WEBVTT - "His Ex Cried at Our Engagement Party!" || HOTLINE 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:08.200 Welcome back to the Where's Your Head At? Hotline, our 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:10.840 weekly show where we catch up with each other and 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:13.520 connect with you all on our hotline voicemail. 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:15.560 We want to hear from you, guys, so please send 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:18.840 your stories, questions, advice or tea So Where's your Head 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.520 at pod at gmail dot com to be featured on 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:22.440 one of our episodes. 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:24.959 I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in. 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:31.400 Good morning, Anna. 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:33.559 Hello, how are you well? 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:35.600 I think we're both in the same boat right now. 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:39.200 Feeling a little bit dusty from the weekend's antics. 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:41.680 We are a little bit hung We had my engagement 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:44.720 party on the weekend. If you're following my socials, then 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:47.599 you'll see all the picks. I've still got so much 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:50.960 salt bos actually, but it was so fun. 0:00:51.040 --> 0:00:53.720 It was it was a great time. Look, I let 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:55.360 rip there. I had a fair bit to drink, but 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:58.080 I told everyone I'm not passing out on a park 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:01.240 bench tonight, and I got home at a reasonable hour. Now. 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:02.920 I did a ghost at the end of the night. 0:01:03.000 --> 0:01:05.840 He just disappeared. Yeah, smoke bomb. That's what it's called, 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:08.000 isn't it. You were just like he didn't say bye, 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:10.600 you just it was vanished into thin air. 0:01:10.640 --> 0:01:13.120 There was talk of going out afterwards, and everyone was 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:16.040 getting really like it was gaining legs and I was 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:17.880 getting into it, and then I saw how much legs 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:21.800 it was gaining and I was like, no for me, 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:23.640 So I ran well. I went out the front and 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:25.720 I booked an uber and as I was waiting, people 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:28.119 started to come out and then they were like if 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:32.440 you're smoke bombing, like go catch now. I sprinted off 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:34.600 and I was like, jumped in you guys were walking 0:01:34.600 --> 0:01:36.680 out the front and I was like, oh, okay, so 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:37.280 how was your night? 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:37.440 Then? 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:40.600 It was your big night, It was your engagement. 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:44.759 It was our engagement, well not ours, but yeah, yours 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:47.680 and Michaels yeah yeah, yeah, No. It was like, I 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:50.080 know people say this, but it was literally the best 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:53.120 night of my life. I just loved every second of 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:57.040 it all day yesterday, like my family and everyone was 0:01:57.080 --> 0:01:59.960 just saying it was honestly the best night we had 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:04.080 at all we had. The DJ was playing the bongos 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:07.400 at one point, we had a sax player. We even 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:10.640 had a three sixty photo booth, which was amazing. 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:12.480 We didn't do one, we should have done one. 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:16.079 Yeah, it was just it had everything. Yeah, you did 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:18.639 do one with my parents. That was so funny. If 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:22.079 you saw that socials, you would have seen him. Apparently 0:02:22.080 --> 0:02:23.960 they were trying to do one by themselves, and you 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:25.360 like jumped through. 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:29.000 Because I was getting me to do it, and I 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:33.840 don't know, maybe I jumped in and the telephone. Have 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:35.320 you listened to any of the messages that people have 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:35.920 left to yet? 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:38.120 No? So I have to send it back. So that's 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:41.320 called off the hook. Basically, I had like an audio 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:44.520 guest book, so everyone on the night has left us 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:46.600 like voicemails. But it was so funny because as the 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:49.280 night progressed, everyone was getting more and more lit, and 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:51.920 I could just see people just like on the phone, 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:55.440 just like chatting for ages. I was like, these are 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:56.440 gonna be so good. 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:58.920 Well, one of mine will just be me going what 0:02:59.000 --> 0:03:01.160 about now this angle? What about this angle? When I 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:03.800 was taking photos the phones? So you're gonna give it? 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:06.160 How does this fun look? 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:08.520 Maybe I'll get one of Matt's and I can play 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:12.200 it for the part so everyone can hear it. I mean, 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.320 did you think I wasn't going. 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:18.920 To that would be embarrassing. I actually thought we should 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:20.639 use some of these, but then I was like, probably 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:21.680 some of them can't be used. 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:24.360 Well did you say what did you actually leave like 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:25.840 a nice voicemail for me? 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:32.560 Yeah? I feel like I did. We'll talk about the 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.639 setup for how much because it looked unreal, like I 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:35.960 said to you, and I don't think I put it 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:39.040 into words properly. It was. It was a lot. It 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:40.640 was a lot of a vibe that I thought it 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:42.880 would be, like, I didn't expect it to be so 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:47.000 like just vibey. Yeah, it was such a vibe. Yeah. 