WEBVTT - Not So Nonch 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:10.900 Hello, everyone. Hello, everyone. Hello, everyone. Hello, everyone. It's Mal, 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:14.800 it's Monty, your show and tell podcast piggies. 0:00:15.740 --> 0:00:18.530 Hello, everybody. Wouldn't it be nice if the listeners could 0:00:18.570 --> 0:00:19.150 talk back? 0:00:19.750 --> 0:00:22.650 I know. You guys can say, yeah, good, Mal, good, Monty. 0:00:22.710 --> 0:00:24.689 Love when you get in touch with us on Instagram 0:00:24.770 --> 0:00:26.430 and let us know how you're going. That's always a 0:00:26.590 --> 0:00:29.550 real treaty treat to hear how you are. So hit 0:00:29.590 --> 0:00:31.480 us up anytime. Show and tell podcast is where you 0:00:31.500 --> 0:00:33.479 can find us, but we hope you're good. But, Mel, 0:00:33.540 --> 0:00:35.980 you've been rocking it solo for a little while. Your 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:37.900 partner's been away and you just said to me, I 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:41.050 miss him. I never thought I'd hear those words come 0:00:41.110 --> 0:00:41.690 out of your mouth. 0:00:42.070 --> 0:00:45.310 I know. This is why I think that even though 0:00:45.330 --> 0:00:49.770 I miss him, but again, a bit resentful. 0:00:51.030 --> 0:00:52.409 That's my own issues. Equal parts. 0:00:52.930 --> 0:00:55.980 My own issues. But this is why I think as 0:00:56.020 --> 0:00:58.700 I'm getting older, time apart is such a good thing 0:00:58.920 --> 0:01:02.280 for a relationship because– You don't have time to miss 0:01:02.340 --> 0:01:05.500 each other. So when you actually do spend time apart, 0:01:05.550 --> 0:01:09.050 it's like, oh, actually I had to do the bins 0:01:09.090 --> 0:01:10.550 the other night and that was shit. I can't wait 0:01:10.569 --> 0:01:11.030 for you to come home. 0:01:11.990 --> 0:01:14.350 You made me miss you. Because he went away. How 0:01:14.370 --> 0:01:15.530 long did he go for? A week? 0:01:15.630 --> 0:01:16.390 Just a week. 0:01:16.750 --> 0:01:16.990 Yeah. 0:01:17.230 --> 0:01:18.580 He had a job at one point where he had 0:01:18.590 --> 0:01:21.600 to travel interstate like once a month. And it was 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:24.440 when the kids were really little. So I was so 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:27.840 distracted by them that I sort of didn't really feel it. 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:29.900 But now it's just, you know what it is, it's 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.360 stupid things like, you know, if you see something funny 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:33.620 on Instagram or whatever and. 0:01:33.580 --> 0:01:34.620 You go, oh, hey, look at this. 0:01:34.780 --> 0:01:36.340 It's those little things. 0:01:36.700 --> 0:01:38.700 Yeah, when the kids are in bed at night or 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:40.839 it's just the two of you or you just, yeah, 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.660 just the interactions. You don't realize how many interactions you 0:01:43.700 --> 0:01:46.440 have with each other until the other one's not in 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:48.670 the house and then you're like, God, it's very quiet 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:51.730 in here. So that's nice. I think time apart is 0:01:51.850 --> 0:01:55.110 really important. I think also from the kids as well, like, 0:01:55.780 --> 0:01:59.630 to have space from whoever you're around most of the 0:01:59.670 --> 0:02:01.390 time to go away and go, oh, I actually do 0:02:01.430 --> 0:02:04.030 miss you because we don't miss them very often. So 0:02:04.090 --> 0:02:06.809 to miss somebody is quite lovely. Exactly. 0:02:06.830 --> 0:02:10.900 I really judged him though because I'm such a bitch. 