1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gadigal Land Always was, always 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. 3 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 2: Hey jis, I'm out and I'm sal And this is 4 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 2: two roat chicks to show that shares life lessons and 5 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 2: tips to make you what rich rich in life And 6 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 2: you're over a very rich weet. Yeah, if you've been 7 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 2: living under a rock, maybe you've got us blocked. But 8 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 2: this week we launched the new, brand new rich in 9 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 2: Life formula for twenty twenty five and beyond baby, and 10 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 2: she's already selling out. 11 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 3: I know, she's absolutely soaring off the digital shelves. 12 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 2: Check so if you have missed it, we relaunched rich 13 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 2: in Life, which is our now is three products. She 14 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: was originally just one, but she is now in a 15 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 2: planner and a diary. 16 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 1: As well as a journal and rich conversation cards. That's right. 17 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: Today we were like, let's play, let's play our card game. Yeah, 18 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: that'd be fucking made because that's fucking fun. Yeah, exactly. 19 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 3: And we wanted to make this card game because you know, 20 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 3: when you catch up with people and you're just like, 21 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 3: how are or you're chatting with a loved one who 22 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 3: you've talked to all the time, and sometimes it feels 23 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 3: like you've exhausted all of the conversation topics. Yeah, and 24 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 3: we wanted to create something that will encourage people to 25 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: have deeper, richer conversations, to only further their connections with 26 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 3: their loved ones, or even to learn things about a stranger. 27 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 3: Like there's really no limit in how you can use 28 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,559 Speaker 3: these cards. So there's fifty two cards, all with different 29 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 3: individual prompts. And I love it because it's a mix 30 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 3: of like silly and serious. 31 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: That's what I was going to say, because it's like, 32 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: conversation cards. 33 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 2: Are not a new concept, Like there's definitely quite a 34 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: bit out there, but I don't feel like I've ever 35 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 2: really found one that in capated both the silly and 36 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 2: the serious the way that I like. 37 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: To have conversations. 38 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 3: Like a little bit of light and shade, baby, totally 39 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 3: stuff to make you giggle, there's stuff to make you think, 40 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 3: and there's stuff to make you love. 41 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: So you can play this with your brother, your mother, 42 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: your sister, and your friends. 43 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 3: But before we start playing, should we get into our obsessions. 44 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: Of the way, Yes, tell me what are you obsessed with? 45 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 3: Okay, So we covered this on our Instagram story and 46 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 3: over on our TikTok last week, but it is the 47 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 3: entire Adair's Christmas collection. 48 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 2: They have quite literally and pun intended play they really have. 49 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: It's just amazing, like and beautiful. They've nailed it. 50 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, from like the bedding and the sheets to the 51 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 3: Christmas ornaments, all of the different decourse slippers, pj's, they 52 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 3: have everything. Sometimes with Christmas collections they can be a 53 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 3: little bit tacky, but never with the dares. 54 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: Nah. I agree, they're always so so chic. 55 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 3: And I will say we did do a collab with them, 56 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 3: but this shout out is not paid. 57 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 1: I just wanted it. When you message them, we actually message. 58 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 3: That you guys, Yeah, because we'd seen a sneak peak 59 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 3: of some of the Christmas stuff that had dropped early. 60 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: And we were like, oh my god, this is so beautiful. 61 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, I just wanted to say this shout 62 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 3: out isn't sponsored. I just wanted to make sure that 63 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 3: if any of the chicks didn't see the stuff on 64 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 3: our story or the TikTok, that they didn't miss out 65 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 3: because we're honestly bought so much and it was during 66 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 3: their Linen Love of Sale event, so we saved over 67 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: like four hundred and eighty dollars between us. 68 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, ten Merry Christmas to us. 69 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 2: Well, speaking of my session of the week is the 70 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 2: Lush Christmas Collection. 71 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Yes. 72 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: I am on my Lush bandwagon at the moment. Ever 73 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 2: since we did the video about viral vanilla body care routine, 74 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 2: like I've been I've always really liked Lush, but I 75 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 2: am really obsessed with it because ever since I started 76 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 2: shopping at Lush more, I just keep getting used forel 77 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 2: nice compliments like all the fucking time, and it's amazing, 78 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: like best compliment in the world. And they brought out 79 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 2: like these new limited edition things that they've got one 80 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 2: called yognog, which, like that name just scratches something in 81 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 2: my brain. 