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Speaker 1: I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in.
Speaker 2: Good morning, Anna.
Speaker 1: Hello, how are you well?
Speaker 2: I think we're both in the same boat right now.
Speaker 2: Feeling a little bit dusty from the weekend's antics.
Speaker 1: We are a little bit hung We had my engagement
Speaker 1: party on the weekend. If you're following my socials, then
Speaker 1: you'll see all the picks. I've still got so much
Speaker 1: salt bos actually, but it was so fun.
Speaker 2: It was it was a great time. Look, I let
Speaker 2: rip there. I had a fair bit to drink, but
Speaker 2: I told everyone I'm not passing out on a park
Speaker 2: bench tonight, and I got home at a reasonable hour. Now.
Speaker 1: I did a ghost at the end of the night.
Speaker 1: He just disappeared. Yeah, smoke bomb. That's what it's called,
Speaker 1: isn't it. You were just like he didn't say bye,
Speaker 1: you just it was vanished into thin air.
Speaker 2: There was talk of going out afterwards, and everyone was
Speaker 2: getting really like it was gaining legs and I was
Speaker 2: getting into it, and then I saw how much legs
Speaker 2: it was gaining and I was like, no for me,
Speaker 2: So I ran well. I went out the front and
Speaker 2: I booked an uber and as I was waiting, people
Speaker 2: started to come out and then they were like if
Speaker 2: you're smoke bombing, like go catch now. I sprinted off
Speaker 2: and I was like, jumped in you guys were walking
Speaker 2: out the front and I was like, oh, okay, so
Speaker 2: how was your night?
Speaker 3: Then?
Speaker 2: It was your big night, It was your engagement.
Speaker 1: It was our engagement, well not ours, but yeah, yours
Speaker 1: and Michaels yeah yeah, yeah, No. It was like, I
Speaker 1: know people say this, but it was literally the best
Speaker 1: night of my life. I just loved every second of
Speaker 1: it all day yesterday, like my family and everyone was
Speaker 1: just saying it was honestly the best night we had
Speaker 1: at all we had. The DJ was playing the bongos
Speaker 1: at one point, we had a sax player. We even
Speaker 1: had a three sixty photo booth, which was amazing.
Speaker 2: We didn't do one, we should have done one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just it had everything. Yeah, you did
Speaker 1: do one with my parents. That was so funny. If
Speaker 1: you saw that socials, you would have seen him. Apparently
Speaker 1: they were trying to do one by themselves, and you
Speaker 1: like jumped through.
Speaker 2: Because I was getting me to do it, and I
Speaker 2: don't know, maybe I jumped in and the telephone. Have
Speaker 2: you listened to any of the messages that people have
Speaker 2: left to yet?
Speaker 1: No? So I have to send it back. So that's
Speaker 1: called off the hook. Basically, I had like an audio
Speaker 1: guest book, so everyone on the night has left us
Speaker 1: like voicemails. But it was so funny because as the
Speaker 1: night progressed, everyone was getting more and more lit, and
Speaker 1: I could just see people just like on the phone,
Speaker 1: just like chatting for ages. I was like, these are
Speaker 1: gonna be so good.
Speaker 2: Well, one of mine will just be me going what
Speaker 2: about now this angle? What about this angle? When I
Speaker 2: was taking photos the phones? So you're gonna give it?
Speaker 2: How does this fun look?
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll get one of Matt's and I can play
Speaker 1: it for the part so everyone can hear it. I mean,
Speaker 1: did you think I wasn't going.
Speaker 2: To that would be embarrassing. I actually thought we should
Speaker 2: use some of these, but then I was like, probably
Speaker 2: some of them can't be used.
Speaker 1: Well did you say what did you actually leave like
Speaker 1: a nice voicemail for me?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I feel like I did. We'll talk about the
Speaker 2: setup for how much because it looked unreal, like I
Speaker 2: said to you, and I don't think I put it
Speaker 2: into words properly. It was. It was a lot. It
Speaker 2: was a lot of a vibe that I thought it
Speaker 2: would be, like, I didn't expect it to be so
Speaker 2: like just vibey. Yeah, it was such a vibe. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So we had it at chow Cello in Port Melbourne
Speaker 1: and they have like this huge, big disco ball and
Speaker 1: when the lights kind of dim, the disco ball just
Speaker 1: kind of like lights up the floor.
Speaker 2: The candles were a nice effect.
Speaker 1: Yes. So basically the engagement party theme that I basically
Speaker 1: created by myself was basically the marry me Honey. Theme.
Speaker 1: So we kind of wanted to recreate the proposal because
Speaker 1: the proposal was so amazing with all the flowers and
Speaker 1: so we tried to kind of create that but then
Speaker 1: with a bit more like mood lighting with all the candles,
Speaker 1: and then we obviously had the neon sign saying marry
Speaker 1: me honey.