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:14.520 The kids, when he arrived, they asked him. Hold on, 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:18.140 is he back? No, he's back tomorrow. Oh, when are 0:02:18.160 --> 0:02:18.560 you back where? 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:19.100 On WhatsApp. 0:02:19.980 --> 0:02:20.579 Overseas. 0:02:21.260 --> 0:02:24.260 Oh, so when he got overseas, they asked him that. Gotcha. 0:02:24.340 --> 0:02:27.919 When he arrived overseas, sorry, I didn't mean arrived home. 0:02:28.419 --> 0:02:31.649 And that's another thing too. You're never really that disconnected. 0:02:32.130 --> 0:02:34.790 No, you're not. You know, he's constantly there. 0:02:35.150 --> 0:02:37.510 Yeah. But they asked him what he watched. 0:02:37.870 --> 0:02:38.950 Yeah. What do you watch? 0:02:39.590 --> 0:02:42.900 And I shouldn't judge. And, you know, some people may 0:02:43.020 --> 0:02:46.119 say this is a dream partner. I don't know. I've 0:02:46.139 --> 0:02:48.839 spoken before how he, if, How to Lose a Guy 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:52.420 in 10 Days is on any of the Foxtel channels. 0:02:52.620 --> 0:02:55.210 He'll watch it. He's seen it about a million times. 0:02:55.690 --> 0:02:56.210 So good. 0:02:56.530 --> 0:03:00.530 How's this for a fucking movie selection? The Devil Wears 0:03:00.630 --> 0:03:01.630 Prada 2. 0:03:01.610 --> 0:03:05.070 Oh, no, good selection. I'd do that if I was 0:03:05.130 --> 0:03:05.630 on a plane. 0:03:06.169 --> 0:03:08.130 Toy Story 5. 0:03:08.130 --> 0:03:09.870 I wouldn't do that. I did that at the cinema. 0:03:09.930 --> 0:03:12.790 That's depressing, Toy Story 5, because it's all about how 0:03:12.850 --> 0:03:16.850 technology has fucked our kids. But, yeah, as a grown man. 0:03:17.450 --> 0:03:19.829 That's really a vagina closer. 0:03:19.850 --> 0:03:23.109 I was just like, and you know what? Like part 0:03:23.150 --> 0:03:26.460 of me is, oh, that's what I love about him, 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:29.300 that he actually doesn't give a fuck. Like he'd proudly 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:31.440 say it. You know, most guys might be like, oh, yeah, 0:03:31.950 --> 0:03:34.090 you know, oh, devil wears Prada, but then maybe they're 0:03:34.130 --> 0:03:34.510 watching it. 0:03:34.970 --> 0:03:35.710 Over your shoulder. 0:03:35.930 --> 0:03:41.770 Yes. So I love that about him, but I'm also like, oh, sorry. 0:03:41.810 --> 0:03:43.130 The third one was obsession. 0:03:43.670 --> 0:03:46.520 Right. What's, who's in obsession? What's in that one? 0:03:46.530 --> 0:03:49.910 It actually looks great. It's a bit of a horror about, um, 0:03:50.150 --> 0:03:53.150 a guy who is in love with this friend of his, 0:03:53.450 --> 0:03:55.630 and he uses one of these things. He makes a 0:03:55.670 --> 0:03:58.210 wish and he says, I wish that you know, I 0:03:58.430 --> 0:04:01.670 was the only person she loved or whatever and the 0:04:01.710 --> 0:04:04.570 wish comes true but then she becomes fully obsessed. And 0:04:04.590 --> 0:04:07.330 he goes, oh, out of the three of them, Devil 0:04:07.430 --> 0:04:09.390 Wears Prada 2 was the peak of the bunch. And 0:04:09.410 --> 0:04:11.470 I was like, I doubt it. 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:14.420 I'm really glad he didn't say Toy Story. There's something. 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:19.280 To me about grown men watching cartoons or animation, that 0:04:19.380 --> 0:04:20.880 is not okay. 0:04:21.160 --> 0:04:25.020 Everyone in this house fucking loves animated movies. I hate them. 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:28.179 Do they? Yes, same. I'm not into them at all. 0:04:28.540 --> 0:04:33.279 And those, you know, those sporty movies from our childhood 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:36.220 but about like when the underdog wins, like, you know, 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:42.400 the Mighty Ducks, Cool Runnings, that sort of stuff. I'm like... Really? 