82 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 3: Well, because eggnog is kind of a bit of a 83 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 3: weird concept in itself. 84 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: What is it again, It's like alcoholic eggs. 85 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 2: It's a question for the people in America, like does 86 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 2: anyone actually drink eggnog? Or is it just like a thing, 87 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 2: Like how in Australia they think it we just put 88 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 2: shrimps from the barbie all the time, yeah, or that. 89 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 3: We ride like kangaroos to school. Is it a real 90 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 3: thing or is it like a stereotype. 91 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, but what is eggnog? Okay? 92 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 3: So eggnog is traditionally made with eggs, egg yolk, sugar, milk, 93 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 3: heavy cream, and vanilla extract. It's often spiked with brandy, 94 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 3: rum or other liquor and topped with freshly grated nutmeg 95 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 3: and or cinnamon sticks. 96 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: Wait, I might take it back. I can't get around 97 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: have egg whites in there. 98 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I hate that, so it obviously on Google 99 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 3: it comes up with like the FAQ's underneath, And the 100 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 3: third one is why is it okay to drink eggnog? 101 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 2: I got salmonella poisoning from raw eggs when I ate 102 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 2: cake batter one time. 103 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 3: Okay, so most store bought eggnogs have been pasteurized so 104 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 3: that the eggs within the eggnog have been cooked to 105 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 3: a level that they are made safe. 106 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. So you can't make eggnog with 107 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 1: raw eggs. 108 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, back to lush Yes, yognog yognog. 109 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: They also have their fairy ones, snow Fairy. 110 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 2: It's like pink and sparkly. They have this like two 111 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 2: tone one which is so pretty and they just. 112 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: Are like a beautiful brand. They smell amazing. 113 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 2: They Let the Good Times roll spray is also amazing, 114 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 2: and the Yognog comes in like a shower gel as 115 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 2: well as a moisturizer. But they've also brought out the 116 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 2: Sticky Dates shower gel in a lotion as well. 117 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's. 118 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 2: A limited edition thing for Christmas, but it's amazing. Sticky 119 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 2: Dates is like amazing. And then they also have a 120 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: Yognog body spray, which is also as good as the 121 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 2: Let the Good Times Rolled body spray in my opinion. 122 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 3: They also have a Wicked collab coming out for the movie, 123 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 3: so if you're a Wicked fan, definitely get around them 124 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 3: because they're so cute. 125 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: And then what's the name of the really nice smelling hair. 126 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 2: The Super Milk hair condition to spray that I just 127 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 2: like use as a whole body spray because every time 128 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 2: I wear that, I get compliments on the two. Yeah, 129 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 2: I would give you like a ten product list of 130 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:50,239 Speaker 2: things to buy from Lush and it still wouldn't be enough. 131 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna say if you're a fan of 132 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 3: the Super Milk range. I don't think I'm allowed to 133 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 3: say exactly, but I did get a snake peek that's 134 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 3: something very exciting is dropping within that range for Black Friday. 135 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 1: To make sure we go into store on Black Friday. Definitely. 136 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: But yeah, there you go. Very good. Okay, Shall we 137 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: have some rich conversation? 138 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do it, all right, I'm going to shuffle 139 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 2: the cards and we're gonna pick just random question. 140 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: Nice. 141 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:26,679 Speaker 2: Okay, what's an unexpected lesson you learned from a past relationship? 142 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 3: As I'm sure a lot of you chicks now, I've 143 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 3: only really been in one real romantic relationship, and obviously 144 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 3: this goes for any type of relationship. Yeah, but one 145 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 3: like unexpected lesson that I learned from I would say 146 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 3: like my first real crush when I was in high school, 147 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 3: and it was like at a time when I really 148 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 3: thought that like they were going to be probably like 149 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 3: my first boyfriend, and then he just like absolutely broke 150 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 3: my heart. 151 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: And it was. 152 00:07:55,840 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 3: That you shouldn't always share like everything about your relationship 153 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 3: and how excited you are online when you're not really committed. 