Speaker 1: Matt you are looking absolutely glowing today. What's your secret?
Speaker 2: Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning miss
Speaker 2: called Goldie B with two e's.
Speaker 1: I have to check it out. I've never heard of it.
Speaker 2: Go to their instagram.
Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale, I want the prince charming.
Speaker 2: She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of
Speaker 2: my kissing style.
Speaker 1: With a boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's
Speaker 1: in a trash bin. He's non recyclable. Catching them up.
Speaker 2: I love being love. I love love this month.
Speaker 3: I don't know why, but like the four days leading
Speaker 3: up to my period, my emotions have been all over
Speaker 3: the place. The dynamics of me and Michael's relationship. This
Speaker 3: week he has gone through the ringer. Oh, I've just
Speaker 3: been really annoyed with him. He's not really even like
Speaker 3: doing anything.
Speaker 1: But I'll be like, you don't love me?
Speaker 2: Do you?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
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Speaker 1: Hello Matthew, Hello.
Speaker 2: Good morning, and Something's a little bit different today. I
Speaker 2: don't know if I can put my finger on what
Speaker 2: it is.
Speaker 3: We are recording live from the Crown Audio Hub in Melbourne.
Speaker 1: It's really fun being in a new environment.
Speaker 2: How is it is? It's good to be out of
Speaker 2: the studio and in this new set up. How nice
Speaker 2: is it in here?
Speaker 3: How are you feeling because you were a bit shaky
Speaker 3: this morning? Are you feeling like Matt was suffering from
Speaker 3: a little bit of hangriness?
Speaker 2: Say I needed a coffee as well. I hadn't had
Speaker 2: a coffee for reckond four hours before I came in here.
Speaker 2: I was fanging for one.
Speaker 1: And what did you eat? You had the most random
Speaker 1: order from McDonald's before.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, actually that is my turn on this week,
Speaker 2: so thank you. My turn on this week is. I
Speaker 2: was with my mate the other day and he was like,
Speaker 2: I'm trying to diet. I'm trying to lean up, cut
Speaker 2: carbs out, and I was like, oh, okay. We're driving
Speaker 2: in the car and he's like and he pulled into
Speaker 2: Macis and I was like, you know, it's not really
Speaker 2: the healthiest option you could ever get. I was like,
Speaker 2: what are you going to do? And he's like, you
Speaker 2: know what you can do. You can order just the
Speaker 2: meat from Mackets, so not the burger. You order just
Speaker 2: the paddies with nothing else. I'm assuming if you wanted to,
Speaker 2: you could ask for like the salad from the burger
Speaker 2: as well. But he went through and ordered two grilled
Speaker 2: chicken patties, so that the grilled chicken breast and then
Speaker 2: a couple of the quarter pounder ones.
Speaker 3: So Matt was literally standing in Crown the most beautiful,
Speaker 3: luxurious hotel, eating two beef patties, and I was like,
Speaker 3: you know what, if it's going to get him out
Speaker 3: of his mood.
Speaker 2: Give him all the beef patties in the worker and
Speaker 2: it's healthy as well, and it only costs two dollars
Speaker 2: for the paddy.
Speaker 1: So how are you feeling? What are you out of ten?
Speaker 1: Where you are?
Speaker 2: I think I'm out of ten now I'm in the
Speaker 2: best mood.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's been recommended.
Speaker 2: Then how are you feeling?
Speaker 3: I'm feeling okay, I'm going to start with my ech
Speaker 3: of the week because this is leading me straight into it.
Speaker 3: I just got my period, so I'm on day one
Speaker 3: of my period. My back is sore, my tummy. Saw
Speaker 3: actually got a heat pack with me. I brought it
Speaker 3: with me to Crown.
Speaker 1: Uh and yeah, worst worst time of the month.
Speaker 2: Really, my fiance has her period at the moment and
Speaker 2: emotions everywhere, and I'm struggling to you.
Speaker 3: Know, it's so hard, like navigate it, navigate it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean it is hard, Like it's hard for both parties,
Speaker 3: but I'm going to go with it's harder for the
Speaker 3: woman who's bleeding.
Speaker 2: For a few weeks. I could not imagine the pains
Speaker 2: and all that.
