WEBVTT - Suze School: Are You In Financial Panic Mode?

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<v Suze>December 15th, 2024. Welcome everybody to the Women and Money

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<v Suze>podcast as well as everybody smart enough to listen.

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<v Suze>December 15th.

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<v Suze>What does that mean? It means that many of you. Now,

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<v Suze>if you haven't already gotten the gifts that you wanna

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<v Suze>give for the holiday season,

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<v Suze>the day that the gifts are given 10 days from now,

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<v Suze>you are now in financial panic mode. Maybe just maybe

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<v Suze>you thought, no, I'm not gonna give gifts this year.

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<v Suze>I'm gonna make things. I'm just gonna tell people how

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<v Suze>much I love them. And now these are the 10

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<v Suze>days that financial guilt comes in.

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<v Suze>You start to look at everybody celebrating and the parties

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<v Suze>and the gifts giving and all these things that are

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<v Suze>going on within your office or wherever you may work

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<v Suze>or whatever it is, you look at TV. And now

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<v Suze>everybody is walking down the streets and caroling and all

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<v Suze>these things and everybody's celebrating and now you are in

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<v Suze>to the holiday spirit.

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<v Suze>And it is within that spirit

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<v Suze>that even though you were being financially strong, in most cases,

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<v Suze>up till this point, it is that this day, 10

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<v Suze>days before "G-Day," I call it "G-Day" because it's the

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<v Suze>gift giving day,

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<v Suze>you all start to get weak and you give in,

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<v Suze>you go into a store, you're looking at things and

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<v Suze>you decide, ok, I'll just get this and the person

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<v Suze>behind the counter says, you know, anything you buy today,

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<v Suze>you will get 20% off. If you simply apply for

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<v Suze>a credit card and you go really, I can save

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<v Suze>that much money. You only went in there to spend

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<v Suze>maybe $50 but you like 20% off everything I buy.

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<v Suze>And then what do you do?

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<v Suze>You go to all the other departments and you think

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<v Suze>about what you want, not what you need, but what

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<v Suze>you want, what others may want. And before you know it,

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<v Suze>you walk out with typically by the way around $600

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<v Suze>or $700 worth of items that in your head, you

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<v Suze>just saved $120 on and that's what you do. And

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<v Suze>then you leave.

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<v Suze>Now you're feeling really, really good that you saved all

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<v Suze>of this money,

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<v Suze>you give the gifts, ok? You have a great holiday,

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<v Suze>I hope and then comes January and the bill comes

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<v Suze>in

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<v Suze>and if it's at a department store, you see that

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<v Suze>the interest is at around 28%.

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<v Suze>And now what do you do? You only pay the

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<v Suze>minimum payment due

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<v Suze>and you think? Oh, that's all right. I can just

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<v Suze>take care of this over time. Let's just put a

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<v Suze>pin in that for one second.

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<v Suze>Now, I want to go to a Suze story.

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<v Suze>I'll never forget when I was doing the Oprah Winfrey show.

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<v Suze>And Oprah would have me go into people's homes

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<v Suze>and my job was to figure out what they had

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<v Suze>going on, how to get them out of debt, how

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<v Suze>to make sure that they were on the correct financial path.

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<v Suze>And there was not one home, not one home that

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<v Suze>I went into

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<v Suze>that when I was going through their closets

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<v Suze>in their closets were all this stuff. And I know

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<v Suze>I've said this before, but I'm gonna say it again.

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<v Suze>All this stuff in the back of the closet, just

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<v Suze>stuff there.

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<v Suze>And I would say let's bring everything out so we

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<v Suze>can see what you have.

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<v Suze>Everything that came out of that closet, that top shelf

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<v Suze>were gifts given to them for the holiday season that

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<v Suze>they didn't like, but they didn't have the courage to return.

