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Speaker 1: We had a bit of a debark all the other
Speaker 1: day at a cafe in Sydney, and we need to
Speaker 1: talk about it, and I don't want to shame the
Speaker 1: cafe at all, so we're going to leave them.
Speaker 3: You won't mention, but anyway.
Speaker 2: Well I will say I've been to that cafe before,
Speaker 2: not that specific one, but the same chain and it
Speaker 2: was amazing. So I was really disappointed about this. Okay.
Speaker 1: So after the pod, like last week, we had some
Speaker 1: time to kill and I was staying down in Sydney
Speaker 1: but I couldn't check into the hotel blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: So Matt and I went to the shops, were like,
Speaker 1: let's get a little bite to eat.
Speaker 2: I've got a follow up story after this. Remind me
Speaker 2: to tell you what happened after what we did.
Speaker 1: So we were like, let's go to the shops. Matt
Speaker 1: wanted to buy something, and I wanted to get some food.
Speaker 1: So we went to this cafe in the shopping center
Speaker 1: and it was like two thirty maybe three o'clock, like
Speaker 1: it was the afternoon, and so they had a food
Speaker 1: cabinet display with like wraps, toasties, all sorts of stuff,
Speaker 1: and so we're looking in there, and then we went
Speaker 1: to look at the menu as well, because there was
Speaker 1: like additional things on the actual little menu. So Matt
Speaker 1: ordered first, and he ordered a toasty, and the toasties
Speaker 1: were in the like fridge cabinet display all they're ready
Speaker 1: made to go and so not toasted. They were fresh
Speaker 1: because it's like a fridge. So Matt ordered a toasty,
Speaker 1: no worries at all, like you ordered and paid and
Speaker 1: sat down. Then I ordered like literally two seconds after Matt.
Speaker 1: And at first I was like, can I please have
Speaker 1: the bagel with salmon? And they said, oh no, we
Speaker 1: can't do the bagel with salmon because the kitchen is closed,
Speaker 1: but you can order anything from the fridge at the front.
Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh, okay, cool, I'll just
Speaker 1: get the ham and cheese croissant please, and can I
Speaker 1: have it toasted?
Speaker 3: And they said no, the kitchen is.
Speaker 1: Closed, and then I'm like, okay, like the people we're
Speaker 1: just right there in the kitchen as well, Like the
Speaker 1: kitchen was right there, like the toasting machine was behind
Speaker 1: the counter, kind of like at outdo, and I was like,
Speaker 1: no worries, that's fine. I was like, do you have
Speaker 1: a microwave? Like can you just like zap it? And
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, we don't have a microwave. Sorry, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, okay, first of all, what kind of
Speaker 1: fucking cafe doesn't have a microwave. Anyway, I was just
Speaker 1: in a like kerfuffle and I told him that, and
Speaker 1: Matt's looking.
Speaker 3: At me, going what's going on?
Speaker 1: Like you couldn't really hear? And I'm like, don't worry.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'll just have it dry. Give me
Speaker 1: the fucking dry hand and cheese croissant.
Speaker 2: Which is sound nothing worse like a cold.
Speaker 1: Dry like with non melted cheese. So anyway, we sat there,
Speaker 1: there's other people dining. It was like three o'clock, so
Speaker 1: fair enough. And then we waited for like a good
Speaker 1: ten minutes, I want to say.
Speaker 2: And then I said to you, I don't understand what's
Speaker 2: happening because you came over and you said they can't
Speaker 2: toast it, and I said, well, they can toast mine
Speaker 2: because I got a Ruben toast sandwich toasty.
Speaker 1: And Matt goes, oh great, that means I'm gonna have
Speaker 1: just a cold fucking sandwich from the free.
Speaker 2: Cold Ruben sandwich, Like fucking boring, this is weird.
Speaker 1: Just got They brought out Matt's coffee because you ordered
Speaker 1: a coffee too. I didn't order any dream. Then they
Speaker 1: brought out Matt's toasty toasted. Okay, they handed to him,
Speaker 1: here's your toasty Matt's like tea piping hot.
Speaker 2: Like I've burnt my hand because I was expecting it
Speaker 2: not to be toasted. So I've grabbed it round the
Speaker 2: sand because it was in a bag. I've grabbed it
Speaker 2: round the bag right where the sandwich is because I
Speaker 2: didn't expect to be toasted. Because we've just been through
Speaker 2: this kerfuffle. I know I've burnt my fingers because it's
Speaker 2: actually toasted.
Speaker 3: Mats is clearly toasted.
