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Speaker 1: The fan whipper podcast Guys Love to Know thirteen twenty

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Speaker 1: four ten. I don't know if anybody will call the

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Speaker 1: show and a bit this Tom, this could be how

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Speaker 1: Mary were asking for here. This article goes on to

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Speaker 1: talk about men confessing the shocking reasons why they're actually

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Speaker 1: staying in a relationship outside of the love for their partner,

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Speaker 1: which traditionally that's why you're in there. But women two

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Speaker 1: thirteen twenty four ten. If you're only with a guy

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Speaker 1: for one reason, what is it why you're hanging in there?

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Speaker 2: It would be tough. I mean, just if it's not

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Speaker 2: for love. I mean, I suppose if you're shallow enough

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Speaker 2: to stay in a relationship not for long, maybe for money,

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Speaker 2: Sarah or something like that.

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Speaker 3: Are you meaning as well? Things like fear in the

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Speaker 3: sense of like people are afraid of being alone sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Around the list goes on to say, I'm only with

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend because she buys me stuff. I'm only with

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend for her mum's money when she dies. I'm

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Speaker 1: only with my girlfriend to hide the fact that I'm

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Speaker 1: actually in love with her best friend. Just go be

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Speaker 1: with the best Very interesting. I'm onnly with my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: to make her happy because she's never been in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want to be her first heartbreak. That's rubbish.

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Speaker 2: There's an element of connartist skills that you have in

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Speaker 2: your life for you to be able to like The

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Speaker 2: big one is what I find younger, younger guys or

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Speaker 2: girls who find older let's say, sugar daddies or sugar mummies,

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Speaker 2: and they know that they're going to pass away, and

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Speaker 2: there's money up for grabs. You don't know when they're

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Speaker 2: going to die. NIC's the thing now, Now, this is

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Speaker 2: a project that you might have and go right. I've

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Speaker 2: got to obviously lure them in, get them to fall

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Speaker 2: in love with me. I don't know whether I've got

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Speaker 2: to put up this front for five years or ten

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Speaker 2: years before I get that cat.

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Speaker 1: And if you were that guy. Let's say I'm eighty

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Speaker 1: five years old, and I mean a beautiful thirty year old, right,

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Speaker 1: and I've got all the money in the world, so

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Speaker 1: I can understand why she might be interested. But we

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Speaker 1: get on like a house on fire. We out for dates,

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Speaker 1: we're both engaged in each other's conversations, and everything else

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Speaker 1: works physically in the relationship, and then it gets to

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Speaker 1: the point where I'm thinking about marriage, right, and we

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Speaker 1: talk about it. We go, hey, maybe we should get married.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to get married? I mean, I know

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Speaker 1: there's an age difference here. And then I would say,

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Speaker 1: all right, well I think a prenup would be appropriate

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Speaker 1: for this situation. That would be the moment to test

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Speaker 1: it all, wouldn't Well that's the thing. But also she's

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Speaker 1: still into me? Then yes, well then it is what

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Speaker 1: I think it is.

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Speaker 3: You still get something in a prenuph I mean you're going.

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Speaker 1: To get the riches of handouts and generous gifts and all.

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Speaker 3: That, and get a house and this and that.

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Speaker 1: But you don't get everything. No, you wouldn't be getting everything.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it might still be worth sticking in.

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Speaker 2: And then can't point of bottom The big thing is

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Speaker 2: the family then contests that you're going to go to court.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, it's a lot of work.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of work. The other thing that I

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Speaker 2: always wonder as well, if you're with a sugar daddy,

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Speaker 2: right or a sugar mummy, and then you what if

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Speaker 2: you fall in love with someone on the side, I mean.

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Speaker 3: That you can't You're getting nothing when you fall for

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Speaker 3: the PT, aren't you The gardener.

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Speaker 2: Your whole challenge of going all the way with this,

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Speaker 2: that would be really tough to do.

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Speaker 1: Imagine if you and BJ broke up and the next

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Speaker 1: thing you know, we found out you were dating Gina Rehinhut.

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Speaker 1: It would say a bit weird.

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Speaker 2: I love never.

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Speaker 1: Got with kids, but you will get arrested.

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Speaker 3: You go for the oldies with no kids.

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Speaker 1: Sarah hard to find. What about this? I'm only with

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend until my ex wants me back. This is

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Speaker 1: what you were talking about, says I'm only with my

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Speaker 1: girlfriend because I'm insecure and don't think any other women

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Speaker 1: would sleep with me. Totally. I know that feeling. I'm

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Speaker 1: only with my girlfriend for her looks and body. Her

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Speaker 1: personality is a piece of plywood.

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Speaker 3: Well, one day, you know that much change.

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Speaker 1: Stuck with the ply the body changes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly right.

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Speaker 2: Eden's given us a call the garden of on the

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Speaker 2: Central Coast. Why did you stay in a relationship with your.

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Speaker 4: Ex when I was younger? I actually stayed with my

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Speaker 4: ex because I like his family better than him. At

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Speaker 4: one point, that can.

