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Speaker 1: This podcast.

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Speaker 2: Actually, oh you know the way to my heart, Jess,

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the podcast. This isn't even on like the

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Speaker 2: usual podcast of our show. This is like limited what

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Speaker 2: you limited edition? Limited extra content.

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Speaker 1: I asked just a question.

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Speaker 3: I've just noticed some footage on our Instagram page of

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Speaker 3: you finding a cigarette lighter in my bay.

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Speaker 2: Come check it out.

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Speaker 3: Actually must ask the question who planted them? Smokes on me?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Have I ever been a smoker?

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Speaker 1: We've been worried a spoon in there as well, where

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Speaker 1: we're worried about you forgot? Are you okay?

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Speaker 2: Clean?

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Speaker 3: Is the whissel over here?

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Speaker 2: I love those people where you say, oh, has anyone

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Speaker 2: got a lighter? And then whoops? The days is you accident?

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Speaker 2: Will not me even someone will go oh yeah, oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is.

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Speaker 1: My brothers found you. Remember the smiley phase in.

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Speaker 2: I never did that. I couldn't do that.

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Speaker 1: I know where you'd burn sort of the lighter. You'd

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Speaker 1: light the lighter for a while and then burn it

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Speaker 1: unto your arm. Cool.

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Speaker 2: That was so sick.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, lighter chat, go and check it out on Instagram?

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Speaker 1: What have you okay? Richard?

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Speaker 2: That's me actually burning stage. It's not really about a lighter.

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Speaker 2: But thank you very much for pointing to our socials.

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Speaker 2: This is about the benefits of buying flowers. We discussed

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Speaker 2: this a bit last week because it was Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: I not that I don't like fresh food.

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Speaker 3: Do you get anything on Valentine Anything?

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Speaker 1: That's so disappointed? What about?

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Speaker 4: Hang up?

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Speaker 2: I got something from my from my daughter and do

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Speaker 2: you know what she gave me?

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Speaker 1: Go to.

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Speaker 2: Like like serum and a packet of Kingston biscuits and

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Speaker 2: something else a blush that she found in her toiletry drawer.

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Speaker 1: In a bush.

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Speaker 3: Did you get a messages for Valentine's Day from any man?

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Speaker 2: I did, but I did treat myself to two sneaky

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Speaker 2: pieces of chalky cakes on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Night, written a sad form of do.

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Speaker 2: You know what though I don't need Queen, the only

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Speaker 2: love I need is self flower what yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well, you take your own time that.

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Speaker 1: What I mean is that I should sat at home

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Speaker 1: with a packet of Kingston's and the rest was history.

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Speaker 3: Validate.

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Speaker 2: I'm validating anyway. It doesn't matter buy flowers because despite

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Speaker 2: the cost, I don't know where this person lives. But

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Speaker 2: they're saying forty to eighty bucks on a bunch of flowers.

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Speaker 2: The payoff is enormous. Have a listen to this woman

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Speaker 2: on her socials.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to explain the ROI of buying flowers using broscience.

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Speaker 4: Men understand return on investments. So let's talk numbers cost

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Speaker 4: of said flowers that say forty to eighty dollars depending

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Speaker 4: where you live. But the duration of the impact is

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Speaker 4: three to sevent days. Every time she walks past the flowers,

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Speaker 4: she thinks of you. That's multi all positive mental impressions

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Speaker 4: per Day's basically low cost brand reinforcement about how great

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Speaker 4: you are. Second point, flowers signal effort without any pressure.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to say the right thing right up

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Speaker 4: hoe and being mister Darcy. You just show up with

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Speaker 4: something that says I thought about you, and that builds

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Speaker 4: emotional credit, and emotional credit compounds over time, meaning later

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Speaker 4: you can get away with other things. So her point

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Speaker 4: women talk. When she posts the flowers, shows them to

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Speaker 4: her friend, other men see it, it's suddenly signals that

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Speaker 4: she's valued by you. Perceived competition increases attachment. Basic psychology.

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Speaker 3: That is absolute rubbish. And that is my number one

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Speaker 3: thing about being generous. If I had to give you

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Speaker 3: my five gus five top rules in life. One of

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Speaker 3: them would be never do anything expecting to get something

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Speaker 3: in return.

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Speaker 2: Because you know what, you know, what lets us down

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Speaker 2: is in life expectations?

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Speaker 1: What a load you teach your children to look after

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Speaker 1: people put a smile on their face and hopefully one

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Speaker 1: day and it comes back and hopefully can never expect it? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but that, well, what are you talking about? Ever expect?

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Speaker 2: I know what you mean. If you buy your girlfriend

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Speaker 2: a bunch of flowers, you're hoping to get a hug.

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Speaker 1: Yep, Never horrt hug.

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Speaker 3: Never think that you can take your brownie points to

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Speaker 3: the brownie check in window and hope that there might

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Speaker 3: be something there.

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Speaker 2: Well, not if you're starting deficit.

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Speaker 3: Because they don't exist. Your brownie points are ghosts.

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Speaker 4: Do you know what?

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Speaker 2: Can I just say, we've got another grab, We're not

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Speaker 2: going to get to it. But can I say when

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Speaker 2: I see a bunch of flowers that anyone's bought me

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Speaker 2: on the kitchen table, I don't think, oh, what a

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Speaker 2: nice gang huh? Do you know what?

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Speaker 4: I think?

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Speaker 2: What a selfish individual who bought the flowers and just

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Speaker 2: dumped them on the kitchen table. I've now got to

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Speaker 2: unwrap them, cut the string, get a vase, put the

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Speaker 2: little sashet, put it there. Then I've got to watch

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Speaker 2: them die, smell them, take them up to the green bin. Wow.

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Speaker 3: And that's why For Valentine's Though, you've got.

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