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<v Suze>And I would say, why did you keep it? Well,

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<v Suze>I didn't want to hurt the person's feelings, Suze. They

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<v Suze>gave it to me with such love. I said, but

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<v Suze>you didn't even like what they gave you. You wasted

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<v Suze>their money by taking this gift

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<v Suze>under the false pretense that you loved it. You opened

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<v Suze>it up, you said, oh my God, thank you so much.

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<v Suze>And you give them a hug and then they leave

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<v Suze>and then you look at it and go.

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<v Suze>I wish I could return this. And then that little

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<v Suze>voice would come in and say I can't return this.

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<v Suze>It will hurt their feelings in the closet. It goes

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<v Suze>and it stays there for the next 20 years.

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<v Suze>You know, and I know that is true. That happens

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<v Suze>to me and KT every single holiday season,

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<v Suze>we tell everybody there is not anything that we want.

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<v Suze>There is not anything that we need. So we beg you,

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<v Suze>please don't send gifts, please don't give us gifts. But

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<v Suze>do you think anybody listens to us? No,

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<v Suze>undoubtedly when we go back to Florida,

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<v Suze>there are gifts and I already know because we were

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<v Suze>just there, there are gifts that people have sent

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<v Suze>and we open them up and we go, we don't

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<v Suze>want this.

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<v Suze>We don't need this. And the truth of the matter

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<v Suze>is we don't even like it. Now, here we are

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<v Suze>with these gifts and what do we do with them?

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<v Suze>We return them

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<v Suze>and we let the person know who sent us those

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<v Suze>gifts that we are returning them and the credit will

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<v Suze>be back on their account. But now we have to

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<v Suze>take this gift, take it back, figure out how to

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<v Suze>return it.

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<v Suze>It's a mess. So I want you to just think

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<v Suze>about this because I know what we experience is something

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<v Suze>that every single one of you experiences.

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<v Suze>And I find that all so sad. You know, when

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<v Suze>I was a financial advisor, actually seeing clients

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<v Suze>and we would work so hard, I worked so hard

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<v Suze>with them to get them out of credit card debt

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<v Suze>to make sure that they were on the right path

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<v Suze>all year long. We would do that

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<v Suze>and then came December.

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<v Suze>I would always call December the month of doom.

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<v Suze>Financial doom, because why? It is in the month of

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<v Suze>December that all the work that is being done to

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<v Suze>save money to get out of debt,

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<v Suze>we're doomed. It comes right back all in this month,

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<v Suze>especially during the last 10 days before "G-Day", gift day

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<v Suze>because it is in these days that you freak,

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<v Suze>you give in to temptation, you go into a store

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<v Suze>and you just buy anything that they've placed where they

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<v Suze>know you will see it, you will want it, you

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<v Suze>buy it and you leave.

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<v Suze>So I just want to give you a few numbers

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<v Suze>of what that gift if I am speaking to you,

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<v Suze>what that gift probably will cost you.

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<v Suze>If in fact, all you did was you went in

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<v Suze>and when it was all said and done, let's just

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<v Suze>say you spent $1000 not that hard to day

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<v Suze>at $100 a crack. That's 10 people. Not that hard

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<v Suze>or even $50. That's 20 people. It is very possible

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<v Suze>that you are now charging $1000 on credit cards for gifts.

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<v Suze>Do you know if you went in to a department store,

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<v Suze>you took advantage of that 20% off. And now your

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<v Suze>bill really is $1000. Do you know

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<v Suze>that if all you ever do is pay the minimum

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<v Suze>payment due, it is going to take you nine years

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<v Suze>and six months to pay that off.

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<v Suze>You also will have paid $1931 in interest.

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<v Suze>So you now have shelled out almost $3000

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<v Suze>for probably a gift that may or may not be

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<v Suze>sitting in somebody's closet. Do you know that the average

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<v Suze>credit card debt today in the United States of America

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<v Suze>is $6329 and an average interest rate of 23.37%

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<v Suze>with the minimum payment due. Usually in both of these cases,

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<v Suze>by the way that I just cited is 2%.