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:46.440 That's so funny. I love that he's just confidently sitting 0:04:46.460 --> 0:04:49.400 on the plane watching a cartoon. I know they're not cartoons, right? 0:04:49.420 --> 0:04:51.420 They're still in my mind. They're cartoons. And he's just 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.900 sitting there eating his chicken or beef, chicken or beef, 0:04:53.940 --> 0:04:58.880 whatever got served to him watching Toy Story 5. 0:04:58.880 --> 0:04:59.460 So good. 0:04:59.490 --> 0:05:03.230 Hey, what's not so good, though, is the fact that 0:05:03.310 --> 0:05:05.450 my kids finally went back to school this week and 0:05:05.490 --> 0:05:09.230 the night before school goes back, Baxter starts coughing. 0:05:09.250 --> 0:05:09.710 Oh, no. 0:05:10.570 --> 0:05:14.740 You're fucking kidding me. You're fine. You're fine. Yeah, that's 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:17.080 what I was. I'm like, it's fine. It's totally fine. 0:05:17.560 --> 0:05:20.100 One day and then that's it. Now he's home. And 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:24.160 I'm like, just those holidays for me were really hard. 0:05:24.180 --> 0:05:27.950 The kids were feral. I just, my mental health dived 0:05:28.010 --> 0:05:30.170 because I just was like, I can't do this with them. 0:05:30.230 --> 0:05:32.690 This is so hard. And then to have the house 0:05:32.730 --> 0:05:35.390 to myself for a day, I felt this huge lift, 0:05:35.490 --> 0:05:38.470 this huge amount of freedom. And then old fucking coffee 0:05:38.510 --> 0:05:42.560 cofferson is just, slurping around the house now coughing his 0:05:42.900 --> 0:05:44.779 coffee face everywhere. 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:47.960 Good on you for keeping him home though I really 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:49.820 have an issue with parents who send their kids to 0:05:49.870 --> 0:05:53.289 school sick with a cough. 0:05:52.370 --> 0:05:54.890 It would be quite his coughs quite hectic and I'm 0:05:54.910 --> 0:05:56.570 like oh it's going to be a chesty one that's 0:05:56.610 --> 0:05:58.810 going to go into something nasty and then he's going 0:05:58.830 --> 0:06:02.190 to be home coughs last for so long Oh, my God. 0:06:02.450 --> 0:06:04.650 I remembered last night. I said, Sam, remember when he 0:06:04.710 --> 0:06:05.950 had the 100-day cough? 0:06:06.130 --> 0:06:07.890 Oh, Mark had that too. 0:06:08.570 --> 0:06:11.219 Oh, Sam said, I don't remember. I said, how can 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:13.760 you not remember? It was the most irritating time. Sam 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:16.540 and I would look at each other and like shudder 0:06:16.860 --> 0:06:19.240 every time he'd cough because it literally is a cough 0:06:19.620 --> 0:06:22.560 where they're not sick but it lasts for 100 days. 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:28.790 Someone coughing? is the most fucking annoying thing in the world. 0:06:29.430 --> 0:06:31.690 Mate, why is it so annoying, I wonder? 0:06:32.020 --> 0:06:37.540 Because it's just constant, a constant interruption to your. Yeah, 0:06:37.900 --> 0:06:40.839 it's just a constant thing. It's annoying and also you 0:06:40.860 --> 0:06:42.460 pick up on their annoyance because it's like if this 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:44.730 is annoying for me, imagine them, especially when it's the 0:06:44.750 --> 0:06:46.890 middle of the night and they're trying to sleep and 0:06:46.930 --> 0:06:47.450 it's annoying. 0:06:48.589 --> 0:06:50.430 Yes, but it is. It's like when you're at a 0:06:50.450 --> 0:06:53.229 cafe and a dog barks and you're just like, shut up. 0:06:53.270 --> 0:06:55.370 That just jolted me out of where I am. It's 0:06:55.390 --> 0:06:57.250 like same with this cough. It's like you'll be talking 0:06:57.300 --> 0:07:00.000 and mid-talk he's like coughing and you're like, oh. And 0:07:00.020 --> 0:07:02.460 I'm like coughing. I'm so mean. We were in the 0:07:02.500 --> 0:07:05.160 car yesterday and I'm like, cough into your arm. Cough 0:07:05.180 --> 0:07:05.940 into your arm. 