WEBVTT - Summer series: in conversation with Tina Arena

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome to Something to Talk About Burstella Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Sarah Lamarquin, your host, and this year I have

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<v Speaker 1>had the privilege of sitting down with some of the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest names in the country. Because when Estrada's celebrities are

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<v Speaker 1>ready to talk, they come to Something to talk About.

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<v Speaker 1>We're continuing to publish across the summer break and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be back with a brand new episode on January twelfth.

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<v Speaker 1>In the meantime, each day for the next two weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll be revisiting some of your favorite episodes from the

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<v Speaker 1>past year, and I'm happy to report that there have

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<v Speaker 1>been a lot of popular episodes, but out of the

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<v Speaker 1>fifty we released in twenty twenty four, we've narrowed it

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<v Speaker 1>down to ten conversations to revisit over the summer break,

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<v Speaker 1>and today we'll be revisiting our episode with Tina Arena.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a huge response to this conversation from October,

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<v Speaker 1>which was full of truth bombs from Tina about getting older,

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<v Speaker 1>social media women being pitted against one another, and a

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<v Speaker 1>heartbreaking admission about why her son has been living on

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<v Speaker 1>the other side of the world from her. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you're curious as to why Tina thinks she was quote

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<v Speaker 1>unquote burnt at the stake in a former life.

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<v Speaker 2>Then take a listen.

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<v Speaker 1>You have been a stellar regular over the years, one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most beloved performers this country's ever produced. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking to you today about one of the moments

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<v Speaker 1>where really that this period of your career, Tina Arena,

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<v Speaker 1>the performer that we know today, really in some ways began.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, let's go back to November nineteen ninety four,

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<v Speaker 1>an album called Don't Ask is released.

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<v Speaker 2>What are your memories of.

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<v Speaker 1>That time, Tina? Going back to the release of that

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<v Speaker 1>album in late nineteen ninety.

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<v Speaker 3>Four, clearly I was considerably younger, so I perhaps wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>as cynical as what I am now. It was a

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<v Speaker 3>very exciting time because music was really exciting then, and

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<v Speaker 3>there was a structure around music that I think was

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<v Speaker 3>much more It was just a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a lot better than what it is today.

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<v Speaker 2>So it gave artists had.

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<v Speaker 3>An opportunity to present their works and also to be

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<v Speaker 3>able to go on some sort of an adventure with

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<v Speaker 3>their artistic careers, their performing and their writing and their

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<v Speaker 3>creating of records and so forth. There was a real

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<v Speaker 3>sense of excitement because I really think that that also

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<v Speaker 3>was a time where music was really validated, really really valued, valued,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess is really the word. It wasn't really so

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<v Speaker 3>much a commodity as such. I mean, of course it's

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<v Speaker 3>a commodity, but it wasn't a commodity in the technical

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<v Speaker 3>terms of the word. It was something that people looked

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<v Speaker 3>forward to. They weren't having music rammed down their throats,

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<v Speaker 3>so it enabled people to have the opportunity to really

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<v Speaker 3>immerse themselves in an artist's journey.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was a beautiful time.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a crazy time, but it was exciting certainly

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<v Speaker 3>creatively that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>In Australia, we go back to November nineteen ninety four,

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<v Speaker 1>Paul Keating was Prime Minister. This thing called the Internet,

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<v Speaker 1>which I'm imagining, Tina, would have facilitated a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the change of culture that you've just spoken about, like

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<v Speaker 1>the onslought of digital media, social media, everything that's come

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<v Speaker 1>with the era that we live in now. Culturally, it

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<v Speaker 1>was the year where Muriel's Wedding was released. It's also

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<v Speaker 1>turning thirty this month, and Priscilla, what about the culture

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<v Speaker 1>at that time would you like to go back and change.

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<v Speaker 3>I missed the fact what I really enjoyed about the

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<v Speaker 3>eighties and the nineties, particularly in Australia, is the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that Australians were much more invested in their own culture.

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<v Speaker 3>They were much more invested in their own music. Hence

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<v Speaker 3>Muriel's wedding was a wonderful example, and so was Priscilla.

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<v Speaker 3>Queen of the Desert was really really very much a

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<v Speaker 3>foray into what Australian culture was at the time. I

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<v Speaker 3>really feel that that has unfortunately, very sadly drifted so

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<v Speaker 3>far away now in these last sort of twenty years,

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<v Speaker 3>because we've had such an infiltration of American music and

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<v Speaker 3>in English music too, which is really sort of buried.

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<v Speaker 3>It buried our community and our capacity to be able

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<v Speaker 3>to bring our art to the fore front. I think

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<v Speaker 3>that's what's ultimately disappointing today as a musician. You can't

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<v Speaker 3>really compete with you know, one hundred thousand songs or

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<v Speaker 3>so that are streamed or delivered every single day. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just it's it's impossible. So there, you know, it's there.

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<v Speaker 3>There is a big pot, and people have.

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<v Speaker 2>Just thrown everything into it.

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<v Speaker 3>And of course that's that's not going to make a

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<v Speaker 3>really beautiful minnestrone, you know, throwing absolutely everything in the

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<v Speaker 3>kitchen sink, and it just doesn't work. It's just it's

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<v Speaker 3>we live in a world that is ultimately saturated. So

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<v Speaker 3>therefore those little jewels and those beautiful things really struggle

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<v Speaker 3>to come to the forefront. So I do I do

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<v Speaker 3>miss I miss that implication and that real fight for

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<v Speaker 3>our own culture that we had in that time.

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<v Speaker 1>What about when you're in the presence of a live audience.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's the closest that you can that you

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<v Speaker 3>can come to grace if you want to kind of

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<v Speaker 3>use that word. For me, that's that's the that's the

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<v Speaker 3>moment of reckoning.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where I that's where I feel that I'm truly

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<v Speaker 2>doing my job. That's where I that's where it is.

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<v Speaker 3>That's sort of that's where it starts and stops for me,

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<v Speaker 3>because that is the ultimate truth, and people see it

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<v Speaker 3>right in front of their very eyes and they're able

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<v Speaker 3>to participate in something that extraordinary happens when you get

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful music and performance and people coming together, it's always

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<v Speaker 3>a celebration where everybody is on the same frequency, and

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<v Speaker 3>that's an extraordinary that's a real gift, and I'm very

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<v Speaker 3>grateful that i have the opportunity to still be able

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<v Speaker 3>to do that and to focus and to feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I've still got some learning and growing to doing that,

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<v Speaker 3>and that I'm excited about doing all of that. I

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<v Speaker 3>think that if the live aspect wasn't what it is,

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<v Speaker 3>it can't be manipulated. It's not going to be manipulated

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<v Speaker 3>by artificial intelligence. That, as far as I'm concerned, is

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<v Speaker 3>just the technocrats doing what it is for them to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to survive, have some sort of evocation, and

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<v Speaker 3>to rape and pillage people and their crafts all at

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<v Speaker 3>the same time. It's unbelievably disappointing that they feel that

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<v Speaker 3>they have the right to be able to do that

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<v Speaker 3>to people, and the fact that very few people turn

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<v Speaker 3>around and say to them, who do you think you

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<v Speaker 3>are by wanting.

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<v Speaker 2>To take us what it is that we do.

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<v Speaker 3>And to transform it and to not remunerate us for it,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean, and then to create some.

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<v Speaker 2>Sort of a digital.

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<v Speaker 3>Replication of that person of that spirit. It doesn't work

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<v Speaker 3>for me. It just doesn't make any sense. So therefore,

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<v Speaker 3>getting back to the question, the live thing is the

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<v Speaker 3>most beautiful thing. You can't mess with it, you can't

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<v Speaker 3>touch it.

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<v Speaker 1>If you were starting your career now, then, Tina, in

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<v Speaker 1>this landscape, do you think it's something that.

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<v Speaker 2>You would persevere with?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you put aside your doubt? No, you think you'd

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<v Speaker 1>just go and do something.

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<v Speaker 3>I can tell you really honestly, Sarah, if I feel

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<v Speaker 3>a big part of the reason why I fight so

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<v Speaker 3>strongly for musicians and that I've had some stand up

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<v Speaker 3>arguments with people in the music business and record industry

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<v Speaker 3>and in radio and so forth. And I don't mean

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<v Speaker 3>to have those disputes to them. I'm not, They're too

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<v Speaker 3>attack them on a personal level. What I find frustrating

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<v Speaker 3>is that if nobody says anything, nothing is ever ever

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<v Speaker 3>going to change.