Speaker 3: Pain, and also like, imagine your hormones going all over
Speaker 3: the place. Like I reckon that I'm normally pretty easy
Speaker 3: to deal with.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you think I'm not that bad?
Speaker 3: Surely, Yeah, you're fine, NA give me that, are you know?
Speaker 3: I'm fine, I'm pretty like regular, I reckon. Normally I
Speaker 3: would say to you, like the day or two before
Speaker 3: my period, I get moody or cry, and then I'll
Speaker 3: be like, why am I crying about this random thing
Speaker 3: that's happened that I normally wouldn't care about. And then
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, it's my period. But this month, I
Speaker 3: don't know why. But the four days leading up to
Speaker 3: my period, my emotions have been all over the place.
Speaker 3: The dynamics of me and Michael's relationship this week, like
Speaker 3: he has gone.
Speaker 1: Through the ringer.
Speaker 3: I've just been like really annoyed with him. He's not
Speaker 3: really even like doing anything.
Speaker 1: But I'll be like, you don't love.
Speaker 3: Me, do you?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah? And how do you? And I'll come from
Speaker 2: the guy's side of things, it is just an absolute
Speaker 2: mind fucked like I've done nothing different from what I
Speaker 2: normally do and it's.
Speaker 1: Wrong sometimes like it's just good to give some space,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: What I mean.
Speaker 3: I was just like, you know, like ride the wave
Speaker 3: of emotions and then we'll come back.
Speaker 2: But when you can't say anything right, you're sort of
Speaker 2: second guessing yourself, and that's when it sort of gets
Speaker 2: a little bit. I gain in my own head and
Speaker 2: I'm well, what am I doing wrong? And I'm trying
Speaker 2: to please people, and it's just, you know, it's a
Speaker 2: better term of words, it's it's like disheartening, but I'm trying.
Speaker 2: You know, It's all good. Now we're at the other end.
Speaker 1: The period has begun, the period has begune. So we're
Speaker 1: in the same cycle. And so's my sister as well.
Speaker 2: So she's so obviously staying this so she's as well,
Speaker 2: all the women around me.
Speaker 3: At least it's just like one part of the month
Speaker 3: and then that's probably it's like cruising for the rest,
Speaker 3: so it's not.
Speaker 2: Scattered over different weeks and up against it.
Speaker 3: Oh god, Well, my turn on of the week is
Speaker 3: that we are staying at Crown tonight.
Speaker 2: That we are.
Speaker 3: They've very kindly given us a room, so we're actually
Speaker 3: recording live from Crown and then we are gonna explore
Speaker 3: Michael's taking me to Nobu, So it's kind of like
Speaker 3: an early Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2: That's pretty cute.
Speaker 1: What a good gift as well.
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's so nice to just go stay at a
Speaker 3: hotel in your own city and just get away.
Speaker 2: Staycation.
Speaker 3: You know, you don't have to make the bed in
Speaker 3: the morning, Someone's going to do it for you. You can
Speaker 3: get room service, have hotel set.
Speaker 2: What do we say about hotel sex on this podcast?
Speaker 1: Different gravy, the best gravy. Speaking of Valentine's anything planned?
Speaker 2: Well, if this comes out before Valentine's Day, Tammy turn
Speaker 2: off the turn off the episode currently currently, I have
Speaker 2: organized I've booked a dinner at her favorite restaurant. She
Speaker 2: wanted to go to a while ago saved it and
Speaker 2: I've booked us dinner there for two. I fly up
Speaker 2: to the Gold Coaster night before. I'm planning on.
Speaker 3: I'm excited that I'm not going to have my period
Speaker 3: for Valentine's Day this year.
Speaker 2: That is exciting.
Speaker 1: That is exciting for me.
Speaker 2: Do you have anything planned for Michael or are you
Speaker 2: letting him take control?
Speaker 3: Like, if you're listening, Michael, just this is the time
Speaker 3: to turn off, honey, love you. I think I'm going
Speaker 3: to do lingerie this year because I'm pretty sure last
Speaker 3: year I had my I'm having my period, my ten
Speaker 3: day period, mind you, Like it's you know, I really
Speaker 3: am in the trenches with this period. I'm gonna have
Speaker 3: my period on our wedding day, which is not ideal.
