WEBVTT - The Cost Of Christmas

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<v Kia>Hey,  it's  Kia  and  welcome  to  A  Little  Bit Richer's  very 

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<v Kia>own  Christmas  special.  I  know,  I  know  it's  still  November 

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<v Kia>and  I'm  mentioning  the  C  word,  but  part  of  the 

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<v Kia>secret  to  a  cost- effective  Christmas  or  Hanukkah  or  just 

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<v Kia>December  in  general  is  starting  to  plan  early.  It  can 

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<v Kia>be  the  most  expensive  month  of  the  year.  So  how 

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<v Kia>do  we  have  a  great  December  while  still  getting  a 

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<v Kia>little  bit  richer?  With  me  to  unpack  it  all  is 

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<v Kia>Megan  Micklewright.  Megan  was  recently  named  Financial  Influencer  of  the 

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<v Kia>Year  2023,  and  is  the  founder  of  The  Savvy  Spender, 

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<v Kia>a  platform  dedicated  to  financial  positivity.
 Megan,  traditionally  there's  been 

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<v Kia>a  lot  of  pressure  to  spend  at  this  time  of 

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<v Kia>the  year,  but  we  are  starting  to  see  people  approach 

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<v Kia>this  differently.  How's  that?

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<v Megan Micklewright>I  think  a  lot  of  people  are  approaching  it  differently, 

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<v Megan Micklewright>especially  with  the  cost  of  living  now,  being  more  open 

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<v Megan Micklewright>with  their  boundaries,  setting  limits,  thinking  outside  the  box,  getting 

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<v Megan Micklewright>creative  with  presents,  making  things  homemade,  doing  more  Secret  Santa. 

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<v Megan Micklewright>Instead  of  buying  everybody  a  gift  in  the  family,  they're 

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<v Megan Micklewright>passing  it  forward  to  charities  instead.  I  was  recently  just 

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<v Megan Micklewright>having,  well,  say  recently,  earlier,  about  an  hour  ago  having 

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<v Megan Micklewright>a  conversation  with  someone  about  how  my  partner's  family  is 

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<v Megan Micklewright>so  big  that  they  don't  end  up  doing  presents  because 

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<v Megan Micklewright>it  will  cost  them  an  absolute  fortune.  There's  about  30, 40 

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<v Megan Micklewright>of  them  and  instead  they  just  do  a  Secret  Santa. 

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<v Megan Micklewright>So  instead  of  one  person  buying  39  presents,  it's  one 

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<v Megan Micklewright>person  buying  one  present  and  it's  just  so  much  easier 

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<v Megan Micklewright>on  the  pocket,  isn't  it,  getting  creative  with  the  way 

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<v Megan Micklewright>you're  doing  presents  instead  of  just  that  generic  buy- in 

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<v Megan Micklewright>for  everybody?

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<v Kia>Absolutely.  I  think,  especially  with  me  and  my  friends,  I 

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<v Kia>think  for  the  past  five  years  we  do  our  own 

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<v Kia>separate  Christmas  celebrations,  but  we  also  do  Secret  Santa  because 

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<v Kia>I  think  when  we  were  younger  we  used  to  think, "

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<v Kia>Okay,  got to buy  this  person,  that  person."  That list just gets longer and longer.

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<v Megan Micklewright>The  list goes on.

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<v Kia>And the price  just  keeps  increasing.  But  now  we  decide,  right,  we're 

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<v Kia>going  to  do the  Secret  Santa  and you  get  whoever  you  get 

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<v Kia>and  we  have  a  budget,  which  is  very  key  because 

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<v Kia>you  never  know  who's  earning  what.  So  we  just  all 

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<v Kia>agree  a  budget and we all stick to that  budget  and  I  think  it  makes  things 

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<v Kia>a  lot  easier  and  that  way  you're  almost  forced  to 

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<v Kia>think  more  about  the  gift  that  you're  giving.  Especially  we've 

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<v Kia>done  it  where  it's  only £ 10  pounds  is  the  budget. 