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<v Suze>Do you know that if you continue to only pay

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<v Suze>the minimum payment due,

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<v Suze>it's going to take the majority of people out there

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<v Suze>21 years and three months to pay that off and

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<v Suze>$12,809 in interest.

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<v Suze>So $6329 over all those years, 21 years, you have

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<v Suze>shelled out

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<v Suze>18 or $19,000.

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<v Suze>I just want you to think about that for a second. Now,

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<v Suze>I know this might not be very holiday, spirit wise

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<v Suze>of Suze Orman,

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<v Suze>but it is sure financial wise of Suze Orman.

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<v Suze>The gift giving season

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<v Suze>really is one of true generosity. You take out your

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<v Suze>Suze notebooks and you write this down. Now. True generosity

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<v Suze>and generosity is not just giving somebody a gift.

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<v Suze>True generosity is when you give somebody a gift, but

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<v Suze>it's also a gift for yourself as well. And what

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<v Suze>that means is that you are able to buy that

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<v Suze>gift with cash

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<v Suze>and you're able to buy that gift with cash because

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<v Suze>you have an 8 to 12 month emergency fund. You

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<v Suze>have absolutely no credit card debt whatsoever. You are fully

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<v Suze>funding your retirement accounts,

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<v Suze>your car is owned outright. You are living a debt

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<v Suze>free life. You have money in excess of what I

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<v Suze>just said. And all right, you can buy people gifts

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<v Suze>and it's not gonna put any hardship on you whatsoever.

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<v Suze>If however, you are buying somebody a gift and you

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<v Suze>have got to put that gift on your credit card

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<v Suze>where you already have debt

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<v Suze>that you carry every single month.

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<v Suze>You are not being generous to yourself.

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<v Suze>You are financially sabotaging your future. Remember, credit card debt

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<v Suze>is where you pay for your present day desires, your

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<v Suze>desire to look generous, your desire to have a new iphone,

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<v Suze>your desire to have these things that you want, not

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<v Suze>need that you want. But the true cost of that

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<v Suze>everybody is your future day needs when you get older

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<v Suze>and you need money.

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<v Suze>The true gift that not only can you give yourself

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<v Suze>but to others is the gift of standing in your

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<v Suze>truth

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<v Suze>to be able to say to somebody.

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<v Suze>I want you to know.

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<v Suze>I would love to give you a gift. I would

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<v Suze>love to buy this and that for you. But I

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<v Suze>don't have the money to do so.

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<v Suze>So what is it that I could do for you

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<v Suze>that doesn't cost money? They could simply show you how

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<v Suze>much I love you. Especially during this holiday season. Chances

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<v Suze>are if you were to say that to somebody, you

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<v Suze>know what they're gonna say back to you. Oh, thank

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<v Suze>God because I'm in the exact same situation and I've

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<v Suze>always given you a gift because you've given me a

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<v Suze>gift and I've always had to put it on my

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<v Suze>credit card.

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<v Suze>Let's just be with each other. Let's just maybe have

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<v Suze>a dinner at home together.

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<v Suze>Let's just stand in our truth in this holiday season

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<v Suze>and not give a gift,

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<v Suze>not give a gift of something

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<v Suze>but give a gift of each other to each other.

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<v Suze>And now I know this is very difficult to do

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<v Suze>when it comes to children.

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<v Suze>But if you think you're giving them a gift that

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<v Suze>you can't afford

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<v Suze>and it goes on your credit card.

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<v Suze>I'm just asking you, what do you think you're teaching them?

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<v Suze>How do you think that they're gonna grow up and

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<v Suze>what they're gonna end up doing if they're in that

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<v Suze>same situation

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<v Suze>you might want to say to them sweethearts on this holiday.

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<v Suze>Let's go and give time to others that are less fortunate.

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<v Suze>Let's go and volunteer. Let's go and do this. Let's

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<v Suze>go and do that.

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<v Suze>There's nothing wrong with that. Now, I know it's not easy.

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<v Suze>I know you can't stand watching your little kids go.

