1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apolge Production. 2 00:00:10,961 --> 00:00:13,921 Speaker 2: I'm Mickey Fisher, and welcome to the Village Crazy Lady. 3 00:00:14,321 --> 00:00:17,401 Speaker 2: People are talking to me and they are not physically 4 00:00:17,481 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 2: in this room, so just strap in for that. Can't 5 00:00:21,201 --> 00:00:22,361 Speaker 2: call me crazy souse. 6 00:00:22,401 --> 00:00:23,161 Speaker 1: I said it first. 7 00:00:23,321 --> 00:00:26,121 Speaker 2: Whoever's trying to come through, whatever messages need to come through, like, 8 00:00:26,241 --> 00:00:29,961 Speaker 2: just bring it on. Let's do it Crazy Crazy Crazy 9 00:00:30,241 --> 00:00:36,521 Speaker 2: The Village Crazy Lay Podcast. Hello, gorgeous legends, and welcome 10 00:00:36,561 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 2: to another episode. 11 00:00:37,681 --> 00:00:39,241 Speaker 1: Of the Village Crazy Lady. 12 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:43,321 Speaker 2: I'm extremely excited today because not only do I love 13 00:00:43,601 --> 00:00:46,001 Speaker 2: this guest that I've got on today, but we've actually 14 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:50,521 Speaker 2: managed to do this irl in real life. It's like 15 00:00:50,601 --> 00:00:54,321 Speaker 2: the universe has just decided to make this happen. Rosie Rees, 16 00:00:54,521 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 2: who if you don't know who she is, she's like 17 00:00:57,801 --> 00:01:02,961 Speaker 2: the queen of sexual pleasure. She's the queen of I 18 00:01:03,001 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 2: don't know, Like you are just the queen of everything 19 00:01:05,801 --> 00:01:09,161 Speaker 2: sex to me and everything like self pleasure and everything 20 00:01:09,321 --> 00:01:13,681 Speaker 2: self love and everything like connecting to your body and 21 00:01:13,721 --> 00:01:18,001 Speaker 2: like creating this really really beautiful relationship with yourself and 22 00:01:18,041 --> 00:01:22,041 Speaker 2: like really pushing past all of like the shame that 23 00:01:22,081 --> 00:01:25,161 Speaker 2: we hold around so much of ourself. You have like 24 00:01:25,241 --> 00:01:29,321 Speaker 2: a thriving business, the only pleasure place. I just say that, right, 25 00:01:29,401 --> 00:01:33,041 Speaker 2: didn't you any pleasure palette? Such a mouthful, and I 26 00:01:33,081 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: get it. And I've just been obsessed with everything that 27 00:01:36,481 --> 00:01:40,481 Speaker 2: you've done for so long, and so I'm just so stoked. 28 00:01:40,121 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: To have you here. 29 00:01:40,881 --> 00:01:42,961 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having me. I feel like 30 00:01:43,041 --> 00:01:46,881 Speaker 3: the universe just yeah, conspired for us to meet in person. 31 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:47,441 Speaker 3: Thank God. 32 00:01:47,601 --> 00:01:51,881 Speaker 1: No, so let's start off with your story. 33 00:01:52,241 --> 00:01:55,281 Speaker 2: I really want to know, like what got you into 34 00:01:55,481 --> 00:01:58,361 Speaker 2: Have you always been someone who's like been really connected 35 00:01:58,361 --> 00:01:59,401 Speaker 2: to your sexuality. 36 00:01:59,921 --> 00:02:02,961 Speaker 3: I've always been connected to my sexuality, not really in 37 00:02:03,081 --> 00:02:08,481 Speaker 3: a healthy way, of course, But it was this experience 38 00:02:08,521 --> 00:02:11,241 Speaker 3: that I had in Bali We. I was over there 39 00:02:11,241 --> 00:02:14,961 Speaker 3: doing my Kundalini yoga teacher training and I found this 40 00:02:15,081 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 3: jade just stumbled across this jade egg workshop with this 41 00:02:18,201 --> 00:02:22,001 Speaker 3: full like tentry car goddess woman and found myself in 42 00:02:22,041 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 3: the rainforest. We were doing this like sensual four hour yoga. 43 00:02:26,321 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 3: It was intense and it was a lot. It was 44 00:02:27,841 --> 00:02:29,841 Speaker 3: out of my comfort zone for sure, like at the time, 45 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,401 Speaker 3: and we were like rolling this egg all over our 46 00:02:33,441 --> 00:02:37,121 Speaker 3: body and we ended up putting it inside of our vaginas. 47 00:02:37,001 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: While you were there, while we were there very like. 48 00:02:39,561 --> 00:02:41,881 Speaker 3: Intimately and like facing out, so it wasn't in your 49 00:02:41,881 --> 00:02:42,441 Speaker 3: face or anything. 50 00:02:42,481 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 2: It was very staring at each other and like inserting it. 51 00:02:45,601 --> 00:02:49,601 Speaker 3: No pussy gazing in this workshot, but I basically put 52 00:02:49,641 --> 00:02:53,321 Speaker 3: it in and I had this like wave of just 53 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:57,361 Speaker 3: healing energy. It was like the first time I'd connected 54 00:02:57,361 --> 00:03:00,481 Speaker 3: to my pussy in a way that was loving and 55 00:03:00,641 --> 00:03:04,681 Speaker 3: caring and tender and just like not I need to 56 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 3: get a orgasm from there, or I need to give 57 00:03:07,081 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 3: someone pleasure. It was a really beautiful experience with myself, 58 00:03:10,001 --> 00:03:13,001 Speaker 3: and like I've always had a connection to being able 59 00:03:13,041 --> 00:03:15,921 Speaker 3: to make myself orgasm from the age of I was 60 00:03:16,161 --> 00:03:19,841 Speaker 3: late actually compared to some women, but I was nineteen vibrator, 61 00:03:20,321 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 3: you know, so I'd always felt like I'd needed a 62 00:03:22,761 --> 00:03:26,041 Speaker 3: vibrator to feel pleasure. This egg just blew me away. 63 00:03:26,161 --> 00:03:28,081 Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, I get what people are talking 64 00:03:28,121 --> 00:03:30,481 Speaker 3: about now, and then I couldn't shut up about it. 65 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:33,921 Speaker 3: So that was like the beginning of your only pleasure palace. 66 00:03:34,881 --> 00:03:36,921 Speaker 3: So we started with that one product and now it's 67 00:03:36,961 --> 00:03:39,801 Speaker 3: like two hundred plus pussy products. 68 00:03:41,201 --> 00:03:42,041 Speaker 1: But just to. 69 00:03:42,001 --> 00:03:45,481 Speaker 3: Rewind a little bit, I was climbing the corporate ladder 70 00:03:45,481 --> 00:03:49,361 Speaker 3: in Sydney. I was in an awful, toxic relationship with 71 00:03:49,881 --> 00:03:54,601 Speaker 3: he was my boss at the time, and I escaped. Essentially, 72 00:03:54,641 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 3: I survived. I left and I had this spiritual awakening. 73 00:03:58,521 --> 00:04:00,521 Speaker 3: I just needed to go to India. I needed to 74 00:04:00,601 --> 00:04:03,841 Speaker 3: practice yoga, and I just left and changed. It literally 75 00:04:03,921 --> 00:04:07,801 Speaker 3: changed my life. So that awful toxic man that I 76 00:04:07,841 --> 00:04:10,761 Speaker 3: had that experience with was in a way like such 77 00:04:10,801 --> 00:04:13,321 Speaker 3: a blessing for me because it literally got me on path. 78 00:04:13,801 --> 00:04:16,361 Speaker 3: I realized what I needed to do and who I was. 79 00:04:16,401 --> 00:04:19,601 Speaker 3: I realized my purpose was to help people. At the time, 80 00:04:19,601 --> 00:04:21,601 Speaker 3: it was just with relationships. I wanted to help other 81 00:04:21,641 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 3: women get out of like toxic of youse relationships. And 82 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 3: then it kind of evolved into sexuality because. 83 00:04:28,641 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: That was my next question was like how do you 84 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,841 Speaker 2: go from zero to a hundred like that? But I 85 00:04:32,841 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 2: guess like when you get yourself out of something like 86 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,601 Speaker 2: that and you do go into how can I help 87 00:04:37,641 --> 00:04:41,401 Speaker 2: other people do that? So that was like the stepping stone, 88 00:04:41,681 --> 00:04:42,121 Speaker 2: I think. 89 00:04:42,001 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 3: The key and like I like to make you know, 90 00:04:46,801 --> 00:04:49,481 Speaker 3: no mud, no notice, right, So I like to make 91 00:04:49,521 --> 00:04:53,801 Speaker 3: my shit into gold. That's called alchemy. So you can 92 00:04:53,961 --> 00:04:57,721 Speaker 3: make really awful experiences in your life into the best thing. 93 00:04:58,281 --> 00:04:59,761 Speaker 3: It doesn't have to be the best thing that ever 94 00:04:59,761 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 3: happened to you, but it can be a way to 95 00:05:03,041 --> 00:05:06,041 Speaker 3: pivot and to grow and be like, Okay, I'm not 96 00:05:06,041 --> 00:05:08,121 Speaker 3: going to be a victim of this because I went 97 00:05:08,161 --> 00:05:11,801 Speaker 3: into this bliss like state after that because I was free. Yes, 98 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,041 Speaker 3: and I did it, and it was yeah, Like, but 99 00:05:15,121 --> 00:05:17,121 Speaker 3: you can choose. That's the thing. You get the power 100 00:05:17,201 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 3: to choose how you respond to that whatever situation in 101 00:05:22,121 --> 00:05:22,681 Speaker 3: your life. 102 00:05:22,801 --> 00:05:24,681 Speaker 2: One hundred percent. I could not agree more. 103 00:05:25,081 --> 00:05:28,121 Speaker 3: So you went to India, went to India, became a yogi, 104 00:05:28,561 --> 00:05:32,281 Speaker 3: realized I couldn't survive off yoga, teaching three yoga classes. 