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:49.680 So we had it at chow Cello in Port Melbourne 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:54.280 and they have like this huge, big disco ball and 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:57.320 when the lights kind of dim, the disco ball just 0:03:57.360 --> 0:03:58.920 kind of like lights up the floor. 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:00.440 The candles were a nice effect. 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:06.760 Yes. So basically the engagement party theme that I basically 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:11.240 created by myself was basically the marry me Honey. Theme. 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:14.920 So we kind of wanted to recreate the proposal because 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:17.760 the proposal was so amazing with all the flowers and 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.080 so we tried to kind of create that but then 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:22.800 with a bit more like mood lighting with all the candles, 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:25.920 and then we obviously had the neon sign saying marry 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:26.400 me honey. 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:29.320 So yeah, no, no, it was the candles were such 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:31.800 touch with all the rose pedals around. I loved it, 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:36.479 and I think that you really did well yourself have 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:37.240 anything to do with it. 0:04:38.360 --> 0:04:43.240 He helped with some playlist options for the DJ, but 0:04:43.279 --> 0:04:44.520 that's as far as Michael went. 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.400 He was actually engagement. 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:50.800 Well, he did say he goes thank you. When we 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:52.800 were on the way there in the uber. We had 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:56.360 like a little like moment together saying like we love 0:04:56.400 --> 0:05:00.440 each other. And then it was probably just like getting 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:04.479 the thing like yuck, vomit these two. But then he 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:07.120 was like, you know, I really appreciate all the work 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:09.839 you've put into like making this happen, and if I 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:12.520 had my time again, I wouldn't do anything differently. I'd 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:16.480 still let you organize it all, which is fair Like 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:18.960 it's I had a vision and like you know, once 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:20.920 you have a vision of something, you kind of were 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:23.200 the only person who can fulfill that. Obviously people can 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.479 help here and there, but you popped in early to 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:27.560 kind of help with the setup, which I appreciate. 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:31.400 Yes, lit all the candles took some content the stuff 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:32.240 that needs to be done. 0:05:32.560 --> 0:05:37.640 Yeah, Matt, my best friend, A couple of boyfriends were there, 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:41.479 so it was nice. So we started at six and 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:43.200 the party started at seven point. 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:44.440 Thirty people there on time. 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:47.880 People were there on the dot, weren't they. I was like, guys, like, 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:51.960 give me a second, because obviously I have my collaboration 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:54.880 with Helen O'Connor, So I was trying to get some 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:57.440 content in all of the dresses because the dresses, I mean, 0:05:57.440 --> 0:05:58.840 what did you think of the dress? 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:02.560 The dresses looked amazing. Coming from a completely heterosexual die 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:05.440 that doesn't look at you in a dress in that 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:08.080 sort of way, they looked amazing. They did all of them, 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:09.760 three or four. 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:14.680 I saw you four because yeah, what was your favorite? 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:21.600 The orange, the white one, the Aphrodity that's what it's 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:24.280 called because she's the goddess of love, So we called 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:25.680 it the Aphrodity dress. 0:06:25.720 --> 0:06:27.080 Like the one that was a two piece at the 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:29.240 end of the night that had like the reflecting. 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:32.440 Something, the mirrorble dress, yeah, which kind of so we 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:35.520 kind of named them after different parts of the engagement. 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:37.839 So there was a sky full of Stars, you know, 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:40.560 the cold Play song, which was like the very sparkly 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:44.080 long dress with the beautiful lowers. Then we had the 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:48.000 Crazy in Love, which was the orange dress because it's 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:51.000 just like a fun extra type of dress with a 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:54.280 big bowl at the back and the train. Then the Aphrodity, 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:56.320 which was your favorite, is kind of like the Greek 0:06:56.360 --> 0:07:01.240 goddess of love. Obviously you know I engage, Yeah, Michael's Greek. 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:03.840 It's the engagement party. We're getting married in Greece, so 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:05.760 that kind of tied that one. And then there was 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:09.280 the mirrorble two pieces. It's actually two pieces, so it's 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:11.640 a top en skirt, but it looks like a dress 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:13.160 because they kind of overlap. 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:17.320 Yeah, so we did a Greek dance? What was our called? 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:17.760 We did? 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:21.120 We did the Zorba? So fun? How fun was that? 0:07:21.160 --> 0:07:22.520 It was fun? I didn't know how to do it. 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:26.120 No one did. I mean Michael's family did, but I didn't. 