Speaker 1: And dance. There's nothing for me to do? Is that
Speaker 1: the one?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, maybe maybe you think it go that's pretty
Speaker 2: much close to it. Yeah, but he's it.
Speaker 1: But I shouldn't have said I regretted at the moment
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Speaker 2: about the wedding. I reckon, it's time, Anna, I think
Speaker 2: it's time. I don't know how long it's been out
Speaker 2: there in the timeline of things, but I've got the
Speaker 2: go ahead. So let's chat about it from I guess
Speaker 2: outside of things your POV. Yeah, yeah, well I want
Speaker 2: to hear from yours as well, because I said we
Speaker 2: touched on it was It's completely different. I think the
Speaker 2: POV of like me compared to someone else that's there, Like,
Speaker 2: it's just yeah, I reckon, it's such a magical time
Speaker 2: and it's so I don't know, it's wild, isn't it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Like it's as if did it even happen? You know
Speaker 2: what I mean?
Speaker 1: Yeah, so like wild like, please, let's do it all again.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I would definitely really in but like I said,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do it any differently. I would just want
Speaker 2: to do it from and see other bits of it.
Speaker 2: Just so much happening.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there was so much happening.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So obviously everyone I feel like knows that your wedding
Speaker 1: was in burn Bay.
Speaker 2: Yes. The date was the twenty third of November four four.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you should know that because Tammy and you
Speaker 1: both got the date tattooed, which I think is very cute.
Speaker 2: We did, so I left that out of my my
Speaker 2: TikTok reel and that with the tattoo I actually got
Speaker 2: always in Forever and the date underneath, so cute. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so I didn't put that in the reel. But then
Speaker 2: she got the date on her wrists, yeah, her left wrist,
Speaker 2: so she can see it when she looks at the ring.
Speaker 1: It was actually so cute because I think it was
Speaker 1: the recovery day and she was like, let's put our
Speaker 1: rings in to do a photo and then I was like,
Speaker 1: what's this new tattoo and she's like, this is the
Speaker 1: wedding day and I was like that is really lovely
Speaker 1: and it looks great.
Speaker 2: Yeah it does.
Speaker 1: And you pulled your pants down in the hall in
Speaker 1: front of everyone at the recovery to show us the tattoo.
Speaker 1: I was like, I actually don't need to see that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, look, look, recovery was fine, the recovery. Let's start
Speaker 2: at the recovery. Let's start at the start.
Speaker 1: Let's start right at the beginning.
Speaker 2: So we rocked up four rehearsals at our amazing venue, venue.
Speaker 1: Estate we call it. Yeah, it's a beautifulest.
Speaker 2: Day, beautiful. We rocked up my bridle part well, her
Speaker 2: bridal party, my bridal party. The groomsmen came, We went
Speaker 2: through rehearsal, we went over everything, and then had dinner,
Speaker 2: a couple of drinks. Had It was a good night because,
Speaker 2: like obviously they'd met before at the Hucks. Some of
Speaker 2: them didn't cross paths because they left early starting come
Speaker 2: she was away still, so they all met like, we
Speaker 2: all got along like we've got a house on fire.
Speaker 2: Then we went off to our quarters and my quarters.
Speaker 2: The quarters were the guest house, was it, I mean
Speaker 2: it did.
Speaker 1: Have quarters in that place, like it was very LUs
Speaker 1: it was very lux.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then Tammy stayed in the main house with
Speaker 2: her bridesmaids.
Speaker 1: And you guys spent the night apart the night before
Speaker 1: the wedding, right.
Speaker 2: So, right before we said goodbye, she I said come
Speaker 2: with me, and she was like, oh, like I'm tired.
Speaker 2: I said no, no, come with me. And I took
Speaker 2: her out to the steps where we were gonna we vows, and.
Speaker 1: We stood there we're going to get married, We're going.
Speaker 2: To get married the next morning, and we just had
Speaker 2: a moment there there was a lot of tears, then yeah,
Speaker 2: and then just said I love you, and then we
Speaker 2: agreed that we wouldn't talk to each other the whole
Speaker 2: next day. So from that moment we wouldn't talk until
Speaker 2: like we saw each other again.
Speaker 1: That is so beautiful.
Speaker 2: Yes, So we kissed each other goodbye, and then I
Speaker 2: went with my mates and she went with Yeah, that's
Speaker 2: so cute.
Speaker 1: So you literally were like crying on the steps saying
Speaker 1: goodbye like long lost lovers. And then the next time
Speaker 1: you saw each other was in that same.
Speaker 2: Exact, yes, exact same. Yeah.
Speaker 1: That's extremely romantic and very cute, and I would expect
Speaker 1: nothing less from you guys.