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<v Speaker 2>And how are.

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<v Speaker 3>These kids supposed to make some sort of a living

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<v Speaker 3>or have some sort of a life when they're not

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<v Speaker 3>in the least bit respected. So it is particularly sad.

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<v Speaker 3>I do really fret for the younger generation.

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<v Speaker 2>I really do.

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<v Speaker 3>I am scared for them, and I fight for them.

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<v Speaker 3>And I've had some people say to me, well, why

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<v Speaker 3>would you bother fighting. You're fine, You're privileged, you have

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<v Speaker 3>a career, you have money to be able to do

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<v Speaker 3>what it is that you want to do. It's like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>it's actually not about me. I know, I'm fine. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I've already hit almost fifty years in my career, and

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<v Speaker 3>yes I am privileged, but I've worked very, very hard.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's a privilege that I deserve because I've implicated

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<v Speaker 3>myself in it in a very traditional way. But I

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<v Speaker 3>will fight for the new generation and I will hold

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<v Speaker 3>the government up to the fact that they should be

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<v Speaker 3>respectful of the artistic community and understand that the artistic

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<v Speaker 3>community make an extraordinary financial contribution to any gross domestic

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<v Speaker 3>product of any country. So that's nothing to negate. You

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<v Speaker 3>can't just put that aside and go, yeah, they're just musicians.

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<v Speaker 3>Leave them, you know, don't worry about it. Throw them

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<v Speaker 3>a bone.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck off.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we don't take that. And it's unbelievably disrespectful. I

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<v Speaker 3>think that's the thing that I find really disheartening is

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<v Speaker 3>the real lack of respect, and that's demonstrated in the

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<v Speaker 3>fact that they are careless and they don't care about

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<v Speaker 3>our future or our children's future.

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<v Speaker 1>You have never been one to hold off sharing your opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>You are a passionate advocate for the industry, You started

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<v Speaker 1>a big conversation with an interview Instellar during COVID where

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<v Speaker 1>you called out lack of support for the arts community,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, complete decimation of an industry and really took

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<v Speaker 1>a big one that ignited a huge national conversation at

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<v Speaker 1>the time when you were inducted into the ARIA Hall

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<v Speaker 1>of Fame in twenty fifteen, you use that moment to

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<v Speaker 1>call out the industry, especially radio, for not playing a

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<v Speaker 1>quote unquote old woman, your God forbid woman over forty.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would we be listening to this on radio? These

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<v Speaker 1>are moments where some people might think, I'm just going

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<v Speaker 1>to have a good night, wear my great gown, have

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<v Speaker 1>a glass of champagne, and bask in the moment, and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully you take a moment to do those things as

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<v Speaker 1>well when I.

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<v Speaker 2>Wish I was better at that, But anyway, go continue.

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<v Speaker 1>To do though, where does this come from, Tina? And

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<v Speaker 1>has this been something that has been with you from

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning? Were you always outspoken?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know, Sarah, when you grow up in the

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<v Speaker 3>industry from a little girl and you're you're subjected to

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<v Speaker 3>just seeing things really early on, so you start putting

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<v Speaker 3>two and two together. There's unfortunately the arts is full

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<v Speaker 3>of a lot of bullshit that I just don't really

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have any time for it doesn't interest me.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't feel I learn anything from that. I think

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<v Speaker 3>we learn when we're out of our comfort zone, when

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<v Speaker 3>we do create a conversation, when we ask a question

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<v Speaker 3>that people don't necessarily expect to be asked, when we

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<v Speaker 3>confront and have a discussion about something that is absolutely

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<v Speaker 3>not discussed. And I guess the smoke and mirror thing

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<v Speaker 3>for me is always I've had a real problem with

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<v Speaker 3>that these last few years, and I guess in it

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<v Speaker 3>subconscious way, I've slowly been deconstructing that a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like my life. I don't want my life

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<v Speaker 3>to be smoke and mirrors. I have a privilege of

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<v Speaker 3>being able to do my job, and the basis of

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<v Speaker 3>my job is about honesty. So I don't really I

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<v Speaker 3>can't be anything, but because I don't believe that that

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<v Speaker 3>is my I don't believe that's my purpose era. I

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<v Speaker 3>believe that my purpose obviously came out of fighter. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what kind of karma I have. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what kind of past life I have. I may

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<v Speaker 3>have been burnt at the stake. There are times where

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<v Speaker 3>I've felt that very seriously around some people that I

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<v Speaker 3>feel haven't had the right intentions or perhaps didn't say

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<v Speaker 3>the right thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm a very keen observer. I observe people.

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<v Speaker 3>I study people, and their behavior gives me the answers

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<v Speaker 3>that I need. I also spent many years not listening

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<v Speaker 3>to myself and listening to others, and as a result

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<v Speaker 3>of that, I lost my way. I lost who I was,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's not what it's about. Ex Self expression is

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<v Speaker 3>about you what you inherently feel, think, desire, and I

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<v Speaker 3>can't be anything but truthful and if people that's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>If people don't agree, I'm so comfortable with that because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm comfortable in the notion of agreeing to disagree. And

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<v Speaker 3>that's something Australians don't do very well at all.

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<v Speaker 2>But I lived in.

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<v Speaker 3>France for a long time and there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people that agree to disagree, and there's some extraordinary I

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<v Speaker 3>have had some extraordinary conversations over the last few years

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<v Speaker 3>that I think have probably been a massive con tribution

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<v Speaker 3>to the woman that I am today because I was

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<v Speaker 3>out of my comfort zone and some things I knew

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<v Speaker 3>and some things I didn't know. And sometimes I would

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<v Speaker 3>make points where people were like which I never thought

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<v Speaker 3>about that, or other times though ire like, no, but

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<v Speaker 3>you don't see this is sort of and I go, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so I'm just open. I'm very open to discussion.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish we had more of that in this country.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I think agreeing to disagree and listening to one another

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe God forbid, learning from one another is I

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<v Speaker 1>think becoming a really endangered trait. And it's certainly to

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<v Speaker 1>be speak your truth and listen to somebody else can

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<v Speaker 1>make you a target. And I think especially as as

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<v Speaker 1>a woman and a high profile woman, and you talked

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<v Speaker 1>about you know, possibly you know, being burned at the stake.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean might still think, you know, we still like

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<v Speaker 1>to burn women at the stake, even in twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty four, you know, we do, Sarah. And it's really sad.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really sad because I was really hoping that as

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<v Speaker 3>women we would be able to somehow evolve a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit more graciously as opposed to being in this sort

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<v Speaker 3>of thing of let's fight. No, things are not solved

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<v Speaker 3>like that. They can be solved much more beautifully and

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<v Speaker 3>gently than that, and I don't like this sort of

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<v Speaker 3>male female you know, friction. I believe in the balance

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<v Speaker 3>of life. I believe in the balance of the female,

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<v Speaker 3>like I believe in the balance of the male.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's truly what I feel.

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<v Speaker 3>It's unbelievably important to support other women in a very

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<v Speaker 3>honorable way, even if you don't agree with them, but

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<v Speaker 3>to just sit there and go, you know, what they're doing,

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<v Speaker 3>what they feel is right. So just be gracious to

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<v Speaker 3>enough to understand that that is very honorable. You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a woman who's had many other people attack me

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<v Speaker 3>over the years because I am forthright, because I do

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<v Speaker 3>speak my mind. And it's like, I'm like, look, if

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<v Speaker 3>you want to cancel me and knock yourself out, I

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<v Speaker 3>really like, is it going to really change my life? Well,

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<v Speaker 3>probably not spiritually for me anymore, because I'm learning to

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<v Speaker 3>protect myself around that and I won't buy into the bullshit.

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<v Speaker 3>I just just don't.

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<v Speaker 2>And media plays a big, big, big role in that.

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<v Speaker 3>Therefore, it's important what I say. That's why I feel

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<v Speaker 3>that the truth is everything. The truth is everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And coming up, Tina opens up about the heartbreak of

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<v Speaker 1>her teenage son moving to the other side of the

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<v Speaker 1>world during the pandemic. You spoke there, Tina about the

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<v Speaker 1>honorable idea of supporting other women even if we don't

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily see I too. I I wanted to ask you

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about how you think the industry may

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully have improved. Maybe it hasn't improved in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>the way that women were once pitted against one another.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like sometimes that narrative has been turned down

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. What do you think you were someone

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<v Speaker 1>who has a lot of high profile women that you support.