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:29.720 And talk me through the steam guns? What was the idea? 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:30.360 Time that? 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:31.200 Okay? 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:33.040 So how did we even get them? Why did they? 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:34.280 Did they even come out? 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:38.040 So this was totally unplanned. So we had like three 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:41.160 sixty photo booths. Who did the photo booths? Which is 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:44.200 so fun? How fun is that they actually brought them 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:47.200 and then they were like, hey, so we have these 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:50.200 like steam guns or I don't know what you'd call it, 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:51.360 like is it? Yeah? 0:07:51.400 --> 0:07:54.200 Anyway, My only memory of those things was I was 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:57.080 out anoisy neighbors one time and the power went off, 0:07:57.080 --> 0:07:59.040 so they started playing like beats of music to that 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:04.600 could keep partying. And I've never seen them other than 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:05.000 that day. 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:07.440 Yeah, so it was totally unplanned. So they were like, 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:12.040 do you want to do this? And I was like, okay, sure, 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:15.480 Like we definitely wasn't in the vision, but I was like, 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:19.440 you know what, like I've never shot one, Like maybe 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:20.280 we should just do it. 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:20.760 Fuck it. 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:23.880 So we did it and it was fun. It was 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:27.440 very extra, like I'm already extra, like with my three 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:30.760 outfit changes that I had. The collection has four dresses. 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:33.320 It four was a bit much to do, although I 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:36.120 did get content before the party started in the other one. 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:39.920 But yeah, like it was extra, but it was fun. 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:41.080 It was so fun. 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:42.360 Was there recalling them? 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:43.319 What does that mean? 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:44.440 It comes firing back? 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:49.320 Not really? They were pretty powerful though. Michael was Michael 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:50.480 was going nuts. 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:53.280 He was loving it. 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:55.439 Also was kind of like when they asked, I was 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:56.839 kind of like, well, when am I ever going to 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:58.720 probably fire one of these things? 0:08:58.760 --> 0:08:58.960 Ever? 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:01.760 Again, like it's just a bit random, So I was like, 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:02.319 fuck it. 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:04.400 It was so random and it was like I remember standing, 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:07.920 They're like, what the fuck's going on? Now? These things everywhere? 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:10.640 I was like, that's fun. Yeah, it was a good night. 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:13.240 I had a lot of fun. I really did go 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:14.560 up okay the next day. 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:15.400 So yeah. 0:09:15.760 --> 0:09:18.160 So, speaking of the dresses, what was your favorite dress? 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:22.440 I think my favorite, although I'm so obsessed with all 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:25.520 of them for different reasons, I think the sky full 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:28.440 of Stars dress is just so special. It was you know, 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:31.720 you saw the footage I posted of the three sixty 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:36.160 camera capturing the whole gown. It's just amazing. And like 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:38.600 with the gloves as well, which is very in fashion 0:09:38.679 --> 0:09:41.760 right now. I just that just came out so much 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:44.840 better than I could have ever expected. Like Helen O'Connor 0:09:44.880 --> 0:09:47.920 did an amazing job. So yeah, they're all on sale 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:51.640 now for a limited time. So if you guys want 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:55.120 to wear any of the dresses, go ahead and jump 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:55.800 on the website. 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:58.320 No, I see him find it at heleno'connor dot com 0:09:58.320 --> 0:09:58.800 dot au. 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:06.679 Second, thanks for there, thanks to the shame was no. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:08.480 I had a really good night. It was really nice. 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:10.960 While your family was fun. Surprised that your brother stayed 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:11.719 sober the whole time. 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:14.680 I'm actually proud of him. 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:16.880 How could you, Like, I don't know. 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:19.920 He's doing a hundred days sober and I know that 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:23.160 would be like really hard, especially at your sister's engagement party. 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:25.280 I thought I caught him with a beer, but he 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:26.800 had a zero points so tonight. 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:29.400 That's what I said, because he started the night just 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:31.560 being like, oh, I'm gonna have a Red Bull and 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:33.040 then I saw him with a beer in hand, and 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:35.960 I was like, you like broke your drinking thing. But 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.559 I was like secretly happy. And then he was like, no, 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:40.640 it's a zero, and I was like, what, I'm proud 0:10:40.640 --> 0:10:40.880 of you. 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:42.680 I just said to him. I said to him because 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.320 I was pretty I had a couple of drinks at this point, 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:46.280 and I was like, I couldn't be talking to me sober, 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:48.840 Like you know when you're talking to someone that's had 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:51.320 a couple of drinks because you're think you're annoying. Yeah, 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:53.120 just you know how the I just was like, if 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:55.760 I was sober talking to someone drinking, I couldn't do it. 