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:07.740 Didn't COVID teach you anything? 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:09.480 Yes, seriously. 0:07:09.500 --> 0:07:10.180 My God. 0:07:11.260 --> 0:07:13.440 Before we move on to topical stuff that's going on 0:07:13.460 --> 0:07:15.059 in the world, I have a confession to make. 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:16.480 Oh, God. Oh, God. 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:17.960 It's pretty gross. 0:07:17.980 --> 0:07:20.610 I was going to say, can I guess, but I 0:07:20.700 --> 0:07:22.560 think it's pretty gross. I'm never going to guess it. 0:07:22.610 --> 0:07:24.890 No, I mean, it's gross, but it's not like, it's 0:07:24.930 --> 0:07:27.470 not that off-brand, but it is off-brand because I am 0:07:27.490 --> 0:07:30.490 a clean person, but I have worn the same t-shirt 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:33.580 for two days and slept in it for two days 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:35.880 as well. And I'm getting night sweats at the moment. 0:07:36.260 --> 0:07:37.080 I've done that before. 0:07:37.500 --> 0:07:37.920 Oh, good. 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:39.700 I just- Oh, maybe not with night sweats. 0:07:39.780 --> 0:07:42.050 Night sweats, yeah. Maybe not if I'm sweaty, but- Because 0:07:42.090 --> 0:07:45.170 I put it on yesterday and then I went for 0:07:45.250 --> 0:07:47.190 a dip and I got home and I put it 0:07:47.230 --> 0:07:50.350 back on after the dip and I didn't shower. Sorry, no, 0:07:50.390 --> 0:07:52.930 I wore it to bed, got up, went for a 0:07:52.970 --> 0:07:55.070 dip in the water, the ocean, and then put it 0:07:55.110 --> 0:07:57.230 back on and didn't shower and then went to bed 0:07:57.270 --> 0:07:59.810 last night, put it on, got up, went to Pilates 0:07:59.860 --> 0:08:02.720 this morning, still wearing it, haven't showered, and I did 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:05.340 have hectic night sweats in it and I've exercised in 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:05.720 it too. 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:07.620 Can you smell yourself? 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:12.380 No, but I think that it's probably not... that lovely. 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:14.660 I can't smell myself because I'm putting on a lot 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:17.620 of deodorant, but it's such a cozy t-shirt too that 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:19.650 I'm like, oh, I just want a little bit longer 0:08:19.710 --> 0:08:21.530 out of this guy. So I've just kept him on 0:08:22.230 --> 0:08:24.770 longer than I should because the fact that I've been 0:08:25.110 --> 0:08:26.970 waking up wet. 0:08:28.110 --> 0:08:34.390 Oh, mate, see that to me is like estrogen deficiency, surely. Oh, well, 0:08:34.450 --> 0:08:37.429 I'm taking estrogen, so I don't know. I thought you 0:08:37.450 --> 0:08:39.510 were saying you were on the pill, so you stopped that. 0:08:40.070 --> 0:08:43.230 No. So I'm on like the micro pill because I 0:08:43.270 --> 0:08:46.270 said to my doctor, because I suffer with really shocking migraines, 0:08:46.510 --> 0:08:48.290 my migraines have been great. I said, I need to 0:08:48.370 --> 0:08:51.090 replicate what I was like when I was five months pregnant. 0:08:51.610 --> 0:08:53.349 So she's basically like, well, we need to kind of 0:08:53.390 --> 0:08:56.420 stop your own hormones and replicate them. So I'm on 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:59.819 the micro pill, which is a progesterone only pill and 0:08:59.980 --> 0:09:03.860 lathering estrogen onto me. If you read my sub stack, 0:09:03.940 --> 0:09:05.840 clearly you don't read my sub stack. Everyone I've got 0:09:05.860 --> 0:09:08.020 a sub stack is a place where you go and write. 