Speaker 2: So yeah, no, no, it was the candles were such
Speaker 2: touch with all the rose pedals around. I loved it,
Speaker 2: and I think that you really did well yourself have
Speaker 2: anything to do with it.
Speaker 1: He helped with some playlist options for the DJ, but
Speaker 1: that's as far as Michael went.
Speaker 2: He was actually engagement.
Speaker 1: Well, he did say he goes thank you. When we
Speaker 1: were on the way there in the uber. We had
Speaker 1: like a little like moment together saying like we love
Speaker 1: each other. And then it was probably just like getting
Speaker 1: the thing like yuck, vomit these two. But then he
Speaker 1: was like, you know, I really appreciate all the work
Speaker 1: you've put into like making this happen, and if I
Speaker 1: had my time again, I wouldn't do anything differently. I'd
Speaker 1: still let you organize it all, which is fair Like
Speaker 1: it's I had a vision and like you know, once
Speaker 1: you have a vision of something, you kind of were
Speaker 1: the only person who can fulfill that. Obviously people can
Speaker 1: help here and there, but you popped in early to
Speaker 1: kind of help with the setup, which I appreciate.
Speaker 2: Yes, lit all the candles took some content the stuff
Speaker 2: that needs to be done.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Matt, my best friend, A couple of boyfriends were there,
Speaker 1: so it was nice. So we started at six and
Speaker 1: the party started at seven point.
Speaker 2: Thirty people there on time.
Speaker 1: People were there on the dot, weren't they. I was like, guys, like,
Speaker 1: give me a second, because obviously I have my collaboration
Speaker 1: with Helen O'Connor, So I was trying to get some
Speaker 1: content in all of the dresses because the dresses, I mean,
Speaker 1: what did you think of the dress?
Speaker 2: The dresses looked amazing. Coming from a completely heterosexual die
Speaker 2: that doesn't look at you in a dress in that
Speaker 2: sort of way, they looked amazing. They did all of them,
Speaker 2: three or four.
Speaker 1: I saw you four because yeah, what was your favorite?
Speaker 4: The orange, the white one, the Aphrodity that's what it's
Speaker 4: called because she's the goddess of love, So we called
Speaker 4: it the Aphrodity dress.
Speaker 2: Like the one that was a two piece at the
Speaker 2: end of the night that had like the reflecting.
Speaker 1: Something, the mirrorble dress, yeah, which kind of so we
Speaker 1: kind of named them after different parts of the engagement.
Speaker 1: So there was a sky full of Stars, you know,
Speaker 1: the cold Play song, which was like the very sparkly
Speaker 1: long dress with the beautiful lowers. Then we had the
Speaker 1: Crazy in Love, which was the orange dress because it's
Speaker 1: just like a fun extra type of dress with a
Speaker 1: big bowl at the back and the train. Then the Aphrodity,
Speaker 1: which was your favorite, is kind of like the Greek
Speaker 1: goddess of love. Obviously you know I engage, Yeah, Michael's Greek.
Speaker 1: It's the engagement party. We're getting married in Greece, so
Speaker 1: that kind of tied that one. And then there was
Speaker 1: the mirrorble two pieces. It's actually two pieces, so it's
Speaker 1: a top en skirt, but it looks like a dress
Speaker 1: because they kind of overlap.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we did a Greek dance? What was our called?
Speaker 2: We did?
Speaker 1: We did the Zorba? So fun? How fun was that?
Speaker 2: It was fun? I didn't know how to do it.
Speaker 1: No one did. I mean Michael's family did, but I didn't.
Speaker 2: And talk me through the steam guns? What was the idea?
Speaker 2: Time that?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: So how did we even get them? Why did they?
Speaker 2: Did they even come out?
Speaker 1: So this was totally unplanned. So we had like three
Speaker 1: sixty photo booths. Who did the photo booths? Which is
Speaker 1: so fun? How fun is that they actually brought them
Speaker 1: and then they were like, hey, so we have these
Speaker 1: like steam guns or I don't know what you'd call it,
Speaker 1: like is it? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Anyway, My only memory of those things was I was
Speaker 2: out anoisy neighbors one time and the power went off,
Speaker 2: so they started playing like beats of music to that
Speaker 2: could keep partying. And I've never seen them other than
Speaker 2: that day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it was totally unplanned. So they were like,
Speaker 1: do you want to do this? And I was like, okay, sure,
Speaker 1: Like we definitely wasn't in the vision, but I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, like I've never shot one, Like maybe
Speaker 1: we should just do it.
Speaker 2: Fuck it.
Speaker 1: So we did it and it was fun. It was
Speaker 1: very extra, like I'm already extra, like with my three
Speaker 1: outfit changes that I had. The collection has four dresses.
Speaker 1: It four was a bit much to do, although I
Speaker 1: did get content before the party started in the other one.