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:57.480 Do you know what it's looking at some of the 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:59.600 footage back that the girls took on my phone, I 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:01.400 was a little bit lit by the air, like I 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:04.400 was very lit. And then on top of that, like, 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:07.920 I'm such a woo girl at parties, and I fucking 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:11.600 looking back on the video content of being being like whoa, 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:16.360 I'm like, shut up, you were talking. 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:18.319 We were sitting next to each other having a chat 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:21.560 when things was getting legs about going out, and I 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:24.560 was like, no, I was like, Anna's full woo girl 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:29.319 murd right now. Why did you say that to myself? 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:32.240 I was like, fuck, she's fully woogoing it. You're like, 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:33.640 let's go out everyone. 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:39.760 Oh my god, I'm giving myself the just thinking about it. 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:42.760 I literally was having the best night of my life. 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:45.880 So I have no regrets, Like I was literally uncloud 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:48.319 one thousand. 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:50.760 The next day, not good because. 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:54.080 We went to the club after so and it's I 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:57.080 haven't been to the club in a long time, so 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:00.320 you know, it was it was a time was the 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:03.680 time home. We had no idea, but then we did 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:07.040 order McDonald's at four am, and I fell asleep by 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:11.160 the time it arrived, which when that's happening, you know, 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:13.600 it's a big night. That's probably the latest I've been 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:14.600 out in a long time. 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:17.319 Yeah, I like I keep saying I could do it, 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:19.880 and I could do it pretty easily. But do I 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:20.840 want to do I want. 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:25.120 To suffer and we have suffrage. Yesterday it was a 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:26.120 dark day for us. 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:29.080 Speak for yourself. I went to a dashy meetup. 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:30.920 Oh you did too? How is that? 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:31.600 Just? 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:34.200 Do you want to have dopamine and serotonin released into 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:37.040 your brain? I felt just like laying there, just like 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:39.360 covering in treats. So they would just run up for me. 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:43.400 What was better? The dashound get together on my engagement 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:47.560 party on par dog. 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:51.800 No, you're engage your party by far, by far? 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:53.160 Yeah, thank you. 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:55.600 As I was walking over to the dashhound meet up, though, 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:57.960 I saw them all running around and I was like, 0:12:58.200 --> 0:12:59.440 I reckon, this is what heaven is. 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:02.320 I really still think you should get a dashount. You 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:03.160 know how I feel about that. 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:06.080 Jeanine's a kowski. If you're listening, which you are, I 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:06.720 know you are. 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:09.840 Janine, please let ma get a Dashound. You'll fall in 0:13:09.880 --> 0:13:10.640 love with it too. 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:12.880 She's just worried that she'll be puppy sitting it. 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:14.400 While I'm out the sit You'll probably love it. 0:13:15.000 --> 0:13:16.679 Off to hers. I'm just saying you need to look 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:17.120 after this. 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:19.920 But you're so obsessed with dashounds. I just really feel 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:21.920 like you'll be like, do I go out or do 0:13:21.960 --> 0:13:23.319 I send the night with my dashouse? 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:25.840 Every time win dash out? When I sit in bed 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:28.120 or on the couch, I'm like, fuck, imagine having on 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:30.280 just curl off and but where I am in my 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:32.360 life right now? Like I said, I can't, Like it's 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:34.439 just not like unless I have someone that's going to 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:37.559 look after it for me full time, yeah, then I can't. 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:39.960 It might be a good sense of responsibility for you 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:40.760 to have, don't you. 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:43.040 Think it's not more or less that I'm doing activities 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:45.320 and anything like that. It's more like just work commitments 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:48.560 and life commitments that I need someone that will look 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:51.080 after it. Then I don't want that jean This is Jeanne. 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:54.480 But then I don't want the dash my dashound ready 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:57.520 to fall in love with someone else and not me. 0:13:57.840 --> 0:13:58.959 Treat me like it's. 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:04.640 That's so needy that he's even worried that his dog. 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:08.679 Won't mom's sitting it. More, it might fall in love 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:10.560 with my mum more and think of mum as it's 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:16.120 it's one and me. Before we keep going, we need 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:21.520 to touch on your hair and it looks okay right now. 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:24.600 Okay, it looks terrible. What do you mean? 