Speaker 2: So that was that was what we did. And so
Speaker 2: then I went off with the boys. Then, I mean
Speaker 2: it was fine, like we just had a couple of
Speaker 2: drinks and you know it's lack with the boys, just banter,
Speaker 2: you know me banter. Yeah. And I woke up the
Speaker 2: next day, Oh, should we touch on it now or
Speaker 2: should we touch on it later?
Speaker 1: The dance what dance?
Speaker 2: There was a lot of There was a lot of dancing,
Speaker 2: so the grooms and and I had come.
Speaker 1: Earlier in the Yes, this is firstly, should we just
Speaker 1: like intro it as the what's his name?
Speaker 2: Napoleon?
Speaker 1: Napoleon dyed and my dad Napoleon died.
Speaker 2: Yes, So it was very highly not told to but
Speaker 2: it was like, oh, it would be funny if.
Speaker 1: You guys did a dance, like like you should do
Speaker 1: a dance.
Speaker 2: Yeah. This was this was months ago, and I just
Speaker 2: like I was like, yeah, okay, like my mates dancing
Speaker 2: straight on the phone. I was like, we're doing a
Speaker 2: dance like thinks figured something out? Boys. So that then Ben, Yeah,
Speaker 2: Ben sent me the Napoleon dance and I said, that's it,
Speaker 2: We're doing it.
Speaker 1: Six months ago. Matt like during one of our podcasts,
Speaker 1: like after we'd finished, Matt was like, look at this
Speaker 1: dance that we're going to do and it's like, dance,
Speaker 1: there's nothing for me to do? Is that the one?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, maybe maybe you go that's pretty much close
Speaker 2: to it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I shouldn't have sung, I regretted at the
Speaker 1: moment I did it.
Speaker 2: It's called canned heart, okay, and we So what happened
Speaker 2: was the boys came and that I could tell they
Speaker 2: had an agenda to not do the dance.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can imagine.
Speaker 2: So they came and I can.
Speaker 1: And your agenda was we're doing this dance because I.
Speaker 2: Was sending it to all week in the group chat
Speaker 2: every morning, I re sent him the dance.
Speaker 1: That's hilarious to learn it.
Speaker 2: And then as we got to our we had a
Speaker 2: moment with ourselves while the wedding planners were still there
Speaker 2: and we're getting into our rooms. I was like, all right,
Speaker 2: have you boys been practicing the dance? And they're like,
Speaker 2: oh about Like no one really wanted to say anything,
Speaker 2: so they just beaten around the bushy like oh like
Speaker 2: about that? Like really, and I'm like, yes, we're doing
Speaker 2: this fucking dance. And then like the wedding planners came
Speaker 2: in and they were like, are we putting in the
Speaker 2: dance and they're like no, no, and then I like
Speaker 2: they're like, all right, Matt, show us the dance. So
Speaker 2: I did the dance. I was like, instead of that, though,
Speaker 2: we could do this and we could change this bit.
Speaker 2: And then a couple of them got up with me
Speaker 2: and we did a run through and they're like, we
Speaker 2: fucking love it. Let's do it. It was so good. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we like rehearsed it like all night.
Speaker 1: And Wolf was in it as well.
Speaker 2: That's yeah, I was gonna say that. So in the morning,
Speaker 2: Wolf came across to hang out with us boys, which
Speaker 2: he was so funny. He was amazing being with us,
Speaker 2: hanging out with all the boys. And then he while
Speaker 2: we were rehearsing, he was like jumping in on rehearsals.
Speaker 2: And then he had to go get photos. She took
Speaker 2: photos of the last year to go take photos with
Speaker 2: his mum and like all them. And then he but
Speaker 2: because it's seeing the dress, he wasn't allowed to come
Speaker 2: back to us. So we were out on the on
Speaker 2: our balcony having a cigars and having a glass of
Speaker 2: whiskey and chatting like groomsmen do. And then he's kind
Speaker 2: of sprinting around the corner and he's like Matthew, Matthew,
Speaker 2: And I was like, hey, buddy, how's it going. And
Speaker 2: he's like, good, you know, it's just is it okay
Speaker 2: if I'm in the dance with you guys?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Man. I was like, do you know it? And
Speaker 2: then he gave me like a run through of it
Speaker 2: and I was like, yeah, you're in it. So I
Speaker 2: was like yeah, so he yeah, he was in it
Speaker 2: with us. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was really cute.
Speaker 2: It was really cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I loved that. I loved that the boys did it.
Speaker 2: They finally got to do it. That was amazing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's talk about the first moment when you saw
Speaker 1: Tammy walking down the aisle, so she obviously came out,
Speaker 1: stopped at the pool, she burst out crying. It was
Speaker 1: really actually beautiful. Literally, I started crying when that happened.
Speaker 2: Like I said, I was. I didn't. I think that
Speaker 2: everyone thought I was going to be an emotional wreck,
Speaker 2: and I was, but I was trying not to cry.