0:09:08.540 --> 0:09:10.260 I wrote all about it over there. You can go 0:09:10.300 --> 0:09:12.300 and check it out. Monty Diamond is my sub stack 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:12.800 if you want. 0:09:12.740 --> 0:09:14.100 To go and read. I'm making a note of that. 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:17.470 No, don't bother now. You don't need, no need, no need. 0:09:17.550 --> 0:09:20.190 But I was talking about the neuroscience of like how 0:09:20.250 --> 0:09:23.610 I feel like trying to train my body that I'm safe, 0:09:23.790 --> 0:09:26.680 that pain signals have been getting sent to my brain 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:29.979 and being like signals, healthy, normal signals being sent to 0:09:30.020 --> 0:09:33.120 my brain and my brain's been interpreting them as pain signals. 0:09:33.780 --> 0:09:36.179 It's been switched on and so I've been just trying 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:38.660 to over a year now train my brain to go, 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:42.540 you're safe. You're safe. That's not pain. They're normal signals 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:45.140 and not panic at the pain and also the combination 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:50.670 of hormone therapy and my migraines have become way better. 0:09:51.570 --> 0:09:52.630 That's so good. 0:09:53.210 --> 0:09:53.670 Yeah, mate. 0:09:53.730 --> 0:09:58.420 That's so good. Isn't it amazing how like in a 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:01.800 case like that, it's not that it's not happening. Those 0:10:01.940 --> 0:10:03.610 pain signals are very real to you. 0:10:03.620 --> 0:10:07.540 They're very, very real. But all pain is felt in 0:10:07.570 --> 0:10:10.010 the brain. So even if you stub your toe, it's 0:10:10.050 --> 0:10:13.069 actually your brain that gets the pain, the pain signal. 0:10:13.790 --> 0:10:14.550 It's fascinating. 0:10:14.590 --> 0:10:18.690 Imagine you could figure out a way to, let's say 0:10:18.730 --> 0:10:21.750 you did hurt yourself you could control whether you felt 0:10:21.790 --> 0:10:24.410 it or not I know I know but also we 0:10:24.450 --> 0:10:26.720 need to have pain signals like the pain signals are 0:10:26.740 --> 0:10:28.700 there for a reason but it's when your body starts 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:31.720 interpreting things that are safe as not safe that's when 0:10:31.740 --> 0:10:34.540 it becomes can swap over into chronic pain and stuff 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:36.840 like that anyway I wrote all about it because I 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:40.439 like science behind stuff and it is neuroscience I don't 0:10:40.500 --> 0:10:42.599 like I'm not into woo-woo I've spent that much money 0:10:42.660 --> 0:10:45.420 on woo-woo stuff that I'm like nah no way but 0:10:45.460 --> 0:10:48.040 this is all legit science. You're like, give me the facts. 0:10:48.420 --> 0:10:52.080 Give me the facts. Anyway, here's a fact. Girls is 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:58.000 coming back on HBO for five episodes. The actual original, 0:10:58.100 --> 0:11:02.380 like a catch-up? No, like a new season of Girls 0:11:02.900 --> 0:11:06.900 is coming back. I know. I just saw yesterday on Instagram, 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:09.920 Lena Dunham was on Instagram and then she had like 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:13.730 zoomed all the girls from girls and then the guy, 0:11:13.790 --> 0:11:15.569 the guy who plays the gay guy in it and 0:11:15.590 --> 0:11:18.130 they're like, what are you doing this summer? Can we 0:11:18.170 --> 0:11:22.550 film girls? And they're like, yes, we're in. And it 0:11:22.570 --> 0:11:27.620 was like, yes, I absolutely fucking loved her recent book. 