Speaker 3: So like, I'm kind of going to make the most
Speaker 3: of this Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2: Okay, what color are you going to go with?
Speaker 1: Red? Red lipstick?
Speaker 2: Nice?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Nice? I know. Wrestler about a kink that his kink
Speaker 2: was he made the girl. Wrestler talked about an autobiography.
Speaker 2: He would make her put the red lipstic on while
Speaker 2: he was taking her from behind in the mirror. Pretty hot.
Speaker 1: This is not pig anymore.
Speaker 2: So, Anna, I was scrolling my Instagram and I follow
Speaker 2: a lad Bible. Yes, I have some funny stuff on there,
Speaker 2: and I came across this article about a mum who
Speaker 2: was shocked after reading her son's birthday card from his girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Ah, what did the car say? Why is the mom
Speaker 1: looking like for the car.
Speaker 2: He must have left it, I don't know, on the
Speaker 2: kitchen bench or something.
Speaker 3: He's like opened it up and put it on his mantle,
Speaker 3: and she's like, oh, this is a nice card.
Speaker 2: Well, it literally says on the well. If I was
Speaker 2: a mom or a father and I saw this on
Speaker 2: the count, I probably would not open it. It says,
Speaker 2: I hope your birthday is as good as your dick
Speaker 2: with all love hearts around it.
Speaker 3: Surely is hiding this card if I if like, if
Speaker 3: you're giving a card like that to someone, surely they're
Speaker 3: putting that like in their sock draw.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, putting it out of it that they don't
Speaker 1: want their.
Speaker 2: Parents to see in there out of their mom's sight.
Speaker 2: And then it says to my man, happy birthday, babe,
Speaker 2: love you loads Caroline. And then on the other side,
Speaker 2: you know you write a message today you came out
Speaker 2: of a vagina tonight, you'll be back in one. Personally.
Speaker 2: If Tammy is trying to talk dirty to me, I
Speaker 2: don't want her to put my mum's vagina in that conversation.
Speaker 2: It's probably not the way to go, not going to
Speaker 2: you know, it's not going to get me going the
Speaker 2: way of hope.
Speaker 3: Not. So is this like pre written on the card
Speaker 3: or is she Is this like a homemade card that
Speaker 3: she's made.
Speaker 2: I'll post the photos of the card on our Facebook page,
Speaker 2: but it is handwritten on the inside. The front looks
Speaker 2: to be an actual card.
Speaker 3: Okay, so that I hope your birthday is as good
Speaker 3: as your dick was. The card the company is doing.
Speaker 3: And then she has gone with she's gone with the.
Speaker 2: Theme and pulled the mother into it, which is questionable,
Speaker 2: just too much. Yes, have you ever written a card
Speaker 2: like this for Michael?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: No, no, never wrote anything kinky in a card?
Speaker 1: No, not really.
Speaker 3: I feel like cards are like a place for wholesomeness,
Speaker 3: and you know, I'm actually.
Speaker 1: The outpouring of your feeling. It is not like sexting.
Speaker 2: I'm really good with a wholesome card.
Speaker 1: Yeah, have you done like a dirty card? Is that
Speaker 1: a thing. I mean, obviously it's a thing.
Speaker 2: This girl I don't care, so I think I go
Speaker 2: the wholesome way. Have you ever been caught by your
Speaker 2: parents in the act or doing something inappropriate?
Speaker 3: I'm kind of reluctant to say the answer to this
Speaker 3: because I saw my mom the other day. She was like,
Speaker 3: so I was listening to your podcast, well, thank you, Emory,
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh yeah, because I honestly like
Speaker 3: forget sometimes that people listen to this always, literally always.
Speaker 3: And she was like, and that conversation that you and
Speaker 3: Matt spoke about about that movie Saltburn was disgusting.
Speaker 2: What did we say?
Speaker 1: We were talking about like the drinking of the bath
Speaker 1: water and stuff.
Speaker 2: So does Emory think I'm gross because I drink my
Speaker 2: fiance bathwater with a straw?
Speaker 1: She like, she's not seen the movie, okay, So like
Speaker 1: I was just like letting her know.