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<v Speaker 1>I mentioned the ARIA Award being inducted into the.

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<v Speaker 2>Hall of Fame.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Kylie Minogue who inducted you. She flew back

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<v Speaker 1>into Australia for that.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'd asked for Kylie to do the induction because

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<v Speaker 3>for me, it made sense that she would do it

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<v Speaker 3>as she's known me for a long time and she

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<v Speaker 3>understands my trajectory, so for me, it made sense that

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<v Speaker 3>somebody like Kylie, who's been on a long journey herself,

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<v Speaker 3>she would completely understand and empathize. That's why it was

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<v Speaker 3>I made that call and I really wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>Her to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a really beautiful moment, and you, of course

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<v Speaker 1>an fellow a young talent, time alumni Danny Minogue. Have

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<v Speaker 1>been in one another's lives for years since, very formative

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<v Speaker 1>years when you're on the show together and again somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the power of those high profile relationships and

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<v Speaker 1>friendships probably shouldn't be that revolutionary, that we have women

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<v Speaker 1>supporting other women in this way. But do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that that has become something that I imagine there have been

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<v Speaker 1>points in your career where you've even been told, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't release that, we've already got a woman signed

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<v Speaker 1>to the label, or so and so is doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>There's only a room for one woman in the charts,

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<v Speaker 1>one woman on the room.

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<v Speaker 3>What are your thoughts about all of that. You've made

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<v Speaker 3>a very interesting point, Sarah, when in the eighties or

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<v Speaker 3>night just probably started way back before then. Because the

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<v Speaker 3>industry was predominantly male at the time. The women were

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<v Speaker 3>pitched up against one another, and I think a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of those males had some sort of a fantasmical, sort

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<v Speaker 3>of an expedition within themselves and their own lunch boxes

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<v Speaker 3>to sort of sit there and fantasize voyeuristically at those women.

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<v Speaker 3>And also the relationships to the dynamics between women.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be very honest.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been in several situations over the years, and particularly

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<v Speaker 3>in the nineties and late nineties, where I had met

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<v Speaker 3>some very very successful women internationally who shall remain nameless.

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<v Speaker 3>I will not mention their names at all, because it

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<v Speaker 3>would be disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 2>Of me to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>But where I've felt really uncomfortable because of that very

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<v Speaker 3>notion that we were being pitted against one another, We're

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<v Speaker 3>in complete competition. It's such bullshit. It's absolute bullshit. It

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<v Speaker 3>is so boring. It is a storyline that makes no sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody gets anything from it, not the women and not

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<v Speaker 3>the women watching or the greater audience at large. I

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<v Speaker 3>think what I've struggled with a lot is those really

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<v Speaker 3>boring narratives and cliche things that they do when someone goes, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I've got a really great idea, or what do you think,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like, it's actually not a great idea at all.

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<v Speaker 3>It's you think it's a great idea, so you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and hence you don't see any beauty coming out of

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<v Speaker 3>one person or the other because they're just both being

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<v Speaker 3>pitted against one another in this absolute bullshit narrative that is,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it's not interesting for anybody. It's really

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<v Speaker 3>not interesting for anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>In terms of challenging narratives. I also, Tina, wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you about the fact that you changed your name

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<v Speaker 1>to Tina, your stage name when I believe when you

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<v Speaker 1>first appeared on Young Talent time back when you were eight. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we did not see a lot of diversity

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<v Speaker 1>on our screens in the late seventies and eighties. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean sometimes exactly. I mean we've come a long way.

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<v Speaker 1>That's I'd love to ask you a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>that moment.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, changing your name, well, you know, Australia

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<v Speaker 3>was very, very white in the seventies, and that's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I was born and raised here, so I'm not an

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<v Speaker 3>important sorts. My parents came here when they were quite

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<v Speaker 3>in their twenties, but I was born here.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't have an issue with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Sarah, my name is peenapi Ina and I understood as

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<v Speaker 3>a kid that I was going to get ribbed and

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to get called everything under the sun,

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<v Speaker 3>and I kind of did in a way.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>I really I kind of was water off Duck's back

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<v Speaker 3>for me. I was such a happy go lucky kid

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<v Speaker 3>that I kind of just got on with it, and

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<v Speaker 3>when it was actually John Young who made the suggestion

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<v Speaker 3>to change one letter because he as a Dutchman who

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<v Speaker 3>was born in Holland and came to Australia as a

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<v Speaker 3>young man being ethnic, understood and went, well, if we

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<v Speaker 3>allow her to be called Pina, she's going to be

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<v Speaker 3>she's going to be confronted with some serious bullying and ribbing.

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<v Speaker 2>And he was right.

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<v Speaker 3>So he said to my mum and dad, what do

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<v Speaker 3>you think if we changed the peed with tea. My

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<v Speaker 3>parents were like, that's fine with us, and they looked

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<v Speaker 3>over and I remember the moment. Actually, I was sitting

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<v Speaker 3>in his office and he had this beautiful office of

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<v Speaker 3>this gorgeous sort of racing green color on the wall

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<v Speaker 3>and these really cool sort of Italian leather couches. John

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<v Speaker 3>was unbelievably stylish, had incredible taste in these old gold records.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was just wandering in the office and I

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<v Speaker 3>was seven or something, just looking at the gold records,

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<v Speaker 3>and he sort of said, what do you think about

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<v Speaker 3>changing your name from Peanut to Tina? And I turner

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<v Speaker 3>and I remember and I went, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds cool.

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<v Speaker 3>With me, and then I kept looking at the Gold

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<v Speaker 3>Records and just.

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<v Speaker 2>Studying the room and the space. I was fine with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, there would be a few of those Gold records

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<v Speaker 1>in your future, Tina. And then Tina became Tiny Tina.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to ask you about that transition from child star,

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<v Speaker 1>from premiering on Young Talent Time around seven, being broadcast

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<v Speaker 1>into people's living rooms for you know, six years, and

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<v Speaker 1>then coming out as a teenager, and that gap. I

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<v Speaker 1>suppose if we go from there till say ten years later,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're you know, twenty five, twenty six, and then

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<v Speaker 1>recording Don't Ask, I'd love to ask you about that

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<v Speaker 1>interim decade. Tina, and you did release an album when

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<v Speaker 1>you were around eighteen, but as I said at the

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<v Speaker 1>start of our conversation, it really was Don't Ask. That

0:25:17.560 --> 0:25:22.160
<v Speaker 1>was the absolute breakthrough and arrival. From the outside, there's

0:25:22.240 --> 0:25:25.359
<v Speaker 1>always a lot of chat and speculation about these child

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<v Speaker 1>star transitions. I mean, obviously we've seen in everyone from

0:25:29.080 --> 0:25:33.959
<v Speaker 1>Miley cyrus Selena Gomez. It's hard enough growing up. I

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<v Speaker 1>can only imagine how difficult it is growing up on

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<v Speaker 1>national television and then finding a way as a young

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<v Speaker 1>artist and having everyone critiquing that or feeling that. In

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<v Speaker 1>some cases, obviously people will accelerate their adolescence and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>do a hold it like go, you know, shave their

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<v Speaker 1>head or do something hyper sexualized. How was that transition

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<v Speaker 1>for you?

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<v Speaker 3>It was a rough transition, Sarah. That was tough because

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<v Speaker 3>I was really fine and I was pretty outspoken by

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<v Speaker 3>that stage. Because I think that when you grow up

0:26:06.000 --> 0:26:09.359
<v Speaker 3>as a little kid on TV and you're constantly told

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<v Speaker 3>what to do, it's very easy to lose when you're

0:26:15.160 --> 0:26:17.760
<v Speaker 3>it's a pro it is a form of programmation, right,

0:26:17.920 --> 0:26:23.600
<v Speaker 3>so you are going to you just take on board

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<v Speaker 3>what everybody says, and then it's very difficult to be

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<v Speaker 3>able to grow and learn about setting boundaries for yourself

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<v Speaker 3>and so forth, and you do leave yourself open for

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<v Speaker 3>massive attack, which I did. You know, I was bullied.

