1 00:00:31,340 --> 00:00:37,760 Suze: September 11th 2022. Now I know, I know today is 2 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:41,710 Suze: supposed to be Suze School and I know I know 3 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:45,320 Suze: just a few days ago I said well today we're 4 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,199 Suze: going to talk about the stock market and things like 5 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:48,770 Suze: that 6 00:00:49,580 --> 00:00:52,010 Suze: and then I realized 7 00:00:52,659 --> 00:01:00,180 Suze: That today is September 11, 2022 and 21 years ago 8 00:01:00,180 --> 00:01:01,170 Suze: today 9 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:05,300 Suze: my life changed as well as I'm sure many of 10 00:01:05,310 --> 00:01:07,100 Suze: your life's changed. 11 00:01:07,790 --> 00:01:11,090 Suze: So it's very hard for me on this day 12 00:01:11,810 --> 00:01:14,720 Suze: to just act like it's another day that I can 13 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:15,870 Suze: talk about money 14 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:21,420 Suze: and it really also brought it home because I've been 15 00:01:21,420 --> 00:01:26,490 Suze: watching everything about the Queen and her passing and it 16 00:01:26,490 --> 00:01:31,330 Suze: does affect me it affects KT big time and it 17 00:01:31,330 --> 00:01:34,860 Suze: affects us because we are close friends with some of 18 00:01:34,860 --> 00:01:36,880 Suze: the members of the Royal Family 19 00:01:37,780 --> 00:01:43,280 Suze: and it just is a life transforming event, no matter 20 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:47,100 Suze: how you think about it, how you feel about it, 21 00:01:47,110 --> 00:01:51,350 Suze: it is a life transforming event for millions and millions 22 00:01:51,350 --> 00:01:52,720 Suze: and millions of people 23 00:01:53,450 --> 00:01:57,450 Suze: and when life transforming events happen 24 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,370 Suze: Like today, 21 years ago, 25 00:02:01,950 --> 00:02:03,990 Suze: like September 8th, 26 00:02:05,260 --> 00:02:09,019 Suze: like every day in many of your lives, 27 00:02:09,710 --> 00:02:14,490 Suze: It's so hard just to talk about money, you know, 28 00:02:14,490 --> 00:02:17,410 Suze: for 14 years on the Suze, Orman Show, 29 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:22,410 Suze: I ended every single show with, there's only one thing 30 00:02:22,410 --> 00:02:24,639 Suze: that matters when it comes to your money 31 00:02:25,510 --> 00:02:29,830 Suze: and that is people first then money then things 32 00:02:30,370 --> 00:02:33,310 Suze: because in reality without people, 33 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,120 Suze: without you, 34 00:02:35,690 --> 00:02:41,209 Suze: money has no meaning money can't do anything. Money is 35 00:02:41,210 --> 00:02:48,170 Suze: really worthless, It's people that give money, it's worth. 36 00:02:49,130 --> 00:02:54,090 Suze: It's you? It's me, it's everybody that you know, 37 00:02:54,750 --> 00:02:58,200 Suze: so how is it possible that I could come on 38 00:02:58,200 --> 00:02:59,820 Suze: this podcast today? 39 00:03:00,389 --> 00:03:03,739 Suze: A podcast that I've always said to all of you 40 00:03:03,750 --> 00:03:06,970 Suze: is so much more than what to do with your money. 41 00:03:06,970 --> 00:03:09,359 Suze: What to buy? Is energy going to go up? What 42 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,930 Suze: about etherium ? And what about what's happening with all 43 00:03:11,930 --> 00:03:16,639 Suze: of that? Oh really? Like I get how important that 44 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,769 Suze: can be. But on days like this it makes me 45 00:03:19,770 --> 00:03:24,269 Suze: feel like who cares, who cares? 46 00:03:24,710 --> 00:03:28,430 Suze: Because what we really need to care about is to 47 00:03:28,430 --> 00:03:32,550 Suze: give money any value. We have to first give our 48 00:03:32,550 --> 00:03:33,919 Suze: own lives value. 49 00:03:34,530 --> 00:03:38,740 Suze: We have to give others lives value. We have to 50 00:03:38,740 --> 00:03:43,910 Suze: give the people of this world their lives value. 51 00:03:44,970 --> 00:03:48,000 Suze: And I'm afraid that we live in a time and 52 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:52,040 Suze: a place where we don't value all the lives of 53 00:03:52,050 --> 00:03:54,200 Suze: all the people in this world. 