Speaker 1: But yeah, like it was extra, but it was fun.
Speaker 1: It was so fun.
Speaker 2: Was there recalling them?
Speaker 1: What does that mean?
Speaker 2: It comes firing back?
Speaker 1: Not really? They were pretty powerful though. Michael was Michael
Speaker 1: was going nuts.
Speaker 2: He was loving it.
Speaker 1: Also was kind of like when they asked, I was
Speaker 1: kind of like, well, when am I ever going to
Speaker 1: probably fire one of these things?
Speaker 2: Ever?
Speaker 1: Again, like it's just a bit random, So I was like,
Speaker 1: fuck it.
Speaker 2: It was so random and it was like I remember standing,
Speaker 2: They're like, what the fuck's going on? Now? These things everywhere?
Speaker 2: I was like, that's fun. Yeah, it was a good night.
Speaker 2: I had a lot of fun. I really did go
Speaker 2: up okay the next day.
Speaker 1: So yeah.
Speaker 2: So, speaking of the dresses, what was your favorite dress?
Speaker 1: I think my favorite, although I'm so obsessed with all
Speaker 1: of them for different reasons, I think the sky full
Speaker 1: of Stars dress is just so special. It was you know,
Speaker 1: you saw the footage I posted of the three sixty
Speaker 1: camera capturing the whole gown. It's just amazing. And like
Speaker 1: with the gloves as well, which is very in fashion
Speaker 1: right now. I just that just came out so much
Speaker 1: better than I could have ever expected. Like Helen O'Connor
Speaker 1: did an amazing job. So yeah, they're all on sale
Speaker 1: now for a limited time. So if you guys want
Speaker 1: to wear any of the dresses, go ahead and jump
Speaker 1: on the website.
Speaker 2: No, I see him find it at heleno'connor dot com
Speaker 2: dot au.
Speaker 1: Second, thanks for there, thanks to the shame was no.
Speaker 2: I had a really good night. It was really nice.
Speaker 2: While your family was fun. Surprised that your brother stayed
Speaker 2: sober the whole time.
Speaker 1: I'm actually proud of him.
Speaker 2: How could you, Like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: He's doing a hundred days sober and I know that
Speaker 1: would be like really hard, especially at your sister's engagement party.
Speaker 2: I thought I caught him with a beer, but he
Speaker 2: had a zero points so tonight.
Speaker 1: That's what I said, because he started the night just
Speaker 1: being like, oh, I'm gonna have a Red Bull and
Speaker 1: then I saw him with a beer in hand, and
Speaker 1: I was like, you like broke your drinking thing. But
Speaker 1: I was like secretly happy. And then he was like, no,
Speaker 1: it's a zero, and I was like, what, I'm proud
Speaker 1: of you.
Speaker 2: I just said to him. I said to him because
Speaker 2: I was pretty I had a couple of drinks at this point,
Speaker 2: and I was like, I couldn't be talking to me sober,
Speaker 2: Like you know when you're talking to someone that's had
Speaker 2: a couple of drinks because you're think you're annoying. Yeah,
Speaker 2: just you know how the I just was like, if
Speaker 2: I was sober talking to someone drinking, I couldn't do it.
Speaker 1: Do you know what it's looking at some of the
Speaker 1: footage back that the girls took on my phone, I
Speaker 1: was a little bit lit by the air, like I
Speaker 1: was very lit. And then on top of that, like,
Speaker 1: I'm such a woo girl at parties, and I fucking
Speaker 1: looking back on the video content of being being like whoa,
Speaker 1: I'm like, shut up, you were talking.
Speaker 2: We were sitting next to each other having a chat
Speaker 2: when things was getting legs about going out, and I
Speaker 2: was like, no, I was like, Anna's full woo girl
Speaker 2: murd right now. Why did you say that to myself?
Speaker 2: I was like, fuck, she's fully woogoing it. You're like,
Speaker 2: let's go out everyone.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm giving myself the just thinking about it.
Speaker 1: I literally was having the best night of my life.
Speaker 1: So I have no regrets, Like I was literally uncloud
Speaker 1: one thousand.
Speaker 2: The next day, not good because.
Speaker 1: We went to the club after so and it's I
Speaker 1: haven't been to the club in a long time, so
Speaker 1: you know, it was it was a time was the
Speaker 1: time home. We had no idea, but then we did
Speaker 1: order McDonald's at four am, and I fell asleep by
Speaker 1: the time it arrived, which when that's happening, you know,
Speaker 1: it's a big night. That's probably the latest I've been
Speaker 1: out in a long time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like I keep saying I could do it,
Speaker 2: and I could do it pretty easily. But do I
Speaker 2: want to do I want.
Speaker 1: To suffer and we have suffrage. Yesterday it was a
Speaker 1: dark day for us.
Speaker 2: Speak for yourself. I went to a dashy meetup.