105 00:05:35,001 --> 00:05:37,041 Speaker 3: I was like, shit, I was really hoping this yoga 106 00:05:37,041 --> 00:05:37,881 Speaker 3: thing would work out. 107 00:05:40,721 --> 00:05:42,481 Speaker 2: How did you get to like, how did you go 108 00:05:42,561 --> 00:05:45,041 Speaker 2: from regular yoga to naked yoga? 109 00:05:45,161 --> 00:05:48,281 Speaker 3: My god, well, I kind of so I went back 110 00:05:48,361 --> 00:05:51,161 Speaker 3: into a recruitment job. I kind of repeated some patterns, actually, 111 00:05:51,201 --> 00:05:54,281 Speaker 3: but I figured it out pretty quickly. And then I 112 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,041 Speaker 3: was starting to take on more like relationship coaching clients 113 00:05:57,041 --> 00:06:01,081 Speaker 3: because I've done a certification with Tony Robbins his institute, 114 00:06:01,401 --> 00:06:04,601 Speaker 3: and I moved to Perth actually to study sexology. So 115 00:06:04,801 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 3: my family I had kind of all migrated over there 116 00:06:07,241 --> 00:06:10,481 Speaker 3: over the years for oil and gas. They're very different to. 117 00:06:10,401 --> 00:06:13,521 Speaker 1: Me, Yeah, I are very different. 118 00:06:14,081 --> 00:06:16,201 Speaker 3: I mean I'm into crystals, like you know, from the earth. 119 00:06:16,241 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: I guess that's so true. 120 00:06:18,201 --> 00:06:22,201 Speaker 3: So I got there and moved in with a newdist 121 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:27,121 Speaker 3: actually like a little beach shack. And he just said 122 00:06:27,121 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 3: to me, Rosie, You're welcome to be naked here as 123 00:06:29,641 --> 00:06:31,281 Speaker 3: much or as little as you like. But I'm just 124 00:06:31,361 --> 00:06:35,721 Speaker 3: letting you know, I do walk around that house naked sometimes. 125 00:06:36,161 --> 00:06:38,241 Speaker 3: And he, you know what, he was just this big 126 00:06:38,281 --> 00:06:42,001 Speaker 3: ass permission slip for me to just he was like, 127 00:06:42,601 --> 00:06:45,241 Speaker 3: you can have loud sex here, like do whatever. And 128 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,121 Speaker 3: he wasn't a creep, like, he wasn't a weirdo. 129 00:06:47,361 --> 00:06:47,561 Speaker 2: Wow. 130 00:06:48,641 --> 00:06:52,481 Speaker 3: And I from that day I started doing naked yoga 131 00:06:52,481 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 3: outside of like in my backyard, and I just remember 132 00:06:56,521 --> 00:06:59,801 Speaker 3: looking down at my body and I just I didn't 133 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:02,241 Speaker 3: like the way my belly was. I like all my 134 00:07:02,361 --> 00:07:05,241 Speaker 3: like dimples and wrinkles and scars, and you know, my 135 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,361 Speaker 3: nipples were too big and my booths were too small, 136 00:07:07,401 --> 00:07:10,041 Speaker 3: and like I just could literally go to town on myself, 137 00:07:10,601 --> 00:07:12,961 Speaker 3: you know, with all the things that I hated about 138 00:07:13,001 --> 00:07:16,521 Speaker 3: my body, and then getting naked just was so natural. 139 00:07:17,361 --> 00:07:21,081 Speaker 3: It wasn't Initially it was confronting and exposing, but then 140 00:07:21,121 --> 00:07:23,361 Speaker 3: I had this like meditation and I really believe like 141 00:07:23,441 --> 00:07:26,641 Speaker 3: spirit just comes through sometimes, and it was just like this, 142 00:07:27,361 --> 00:07:29,121 Speaker 3: I just plucked it out and it was like, you 143 00:07:29,121 --> 00:07:31,761 Speaker 3: need to teach naked yoga for women to help them 144 00:07:31,801 --> 00:07:33,921 Speaker 3: love their bodies, but you need to do this first. 145 00:07:33,961 --> 00:07:36,201 Speaker 3: And so I just did it. And you know what, 146 00:07:36,281 --> 00:07:39,921 Speaker 3: every single class since then has sold out. It's just 147 00:07:39,961 --> 00:07:44,601 Speaker 3: been in flow, and I was worried no one would 148 00:07:44,641 --> 00:07:46,761 Speaker 3: show up, but it's been quite the opposite. 149 00:07:47,001 --> 00:07:47,521 Speaker 1: I guess it. 150 00:07:47,561 --> 00:07:50,841 Speaker 2: Really it is the permission slip for so many people, 151 00:07:50,881 --> 00:07:52,841 Speaker 2: because like I've been wanting to do a class for as. 152 00:07:52,841 --> 00:07:55,081 Speaker 2: I was even talking to like my producer out there 153 00:07:55,441 --> 00:07:57,201 Speaker 2: for a while and I was telling her about the 154 00:07:57,281 --> 00:08:00,241 Speaker 2: naked yoga classes and I was like, I'm like, I 155 00:08:00,281 --> 00:08:02,201 Speaker 2: really want to do one. I'm like, I know. 156 00:08:02,481 --> 00:08:04,241 Speaker 1: It would be I will be terrified. 157 00:08:04,361 --> 00:08:08,601 Speaker 2: Yeah, And like the concept of like just being naked 158 00:08:08,841 --> 00:08:11,841 Speaker 2: for starters and being naked with other women, I think 159 00:08:11,961 --> 00:08:13,641 Speaker 2: is like that's not too bad for me. Because I 160 00:08:13,641 --> 00:08:16,921 Speaker 2: grew up in an all girl household, so like seen 161 00:08:16,961 --> 00:08:19,881 Speaker 2: it all. I'm used to seeing vaginas everywhere, volvers everywhere, 162 00:08:20,401 --> 00:08:23,241 Speaker 2: but it would be me looking at me and in 163 00:08:23,321 --> 00:08:26,881 Speaker 2: like yoga positions right where I'm like the thought of 164 00:08:26,921 --> 00:08:32,881 Speaker 2: doing a downward dog and watching my like postpartum breastfeeding 165 00:08:33,601 --> 00:08:37,401 Speaker 2: tits just like literally like blowing in the wind and 166 00:08:37,481 --> 00:08:45,881 Speaker 2: seeing that I'm like das exactly how I picture it 167 00:08:45,921 --> 00:08:48,761 Speaker 2: would be. And then I look down and I seem 168 00:08:48,761 --> 00:08:51,281 Speaker 2: and then like you're looking at your flaps, you're seeing 169 00:08:51,321 --> 00:08:53,921 Speaker 2: everything at all. But that's why it's so good, That's 170 00:08:53,921 --> 00:08:56,881 Speaker 2: what I think, And because like you have to sort 171 00:08:56,881 --> 00:08:59,041 Speaker 2: of like get to this point, especially if you're seeing 172 00:08:59,081 --> 00:09:01,681 Speaker 2: yourself them, because how many people even allow them like 173 00:09:01,801 --> 00:09:02,921 Speaker 2: be naked that much. 174 00:09:03,281 --> 00:09:05,961 Speaker 3: They don't. Most people go from them shower to the 175 00:09:06,081 --> 00:09:10,281 Speaker 3: wardrobe naked and that's it, or say have sex and 176 00:09:10,281 --> 00:09:15,121 Speaker 3: they're semi naked. That there's not many times you are 177 00:09:15,241 --> 00:09:19,841 Speaker 3: naked in a non sexual or non practical setting. And 178 00:09:19,881 --> 00:09:24,401 Speaker 3: that's why I wanted to create a safe, honoring, sacred 179 00:09:24,521 --> 00:09:27,561 Speaker 3: space for women to come to candlel its. So it's 180 00:09:27,601 --> 00:09:29,721 Speaker 3: not like fluorescent lights and stuff like that. And we're 181 00:09:29,761 --> 00:09:31,561 Speaker 3: in a circle. We're not in rows, so there's no 182 00:09:31,641 --> 00:09:35,681 Speaker 3: butts in faces or anything like that because it doesn't exist. 183 00:09:36,241 --> 00:09:39,361 Speaker 3: And what the magic that happens is you sit around 184 00:09:39,401 --> 00:09:42,121 Speaker 3: this circle and you're looking. One of the first things 185 00:09:42,121 --> 00:09:44,641 Speaker 3: that I get the women to do after we've gone 186 00:09:44,681 --> 00:09:47,041 Speaker 3: through a relaxation at the start is to come back 187 00:09:47,081 --> 00:09:49,801 Speaker 3: up to the seat and open their eyes and just 188 00:09:49,841 --> 00:09:54,001 Speaker 3: look at every single woman just in their eyes around 189 00:09:54,041 --> 00:09:58,161 Speaker 3: the whole space and witness and see who they're sharing 190 00:09:58,201 --> 00:10:01,441 Speaker 3: the space with tonight. Every time, it's just like you 191 00:10:01,601 --> 00:10:04,161 Speaker 3: just feel because you're so proud of that woman across 192 00:10:04,201 --> 00:10:08,441 Speaker 3: the room. She's taken some serious fucking courage to turn 193 00:10:08,601 --> 00:10:10,081 Speaker 3: up to even just get in the car and drive 194 00:10:10,121 --> 00:10:13,241 Speaker 3: to the freaking workshop is a lot. And this is 195 00:10:13,241 --> 00:10:16,441 Speaker 3: why I always say like vulnerability is a fucking superpower, 196 00:10:16,481 --> 00:10:20,401 Speaker 3: because how much strength does it take to actually show 197 00:10:20,601 --> 00:10:23,881 Speaker 3: up to something that scares the shit out of you totally? 198 00:10:24,041 --> 00:10:26,281 Speaker 3: And then you see all these incredible women of all 199 00:10:26,361 --> 00:10:30,321 Speaker 3: shapes and sizes and ages and colors and all walks 200 00:10:30,361 --> 00:10:33,761 Speaker 3: of life, and you're like, so proud of her for 201 00:10:33,841 --> 00:10:36,001 Speaker 3: showing up. And then you realize, I've got to look 202 00:10:36,001 --> 00:10:38,361 Speaker 3: at that in me, and I see the beauty and 203 00:10:38,361 --> 00:10:39,721 Speaker 3: all these other women, I've got to look at that 204 00:10:39,801 --> 00:10:40,041 Speaker 3: in me. 205 00:10:40,841 --> 00:10:44,241 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's actually so just the recognition because 206 00:10:44,281 --> 00:10:46,641 Speaker 2: I can just imagine myself in that situation, and that 207 00:10:46,681 --> 00:10:49,481 Speaker 2: would be my first thought, is like being so proud 208 00:10:49,521 --> 00:10:52,041 Speaker 2: of all the other women, and like, you know, it's 209 00:10:52,041 --> 00:10:56,361 Speaker 2: so interesting how it's so easy to see other people 210 00:10:56,481 --> 00:10:59,521 Speaker 2: and see them in such a different way to how 211 00:10:59,561 --> 00:11:02,241 Speaker 2: they see themselves. So do you feel like you started 212 00:11:02,281 --> 00:11:04,481 Speaker 2: with the like the getting naked? How do you bring 213 00:11:04,481 --> 00:11:06,761 Speaker 2: it into eve and like your home, like you've got 214 00:11:07,121 --> 00:11:10,801 Speaker 2: like a step daughter, you've got your wife. Do you 215 00:11:10,841 --> 00:11:12,041 Speaker 2: all walk around naked? 