Speaker 2: I didn't want to cry because, like I said, for
Speaker 2: I'm an ugly cry but I just didn't want to
Speaker 2: be like sitting there like inconsolable. And once you start,
Speaker 2: I got really close during the actually came out. I
Speaker 2: teared up. I don't know if you look like yeah,
Speaker 2: and like I wanted to stop. And then after that
Speaker 2: I did not break eye contact or she walked down.
Speaker 1: And she walked around the pool. Yes, it was so
Speaker 1: beautiful and up those beautiful steps. You guys stood at
Speaker 1: the top of the steps.
Speaker 2: Oh, I came down and got her.
Speaker 1: That was pretty Yeah, you came down to the bottom
Speaker 1: of the steps.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to say, so that was the first
Speaker 2: time we saw each other. And I don't know if
Speaker 2: you realized, but like we chatted like a lot, Like
Speaker 2: I don't pay anything that was said, but that was
Speaker 2: that was quite emotional.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you guys kept kissing, Like yeah, I said
Speaker 1: that in our episode where we kind of touched on it.
Speaker 1: But it was actually so sweet because we're both crying
Speaker 1: and like looking after each other, and then you were
Speaker 1: kind of kissing, but you're not meant to kiss until
Speaker 1: they say kiss the bride, But it was like you
Speaker 1: guys couldn't help yourself. It was really cute.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I said, I hadn't spoken to anything for what
Speaker 2: do you think of my vows?
Speaker 1: I think that both of your vows were beautiful.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: The thing is is like it was just very authentic,
Speaker 1: like you both had written beautiful words. But then I
Speaker 1: think you're both like struggling to get through it because
Speaker 1: you were both like quite emotional, which was lovely and yeah,
Speaker 1: like you can you can tell that there's so much
Speaker 1: love there between you guys, like so much love and
Speaker 1: it was beautiful to witness. I did notice speaking of
Speaker 1: newspaper articles, not that we want to address newspaper articles,
Speaker 1: but just to clear something up, was that everyone's like,
Speaker 1: oh no, the guests wouldn't be able to see because
Speaker 1: of the hedge. I could see perfectly. There was nothing
Speaker 1: blocking my vie and I reckon.
Speaker 2: I loved the way it was.
Speaker 1: I loved the way it was set up. It was beautiful.
Speaker 2: It was beautiful. It gave it a new nice It
Speaker 2: was like unique you need. Yeah, and it's called Runway style.
Speaker 1: Yeah, loved it.
Speaker 2: So were you facing? Yeah? I loved it. Yeah. It
Speaker 2: was amazing And people were like, oh, some people weren't sitting.
Speaker 2: Some people were staying.
Speaker 1: You'd hurt your neck. Well that like if there is
Speaker 1: a Runway show, you'd like look left to right, tennis
Speaker 1: match left to right, like it doesn't matter. It was
Speaker 1: for thirty minutes or however long. The ceremony was you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then we went up signed, so that was
Speaker 2: pretty cool. And we went up to the balcony to Juliette.
Speaker 2: Juliette Yeah. Signed. It had a bottle of dom Perion
Speaker 2: from twenty ten.
Speaker 1: Yeah, very vintage year I graduated school.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and someone said, oh, you should probably like spray
Speaker 2: it everywhere, and I.
Speaker 1: Was busing that spray was wild and I was like, oh.
Speaker 2: I don't know. And I was like, do you want
Speaker 2: to drink it to me or do you want to
Speaker 2: spray itch? Like, go give a spray. So it looked cool.
Speaker 1: It looked amazing. Yeah, and then the glass.
Speaker 2: Oh the glass mash. Yeah yeah you can't. Yeah, that's
Speaker 2: so then I was drinking from the bottle.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so youtfully.
Speaker 2: You can't. That's sort of stuff though. It's just that's
Speaker 2: it's just like it's like a good memory though.
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, it's just part of me yelling.
Speaker 2: To the groonsman to get the cork.
Speaker 1: The thing is about weddings as well. It's like not
Speaker 1: everything is going to go exactly to plan, and sometimes
Speaker 1: those like in between moments where things aren't perfect are
Speaker 1: like the things that people will remember, all the things
Speaker 1: that like, you know, that make it unique to you
Speaker 1: guys as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing. Yeah, yeah, that was. That was And
Speaker 2: then Wolf brought me the cork.
Speaker 1: What was your favorite part of the wedding?
Speaker 2: So I'll tell you something that I wasn't. I just
Speaker 2: didn't know how it would land with you guys.
Speaker 1: So the first you guys, the audience, the audience.
Speaker 2: Audience, well, well it was so it was after the
Speaker 2: first dance. Yeah, so we did the first dance and
Speaker 2: then we had it to go from the first dance
Speaker 2: song into Calvin Harrison and our idea worked. So we
Speaker 2: wanted to dance and then get the.
Speaker 1: Bridle and get everyone.
Speaker 2: And everyone came up and.