Speaker 3: I was like, this is an actual movie and we
Speaker 3: were reviewing it, Like, well I was reviewing because you.
Speaker 1: Hadn't really watched it.
Speaker 3: I got busy, but yeah, my mum was like, that
Speaker 3: is a disgusting conversation to be having.
Speaker 1: And I was like, probably don't listen to our podcast,
Speaker 1: because you.
Speaker 3: Know, we really just think we're having a conversation with
Speaker 3: each other and forget that people who are listening.
Speaker 1: So what was the question?
Speaker 3: Have my parents ever come across something inappropriate or caught
Speaker 3: you in the act of anything? Okay, well, mum, if
Speaker 3: you're listening, you probably turn off right about now. I
Speaker 3: had sex the night before my eighteenth birthday with my
Speaker 3: boyfriend at the time.
Speaker 2: Why was there anything significant about that or it's just well, I.
Speaker 3: Was like when I was seventeen, I was kind of like,
Speaker 3: I'm waiting for the right person.
Speaker 2: It's your virginity, my virginity, naturally you have sex.
Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, sorry, I didn't make that clear.
Speaker 3: I lost my virginity the night before my eighteenth birthday,
Speaker 3: and yeah, I was like waiting and waiting, and then
Speaker 3: I was like, yeahs to be special and blah blah blah. Anyway,
Speaker 3: that's a little bit of a myth. I don't think
Speaker 3: that necessarily needs to happen. But anyway, we were like
Speaker 3: two months into the relationship and I was like, I
Speaker 3: don't want to be an eighteen year old virgin.
Speaker 1: So I was like, let's do this. Deed, we used
Speaker 1: a condom, nice safe sex.
Speaker 3: Say sex and anyway, he's obviously like taking it off,
Speaker 3: he's put it in the sidebin at my parents' house. Anyway,
Speaker 3: my mom was like a very overbearing parent, like extremely.
Speaker 2: Go through the wist, go through a waste.
Speaker 3: So my mom like the next morning he had left
Speaker 3: the house and she like came in holding it with
Speaker 3: tissue paper, being like what is this? And I was like, IW,
Speaker 3: like that is absolutely disgusting and rank and why are
Speaker 3: you holding that? Number two, Like it's my eighteenth birthday,
Speaker 3: Just let me live, like number one, you should be
Speaker 3: happy that I'm using this.
Speaker 1: Actually remember what she said.
Speaker 3: She was like, I'm happy you're having safe sex, but
Speaker 3: I'm not happy you're having sex. I mean it would
Speaker 3: be hard for a parent, right, Like yeah, I guess
Speaker 3: you're young, like when they turn eighteen, Like I just
Speaker 3: feel like eighteen is so young. Now now that I'm
Speaker 3: thirty one, I see eighteen year olds and I'm like,
Speaker 3: they're literally babies so young.
Speaker 2: Like imagine your.
Speaker 3: Sister is also extremely mature, Like in terms of like
Speaker 3: that age group, I feel like your sister is like
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes I'm talking to someone my own age.
Speaker 3: She's sometimes more mature than people my age, whereas like
Speaker 3: an actual like eighteen year old who acts eighteen, they're
Speaker 3: so young.
Speaker 2: Yeah. The only annoysy when I talk to my sister
Speaker 2: is she comes from a place of like she has
Speaker 2: life experience, and I'm like, well, you don't, like do
Speaker 2: you know when she gives advice in that she's like
Speaker 2: old soul. I know. I'm like, you haven't done like
Speaker 2: you don't know, like you haven't done this stuff. So
Speaker 2: that's what pisces me off. But yeah, she's she's very
Speaker 2: mature in great to chat to and go do for advice.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But I remember when I was younger one time and
Speaker 2: I was like maybe in my teenage years. I'd hooked
Speaker 2: my PC up to the TV, and I thought like,
Speaker 2: you know, this is fun, and I went on to
Speaker 2: pawn on my like so it was on the big,
Speaker 2: like you know, fifteen inch screen and I was years ago, fifteen.
Speaker 1: In recent time, I think I was like.