154 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 1: To the person. Yeah. 155 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 3: So I think that taught me for my relationship that 156 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 3: I am in now, because I was like fifteen at 157 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:17,239 Speaker 3: the time, that it is better to keep some things 158 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 3: that are special private. I think either so that one 159 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 3: if it turns out that it's not so special, you're 160 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 3: not embarrassed and then have to go fucking clean out 161 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 3: your entire MySpace and all your MSN personal messages. But yeah, 162 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 3: you know, like you see people and they're going through 163 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 3: breakups and you can tell that they're going through a 164 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:40,439 Speaker 3: breakup and they're sharing like their inspirational quotes on their 165 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 3: story and stuff. 166 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 1: Like half of me is like, yes, like power to 167 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: your girl, But. 168 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 3: Then part of me is also like, sometimes it's better 169 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 3: just not to like air your dirty laundry or keep 170 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:52,319 Speaker 3: somethings personal and or you know, speak about it with 171 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 3: your loved ones in person, not share it online to 172 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 3: a bunch of strangers. 173 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: I think I just tend to like really try to 174 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: pull away from like just any like negativity or like 175 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 2: drama or totally stuff like that online because it just 176 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 2: doesn't just makes me anxious, like I'm not even involved, 177 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh. 178 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 3: Yeah when you see people beefs online or yeah, ever, okay, 179 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 3: so what's an unexpected lesson you? 180 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 2: Let I think the unexpected lesson I've learned for a 181 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 2: past relationship. And I actually was thinking about this the 182 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 2: other day is that your internal monologue should never. 183 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: Be too loud when you're with the right person. 184 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 2: And how I was thinking about how just when I 185 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 2: would be spending time with someone, and this goes for 186 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 2: romantic or platonic relationships or familial that but this mainly 187 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 2: applies to when I'm thinking about romantic But when I 188 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 2: think about it further, I'm like, oh, I would do 189 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 2: that with friends that I think were kind of not 190 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 2: very nice to me. 191 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: But I would be thinking about, oh, okay, I'll sit up, 192 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: sit up like this, or what do I say? Osh? 193 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: I should make it joy and like I'm in my 194 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: head thinking about. 195 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 2: How I should act to make this person like me, 196 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 2: or like how to be the best version of myself 197 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 2: or how to not embarrass myself or how to be 198 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 2: hot or like what to like basically manufacturing myself and 199 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 2: thinking about how I can be something that the other 200 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 2: person will like rather than just being myself. And how like, 201 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 2: in comparison to now, when I spend time with people, 202 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 2: whether it's you, whether it's our friends, whether it's my partner, 203 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 2: I am not thinking like and as someone who is overthinking, 204 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 2: like an overthinker with a very loud very busy brain 205 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 2: for me to spend time with people and I don't 206 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 2: have to think about the way that I act or 207 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: the way that I want to be perfect for them 208 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 2: is such a clear indicator of how good that person 209 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 2: is in my life and how healthy that relationship is 210 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 2: for me. And they definitely are people that like I 211 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 2: meet and I'm like, and I'll have a flare up 212 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,719 Speaker 2: and I'm like, well, wait, don't be too much or 213 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 2: don't talk too much, or don't do this or whatever, 214 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 2: and that will still happen. And that's also important at 215 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 2: some points in time when you know, maybe you're having 216 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 2: a really important meeting at work or you are meeting 217 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:17,199 Speaker 2: new people and you do want to put your best 218 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 2: foot forward. But I really think about it, especially in 219 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 2: like past relationships, is that I don't think I truly 220 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 2: ever was myself and I just was always trying to 221 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 2: be something that they would like. And how that just 222 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 2: doesn't even occur now, Like I'm just a little weirder 223 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 2: free and I love that. 224 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 225 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 3: I think once that happens, you realize that it's not 226 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 3: normal to question your own behavior and manufacture your own 227 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 3: behavior to that level, because when you're with the right 228 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,719 Speaker 3: person or in the right friendships, they will accept you. 229 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 3: So then you don't have to try and make. 230 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 1: Up for it or pretend to be something like even 231 00:11:58,559 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: when you're having. 