216 00:11:12,281 --> 00:11:15,281 Speaker 3: We all walk around a lot naked? And can I 217 00:11:15,401 --> 00:11:18,681 Speaker 3: just preps this by saying I did not grow up 218 00:11:18,681 --> 00:11:21,361 Speaker 3: in a Newdas's household. I never saw my mom's boobs 219 00:11:21,441 --> 00:11:24,441 Speaker 3: or evolve, or might have remembered seeing evolverm maybe once 220 00:11:24,601 --> 00:11:27,401 Speaker 3: like yea when I was really young. Never saw my 221 00:11:27,481 --> 00:11:30,721 Speaker 3: sister naked. We were a very private family. I wasn't, 222 00:11:30,801 --> 00:11:33,241 Speaker 3: but they were very private. So it's not like a 223 00:11:33,401 --> 00:11:36,841 Speaker 3: natural like, oh, this is just my upbringing for me, 224 00:11:37,161 --> 00:11:39,281 Speaker 3: I think, well, it really does come back to that. 225 00:11:39,361 --> 00:11:41,761 Speaker 3: Bali experience with the jade egg. Because I came home 226 00:11:41,801 --> 00:11:46,721 Speaker 3: to Perth after that and I started doing Tantra workshops. 227 00:11:46,761 --> 00:11:51,041 Speaker 3: I started just exploring because I feel like you can't 228 00:11:51,081 --> 00:11:53,721 Speaker 3: explore your body, or like you can't accept and love 229 00:11:53,721 --> 00:11:57,841 Speaker 3: your body unless you fully accept it and love your sexuality. 230 00:11:57,881 --> 00:11:59,641 Speaker 3: Because it's like you just got to start down here 231 00:11:59,681 --> 00:12:03,161 Speaker 3: at the base and work your way up. And I 232 00:12:04,401 --> 00:12:07,921 Speaker 3: think it kind of goes hand in hand. Having a 233 00:12:07,961 --> 00:12:10,721 Speaker 3: sexual awakening helped me to have this naked what I 234 00:12:10,761 --> 00:12:14,641 Speaker 3: call a naked awakening where I completely, you know, fell 235 00:12:14,641 --> 00:12:17,681 Speaker 3: in love with my body. And I started at the 236 00:12:17,721 --> 00:12:21,801 Speaker 3: pussy and putting the yoni again and like channeling an 237 00:12:21,841 --> 00:12:25,121 Speaker 3: intention into my crystal egg. What do I want to feel, 238 00:12:25,121 --> 00:12:26,641 Speaker 3: what do I want to receive? What do I want 239 00:12:26,681 --> 00:12:29,281 Speaker 3: to let go? And then gently guiding that into my body. 240 00:12:30,281 --> 00:12:33,241 Speaker 3: And I did that for thirty days straight, every day, 241 00:12:33,721 --> 00:12:37,921 Speaker 3: and for me, that shifted everything. Plus you know, I 242 00:12:37,961 --> 00:12:40,681 Speaker 3: had a coach, and plus I went to Temptra workshop, 243 00:12:40,761 --> 00:12:42,441 Speaker 3: so I was moving a lot of trauma out of 244 00:12:43,321 --> 00:12:45,561 Speaker 3: my body as well, like I was holding a lot 245 00:12:45,601 --> 00:12:49,121 Speaker 3: from past traumas and experiences, because it lives in your 246 00:12:49,121 --> 00:12:52,921 Speaker 3: body until you clear it through breath, sound, movement, and touch. 247 00:12:53,201 --> 00:12:57,681 Speaker 2: Especially the womb, like that whole like that whole area, 248 00:12:58,001 --> 00:13:01,681 Speaker 2: just so much trauma gets stuck there, and not just ours, 249 00:13:01,721 --> 00:13:06,241 Speaker 2: but like generations and generations of women before us, we're 250 00:13:06,241 --> 00:13:06,841 Speaker 2: holding on to. 251 00:13:07,361 --> 00:13:09,481 Speaker 3: I came off the pill when I was twenty six, 252 00:13:09,881 --> 00:13:13,481 Speaker 3: so eleven years ago, and my periods were violent, like 253 00:13:13,641 --> 00:13:16,081 Speaker 3: just right there, she was raging at me, like, fuck 254 00:13:16,161 --> 00:13:18,641 Speaker 3: you for being on the pill. I don't know how 255 00:13:18,641 --> 00:13:21,481 Speaker 3: long it was, nearly ten years, fuck you, I'm pissed 256 00:13:21,481 --> 00:13:24,961 Speaker 3: at you. And just the pain was awful. But I 257 00:13:25,001 --> 00:13:27,601 Speaker 3: remember lying on the ground one day, just bleeding and 258 00:13:27,681 --> 00:13:31,681 Speaker 3: just in agony, and the message came through, this isn't yours, 259 00:13:32,481 --> 00:13:37,441 Speaker 3: this was my mom's and my step my grandma's. Wow, 260 00:13:37,361 --> 00:13:41,321 Speaker 3: the sexual trauma, because I hadn't had like I hadn't 261 00:13:41,321 --> 00:13:44,401 Speaker 3: had sexual trauma. I'd had sexual experiences that were definitely 262 00:13:44,441 --> 00:13:48,161 Speaker 3: not consensual or like you know, a full body yes, 263 00:13:49,041 --> 00:13:53,441 Speaker 3: but I felt like I was carrying my grandma's and 264 00:13:53,521 --> 00:13:58,361 Speaker 3: my mom's stuff, and I decided to really actively clear 265 00:13:58,401 --> 00:14:00,401 Speaker 3: that because it's not mine to carry anymore. 266 00:14:01,241 --> 00:14:04,481 Speaker 2: So have you always been, because like you've mentioned so 267 00:14:04,481 --> 00:14:08,361 Speaker 2: so much as well, like you've had this connection to 268 00:14:08,441 --> 00:14:10,721 Speaker 2: spirit You've been able to like connect in with like 269 00:14:10,881 --> 00:14:13,481 Speaker 2: what's going on? Has that been an always thing or 270 00:14:13,601 --> 00:14:18,121 Speaker 2: was that like within the like the yoga spiritual journey, like. 271 00:14:18,401 --> 00:14:22,641 Speaker 3: I think it became more attuned and louder. Yeah, doing 272 00:14:22,681 --> 00:14:26,121 Speaker 3: those yoga meditation practices in tantra and that kind of thing. 273 00:14:26,361 --> 00:14:30,241 Speaker 3: But I've always been a spiritual little soul, Like as 274 00:14:30,281 --> 00:14:33,601 Speaker 3: a little kid I was. I swear I saw Jesus once, 275 00:14:33,801 --> 00:14:36,401 Speaker 3: Like I just I don't see spirits. I don't see 276 00:14:36,441 --> 00:14:39,561 Speaker 3: souls or anything like that, but I just feel I 277 00:14:39,601 --> 00:14:42,921 Speaker 3: feel it, And yeah, it's there's definitely a channel there. 278 00:14:42,961 --> 00:14:46,121 Speaker 3: It's always been there, and it's just getting more and 279 00:14:46,121 --> 00:14:47,241 Speaker 3: more clear as I get older. 280 00:14:47,481 --> 00:14:48,041 Speaker 1: I love that. 281 00:14:48,201 --> 00:14:52,281 Speaker 2: Something I'm obsessed with is like understanding how people. 282 00:14:53,641 --> 00:14:56,041 Speaker 1: Feel here see. 283 00:14:55,801 --> 00:15:00,081 Speaker 2: Experienced spirit because especially like even the classes that I'm doing, 284 00:15:01,041 --> 00:15:04,041 Speaker 2: everything is about like it's pretty much the whole concept 285 00:15:04,121 --> 00:15:06,801 Speaker 2: is basically like, all right, let's tune into how you 286 00:15:06,841 --> 00:15:10,081 Speaker 2: are receiving this information. And because I always say, it's 287 00:15:10,201 --> 00:15:13,881 Speaker 2: like it's so obvious and not obvious at all at 288 00:15:13,921 --> 00:15:17,281 Speaker 2: the same time, because it's like exactly as you said, 289 00:15:17,321 --> 00:15:21,281 Speaker 2: it's like a feeling, right, and most people are experiencing 290 00:15:21,361 --> 00:15:24,681 Speaker 2: often just those feelings of like I just feel something 291 00:15:24,681 --> 00:15:27,281 Speaker 2: about this, or I just have this knowing about something, 292 00:15:27,481 --> 00:15:30,321 Speaker 2: or I have this like you know, They'll get like 293 00:15:30,361 --> 00:15:32,881 Speaker 2: an image or a memory or something that flashes in 294 00:15:32,921 --> 00:15:35,481 Speaker 2: their head and they have no idea that that is 295 00:15:35,601 --> 00:15:40,641 Speaker 2: like spirit or God or whoever connecting to them and going, hey, 296 00:15:40,681 --> 00:15:42,681 Speaker 2: we're trying to help you out here, like this is 297 00:15:42,761 --> 00:15:45,441 Speaker 2: that's all part of you. But instead they're. 298 00:15:45,401 --> 00:15:48,161 Speaker 1: Like, we're so used to just going, oh, I've got such. 299 00:15:47,961 --> 00:15:50,561 Speaker 2: A wild imagination. I'm not really sure which one's me, 300 00:15:50,641 --> 00:15:52,921 Speaker 2: which one's not, which is my thought, which is like 301 00:15:53,081 --> 00:15:56,921 Speaker 2: my you know, Like so I just love like hearing 302 00:15:57,681 --> 00:16:00,481 Speaker 2: how people are receiving this information. Does it feel like 303 00:16:00,521 --> 00:16:02,801 Speaker 2: a real body thing for you or like where do 304 00:16:02,841 --> 00:16:03,361 Speaker 2: you see it? 305 00:16:03,481 --> 00:16:07,761 Speaker 3: Hear it, feel it. It's definitely like a feeling, like 306 00:16:07,801 --> 00:16:11,161 Speaker 3: a knowing. But then I also just received signs. It's 307 00:16:11,241 --> 00:16:14,281 Speaker 3: like signs and symbols. The other day, I was watching 308 00:16:14,321 --> 00:16:16,761 Speaker 3: an Instagram reel and it made me cry. It was 309 00:16:16,801 --> 00:16:19,681 Speaker 3: a mum her two kids had come to surprise her 310 00:16:20,201 --> 00:16:25,841 Speaker 3: and she just burst into tears. And witnessing that, I 311 00:16:25,961 --> 00:16:28,401 Speaker 3: just burst into tears because it reminded me of my 312 00:16:28,521 --> 00:16:32,321 Speaker 3: mom and that's how she would have reacted. And I 313 00:16:32,401 --> 00:16:34,321 Speaker 3: just was in My heart was so sore and I 314 00:16:34,361 --> 00:16:37,041 Speaker 3: was crying, and I just said, please just show me 315 00:16:37,121 --> 00:16:40,241 Speaker 3: a sign that you're here with me. And I don't 316 00:16:40,241 --> 00:16:42,201 Speaker 3: ask for them very often because I already see them 317 00:16:42,241 --> 00:16:44,161 Speaker 3: and I feel her, but I just needed something. And 318 00:16:44,241 --> 00:16:48,881 Speaker 3: as I did that, this woman messaged me and it 319 00:16:49,001 --> 00:16:52,041 Speaker 3: was the same woman who a year ago i'd gone 320 00:16:52,081 --> 00:16:55,441 Speaker 3: to her sound healing six weeks after my Mamma died, 321 00:16:56,001 --> 00:17:01,081 Speaker 3: and she after the sound healing was profound, she said, 322 00:17:01,401 --> 00:17:04,761 Speaker 3: there's a very strong mother energy in this room tonight, 323 00:17:05,121 --> 00:17:06,761 Speaker 3: here with you. And I just said, yeah, I lost 324 00:17:06,761 --> 00:17:08,761 Speaker 3: my mum. It's her. And she had a message for 325 00:17:08,801 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 3: me afterwards, and she delivered this message. She just messaged 326 00:17:12,681 --> 00:17:17,761 Speaker 3: and she said she'd been feeling my mum and yeah, 327 00:17:17,801 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 3: like it was instant, like I'm not even kidding you, 328 00:17:21,120 --> 00:17:23,880 Speaker 3: bang on, second on and that's only happened to me 329 00:17:23,921 --> 00:17:28,880 Speaker 3: a few times. Like that level of like serendipity or synchronicity. 