Speaker 1: Danced literally the whole wedding.
Speaker 2: That was amazing.
Speaker 1: That was so cool, And it was like so early
Speaker 1: in the day. It was right after you know, just ceremony,
Speaker 1: you guys had done your first dance, went into this
Speaker 1: like full rave with everyone.
Speaker 2: So yeah, we walked down into like the reception area
Speaker 2: and then we walked back and did our first dance.
Speaker 2: We wanted to open with it and then do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I loved it. Yea, so good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a cool moment.
Speaker 1: Obviously, before the wedding, you would have seen your parents.
Speaker 1: How was that moment because obviously they've flown down from Melbourne.
Speaker 1: It's obviously super special to have them at the wedding.
Speaker 1: How was that for you?
Speaker 2: So we obviously were all sitting around waiting to go out,
Speaker 2: and they came in and that was Yeah, that was
Speaker 2: very moving.
Speaker 1: Was it emotional?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was when I first started crying, so like
Speaker 2: hugged them all. They told me like good luck and
Speaker 2: all that sort of stuff, and my dad like said
Speaker 2: he was proud of me. Yeah, and then that all
Speaker 2: made me like, yeah, that's all you wanted to for
Speaker 2: a long time. Yeah. And so then I, I don't
Speaker 2: think any of my grooms and really noticed. I then
Speaker 2: walked off to the bathroom and like took a moment, yeah,
Speaker 2: and was like crying right before I walked out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you fully like walked out and everyone
Speaker 1: was kind of mingling, and you and the grooms and
Speaker 1: walked out in a line, and it was such a
Speaker 1: cool moment.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, You're like everyone hello, and then.
Speaker 2: You have to mingle around with everyone, and then everyone
Speaker 2: goes to their seats. Yeah, so much, so much mingling
Speaker 2: and talking to do. Like people don't realize that as
Speaker 2: a groomsmen like and as a groom. As a groom
Speaker 2: sorry yeah, and where as a bride, like.
Speaker 1: You have to talk to well because it's all your
Speaker 1: people there, like everyone's there for you and like everyone
Speaker 1: wants to like and the thing is is, because I
Speaker 1: obviously got married six months earlier, I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna leave them to it. And I still like
Speaker 1: spoke to you and Tammy, but like I was just like,
Speaker 1: I just want them to enjoy it, and like you
Speaker 1: do kind of as a bride and groom, feel like
Speaker 1: you need to get around to everyone and give people,
Speaker 1: like especially.
Speaker 2: After the Champagne Tower when everyone was there, Yeah, and
Speaker 2: everyone was literally right there in that quarter bit and
Speaker 2: the like you literally like stand there and then everyone
Speaker 2: just like literally comes. I think I literally I spoke
Speaker 2: to like three people and then saw the oysters and
Speaker 2: just shoved down some oysters.
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you want to talk about the oysters? That
Speaker 1: was pretty cool.
Speaker 2: The ice flock thing.
Speaker 1: So when we walked into the wedding, all I could
Speaker 1: see was this huge ice block and it kind of
Speaker 1: looks like an ice block.
Speaker 2: It was stairs almost.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I've never seen a huge block of ice.
Speaker 1: I don't know how they did it, but anyway, I
Speaker 1: was like, what is that for? And then I remember
Speaker 1: that you told me you were having oysters and.
Speaker 2: The guy yeah for us, Yeah that was cool.
Speaker 1: Lovely, And you guys had like the to my two
Speaker 1: favorite drinks, approlls and spicy mugs or margs, and they
Speaker 1: were going around and I was like, I love a
Speaker 1: lemonade please.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what they are, our favorite drinks. That's I
Speaker 2: pictured them so cute. Do you know? I went so quickly?
Speaker 1: Do you know what dinner flu?
Speaker 2: But that's just the only thing goes so quick.
Speaker 1: It goes really quick.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're sitting there for dinner one minute and the
Speaker 2: next minute it's onto the next thing.
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, I want to talk about something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we need to talk about the Garta moments because wowie,
Speaker 1: obviously it's a tradition. You wanted all the traditions, correct.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well they say to either yeah, garter.
Speaker 1: Or toss or the ok so it's one or the other.
Speaker 2: No, it's not one or the other. But they just
Speaker 2: said what one would you prefer and Tammy, and I
Speaker 2: said the garter one would be a bit more fun
Speaker 2: between us.
Speaker 1: So at that point time had changed into her second look,
Speaker 1: so she had a bit more of a tight dress
Speaker 1: on in comparison to the first dress, the pink one,
Speaker 1: which was gorgeous, by the way, so stunning. I knew
Speaker 1: that the dress is pink.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Knew the whole time. She swore me to secrecy in
Speaker 1: Greece because she was like, show me your wedding. This
Speaker 1: is like the day before my wedding. She's like, showed
Speaker 1: me your wedding dress. And I was like no, She's like,
Speaker 1: I'll show you mine, and I was like fine, And
Speaker 1: so she's like, I'm swearing you's secrecy. Cannot tell a
Speaker 1: single soul. And she's like, my dress is pink.