Speaker 1: Then two seconds later they hand me my ham and
Speaker 1: cheese croissant in the like paper bag as well, cold,
Speaker 1: So I'm like, how have you toasted Matt's toasty but
Speaker 1: I ordered, like we were together, like how could they
Speaker 1: not just chuck my ham and cheese croissant on the
Speaker 1: same fucking sandwich press. It was so weird, and you
Speaker 1: know what, we were sitting there and were so confused
Speaker 1: in Matt's like we should say something, and I was like, no,
Speaker 1: I just can't be bothered today, Like I just couldn't
Speaker 1: be bothered. But in that moment, I should have been like,
Speaker 1: how did you toast his but not mine? But we
Speaker 1: ordered at the same time, like chuck them on together,
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck, But we didn't say anything.
Speaker 2: I just wanted to go back and be like mine
Speaker 2: got toasted, so can you not toast hers? And also
Speaker 2: like the thing with the toaster is like it takes
Speaker 2: two seconds to wipe down. Yeah, and none of it
Speaker 2: makes sense because if the toaster are being turned off
Speaker 2: for the day, fair enough, but how have you toasted mine?
Speaker 3: What we ordered basically together?
Speaker 2: I get that the kitchen's closed, I understand, and again
Speaker 2: we're not complaining about the fact that you couldn't get
Speaker 2: it toasted. Yes, it's annoying, but whatever, if it's closed,
Speaker 2: it's closed. It was then the fact that mine came
Speaker 2: out toasted and yours didn't I know, and you were
Speaker 2: told like three times, no, the kitchen is closed, you can't,
Speaker 2: but mine was toasted without a problem.
Speaker 1: Maybe like you order it to twenty nine and I
Speaker 1: ordered it two thirty and.
Speaker 3: That one minute, I don't care, like it was anyway.
Speaker 1: It was so weird, and Matt's like, oh, should we
Speaker 1: say something like no, I just can't be fucked, Like
Speaker 1: the vibes was so weird, like there was so much confusion.
Speaker 3: I ate the cold croissant.
Speaker 1: And that was it, and we said to each other,
Speaker 1: we need to talk about this on the pod.
Speaker 3: Which was moment like I said, oh, do you just
Speaker 3: have a microwave? Like ten seconds in the microwave and
Speaker 3: I said, no, we don't have a microwave. So I'm like, clearly,
Speaker 3: you fucking do I own a coffee shop. We've got
Speaker 3: it fucking microwave.
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you have a microwave?
Speaker 3: They do? Like I just think he couldn't be fucked
Speaker 3: But it just made noise.
Speaker 2: So he wasn't doing anything. He was just standing on
Speaker 2: the counter like the other two girls were running around
Speaker 2: doing everything in the.
Speaker 3: Kit Chess one of those things I was like, let's
Speaker 3: just fucking leave it and what the fuck?
Speaker 2: It was random.
Speaker 3: Anyway, it wasn't too bad. So something else happened.
Speaker 2: Well, so now I'm going to talk about the other
Speaker 2: part of the story, which was so the thing I
Speaker 2: had to buy was we went to Louis Vuitton to
Speaker 2: get a top up of my perfume. And do you
Speaker 2: remember when we're in there, she was acting real suss Yeah,
Speaker 2: do you remember the shop attendant what do you call them?
Speaker 1: You know, the sales person And for context, Matt gets
Speaker 1: like he's perfume refilled.
Speaker 3: It's one of those ones you just go back and
Speaker 3: get it refilled.
Speaker 2: So like they because it's lous Vaton, Hello, designer vibes.
Speaker 2: Oh they have the bottle costs money as well. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so you like buy a first of all, you pay
Speaker 2: for the bottle and the liquid together, and then you
Speaker 2: just bring back the bottle and they top it up
Speaker 2: each time. So that's what I do.
Speaker 3: It's a really long time that she took a really
Speaker 3: long time.
Speaker 2: We were standing there like, what the hell's going on?
Speaker 1: Twenty minutes She's just taking it out the back.
Speaker 2: To fill it off, I know, And usually it's like
Speaker 2: a five minute thing if that, and kept saying like,
Speaker 2: is that meant to take this long? And remember she
Speaker 2: kept popping her head out and looking out, and she
Speaker 2: looked a bit stressed, and then she kept going back
Speaker 2: and then she come back out again, and then.
Speaker 3: She came out she said she couldn't get it to work.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, but remember like two times before that
Speaker 2: she opened the door and she looked like she was
Speaker 2: trying to get someone else to help her or whatever.