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<v Suze>But mom but mom, dad, dad, whatever it may be.

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<v Suze>But I want you to just think about that.

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<v Suze>You know, last week you heard that Barb, KT's sister

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<v Suze>was on the podcast

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<v Suze>and after that podcast was over, she went and she said, oh, Suze,

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<v Suze>I should have told them this, I should have told

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<v Suze>them that I should have done this or that. And

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<v Suze>I was like, but Barb, you did great. That was

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<v Suze>a great podcast. And I said, Barb, what was the

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<v Suze>greatest gift during all those years?

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<v Suze>And essentially what Barb said was the gift is what

0:15:41.330 --> 0:15:44.840
<v Suze>I'm seeing right now, Suze. And my children

0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:50.619
<v Suze>who make gifts, who don't get into debt, who all

0:15:50.630 --> 0:15:56.380
<v Suze>have savings, responsible jobs, refuse to spend money on wants

0:15:56.530 --> 0:16:00.219
<v Suze>and put it away for needs. That's the greatest gift

0:16:00.229 --> 0:16:04.479
<v Suze>I could have ever been given. Because to me, Suze, really,

0:16:04.489 --> 0:16:07.900
<v Suze>there's nothing more important than my children

0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:12.849
<v Suze>and I see what has happened by standing in our

0:16:12.859 --> 0:16:13.419
<v Suze>truth

0:16:14.419 --> 0:16:18.559
<v Suze>and not being able to do certain things. And I said,

0:16:19.460 --> 0:16:23.419
<v Suze>Barb, how did that gift come about? And she said, well,

0:16:23.429 --> 0:16:25.359
<v Suze>it wasn't easy. It took time.

0:16:26.159 --> 0:16:30.979
<v Suze>But after you telling us over and over again about

0:16:30.989 --> 0:16:35.140
<v Suze>needs versus wants all the gifts we were buying for

0:16:35.150 --> 0:16:40.640
<v Suze>the kids stopped because they started to understand the true

0:16:40.650 --> 0:16:45.059
<v Suze>meaning of the holidays and the true meaning of money

0:16:46.109 --> 0:16:52.450
<v Suze>and the true purpose of money, which is to be secure.

0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:57.539
<v Suze>So can you just imagine a 13 year old saying,

0:16:57.799 --> 0:17:00.500
<v Suze>when asked, what is the goal of money? And they

0:17:00.510 --> 0:17:02.679
<v Suze>say it's to be secure,

0:17:04.140 --> 0:17:08.079
<v Suze>don't you think that would be the greatest gift you

0:17:08.089 --> 0:17:10.589
<v Suze>could give your family?

0:17:11.310 --> 0:17:16.250
<v Suze>Yesterday morning, Colo was in the bedroom with us having

0:17:16.260 --> 0:17:19.290
<v Suze>our coffee. We like for some reason, they have coffee

0:17:19.300 --> 0:17:24.729
<v Suze>in our bedroom. And I said, Colo, if I was

0:17:24.739 --> 0:17:27.050
<v Suze>going to do a podcast tomorrow

0:17:27.968 --> 0:17:32.078
<v Suze>on, what is the greatest gift you could give somebody?

0:17:32.088 --> 0:17:36.427
<v Suze>Do you know what Klo said to me? He said, Suze,

0:17:36.759 --> 0:17:40.869
<v Suze>tell them the greatest gift is the gift of saving

0:17:41.699 --> 0:17:43.319
<v Suze>the gift of saving.

0:17:44.079 --> 0:17:49.239
<v Suze>He said, there's nothing that makes me feel better when

0:17:49.250 --> 0:17:52.839
<v Suze>I know now not to be giving my kids gifts

0:17:52.849 --> 0:17:55.859
<v Suze>of all these things that they want. But to say,

0:17:55.869 --> 0:18:00.119
<v Suze>guess what? I just put $100 in a savings account

0:18:00.130 --> 0:18:00.698
<v Suze>for you

0:18:02.479 --> 0:18:04.180
<v Suze>and what that does for them.