330 00:17:28,921 --> 00:17:30,561 Speaker 3: It's just like insane. 331 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 2: Where she's just like just so you know, I definitely 332 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 2: am here and around. 333 00:17:35,481 --> 00:17:37,680 Speaker 1: I love that. I love it's so beautiful to me. 334 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 2: Like I often think with loved ones when they pass, 335 00:17:42,001 --> 00:17:46,961 Speaker 2: I think it's really it's a hard concept to understand 336 00:17:47,120 --> 00:17:51,321 Speaker 2: that they can still parent us, mother us, have the 337 00:17:51,360 --> 00:17:52,521 Speaker 2: relationship with. 338 00:17:52,561 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 1: Us in the way that they did. 339 00:17:55,201 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 2: It's just that it's not physical, and which is so 340 00:17:59,961 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 2: hard because we live in a physical reality and not 341 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:07,761 Speaker 2: having them physically there is just so painful. But from 342 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 2: their perspective, they're like, I'm your mother just the same, 343 00:18:11,961 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 2: I support you just the same. If anything, They're like, 344 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:18,761 Speaker 2: I can actually help you so much now, Like from 345 00:18:19,120 --> 00:18:21,281 Speaker 2: because they're not in the human body, they don't have 346 00:18:21,360 --> 00:18:24,481 Speaker 2: the density stopping them, and they don't have old stories 347 00:18:24,521 --> 00:18:28,360 Speaker 2: that are like you know, complicating their own experience. They're 348 00:18:28,360 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 2: able to just like support you completely. 349 00:18:31,761 --> 00:18:36,481 Speaker 3: Which my mom is doing. Yes, she's like the most 350 00:18:36,481 --> 00:18:40,561 Speaker 3: incredible mum now that she could never have been. Yeah wow, 351 00:18:40,681 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 3: no human body ever. But she's giving it to me 352 00:18:46,041 --> 00:18:48,561 Speaker 3: now and a really I know that sounds just so strange, 353 00:18:48,721 --> 00:18:52,161 Speaker 3: but she's really with me, No, she calms me. 354 00:18:52,481 --> 00:18:55,961 Speaker 2: Mm yeah, I mean as a medium that makes complete sense. 355 00:18:56,001 --> 00:18:58,561 Speaker 2: And I've like connected to your mum and everything before, 356 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,561 Speaker 2: and she is like she is that very She even 357 00:19:01,561 --> 00:19:04,400 Speaker 2: before she just kepts it mentioning something like something white 358 00:19:04,561 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 2: when you are like talking about like sign she's like 359 00:19:07,360 --> 00:19:11,161 Speaker 2: something white, like a white something that she'll like show 360 00:19:11,201 --> 00:19:12,561 Speaker 2: you that she's around. 361 00:19:12,681 --> 00:19:16,201 Speaker 3: Wow, or a white dress yesterday. I just I don't 362 00:19:16,201 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 3: know who knows. 363 00:19:17,961 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 2: But going back to sort of like the connecting with 364 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:27,360 Speaker 2: your self sexually and like really intertwining that sort of 365 00:19:27,441 --> 00:19:31,561 Speaker 2: spiritual side, I mean something that I think even within 366 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 2: my own journey as someone who's like experienced a lot 367 00:19:34,721 --> 00:19:38,321 Speaker 2: of sexual trauma, I realized for me, I was like 368 00:19:38,360 --> 00:19:42,041 Speaker 2: basically dead from like the neck down and that. And 369 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:45,561 Speaker 2: I don't I don't think like that's a unique experience. 370 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 2: I think most women, you know, growing up being completely 371 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:53,521 Speaker 2: disconnected to our cycles, being like there was so much 372 00:19:53,521 --> 00:19:57,801 Speaker 2: shame around everything, Like everything was embarrassing. Having a like 373 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:01,001 Speaker 2: having evolval was embarrassing, how it looked was embarrassing. Having 374 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 2: it harry was embarrassing. Not knowing, like having a period 375 00:20:05,201 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 2: was embarrassing, using a tampon, having like having a boyfriend 376 00:20:09,041 --> 00:20:12,321 Speaker 2: or whatever and getting your period and like not being 377 00:20:12,360 --> 00:20:14,361 Speaker 2: able to have sex with them or whatever was like 378 00:20:14,481 --> 00:20:20,041 Speaker 2: everything about being a woman was basically embarrassing and shameful, 379 00:20:20,321 --> 00:20:24,761 Speaker 2: and I think like so many women still are like 380 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 2: really trying to move through those layers and layers and 381 00:20:29,001 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 2: layers and layers of shame, and not just theirs, but 382 00:20:32,241 --> 00:20:35,561 Speaker 2: exactly as you said before, like when you're you had 383 00:20:35,561 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 2: that realization that it wasn't just yours, but it was 384 00:20:39,561 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 2: like your mum's and your grandmother's, and like it's just 385 00:20:43,801 --> 00:20:48,761 Speaker 2: so huge what we're doing. How do you think for 386 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 2: people I guess listening to this who were like like 387 00:20:51,801 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 2: where would I like, where do I even start? You know, like, 388 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,120 Speaker 2: what what do you think is like that journey? I 389 00:20:58,120 --> 00:21:00,801 Speaker 2: guess you know you've spoken about the like the being 390 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,561 Speaker 2: naked and like just being okay with that, and then 391 00:21:03,721 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 2: the egg and then the movie. Think through all of 392 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:09,001 Speaker 2: those things, what do you think is the process? 393 00:21:10,481 --> 00:21:13,721 Speaker 3: It's a long one, it's a hefty one, but it's 394 00:21:13,801 --> 00:21:17,161 Speaker 3: never too late, That's what I want to say. And 395 00:21:18,001 --> 00:21:21,721 Speaker 3: you know, we are all tarnished and painted with this 396 00:21:21,761 --> 00:21:26,041 Speaker 3: good girl syndrome that is kind of imposed and inflicted 397 00:21:26,041 --> 00:21:29,001 Speaker 3: on us from such a young age, and we're meant 398 00:21:29,041 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 3: to be this good little girl until we get married, 399 00:21:32,041 --> 00:21:33,640 Speaker 3: and then we're meant to just all like you know, 400 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:35,921 Speaker 3: find a partner and then we're meant to be sexually 401 00:21:35,921 --> 00:21:40,241 Speaker 3: embodied and like multi orgasmic. And what I'm interested in 402 00:21:40,281 --> 00:21:42,921 Speaker 3: is bridging that gap. And like, you know, we've been 403 00:21:42,921 --> 00:21:45,001 Speaker 3: told to be this good little girl and push it 404 00:21:45,041 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 3: all down, don't touch yourvolva, don't do this, don't do that, 405 00:21:47,961 --> 00:21:50,241 Speaker 3: don't have sex before marriage. Like I had so much 406 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,881 Speaker 3: sexual shame and guilt from having sex before marriage because 407 00:21:53,921 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 3: I went to a really Christian boarding school and I 408 00:21:59,281 --> 00:22:01,400 Speaker 3: only let that go when I was twenty six, Like 409 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 3: I was carrying it for some time. And yeah, so 410 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 3: it's never too late and you can start now. And 411 