232 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 2: Sex, I would just be in my head during that 233 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 2: like that it would be like difficult to you know, 234 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 2: be in the moment. 235 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's it. It's like I couldn't really 236 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: be in the. 237 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 2: Moment with people because I was too busy thinking about 238 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 2: you know, And that's the thing is that probably was 239 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 2: also I think there is a part of that that 240 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 2: I played a. 241 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: Role in as well. 242 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 2: But I think when you were in a secure relationship 243 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,839 Speaker 2: on both ends, Like I'm not saying it's purely that 244 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 2: person's fault that I was overthinking either, but I think 245 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:32,359 Speaker 2: when you're compatible and when you're in the right relationship, 246 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 2: that doesn't happen. 247 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to perform. You can just be 248 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: tell me to stop. Stop. Oh god, Oh, that one 249 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: really wants to come out. Shit, what is it? Oh 250 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 1: my god, what's the silliest thing you've. 251 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 2: Done trying to impress someone, probably like fake an orgasm 252 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 2: or something, or pretending to. 253 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: Like something that you don't give. 254 00:12:55,080 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god, there's I could least like seventeen that 255 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 2: I've probably pretended to, Like what have you pretended to? 256 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: Like just to be cool? 257 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 3: Like bands before I being like, oh yeah, I've never 258 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 3: even listened to a song. 259 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 1: Yeah you know one time. Oh my god, I've got one. 260 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 2: Okay, So I've never really been like into the rap 261 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 2: music or like the hippitie harp. So like when people 262 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 2: listen to like Drake and like the Weekend, Like, I 263 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 2: Am not not saying that there's anything wrong with them 264 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 2: all that music sucks or anything like that, but I'm. 265 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,199 Speaker 1: Just not in with the cool. We're just not well versed. 266 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: No no, no no. But yeah. 267 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:40,839 Speaker 2: So in high school very similar, like people would listen 268 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 2: to like Nicki Minaj Monster and I was like, I 269 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 2: don't know any of the words, and everyone's like wrapping 270 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 2: the whole thing. So when super Bass came out, I 271 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:55,960 Speaker 2: went home and I've learned the lyrics to Superverse, and 272 00:13:56,040 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 2: I would practice in my room and my mom in 273 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 2: and she was. 274 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 1: Like, who are you talking to? Like I'm practicing this speech. 275 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 2: I literally was playing the song and reading this one 276 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 2: is for voice, and I could sup, I still know 277 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 2: what worn't for words today. That's probably one of the 278 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 2: silliest things I've ever done. And then this is the 279 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 2: worst part. I went to school the next day and. 280 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: Wrapped it for people. Oh my god. 281 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 3: There used to be this feature on MSN where you 282 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 3: could link like your MSN to your Microsoft Music Player 283 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 3: and show what you were listening to in your personal message, 284 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,240 Speaker 3: and so like, I'd be chatting to a guy and 285 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 3: I knew they liked a band like I didn't like them, 286 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 3: but I would play the song and then mute it 287 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 3: so I didn't have to listen to it, but it 288 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 3: would shaft in my MSN thing and. 289 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 2: They would say and I'd be like, oh my god, wait, 290 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 2: I've got the modern day version of that because I 291 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 2: did it. 292 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 1: What what. 293 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 2: I don't know if I've don'ld you this? So I 294 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 2: this is ages ago, by the way. 295 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: Anymore? But also who it's fucking funny. 296 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 2: I went to his Spotify profile and I looked at his. 297 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: Top played artists. 298 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: I like found one of the songs, and then like 299 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 2: posted a story and put that artist. 300 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god, did he reply? 301 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 2: Yes? 302 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: Wasn't silly? Wasn't silly? 303 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 2: Obviously pretending to like things that you don't actually like 304 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 2: just to get someone's attention is silly, but it's really funny. 305 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 1: We've all been there. Yeah, that's like, Oh, that's so funny. 