0:18:05.180 --> 0:18:11.688
<v Suze>But even Colo, Colo after all these years, finally has said,

0:18:11.849 --> 0:18:15.380
<v Suze>the greatest gift you can give your children is the

0:18:15.390 --> 0:18:18.079
<v Suze>gift of savings.

0:18:18.949 --> 0:18:21.939
<v Suze>Just something for all of you to think about.

0:18:22.900 --> 0:18:26.530
<v Suze>The other day, I got an email from a friend

0:18:26.540 --> 0:18:28.359
<v Suze>of mine by the name of Allison.

0:18:29.540 --> 0:18:32.829
<v Suze>And she says to me, Suze, my son came up

0:18:32.839 --> 0:18:36.800
<v Suze>to me and said, I want to start making money.

0:18:36.810 --> 0:18:39.540
<v Suze>So I want to invest in the stock market.

0:18:40.260 --> 0:18:42.849
<v Suze>And Allison says, but Suze, I have no idea how

0:18:42.859 --> 0:18:46.680
<v Suze>to do that. I said, ok, there's two ways to

0:18:46.689 --> 0:18:50.439
<v Suze>do it but how much money do you think he

0:18:50.449 --> 0:18:55.099
<v Suze>has to invest? She said, just a few $100. I said,

0:18:55.109 --> 0:18:59.839
<v Suze>so therefore you can buy one exchange traded fund such

0:18:59.849 --> 0:19:04.959
<v Suze>as VOO VOO, VTI, any of those - Spiders SPY

0:19:05.380 --> 0:19:08.819
<v Suze>and just keep doing that with little amounts of money

0:19:08.829 --> 0:19:10.560
<v Suze>as time goes on or

0:19:11.290 --> 0:19:15.229
<v Suze>you can teach him a lesson that you don't invest

0:19:15.239 --> 0:19:18.910
<v Suze>in the stock market and just think that everything is

0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:22.660
<v Suze>going to just go up maybe one of the greatest

0:19:22.670 --> 0:19:25.750
<v Suze>lessons at this point in his life. He's still very

0:19:25.760 --> 0:19:30.229
<v Suze>young about 10. This point in his life is to

0:19:30.239 --> 0:19:34.500
<v Suze>understand that you just don't invest in the market thinking

0:19:34.510 --> 0:19:35.949
<v Suze>that you want to make money.

0:19:36.760 --> 0:19:40.229
<v Suze>You invest in the stock market because you want to

0:19:40.239 --> 0:19:43.579
<v Suze>see your money grow over time.

0:19:44.770 --> 0:19:48.429
<v Suze>But that you have to know with growth over time

0:19:48.439 --> 0:19:54.030
<v Suze>also comes the possibility of losing money as well.

0:19:54.900 --> 0:19:57.650
<v Suze>So if I were you and I then gave her

0:19:57.660 --> 0:20:03.478
<v Suze>a list of stocks, I would invest $20 in each

0:20:03.489 --> 0:20:05.310
<v Suze>one of these stocks

0:20:06.079 --> 0:20:09.900
<v Suze>and then I would save any extra besides that. And

0:20:09.910 --> 0:20:12.819
<v Suze>I would teach him when these stocks go down, you

0:20:12.829 --> 0:20:15.859
<v Suze>put more money in, you put another $5 in or

0:20:15.869 --> 0:20:20.020
<v Suze>$10 in and you just keep doing that over time

0:20:20.150 --> 0:20:23.889
<v Suze>and every time he gets extra money, especially for the

0:20:23.900 --> 0:20:28.699
<v Suze>gift giving season that is coming up, give him cash,

0:20:28.760 --> 0:20:30.819
<v Suze>but that cash has got to go

0:20:31.229 --> 0:20:34.979
<v Suze>into a money market account waiting to be invested in

0:20:34.989 --> 0:20:36.689
<v Suze>these stocks.