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:31.960 I forget what it's called, something like Famesick. Yeah, Famesick. 0:11:31.980 --> 0:11:35.060 It was really great. Like she's so brutally honest in 0:11:35.140 --> 0:11:40.160 it because she's definitely had her issues and quite– tortured 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:42.780 and she has chronic health issues and stuff. So I 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:45.330 related to quite a lot of her chronic health issues chat, 0:11:45.350 --> 0:11:47.810 but I didn't think girls would ever come back. She 0:11:47.830 --> 0:11:50.550 was like 21 when she did Girls, the first season. 0:11:51.510 --> 0:11:52.690 I've never watched Girls. 0:11:55.130 --> 0:11:56.370 You need to go back. 0:11:56.410 --> 0:11:56.750 Never. 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:58.700 And do all of it. 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:01.700 It's so good. Is it relatable though? 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:03.800 Is it like I'm going to watch. 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:05.560 And go, oh, here are girls in their 20s. Okay, 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:06.380 fucking boo-hoo. 0:12:06.420 --> 0:12:07.100 Well, I mean. 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:08.059 You fucking young bitches. Bitches. 0:12:08.550 --> 0:12:11.850 Probably more so now because we are older. Even Lena's like, 0:12:11.890 --> 0:12:13.989 can we still call it girls since we're 100 years 0:12:14.070 --> 0:12:16.550 old now? Mal, you've got to go back and watch it. 0:12:16.710 --> 0:12:20.510 It's so good. It is definitely worth watching and it's 0:12:20.530 --> 0:12:22.890 an easy watch. It's not one where you have to– 0:12:23.230 --> 0:12:27.340 it's like you don't have to think. It's just a great– Awesome, 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:29.860 easy watch. Oh, my God, I'm so jealous. I even 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:31.939 said to Sam the other day, should we re-watch Girls? 0:12:32.140 --> 0:12:34.160 And we didn't because I never re-watch anything. But I'm 0:12:34.300 --> 0:12:36.440 so thrilled that a new season's coming out. 0:12:36.900 --> 0:12:40.720 There is also something about all the reboots, remakes, re-whatever. 0:12:40.820 --> 0:12:42.360 I'm like, there's not a lot of newness. 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:43.660 No, there's not. 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:45.600 Surely there are good ideas. 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:48.300 It just doesn't work anymore, though. It's like we don't– 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:50.900 like the other day I watched Will Ferrell's comedy show 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:52.660 and I was like, he's got this new show. And 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:55.250 I'm like, this is Will Ferrell, one of the most– 0:12:55.530 --> 0:12:59.010 funny men on the planet and it was so shit. 0:12:59.250 --> 0:13:01.990 Yeah but that might have just been shit though it might. 0:13:01.850 --> 0:13:03.709 I know but i just feel like. 0:13:03.590 --> 0:13:06.510 You outgrow certain humor you know yeah. 0:13:06.390 --> 0:13:08.809 Like so much is so much seems to get made 0:13:08.830 --> 0:13:10.010 like i sit there and go what am i going 0:13:10.030 --> 0:13:12.010 to watch and flick through everything and then i'm like 0:13:12.110 --> 0:13:14.770 there's just fucking nothing i ever want to watch never 0:13:14.830 --> 0:13:19.090 yeah i know so frustrating our attention span's really fucked 0:13:19.150 --> 0:13:24.369 isn't it oh totally fucked Something else I wanted to 0:13:24.429 --> 0:13:29.530 talk about was Olivia Rodrigo. I am not hugely knowledgeable 0:13:29.550 --> 0:13:31.400 of her music. Are you right into her? 0:13:32.030 --> 0:13:34.250 I'm not right into her, but I like every song 0:13:34.290 --> 0:13:34.830 I've heard. 