Speaker 2: Fifteen sixteen, and I was watching porn and then I
Speaker 2: heard the garage door open. I was like shit, shit, shit,
Speaker 2: So you know, in frantic grade, I turned off the TV.
Speaker 2: As I turned it off, my mom and my sisters
Speaker 2: walked in and they're like, oh, what's with the boobies
Speaker 2: on the screen?
Speaker 1: And I had to quickly today that is actually disgusting.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that never happened to me with my brother.
Speaker 1: I think that's fout.
Speaker 2: That was the closest I've been.
Speaker 1: Like, why are you trying to see porn?
Speaker 2: In like just fifteen sixteen you're trying to do why
Speaker 2: do you need to.
Speaker 1: See it on the big screen? Like don't you want
Speaker 1: to be a bit more like.
Speaker 2: You are? Us that perverted warning little guy what he.
Speaker 3: Wanted to do for We'll just leave that there, okay, Matt, So,
Speaker 3: I recently came across this article on Mamma Mia about
Speaker 3: a dating phenomenon called the flip. Now, we've been talking
Speaker 3: a lot about like relationship dynamics recently, and like, you know,
Speaker 3: who has the power in a relationship and things like that,
Speaker 3: and I think it's so crazy. So just a paraphrase,
Speaker 3: it's when a relationship ends because one person was more
Speaker 3: keen than the other and because the roles kind of reverse,
Speaker 3: so like one person started having the power, one person
Speaker 3: was more just like chill, and then the roles reverse
Speaker 3: and all of a sudden, the dynamics of the relationship
Speaker 3: just absolutely do not work.
Speaker 2: So you're meaning that one chase the other one, and
Speaker 2: then once I guess they were together, the one that
Speaker 2: was chasing could almost say that they were over the
Speaker 2: chase and they stopped being interested it and almost hooked
Speaker 2: the other one on, and then they're like, I'm over
Speaker 2: it now. Well it's just toxic.
Speaker 3: Well it's just like you know, obviously in relationships, there
Speaker 3: are so many dynamics, and like sometimes there can be
Speaker 3: a bit of a power struggle, but usually there's like
Speaker 3: one person who's kind of like more keen, like they're
Speaker 3: the keen one, and then someone's like taking the lead, right,
Speaker 3: But when that dynamic switches and the one who was
Speaker 3: more keen is all of a sudden taking charge, then
Speaker 3: the relationship dynamic just doesn't really.
Speaker 1: Work in the same way.
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, like, can can it change? Like
Speaker 2: if it doesn't change for a long period, it can
Speaker 2: change on the daily one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: And that's what I was just about to say.
Speaker 3: So in healthy relationships there's ongoing like mini flips in dynamics.
Speaker 3: So that's good and I think that's needed. And I
Speaker 3: think if someone always holds the power. It's just it's
Speaker 3: not a very healthy relationship. So I think these mini
Speaker 3: switches in power dynamics are really healthy.
Speaker 2: Would you say to someone that is going through the
Speaker 2: flip or they're in a power struggle, or let's say, yeah,
Speaker 2: let's start with that they're in a power struggle.
Speaker 3: I would just say, make sure that you set your
Speaker 3: boundaries and expectations for what you want and deserve in
Speaker 3: a relationship. At the end of the day, in relationships,
Speaker 3: you just want to be treated right by your partner,
Speaker 3: and you should also be treating them right. You know,
Speaker 3: communication is always key. If someone's like being too dominant
Speaker 3: and they're kind of like taking the reins too much
Speaker 3: and you're starting to feel insecure. I personally, I feel
Speaker 3: like you can take a step back and be like,
Speaker 3: I don't like this, or this is my boundary, this
Speaker 3: is what I want, this is what I need from you.
Speaker 3: But like we always say, communication is key, and I
Speaker 3: think just also not freaking out when dynamics do change,
Speaker 3: because these mini kind of flips are normal and are
Speaker 3: genuinely healthy to have, because you don't want one person
Speaker 3: always in control.
Speaker 2: Essentially, I mean, yeah, I can, I can see what
Speaker 2: you mean by that. There's miniflips all the time. I
Speaker 2: feel it just depends on the situation. Like I mean,
Speaker 2: sometimes I just really I hate the expression I don't care,
Speaker 2: so like, I just sometimes I just don't. I'm not phased,
Speaker 2: I'm not fussed about I'm not fussed about stuff, so
Speaker 2: I don't I'm not going to take control of that situation,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like, sometimes you're.