00:22:08,321 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 3: it's honestly just a matter of like like starting to 412 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:16,321 Speaker 3: build a relationship with your yoni. Youoni just mean sacred 413 00:22:16,321 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 3: space in Indian Sanskrit. So if anyone's like, what does 414 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 3: yoni mean? Some people call me yoni, it's not but 415 00:22:22,961 --> 00:22:23,641 Speaker 3: I'll take it. 416 00:22:23,921 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 1: I love it. 417 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,721 Speaker 3: Gyang was recognized in a Burly store the other day 418 00:22:29,761 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 3: and she's like, are you the yonie lady? 419 00:22:31,921 --> 00:22:34,281 Speaker 1: And I was like, yes, I'll take it. 420 00:22:34,321 --> 00:22:39,241 Speaker 3: I'll be the lady, the nie queen. So just starting 421 00:22:39,281 --> 00:22:42,441 Speaker 3: to build a relationship with your pussy in a way, 422 00:22:42,481 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 3: that's non initially non sexual, And that's what I love 423 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,961 Speaker 3: about the Yoni egg is it's not a sexual practice. Like, yes, 424 00:22:47,961 --> 00:22:51,801 Speaker 3: it can be, but really it's just about touching your volver, 425 00:22:52,201 --> 00:22:56,481 Speaker 3: your vagina and connecting with her. And actually, like sometimes 426 00:22:56,481 --> 00:22:58,521 Speaker 3: in my client sessions, I'll just get the women to 427 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:04,241 Speaker 3: cup their vulver and listen because she has a voice, right, 428 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 3: just like you have your mind for your brain voice, 429 00:23:07,360 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 3: you have your heart voice or like a heart intelligence, 430 00:23:10,241 --> 00:23:14,801 Speaker 3: you have your womb and pussy intelligence, and she's just 431 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 3: waiting there for you to connect with her with that 432 00:23:18,241 --> 00:23:20,640 Speaker 3: part of the body, and she'll tell you. Like you 433 00:23:20,681 --> 00:23:24,521 Speaker 3: can just ask her what do you need or how 434 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:28,321 Speaker 3: do you feel today? Or you know, what do you 435 00:23:28,360 --> 00:23:31,001 Speaker 3: need to let go? What are you holding? Sometimes it 436 00:23:31,041 --> 00:23:33,521 Speaker 3: helps to have a guide someone asking you these questions 437 00:23:33,521 --> 00:23:35,041 Speaker 3: so you can kind of get out of your head. 438 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:40,041 Speaker 3: But there might be a sexual abuse experience that is 439 00:23:40,120 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 3: kind of just stored in there energetically. There might be 440 00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:48,521 Speaker 3: at a surgery or an operation or an abortion that 441 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:53,400 Speaker 3: has kind of left a residue of trauma on or 442 00:23:53,441 --> 00:23:58,241 Speaker 3: imprint on that space on your cervix. Then could be anything, Honestly, 443 00:23:58,241 --> 00:24:00,360 Speaker 3: it could be that one time you're with your boyfriend 444 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,761 Speaker 3: or your partner and you had sex when you weren't 445 00:24:02,801 --> 00:24:05,001 Speaker 3: quite ready and it wasn't a fuck yes, and you're 446 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,360 Speaker 3: only shut down, or maybe someone commented negatively on that 447 00:24:08,441 --> 00:24:11,281 Speaker 3: part of your body and you've just held onto it 448 00:24:11,321 --> 00:24:14,761 Speaker 3: and thought, Okay, never showing my pussy to anyone ever again. 449 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,281 Speaker 3: Or I'm not having sex with the lights on, or 450 00:24:16,281 --> 00:24:19,001 Speaker 3: whatever it is. But I do think we need to 451 00:24:19,441 --> 00:24:23,841 Speaker 3: go down there and listen and create a relationship and 452 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,761 Speaker 3: honor your boundaries and start saying no if you know, 453 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:28,921 Speaker 3: start knowing what your yeses are and what your nose 454 00:24:29,001 --> 00:24:32,001 Speaker 3: are and write them down, you know, what is it 455 00:24:32,120 --> 00:24:35,681 Speaker 3: yes and what is a no? And then finding out 456 00:24:35,681 --> 00:24:38,641 Speaker 3: where she's at. And it's totally possible to clear trauma, 457 00:24:39,001 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 3: because that's the biggest block to pleasure that I find 458 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:47,881 Speaker 3: in a lot of women, my followers, my clients, is 459 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,961 Speaker 3: they're still holding and harboring something bad that's happened to them. 460 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:56,041 Speaker 3: And you can you have the power to clear that 461 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,400 Speaker 3: and release that from your body and that doesn't have 462 00:24:58,441 --> 00:25:01,241 Speaker 3: to be your story, and you can become multi orgasmic 463 00:25:01,521 --> 00:25:07,881 Speaker 3: and you know, pleasure filled from releasing that without even 464 00:25:07,961 --> 00:25:10,681 Speaker 3: you don't even need to necessarily go back into it. 465 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 3: But also you know, being in fight or flight, being 466 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,681 Speaker 3: in survival mode, not being in alignment, there's so many 467 00:25:16,721 --> 00:25:20,160 Speaker 3: blocks to pleasure totally even like just as you were 468 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 3: saying that, like even just like women's specially inability or 469 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:31,321 Speaker 3: discomfort when it comes to just receiving in general, like. 470 00:25:31,241 --> 00:25:33,400 Speaker 2: I know, even for me, like TMI for everyone, but 471 00:25:33,561 --> 00:25:36,241 Speaker 2: fuck it, Like I still find it hard if I've 472 00:25:37,321 --> 00:25:40,321 Speaker 2: orgasmed when we're having sex and he's going in again 473 00:25:40,481 --> 00:25:43,920 Speaker 2: to like get another one out, I literally straightway go 474 00:25:44,001 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 2: into like, oh, there's no way that I could possibly 475 00:25:46,241 --> 00:25:49,281 Speaker 2: like it. Just there's so much that comes up with 476 00:25:49,360 --> 00:25:51,241 Speaker 2: like that's too much receiving. 477 00:25:51,241 --> 00:25:53,041 Speaker 1: Like there has to be like a give and take. 478 00:25:53,001 --> 00:25:55,880 Speaker 2: Here, Like I can't just possibly just receive and receive 479 00:25:55,961 --> 00:26:00,001 Speaker 2: and receive and receive, you know, so indulgent, right, And 480 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:05,881 Speaker 2: it's actually amazing how much exploring your sexuals and as 481 00:26:05,921 --> 00:26:09,561 Speaker 2: you say, like actually figuring out what like if you 482 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 2: are uncomfortable with seeing yourself touching yourself, allowing yourself pleasure like. 483 00:26:15,201 --> 00:26:18,241 Speaker 1: The wise is like so wild. 484 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,360 Speaker 2: You learn a lot about yourself when it comes to 485 00:26:21,360 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 2: you even like even when it comes to just sex 486 00:26:24,561 --> 00:26:27,721 Speaker 2: with another person, Like, why do you struggle with saying 487 00:26:27,801 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 2: no when something gets right? Why do you struggle like 488 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:35,361 Speaker 2: speaking up when you want something? Like so many things 489 00:26:35,481 --> 00:26:39,521 Speaker 2: you can find out about yourself in those situations. 490 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 3: Absolutely, And it's you know, the voice. I love that 491 00:26:42,481 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 3: you brought up the voice connection because you know, I 492 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,640 Speaker 3: always say, like, your throat is quite close to your heart, 493 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,521 Speaker 3: so it's easy to speak from the heart end to 494 00:26:50,561 --> 00:26:52,561 Speaker 3: the head. It's like quite close. You can speak your mind, 495 00:26:52,561 --> 00:26:54,641 Speaker 3: you can speak your heart, but it's a long distance 496 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:55,561 Speaker 3: from pussy to throat. 497 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,241 Speaker 1: It is a long distance. 