Speaker 2: So I didn't see it stunning.
Speaker 1: It was gorgeous, like absolutely stunning. I didn't even really
Speaker 1: like tell the story what the garter or the dress
Speaker 1: the dress hut.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So she came off and one of the things
Speaker 2: when we're standing there talking, she goes, do you like
Speaker 2: my pink dress? And I was like, it's pink.
Speaker 1: Well, it's such a powder peech.
Speaker 2: It didn't look in the light and with everything going on,
Speaker 2: and I was like just looking at her in the
Speaker 2: eyes walking down. It didn't look white. Yeah, it looked
Speaker 2: like not off white, but it looked you know what
Speaker 2: I mean, said Peach. But Peach, Yeah, it looked a
Speaker 2: little bit more peachy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't something like it was sensory overload. You're
Speaker 1: on your wedding day. You didn't think about it, and
Speaker 1: you're like, it's peak, it's peak.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like, looks stunning, it looks beautiful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, that dress was. I mean, all of her
Speaker 1: looks were truly incredible. And you looked great as well, obviously.
Speaker 2: Well that's as we're on this. I am starting a
Speaker 2: new trend, gentlemen.
Speaker 1: What's a new trend?
Speaker 2: And I said this to you before. Actually when I
Speaker 2: say it, and you men should only wear the one. Okay,
Speaker 2: the change of a super jacket for men, call you
Speaker 2: Michael is done. Michael did it when it was cool. Matt,
Speaker 2: I've no one.
Speaker 1: Not okay, I'm gonna say one thing to you. No
Speaker 1: grooms changed their suit jackets. Michael did it. And it
Speaker 1: was like a bit rand, like not random, but like
Speaker 1: he was like.
Speaker 2: Plenty of people do it, who.
Speaker 1: You don't have any I've never seen anyone change soon.
Speaker 2: Husband, Yeah, a lot of guys are doing it. But
Speaker 2: that's like people are doing it, trust me, and I'm
Speaker 2: flipping the trend back.
Speaker 1: He just didn't want to buy a second soon.
Speaker 2: What about my bow tie?
Speaker 1: Loved it so like Matt, okay, but let's we keep
Speaker 1: I want to talk about the garter, but we're getting distracted.
Speaker 1: So Matt literally is standing at the aisle waiting for
Speaker 1: Tammy to walk up the aisle and I'm looking at
Speaker 1: him and his bowt Hie is like diagonal, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, he cannot get married like this. And
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to get attention to the groomsmen. None
Speaker 1: of them. They were all oblivious. No one's looking at you,
Speaker 1: no one's checking to make sure you look good. And
Speaker 1: I'm like the bow tie. I literally, I swear to god,
Speaker 1: I said it like four times, like you literally almost
Speaker 1: got married with the diagonal bow type.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And I think someone else told me as well,
Speaker 2: because apparently I kept leaning he.
Speaker 1: Kept touching it. I think it was like a nervous
Speaker 1: thing and as soon as you touch it. It would
Speaker 1: like flip flit back into diagonal like this.
Speaker 2: And I was like, we'll go back to the garter,
Speaker 2: but how about don't take you.
Speaker 1: We'll go back to the garden. Now, let me just
Speaker 1: reintroduce the tissue. Ah, Okay, this was actually a highlight
Speaker 1: of your wedding for me, and it was the tissue moment.
Speaker 2: So should I you want to.
Speaker 1: Who you can say it? I feel like my pairv
Speaker 1: for this.
Speaker 2: Okay, you tell your fairy because my so.
Speaker 1: Matt's saying his vows.
Speaker 2: Right. Was it after or it was I think it
Speaker 2: was once I finished it was.
Speaker 1: I think it was. I think he had during that.
Speaker 1: I think it was just after after and I was
Speaker 1: all tears, yeah, and he was like crying the most
Speaker 1: that he had cried the whole time. And then I
Speaker 1: think someone was like, does anyone have a tissue? No?
Speaker 2: No, I turned around, so you say the story. So
Speaker 2: I turned around to my grooms and I was like,
Speaker 2: if they need you got a tissue? And they were
Speaker 2: all like, oh no. And then and then I sort
Speaker 2: of like you and I said, Dale, my best man,
Speaker 2: give me a pocket square.
Speaker 1: But then Matt, instead of just like dabbing his tears
Speaker 1: away or like just wiping his tears. He gets the
Speaker 1: pocket square of his best man and proceeds to blow
Speaker 1: his nose so hard, literally like Eke Worthy blowing of
Speaker 1: nose front of everyone, in front of the whole wedding.
Speaker 2: But it was so running and I didn't want to
Speaker 2: like have it sitting there like sniffling time.