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Speaker 1: Happen, can't it, Eden? Yeah, Well, it's a great family

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Speaker 1: and you all have an awesome time together. But then

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Speaker 1: when it's one on one you sort of you're not

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Speaker 1: that into it.

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Speaker 2: Even have you stayed close to the family since you've

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Speaker 2: broken up with him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I do rugby with your sister.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: And is it awkward between you two now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Amicable.

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Speaker 4: I don't really talk to him, but when I see

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Speaker 4: his family, I say hi, just the welcoming and trying

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Speaker 4: to be nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So you lost interest in him pretty early on, didn't you.

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Speaker 2: Is there a brother Eden that you could have a

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Speaker 2: crack anyone else?

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Speaker 1: He was the oldest. Well, you don't have to limit

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Speaker 1: it to one brother, do you? Says thanks?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's keep an open mind in these situations. You

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Speaker 3: don't know where you're gonna find.

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Speaker 1: Live two three whatever.

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Speaker 2: Kilan's giving a skill Fromkirawa. What was the reason your

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Speaker 2: ex stayed with your Kilan?

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Speaker 4: So she was pretty much just wanting a boyfriend, and

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Speaker 4: I thought I met the one.

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Speaker 2: You know, we had a.

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Speaker 4: Really good time. I didn't think anything was going wrong.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I've hit the jackpot. Yeah, And one

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Speaker 4: night suddenly just wake me up, next to me, something

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Speaker 4: to block me up, opened my eyes, and she's sending

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Speaker 4: photos and messaging Sugar Daddy while in my bed.

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Speaker 2: Over did you do some more investigating? Did you find

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Speaker 2: out more about him killing?

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Speaker 4: Not about him but her reasons why? Because she had

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Speaker 4: a three year old and she was just saying I

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Speaker 4: needed money, blah blah blah. And I said, look, I

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Speaker 4: can understand that. I said, you could have done that

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Speaker 4: behind my back, but not in my bed if you

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Speaker 4: needed money it was that bad.

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Speaker 1: Well, so you were cool with they're doing it behind

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Speaker 1: your back killing?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, like if you were going to do it,

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Speaker 4: like if you're going to be shaving to try and

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Speaker 4: be secret about it.

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Speaker 2: Not right next to No, not, well's having a kid

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Speaker 2: for sure?

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Speaker 1: I agree killing. How long it had it been going

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Speaker 1: on for?

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Speaker 4: I mean, well, I was sitting here for about eight months,

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Speaker 4: so like it was a little deep, you know.

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Speaker 1: And was it the one, sugar daddy or there was

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Speaker 1: a few.

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Speaker 4: On the go to my knowledge, it was just the one?

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Speaker 1: And would she hook up with him?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 4: She was getting about eight hundred bucks a week.

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Speaker 3: If she was taking you out for dinner, everyone's a win,

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Speaker 3: aren't they.

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 4: I was taking her out. You buy. If I went

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Speaker 4: to go to a shopping spree for myself, I'd buy

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Speaker 4: and stuff.

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Speaker 2: I'm not he loved her, Sarah, you know he was killing.

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Speaker 1: There. I guess you could say he was killing time. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she wasn't, so she was intimate with this old guy.

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Speaker 3: You don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm asking.

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Speaker 2: I need to know about that, because why are you

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Speaker 2: going to this because it's just a series of story sick,

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Speaker 2: it's the practicality of what that relationship probably was.

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Speaker 1: And would know that? Why do you want to know?

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Speaker 1: Why was he just paying paying for watches? Like only

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Speaker 1: fans can kill? And answer the question would you mind

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Speaker 1: if kill? And answered the question killing? Was it just photos?

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Speaker 1: Or were they getting intimate?

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Speaker 4: All of the above.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for answering the question.

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Speaker 2: Gay, Yeah, do you feel satisfy.

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Speaker 1: You on a chance to answer the question, Well, he's

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Speaker 1: just called up for a chat just killing it? Yeah, Tom,

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Speaker 1: I've done too much of that gear way too much,

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Speaker 1: way too much, Tom, any other sugar Daddy stories for

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Speaker 1: I mean, how many people out there are doing that?

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Speaker 1: And you're right, can you just send picks where there's

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Speaker 1: no actual human content?

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Speaker 2: And Jeffrey Eddleston he was in life mate, Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: he wasn't. It wasn't the physical side of eyes For

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Speaker 2: jeff he wanted someone.

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Speaker 1: To hug and talk to and turn up to events with.

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Speaker 2: And someone did pop into his pink helicopter when he

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Speaker 2: took over the Swans.

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Speaker 1: That's all that I wanted.

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Speaker 2: He didn't want the intimate side of thing. No, you

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Speaker 2: won't catch Jeffrey Edilston in a car down and tass

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Speaker 2: mate in a park doing something to himself.

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Speaker 1: He's dead. I'm young, killing over with a podcast.