498 00:26:57,281 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 3: And so and I feel like sometimes for me in 499 00:26:59,481 --> 00:27:01,521 Speaker 3: the past, I couldn't speak up. 500 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:02,681 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I. 501 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,321 Speaker 3: Still have days where I'm like, I can. I amruggling 502 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,281 Speaker 3: to say what I need right now because it kind 503 00:27:07,281 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 3: of gets jumbled on. It's like there's this like you know, 504 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,281 Speaker 3: interference on the way up. I'm like, oh my god, 505 00:27:12,321 --> 00:27:14,880 Speaker 3: I need to say this thing. But sometimes it's so 506 00:27:15,201 --> 00:27:18,360 Speaker 3: hard to speak your what your yoni needs or wants 507 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 3: or fears or desires. Yeah, And so I do recommend 508 00:27:22,120 --> 00:27:25,281 Speaker 3: doing it outside the bedroom. Yeah, So for being intimate 509 00:27:25,281 --> 00:27:27,561 Speaker 3: and near, like halfway through having sex, or putting a coon, 510 00:27:27,761 --> 00:27:31,321 Speaker 3: whatever you're doing. Maybe just first it's like speak out, 511 00:27:31,481 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 3: speak those fears out loud, speak those desires out loud, 512 00:27:35,201 --> 00:27:39,321 Speaker 3: and yeah, start to build and fine tune that connection 513 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,561 Speaker 3: from pussy to voice, because your pussy needs is relying 514 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,121 Speaker 3: on your voice to speak up for her. 515 00:27:44,681 --> 00:27:46,761 Speaker 1: Yeah, just because she's got lips, she can't talk, She 516 00:27:46,761 --> 00:27:51,081 Speaker 1: can't talk exactly. You need to give her that voice. 517 00:27:51,281 --> 00:27:54,720 Speaker 1: Got to use your others, your lips. And it's hard, 518 00:27:54,921 --> 00:27:57,761 Speaker 1: it's so hard really plain. 519 00:27:57,921 --> 00:28:00,360 Speaker 3: Your fantasy or tell them no, a little to the 520 00:28:00,441 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 3: left or whatever. And I'm still like, I'm always on 521 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 3: this journey, you know, I'm always constantly growing, always a 522 00:28:06,961 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 3: student of this work. But yeah, so speaking up for 523 00:28:11,521 --> 00:28:16,801 Speaker 3: your volver and learning what she needs is so important. 524 00:28:17,001 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 3: And that starts honestly with self pleasure, with masturbation, Like 525 00:28:21,281 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 3: it is important to be able to have these experiences 526 00:28:23,961 --> 00:28:29,281 Speaker 3: with a partner, but start here with yourself, Like, just 527 00:28:29,321 --> 00:28:31,201 Speaker 3: sit in front of a mirror and start to look 528 00:28:31,201 --> 00:28:33,881 Speaker 3: at your yoni that if that's anything that you can 529 00:28:34,120 --> 00:28:36,400 Speaker 3: you know, that's quite achievable. You know, it's scary and 530 00:28:36,441 --> 00:28:39,321 Speaker 3: it's a lot, but just opening your legs and gazing 531 00:28:39,321 --> 00:28:41,201 Speaker 3: at your yoni after you get out of the bath 532 00:28:41,241 --> 00:28:45,161 Speaker 3: of the shower and just witnessing, maybe put on one song, 533 00:28:45,241 --> 00:28:50,361 Speaker 3: one track three minutes brief with her and notice what 534 00:28:50,401 --> 00:28:54,121 Speaker 3: you see, the colors, the textures, the shape, how big 535 00:28:54,161 --> 00:28:57,721 Speaker 3: you're or little your glitteris, is which side's a little fuller? 536 00:28:58,081 --> 00:29:00,281 Speaker 3: You know. Just start to witness and just be like 537 00:29:00,361 --> 00:29:03,041 Speaker 3: and start to greet her, like meet her, give your 538 00:29:03,081 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 3: a name if you want connect. 539 00:29:05,961 --> 00:29:09,241 Speaker 2: I mean, like, I've literally never looked at my vulva 540 00:29:09,401 --> 00:29:13,121 Speaker 2: like that ever, and so like the thought of and 541 00:29:13,361 --> 00:29:15,321 Speaker 2: like I just even just had that real I'm like, 542 00:29:15,361 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 2: I've had my body for almost thirty three years and 543 00:29:19,281 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 2: I've never like looked, like actually fully looked at my 544 00:29:23,561 --> 00:29:27,041 Speaker 2: vulva because like I feel like it would be so 545 00:29:27,281 --> 00:29:31,001 Speaker 2: confronting because you have like I can just imagine if 546 00:29:31,161 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 2: if I was doing that, and I'm going to challenge myself. 547 00:29:33,481 --> 00:29:34,161 Speaker 2: I'm going to do it. 548 00:29:35,041 --> 00:29:38,641 Speaker 3: But yes you are, and everyone who is watching or 549 00:29:38,681 --> 00:29:42,481 Speaker 3: listening you are doing. Yes, we need to loving you accountable. 550 00:29:42,641 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 2: Yes, our challenge is to is to is to legs 551 00:29:46,201 --> 00:29:48,201 Speaker 2: open in front of the mirror, look at our. 552 00:29:48,121 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 3: Wad a ceiling mirror or just get a mirror that 553 00:29:50,321 --> 00:29:52,921 Speaker 3: you can put on the floor. Yeah, yet big about that, 554 00:29:53,481 --> 00:29:56,041 Speaker 3: because that's yours and that's your temple space. That's a 555 00:29:56,081 --> 00:29:58,841 Speaker 3: space you can go to to gaze at your Yoni, 556 00:29:59,481 --> 00:30:03,081 Speaker 3: gaze with like loving like imagine like a really beautiful, soft, loving, 557 00:30:03,201 --> 00:30:08,721 Speaker 3: nurturing gaze, you know, rather than make that critiquey yes, okay, yoh, 558 00:30:09,361 --> 00:30:12,441 Speaker 3: and just and touch her slowly and gently, maybe put 559 00:30:12,521 --> 00:30:15,281 Speaker 3: some oil, ask her what she wants, because she she's 560 00:30:15,721 --> 00:30:18,441 Speaker 3: got a mind of her own, right, she'll tell you. 561 00:30:19,241 --> 00:30:21,721 Speaker 2: And then when do you start so obviously like you've 562 00:30:21,721 --> 00:30:26,401 Speaker 2: built this empire of like amazing sex toys, which I 563 00:30:27,201 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 2: own a fair few of, and I love them so much, 564 00:30:30,841 --> 00:30:33,521 Speaker 2: so do so do my my children? 565 00:30:33,761 --> 00:30:36,801 Speaker 3: Oh for the reason yeah. 566 00:30:36,601 --> 00:30:39,001 Speaker 2: And not for very different reasons, because it doesn't matter 567 00:30:39,321 --> 00:30:42,081 Speaker 2: how many times I change what draw Actually I don't. 568 00:30:41,961 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 3: Even because like I'm like, I still find them. They're pretty, 569 00:30:44,721 --> 00:30:45,321 Speaker 3: they're shiny. 570 00:30:45,561 --> 00:30:48,681 Speaker 2: Literally, My son is so funny. He's going to be 571 00:30:48,721 --> 00:30:51,361 Speaker 2: listening to this one day when he's like, you know, sixteen, 572 00:30:51,361 --> 00:30:54,121 Speaker 2: and I'm telling him about it, but he literally is 573 00:30:54,201 --> 00:30:57,881 Speaker 2: obsessed with the is it called the octopussy and just 574 00:30:57,921 --> 00:31:00,721 Speaker 2: the word itself. It's so funny, my five year old 575 00:31:00,801 --> 00:31:03,881 Speaker 2: is obsessed with my octopussy. 576 00:31:04,201 --> 00:31:06,081 Speaker 1: Because he loves crystals. 577 00:31:06,121 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 2: He loves my crystal so much, and he's always like, oh, Mummy, 578 00:31:09,761 --> 00:31:13,441 Speaker 2: my favorite crystal is your seahorse octopus one. 579 00:31:15,961 --> 00:31:18,641 Speaker 3: And that one's not even crystal, that's glass. But there's 580 00:31:18,721 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 3: you know, same, same, a little bit different. But yeah, 581 00:31:22,721 --> 00:31:25,321 Speaker 3: kids are just so they just they're fascinated by them, 582 00:31:25,401 --> 00:31:27,801 Speaker 3: and like, you know, sometimes I get mums being like, 583 00:31:27,841 --> 00:31:30,001 Speaker 3: why do you leave you know, your dildos lying around 584 00:31:30,081 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 3: because they're fucking art and kids don't think like that, 585 00:31:33,201 --> 00:31:36,001 Speaker 3: and like and often the ones around my house haven't 586 00:31:36,041 --> 00:31:39,321 Speaker 3: really like they're just displays or they're samples or something. 587 00:31:39,801 --> 00:31:42,201 Speaker 3: And so they're beautiful. They are things that you could 588 00:31:42,241 --> 00:31:46,641 Speaker 3: put on the mantlepiece. They're crystal, you know, gorgeous specimens 589 00:31:46,681 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 3: that you can use internally. And a lot of people say, 590 00:31:50,521 --> 00:31:52,200 Speaker 3: you know, why why are you so big on glass 591 00:31:52,201 --> 00:31:56,641 Speaker 3: and crystal? For me, like, I'd use silicon vibrators for 592 00:31:56,681 --> 00:32:00,121 Speaker 3: five years before realizing that I really wanted to try 593 00:32:00,121 --> 00:32:03,801 Speaker 3: something different. There's when you use them, they're so sleek 594 00:32:04,441 --> 00:32:07,041 Speaker 3: and they just especially when they're warmed up and you 595 00:32:07,161 --> 00:32:10,481 Speaker 3: put some lubricant on there. It just glides in and 596 00:32:10,521 --> 00:32:13,761 Speaker 3: it's like there's no resistance, there's no gripping, and it 597 00:32:13,961 --> 00:32:18,041 Speaker 3: just it's so smooth and you can really stimulate your 598 00:32:18,121 --> 00:32:20,681 Speaker 3: aerogenis so it's like your g spot and your cervix. 