Speaker 1: So he gave it that good old blow and then
Speaker 1: hands it back to his best man and the best
Speaker 1: man puts it back in his pod.
Speaker 3: Kid, and I was a legend. What but there was
Speaker 3: like a split second before he goes what I do?
Speaker 3: And I was like, you told it was sort.
Speaker 1: Of like you set him off.
Speaker 2: No, it was sort of like it wasn't like like
Speaker 2: it was like I don't even know if he heard
Speaker 2: me or what. It was like, you know when it
Speaker 2: all happened so.
Speaker 1: Quickly, as soon as he put it back in his pocket,
Speaker 1: like everyone started laughing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a good icebreaker. It was a good
Speaker 2: ice freak. It was good and I was so I
Speaker 2: remember think my throat was so dry before she walked out.
Speaker 2: I was so ner so have to keep bringing me water.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did see that.
Speaker 2: I was like, Yeah, I was like getting all dry.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, garter garda, Well.
Speaker 2: The premise of doing that, if anyone's seen the video
Speaker 2: or seen it happen before the bride, where's a garter?
Speaker 2: What that garter.
Speaker 1: Is like a piece of cloth. It goes on the
Speaker 1: upper leg essentially.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but is that all? It's not got any other purpose?
Speaker 1: You're asking the wrong person a random question.
Speaker 2: Well, I yeah, so I remember timing was like have
Speaker 2: fun with it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, and you you had fun with it?
Speaker 2: What was the song? That was a cute song playing?
Speaker 2: And I was like dancing around and like.
Speaker 1: That's like like you can somewhat dance, but like in
Speaker 1: some ways you're not that coordinated.
Speaker 2: Not at all. And I was like having fun with it.
Speaker 2: And then I like went under and he was.
Speaker 1: Fully under the dress. Guys, he was like head under.
Speaker 1: There was like some move there.
Speaker 2: And then I pulled it back off and I was
Speaker 2: like looked all shocked and I was like oh, and
Speaker 2: then went back under, but I couldn't pull it up
Speaker 2: with my teeth. It got kick getting stuck. So if
Speaker 2: you actually, well, I have to pull it down my
Speaker 2: teeth and my fingers. Sorry, and pulled it off and
Speaker 2: did it then you lob it into the audience and
Speaker 2: it was right next to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it was that your hairdresser, Ollie.
Speaker 2: Had called it, yeah next to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was it was. It was actually very entertaining
Speaker 1: and funny, but like there was parts of it as
Speaker 1: a guest of the wedding where I was like, cover
Speaker 1: my eyes, I feel like I shouldn't be watching this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was. It's very fun. I had a lot
Speaker 2: of fun with that.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about the cake. Yeah, because the cake was,
Speaker 1: I mean, memorable is just an understatement. It was how tall?
Speaker 2: So I got a text randomly and Tammy was like
Speaker 2: how tall are you? And I was like, fuck, shure,
Speaker 2: she's talking about me.
Speaker 1: Sist a couple.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, she's she's talking about me someone And
Speaker 2: I said the real thing. I said, I'm one ninety
Speaker 2: seven centimeters if I wear boots on two O one
Speaker 2: two hundred around that.
Speaker 1: What's that in feet?
Speaker 2: In feet six five sixty six. Yeah, So I said
Speaker 2: the centimeters because she asked me in centimeters. So I
Speaker 2: said that and she goes okay, and I was like
Speaker 2: why and she was like for the cake, And I
Speaker 2: was like, okay, what the fuck you're like in one
Speaker 2: of Yeah, I was like for the cake, it's that
Speaker 2: and then she and then I think we spoke about
Speaker 2: it again and the cake was huge, seven foot tall. Yeah, monster,
Speaker 2: it was amazing.
Speaker 1: It was cool. So Tammy got up on the chair
Speaker 1: yea to cut it, to cut the cake, which was amazing.
Speaker 2: Was did everyone see it before? And were they're like
Speaker 2: what's this or was it? What was the moment when
Speaker 2: I saw it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone was like going up to it like can
Speaker 1: we eat this?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: Did you eat it?
Speaker 2: I took a bite. Yeah, it was good cake.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, nice ca. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then that was kind of like in the after
Speaker 1: party area. So you guys had like a marquee okay yeah,
Speaker 1: and it had pink curtains. I guess you would.
Speaker 2: Call it in hindsight. When we went over everything about
Speaker 2: the wedding, they were talking about the marquee and I
Speaker 2: overheard the wedding plan to say, and we'll do it
Speaker 2: the same color as one of your sets said something.
Speaker 2: They addressed it, but it went in one ear out
Speaker 2: the other. Now that makes sense. The pink, Yeah, the
Speaker 2: pink makes sense. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because that was I didn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a cool after party location.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, well, that was meant to be a lot.