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<v Kia>So  now  I'm  thinking  about  the  person  I've  got,  what 

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<v Kia>would  they  love that  I  can  buy  for  them  that  is 

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<v Kia>within  budget  or  I  can  make?  My  friend  made  me 

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<v Kia>a  lovely  notebook  that  I  still  use  to  this  day. 

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<v Kia>So  I  think  it  really  does  get  you  thinking  whilst 

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<v Kia>also  not  breaking  the  bank,  which  is  really  important.
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<v Kia>I  want  to  ask  you  then,  Megan,  do  you  have 

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<v Kia>any  advice  for  those  who  are  having  a  difficult  conversations 

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<v Kia>with  friends  and  family  and  if  those  people  may  have 

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<v Kia>different  approaches  to  the  holiday  season?

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<v Megan Micklewright>I  think  that a  conversation  doesn't  have  to  be  difficult  unless 

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<v Megan Micklewright>you  make  it  difficult.  If  you  go  in  and  feel 

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<v Megan Micklewright>awkward  about  it,  it's  automatically  going  to  be  awkward.  Tell  people, "

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<v Megan Micklewright>I've  only  got  this  much  to  spend,"  or, " I  don't 

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<v Megan Micklewright>want  to  spend  a  lot  this  Christmas,  I've  got  other 

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<v Megan Micklewright>priorities."  At  the  end  of  the  day,  nobody  can  tell 

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<v Megan Micklewright>you  what  your  priorities  should  or  shouldn't  be.  So  being 

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<v Megan Micklewright>clear  about  it,  make  sure  everyone  is  on  the  same 

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<v Megan Micklewright>page  and  everyone  can  respect  each  other's  decisions  really.  I 

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<v Megan Micklewright>was  speaking  to  somebody  the  other  day  about  Christmas  and 

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<v Megan Micklewright>just  saying  that  even  with  family  members  that  are  very 

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<v Megan Micklewright>traditional  in  setting  their  ways,  this  is  how  we  do 

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<v Megan Micklewright>things,  it's  good  to  open  their  mind  up  to  new 

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<v Megan Micklewright>ways  and  it's  not  about  saying  this  is  the  way 

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<v Megan Micklewright>it's  done  and  that's  the  way  we're  doing  it  this 

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<v Megan Micklewright>year.  Have  a  discussion,  what  do  you  want  to  do? 

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<v Megan Micklewright>What  do  I  want  to  do?  And  come  into  compromises 

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<v Megan Micklewright>and  that  way  you're  all  happy.

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<v Kia>I  love  that.  I  think  this  has  been  a  running 

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<v Kia>theme  on  the  podcast  about  having  conversations.  I  think  that's 

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<v Kia>the  big  thing.  We  don't  always  talk  about  money,  so 

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<v Kia>sometimes  it  can  feel  as  though  it's  hard  to  tell  people, "

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<v Kia>You  know  what?  I  haven't  got  the  money  this  year. 

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<v Kia>Or  actually,  can  we  change  what  we  do  this  year?" 

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<v Kia>But  I  think,  like  you  said,  open,  honest  conversations  and 

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<v Kia>it's  not  as  hard  as  you think it is. It's  just  as  hard  as 

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<v Kia>you  make  it.

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<v Megan Micklewright>Absolutely.

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<v Kia>I  love  that  when  you said that.

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<v Megan Micklewright>I  think  with  the  cost  of  living  as  well,  the 

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<v Megan Micklewright>stigma  around  money  conversations  is  slowly  dying  because  people  that 

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<v Megan Micklewright>never  thought  they'd  be  struggling  are  actually  struggling  and  that's 

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<v Megan Micklewright>where  the  stigma's  being  lost  because  more  and  more  people 

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<v Megan Micklewright>are  talking  about  money,  which  is  brilliant  really  because  there 

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<v Megan Micklewright>should  never  be  a  stigma  around  it.