0:26:43.480 --> 0:26:48.080
<v Speaker 3>I was bullied because I was Italian. I was bullied

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<v Speaker 3>because I wasn't blonde, you know, gorgeous and didn't fit

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<v Speaker 3>the mold, you know. I yeah, I did. I struggled

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<v Speaker 3>a lot, but I fought through it and I knew

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<v Speaker 3>that it was going to be a phase and I

0:27:01.040 --> 0:27:05.040
<v Speaker 3>just kept I just kept that vision and that dream

0:27:05.080 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 3>and that goal and that focus in my sight, and

0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 3>I was like, the only way I will get to

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<v Speaker 3>my point is by working really hard. And I'm a worker,

0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:23.000
<v Speaker 3>you know, by nature. So I just worked, and you know,

0:27:23.000 --> 0:27:27.840
<v Speaker 3>I did it pretty hard. But I learned so much too.

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<v Speaker 3>I started gigging live. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember when.

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<v Speaker 3>I started gigging live at the Grain Store on Friday nights,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, they had a massive following in that

0:27:38.520 --> 0:27:41.199
<v Speaker 3>day because there was an in house band called the

0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:44.680
<v Speaker 3>Network Horns, and that had a huge following. And every

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:47.400
<v Speaker 3>sort of Friday Saturday night you would get five six

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:50.840
<v Speaker 3>hundred punters come to the venue, which was a small

0:27:50.920 --> 0:27:53.959
<v Speaker 3>venue and it was already at its limit. And I

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 3>remember in the early days when the guy who managed

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<v Speaker 3>part of the Grain Stores, a dear gentleman by the

0:28:02.920 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 3>name of Peter Hoyland, who I still know and occasionally

0:28:06.320 --> 0:28:10.040
<v Speaker 3>bump into. Peter gave me my first break in that

0:28:10.080 --> 0:28:11.919
<v Speaker 3>live thing. And Peter would stand out the front on

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:14.440
<v Speaker 3>Friday nights. They would go, oh, who's playing tonight, and

0:28:14.440 --> 0:28:17.879
<v Speaker 3>he'd go Tina Arena and the people would be like,

0:28:18.880 --> 0:28:20.359
<v Speaker 3>you're fucking kidding me.

0:28:23.040 --> 0:28:24.119
<v Speaker 2>It was so great.

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:26.119
<v Speaker 3>I got I wish I had that stuff on film.

0:28:26.160 --> 0:28:29.080
<v Speaker 3>Now you're kidding me, I've got to see this. So

0:28:29.200 --> 0:28:31.879
<v Speaker 3>those very people that came in and were like, yeah,

0:28:32.359 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 3>ready to absolutely tear strips off me kept coming back

0:28:35.359 --> 0:28:36.480
<v Speaker 3>every Friday night.

0:28:37.200 --> 0:28:40.040
<v Speaker 2>It was very interesting. It was an interesting time.

0:28:40.120 --> 0:28:45.200
<v Speaker 3>People were pretty rough too, But I just knew that

0:28:45.240 --> 0:28:47.320
<v Speaker 3>I had to work. I knew it was going to

0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:50.960
<v Speaker 3>be tough. I had no illusions. I just kept going.

0:28:51.880 --> 0:28:56.000
<v Speaker 3>I was pretty resilient, Actually pretty resilient.

0:28:56.840 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 1>We're very resilient, hard worker, a woman of conviction, not

0:29:02.920 --> 0:29:08.880
<v Speaker 1>afraid to speak up, but also extremely extremely talented. I mean,

0:29:09.760 --> 0:29:13.680
<v Speaker 1>a voice of a generation. Brings me back to Don't

0:29:13.720 --> 0:29:16.800
<v Speaker 1>Ask and that moment then where there was no one

0:29:16.920 --> 0:29:20.400
<v Speaker 1>was then thinking about Tiny Tina. No one was outside

0:29:20.400 --> 0:29:24.120
<v Speaker 1>going yoh'm getting me. It was one of those moments

0:29:24.160 --> 0:29:28.200
<v Speaker 1>that really blew everyone away and showed what you could do.

0:29:28.280 --> 0:29:31.920
<v Speaker 1>That's certainly what it seems from me as an outsider.

0:29:32.480 --> 0:29:36.240
<v Speaker 1>How did it feel as that was unfolding TEENA? Because

0:29:36.280 --> 0:29:38.720
<v Speaker 1>the first single was changed, it was a huge hit,

0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 1>but the album just kept going. And we do still

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:44.000
<v Speaker 1>see this a little bit today. You know, you do

0:29:44.160 --> 0:29:47.200
<v Speaker 1>have those albums that will stay in the charts for

0:29:47.240 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>a year. We've seen it with Adele, with Taylor Swift. Yes,

0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:54.000
<v Speaker 1>it certainly was the case with Don't Ask. The singles

0:29:54.080 --> 0:29:56.479
<v Speaker 1>just kept coming. It was on the charts for, you know,

0:29:56.680 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 1>well over a year. How do you call feeling at

0:30:01.320 --> 0:30:05.720
<v Speaker 1>the time, as it was all unfolding and everything changed.

0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:10.959
<v Speaker 3>I was surprised by the reaction, only because I'd been

0:30:11.040 --> 0:30:16.160
<v Speaker 3>programmed to not really believe that I was capable of

0:30:17.200 --> 0:30:19.720
<v Speaker 3>making that transition, because everyone was like, oh, she's a

0:30:19.720 --> 0:30:23.680
<v Speaker 3>young talon timer, She's not going to be able to

0:30:23.760 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 3>transcend from child starr into an adult.

0:30:29.840 --> 0:30:36.200
<v Speaker 2>I surprised myself in a way. I think, yeah, it was.

0:30:36.320 --> 0:30:37.560
<v Speaker 2>It was very humbling.

0:30:38.400 --> 0:30:43.520
<v Speaker 3>I remember being unbelievably humbled by it and shocked. I

0:30:43.600 --> 0:30:47.600
<v Speaker 3>think a sort of an equal amount of both things

0:30:48.120 --> 0:30:52.080
<v Speaker 3>of humility and shock. I was kind of balancing those

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:56.120
<v Speaker 3>around for a while. Yeah, I didn't expect it.

0:30:56.440 --> 0:30:57.040
<v Speaker 2>I knew the.

0:30:57.040 --> 0:31:03.120
<v Speaker 3>Record was a really on perable piece of work, a

0:31:03.160 --> 0:31:06.920
<v Speaker 3>body of work that was very very much a depiction

0:31:07.280 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 3>of where I emotionally was at that point in time.

0:31:12.480 --> 0:31:17.240
<v Speaker 3>The record deserved it, I think I do believe that.

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I think it did too.

0:31:20.120 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 1>I have it in well, I had the CD at

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:26.920
<v Speaker 1>the time I had, I had a different CD, a

0:31:26.960 --> 0:31:29.120
<v Speaker 1>different version of it in my car. Friend of mine

0:31:29.200 --> 0:31:31.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, how many copies of this CD do you have?

0:31:31.600 --> 0:31:33.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I need one in my car, one at home,

0:31:34.080 --> 0:31:36.040
<v Speaker 1>and now of course it lives on my phone in

0:31:36.120 --> 0:31:37.120
<v Speaker 1>digital media.

0:31:39.400 --> 0:31:42.360
<v Speaker 2>Not the same thing. Not the same thing. No, it's

0:31:42.400 --> 0:31:44.280
<v Speaker 2>not listening to it.

0:31:44.280 --> 0:31:47.080
<v Speaker 1>It just reminded me what you said, though, was there

0:31:47.080 --> 0:31:50.680
<v Speaker 1>are songs that you know, obviously everyone you're writing that

0:31:50.720 --> 0:31:54.080
<v Speaker 1>material and recording that material in a certain chapter of

0:31:54.120 --> 0:31:57.520
<v Speaker 1>your life. Different people were listening to it at different

0:31:57.600 --> 0:32:01.120
<v Speaker 1>chapters of our lives and then coming back on stage

0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 1>and performing the live tour. For me, I started playing

0:32:05.640 --> 0:32:07.920
<v Speaker 1>it again on my playlist the last few days, knowing

0:32:07.960 --> 0:32:11.760
<v Speaker 1>I was speaking to you today, and I remember thinking, Wow,

0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:14.200
<v Speaker 1>this song is just hitting in a whole different place

0:32:14.320 --> 0:32:17.680
<v Speaker 1>thirty years on, and I imagine everyone is coming to that.