Speaker 2: Just the boys bantered. They go, what's down there, and like, oh,
Speaker 2: that's the marquee for the dance party. It's a surprise
Speaker 2: and we're like standing at the top of the thing
Speaker 2: and they're like, that's not a surprise, mate, everyone can yeah. True. Yeah,
Speaker 2: So yeah, some highlights of me were probably Yeah. The
Speaker 2: food was amazing.
Speaker 1: Food was delicious. There was these prawn dumplings. I had
Speaker 1: so many of them. Yeah, and nothing for me at
Speaker 1: the moment, being pregnant is really sitting well with me.
Speaker 1: But for some unknown reason, those prawn dumplings we're just
Speaker 1: hitting the spot.
Speaker 2: I smashed a couple of them as well. They were nice.
Speaker 1: And the BA yeah as well. It was a good menu.
Speaker 2: It was a great manual. That's what we did, that
Speaker 2: tasting for it. Yeah, and we tried.
Speaker 1: It all and they were that's someone who was like
Speaker 1: living for the food. I was really appreciating a welcome.
Speaker 2: When the wedding plans they got to give a round
Speaker 2: of applause to them. Brittain Olivia from Nuptial Collective. Brittain
Speaker 2: Olivia from there were amazing. They did an amazing to
Speaker 2: put it all together.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean it's it's all about the details.
Speaker 1: I think with wedding planners, they just really nail those
Speaker 1: details that you just would never think about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, yeah, there's so much, like when Tammy came
Speaker 2: on here, there's so much.
Speaker 1: There's so much.
Speaker 2: It's just nice, so you don't even think about, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, things that you literally you would get to the
Speaker 1: day and be like, oh ship, I don't think of that, you.
Speaker 2: Know, but it looked it was amazing. The table was amazing.
Speaker 2: Remember when we're waiting before the first dance and everyone
Speaker 2: was sitting at the table, Yeah, yeah, that was that
Speaker 2: was I've got a photo of that. That was Yeah.
Speaker 2: I took a photo of That's so cool everyone there.
Speaker 2: To me, that was a that was quite a not
Speaker 2: a heartfelt moment, but like stand out, stand out, Like
Speaker 2: there's all my my people, my people just sitting there
Speaker 2: like it was pretty cool. Another moment that I loved
Speaker 2: was Posy and Saska out it's a flower girls.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god. They did so good and even
Speaker 1: Wolf like, the kids were so well behaved. Everyone was
Speaker 1: saying that e friend's like they are as good as gold.
Speaker 2: There was a photo of Poesy in sa sitting there
Speaker 2: and they look so cutey.
Speaker 1: Just sitting there in her little pink dress. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: she she was just staring into space, like just sitting there.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, she's literally the best
Speaker 1: child ever.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: No, the kids did really well.
Speaker 2: Brought the rings up. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I loved it that they were a part of it
Speaker 1: as well, and like you mentioned them in your vows,
Speaker 1: and it felt like they were really included in everything,
Speaker 1: which was lovely. Can we talk about Tammy's dad because
Speaker 1: he did not he was meant to walk her down
Speaker 1: the aisle. He injured himself on the wedding day. And
Speaker 1: then when you guys actually came out to do your
Speaker 1: first dance, it was actually very cute moment. He had
Speaker 1: his crutches and he was waving them in the air
Speaker 1: saying hi guy, yeah, and you and Tammy were like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, hi.
Speaker 2: You saw him. Yeah. So I didn't know that he'd
Speaker 2: hurt himself. So I was at the end of where
Speaker 2: you stand and then Tammy's brother Max walked her out yeah,
Speaker 2: and I was like, I was like, oh, where's Mark.
Speaker 2: And I don't know if we spoke about it while
Speaker 2: she was up there, but at some point someone told
Speaker 2: me that he he's a cl or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Pretty bad.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sad, worst timing.
Speaker 2: Literally, couldn't have any worst timing. But at least he
Speaker 2: got his suit on and came down.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was really that's sweet that he did that. Overall,
Speaker 1: the wedding day was incredible. It was such a fairy
Speaker 1: tale day and honestly, you guys just looked so in
Speaker 1: love and so happy, and I guess that's all you
Speaker 1: can want for your friends. So I'm honestly so happy
Speaker 1: for you guys.
Speaker 2: Thank you. It was. It was such a special day.
Speaker 2: Couldn't have been more more magic. Cool.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about the recovery. So it was at the
Speaker 1: Mes Club in Barron Bay.
Speaker 2: Great venue, check it out.
Speaker 1: Incredible venue, it's all white, felt very wedding.
Speaker 2: Esque, and a tree house at the top there.
Speaker 1: It did feel like we were in a.
Speaker 2: Tree house and we had that whole area to ourselves.