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<v Kia>Exactly.  I  completely  agree  with  you.  Is  there  a  way 

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<v Kia>to  have  the  best  of  both  worlds?  So  when  I 

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<v Kia>say  that,  I  mean  is  there  a  way  to  have 

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<v Kia>a  great  Christmas  while  still  sticking  to  your  financial  goals?

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<v Megan Micklewright>100%,  absolutely.  You  can  always  have  the  best  of  both 

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<v Megan Micklewright>worlds  when  it  comes  to  spending  money  and  Christmas.  Make 

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<v Megan Micklewright>sure  you've  got  them  budgets  in  place  and  stick  to 

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<v Megan Micklewright>them.  Talk  to  yourself,  write  down  in  your  notes,  your 

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<v Megan Micklewright>notebook,  wherever.  What's  important  to  you  this  Christmas?  What  do 

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<v Megan Micklewright>you  want  to  tick  off?  What  do  you  want  to 

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<v Megan Micklewright>do? Do  you  really  need  to  go  out  to  eat  once 

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<v Megan Micklewright>a  week?  Make  sure  that  you're  doing  what  you  want 

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<v Megan Micklewright>to  do,  ticking  them  off  and  your  money's  going  to 

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<v Megan Micklewright>the  important  places.  That  way  you  are  having  the  best 

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<v Megan Micklewright>of  both  worlds.  And  you  can  also  make  sure  you're 

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<v Megan Micklewright>saving  money  when  you  are  doing  those  things.  Make  sure 

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<v Megan Micklewright>you're  using  cash  back.  Make  sure  you're  budgeting  for  them, 

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<v Megan Micklewright>book  in  advance,  schedule  what  you're  doing  so  you  can 

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<v Megan Micklewright>get  the  most  for  your  money.

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<v Kia>I  love  that. And I  especially  love  when  you  said  reviewing  how 

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<v Kia>you're  spending.  So  do  you  need  to  go  out  and 

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<v Kia>eat  every  week?  Because  it's  something  that  my  friends  and 

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<v Kia>I have  also  been  fully  aware  of  because  I  think  you 

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<v Kia>find  when  you  go  to  meet  people,  quite  often  you 

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<v Kia>meet  up  with  friends  and  then  you're  going  out  and 

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<v Kia>before  you  know  it  you've  spent £ 40  on  your  bill. 

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<v Kia>Whereas  if  you're  more  aware  of  it  because  you  want 

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<v Kia>to  stick  to  your  financial  goals,  maybe  you  say, " You 

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<v Kia>know  what?  I  want  to  meet  up  with  you,  but 

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<v Kia>let's  go  for  a  coffee  or  let's  go  for  a 

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<v Kia>walk  instead."  And  I  think  that's  some  of  the  changes 

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<v Kia>that  a  lot  of  people  are  making.  So  it's  like 

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<v Kia>you  don't  have  to  compromise.  You  can  still  have,  like 

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<v Kia>you  said,  the  good  Christmas,  but  we  can  also  still 

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<v Kia>100%  stick  to our  financial  goals.  You don't  have  to  compromise  anything.

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<v Megan Micklewright>Definitely.  And  when  you're going  out,  you  don't  always  have  to 

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<v Megan Micklewright>go  to  these  fancy  places.  You  can  go  to  somewhere 

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<v Megan Micklewright>that's  cheap,  that's  cheerful,  it's  good  for  everybody.  And  if 

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<v Megan Micklewright>people  are  drinking  and  you're  not  or  they  want  to 

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<v Megan Micklewright>have  a  starter,  main,  dessert,  just  open  up  your  separate 

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<v Megan Micklewright>tab.  You  don't  have  to  split  the  bill.  And  it 

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<v Megan Micklewright>doesn't  have  to  be  an  awkward  conversation  about  splitting  the 

