1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: This is the Fitsy and with Kate Richie podcast. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 2: Read this story overnight and I, look, I don't know 3 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 2: how I feel about it, so I'm going to throw 4 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 2: it open to the room discuss do you think it's 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 2: okay to name your child with your new partner after 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 2: an ex? And that's what this woman has done, and 7 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 2: the husband has only just realized. And this is when 8 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 2: you know, the child's three years old by now, so 9 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 2: you know, well, that's what I think, and I think 10 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 2: the fact that it's been hidden is actually what is 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 2: the most upsetting. So they've had, you know, they've had 12 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,639 Speaker 2: a son, and they've called their son Robert, and it's 13 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 2: all lovely and it's full of joy, and they're you know, 14 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 2: seeing old friends and they're introducing the child and you know, 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 2: we've had this baby together and everything's great. And then 16 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: the girl friend or the friend of the woman has said, 17 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 2: and so, what's the child's name? And she said, oh, 18 00:00:56,800 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 2: it's Robert. And it's the look on the friend's face, 19 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 2: which is and she says out loud, oh, you mean 20 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 2: like Robert, like your ex boyfriend Robert. And the husband's 21 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 2: standing there and this is news to him. He never 22 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 2: knew there was an ex boyfriend called Robert, and the 23 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 2: way it was delivered in the shock, I think we 24 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 2: know that Robert wasn't just a fleeing or was serious. 25 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 2: I think Robert was like the love the first yeah, 26 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 2: first love of her life kind of thing. 27 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 3: Why would you want to think about Robert every time 28 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 3: that you say your child's name though? 29 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 2: Did you think you do though? Or do you just 30 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 2: like the name? 31 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: Move on? Like? I really liked the name Lily, and 32 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: so did Lisa. 33 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 2: Do you have a girlfriend? 34 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 3: I had an ex. 35 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 1: Called Lily and beautiful Lily. Now you can bring up Lily. 36 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 1: She's fantastic. She's married now with three kids, and she's 37 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: very happy and she's a wonderful, wonderful person. 38 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 3: Did Lisa like the name as well? 39 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 40 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 3: We both like Lisa and Lily were around the same till. 41 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter about timing. 42 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 2: But Lily's a great name. 43 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,559 Speaker 1: I have to say, yeah, and I we spoke about 44 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: it and then she said, oh, but it was one 45 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: of your accidents. It doesn't matter. That doesn't matter at all. 46 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: Let's celebrate the fact that she was a great person 47 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: and it's a good name. You know, does it really matter? 48 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 2: Do you think that Lisa would have thought about it 49 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: every time that she called her daughter Lily. 50 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: Like Paul Robert who's sitting at home, you know, broken 51 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: hearted as well, wondering whether he'll get his girlfriend back. 52 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: You know, in your situation. 53 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 3: What are you talking? 54 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: Oh, you mean the story story. I thought I'd revealed 55 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 2: something personal. Even my sister, My sister Rebecca, who is 56 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: two and a half years younger than I am, she 57 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: called her her first child Isla, and she was even 58 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 2: nervous to say. She asked me whether it was okay 59 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: to call her daughter Eiler. We like, because I have 60 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 2: a friend called I'll. 61 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 3: Give me a pray that. But you do, you do 62 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 3: have to come on bad? Do you feel about it? 63 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 3: Some people are really picky with names, though, aren't they usually? 64 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 2: Mother? 65 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 3: That was like the guy over in the guy over 66 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 3: in England who called his daughter Lanizra Lenizra, which is 67 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 3: a beautiful name, and his wife loved it, but she 68 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 3: found out three years later exactly the same that Leanezra 69 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 3: backwards is Arsenal his favorite football too. Oh yeah, she 70 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 3: wasn't happy with that one. 71 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: I mean, what word does blues spell backwards? You know 72 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: what Kate Richie, because it wouldn't surprise me if kids 73 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: born today after the. 74 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 2: Origin celebration go on have a go saying it can 75 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 2: you spell blue though? 76 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: Whipper that's rude. It's Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a 77 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: Nova podcast walk great shows like this. Download the Nova 78 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: Player by the app Store or Google Playing.