Speaker 2: It was pretty funny because there's a lot of you know,
Speaker 2: sore heads out of recovery walking around and obviously Tommy
Speaker 2: and myself didn't because it was our wedding day. We
Speaker 2: weren't that sore headed the next day, so we were
Speaker 2: ready for recovery. So we came in quite ready. So
Speaker 2: we brought the vibes I feel, and then everyone got up.
Speaker 2: They started seeing that we were up, and then like
Speaker 2: we're mingling again, everyone together, and it was so much fun.
Speaker 1: It was so good.
Speaker 2: Yeah I was. I wish I had more to talk about,
Speaker 2: but yeah, yes, it was fun.
Speaker 1: Goods.
Speaker 2: Just heaps of chats with friends and good.
Speaker 1: Food there as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean you didn't ex it up.
Speaker 1: I don't drink, so I just eat these days.
Speaker 2: I mean they did put together a great Tommy's mark. Yeah,
Speaker 2: a lot of Tommy's marks. Yeah, all the good stuff.
Speaker 1: What more could you ask? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Great kissing my lovely wife was great.
Speaker 1: And also just reminiscing on the wedding day. I think,
Speaker 1: like like you said, the wedding goes so quick, so
Speaker 1: sometimes it's nice to have that recovery party the next
Speaker 1: day and everyone can reminisce on how beautiful it was
Speaker 1: and their favorite moments of the wedding, and you know,
Speaker 1: talk to the bride and groom a little bit more
Speaker 1: because e's a bit more relaxed.
Speaker 2: And I feel like that is probably the best time
Speaker 2: to do it. Yeah, like, if you're on a wedding,
Speaker 2: at the wedding, just say hello like everyone did, and
Speaker 2: like say you look great, and then save the chats
Speaker 2: for the recovery.
Speaker 1: Absolutely nice.
Speaker 2: The best bit.
Speaker 1: Well, now that you've gone through a wedding yourself, you're
Speaker 1: a married man, do you have any advice for anyone
Speaker 1: who is getting married soon?
Speaker 2: I think one of the main things Tammy and I
Speaker 2: went in with was to spend the whole time together
Speaker 2: on the wedding day, not drink too much, and just
Speaker 2: enjoy it because it goes quick. I keep saying, it
Speaker 2: went so quick, so be weary of that. That's my advice.
Speaker 2: And yeah, hanging out with your fiance, sorry your wife
Speaker 2: at that point the whole time, and yeah, don't drink
Speaker 2: too much. And I brought because you remember it all,
Speaker 2: like I remember it all, and I remember she had
Speaker 2: a couple of outfit changes and like you know, she'd
Speaker 2: fixed itself up and like that sort of was like
Speaker 2: took into a bit of time. So remember one time
Speaker 2: I brought her up at dinner because she hadn't finished
Speaker 2: so she could eat it. Up in there and yeah
Speaker 2: it was Yeah, that was nice as well.
Speaker 1: How's the transition from having a fiance to a wife?
Speaker 2: I have said fiance a couple of times when we're
Speaker 2: talking and like, I mean wife. Yeah, I've been so
Speaker 2: used to say do you like saying what? Yeah? I do.
Speaker 2: I like wearing the ring. I sort of go like
Speaker 2: that so people can notice I'm married. Yeah, just start
Speaker 2: walking around.
Speaker 1: Like perhaps like showing off as jewelry.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've always like I love it since we got engaged.
Speaker 2: I was like, I want to wear it. I want
Speaker 2: to wear a ring. I'm jealous. Yeah, like I want
Speaker 2: to be proud and show it off.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, it's a nice feeling.
Speaker 2: It is.
Speaker 1: It is a good feeling.
Speaker 2: I was playing with it a bit, like I wasn't
Speaker 2: used to it, but getting used to it in a
Speaker 2: couple of days.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. Michael at the start was like, I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna want to like pull it off because I don't
Speaker 1: want to wear jewelry and I hate like things being Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he hasn't taken off.
Speaker 2: I mean my knuckles big so it can't really git
Speaker 2: over over my knuckles, so I sort of stuck it's in. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's nice. It's unique diamonds they engraved with Tammy in
Speaker 2: the day and I love her.
Speaker 1: Oh that's so cute, that's really personal. I love that
Speaker 1: really well. I'm very happy for you guys. Again, thank
Speaker 1: you for giving us the inside details of the wedding.
Speaker 2: We'll try to get Tammy on soon when we our
Speaker 2: schedules link up, we get.
Speaker 1: Your wifey on wife Wifey for lifey.
Speaker 2: And hopefully soon, well soon, you guys will hear the honeymoon. Yes,
Speaker 2: very exciting our honeymoon.
Speaker 1: Very can't wait to hear. Tell me about the honeymoon.
Speaker 1: I as soon as you told me where you were going,
Speaker 1: I was like, that is going to be epic. So
Speaker 1: we cannot wait to get the inside scoop on that. Okay, Matt,
Speaker 1: until next time, Bye bye,