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<v Megan Micklewright>bill.  Just  say, " Look,  I'm  not  drinking  today  or  I'm 

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<v Megan Micklewright>only  having  a  small  starter  so  I'm  going  to  open 

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<v Megan Micklewright>up  my  own  tab."  It  doesn't  have  to  be  a 

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<v Megan Micklewright>big  thing  at  the  end  of  the  meal  where  you're  like, "

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<v Megan Micklewright>Oh,  someone's  getting  out  the  calculator."  That  bit  that  everybody 

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<v Megan Micklewright>dreads.  Say  at  the  beginning  of  the  meal, " Right,  I'm 

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<v Megan Micklewright>going  to  open  up  my  own  tab  because  I'm  not 

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<v Megan Micklewright>drinking  tonight."  It  doesn't  have  to  be  an  awkward  conversation. 

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<v Megan Micklewright>It  can  be  really  easy,  really  simple,  and  that's  the 

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<v Megan Micklewright>best  way  to  keep  it.

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<v Kia>Yep.  I'm  100%  behind  you  on  that  because  I'm  someone 

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<v Kia>very  much  so  sometimes  we  go  out  and  I'm  happy to 

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<v Kia>split.  Sometimes  I'm  not  hungry  and  I'll  tell  my  friends 

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<v Kia>or  whoever  I'm  with, " Guys,  I'm  just  going  to  pay 

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<v Kia>for  my  one  thing  because  I'm  only  getting  one  thing." 

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<v Kia>And  I  don't  feel  bad  about  having that  conversation.  At  least 

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<v Kia>people  know  now,  okay,  that's  how  we're  going  to  split 

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<v Kia>the  bill.  Kia's  not  a  part  of  that.  So  whatever 

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<v Kia>I  get  now,  I  split  between  whoever's  agreed  upon  it and 

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<v Kia>it  makes  things  easier.

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<v Megan Micklewright>I  went  for  a  meal  once  and I  don't  drink  and 

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<v Megan Micklewright>everybody  was  ordering  cocktails  and it  was  in  a  really  nice 

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<v Megan Micklewright>restaurant.  They  were  like £ 12  each.  And  someone  ordered  lobster, 

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<v Megan Micklewright>which  of  course  is  very  expensive.  And  I  was  thinking, 

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<v Megan Micklewright>I'm  not  drinking.  I  had  a  really  cheap  main. I am  not 

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<v Megan Micklewright>splitting  this  bill.  And  I  just  said, " I'm  going  to 

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<v Megan Micklewright>open  up  my  own  tab  because  I've  had  a  really 

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<v Megan Micklewright>cheap  main,  I'm  not  drinking."  It  was  like  fine.  And 

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<v Megan Micklewright>I  think  as  long  as  you  keep  it  simple,  don't 

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<v Megan Micklewright>beat  around  the  bush  with  it.  It's  absolutely  fine,  but 

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<v Megan Micklewright>it's  about  the  conversations  you're  having and  the  people  you're  around. 

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<v Megan Micklewright>You  don't  need  to  spend  loads  to  have  a  good  time.

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<v Kia>Exactly.  I  love  Christmas.  It  brings  the  spirit.  You  get 

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<v Kia>to be with  your  loved  ones.

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<v Megan Micklewright>That's  it.

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<v Kia>My  favorite  time  of  the year. Not lying. I love it.

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<v Megan Micklewright>Get out the  games,  that's  what  I love.

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<v Kia>Yeah. I  love  the  games  and  the  food.

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<v Megan Micklewright>And  the  food.

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<v Kia>All  of  that.  I'm  getting  excited  now.  See,  I'm  getting 

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<v Kia>ahead  of  myself.  Okay,  so  let's  talk  about  the  environment. 

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<v Kia>What  is  the  environmental  impact  of  all  of  this?  How 

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<v Kia>does  pulling  back  on  consumerism  help?