0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:21.400
<v Speaker 1>What about for you, Tina, as you prepare to tour

0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 1>the album again. I imagine there's songs that were written

0:32:26.360 --> 0:32:29.560
<v Speaker 1>and coming from you from a certain part of your

0:32:29.640 --> 0:32:32.920
<v Speaker 1>life and experience, and they again must just you know,

0:32:33.840 --> 0:32:36.160
<v Speaker 1>take on a whole new meaning of the woman I'm

0:32:36.200 --> 0:32:37.160
<v Speaker 1>speaking to today.

0:32:37.560 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 3>Sure, Sure, I think what I learned about myself even

0:32:45.200 --> 0:32:49.520
<v Speaker 3>thirty years on is that I was a bit ahead

0:32:49.520 --> 0:32:54.400
<v Speaker 3>of my time. I also think that I had an

0:32:54.400 --> 0:32:59.800
<v Speaker 3>emotional maturity back then at twenty four that doesn't really

0:33:00.120 --> 0:33:04.360
<v Speaker 3>exist in many twenty four year olds today, only because

0:33:05.080 --> 0:33:09.200
<v Speaker 3>they have so many distractions. Therefore it's much more difficult

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:12.080
<v Speaker 3>for them to hone in on something. We didn't have

0:33:12.160 --> 0:33:22.200
<v Speaker 3>those distractions, Sarah. So those songs were created from a really,

0:33:22.280 --> 0:33:25.360
<v Speaker 3>really profound emotional place. There were things I was going through,

0:33:26.440 --> 0:33:29.680
<v Speaker 3>you know, Sorrento Moon a reflection of my childhood, sitting

0:33:29.720 --> 0:33:32.520
<v Speaker 3>on the beach, on the back beach in Sorrento, watching

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:38.480
<v Speaker 3>the Surfy boys, watching the girls interact, remembering how beautiful

0:33:38.520 --> 0:33:42.200
<v Speaker 3>that time was, the innocence that came with that time.

0:33:43.440 --> 0:33:45.680
<v Speaker 3>And then you get Heaven help my heart, which was

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:51.240
<v Speaker 3>a real prayer to myself, because I knew that my

0:33:51.440 --> 0:33:56.280
<v Speaker 3>heart was going to get thrown around, and it did,

0:33:57.240 --> 0:34:00.680
<v Speaker 3>and not only in a romantic level. I'm not just

0:34:00.920 --> 0:34:04.840
<v Speaker 3>purely you know, talking about that. I'm talking about the

0:34:04.880 --> 0:34:10.080
<v Speaker 3>greater picture at large. You know that people were constantly

0:34:10.760 --> 0:34:14.359
<v Speaker 3>throwing things my way, you know, wasn't it good? Talking

0:34:14.440 --> 0:34:17.680
<v Speaker 3>about a relationship you know, in my late teens that

0:34:18.640 --> 0:34:23.320
<v Speaker 3>was a really beautiful relationship and it didn't continue, but

0:34:23.400 --> 0:34:29.239
<v Speaker 3>it was important for me to be respectful of how

0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:32.359
<v Speaker 3>wonderful it was when it lasted, and not coming from

0:34:32.400 --> 0:34:37.319
<v Speaker 3>a place of being a victim, which is, you know,

0:34:37.719 --> 0:34:40.680
<v Speaker 3>the place that most people come from today. They choose

0:34:41.080 --> 0:34:43.360
<v Speaker 3>to play the role of a victim. We don't have

0:34:43.440 --> 0:34:53.640
<v Speaker 3>any more heroes. A Chains was absolute frustration because I

0:34:53.719 --> 0:34:58.959
<v Speaker 3>knew that when I entered that project of Don't Ask

0:34:59.200 --> 0:35:02.120
<v Speaker 3>and the Tree, in the emotional trajectory that I was

0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:05.440
<v Speaker 3>on at the time and the alchemy that was around me,

0:35:07.040 --> 0:35:12.640
<v Speaker 3>Chains really is a manifestation of knowing that I was

0:35:13.160 --> 0:35:17.560
<v Speaker 3>gonna go on one hell of the journey and I did.

0:35:18.040 --> 0:35:20.200
<v Speaker 3>I went on a hell of a journey and I

0:35:20.440 --> 0:35:24.960
<v Speaker 3>was in Chains, So you know, it became almost it

0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:28.560
<v Speaker 3>became literal, not almost, it was literal.

0:35:29.040 --> 0:35:29.880
<v Speaker 2>So all those.

0:35:29.640 --> 0:35:34.920
<v Speaker 3>Songs are you know, they're very real emotions that I

0:35:35.080 --> 0:35:38.600
<v Speaker 3>was experiencing at that time as a twenty three, twenty

0:35:38.640 --> 0:35:43.080
<v Speaker 3>four year old young woman, just putting my heart down

0:35:43.239 --> 0:35:46.480
<v Speaker 3>and going, well, it is what it is, and suren

0:35:46.600 --> 0:35:48.960
<v Speaker 3>you know, surentomone. When the record company first heard that,

0:35:48.960 --> 0:35:51.600
<v Speaker 3>they sort of went, what the fuck is that?

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:55.120
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, what do you mean? Makes me

0:35:55.160 --> 0:35:57.319
<v Speaker 2>feel good? But it's sort of it's not right.

0:35:57.360 --> 0:36:00.800
<v Speaker 3>It doesn't really fit into anything that when musically doing

0:36:00.920 --> 0:36:01.439
<v Speaker 3>at the moment.

0:36:01.520 --> 0:36:04.680
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, precisely.

0:36:04.640 --> 0:36:09.200
<v Speaker 3>Exactly mission mission accomplished, you know, and they were like, oh,

0:36:09.239 --> 0:36:10.759
<v Speaker 3>you can't do that, and I said, I can do

0:36:10.840 --> 0:36:13.000
<v Speaker 3>what I want, Thank you.

0:36:13.760 --> 0:36:16.760
<v Speaker 1>I also love the fact that Sorrento Moon is still

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:20.080
<v Speaker 1>played to this day. You will be walking around a

0:36:20.160 --> 0:36:22.520
<v Speaker 1>shopping center and all play. I love the fact that

0:36:23.080 --> 0:36:28.759
<v Speaker 1>an iconic Australian song name checks a place where you

0:36:28.840 --> 0:36:31.720
<v Speaker 1>grew up. It's you know, so many of the songs

0:36:31.760 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 1>that we listened to, you know, international landmarks and aw

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:39.000
<v Speaker 1>can this and that and how fabulous and we're not

0:36:39.080 --> 0:36:42.400
<v Speaker 1>even talking about Sydney on Melbourne or something.

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:44.480
<v Speaker 2>That's all like Postcard. It's Sorrento.

0:36:45.120 --> 0:36:47.560
<v Speaker 1>I love that that that's just trickled into part of

0:36:47.600 --> 0:36:50.359
<v Speaker 1>the Australian cultural landscape because of that song.

0:36:51.600 --> 0:36:53.040
<v Speaker 2>Well it is. It is very much.

0:36:53.160 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 3>The Italians like to think that it's about them on

0:36:56.000 --> 0:36:58.959
<v Speaker 3>the Amalfi Coast and I'm like, well so sure.

0:36:59.320 --> 0:37:03.560
<v Speaker 1>A few years you released In Deep, and this really

0:37:03.640 --> 0:37:07.120
<v Speaker 1>also cemented your success in the French market. You actually

0:37:07.160 --> 0:37:10.839
<v Speaker 1>moved to France in two thousand came back home.

0:37:11.600 --> 0:37:14.440
<v Speaker 2>About twelve years later. I wanted to ask you a.

0:37:14.480 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Little bit about that, Tina, the experience of living overseas,

0:37:20.160 --> 0:37:26.359
<v Speaker 1>creating a new day to day life in a whole

0:37:26.400 --> 0:37:29.440
<v Speaker 1>new country, and then coming home from that.

0:37:29.560 --> 0:37:30.160
<v Speaker 2>A lot of.

0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:34.799
<v Speaker 1>People will move away overseas for a time. How has

0:37:34.840 --> 0:37:38.640
<v Speaker 1>that fit into the broader story of your life so far?

0:37:39.560 --> 0:37:40.520
<v Speaker 2>Well, it was exciting.

0:37:40.560 --> 0:37:43.719
<v Speaker 3>I mean I traveled an awful lot to Paris sort

0:37:43.719 --> 0:37:47.600
<v Speaker 3>of from about ninety six ninety seven because In Deep

0:37:47.719 --> 0:37:50.840
<v Speaker 3>was released there and started.