0:20:37.479 --> 0:20:41.250
<v Suze>And now that is what they are going to do.

0:20:41.959 --> 0:20:42.420
<v Suze>But

0:20:43.180 --> 0:20:46.520
<v Suze>is that something all of you can do for your

0:20:46.530 --> 0:20:51.859
<v Suze>children as well? Teach them investing and what it's like

0:20:51.869 --> 0:20:55.569
<v Suze>to make your money grow, but also teach them the

0:20:55.579 --> 0:21:01.169
<v Suze>risk that investments can go down as well, which brings

0:21:01.180 --> 0:21:05.719
<v Suze>us to our last topic of this Suze School.

0:21:06.589 --> 0:21:10.649
<v Suze>Now, if you remember quite a while ago, I started

0:21:10.660 --> 0:21:13.569
<v Suze>to say to many of you that heard

0:21:14.400 --> 0:21:18.219
<v Suze>that if you own Devon, especially if it is outside

0:21:18.229 --> 0:21:22.140
<v Suze>of a retirement account, sell it, I would sell it

0:21:22.150 --> 0:21:24.139
<v Suze>and I would then take that money and put it

0:21:24.150 --> 0:21:27.660
<v Suze>into either Pfizer or Whirlpool at that time.

0:21:28.589 --> 0:21:32.339
<v Suze>That's it. Take the loss also. Now, even in a

0:21:32.349 --> 0:21:36.729
<v Suze>retirement account, I would probably do the same as well.

0:21:38.560 --> 0:21:42.069
<v Suze>During the years that we've owned, Devon, we have gotten

0:21:42.079 --> 0:21:47.069
<v Suze>a nice dividend. So you need to figure out truly,

0:21:47.229 --> 0:21:51.520
<v Suze>how much did you lose on that one investment? Did

0:21:51.530 --> 0:21:54.379
<v Suze>you lose it all? Just depends on when you bought

0:21:54.390 --> 0:21:58.459
<v Suze>it and if you continued to dollar cost average into it,

0:21:58.550 --> 0:22:04.479
<v Suze>little by little, if you had truthfully, you wouldn't be

0:22:04.489 --> 0:22:07.540
<v Suze>down quite so much, believe it or not.

0:22:08.390 --> 0:22:13.750
<v Suze>But Devon is a stock that is absolutely underperformed to

0:22:13.760 --> 0:22:17.650
<v Suze>my surprise to what's going on all oil stocks right now,

0:22:17.660 --> 0:22:21.380
<v Suze>energy stocks are not doing great. But I do think

0:22:21.390 --> 0:22:23.849
<v Suze>if you invested in that stock and you did so

0:22:23.859 --> 0:22:25.879
<v Suze>mainly for the dividend,

0:22:26.910 --> 0:22:30.319
<v Suze>then Pfizer, even though I know you think Pfizer is

0:22:30.329 --> 0:22:33.569
<v Suze>never gonna go up, it's now paying a dividend in

0:22:33.579 --> 0:22:37.879
<v Suze>the 6% area. I still have faith in Pfizer. I

0:22:37.890 --> 0:22:42.649
<v Suze>still own Pfizer. And that's probably if you're looking for

0:22:42.660 --> 0:22:47.550
<v Suze>income with a stock that could continue to grow as

0:22:47.560 --> 0:22:49.209
<v Suze>well as possibly go down.

0:22:49.619 --> 0:22:54.890
<v Suze>Pfizer might be a stock that you switch into from

0:22:55.099 --> 0:22:57.680
<v Suze>Devon symbol DVN.

0:22:58.410 --> 0:23:04.170
<v Suze>We will buy stocks that absolutely skyrocket on us and

0:23:04.180 --> 0:23:08.260
<v Suze>we will buy stocks that absolutely go down and may

0:23:08.270 --> 0:23:11.030
<v Suze>never go back up again.

0:23:11.739 --> 0:23:17.959
<v Suze>But that is why you have diversification within certain areas.