599 00:32:21,321 --> 00:32:24,561 Speaker 3: Using them, it's just a whole different experience. And obviously 600 00:32:24,561 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 3: if they're crystal, you can put an energy, like an 601 00:32:26,521 --> 00:32:29,201 Speaker 3: attention into it as well. What do you love about them? 602 00:32:29,481 --> 00:32:32,081 Speaker 2: Well that and I think like I even learned from you, 603 00:32:32,121 --> 00:32:33,681 Speaker 2: and this is what I want to talk about as well, 604 00:32:33,801 --> 00:32:36,121 Speaker 2: is like the difference between not the difference, but I 605 00:32:36,121 --> 00:32:42,401 Speaker 2: guess using a vibrator versus say, like using a crystal 606 00:32:42,481 --> 00:32:46,241 Speaker 2: or glass wand and because you know I always was 607 00:32:46,361 --> 00:32:50,841 Speaker 2: just had the like the sucky vibrating thingy, and that 608 00:32:50,961 --> 00:32:52,321 Speaker 2: gets you off pretty quick. 609 00:32:52,441 --> 00:32:54,881 Speaker 1: It does the job. You get in, you get out. 610 00:32:56,161 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 2: You know, it's effective, it's effective, it knows how to 611 00:32:59,481 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 2: do its job. And then versus and you must have 612 00:33:03,521 --> 00:33:07,401 Speaker 2: been speaking about this one time and about like you know, 613 00:33:07,761 --> 00:33:11,521 Speaker 2: having something that it's like it's just the tool basically, 614 00:33:11,681 --> 00:33:14,561 Speaker 2: and then you're really doing it really gives you an 615 00:33:14,561 --> 00:33:19,041 Speaker 2: opportunity to actually fully explore yourself. And for me, what 616 00:33:19,081 --> 00:33:23,401 Speaker 2: I really like about the wands is because it gave 617 00:33:23,481 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 2: me a chance to explore the inside of myself. And like, 618 00:33:27,281 --> 00:33:29,841 Speaker 2: because you know, people are like the g spot that this, 619 00:33:30,201 --> 00:33:34,881 Speaker 2: that that, and it's like everyone outside looks different, but 620 00:33:34,961 --> 00:33:37,961 Speaker 2: I feel like everyone inside is all very different too, 621 00:33:38,081 --> 00:33:40,321 Speaker 2: And I'm like, I need, like, you know, a Google 622 00:33:40,361 --> 00:33:43,641 Speaker 2: Maps to give me a description of what's going on 623 00:33:43,721 --> 00:33:46,121 Speaker 2: and where everything is, and like, you know, like I 624 00:33:46,161 --> 00:33:50,641 Speaker 2: need like a GPS up there. And because even like 625 00:33:50,721 --> 00:33:53,561 Speaker 2: being pregnant was such a that taught me a lot 626 00:33:53,601 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 2: about because they would be like, oh, your cervix is this, 627 00:33:57,561 --> 00:33:58,681 Speaker 2: or your vaginal. 628 00:33:58,281 --> 00:34:01,321 Speaker 3: Wallp you never think about your slave you get pregnant. 629 00:34:01,521 --> 00:34:03,201 Speaker 1: Literally, I know when you're hearing all this. 630 00:34:03,081 --> 00:34:04,881 Speaker 2: Stuff and I'm like, what do you I'm like, can 631 00:34:04,921 --> 00:34:07,361 Speaker 2: you while you're there telling me that I've got like 632 00:34:07,401 --> 00:34:10,161 Speaker 2: a collapsed vaginal wall or it's lazy or it's something 633 00:34:10,241 --> 00:34:11,561 Speaker 2: or other, can. 634 00:34:11,401 --> 00:34:13,721 Speaker 1: You take a picture? Can you tell me like what 635 00:34:13,761 --> 00:34:14,521 Speaker 1: that fucking means? 636 00:34:14,521 --> 00:34:16,441 Speaker 3: I have a wand for that. It's called the Polar 637 00:34:16,481 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 3: Wand and it's got a camera on the end. What 638 00:34:19,201 --> 00:34:21,601 Speaker 3: I'm not even joking. You brought it out last year. 639 00:34:21,641 --> 00:34:23,561 Speaker 3: It's got like this glass end with a camera and 640 00:34:23,601 --> 00:34:25,721 Speaker 3: a light and you put it inside you and you 641 00:34:25,761 --> 00:34:28,961 Speaker 3: can look at your cervix because my partner and I 642 00:34:29,121 --> 00:34:32,841 Speaker 3: we obviously both have cervixes, and they look completely different. 643 00:34:32,881 --> 00:34:35,441 Speaker 3: Ashes had a baby, so the cervix is a lot 644 00:34:35,481 --> 00:34:37,881 Speaker 3: bigger and mine is like it's tiny, little one because 645 00:34:37,881 --> 00:34:40,761 Speaker 3: I haven't had a baby yet. So it's really interesting 646 00:34:40,801 --> 00:34:43,361 Speaker 3: to look at your cervix. And I feel like, because 647 00:34:43,801 --> 00:34:47,921 Speaker 3: the polar one isn't for self diagnosing or anything like that. 648 00:34:48,161 --> 00:34:51,601 Speaker 3: It is just for looking and feeling and understanding and 649 00:34:51,681 --> 00:34:54,721 Speaker 3: navigating your pussy because you don't know what it looks like. No, 650 00:34:55,321 --> 00:34:57,401 Speaker 3: but the cervix is like the deepest part of your 651 00:34:57,401 --> 00:34:59,001 Speaker 3: body other than like the back of your throat. I 652 00:34:59,001 --> 00:35:02,241 Speaker 3: guess that you can feel in touch and potentially see. 653 00:35:02,281 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 3: And I feel like a lot of women have had 654 00:35:05,561 --> 00:35:08,801 Speaker 3: cancerous cells there and trauma there, and it gets poked 655 00:35:08,801 --> 00:35:10,841 Speaker 3: and prodded and you know, scraped and this and that, 656 00:35:10,881 --> 00:35:14,441 Speaker 3: and it's like, how can we resensitize this. This is 657 00:35:14,521 --> 00:35:17,121 Speaker 3: another thing that I'm really interested in, is civical deamoring 658 00:35:17,441 --> 00:35:20,961 Speaker 3: vaginal deamoring, because a lot of women hold tension and 659 00:35:21,081 --> 00:35:24,321 Speaker 3: pain and negative experiences in that place in their body, 660 00:35:24,681 --> 00:35:27,081 Speaker 3: especially if they've had birth trauma or anything like that. 661 00:35:28,121 --> 00:35:32,201 Speaker 3: So yeah, really acquainting yourself with that part of your 662 00:35:32,201 --> 00:35:35,921 Speaker 3: body is just amazing. And I've been able to because 663 00:35:35,921 --> 00:35:38,321 Speaker 3: I was addicted to my vibrator and I thought I 664 00:35:38,361 --> 00:35:42,561 Speaker 3: needed it to climax basically, And when I started using 665 00:35:42,601 --> 00:35:47,601 Speaker 3: the Yoni egg my inside my pussy just woke up. 666 00:35:48,001 --> 00:35:50,841 Speaker 3: I think before that, and it just woke up. And 667 00:35:50,881 --> 00:35:54,321 Speaker 3: I swear to God, my vagina or my you know, 668 00:35:54,361 --> 00:35:57,481 Speaker 3: and all the eurogenous zones within it is just as 669 00:35:58,241 --> 00:36:02,121 Speaker 3: what's the word. There's just as much erectile tissue in 670 00:36:02,121 --> 00:36:03,961 Speaker 3: there as there is on my clip. It just feels 671 00:36:04,001 --> 00:36:07,041 Speaker 3: like an extension of my clitterists. And in a way 672 00:36:07,081 --> 00:36:10,441 Speaker 3: it is because the clitorist is just like the bulb 673 00:36:11,161 --> 00:36:14,001 Speaker 3: the gland, and then there's legs and bulbs that extend 674 00:36:14,641 --> 00:36:17,881 Speaker 3: through the g spot and like the urethral sponge, and 675 00:36:17,921 --> 00:36:20,601 Speaker 3: so it's all within as well. But you know where 676 00:36:20,721 --> 00:36:23,521 Speaker 3: attention goes or where energy goes attention? What is it 677 00:36:23,561 --> 00:36:26,641 Speaker 3: when attention goes, energy flows? So if you are bringing 678 00:36:26,681 --> 00:36:31,401 Speaker 3: more attention to your internal vaginal passage, it is going 679 00:36:31,481 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 3: to start to light up. It is going to start 680 00:36:33,521 --> 00:36:37,001 Speaker 3: to be more orgasmic because you're bringing attention and energy there. 681 00:36:37,841 --> 00:36:39,801 Speaker 3: So many women come to me saying I'm just you know, 682 00:36:39,881 --> 00:36:42,521 Speaker 3: not feeling anything inside me. I'm like, well, what are you? 683 00:36:43,121 --> 00:36:45,561 Speaker 3: How are you touching that space? How are you bringing 684 00:36:45,641 --> 00:36:48,881 Speaker 3: presence and aliveness to that space? Because a penis or 685 00:36:48,921 --> 00:36:51,761 Speaker 3: a dildo just sliding in and out is not going 686 00:36:51,801 --> 00:36:53,961 Speaker 3: to do too much. Sometimes, having a little bit of 687 00:36:54,321 --> 00:36:58,121 Speaker 3: you know, massage using fingers, or the cervic serpent pleasure 688 00:36:58,161 --> 00:36:59,721 Speaker 3: one which is a really long one that you can 689 00:36:59,801 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 3: kind of need in there. 690 00:37:01,481 --> 00:37:03,361 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I've got that one too, that. 691 00:37:03,241 --> 00:37:04,401 Speaker 3: Can help to release it. 692 00:37:04,601 --> 00:37:07,761 Speaker 2: Yeah, the needing the like I was like, oh yeah, no, 693 00:37:07,841 --> 00:37:13,121 Speaker 2: I feel that sounds familiar. So the diamoring, So is 694 00:37:13,121 --> 00:37:16,241 Speaker 2: that what that is like when you speak about like deamoring, 695 00:37:16,521 --> 00:37:17,921 Speaker 2: like the cervix and stuff. 696 00:37:18,041 --> 00:37:22,721 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Well, dearmoring is essentially massaging or if you 697 00:37:22,761 --> 00:37:26,201 Speaker 3: think about armor, we can hold armor in any part 698 00:37:26,201 --> 00:37:29,841 Speaker 3: of our body really, as you were, usually holding armor 699 00:37:30,001 --> 00:37:33,241 Speaker 3: around a space that we've been hurt or that we've 700 00:37:33,281 --> 00:37:35,561 Speaker 3: experienced pain. So a lot of women all feel it 701 00:37:35,561 --> 00:37:38,801 Speaker 3: around their heart space. And that's why I teach breast 702 00:37:38,801 --> 00:37:41,561 Speaker 3: massage as well, but also the pussy. You know, if 703 00:37:41,601 --> 00:37:46,121 Speaker 3: you've had negative experiences in the bedroom, you can hold 704 00:37:46,161 --> 00:37:49,761 Speaker 3: that energy in there, and so dearmoring is literally a 705 00:37:49,801 --> 00:37:59,081 Speaker 3: process of massaging, pressing, tapping, holding, breathing, sounding, and moving 706 00:37:59,121 --> 00:38:01,921 Speaker 3: and letting that be released. I remember getting a y 707 00:38:01,961 --> 00:38:05,201 Speaker 3: only massage once and he I haven't had it with 708 00:38:05,241 --> 00:38:07,761 Speaker 3: many male practitioners, but he was one of them that 709 00:38:07,801 --> 00:38:10,601 Speaker 3: I had, and he was very good and he I 710 00:38:10,641 --> 00:38:13,481 Speaker 3: remember him pressing because it's a very gentle process and 711 00:38:13,521 --> 00:38:17,481 Speaker 3: it's not it's not necessarily a sexual experience. It's healing. 