0:37:50.440 --> 0:37:51.360
<v Speaker 2>To do really well.

0:37:51.880 --> 0:37:57.440
<v Speaker 3>Chains had a real underground vibe, and then they released

0:37:58.960 --> 0:38:01.759
<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure if it is I want to know

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:05.279
<v Speaker 3>what Love is that I did a cover of Foreigners

0:38:05.560 --> 0:38:09.280
<v Speaker 3>version of that with Mick Jones, and I had also

0:38:09.360 --> 0:38:11.880
<v Speaker 3>at the time recorded the soundtrack to the film The

0:38:11.920 --> 0:38:16.360
<v Speaker 3>Mask of Zoro with the late Funny, the late James Horner,

0:38:17.160 --> 0:38:22.120
<v Speaker 3>the late Jim Steinman and now the late Will Jennings

0:38:22.160 --> 0:38:26.320
<v Speaker 3>who wrote the lyrics. All three gentlemen are all dead,

0:38:27.440 --> 0:38:31.000
<v Speaker 3>Like it's just mental But anyway, that's another story.

0:38:32.560 --> 0:38:34.879
<v Speaker 2>That film was.

0:38:36.640 --> 0:38:40.080
<v Speaker 3>So unbelievably successful in the French market because they love

0:38:40.200 --> 0:38:43.919
<v Speaker 3>the story of Zoro. So when that film came out

0:38:44.200 --> 0:38:48.040
<v Speaker 3>and it's such a majestic piece of music that it

0:38:48.280 --> 0:38:53.880
<v Speaker 3>just went bananas. So the French public had heard me

0:38:54.360 --> 0:38:58.480
<v Speaker 3>in a pop format and then they heard me in

0:38:58.520 --> 0:39:01.720
<v Speaker 3>a sort of timely classical format.

0:39:01.920 --> 0:39:05.360
<v Speaker 2>So that for them was like yay. So there was

0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:06.439
<v Speaker 2>a real curiosity.

0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:09.600
<v Speaker 3>I was really nonchalant to I was really happy to

0:39:09.600 --> 0:39:12.799
<v Speaker 3>be out of Australia at that time too, because I

0:39:12.840 --> 0:39:16.040
<v Speaker 3>was starting to go through a lot of really difficult

0:39:16.239 --> 0:39:22.160
<v Speaker 3>lessons and things in the late nineties. My relationship had

0:39:22.200 --> 0:39:24.880
<v Speaker 3>fallen apart that became unbelievably ugly.

0:39:25.760 --> 0:39:27.399
<v Speaker 2>So I moved.

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:31.480
<v Speaker 3>Because I just needed to have clarity. So it was

0:39:31.520 --> 0:39:37.680
<v Speaker 3>lovely to go there and try and find a new

0:39:37.760 --> 0:39:43.440
<v Speaker 3>life and just be me, like really really be me,

0:39:43.640 --> 0:39:46.000
<v Speaker 3>not have to put on any airs and graces because

0:39:46.040 --> 0:39:48.880
<v Speaker 3>people don't know who I am, they don't know my past.

0:39:49.280 --> 0:39:51.759
<v Speaker 3>But what ended up happening, Sarah is just with not

0:39:51.840 --> 0:39:54.520
<v Speaker 3>a lot of time that went past then people I

0:39:54.560 --> 0:39:56.680
<v Speaker 3>was walking down the street in France and people were

0:39:56.800 --> 0:40:03.480
<v Speaker 3>stopping me everywhere. That was something that was pretty hard.

0:40:03.960 --> 0:40:06.360
<v Speaker 3>It wasn't easy, you know, and then you throw a

0:40:06.440 --> 0:40:10.279
<v Speaker 3>baby into the mix and it's like, oh, Gord, what

0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:11.640
<v Speaker 3>do I do here? You know?

0:40:12.360 --> 0:40:15.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was tough because I'm very private. I'm very private.

0:40:16.200 --> 0:40:17.240
<v Speaker 2>I like to have fun.

0:40:17.360 --> 0:40:20.480
<v Speaker 3>I love to work, but I remove myself from it.

0:40:21.360 --> 0:40:25.920
<v Speaker 3>I can't lead that sort of a lifestyle. I need grounding.

0:40:27.080 --> 0:40:31.800
<v Speaker 3>I need grounding, I need normality. I like I run home.

0:40:32.280 --> 0:40:35.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm happy in my home. I cooked my meals, make

0:40:35.080 --> 0:40:37.880
<v Speaker 3>sure the washing's done, the place is as tidy as

0:40:38.560 --> 0:40:39.160
<v Speaker 3>it can be.

0:40:39.719 --> 0:40:40.359
<v Speaker 2>So I do.

0:40:40.920 --> 0:40:45.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm quite juxtaposed. So I can't live in that other

0:40:45.760 --> 0:40:46.760
<v Speaker 3>world full time.

0:40:46.840 --> 0:40:49.560
<v Speaker 2>It would drive me insane.

0:40:50.040 --> 0:40:52.400
<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you, then, Tina. One of my final

0:40:52.520 --> 0:40:58.120
<v Speaker 1>questions coming home to Australia. You're here, you have family

0:40:58.239 --> 0:41:00.600
<v Speaker 1>in Australia, Your your son now is well, he'll be

0:41:00.640 --> 0:41:06.440
<v Speaker 1>twenty next year. I believe, what's your relationship with Australia

0:41:06.520 --> 0:41:11.560
<v Speaker 1>now with some of those issues, and then being closer

0:41:11.560 --> 0:41:14.360
<v Speaker 1>to your own family and with your son here at

0:41:14.480 --> 0:41:16.880
<v Speaker 1>nineteen at this point in your life.

0:41:17.280 --> 0:41:20.719
<v Speaker 3>Well, my son isn't with me, Sarah. My son lives

0:41:20.760 --> 0:41:23.680
<v Speaker 3>in Paris, so he's been there for the last three

0:41:23.760 --> 0:41:29.920
<v Speaker 3>years my son, his father, and I had decided well,

0:41:29.960 --> 0:41:35.680
<v Speaker 3>Gabriel ultimately had desired to leave Victoria during the lockdown

0:41:35.840 --> 0:41:40.239
<v Speaker 3>because like many young children, he didn't being locked up

0:41:40.280 --> 0:41:44.239
<v Speaker 3>at home. Actually none of us did, and we were

0:41:44.320 --> 0:41:46.560
<v Speaker 3>supposed to put up and shut up. And I still

0:41:46.640 --> 0:41:49.120
<v Speaker 3>struggle with that, and that's why I was also very vocal,

0:41:49.160 --> 0:41:53.480
<v Speaker 3>because I don't think many people understood that it wasn't

0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:57.960
<v Speaker 3>so much you know, the artistic world and so forth,

0:41:58.040 --> 0:42:02.400
<v Speaker 3>that had literally we didn't know what was going to

0:42:02.440 --> 0:42:05.640
<v Speaker 3>happen to our world other than I intuitively knew that

0:42:05.680 --> 0:42:07.040
<v Speaker 3>we're in a massive reset.

0:42:08.120 --> 0:42:09.560
<v Speaker 2>I intuitively knew.

0:42:13.280 --> 0:42:16.359
<v Speaker 3>It was a heartbreaking time for the family because the

0:42:16.360 --> 0:42:20.799
<v Speaker 3>family fell apart. His Gabriel's father and I split up

0:42:20.840 --> 0:42:25.440
<v Speaker 3>about four years ago, maybe more than nearly five years ago.

0:42:26.040 --> 0:42:28.799
<v Speaker 3>And that's fine. We're all fine now, thank god. But

0:42:28.880 --> 0:42:32.960
<v Speaker 3>it was a really brutal, brutal journey. So when your

0:42:33.040 --> 0:42:39.000
<v Speaker 3>only child decides to leave because he needs to be

0:42:39.080 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 3>able to walk the streets and have a sense of

0:42:41.640 --> 0:42:45.839
<v Speaker 3>freedom and be a young boy and learn, it made

0:42:45.880 --> 0:42:49.680
<v Speaker 3>me really angry with the state with Australia and then

0:42:49.760 --> 0:42:54.440
<v Speaker 3>being so compliant. I do think that there's a tremendous

0:42:54.440 --> 0:42:56.360
<v Speaker 3>amount of work to do in this country.

0:42:56.880 --> 0:42:58.839
<v Speaker 2>It's probably got a lot to do with the.