Speaker 1: Oh you did too? How is that?
Speaker 3: Just?
Speaker 2: Do you want to have dopamine and serotonin released into
Speaker 2: your brain? I felt just like laying there, just like
Speaker 2: covering in treats. So they would just run up for me.
Speaker 1: What was better? The dashound get together on my engagement
Speaker 1: party on par dog.
Speaker 2: No, you're engage your party by far, by far?
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2: As I was walking over to the dashhound meet up, though,
Speaker 2: I saw them all running around and I was like,
Speaker 2: I reckon, this is what heaven is.
Speaker 1: I really still think you should get a dashount. You
Speaker 1: know how I feel about that.
Speaker 2: Jeanine's a kowski. If you're listening, which you are, I
Speaker 2: know you are.
Speaker 1: Janine, please let ma get a Dashound. You'll fall in
Speaker 1: love with it too.
Speaker 2: She's just worried that she'll be puppy sitting it.
Speaker 1: While I'm out the sit You'll probably love it.
Speaker 2: Off to hers. I'm just saying you need to look
Speaker 2: after this.
Speaker 1: But you're so obsessed with dashounds. I just really feel
Speaker 1: like you'll be like, do I go out or do
Speaker 1: I send the night with my dashouse?
Speaker 2: Every time win dash out? When I sit in bed
Speaker 2: or on the couch, I'm like, fuck, imagine having on
Speaker 2: just curl off and but where I am in my
Speaker 2: life right now? Like I said, I can't, Like it's
Speaker 2: just not like unless I have someone that's going to
Speaker 2: look after it for me full time, yeah, then I can't.
Speaker 1: It might be a good sense of responsibility for you
Speaker 1: to have, don't you.
Speaker 2: Think it's not more or less that I'm doing activities
Speaker 2: and anything like that. It's more like just work commitments
Speaker 2: and life commitments that I need someone that will look
Speaker 2: after it. Then I don't want that jean This is Jeanne.
Speaker 2: But then I don't want the dash my dashound ready
Speaker 2: to fall in love with someone else and not me.
Speaker 2: Treat me like it's.
Speaker 1: That's so needy that he's even worried that his dog.
Speaker 2: Won't mom's sitting it. More, it might fall in love
Speaker 2: with my mum more and think of mum as it's
Speaker 2: it's one and me. Before we keep going, we need
Speaker 2: to touch on your hair and it looks okay right now.
Speaker 1: Okay, it looks terrible. What do you mean?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, when you do that, I definitely can.
Speaker 1: So basically for context, head that's a five peg now,
Speaker 1: so for context, if you don't follow my socials. Three
Speaker 1: days before my engagement party, I was microblading my face
Speaker 1: whilst on the phone to one of my best friends,
Speaker 1: and I was like just mindlessly doing it, you know,
Speaker 1: when you're not actually paying attention, because it's just like
Speaker 1: just like a habit, Like it's just something that I
Speaker 1: needed to get done.
Speaker 2: It gets rid of the peach fuzz.
Speaker 1: Yeah, peach fuzz. So any sort of like baby hair.
Speaker 1: Obviously wanted my like skin to just be like especially
Speaker 1: when you get your makeup done for like an event
Speaker 1: and all the kind of like bay hairs on your
Speaker 1: face have been like taken off. It just maybe like
Speaker 1: once a month. Like I'm not very good at it,
Speaker 1: I will. I would always do it if I had
Speaker 1: like an event coming up, because I think it just
Speaker 1: makes your makeup look really flawless. So anyway, I'm like
Speaker 1: on the phone just like mindlessly doing this, and then
Speaker 1: I get to my forehead and I slip whilst it's
Speaker 1: like on my skin. So I literally I just I
Speaker 1: don't know how it's sleep Like, don't even ask me
Speaker 1: how I did it. Like it's the wildest thing and
Speaker 1: like the last thing I would want to do before
Speaker 1: a very important milestone in my life. So I've slipped
Speaker 1: and I've literally cut my head the very like top
Speaker 1: of my forehead.
Speaker 2: So my talk literally like hair gross coming back, Like
Speaker 2: you can see the little hairs coming back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's literally like spiky, like like a guy
Speaker 1: has like it when they have like their beards, like stubble. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like stubble on my forehead now. So I normally
Speaker 1: have like a three head. We've spoken about this. I
Speaker 1: have a very small forehead. Nothing new anyway, I've I've
Speaker 1: got a forehead. Now it's gone to forehead. But like
Speaker 1: I literally I've added an extra centimeter or two to
Speaker 1: my forehead three days before my engagement party, and I
Speaker 1: was just like only I would do something like that.
Speaker 2: Did the hair fall down on the ground?