0:23:17.969 --> 0:23:21.680
<v Suze>It doesn't have to be equal diversification by any means.

0:23:21.979 --> 0:23:26.760
<v Suze>But that is the risk one takes. But I still

0:23:26.770 --> 0:23:31.420
<v Suze>think if you bought most of the stocks or ETF

0:23:31.430 --> 0:23:34.520
<v Suze>S that were recommended and not just Devon,

0:23:35.459 --> 0:23:38.880
<v Suze>maybe you bought XLE and you stayed in that and

0:23:38.890 --> 0:23:42.849
<v Suze>now you're up tremendously on that and you had diversification

0:23:42.859 --> 0:23:46.910
<v Suze>in that ETF but if you look at most of

0:23:46.920 --> 0:23:53.810
<v Suze>the recommendations truthfully, you have done very, very well. Let

0:23:53.819 --> 0:23:57.790
<v Suze>me just talk about Palantir because you're all writing about that.

0:23:58.030 --> 0:24:02.520
<v Suze>What would Suze do? Da Da, da Suze is keeping Palantir.

0:24:03.030 --> 0:24:06.910
<v Suze>Suze, actually, as it went down to 71 the other

0:24:06.920 --> 0:24:10.660
<v Suze>day after it hit 80. Suze bought more,

0:24:11.739 --> 0:24:14.959
<v Suze>I like that stock. I'm going to continue to like

0:24:14.969 --> 0:24:18.890
<v Suze>that stock. It is not the only stock that I own.

0:24:19.180 --> 0:24:23.449
<v Suze>I own probably 50 stocks maybe even more than that

0:24:23.459 --> 0:24:24.949
<v Suze>at this point in time.

0:24:25.219 --> 0:24:28.379
<v Suze>Well, actually, I absolutely do own f more than 50

0:24:28.390 --> 0:24:32.199
<v Suze>stocks at this point in time. Other kinds of investments.

0:24:32.400 --> 0:24:37.939
<v Suze>My money is spread across the board in gold in IBI,

0:24:38.099 --> 0:24:43.479
<v Suze>in Bitcoin, in all of those things along with bonds,

0:24:43.489 --> 0:24:48.219
<v Suze>municipal bonds, treasury bonds series, I bonds that I've had

0:24:48.229 --> 0:24:51.040
<v Suze>for a while that I just wanna keep for some reason.

0:24:51.270 --> 0:24:54.760
<v Suze>Um and it, it spread everywhere

0:24:55.780 --> 0:24:59.639
<v Suze>so that no matter what happens on some level somewhere,

0:24:59.969 --> 0:25:03.680
<v Suze>my money is averaging and doing just great for me.

0:25:04.520 --> 0:25:07.899
<v Suze>So, bottom line, I'm saying it now and you can

0:25:07.910 --> 0:25:12.500
<v Suze>do whatever you want. I'm sticking with Palantir. However,

0:25:13.130 --> 0:25:17.489
<v Suze>what is the goal of money? The goal of money

0:25:17.500 --> 0:25:21.270
<v Suze>is for you to be secure. And listen, if it's

0:25:21.280 --> 0:25:25.280
<v Suze>making you nervous and you've tripled your money, you've done

0:25:25.290 --> 0:25:29.189
<v Suze>whatever with it and you want to sell, sell, you

0:25:29.199 --> 0:25:32.949
<v Suze>can do that. Nobody is saying you have to stay in.