0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:02.680
<v Speaker 3>Fact that I am very local and that I hate

0:43:02.840 --> 0:43:07.520
<v Speaker 3>the totalitarian display of behavior that we are currently seeing,

0:43:07.560 --> 0:43:09.399
<v Speaker 3>and the fact that nobody talks about it.

0:43:10.440 --> 0:43:14.120
<v Speaker 2>I think it's unbelievably selfish.

0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:17.960
<v Speaker 3>I think it's unbelievably ignorant that it's not spoken about.

0:43:18.880 --> 0:43:22.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm quite traumatized by it. I ended up going to therapy,

0:43:22.920 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 3>and I'm very comfortable in saying that I have therapy

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<v Speaker 3>on a regular basis because I was very unhappy. I

0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:35.480
<v Speaker 3>got very sick last year and ended up in hospital,

0:43:35.920 --> 0:43:38.440
<v Speaker 3>had to cancel the tour. I really do believe that

0:43:38.440 --> 0:43:41.280
<v Speaker 3>that's a manifestation of the trauma that happened in twenty

0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:44.879
<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty, In twenty twenty one and twenty twenty two,

0:43:45.800 --> 0:43:46.880
<v Speaker 3>it was three years.

0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:48.880
<v Speaker 2>That it went on for it was very unfair.

0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:53.920
<v Speaker 3>Nobody's been held accountable, absolutely no one, And in that

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:57.239
<v Speaker 3>time my son decided to go overseas, so it was

0:43:58.560 --> 0:44:03.320
<v Speaker 3>a massive hamburger with the lot for me to try

0:44:03.640 --> 0:44:06.880
<v Speaker 3>and ingest at that time. So I've had to slowly

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<v Speaker 3>work my way through it with the help of and

0:44:11.800 --> 0:44:15.600
<v Speaker 3>lot of love of my friends and my family who've

0:44:15.640 --> 0:44:19.759
<v Speaker 3>really helped me, you know, through that journey. It's not

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<v Speaker 3>over every day, you know. There are some days that

0:44:21.800 --> 0:44:25.239
<v Speaker 3>are really great and there are some days that you know,

0:44:25.440 --> 0:44:28.560
<v Speaker 3>are tough. But I'm doing much better because I'm learning

0:44:28.560 --> 0:44:32.560
<v Speaker 3>a lot more about that and I'm understanding that not

0:44:32.680 --> 0:44:36.720
<v Speaker 3>everybody understands these things, not everybody sees the big picture,

0:44:36.800 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 3>because so many people allow themselves to be completely inundated

0:44:42.719 --> 0:44:46.800
<v Speaker 3>and ruled by what it is that they see. People

0:44:47.680 --> 0:44:52.000
<v Speaker 3>are not inherently the types to try and strip through

0:44:52.040 --> 0:44:54.920
<v Speaker 3>a few layers to see how how did we get

0:44:54.960 --> 0:44:56.680
<v Speaker 3>to this? Why did we get to this? And to

0:44:56.760 --> 0:44:59.560
<v Speaker 3>ask all these questions which I've asked. Perhaps I've done

0:44:59.560 --> 0:45:01.680
<v Speaker 3>my head in a lot more than I should have,

0:45:02.120 --> 0:45:03.879
<v Speaker 3>but I think I've grown a lot and I'm much

0:45:03.920 --> 0:45:07.080
<v Speaker 3>more peaceful with it now. And I'm happy to say

0:45:07.120 --> 0:45:10.759
<v Speaker 3>that my relationship with my son is getting better by

0:45:10.800 --> 0:45:14.200
<v Speaker 3>the day, you know, And that's good because we really

0:45:14.200 --> 0:45:17.240
<v Speaker 3>did struggle as mother and son for a couple of years.

0:45:17.280 --> 0:45:21.319
<v Speaker 3>He was very angry, very angry with being shut off

0:45:21.360 --> 0:45:27.480
<v Speaker 3>here and as a parent, you know, and as you

0:45:27.560 --> 0:45:30.359
<v Speaker 3>know as well, we don't have a guidebook.

0:45:29.840 --> 0:45:30.879
<v Speaker 2>Telling us what to do.

0:45:31.040 --> 0:45:37.560
<v Speaker 3>So the way I navigated through that through unadulterating honesty

0:45:37.640 --> 0:45:42.960
<v Speaker 3>with my boy. I'm very very honest with Gabriel, and

0:45:43.000 --> 0:45:48.520
<v Speaker 3>I have expressed strengths to him. I've expressed perspectives to him,

0:45:48.760 --> 0:45:55.120
<v Speaker 3>and i have expressed to him my failures, and I've

0:45:55.160 --> 0:46:01.920
<v Speaker 3>been very open about that and very very happy because

0:46:03.040 --> 0:46:05.840
<v Speaker 3>I think it's I think my son has sort of

0:46:06.160 --> 0:46:09.120
<v Speaker 3>understood and he has gone well, you know, at least

0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:13.279
<v Speaker 3>mum doesn't sit there and pretend that you know, she's

0:46:13.320 --> 0:46:16.839
<v Speaker 3>got the answer to everything. She's only human and she

0:46:17.000 --> 0:46:19.719
<v Speaker 3>does great things, and sometimes.

0:46:19.160 --> 0:46:24.200
<v Speaker 2>She's an dickhead. Oh it's funny.

0:46:24.560 --> 0:46:28.920
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for sharing that. I'm really sorry

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:32.680
<v Speaker 1>that you've you know, had a really challenging few years.

0:46:32.719 --> 0:46:36.160
<v Speaker 1>But I know that it's going to make a lot

0:46:36.160 --> 0:46:39.000
<v Speaker 1>of people feel a lot less alone and seen and

0:46:39.120 --> 0:46:43.319
<v Speaker 1>heard to hear your story. And I think, as you say,

0:46:43.320 --> 0:46:50.720
<v Speaker 1>we don't get a handbook as parents don't, but I would, well,

0:46:50.800 --> 0:46:54.280
<v Speaker 1>people much smarter than me. But probably you know, experts

0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:57.320
<v Speaker 1>in the field do say that it's a real gift

0:46:57.320 --> 0:47:00.919
<v Speaker 1>for us as parents to admit to our children we

0:47:00.960 --> 0:47:04.160
<v Speaker 1>are figuring this out too, and that we're not perfect

0:47:04.160 --> 0:47:06.000
<v Speaker 1>and we're all in this together. And you know, what

0:47:06.080 --> 0:47:09.160
<v Speaker 1>a gift that you have given your son with that

0:47:09.400 --> 0:47:12.160
<v Speaker 1>honesty and vulnerability, and I think, what a gift you've

0:47:12.200 --> 0:47:15.240
<v Speaker 1>given to us. So thank you so much for opening

0:47:15.320 --> 0:47:15.960
<v Speaker 1>up about that.

0:47:16.040 --> 0:47:19.080
<v Speaker 2>I really you're very well. It's not easy.

0:47:19.160 --> 0:47:21.680
<v Speaker 3>It's not easy too, But I also think it's it's

0:47:21.760 --> 0:47:25.759
<v Speaker 3>important that people understand that it doesn't matter what you

0:47:25.880 --> 0:47:29.279
<v Speaker 3>do as a job, living what kind of a life

0:47:29.320 --> 0:47:33.200
<v Speaker 3>you've had. You know, people can only assume that they

0:47:33.280 --> 0:47:36.719
<v Speaker 3>think you've led a particular life. They don't know, and

0:47:36.760 --> 0:47:38.800
<v Speaker 3>then it's up to us as to whether we choose

0:47:38.880 --> 0:47:41.920
<v Speaker 3>to share things or not. I don't want to share

0:47:41.960 --> 0:47:45.960
<v Speaker 3>everything because I don't think it's any every it's not

0:47:46.000 --> 0:47:49.160
<v Speaker 3>anybody's business, you know, Like I don't care to really

0:47:49.200 --> 0:47:51.320
<v Speaker 3>know everything about other people.

0:47:51.360 --> 0:47:52.680
<v Speaker 2>What I do know is that they're.

0:47:52.520 --> 0:47:58.280
<v Speaker 3>Human, and you know, humans, you know, are constantly juggling things.

0:47:58.480 --> 0:47:59.759
<v Speaker 2>That's what that's what they're doing.