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:26.520 Oh yeah, when you do that, I definitely can. 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:30.720 So basically for context, head that's a five peg now, 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:35.000 so for context, if you don't follow my socials. Three 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:38.680 days before my engagement party, I was microblading my face 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:40.600 whilst on the phone to one of my best friends, 0:14:40.960 --> 0:14:43.320 and I was like just mindlessly doing it, you know, 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:45.640 when you're not actually paying attention, because it's just like 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:48.200 just like a habit, Like it's just something that I 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:49.120 needed to get done. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:50.400 It gets rid of the peach fuzz. 0:14:50.480 --> 0:14:52.680 Yeah, peach fuzz. So any sort of like baby hair. 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:55.680 Obviously wanted my like skin to just be like especially 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:58.480 when you get your makeup done for like an event 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:00.720 and all the kind of like bay hairs on your 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:05.200 face have been like taken off. It just maybe like 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.360 once a month. Like I'm not very good at it, 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:08.920 I will. I would always do it if I had 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:10.680 like an event coming up, because I think it just 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:15.080 makes your makeup look really flawless. So anyway, I'm like 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:18.400 on the phone just like mindlessly doing this, and then 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:22.480 I get to my forehead and I slip whilst it's 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:26.320 like on my skin. So I literally I just I 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:28.240 don't know how it's sleep Like, don't even ask me 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:30.920 how I did it. Like it's the wildest thing and 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:32.600 like the last thing I would want to do before 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:36.440 a very important milestone in my life. So I've slipped 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:43.040 and I've literally cut my head the very like top 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:44.120 of my forehead. 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:49.120 So my talk literally like hair gross coming back, Like 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:51.080 you can see the little hairs coming back. 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:55.760 Yeah, Like it's literally like spiky, like like a guy 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:59.040 has like it when they have like their beards, like stubble. Yeah, 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:01.480 it's like stubble on my forehead now. So I normally 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:03.400 have like a three head. We've spoken about this. I 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:08.520 have a very small forehead. Nothing new anyway, I've I've 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:11.560 got a forehead. Now it's gone to forehead. But like 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:15.080 I literally I've added an extra centimeter or two to 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:18.440 my forehead three days before my engagement party, and I 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.200 was just like only I would do something like that. 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:24.400 Did the hair fall down on the ground? 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:27.040 It was like yeah, it was like on the blade, 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:29.400 like it was long hair on the blade. And my 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:32.240 hairdresser it was just like what have you done? Like 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.560 because obviously for my wedding, I had like bangs, like 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:39.080 kind of short bangs, like here at my cheekbones, and 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:40.920 I've been growing them out so that for my wedding 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:43.680 I can have, you know, hair that falls like long. 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:48.840 And she's like, all that work for your wedding, but 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:51.040 this is like so it's come back and it's like 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.840 very short, but like this is gonna be like a 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:58.280 I was about to say hair like it's gonna be bad. 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:00.720 And I was like, do I just keep shaving it off? 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:04.520 And she's like no, like just leave it. But then 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:07.119 my makeup artist told me something interesting, which is that 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:11.520 Kim Kardashian actually micro bladed her forehead and then got 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:14.840 laser on the hair. So she's given herself a completely 0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:19.320 new forehead. Shock, I know, so random because she actually 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:21.760 has a small forehead like me naturally. 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:22.639 So did it on purpose. 0:17:22.640 --> 0:17:25.080 So she's done it on purpose, and now she's given 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:28.239 herself a completely new forehead. So like her forehead right 0:17:28.280 --> 0:17:30.919 now looks like my forehead without the turf bit that 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:32.200 I'm trying to grow back. 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:34.160 That's gonna be so funny when it's like a couple 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:35.400 of meal maybe a couple of. 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:38.919 I know. So I was like, maybe I should just 0:17:38.920 --> 0:17:40.919 get laser on it and just like give myself a 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:41.520 new forehead. 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:42.680 Just accept it, just. 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:46.199 Accept what's gone down. It's just pretty like full on. 0:17:46.320 --> 0:17:49.480 Like if you look up Kim Kardashian forehead before and after, 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:52.800 there's a huge difference in her forhea actually came off. Yeah, yeah, 0:17:52.800 --> 0:17:54.399 it's like a full thing. Like I had no idea 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:56.080 about it, and my makeup artist was trying to make 0:17:56.119 --> 0:17:58.400 me feel better. But I've been like, you actually look better, 0:17:58.480 --> 0:18:01.399 don't worry about it. And I was like, ah, should 0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:02.399 I not look good before? 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:06.000 I'm kidding you know what I mean? Like it looks 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:08.479