Speaker 1: It was like yeah, it was like on the blade,
Speaker 1: like it was long hair on the blade. And my
Speaker 1: hairdresser it was just like what have you done? Like
Speaker 1: because obviously for my wedding, I had like bangs, like
Speaker 1: kind of short bangs, like here at my cheekbones, and
Speaker 1: I've been growing them out so that for my wedding
Speaker 1: I can have, you know, hair that falls like long.
Speaker 1: And she's like, all that work for your wedding, but
Speaker 1: this is like so it's come back and it's like
Speaker 1: very short, but like this is gonna be like a
Speaker 1: I was about to say hair like it's gonna be bad.
Speaker 1: And I was like, do I just keep shaving it off?
Speaker 1: And she's like no, like just leave it. But then
Speaker 1: my makeup artist told me something interesting, which is that
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian actually micro bladed her forehead and then got
Speaker 1: laser on the hair. So she's given herself a completely
Speaker 1: new forehead. Shock, I know, so random because she actually
Speaker 1: has a small forehead like me naturally.
Speaker 2: So did it on purpose.
Speaker 1: So she's done it on purpose, and now she's given
Speaker 1: herself a completely new forehead. So like her forehead right
Speaker 1: now looks like my forehead without the turf bit that
Speaker 1: I'm trying to grow back.
Speaker 2: That's gonna be so funny when it's like a couple
Speaker 2: of meal maybe a couple of.
Speaker 1: I know. So I was like, maybe I should just
Speaker 1: get laser on it and just like give myself a
Speaker 1: new forehead.
Speaker 2: Just accept it, just.
Speaker 1: Accept what's gone down. It's just pretty like full on.
Speaker 1: Like if you look up Kim Kardashian forehead before and after,
Speaker 1: there's a huge difference in her forhea actually came off. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like a full thing. Like I had no idea
Speaker 1: about it, and my makeup artist was trying to make
Speaker 1: me feel better. But I've been like, you actually look better,
Speaker 1: don't worry about it. And I was like, ah, should
Speaker 1: I not look good before?
Speaker 2: I'm kidding you know what I mean? Like it looks
Speaker 2: like until you showed it off, like and pulled your
Speaker 2: hair back and I could see the stubble. I can't
Speaker 2: even tell. You can't tell until you pull your hair
Speaker 2: back and you see the stubble.
Speaker 1: That's good, that's good to know. I just won't put
Speaker 1: my hair back anymore, just until the turf comes.
Speaker 2: And then i'd wear a calf.
Speaker 1: Anyway, we'll keep you guys updated on how that little
Speaker 1: process is going. Maybe I will do a Kim kat
Speaker 1: ash and laser it off and just you know.
Speaker 2: Get a forehead like the rest of us. Okay, So
Speaker 2: what's your weekly recommendation. Anna.
Speaker 1: Okay, so obviously been super busy with the engagement party
Speaker 1: and all the planning that I didn't have a recommendation.
Speaker 1: But John, who is here working on our podcast, actually
Speaker 1: just gave me a recommendation with photos I can confirm
Speaker 1: it's an amazing recommendation and I'm just I'm just passing
Speaker 1: it onto our wears your Head Out fan because I
Speaker 1: feel like we should all do it. If you live
Speaker 1: in Melbourne, this one's only for our visiting Melbourne or
Speaker 1: visiting Melbourne. This is for our Melbourne fam or visiting
Speaker 1: Melbourne fam. So there is an exhibition at the moment.
Speaker 1: It's called met Art World. It's in Port Melbourne and
Speaker 1: it's just this beautiful look it up. It's gorgeous. There's
Speaker 1: like the Starry Sky exhibition. There's the Candy Maze. There's
Speaker 1: lots of different rooms that you can go in and
Speaker 1: it's kind of like inspired by those like Japanese rooms
Speaker 1: that you see on socials and they're kind of like
Speaker 1: mirrors everywhere and like fairy lights and neons everywhere.
Speaker 2: And with my mates years ago on the Gold Coach,
Speaker 2: I don't know it's still there. We're up there having
Speaker 2: a boy's trip and my anxiety. I was so overstimulated
Speaker 2: in it, really, and I was like, and I was
Speaker 2: lost in there, and my mates are purposely ditching me,
Speaker 2: and I was like, ah, I know what I'm doing,
Speaker 2: so but it was fun. I'm taking away from your
Speaker 2: recommendation scoganization. I'm saying I was very stimulated in there.
Speaker 1: Yeah. It does look very over simulating to.
Speaker 2: There's a lot going on there.
Speaker 1: It's beautiful.
Speaker 2: Do you mind the mirror maze?
Speaker 3: Though?
Speaker 2: Got lost in yourself?
Speaker 1: That was years ago now though, Yeah, I'm going to
Speaker 1: try and get down there. It's in Port Melbourne. I
Speaker 1: think it could be a fun time and like, I've
Speaker 1: never been to Japan. It's actually you know, it's been
Speaker 1: on my bucket list. I actually had flights booked to
Speaker 1: Japan pre COVID and they got canceled because of the
Speaker 1: whole perfect.