0:47:59.800 --> 0:48:05.560
<v Speaker 3>But I do believe in being truthful and saying there,

0:48:05.640 --> 0:48:10.040
<v Speaker 3>you know, there were really really difficult times, but it's

0:48:10.120 --> 0:48:13.719
<v Speaker 3>part of life. And if I can transcend that and

0:48:13.760 --> 0:48:17.200
<v Speaker 3>turn it around, that's when I'm really winning, and I

0:48:17.239 --> 0:48:20.239
<v Speaker 3>think I'm winning now because I am turning it around,

0:48:20.320 --> 0:48:22.279
<v Speaker 3>and I'm very grateful for that.

0:48:23.280 --> 0:48:29.839
<v Speaker 1>Really, what a time to be revisiting this album Don't

0:48:29.920 --> 0:48:33.279
<v Speaker 1>Ask and taking to the stage, Tina. Imagine like it's

0:48:33.360 --> 0:48:38.120
<v Speaker 1>been obviously every time that you're connecting with an audience

0:48:38.160 --> 0:48:42.400
<v Speaker 1>you're performing. Obviously you're digging so deep into yourself to

0:48:42.480 --> 0:48:47.240
<v Speaker 1>share that. But I would imagine that particularly profound. These

0:48:47.280 --> 0:48:51.160
<v Speaker 1>three decades of your life and so much growth and

0:48:51.400 --> 0:48:54.440
<v Speaker 1>so much change and so many wonderful things and so

0:48:54.520 --> 0:48:59.080
<v Speaker 1>many challenges. What a moment to have that moment of

0:48:59.120 --> 0:49:03.399
<v Speaker 1>retrospection yourself and for everyone that is coming to see

0:49:03.440 --> 0:49:04.160
<v Speaker 1>you perform.

0:49:04.640 --> 0:49:06.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you know what's really beautiful? Sarah?

0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:10.399
<v Speaker 3>It recently dawned on me only because I'm not very

0:49:10.440 --> 0:49:13.239
<v Speaker 3>good at celebrating what it is.

0:49:13.160 --> 0:49:13.759
<v Speaker 2>That I do.

0:49:16.360 --> 0:49:18.799
<v Speaker 3>I tend to do what I do, and then I'm

0:49:18.800 --> 0:49:21.920
<v Speaker 3>move away and I do other things, so I don't

0:49:22.120 --> 0:49:25.960
<v Speaker 3>spend that time reflecting what I'm really proud of with

0:49:26.040 --> 0:49:29.120
<v Speaker 3>Don't Ask. And why I think it was the substantial

0:49:30.120 --> 0:49:32.440
<v Speaker 3>it had the substantial success.

0:49:32.040 --> 0:49:32.600
<v Speaker 2>That it did.

0:49:33.280 --> 0:49:38.240
<v Speaker 3>Is it dealt in universal themes? It dealt in love,

0:49:38.400 --> 0:49:43.120
<v Speaker 3>it dealt in loss, which we all deal with.

0:49:43.840 --> 0:49:45.760
<v Speaker 2>And I think that those themes.

0:49:47.440 --> 0:49:51.719
<v Speaker 3>Thirty years down the track haven't shifted at all.

0:49:52.040 --> 0:49:52.840
<v Speaker 2>They're still there.

0:49:53.200 --> 0:49:57.200
<v Speaker 3>There's still things that we deal with, only now I

0:49:57.360 --> 0:50:02.880
<v Speaker 3>deal with them differently. The hindsight of having lived a life,

0:50:03.840 --> 0:50:08.319
<v Speaker 3>having done beautiful things, having made some really stupid mistakes,

0:50:09.040 --> 0:50:14.120
<v Speaker 3>not having listened to myself, but now listening to myself

0:50:14.120 --> 0:50:17.680
<v Speaker 3>and those songs, that's why they've stood the test.

0:50:17.480 --> 0:50:19.279
<v Speaker 2>Of time, you know.

0:50:19.400 --> 0:50:23.520
<v Speaker 3>And I'm very excited and a little scared to get

0:50:23.560 --> 0:50:28.000
<v Speaker 3>back on stage and sing those songs again because I've

0:50:28.040 --> 0:50:31.600
<v Speaker 3>not done the record from top to bottom.

0:50:31.680 --> 0:50:36.480
<v Speaker 2>So it's gonna be fun. It will be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, final question, is there a song that you're most

0:50:40.480 --> 0:50:43.880
<v Speaker 1>looking forward to singing and will it be the same

0:50:43.920 --> 0:50:46.840
<v Speaker 1>song that fans ask you for all the time or

0:50:46.920 --> 0:50:48.719
<v Speaker 1>is it going to be a little bit unexpected?

0:50:49.200 --> 0:50:51.839
<v Speaker 2>Oh look, I don't know fan the fans are. You know.

0:50:51.920 --> 0:50:54.480
<v Speaker 2>I have a very loyal audience around the world.

0:50:54.520 --> 0:50:58.560
<v Speaker 3>I've been so incredibly blessed and it's an audience I've

0:50:58.719 --> 0:51:05.239
<v Speaker 3>nurtured from time. I do have a profound, like a

0:51:05.280 --> 0:51:08.120
<v Speaker 3>request constantly to do show Me Heaven, which was not

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:12.239
<v Speaker 3>on Don't ask was actually on in deep. I've always like, yeah, no,

0:51:12.320 --> 0:51:14.160
<v Speaker 3>I don't connect with that song.

0:51:14.000 --> 0:51:14.800
<v Speaker 2>For some reason.

0:51:15.120 --> 0:51:17.440
<v Speaker 3>See, that was a record company back then that said, oh,

0:51:17.840 --> 0:51:20.440
<v Speaker 3>do this, you know, do a version of Maria McKee's

0:51:20.480 --> 0:51:22.319
<v Speaker 3>Show Me Heaven. I'm like, what for? She sings it

0:51:22.400 --> 0:51:24.120
<v Speaker 3>so fucking great? Why do you want me to sing

0:51:24.160 --> 0:51:25.560
<v Speaker 3>it for anyway?

0:51:26.160 --> 0:51:26.480
<v Speaker 2>Again?

0:51:26.600 --> 0:51:28.640
<v Speaker 3>You know, I was just doing what I was told

0:51:28.680 --> 0:51:33.279
<v Speaker 3>back then, and hence you know the reason why I'm

0:51:33.400 --> 0:51:35.600
<v Speaker 3>not there doing that anymore because it just doesn't.

0:51:35.640 --> 0:51:36.960
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't. I don't relate.

0:51:40.800 --> 0:51:43.840
<v Speaker 3>There is a song that I'm looking forward to doing.

0:51:44.920 --> 0:51:47.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm looking forward to doing Greatest Gift because I think

0:51:47.560 --> 0:51:52.839
<v Speaker 3>that that's really beautiful. And the other one that I'm

0:51:53.280 --> 0:51:57.560
<v Speaker 3>looking forward to doing is Message M.

0:51:58.800 --> 0:52:03.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a beautiful song. Yeah, and I just I'm

0:52:03.560 --> 0:52:05.040
<v Speaker 2>looking I'm looking forward to it.

0:52:05.080 --> 0:52:07.360
<v Speaker 3>It's going to be very interesting to see when we

0:52:07.480 --> 0:52:11.479
<v Speaker 3>get into rehearsals what kind of shape they're going to take,

0:52:12.480 --> 0:52:12.799
<v Speaker 3>do you know?

0:52:13.440 --> 0:52:15.760
<v Speaker 2>So it's yeah, I'm curious.

0:52:15.840 --> 0:52:19.160
<v Speaker 3>I don't know yet, None of us know till we

0:52:19.200 --> 0:52:22.000
<v Speaker 3>get into that room and start banging away.

0:52:23.080 --> 0:52:25.879
<v Speaker 1>Well, all the best with rehearsals and look forward to

0:52:25.920 --> 0:52:29.680
<v Speaker 1>it and thank you again, Tina for your time today.

0:52:29.680 --> 0:52:32.120
<v Speaker 2>It's been really lovely to speak to you.

0:52:35.080 --> 0:52:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I hope you enjoyed that episode of the summer series

0:52:37.680 --> 0:52:39.920
<v Speaker 1>or something to talk about. Make sure you're following us

0:52:40.000 --> 0:52:42.880
<v Speaker 1>if you're not already, because we'll be revisiting some of

0:52:42.920 --> 0:52:45.759
<v Speaker 1>your favorite episodes of the past year until we're back

0:52:45.800 --> 0:52:48.520
<v Speaker 1>with a brand new episode on January twelfth.