0:13:35.290 --> 0:13:37.910 Yeah, okay, right. I get confused with a few of them. 0:13:38.030 --> 0:13:40.150 I sound so old saying that, but I don't know 0:13:40.190 --> 0:13:42.070 who's who when I hear the songs. 0:13:42.610 --> 0:13:45.130 No, you'd know that driver's license song. 0:13:45.790 --> 0:13:53.010 How does it go? Okay. No. Okay. Okay. All my 0:13:53.190 --> 0:13:57.870 friends are tired of hearing how much I miss you. 0:13:58.390 --> 0:14:00.589 Yeah. Yeah, I like her. I like her. 0:14:00.610 --> 0:14:02.170 Yeah, she's got a lovely voice. A lot of them 0:14:02.210 --> 0:14:04.490 sound like, remember Julia Stone used to have a, I 0:14:04.630 --> 0:14:05.829 am here. 0:14:05.929 --> 0:14:06.250 Yeah. 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:10.179 They all sound like that now, don't they? Yeah, they do. 0:14:10.170 --> 0:14:12.940 Even she does too. But anyway, she was on stage 0:14:13.140 --> 0:14:16.340 and she put her hands under her arm and wiped 0:14:16.380 --> 0:14:19.340 her armpits. I saw the video of it because I'm like, oh, 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:21.510 is this just clickbait? But they're like. Oh, this is 0:14:21.590 --> 0:14:25.160 so unsanitary. Wipes the sweat from– she's wearing a singlet top. 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:27.560 Wipes the sweat from under her arm and then puts 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:29.860 her hands in her hair and puts her hair back. 0:14:30.420 --> 0:14:32.820 So it has like– people are like she's used the 0:14:32.860 --> 0:14:39.330 sweat from under her pitskis to slip back her hair. Yeah. 0:14:39.770 --> 0:14:42.370 I mean weird but also I'm talking to a person 0:14:42.390 --> 0:14:44.150 who's worn the same top for two days. Oh, my God. 0:14:46.430 --> 0:14:52.010 Yeah, honestly, you could probably– cook fish and chips in 0:14:52.050 --> 0:14:53.990 my top at the moment like that's how bad it 0:14:54.070 --> 0:14:55.960 is but I just thought what an interesting thing to 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:58.360 do on stage like wipe your armpit like it was 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:01.980 a clear wipe of both armpits and then pulling the 0:15:02.020 --> 0:15:03.960 hair back I'm like it's quite an intimate thing to 0:15:04.020 --> 0:15:06.450 wipe under your armpits do you ever stick your hands 0:15:06.490 --> 0:15:09.370 under your armpits and have a sniff no. 0:15:09.510 --> 0:15:12.250 Because your head's right there why would you have to 0:15:12.270 --> 0:15:15.030 oh no I never would tilt my head. 0:15:15.070 --> 0:15:17.410 You're a head tilter to the armpit. No, I would, 0:15:17.610 --> 0:15:19.600 I'm a dabber. I dab underneath. 0:15:19.650 --> 0:15:21.360 Oh, never. Yeah. 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:21.640 Never. 0:15:21.740 --> 0:15:24.140 And then you've got like, there's a thing with washing hands. 0:15:24.220 --> 0:15:25.740 I'm sick of how much I have to wash my 0:15:25.780 --> 0:15:27.320 hands in a day. Yes. I'd be like, oh, I'm 0:15:27.340 --> 0:15:28.580 going to go wash my hands after that. 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:29.320 Yes. 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:30.840 No, it's so close. 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:33.710 It is so close. Seeing you lift your arm, your hand. 0:15:33.830 --> 0:15:34.490 Yeah, no. 0:15:34.500 --> 0:15:37.150 Oh my God. What are you? Now you're thinking about it, 0:15:37.190 --> 0:15:39.240 listening to this. Are you a, Do you smell your 0:15:39.260 --> 0:15:40.940 armpits at all? And if you do, do you tilt 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:42.880 your head and smell or do you dab under and 0:15:42.900 --> 0:15:43.640 smell your fingers? 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:45.700 Because what I was going to say about her is 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:48.720 I find the concept strange that she wiped her underarms 0:15:48.760 --> 0:15:49.560 with her hands. 