Speaker 2: Time a year right now to go Japan cherry bossom season. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm jealous about it.
Speaker 1: Anyway, if you can't get to Japan and you can
Speaker 1: get to Port Melbourne, then that's the recommendation. Met Art
Speaker 1: World check it out.
Speaker 2: My recommendation, okay, comes off the back of one that
Speaker 2: I did ages ago so well, Remember when I said
Speaker 2: I love the sauna. Yes, I love the sauna.
Speaker 1: I do love this.
Speaker 2: I go there every I spend probably forty five minutes,
Speaker 2: not in a row, on and off I go out, shower,
Speaker 2: I have a swim, go back in forty five minutes
Speaker 2: to an hour. It was like, fifty people are going there.
Speaker 2: I have a fifty percent chance. What was it we
Speaker 2: said it the other day of living longer or something.
Speaker 2: It adds it like gets rid of heart disease and
Speaker 2: all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 1: When the longer you spend in a sauna, the less
Speaker 1: at risk of things like heart attacks you are. So
Speaker 1: it's like so good for you. Like the health benefits
Speaker 1: of going into the sauna and the longer you go
Speaker 1: in there, and like if you do it frequently, the
Speaker 1: health benefits are incredible. I really want to make a
Speaker 1: conscious effort over the coming months to start using the sauna.
Speaker 2: Well, some muppet magoo.
Speaker 1: I didn't expect it to go that way. We're gonna
Speaker 1: say it's like bliss.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's amazing. But you'll understand. Poured water on
Speaker 2: into the electric box of the sauna. So I walked
Speaker 2: into the sauna, and I'm normally like you normally like
Speaker 2: when you first walk in, it's all right, like it's good,
Speaker 2: but leaning my back is the walls, like this isn't hot.
Speaker 2: And I was like everyone, this is this place is broken.
Speaker 2: This isn't working. I'm not getting what I want out
Speaker 2: of this right now.
Speaker 1: I'm not getting your hard sweat sweat.
Speaker 2: And there's a steamroom opposite it, and I've always found
Speaker 2: the steam room really hard to breathe in. I'm against it.
Speaker 2: So I was like, all right, well, I need to
Speaker 2: get my sweat on. So I was relying on this
Speaker 2: song if I needed it to unwind. So I went
Speaker 2: into the steam room and it was unreal steam with
Speaker 2: eucalyptos oil or some guy brought youucalyptos oil and was
Speaker 2: like spraying it around and it just cleared all my
Speaker 2: So I was getting this sweat on, and I was
Speaker 2: cleaning out all my insides, all my like like nostrils
Speaker 2: and all that, opening it all up. It was unbelievable.
Speaker 1: My god. If producer Alex is listening to this she
Speaker 1: currently is in bed with a cold, that could be
Speaker 1: a good little helper. Apparently it's going around sitting at
Speaker 1: the moment she was saying that, and hopefully it doesn't
Speaker 1: come to Melbourne, it will probably well, and if it does,
Speaker 1: go to the sea steamroom and clear clear.
Speaker 2: It was unbelievable, the old fashioned thing, wasn't it. Like
Speaker 2: you put your soil and boiling water and you put
Speaker 2: the cloth over the bowl of water. That's literally the
Speaker 2: same thing, but you're in more of like a getting
Speaker 2: a full body sweat on it at the same time.
Speaker 2: Love it, I love it. It's amazing.
Speaker 1: You're actually really tempting me to go.
Speaker 2: Like, I'm all as soon as I'm out of here,
Speaker 2: my meetings are done for today. I'm going straight to
Speaker 2: the Sauner. Hopefully it's fixed.
Speaker 1: Okay, Matt, Well, on that note, let's jump into our hotline.
Speaker 2: Let's do it.
Speaker 1: Hello, you've reached Anna and Nutt.
Speaker 2: We can't get to the phone right now.
Speaker 1: But please leave us a message on our hot line
Speaker 1: after the beep.
Speaker 2: Okay. Our first hot line comes in from Jamie.
Speaker 5: Hi, guys, having an engagement party time.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 5: Engagement party story. When I got engaged about my engagement party,
Speaker 5: my uncle got way too drunk and spent most of
Speaker 5: the night in the bathroom at the knew, just spewing.
Speaker 5: But when things, he wouldn't let anyone help him accept
Speaker 5: my fiance, so no one could help him accept my fiance,
Speaker 5: and the things they were even close. I kid went
Speaker 5: my uncle once but for some gras and my uncle
Speaker 5: just wouldn't let anyone else in there except him.
Speaker 1: So eventually we got him out of the.
Speaker 5: Bathroom and my uncle's wife got him in and they
Speaker 5: got in an.
Speaker 1: Uber and went home.