306 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: I didn't even remember that I did that until he 307 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: said that. All Right, I'm sorry, I have. 308 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 2: To already answered this on the podcast before, so I 309 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 2: have to choose a different answer. Okay, But if you 310 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 2: could wipe your brain and consume one piece of content 311 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 2: fresh again, what would it be? 312 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 1: Harry Potter? Oh, what a great answer, What a great like? 313 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 1: There is there any follow up? Elaborate? Absolutely not. Now 314 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: I ask you, you can only pick. I know what 315 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: the answer can be. 316 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 2: You can only pick between wiping the book or the 317 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 2: movie again, which wonder. 318 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 3: The books for sure, But I do think that because 319 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 3: when I first read them, I was growing up with 320 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 3: them and with the characters, and having to wait, you know, 321 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 3: a year or more between releases that added to the 322 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 3: experience and the hype. So part of me is also like, 323 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 3: do I even want to wipe having that memory to 324 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 3: consume it fresh, because it probably wouldn't be as satisfying 325 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 3: or as like monumental for MANA. 326 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 1: Lots of adults like read books and things that will 327 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 1: shape them forever. But I think there's something about a 328 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,919 Speaker 1: book that you really much amrie. 329 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 2: Because what I was gonna say is something that I've 330 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 2: already said would be thrown a glass. 331 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 1: But it's very similar to what you just said. 332 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 2: Is that I started reading it when I was like 333 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 2: seventeen and then grew up with it and like grew 334 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:22,679 Speaker 2: up with the same age as like that main character. Yeah, 335 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 2: but I wasn't gonna pick that because I've already said 336 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 2: that before on the pod. 337 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 1: So I was going to say, the Vampire dies. 338 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 2: Vampire, Yeah, I fucking love that show. Yeah, but again, 339 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 2: would it hit as hard? 340 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 1: Who knows. 341 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 2: That's what I always try to remember when I am 342 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:43,359 Speaker 2: watching a new show for the very first time or 343 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 2: reading a new book series for the very first time, 344 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 2: that I'm like, this is the first time I get 345 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:52,360 Speaker 2: to do this, Yeah, and I am not, like I'm 346 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 2: not appreciating it to the value I should, Like I 347 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:57,720 Speaker 2: need to be not scrolling on my phone when I'm 348 00:17:57,760 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 2: watching this or really like enjoying how good this is 349 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,119 Speaker 2: that I get to crawl into bed and read this 350 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 2: book for the first fucking time, Like that is just 351 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 2: so delicious and I just want to eat that feeling 352 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 2: every day. 353 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. Yeah. 354 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 3: I think it's such a good reminder to live in 355 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 3: the moment but also not live in the past too 356 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 3: much and wishing that you can recreate things like that 357 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 3: because you can't. 358 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: You just can't. It's lightning in a bottle, and there 359 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: are so many things that whether it's you're gonna say 360 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 1: lightning McQueen queen that it could. 361 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 3: Be like an experience, a TV show, a book, whatever, 362 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 3: it is a memory that you look back on, you're. 363 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 1: Like, God, I just missed. 364 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 3: You can miss it, of course, but you know you're 365 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 3: really pine for it, and you're not living in the 366 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 3: moment because you're like, you just never know if it 367 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 3: would have hit exactly the same, because who you are 368 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 3: at that moment in time is so unique. Yeah, And 369 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 3: there's a reason why whatever it was resonated with you 370 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 3: so deeply in that moment, and perhaps if you were 371 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 3: to experience it now, it wouldn't be quite the same, 372 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:05,199 Speaker 3: wouldn't have that same impact on you. 373 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:11,360 Speaker 1: My second one would be the oc all right, our 374 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: last one, because we don't want to give them all away. 375 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, Who want them to be a surprise when 376 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 3: you chick drinks with the girls. 377 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 1: All right? If you could make one rule that everyone 378 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:26,120 Speaker 1: in the world had to follow. What would it be? 379 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: I know, what, when you see someone, you have to 380 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 1: smile at them. What if they don't deserve it? 381 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 2: Though, I think if everyone smiled at each other, the 382 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,400 Speaker 2: world would be a better fucking place. 383 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. Maybe some of the people who aren't 384 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 1: so nice would be nicer people. If someone was smiling, 385 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: they experienced kindness and therefore couldn't give it back to someone. 386 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 2: That's true, because like I or if someone smiles at you, 387 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 2: you've got to smile at the next person. 