54 00:03:54,780 --> 00:03:59,740 Suze: We're fighting, We don't agree with one another. Nothing seems 55 00:03:59,740 --> 00:04:02,600 Suze: to matter unless you're on one side or the other. 56 00:04:03,150 --> 00:04:08,940 Suze: It's just makes everything on some level so worthless, so worthless. 57 00:04:09,330 --> 00:04:15,160 Suze: I find myself sitting and asking questions such as does 58 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:20,680 Suze: loss ever lead to gain, does it? Because doesn't it 59 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:23,260 Suze: seem like there's a lot of loss around us all 60 00:04:23,260 --> 00:04:24,050 Suze: of a sudden 61 00:04:24,950 --> 00:04:27,700 Suze: and it's really not all of a sudden it's been 62 00:04:27,700 --> 00:04:30,279 Suze: happening for quite a while now, 63 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:34,050 Suze: But when you start thinking about Ukraine and you start 64 00:04:34,050 --> 00:04:40,570 Suze: thinking about everything else, especially September 11, 2001 65 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:45,059 Suze: the question has to be asked and answered, does loss 66 00:04:45,210 --> 00:04:47,480 Suze: ever lead to gain? 67 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,900 Suze: And I so realized 68 00:04:51,540 --> 00:04:55,780 Suze: that the answer to that question is you bet it does, 69 00:04:55,900 --> 00:04:57,300 Suze: you bet it does. 70 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:02,440 Suze: So what is the gain that comes from loss? That 71 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:06,480 Suze: is the question at hand for this podcast? 72 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,410 Suze: How would you answer that? Everybody 73 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:13,330 Suze: think about a major loss in your life? 74 00:05:14,050 --> 00:05:18,089 Suze: A major loss, not a loss about money, but a 75 00:05:18,089 --> 00:05:21,680 Suze: loss that could never be replaced. You see money can 76 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,170 Suze: come and money can go, 77 00:05:23,860 --> 00:05:28,910 Suze: but a loss is something that you can never find again. 78 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:30,110 Suze: It is lost. 79 00:05:30,750 --> 00:05:33,529 Suze: It's a life, it's a friendship, 80 00:05:34,060 --> 00:05:37,350 Suze: it's maybe a time that you can never get back, 81 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:41,279 Suze: it's an action that you wish you hadn't taken, but 82 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,660 Suze: you did and you can't change that, 83 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:46,720 Suze: you can't get it back. 84 00:05:47,770 --> 00:05:52,880 Suze: So I'm asking you maybe the most profound question I've 85 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,029 Suze: ever asked you on this podcast, 86 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:01,680 Suze: what loss have you had in your life? 87 00:06:02,850 --> 00:06:04,970 Suze: And you might want to take a few minutes and 88 00:06:04,970 --> 00:06:06,960 Suze: you might want to write it down 89 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:11,120 Suze: then I'd like you to ask yourself, 90 00:06:12,589 --> 00:06:16,260 Suze: did that loss lead to gain. 91 00:06:17,100 --> 00:06:20,700 Suze: Now, obviously if it's a relatively new loss, 92 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,299 Suze: I don't expect you to know the answer to that 93 00:06:24,750 --> 00:06:25,640 Suze: right now. 94 00:06:26,510 --> 00:06:29,770 Suze: But if it's a loss that happened years ago 95 00:06:30,940 --> 00:06:33,979 Suze: or maybe not so even long ago, 96 00:06:35,010 --> 00:06:38,980 Suze: can you see any gain that it has led to. 97 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:43,570 Suze: And when I ask myself that question, 98 00:06:44,810 --> 00:06:48,990 Suze: I always come up with the same answer because I've 99 00:06:48,990 --> 00:06:52,630 Suze: suffered many losses in my life, that I'll never be 100 00:06:52,630 --> 00:06:53,810 Suze: able to get back 101 00:06:54,980 --> 00:06:59,990 Suze: And every time I think about one of those losses, 102 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:06,409 Suze: the loss led to gain. What is the gain? The gain? 103 00:07:06,420 --> 00:07:07,950 Suze: Was faith? 