Speaker 5: But it was just your ast bizarre, ridiculous thing. So
Speaker 5: I guess I hope nothing that that happens at your
Speaker 5: engagement party. And I don't know drunk uncles taking Michael
Speaker 5: away for half the night. That sounds bad, but anyway,
Speaker 5: I hope he had a great time. And that's my
Speaker 5: engagement party story.
Speaker 1: Bye, guys, Thanks Jamie, Thanks Jamie. Did you wow?
Speaker 2: Do you have any drunk uncles? Are yours?
Speaker 1: No? You know what, No one actually like did anything
Speaker 1: too wild, as in like norm was vomiting that I
Speaker 1: know of.
Speaker 2: I vomtaged when I got home. I told you, I
Speaker 2: took my hand full of vitamins as I walked in
Speaker 2: the door. Oh that's right, and they just went down
Speaker 2: and they just like no I'm not staying around here,
Speaker 2: and then came straight back after.
Speaker 1: Why would your vitamins want to be in a fucking
Speaker 1: stomach full of like alcohol for all spirits.
Speaker 2: And for cecco. So they were just like, nope, we're
Speaker 2: coming back up, and I was like, I was, that's
Speaker 2: so again. Yeah, yeah a second, did you They stayed
Speaker 2: down the second time, so well.
Speaker 1: You actually ended up getting them down.
Speaker 2: Do what you gotta do as well, healthy healthy, Yeah.
Speaker 1: That doesn't sound like the best for Jamie's fiance. That
Speaker 1: does not sound good.
Speaker 2: Well, Michael would have been good. If one of your
Speaker 2: uncles was drunk, he would have helped him, held their
Speaker 2: hair back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 2: I was talking to a drunk uncle. It was Scottish
Speaker 2: lost twenty something kilos.
Speaker 1: Lost twenty kilos, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Scottish, one of the Yeah, and I was talking to
Speaker 2: him for a bit. People were going around drunk. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone like everyone was up and about. Everyone was
Speaker 1: like happy, but no one was like vomiting or like,
Speaker 1: you know, messy. Poor Jamie. Thank god that didn't happen
Speaker 1: at mine.
Speaker 2: Our next callert is Anonymous.
Speaker 3: Hi and Matt Love the Pod, just calling in with
Speaker 3: my crazy engagement story. Well, it was my friend's engagement party. Basically,
Speaker 3: she planned to have a surprise wedding at her engagement party.
Speaker 2: I thought you were going to do that.
Speaker 1: Really, we're all.
Speaker 3: So excited and like planned out. It was going to
Speaker 3: be amazing. And then as soon as she and her
Speaker 3: fielance announced that it was actually a surprise wedding, his
Speaker 3: ex who was there because they were still friends. So
Speaker 3: my friend said, yeah, you can invite her, his ex
Speaker 3: just burst into tears.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: So she ended up leaving the party early because she
Speaker 3: was just so embarrassed. But yeah, it was my friend
Speaker 3: took it on the chin, like she's really chilled.
Speaker 1: But it was wild.
Speaker 2: Okay, is wild exes at if you're still friends ex'es
Speaker 2: at engagement parties and weddings? Yes or no?
Speaker 1: I think no.
Speaker 2: I think yes if you're still friends. Yeah, if you're friends.
Speaker 1: How close friends are you? Like, it's just I get
Speaker 1: being friends, but like, I wouldn't have my ex at
Speaker 1: my engagement party.
Speaker 2: Do you have Michael's excess?
Speaker 1: I don't think it's necessary. I know that's a strong
Speaker 1: no from it. I mean I'm not going to even
Speaker 1: act like I would be cool with it. Absolutely not
Speaker 1: fuck that I can.
Speaker 2: I know that they're an extra reason. I think that
Speaker 2: my I'm friendly with a lot of my exes, that
Speaker 2: they could be there. I don't think they would walk
Speaker 2: away crying. I obviously it would always hurt to see
Speaker 2: your ex get with. Don't you reckon? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Actually I have a story, but I'm like, do I
Speaker 1: tell it?
Speaker 2: Is it about you me?
Speaker 1: No, it happened to me, so I once, fuck do
Speaker 1: I tell this story? So basically, I went to a
Speaker 1: house party once of like a guy who I used
Speaker 1: to see.
Speaker 2: How long is this dating back at the house party?
Speaker 1: This is like fuck, it would be like twenty eighteen,
Speaker 1: maybe twenty seventeen, even years ago. Yeah. So anyway, I
Speaker 1: went to a house party with him with my then boyfriend,
Speaker 1: and halfway through the night, he was like, hey, can
Speaker 1: I talk to you? And I was like yeah, and
Speaker 1: he was like, hey, I just want to let you
Speaker 1: know that I'm about to.
Speaker 2: Propose at the house party.