388 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 1: The little flow on effect. 389 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:56,959 Speaker 3: Pay it forward. 390 00:19:57,040 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 1: Smile at that's cute. That's the rule I would make. 391 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 3: And also everyone has to compliment me, every single person. 392 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 1: In the world. 393 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 2: I need seven billion or eight billion compliments per day. 394 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: Thank you? Okay. 395 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 3: Mine would be that we would have a two day 396 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 3: working week and a five day weekend and everybody has 397 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,400 Speaker 3: to follow it, so we're all on the same page here. 398 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 3: Nothing would get done, SOEU would okay, we'd all bring 399 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 3: down our expectations what was required. 400 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 1: I love that because it would be different. 401 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 3: If we just had a two day working week and 402 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 3: a five day weekend, then we'd be like, oh fuck. 403 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 1: I love that you went for two days. You didn't 404 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 1: go for four. 405 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 3: You didn't go for because I was like, let's flip 406 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 3: it and reverse you know what's that song, Missy Elliott? 407 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: And reverse it? If you got a big let me 408 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: search it and had I gotta work? 409 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:59,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe I went home and read the lyric book Elliot. 410 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: I've revealed too much on the show. All right, what 411 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:09,640 Speaker 1: would you do with five days off? Whatever I wanted? See? 412 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 1: That kind of scares me because I'm a bit of 413 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 1: a workoholic, so I'm like, what else is there? I 414 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: would just be working clean my house for five days. 415 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 1: Oh you're a freak. You're weird. 416 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 3: So clean. 417 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: Well, there's a. 418 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 2: Little sneak peak for our Rich Conversations, so if you 419 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 2: want to get your own, you can get them in 420 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 2: the Rich in Life bundle because the November pre order 421 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 2: sold out, which was a sleigh. Or you can get 422 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 2: just the Rich in Life Conversations as a pre order 423 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 2: for December, so they're all available. 424 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: It just depends when you want it. 425 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 2: If you want them now, get them in the bundle, 426 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 2: or if you're happy to wait, you can just get 427 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 2: them on their own, but they'll probably come around December 428 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 2: January because they sold out and we had to put 429 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 2: another order in. 430 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:01,359 Speaker 1: We'll keep you updated, yes, but shared you advice with 431 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: the Chicky Jaw. Now let's do it. 432 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 3: This chick says, I'm twenty nine and I've been with 433 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 3: my partner for two years. He has an amazing group 434 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,640 Speaker 3: of friends that he's had for the majority of his life. 435 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 3: I'm struggling with jelling with some of the wives and 436 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 3: girlfriends of his friends, and it really gets me down 437 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 3: from time to time. To be fair, they've been friends 438 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 3: for many, many years and individually very lovely, but I 439 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 3: found it gatherings. It's very much a pack mentality, and 440 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 3: I'm left on the outer. I'm also quite a bit 441 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 3: younger than most of them, as they're in their mid thirties. 442 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 3: I've spoken with my partner about it many times, and 443 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:42,119 Speaker 3: he's so supportive of my feelings and has encouraged friendships 444 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 3: as much as he can. I never thought I'd be 445 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 3: struggling this much to make friends at twenty nine, and 446 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 3: almost feel like they don't need any more friends, so 447 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 3: they just don't bother to include. 448 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: Me in their girly catchups. 449 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 3: I hate that I care so much to want to 450 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 3: fit in with the wives, but it's just been looming 451 00:22:58,320 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 3: over me for ages. 452 00:22:59,480 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 1: Help. 453 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's such a natural emotion, Like, don't 454 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,639 Speaker 2: feel bad about the fact that you want to fit in, 455 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 2: Like that is a natural human reaction. 456 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 1: Like humans are kind of like pack. 457 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:17,440 Speaker 2: Animals, so it is a natural urge to want to belong. 458 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 2: So like regardless of age, regardless of whether you're twenty 459 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 2: nine or forty two, sixty eight or twelve years old, 460 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 2: wanting to belong is a natural thing to want and feel. 461 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,359 Speaker 1: I don't think we ever grow out of that, and 462 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 1: we're not supposed to. 463 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 2: No, when you if you don't have that, you're losing 464 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 2: out on the ability to love and feel and enjoy 465 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 2: people and. 466 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: Make new friends exactly. 