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<v Megan Micklewright>It  helps  in  so  many  different  ways.  The  sustainability  aspect 

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<v Megan Micklewright>of  it,  the  amount  of  things  that  end  up  in 

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<v Megan Micklewright>landfill,  the  amount  of  things  that  end  up  just  cluttering 

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<v Megan Micklewright>your  own  house  without  talking  about  the  environmental  impact.  We 

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<v Megan Micklewright>all  end  up  with  so  much  stuff  and  we  say, "

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<v Megan Micklewright>We  haven't  used  that,"  or, " Why  did  they  buy  me 

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<v Megan Micklewright>that?"  I  think  we've  all  got  a  present  where  we're  like, "

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<v Megan Micklewright>What  am I  going  to  do  with  this?"  And  it's  being 

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<v Megan Micklewright>more  mindful  and  thoughtful  about  the  things  that  you're  buying 

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<v Megan Micklewright>people  as  well,  like  you  mentioned.  If  you've  got  them 

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<v Megan Micklewright>budgets,  thinking  about  what  does  that  person  really  want?  And 

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<v Megan Micklewright>if  we're  more  mindful  about  it,  then  we  end  up 

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<v Megan Micklewright>buying  things  that  are  actually  going  to  be  used,  which 

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<v Megan Micklewright>has  an  impact  on  our  wallets,  on  the  environment,  on 

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<v Megan Micklewright>other  people's  clutter  and  decluttering.  So  it  has  major  impacts 

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<v Megan Micklewright>in  so  many  different  areas.

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<v Kia>Absolutely.  I  think  one  thing  that  I  also  do  is 

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<v Kia>I  ask  people, " What  is  it that  you  actually  want?"  Because 

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<v Kia>think  of  how  many  times,  I'm  sure  you've  had  it, 

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<v Kia>I  definitely  have  had  it,  where  you've  received  the  gift 

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<v Kia>and  you're  like, " I  cannot  stand  this.  What  am  I 

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<v Kia>going  to  do with  this?"  The  person  didn't  even  think  about 

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<v Kia>what  this  gift  is,  and  now  you're  probably  thinking  about 

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<v Kia>regifting  it  or  you  never  use  it  and  it  does 

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<v Kia>just  kind  of  clutter  up.  But  I  think  when  you 

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<v Kia>do  have  that  conversation  with  someone,  I  mean  it's  not 

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<v Kia>spoiling  it.  You  can  get people  to  write  on a  list.  You 

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<v Kia>can  pick  from  that  list,  so  it's  still  got  an 

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<v Kia>air  of  surprise  to  it,  but  then  at  least  you're 

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<v Kia>buying  something that  that  person's  going  to  use  or  value.  Let's 

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<v Kia>talk  about  gifting  then.  Does  expensive  always  mean  better  or 

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<v Kia>are  there  other  approaches  that  people  can  take  when  it 

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<v Kia>comes  to  gift  giving?

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<v Megan Micklewright>Expensive  doesn't  always  mean  better.  I  guess  it  depends  what 

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<v Megan Micklewright>you're  buying,  but  there's  so  many  alternatives  out  there  now. 

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<v Megan Micklewright>There's  never  just  one  of  one  product.  There's  so  many 

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<v Megan Micklewright>different  jewelry  brands,  phone  brands,  that  sort  of  thing.  And 

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<v Megan Micklewright>there's  dupes  as  well  out  there  now.  You  can  always 

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<v Megan Micklewright>get  a  cheaper  alternative.  So  expensive  doesn't  always  mean  better. 