Speaker 1: At the house party because it was a surprise proposal,
Speaker 1: and I was like oh okay, and he's like yeah,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to like make sure you that you're
Speaker 1: okay with it, and I was like yeah, Like that's
Speaker 1: sign I've got a boyfriend, now you've got a new girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Like all as well, Like.
Speaker 2: It's fine, you congratulated him.
Speaker 1: Of course I was there for the proposal, like he
Speaker 1: proposed in front of everyone, But the fact that before
Speaker 1: pre proposal he pulled me aside to make sure I
Speaker 1: would be okay with it. I was like, if I
Speaker 1: was your then fiance, I would not be okay with that.
Speaker 2: Like I was about to say what a nice guy.
Speaker 2: Everyone's like, what.
Speaker 1: Was I going to say? No, I'm not okay with it,
Speaker 1: Like like why did you invite me to a house party?
Speaker 2: You yeah, okay, yeah yeah?
Speaker 1: Why would you invite me to a house party where
Speaker 1: you're going to propose if like you have some sort
Speaker 1: of qualm about it and have to like pre warn me,
Speaker 1: Like maybe he thought I was gonna burst out crying,
Speaker 1: but I definitely wasn't. It's funny though, because have you heard.
Speaker 2: Him when you dumped him and he's like, i'll get
Speaker 2: her back here.
Speaker 1: Well, it's interesting because six months later I actually became
Speaker 1: single and I saw him out at the club and
Speaker 1: he was like, I waited for like five years for
Speaker 1: you to be single, and then I've just gone and
Speaker 1: proposed and you've become single, and you've become single, what
Speaker 1: the fuck? And I was like, probably, I don't know
Speaker 1: if you should be engaged if that's train of thought.
Speaker 2: So that's probably not. But I thought that you guys
Speaker 2: are going to do maybe a surprise wedding. I don't
Speaker 2: know why. Michael said something in his speech and then
Speaker 2: for a split second I was like.
Speaker 1: Huh, really people said that he.
Speaker 2: Said something in his speech that at the start that
Speaker 2: made it sounded like it was going to be that.
Speaker 1: Really, Yeah, would you have been very surprised because you'd
Speaker 1: be like, surely Adam.
Speaker 2: Would have told me I just knowing you've got your
Speaker 2: heart set on Greats and you've booked a place, like.
Speaker 1: What you're like, what I'm not going to greet yea?
Speaker 2: What is Greek still on? Or not? What's going on there?
Speaker 1: Mentally checked into my.
Speaker 2: I've already got like yeah, I'm already there, so what's
Speaker 2: going on? That's what I would have been more sugar about,
Speaker 2: but not the actual like I think it would be
Speaker 2: like he would have been romantic to do that and
Speaker 2: then have another one for a close, close family in Greece.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree, But anyway, back to our hotline,
Speaker 1: I'm glad that she was so chill because I think
Speaker 1: if if I at my engagement party had been like
Speaker 1: it's a surprise wedding and then like someone burst out crying,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be thrilled because then it's just like damn
Speaker 1: the whole note a little bit. Yeah, it kind of puts.
Speaker 2: Like a bit of all people crying at a wedding
Speaker 2: out of sadness and crying out of half time.
Speaker 1: Yah, it's a bit of a buzzkill. And then it
Speaker 1: also is kind of like highlighting that they still very
Speaker 1: much have strong feelings for your partner, which is not
Speaker 1: a good feeling. And then like I think for me,
Speaker 1: I would be wondering, like, well, how is he he
Speaker 1: feeling about the fact that his exes has just burst
Speaker 1: out crying? You know what I mean? Like is that
Speaker 1: affecting him in any way? I want him to be
Speaker 1: in the happiest possible place because we are about to
Speaker 1: get married, and then he's probably in the back of his.
Speaker 2: Mind being like, oh shit, because they would be friends
Speaker 2: if she's invited to that. Yeah, engagement slash wedding a
Speaker 2: good right very awkward. Yeah, I mean probably don't go
Speaker 2: there if you're going to still cry if that happens.
Speaker 2: And you know what I mean, but I feel like
Speaker 2: everyone would cry seeing like not cry, but you know,
Speaker 2: have a bit of sadness, no matter how over their
Speaker 2: x are.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean, like you know, if you're like, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean, you'd be like, oh, good for them.
Speaker 1: I mean, if Joshua was getting married, I just feel like, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: same a couple of my we were talking about specific
Speaker 1: specific people.
Speaker 2: Let you know that you're like, oh yeah, okay, Yeah,
Speaker 2: we have to go our own ways for like, you know,
Speaker 2: just sort of things like, yeah, how are my exes
Speaker 2: if they were getting married? If you like, what's wrong
Speaker 2: with the guy? I would put him over my shoulder
Speaker 2: and run run him too a safe place. Yeah, mate,
Speaker 2: don't do this, you foll FU. You're coming with me?
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