712 00:38:18,041 --> 00:38:20,921 Speaker 3: And we have a whole YEARNY massage directory of people 713 00:38:20,921 --> 00:38:24,521 Speaker 3: in Australia that we promote and recommend because it's a 714 00:38:24,601 --> 00:38:27,481 Speaker 3: it's a crazy world out there. Yeah, and he pressed 715 00:38:27,481 --> 00:38:31,041 Speaker 3: on a spot inside my vagina and it was really 716 00:38:31,201 --> 00:38:33,481 Speaker 3: unlike I wasn't prepared for it, to be honest, and 717 00:38:33,521 --> 00:38:38,761 Speaker 3: my whole body started shuddering and shaking and completely uncontrollable. 718 00:38:39,081 --> 00:38:41,481 Speaker 3: I wasn't even crying, I wasn't laughing, I wasn't there was. 719 00:38:41,641 --> 00:38:44,681 Speaker 3: It was just my body was almost like a wounded 720 00:38:44,721 --> 00:38:50,121 Speaker 3: animal that was shaking off something that he just tapped 721 00:38:50,121 --> 00:38:54,401 Speaker 3: onto you just pressed. It wasn't orgasmic, it wasn't painful, 722 00:38:54,721 --> 00:38:59,041 Speaker 3: It was just my body was leaving something and releasing something. 723 00:38:59,361 --> 00:39:01,841 Speaker 2: Wow, a full metabolizing Yeah. 724 00:39:02,281 --> 00:39:03,921 Speaker 3: But you can do that to yourself. You don't need 725 00:39:03,961 --> 00:39:06,641 Speaker 3: a you ony practicition. Know, it's great to try that 726 00:39:06,721 --> 00:39:10,041 Speaker 3: if you feel drawn to and you feel safe with somebody, 727 00:39:10,041 --> 00:39:12,721 Speaker 3: but to give that to yourself you can also do that. 728 00:39:12,881 --> 00:39:15,441 Speaker 2: Well. Can we talk about the yoni massage for a 729 00:39:15,481 --> 00:39:18,041 Speaker 2: sec because even like again my producer and I were 730 00:39:18,041 --> 00:39:20,801 Speaker 2: talking about this for a like before you even came in, 731 00:39:21,081 --> 00:39:25,961 Speaker 2: and like I'd heard about, you know, getting yony massages, 732 00:39:26,001 --> 00:39:29,121 Speaker 2: but sort of like how did it not how did 733 00:39:29,161 --> 00:39:31,721 Speaker 2: it come about? But because you know, like how does 734 00:39:31,721 --> 00:39:36,641 Speaker 2: someone go I want to massage someone else's yoni? And 735 00:39:36,761 --> 00:39:39,641 Speaker 2: like is it to help? I guess sort of move trauma? 736 00:39:39,841 --> 00:39:40,561 Speaker 1: Is it to help? 737 00:39:40,841 --> 00:39:42,921 Speaker 2: Like? What is it for? Can you talk a bit 738 00:39:42,921 --> 00:39:43,401 Speaker 2: more about it? 739 00:39:43,441 --> 00:39:44,081 Speaker 3: That was bad? 740 00:39:44,241 --> 00:39:45,641 Speaker 1: That was a badly bad question. 741 00:39:45,801 --> 00:39:46,480 Speaker 3: I get it. 742 00:39:47,001 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 1: I'm getting what you're putting down. 743 00:39:50,241 --> 00:39:54,281 Speaker 3: Like when you go get a massage, they avoid your breasts, 744 00:39:54,481 --> 00:39:58,481 Speaker 3: your belly, your balm, and your yoni unless you're going 745 00:39:58,521 --> 00:39:59,921 Speaker 3: to some erotic massage. 746 00:40:00,161 --> 00:40:00,481 Speaker 2: Different. 747 00:40:00,801 --> 00:40:04,521 Speaker 3: But for women, it's those places on the body are 748 00:40:04,681 --> 00:40:11,201 Speaker 3: very neglected and not touched or stimulated for certain reasons, 749 00:40:11,201 --> 00:40:13,881 Speaker 3: which is a good reason. Obviously you don't want random 750 00:40:13,961 --> 00:40:17,801 Speaker 3: people's touching you there, but that can kind of lead 751 00:40:17,841 --> 00:40:21,641 Speaker 3: to this feeling of starvation, I guess from your breast 752 00:40:21,681 --> 00:40:24,601 Speaker 3: to your belly and your volver that aren't getting touched, 753 00:40:24,641 --> 00:40:28,521 Speaker 3: especially if you're a single person. But also, yeah, if 754 00:40:28,561 --> 00:40:33,201 Speaker 3: you are wanting to receive a massage that includes the 755 00:40:33,241 --> 00:40:36,601 Speaker 3: breasts and the volver and the belly and the bomb, 756 00:40:36,841 --> 00:40:39,641 Speaker 3: then it is such a but I've had so many 757 00:40:39,761 --> 00:40:43,081 Speaker 3: and it's such a beautiful experience. It's different every time 758 00:40:43,161 --> 00:40:45,761 Speaker 3: with where you're at in your life and the practitioner 759 00:40:45,761 --> 00:40:48,841 Speaker 3: that you're using. There are certain like Lommy Lommy Hawaiian 760 00:40:48,841 --> 00:40:51,881 Speaker 3: massages that include the breasts, which is really beautiful, and 761 00:40:51,921 --> 00:40:55,081 Speaker 3: some in Bali do as well. But with the volver 762 00:40:55,321 --> 00:41:00,641 Speaker 3: and the vagina. To let someone a really safe, trained practitioner, 763 00:41:02,201 --> 00:41:06,401 Speaker 3: to let somebody touch you in this space that's non 764 00:41:06,481 --> 00:41:10,041 Speaker 3: sexual because let's be honest, our breasts and pussy are 765 00:41:10,081 --> 00:41:13,521 Speaker 3: not just sexual parts of our body one hundred. They've 766 00:41:13,561 --> 00:41:18,121 Speaker 3: been over sexualized, they've been objectified and leered at and like, 767 00:41:18,161 --> 00:41:21,161 Speaker 3: you know all the things, but I mean, the breasts 768 00:41:21,161 --> 00:41:25,881 Speaker 3: are food source for babies. The vagina it bleeds, that's 769 00:41:25,961 --> 00:41:29,041 Speaker 3: very non sexual, bleeds once a month. The births again 770 00:41:29,201 --> 00:41:32,241 Speaker 3: not necessarily sexual. Things like these parts of our body 771 00:41:32,241 --> 00:41:36,681 Speaker 3: are also just parts of our body that require love, touch, presence, 772 00:41:37,441 --> 00:41:42,081 Speaker 3: and to be massaged on your vulva in a way 773 00:41:42,121 --> 00:41:44,921 Speaker 3: that you don't need to give anything back to this person. 774 00:41:45,001 --> 00:41:47,761 Speaker 3: Obviously there is a financial exchange. You don't need to 775 00:41:47,801 --> 00:41:51,081 Speaker 3: give this person a hand job or whatever. And just 776 00:41:51,121 --> 00:41:54,841 Speaker 3: to fully and you said the word before receive, to 777 00:41:55,041 --> 00:42:00,281 Speaker 3: fully fully receive sensual not sexual, like it is a 778 00:42:00,361 --> 00:42:05,841 Speaker 3: sensual touch or pressing or needing or tap or touching. 779 00:42:06,321 --> 00:42:09,521 Speaker 3: It gives you this opportunity to just release like you 780 00:42:10,201 --> 00:42:12,921 Speaker 3: most likely and I've cried almost in every single one 781 00:42:12,961 --> 00:42:16,921 Speaker 3: because it just feels so good to No, you don't 782 00:42:16,921 --> 00:42:18,921 Speaker 3: have to give anything back. You are just in a 783 00:42:19,001 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 3: receptive mode for a woman. 784 00:42:22,041 --> 00:42:25,721 Speaker 2: That is massive, totally, and even I guess like the 785 00:42:25,761 --> 00:42:30,081 Speaker 2: financial exchange kind of like relieves that sort of feeling 786 00:42:30,241 --> 00:42:32,761 Speaker 2: of I do need to give something back because it's like, well, 787 00:42:32,801 --> 00:42:36,201 Speaker 2: I've literally I've just paid for this, paid you. Yeah, 788 00:42:36,601 --> 00:42:38,921 Speaker 2: like I'm literally just getting a service right now. 789 00:42:39,401 --> 00:42:44,761 Speaker 3: Yep. Yeah. And it's mostly women that I or women 790 00:42:44,761 --> 00:42:48,641 Speaker 3: actually that I promote on the Only Massage directory, and 791 00:42:48,761 --> 00:42:51,881 Speaker 3: it's women who know how to hold space. I couldn't 792 00:42:51,921 --> 00:42:54,960 Speaker 3: do it. It's the sessions of three to five hours long. 793 00:42:55,481 --> 00:42:59,681 Speaker 3: Wow titially because it's it is a whole ordeal and 794 00:42:59,721 --> 00:43:01,481 Speaker 3: you get a full body massage and it is a 795 00:43:01,521 --> 00:43:04,121 Speaker 3: breast massage, and then if the woman is ready, then 796 00:43:04,641 --> 00:43:07,321 Speaker 3: they might go internal, but it's all like, you know, 797 00:43:07,401 --> 00:43:10,121 Speaker 3: you don't have to, and it might be the second 798 00:43:10,201 --> 00:43:12,121 Speaker 3: or third time that you go to the practitioner that 799 00:43:12,241 --> 00:43:15,961 Speaker 3: you receive internal touch. But for some women, especially if 800 00:43:15,961 --> 00:43:19,281 Speaker 3: they've been abused in some capacity, it can be a 801 00:43:19,321 --> 00:43:23,041 Speaker 3: really healing experience when done in a safe space with 802 00:43:23,081 --> 00:43:23,801 Speaker 3: the right person. 803 00:43:24,321 --> 00:43:28,081 Speaker 2: Interesting. Yeah, I feel like I'm like, it's so intrigued now, 804 00:43:28,161 --> 00:43:29,841 Speaker 2: because at first I was like, oh God, I don't 805 00:43:29,881 --> 00:43:32,521 Speaker 2: know how i'd feel about that. But now I'm like, 806 00:43:32,521 --> 00:43:36,881 Speaker 2: like the concept of the over sexualizing is so true, 807 00:43:37,281 --> 00:43:39,001 Speaker 2: and I feel like that's a good segue into like 808 00:43:39,001 --> 00:43:40,601 Speaker 2: what I want to talk about next. 809 00:43:40,361 --> 00:43:43,281 Speaker 1: Which is like teaching this sort of stuff to our. 810 00:43:43,241 --> 00:43:47,480 Speaker 2: Kids, because Rosie has so much to share with us. 811 00:43:47,641 --> 00:43:50,481 Speaker 2: We are making this a two part episode because the 812 00:43:50,561 --> 00:43:54,841 Speaker 2: chat goes for quite a while, so tune in next 813 00:43:54,881 --> 00:43:59,521 Speaker 2: week for the second part of my chat with Rosie