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<v Megan Micklewright>It's  different  if  someone's  asked  for  a  specific  brand  or 

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<v Megan Micklewright>something  like  that.  But  always  make  sure  you're  shopping  around, 

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<v Megan Micklewright>never  just  take  the  first  price  you  see  because  nine 

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<v Megan Micklewright>times  out  of  10  it's  not  the  best.  And  making 

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<v Megan Micklewright>sure  you're  looking  for  discount  codes  and  that  sort  of 

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<v Megan Micklewright>stuff,  using  cashback  where  possible  because  if  you  are  making 

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<v Megan Micklewright>an  expensive  purchase,  you  can  still  get  some  money  back 

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<v Megan Micklewright>that  way.

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<v Kia>I  love  that.  Cashback,  discount  codes,  all  of  those  things. 

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<v Kia>So,  Megan,  it's  Black  Friday  this  week  and  that's  a 

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<v Kia>time  where  some  people  may  be  thinking, " I'm  going  to 

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<v Kia>get  all  of  my  Christmas  presents  on  that  day  because 

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<v Kia>so  many  deals  coming  out."  So  I  want  to  ask 

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<v Kia>you,  is  it  actually  a  good  deal?  Should  people  spend 

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<v Kia>their  money  and  use  Black  Friday  as  an  opportunity  or 

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<v Kia>should  people  maybe  hold  back  a  bit?

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<v Megan Micklewright>I  don't  think  you  should  hold  back,  but  I  also 

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<v Megan Micklewright>don't  think  you  should  rely  on  it.  You've  got  to 

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<v Megan Micklewright>remember  that  these  days  are  put  out  there  for  people 

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<v Megan Micklewright>to  spend.  They're  not  there  for  people  to  save.  They're 

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<v Megan Micklewright>there  for  people  to  spend  and  it  is  a  good 

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<v Megan Micklewright>day  to  check  deals,  but  purely  to  check  deals  and 

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<v Megan Micklewright>make  sure  you  actually  are  getting  a  good  deal  because 

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<v Megan Micklewright>sometimes  the  prices  are  hiked  up  in  the  weeks  upcoming 

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<v Megan Micklewright>so  they  can  be  pulled  down  on  that  day  and 

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<v Megan Micklewright>actually  everyone  thinks  they're  getting  a  good  deal,  but  it's 

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<v Megan Micklewright>not  a  good  deal.  So  make  sure  you  are  shopping 

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<v Megan Micklewright>around,  look  and  see  if  you  are  actually  getting  a 

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<v Megan Micklewright>good  deal.
 And  also  remember  it's  not  a  saving  if 

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<v Megan Micklewright>you  didn't  need  it  anyway.  You're  actually  just  spending.  So 

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<v Megan Micklewright>make  sure  you  stick  to  your  list.  Don't  just  get 

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<v Megan Micklewright>pulled  in  to  all  of  these  good  deals  and  offers 

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<v Megan Micklewright>that  you're  seeing.  Get  rid  of  the  triggers  if  you 

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<v Megan Micklewright>need  to,  unsubscribe  from  them  emails,  unfollow people on Instagram  if  you  need 

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<v Megan Micklewright>to.  If  you're  struggling  for  money  especially  and  you  know 

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<v Megan Micklewright>that  you're  going  to  be  triggered  by  Black  Friday,  get 

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<v Megan Micklewright>rid  of  any  triggers.  You  don't  need  to  spend  if 

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<v Megan Micklewright>there's  something  that  you  don't  need.

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<v Kia>I  absolutely  agree  with  you.  When  it  comes  to  Black 

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<v Kia>Friday,  I  mean,  I  very  rarely  shop  on  those  days 

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<v Kia>anyway.  Cyber  Monday,  those  kind  of  days.  But  when  it 

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<v Kia>comes  to  Black  Friday  or  the  lead- up  to  it, 

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<v Kia>I  use  price  trackers.  So  certain  websites  will  have  a 

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<v Kia>tracker,  the  big  websites,  and  you  can  actually  say,  right, 

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<v Kia>I'm  looking  at  this  product  and  it  will  track  the 

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<v Kia>price  of  it.  And  you  can  also  look  at  historical 

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<v Kia>prices  so  you  can  see  was  it  hiked  up  like 