467 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 2: I think I do completely understand like the dynamic in 468 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 2: the scenario of this situation. 469 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: Don't you. 470 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, And I think that so many people do, 471 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 3: especially if you know you're with somebody and they they're 472 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 3: friends with, you know, their same friends from high school 473 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 3: or primary school, and they have that bond. I do think, 474 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 3: though that you've said that they're all lovely individually. 475 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: So I think there's hope. 476 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,920 Speaker 3: But I do think that sometimes people get stuck in 477 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 3: their old ways and their old routines and their clicks 478 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 3: without even. 479 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, even be realizing that they're kind of being a 480 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 2: bit of a pack yeah and ostracizing you. 481 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:26,199 Speaker 3: I think that you could potentially take back the power 482 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 3: a little bit. 483 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 1: And be like, I'm hosting a girls' night, and you 484 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 1: set up the group message and you reach out to 485 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 1: everyone and. 486 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,119 Speaker 3: Be like, hey, chicks, I'm thinking, let's have like a 487 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 3: wine and cheese night at mine and invite everybody over 488 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 3: and show them how much of a fun time you 489 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 3: are and how great it would be if you all 490 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 3: hang out together and see how that goes. Because you 491 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 3: never know, you might even do it and then be like, oh, 492 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 3: actually this isn't for me, or you'll realize that you 493 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 3: guys do have a lot in common and have a 494 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,879 Speaker 3: really good time. And I think that might is that 495 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 3: for you a little bit, because at the moment, it's 496 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 3: sort of like you're on the outs, which I do 497 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 3: understand is really hard and that also takes like a 498 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 3: lot of courage to put yourself out there and host something. 499 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,440 Speaker 3: But I think it could be a case that maybe 500 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 3: they don't. 501 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,120 Speaker 1: Even realize that they're doing it people. 502 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 2: Just have a habitual in their relationships. Yeah, Like they 503 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 2: gravitate to what they know and what they're comfortable with. 504 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,360 Speaker 2: So given the fact that they have known each other 505 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 2: for longer, that's what they naturally gravitate to. That's what 506 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 2: they're naturally comfortable with. And so so often people don't 507 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 2: realize that some people might not feel as comfortable or 508 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 2: gravitate as easily. And so yeah, I think that's such 509 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 2: a great piece of advice, no notes, no addition, it's 510 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 2: no comments. 511 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 3: And I think as well, I like, I'm sure they 512 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 3: are all lovely, but I do also think that sometimes 513 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 3: there's an expectation that you have to get along with 514 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:55,920 Speaker 3: your partner's friends and their partners, and same with family. 515 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:56,439 Speaker 1: Or whatever it is. 516 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 3: But like, guess what you don't have to Yeah, and 517 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 3: so you also could you know, if you don't get 518 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 3: along with them genuinely, you actually don't want to be 519 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,880 Speaker 3: their friends, Like take some of that pressure off you 520 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 3: as well, Like you don't have to be in their 521 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 3: click or in their group or have a really close 522 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 3: relationship with these people. If you don't genuinely connect and 523 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 3: get along, that doesn't make you a failure or any 524 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 3: less deserving of friends. It just means that maybe you're 525 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 3: not compatible and that's okay too, But I think try 526 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 3: the Girl's Night and see how that goes. It reminds 527 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,439 Speaker 3: me of spoilers in case you haven't seen it, but 528 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 3: in Nobody Wants this. 529 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:35,120 Speaker 1: Yes, I know exactly the sactly what made me think 530 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 1: of that. 531 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,119 Speaker 3: There's a scene exactly like this where the new girlfriend 532 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 3: is trying to break into the wife get strunk with them, 533 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 3: and she gets drunk with them and they bond immediately. 534 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 1: So and she bonds with them when she like just 535 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: starts being herself exactly. Yeah, love it. Well that's a 536 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: wrap woo. 537 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 2: We will leave a link in the show notes if 538 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 2: you want to get your hands on your own Rich 539 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 2: Conversations or Rich in Life bundle. 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