Speaker 1: Happy to sit in like the passage, just go.
Speaker 2: With the flow. Yeah, And that doesn't mean that the
Speaker 2: thing is flipped. It just well, it doesn't mean it's
Speaker 2: fipped for good. It just means, in that situation, it's
Speaker 2: a mini flip.
Speaker 3: Would you prefer to be like the boss of a
Speaker 3: relationship or would you prefer to.
Speaker 1: Be like the keen being more relaxed one balanced you
Speaker 1: want it to be balanced. Yeah, I agree, I mean
Speaker 1: I prefer to be the boss.
Speaker 2: I mean, like I said, it depends on what it is.
Speaker 2: Like some stuff, I really don't give a shit about it.
Speaker 3: I don't like to feel like I'm more keen than them,
Speaker 3: Like that kind of makes me feel a little bit unsettled.
Speaker 2: I would say, I wouldn't know. I'm not oh, I
Speaker 2: can see what you mean.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean, Like, I don't want
Speaker 3: to feel like I'm like always chasing them.
Speaker 1: I want to. I want the dynamic to be kind.
Speaker 3: Of equal like you said, but I would still prefer
Speaker 3: to be like a little bit of the boss.
Speaker 2: I just want to. I'm just perfect. It's just two
Speaker 2: people that are in love and they just you know,
Speaker 2: it's easy, Like it's not.
Speaker 1: You don't have to respecting each other, respecting each other.
Speaker 2: And respecting each other's wishes. I mean like, yeah, just
Speaker 2: two people that go like it doesn't have to be difficult,
Speaker 2: like you know what I mean, doesn't have.
Speaker 3: To be Relationships shouldn't be difficult, should be fun and
Speaker 3: happy and respectful and loving.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just keep that open. Communication is nothing wrong with
Speaker 2: communicating too much?
Speaker 1: Amen.
Speaker 3: Okay, Matt, have you heard of the call gasm?
Speaker 2: What a core gasm? No? How is this a new
Speaker 2: vibrator or something?
Speaker 1: Yeah? So no, No, it's not a vibrator.
Speaker 3: It's when you have an orgasm whilst exercising.
Speaker 1: Have you had an orgasm whilst exercising?
Speaker 2: Oh? No, I can't say I have. Have you?
Speaker 1: Is it a girl thing? I think it's a girl thing.
Speaker 2: How does it work?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: Do girls have orgasms? By the way, do.
Speaker 1: Girls have orgasms?
Speaker 2: You? You're unow, I'm kidding, trust you. If anyone I know,
Speaker 2: I just love cracking that cay.
Speaker 1: It's good to know that you know that girls have orgasm.
Speaker 1: That's that's good. No, but a.
Speaker 3: Orgasm so scientifically, it's an exercised induced orgasm. So basically,
Speaker 3: if you're doing some sit ups or leg raises or
Speaker 3: knee ups or whatever.
Speaker 1: Type of exercise you're doing, you could be at.
Speaker 3: The gym, minding your own business, and all of a sudden,
Speaker 3: without realizing, you start to get aroused and eventually have
Speaker 3: an orgasm.
Speaker 2: So what I know about the female orgasm?
Speaker 1: Yes, tell us what you know about the fee orgasm?
Speaker 1: That which.
Speaker 2: I can Dare I say, I think I know a
Speaker 2: fair bit. It takes a while to get there.
Speaker 1: It can do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So how are you doing sit ups and all
Speaker 2: of a sudden having an orgasm? Because if you can
Speaker 2: tell me that tip, that would save me a lot
Speaker 2: of time, a lot of and a lot of.
Speaker 1: God Ill, that's literally giving me the e.
Speaker 3: So I mean, I think it's basically if you're doing
Speaker 3: exercise right, you're at the gym, your muscles are engaged,
Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden something I don't know
Speaker 3: the scientific basis behind it, but if you've engaged the
Speaker 3: right muscles, all of a sudden, you can be heading
Speaker 3: towards an orgasm without realizing it.