Speaker 2: And then at the end she kind of brought my
Speaker 2: perfume over and was like, oh, sorry, I couldn't get
Speaker 2: it to work and things that. I was like, that's
Speaker 2: all right, like no worries, got it, paid for it.
Speaker 2: Left When I got home, the bottle broken perfume everywhere.
Speaker 3: Why didn't she just give you a whole new one
Speaker 3: if she don't know?
Speaker 2: But the top had broken, and then because the top
Speaker 2: had broken, it had like leaked out and everything like that,
Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, so I feel like she
Speaker 2: may have allegedly allegedly broken in mine and then just gone,
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. I'm stressed, and like
Speaker 2: put the lid back.
Speaker 1: On it for a weird amount of time, and no
Speaker 1: one else was in the shop, So I was like,
Speaker 1: shall you just go out the back and go fill
Speaker 1: it up?
Speaker 2: There you go? And then so I'm thinking when what
Speaker 2: she meant by oh it doesn't work? Is I? I
Speaker 2: think she's gone to try it and my bottle hasn't
Speaker 2: worked for us. I thought she meant her machine that
Speaker 2: refills didn't work anyway?
Speaker 3: Did she call them?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: I took it back. I took it back. So I
Speaker 2: I took it back on Saturday, and I was ready
Speaker 2: to be a Karen.
Speaker 3: I thought this was she there again?
Speaker 2: This is Louis fucking this on? No, she wasn't there.
Speaker 2: But you know, sometimes when you go to a designer
Speaker 2: store because they have which by the way, scholars, I
Speaker 2: don't know why, but sometimes my friends or whoever I'm
Speaker 2: with will get a bit weird about going in, Like
Speaker 2: I think people think you have to be like dressed
Speaker 2: a certain way or whatever. I'm encouraging you just go
Speaker 2: in and have a brows. Anyone's allowed in there. Like like,
Speaker 2: I'll be with a friend and I'll be like, I've
Speaker 2: got to pop in here, and people be like, oh,
Speaker 2: do you want me to wait outside? What do you mean?
Speaker 2: Come and try some something. Yeah, I'm the first time
Speaker 2: I ever went in to Louis Vuitton ever, I had
Speaker 2: spilt half a meat pie down the front of me,
Speaker 2: and I went, well, who cares. If I'm gonna spend money,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna spend money, and if I'm not, I'm not, Like,
Speaker 2: doesn't matter. And you know what, these days, you don't
Speaker 2: know who's got money, and you know, like half the
Speaker 2: people fashion these days is horrendous, so who knows. Anyway,
Speaker 2: the point is I took it back and I was
Speaker 2: ready to be a Karen. So I get to the
Speaker 2: front door. And the thing is that some of these
Speaker 2: designer places you do have to wait in line, because
Speaker 2: that's where I was fucking front.
Speaker 3: I feel like a pledge.
Speaker 2: I know, but that's the That's what I was going
Speaker 2: to say, is the shop attendants, like, oh, shop assistants
Speaker 2: will walk with you throughout the whole store so they
Speaker 2: can like get you whatever you need and blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: But they like when someone stays with you the whole time. Anyway,
Speaker 2: I hate that. I'm like, let me shop, I'll let
Speaker 2: you know if I need help. But fair enough, that's
Speaker 2: part of the experience. So we had to wait for
Speaker 2: the shop assistant to so we had to wait out
Speaker 2: the front anyway, this day marched up to the door
Speaker 2: and he's like, just wait here one moment, and I've
Speaker 2: got my bag in front, and I said, no worries,
Speaker 2: that's fine, and he goes, what are you here for today?
Speaker 2: Just so I can let the team know? And I
Speaker 2: held up my bag and I said a replacement and
Speaker 2: he was like, come inside, would you like a water?
Speaker 2: Would you like this? Would you like that? Come and
Speaker 2: sit over here, blah blah blah blah blah, and was
Speaker 2: actually so overly nice that I didn't get to have
Speaker 2: my Karen moment.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you could tell she'd done something wrong. And
Speaker 1: I kept saying, to man, why is this taking so long?
Speaker 1: We've been sitting there for like twenty minutes. I'm like,
Speaker 1: just to refeel a bloody perfume refill and no offense.
Speaker 1: But why would she try and like fix it and
Speaker 1: palm it off to you and hope that you're not
Speaker 1: gonna notice.
Speaker 3: I like, just give us a new.
Speaker 2: Bottle at the end of the day. I don't know,
Speaker 2: don't we don't know.
Speaker 3: Give us any bottle.
Speaker 1: It is probably worth ten dollars the bottle, like.
Speaker 3: The actual bottle.