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:51.200 Yeah, right, yes. 0:15:51.220 --> 0:15:54.120 Fucking millionaire. Couldn't get a hand towel on stage there? 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:58.990 Yeah. Yeah, just, oh, I don't know, there's something about 0:15:59.030 --> 0:16:01.430 it that's gross just because it's so public and then 0:16:01.470 --> 0:16:03.210 it's like I just can't help but go, oh, your 0:16:03.250 --> 0:16:05.350 hair now smells like BO. Like I know the whole 0:16:05.410 --> 0:16:07.670 thing when you're on stage is a sweaty mess but 0:16:07.710 --> 0:16:09.830 I'm just like. That's a bit crooksky. 0:16:10.470 --> 0:16:14.790 I wonder how many things, though, we would do, like, 0:16:14.870 --> 0:16:18.190 if we were being filmed that you would do. Do 0:16:18.210 --> 0:16:18.910 you know what I mean? 0:16:19.210 --> 0:16:20.510 That you didn't know, though. 0:16:20.550 --> 0:16:23.540 That you didn't even realise you do or whatever. Oh, 0:16:23.900 --> 0:16:26.600 my God. She knows she's being filmed, but she's obviously 0:16:26.700 --> 0:16:29.220 so into what she's doing. Yes. Do you know what 0:16:29.380 --> 0:16:31.920 just occurred to me what I think I like about her? Mm-hmm. 0:16:32.990 --> 0:16:34.989 All the songs, not all the songs, but the songs 0:16:35.010 --> 0:16:38.410 I've heard that she sings are about like heartbreak or, 0:16:38.590 --> 0:16:40.970 you know, like she talks about in that song you 0:16:40.990 --> 0:16:44.150 just played about driving past his street and whatever. I 0:16:45.310 --> 0:16:48.830 think I like it because I'm fucking sick at the 0:16:48.890 --> 0:16:52.160 moment of this. I think the young kids call it, 0:16:52.370 --> 0:16:58.720 you know, being nonch, like nonchalant, like unbothered by everything. Oh, okay. Oh, God. 0:16:58.740 --> 0:17:04.090 And I'm like, fuck off. Care about things. Stop playing, 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:06.070 pretending that you don't care about stuff. 0:17:06.210 --> 0:17:08.830 I want to be nonch though, Mal. I want to 0:17:08.869 --> 0:17:09.590 be nonch. 0:17:09.950 --> 0:17:12.850 I want to be nonch about things that don't really 0:17:12.890 --> 0:17:15.010 matter to me. I don't want to pretend that they 0:17:15.050 --> 0:17:15.990 don't matter when they do. 0:17:16.770 --> 0:17:20.790 Okay, see, I'm not nonch about things that really don't 0:17:20.830 --> 0:17:23.399 matter and probably nonch about things that should matter a 0:17:23.420 --> 0:17:25.880 bit more. Like I am so not nonch about. 0:17:25.900 --> 0:17:26.920 Yes, I would agree. 0:17:27.180 --> 0:17:30.240 Yes, and that's where probably ill mental health comes is 0:17:30.300 --> 0:17:35.820 because you're so stickler and so set in your ways 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:38.360 for certain things and then a bit nonchalant about stuff 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:39.830 that actually does really matter. 0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:43.790 I just think that especially for young people and the 0:17:43.890 --> 0:17:47.340 idea of, when you meet someone and liking them but 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:50.800 it's like everyone's performing this sort of oh yeah oh 0:17:50.820 --> 0:17:54.939 well whatever okay well you know what whatever it is 0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:57.510 it is or whatever and I'm like what happened to 0:17:57.700 --> 0:18:00.150 I like you yes and do you want. 0:18:00.070 --> 0:18:02.730 To go out or whatever you do do that a 0:18:02.770 --> 0:18:04.770 little bit at the start of a relationship though you 0:18:04.790 --> 0:18:06.650 try and act a bit non-nonch. 0:18:07.010 --> 0:18:09.169 But we're not even at the start of a relationship 0:18:09.210 --> 0:18:11.890 is what I'm saying. Like they call it the talking 0:18:12.010 --> 0:18:15.350