Speaker 2: Okay, interesting, So like you're tensing your abs or on
Speaker 2: the thing, and you can be tensing.
Speaker 3: Your abs or like you can be tensing your what's
Speaker 3: it called your pelvic floor, so like you know when
Speaker 3: you're like, I mean, you wouldn't know because you don't
Speaker 3: have a vagina, but like when you like pull up
Speaker 3: and like tense in, then it's engaged. The muscles are
Speaker 3: on and then I guess if you're like super tense
Speaker 3: and really engaged, and that could potentially happen.
Speaker 2: Interesting.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know you feel awkward about this, but
Speaker 1: do you want to ask me if I.
Speaker 3: Have had He's like, he's looking at me, like, please
Speaker 3: don't make me a orgasm. I have had a orgasm?
Speaker 2: Really?
Speaker 1: Yes? At the gym, I.
Speaker 3: Was doing a pet session and I think I was
Speaker 3: doing leg raizors and I just felt it all of
Speaker 3: a sudden coming on, and I was like, whoa, like
Speaker 3: it's not like a normal orgasm. But no, it is
Speaker 3: like a normal orgasm, but like it just feels a
Speaker 3: little bit different, but it still like gets you there
Speaker 3: to the pinnacle point.
Speaker 2: When you have an orgasm, do you chance your pelvic
Speaker 2: floor like say, because it's sort of like you.
Speaker 1: Like kind of sees that you're much that's arching his
Speaker 1: back the middle of the.
Speaker 3: Crowds the last windows here people are watching.
Speaker 2: What's it's a coorgasm?
Speaker 1: Bro, It's not a cool gasm.
Speaker 3: But yeah, they can happen very easily. I mean, to
Speaker 3: be honest, I'm thirty one years old. It's happened once,
Speaker 3: so it's not you've.
Speaker 2: Only trained once. It's probably.
Speaker 1: For years. Matt, absolutely you. I mean I think it's
Speaker 1: it's like specific.
Speaker 3: So exercises that can induce a orgasm are rope pole
Speaker 3: or tree climbing.
Speaker 2: You can see that.
Speaker 3: Leg raises and knee ups, sit ups and crunches, lifting weights,
Speaker 3: pull ups, and walking on a treadmill.
Speaker 1: Walking on a treadmill that surprises me.
Speaker 2: Imagine just being like in the gym at your local gym.
Speaker 2: You're going you're on a run and you turn to
Speaker 2: yourself and the girl next to yous have to like
Speaker 2: stop and her legs are like you think that.
Speaker 3: I think you could just probably like walk through it,
Speaker 3: like you don't need to make You're not like you're
Speaker 3: not making.
Speaker 1: The O face.
Speaker 3: You're just like, you know, there's literally blank expression and
Speaker 3: you're just accepting the gift that's been given to you.
Speaker 2: If anyone has experienced a chorgasm, please message us on
Speaker 2: our socials or on the Facebook page.
Speaker 1: One hundred said, we actually want to hear from you, guys.
Speaker 2: I'd love to know your stories about it, and.
Speaker 3: I think will actually circle back to this next week
Speaker 3: and we actually might read out some of your stories.
Speaker 3: So please don't be embarrassed. I've shared my call gasm story.
Speaker 3: Matt's never had one, so you can't share. But all
Speaker 3: girls out there, even the guys, if you're a guy
Speaker 3: who's had one, or if your boyfriend, let us know.
Speaker 1: We want to hear from you and we're going to
Speaker 1: read some out next week.
Speaker 2: Imagine being in the gym and you're squatting or something
Speaker 2: and you have a orgasm. As a guy, be messy.
Speaker 1: Don't guys have like wet dreams?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's in the comfort and safety of your
Speaker 2: own bed, not in a public place in the gym
Speaker 2: while you've got two hundred kilos on the squad rack.
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, we hope that you all have a lovely day.
Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in to our podcast.
Speaker 3: It's been lovely hanging out here at Crown. I can't
Speaker 3: wait to get up to my room. I'm going to
Speaker 3: put a robe on, maybe order some room service, and
Speaker 3: as always, until next time, Bye bye,