Speaker 2: But then they had someone over to me straight away
Speaker 2: and they and I just explained, like I came and
Speaker 2: got this filled up earlier this week, and you know,
Speaker 2: it took a really long time. She said something wasn't
Speaker 2: working with the machine. I don't know, but anyway, when
Speaker 2: I got home, it was all leaking and the topsnt
Speaker 2: and he was so apologetic. He fixed it in about
Speaker 2: three minutes.
Speaker 3: So he ended up fixing you.
Speaker 2: Well. He took the top off the bottle and put
Speaker 2: a brand new top on, like showed me it was
Speaker 2: all working. He's like, here's my number. If this happens again,
Speaker 2: please text me straight away. I can get another one
Speaker 2: to you don't have to come all the way back.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I love this. But
Speaker 2: I left and was like, damn it. I didn't get
Speaker 2: to be sassy. You know, sometimes you just want to
Speaker 2: be like sometimes you just want them to say sorry,
Speaker 2: there's nothing we can do about that. Oh then you
Speaker 2: just so I can go, well, you know what.
Speaker 1: No, I feel like when you're paying that much for perfume,
Speaker 1: they just got a fucking I know.
Speaker 2: So I'm very happy with that service. But anyway, well,
Speaker 2: there you go, there you go. That's a that's our
Speaker 2: little story of the fucking rogue toasty situation. Will never
Speaker 2: stop thinking. It's one of those situations that will in
Speaker 2: five years time.
Speaker 1: Go Right when we were sitting there, like I just
Speaker 1: wanted to turn around and be like, so how come
Speaker 1: you could heat up his but not mine?
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, just let it go and
Speaker 3: I'll never go there again.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you something that I saw that was sad,
Speaker 1: which has just happened like this week. UK content creator
Speaker 1: Becky Jones.
Speaker 3: Do you know her?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 3: Yes, she does her vlogs where she just.
Speaker 2: Says she might have been a royal flash of mine
Speaker 2: at one point, was she I love it?
Speaker 1: She does just like fucking wholesome videos, lots of cooking videos,
Speaker 1: eating takeaway videos. She announced late last week that she's
Speaker 1: leaving TikTok. She didn't say whether it was for good,
Speaker 1: like you couldn't really tell from the video, but she
Speaker 1: got emotional in the video. And the reason why she's
Speaker 1: left TikTok. She's got a million followers on TikTok, by
Speaker 1: the way, is because she just gets relentlessly bullied on
Speaker 1: TikTok and that's why she's left. And I'm just like
Speaker 1: good on her, like because she said in the video,
Speaker 1: you know, like it's affecting my mental health, like you can.
Speaker 1: She's got a lot of supporters, but then just like
Speaker 1: fucking trolls that like troll the shit out of her,
Speaker 1: And she said, you can laugh it off all you
Speaker 1: want and say that it's not affecting me, blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: but like at the end of the day, it is.
Speaker 3: And that's why I'm leaving.
Speaker 1: And obviously there's been an outpore of like people supporting
Speaker 1: her and her decision.
Speaker 3: But I'm like, how fucking sad of a world do
Speaker 3: we live in where people just exist on an app
Speaker 3: like TikTok and there's just people that go out of
Speaker 3: their way to bully people, Like how is it allowed?
Speaker 2: It's actually crazy. The I think, like, you know, we
Speaker 2: need to bring in something along the lines of upload
Speaker 2: your ID or something.
Speaker 3: And we spoke about this.
Speaker 2: I got to use your name every.
Speaker 1: Year ago on this pot.
Speaker 3: But I am with you.
Speaker 1: I think for people to make a social media account,
Speaker 1: they need to upload their ID, a full photo of themselves,
Speaker 1: a full video, and then I reckon, if you are
Speaker 1: bullying someone that there should be AI that picks up
Speaker 1: on that, and then I reckon you should get fucking exposed.
Speaker 2: Well, this is the problem. Hello, I just I've been
Speaker 2: banned on TikTok at the moment for hate space each
Speaker 2: which never happened. But when I do a when I
Speaker 2: do report someone who because a lot of my comments,
Speaker 2: first of all, I delete all my hate comments. I
Speaker 2: will delete every single one. There's no way you're coming
Speaker 2: onto my page and leaving that for other people.
Speaker 3: To the other.
Speaker 1: Good thing about tim Dropper will say is it filters
Speaker 1: like comments that it thinks are hateful.
Speaker 3: So I know a lot of people like go and.
Speaker 1: Leave spam hate comments on people's page and then they
Speaker 1: say you're deleting my comments.
Speaker 3: But TikTok actually filters them.