104 00:07:08,900 --> 00:07:13,530 Suze: Faith, that everything happens for the best or faith 105 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:15,440 Suze: in myself? 106 00:07:16,430 --> 00:07:20,650 Suze: Faith in the ability that I have, what it takes 107 00:07:21,010 --> 00:07:24,200 Suze: to go one day at a time and get through 108 00:07:24,290 --> 00:07:26,800 Suze: a loss faith 109 00:07:27,860 --> 00:07:30,320 Suze: that I'm really not alone. 110 00:07:31,060 --> 00:07:32,300 Suze: I'm not alone 111 00:07:33,060 --> 00:07:34,790 Suze: because I have faith. 112 00:07:35,550 --> 00:07:39,870 Suze: So the next question at hand is, do you have faith? 113 00:07:40,500 --> 00:07:44,190 Suze: Do you have faith in who you are, 114 00:07:44,770 --> 00:07:45,900 Suze: who you are? 115 00:07:46,710 --> 00:07:50,360 Suze: Because that's maybe the most important faith you are ever 116 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:52,500 Suze: going to have in this lifetime? 117 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,420 Suze: That is a priceless faith. 118 00:07:56,390 --> 00:07:58,130 Suze: Because in the end 119 00:07:58,820 --> 00:08:02,770 Suze: we do walk alone, don't we? We walk alone. 120 00:08:04,170 --> 00:08:07,490 Suze: And so we have to be able to carry ourselves 121 00:08:07,500 --> 00:08:13,950 Suze: through anything and everything. And what allows that to happen 122 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:15,090 Suze: is faith 123 00:08:15,850 --> 00:08:18,640 Suze: and faith is priceless. 124 00:08:19,580 --> 00:08:25,370 Suze: So on this date of September 11, 2022, 125 00:08:26,410 --> 00:08:30,430 Suze: this is the time Truthfully for reflection, 126 00:08:31,210 --> 00:08:32,770 Suze: reflection of 127 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:37,790 Suze: what do we do? What actions do we take 128 00:08:38,429 --> 00:08:40,970 Suze: that make this world a better place? 129 00:08:41,750 --> 00:08:46,550 Suze: What actions do we take that make our surroundings a 130 00:08:46,550 --> 00:08:53,200 Suze: better place? What thoughts do we think that make this 131 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:58,280 Suze: world and everybody we know a better place. What words 132 00:08:58,280 --> 00:08:59,680 Suze: do we say 133 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:05,870 Suze: that make this world a better place? Because in reality 134 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:10,120 Suze: it all starts and stops really with us. 135 00:09:10,929 --> 00:09:15,640 Suze: You know, I've always said that words are mantra. 136 00:09:16,330 --> 00:09:19,390 Suze: They have the power to create or the power to 137 00:09:19,390 --> 00:09:23,280 Suze: destroy and the choice is up to us. 138 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:27,750 Suze: So I would like today to be a day of 139 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:34,410 Suze: reflection and commitment to find that faith to make this 140 00:09:34,410 --> 00:09:37,880 Suze: world a better place in the words, the thoughts and 141 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:41,100 Suze: the actions that every single one of us take 142 00:09:42,830 --> 00:09:46,470 Suze: and to keep everything in the correct perspective, 143 00:09:47,429 --> 00:09:51,490 Suze: the correct perspective of people first then money. 144 00:09:52,630 --> 00:09:54,459 Suze: And if we could do that, 145 00:09:54,980 --> 00:09:58,809 Suze: we could bring an entirely new spirit to the women 146 00:09:58,809 --> 00:10:04,280 Suze: and money podcast. We could uplift so many millions of 147 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:09,130 Suze: people because we would all be an extension of one 148 00:10:09,130 --> 00:10:12,050 Suze: another and an extension of that faith. 149 00:10:12,940 --> 00:10:16,210 Suze: So that's the podcast for today. 150 00:10:17,050 --> 00:10:22,140 Suze: So in faith and in love and respect for each 151 00:10:22,140 --> 00:10:23,290 Suze: and every one of you 152 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:28,710 Suze: just know that there's only one thing that really matters 153 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:34,760 Suze: in life and that is you see on Thursday, bye bye.