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<v Kia>you  said  the  week  before  and  now  it's  just  come 

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<v Kia>back  to  the  original  price  or  is  there  actually  a 

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<v Kia>saving  if  I  wanted  to  buy  it?  If  you  get 

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<v Kia>into  that  habit,  you  can  definitely  make  sure  you're  getting 

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<v Kia>the  best  price  for  anything  you're  buying,  100%.  Finally,  Megan, 

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<v Kia>what  three  tips  do  you  have  for  our  listeners  as 

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<v Kia>they  look  ahead  to  Christmas  to  help  them  get  a 

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<v Kia>little  bit  richer.

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<v Megan Micklewright>I've  mentioned  it  so  many  times,  but  the  first  one 

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<v Megan Micklewright>is  definitely  being  open  and  honest.  Having  them  conversations  with 

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<v Megan Micklewright>people  around  you.  Nobody's  going  to  know  unless  you  tell 

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<v Megan Micklewright>them.  You've  got  to  be  open  and  honest.  The  second 

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<v Megan Micklewright>one  will  be  never  take  that  first  price  you  see, 

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<v Megan Micklewright>shop  around,  make  it  a  habit.  Get  into  the  habit 

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<v Megan Micklewright>of  looking  for  cashback,  looking  for  discount  codes,  having  a 

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<v Megan Micklewright>look  on  even  Facebook  groups  and  things  like  that.  And 

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<v Megan Micklewright>the  third  one  is  get  a  little  bit  creative.  Mine 

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<v Megan Micklewright>Nan,  for  example,  she's  got  everything  that  she  needs,  absolutely 

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<v Megan Micklewright>everything  that  she  needs.  And  I  know  that  whatever  I 

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<v Megan Micklewright>buy  her,  she's  not  going  to  use.  So I  get  creative. 

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<v Megan Micklewright>I  make  her  hampers.  I  buy  her  experiences  instead.  And 

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<v Megan Micklewright>that  can  be  a  lot  more  thoughtful  for  the  person 

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<v Megan Micklewright>that  you're  buying  for,  but  also  be  a  bit  easier 

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<v Megan Micklewright>on  your  pocket  as  well.

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<v Kia>I  love  that. That is  so  thoughtful.  Yeah,  it  makes  you  really 

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<v Kia>think  about  what  the  person  would  value.  Megan,  thank  you 

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<v Kia>so  much.  This  has  been  a  great  episode  and  really 

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<v Kia>gotten  us  into  the  Christmas  spirit.

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<v Megan Micklewright>I'm  feeling  Christmassy.

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<v Kia>I'm  feeling  Christmassy.  I'm  ready.  I'm  ready  for Christmas.

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<v Megan Micklewright>I'm ready to go  Christmas  shopping  now.

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<v Kia>I'm  ready  for  everything.  I'm  ready  to  look  at  the 

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<v Kia>food,  everything.

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<v Megan Micklewright>I'm  ready  for  the  food.

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<v Kia>We're  getting  too  excited.  We're  getting  too  excited.

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<v Megan Micklewright>Let's  not  buy  presents  and  let's  just buy food.

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<v Kia>Buy  food.  I'm  with  you  on  that,  honestly.  Thank  you 

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<v Kia>so  much.

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<v Megan Micklewright>Thank  you.

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<v Kia>This has been  a  great  episode.
 Next  week  I'm  returning  to  a 

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<v Kia>topic  we  looked  at  earlier  in  the  series,  house  buying. 

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<v Kia>I  want  to  focus  specifically  on  the  cost  of  buying 

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<v Kia>your  first  home  and  how  to  save.  And  don't  worry, 

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<v Kia>the  words  avocado  on  toast  are  officially  banned.  I  promise. 

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<v Kia>But  while  you  wait,  you  know  the  drill,  hit  follow 

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<v Kia>and  leave  a  review.  Happy  Christmas.