Speaker 1: So when you go and you open your TikTok comments
Speaker 1: at the top, it says five have been filtered, and
Speaker 1: then we have to manually click that go in.
Speaker 3: And then approve them.
Speaker 1: Yes, So if you're ever going out of your way
Speaker 1: to leave someone to hate comment and you think they're
Speaker 1: deleting it straight away, no, it's getting filtered automatically, which
Speaker 1: is a good feature.
Speaker 2: So I'll delete all of them, but if they because
Speaker 2: I also think it encourages others, Like if someone sees
Speaker 2: a hate comment, like that's the thing about Becky Jones's comments,
Speaker 2: and she's got that many followers, she can't keep up. Probably,
Speaker 2: but you pack men mentality, like if someone sees other
Speaker 2: people and the thing is like someone will leave a
Speaker 2: hate comment and will get forty thousand likes. So then
Speaker 2: then someone else goes, oh, well I could probably get
Speaker 2: forty thousand likes on a hate commedy, do you know
Speaker 2: what I mean? So I just don't feed into any
Speaker 2: of that. But sometimes if someone leaves a hate comment
Speaker 2: that is like threatening my life, I'll be like, you're
Speaker 2: getting reported. One hundred percent of my reports on TikTok
Speaker 2: have come back.
Speaker 3: Doesn't go against community guys, and.
Speaker 2: They go, we found nothing wrong with this problem that
Speaker 2: you've reported. I would have monitor I get done. Remember
Speaker 2: we spoke about on the pot about a year ago.
Speaker 2: I got done for human trafficking on TikTok. Yeah, well
Speaker 2: I have never human traffic did my life. I'll try
Speaker 2: anything once, but not that. So I said on my
Speaker 2: story the other day on Instagram, I was like, what
Speaker 2: pisses me off is if I actually was human trafficking?
Speaker 2: What my band is your band? My punishment is your
Speaker 2: band off going live for thirty days? But that's the band.
Speaker 2: I'm like, why haven't you called the police? TikTok? I
Speaker 2: feel like, why am I getting banned for human trafficking?
Speaker 2: And that's the only course of action you take.
Speaker 3: Is banned from going live for thirty days?
Speaker 2: But why was the government notified about my human trafficking?
Speaker 2: Why wasn't my IP address shared with the police?
Speaker 1: Do you know it needs to be more layers of
Speaker 1: security when it comes to setting up an account for sure?
Speaker 3: Can just be relentless?
Speaker 2: I love that HRH what's her name? HRH collection collection
Speaker 2: quote where she's like, if you want to leave a
Speaker 2: hate comment, I want to see a face, pick a name,
Speaker 2: a side profile, stand up, do a take a video,
Speaker 2: do a three sixty of your body.
Speaker 1: You don't want to see your whole family? Can your
Speaker 1: bank account state where you work? Then leave a hate
Speaker 1: Wait a second, none of your fucking would because you
Speaker 1: asked cowwards.
Speaker 2: And you are so embarrassed by your life that you
Speaker 2: have to comment on other people. What's that quote about?
Speaker 2: No one doing better than you would like try to
Speaker 2: tell you to tear you down. Yeah, we stay above.
Speaker 1: I wholeheartedly agree with that. Anyway, that was like a
Speaker 1: sad thing that I saw on TikTok. She might be back,
Speaker 1: like a lot of people. The comments are saying she's
Speaker 1: going to come back, but fucking get a grip. In
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, if people are being bullied off a
Speaker 1: fun social media app, like these people need to wake
Speaker 1: up them to themselves. It's disgusting behavior to participate in.
Speaker 2: And it's scary that so quickly you can fall into
Speaker 2: the whole world hates you. Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Fucked up.
Speaker 2: Just one day, everyone went we're just gonna hate on
Speaker 2: this girl, and I went, what the hell? I remember
Speaker 2: I actually made a video defending her. Any I remember
Speaker 2: that because you watch her content, there's nothing controversial.
Speaker 1: She's like, hello, everybody, let's open our dinner for tonight,
Speaker 1: Like it's the most wholesome content. But people just fucking
Speaker 1: love to hate. So anyway, that's my sad thing of
Speaker 1: the week. And hopefully she'll come back with the full
Speaker 1: fucking redemption.
Speaker 2: Yeah, or maybe she's just taken a break because she's
Speaker 2: going on Dancing with the Stars or something. Fingers crossed anyway,
Speaker 2: I think that's enough blubbing and on for this Friday.
Speaker 2: Enjoy your week and everyone see you next Tuesday. And
Speaker 2: from them, I got one by the day