaker 2: up going on the holiday with them.

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Speaker 3: You know what, This is where you have to sit

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Speaker 3: down with your partner and go you need to toughen

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Speaker 3: up here. And I'm sorry, You've got to put your

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Speaker 3: foot down and say no, mum, you're not coming along,

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Speaker 3: because that's the start of your marriage. You're in with

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Speaker 3: a fair bit of pain.

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Speaker 1: That's the end of your marriage, isn't.

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Speaker 2: But she's not staying in the room with you, says

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Speaker 2: If you don't create the boundary now, it will never exist.

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Speaker 1: Look.

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Speaker 4: I came home from work one day and the first

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Speaker 4: mother in law to rearrange the kitchen, I couldn't find anything.

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Speaker 1: Even know she had a care.

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Speaker 2: See, when two hens go at it, right, when two

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Speaker 2: hens go at it, they will peck, they'll pack each

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Speaker 2: other to death. So you need to be the main

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Speaker 2: hen in the roost when that happens.

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Speaker 4: The biggest mistake you can make going into a relationship

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Speaker 4: is trying to outdo your mother in law. Play a

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Speaker 4: straight bat and let her win a few.

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Speaker 1: That's the only way you do that with Jan. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I love Jan. I love my parent mother in law.

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Speaker 1: Technically I let.

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Speaker 4: Her win everything because I'm like, if you want to

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Speaker 4: cook or clean or do it your way, you.

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Speaker 1: Go at it. You want to rearrange that kitchen, sister,

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Speaker 1: you rearrange that kitchen. Sister's doing it for them?

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Speaker 5: Is it a race? Welcome to the show, buddy, what's

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Speaker 5: your story?

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Speaker 6: So pretty much? I'm a young you know me or

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Speaker 6: misters our young couple. I'm twenty one, she's twenty two,

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Speaker 6: a bit older, and we're actually planning for go on

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Speaker 6: a honeymoons to Bali. Happened was COVID kicked in and

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Speaker 6: the process of crazy, so we didn't end up going.

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Speaker 6: So we went to Gold Coast somewhere, you know, close

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Speaker 6: by a couple of hours. Now, my my in laws

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Speaker 6: they said they were going somewhere in the country Land

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Speaker 6: or Country Health, New Sydney. So with me and my

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Speaker 6: missus got to Queensland. We all settled the inn in

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Speaker 6: Q on pretty high, high level. A couple of days later,

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Speaker 6: my my my auntie, my mother in law, she sent

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Speaker 6: a screenshot or a further to my wife. Now we

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Speaker 6: looked at it without without any description, without any we've

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Speaker 6: seen the photo and it was the same view as

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Speaker 6: else Health. She ended up coming with the whole family

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Speaker 6: to the same level, to the same hotels, for the

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Speaker 6: same everything, and we were just we had to just

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Speaker 6: chair the rest of the whole honeymoon with her.

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Speaker 4: And why she paid forf like, did they pay for

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Speaker 4: your dinners and things when you went out?

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Speaker 2: Try and paint this with a golden brush, just forget

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Speaker 2: about it. And how many in the family like, how

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Speaker 2: many turned up?

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Speaker 6: There was about there was three pluster parents of five

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Speaker 6: all together.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, so you're doing you're doing.

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Speaker 1: Witting world with your mom in law. That's just not

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Speaker 1: good enough.

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Speaker 6: That's exactly what happened.

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Speaker 5: And you get do you get on the right with them? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I had to get a couple of My wife and

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Speaker 6: I sat with her parents talking and I'm like, this

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Speaker 6: is a good honeymoon man.

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Speaker 1: Well you could I mean the other way to get

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Speaker 1: back at it. What's that is? We know the one

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Speaker 1: thing that you do on the honeymoon multiple times? I mean,

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Speaker 1: do you go really? I mean do you do you

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Speaker 1: scare off? That could scare them off forever?

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Speaker 2: Sneak into the mum's room with one of those elephant

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Speaker 2: underpants on, one of those elephant g strings on and

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Speaker 2: runs yeah and go sorry wrong room?

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Speaker 5: Is that the what you suggesting? We should do something

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Speaker 5: like that?

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Speaker 1: You're in the running for first class and fifty K so.

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Speaker 3: If you win that you can take your wife and

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Speaker 3: you're in laws with you as well.

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Speaker 1: Mate, So congratulations.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: The funny thing is she's still to today because we

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Speaker 6: always make fun of her, she still thinks to today

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Speaker 6: that it's normal, and that everyone goes with him. We're like, no,

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Speaker 6: that's not how it works.

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Speaker 5: No it's not forget about it. If thanks for calling

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Speaker 5: the show by

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