0:25:34.050 --> 0:25:37.449
<v Suze>So if you need money, if you're in debt, you

0:25:37.459 --> 0:25:40.849
<v Suze>invested in it, you're just nervous and losing sleep over

0:25:40.859 --> 0:25:42.750
<v Suze>it and watching it every single day,

0:25:43.589 --> 0:25:47.839
<v Suze>there's nothing wrong with selling some of it, selling all

0:25:47.849 --> 0:25:51.609
<v Suze>of it or selling none of it. It just depends

0:25:51.839 --> 0:25:56.448
<v Suze>on how you feel about it. And if it's making

0:25:56.459 --> 0:25:58.609
<v Suze>you feel insecure and nervous,

0:25:59.280 --> 0:26:01.089
<v Suze>just sell

0:26:02.010 --> 0:26:05.239
<v Suze>overall, I think the markets are going to be doing

0:26:05.250 --> 0:26:09.159
<v Suze>very well for next year, especially if you're invested in

0:26:09.170 --> 0:26:12.489
<v Suze>certain areas. That doesn't mean that it's not gonna come

0:26:12.500 --> 0:26:16.920
<v Suze>down significantly at times. But when it does, that's when

0:26:16.930 --> 0:26:21.311
<v Suze>you take advantage of stocks that you wanna hold for 5, 10,

0:26:21.311 --> 0:26:25.140
<v Suze>15 years and you just keep them in dollar cost

0:26:25.150 --> 0:26:28.500
<v Suze>average into them. I am asking all of you to

0:26:28.510 --> 0:26:30.400
<v Suze>be extremely patient

0:26:30.939 --> 0:26:35.199
<v Suze>with the program that Keith Fitzgerald is coming out with.

0:26:35.329 --> 0:26:39.030
<v Suze>Stop writing me saying when is it gonna happen? When

0:26:39.040 --> 0:26:42.439
<v Suze>is it gonna happen? It's gonna happen when it is

0:26:42.449 --> 0:26:44.479
<v Suze>supposed to happen

0:26:45.209 --> 0:26:48.349
<v Suze>and either you wanna wait for it or you don't.

0:26:49.160 --> 0:26:54.939
<v Suze>But all things that are really great are worth waiting for.

0:26:54.959 --> 0:26:58.109
<v Suze>I myself have truly no idea when it will really

0:26:58.119 --> 0:27:01.449
<v Suze>come out. Keith keeps saying they're in the final stages

0:27:01.459 --> 0:27:04.619
<v Suze>they're doing this. They're doing that. I'll believe it when

0:27:04.630 --> 0:27:09.339
<v Suze>I see it. But I wanna give Keith enough latitude

0:27:09.910 --> 0:27:11.400
<v Suze>and development room

0:27:11.750 --> 0:27:16.550
<v Suze>until he feels great about it. Not because all of

0:27:16.560 --> 0:27:20.290
<v Suze>you are impatient and you want it. Now,

0:27:21.250 --> 0:27:24.040
<v Suze>don't be like that everybody.

0:27:24.969 --> 0:27:28.419
<v Suze>You need to be a patient investor. You need to

0:27:28.430 --> 0:27:32.050
<v Suze>be an understanding investor of how you feel about your

0:27:32.060 --> 0:27:37.458
<v Suze>own investments. You need to be a generous person. When

0:27:37.469 --> 0:27:40.239
<v Suze>you know, when you're being generous to others as well

0:27:40.250 --> 0:27:44.099
<v Suze>as yourself. You need to be a true teacher of

0:27:44.109 --> 0:27:45.380
<v Suze>your children and

0:27:45.489 --> 0:27:50.229
<v Suze>future generations and get them to understand what the goal

0:27:50.239 --> 0:27:53.680
<v Suze>of money is. But you yourself have to understand what

0:27:53.689 --> 0:27:57.689
<v Suze>it is. So what actions do you take today to

0:27:57.699 --> 0:28:01.709
<v Suze>make yourself feel secure? You need to be a person

0:28:01.839 --> 0:28:05.250
<v Suze>that has the ability and the courage to stand in

0:28:05.260 --> 0:28:06.069
<v Suze>the truth

0:28:07.479 --> 0:28:10.089
<v Suze>and tell people if they've given you something that you

0:28:10.099 --> 0:28:12.140
<v Suze>don't like what you're gonna do with it and how

0:28:12.150 --> 0:28:15.579
<v Suze>you're gonna return it or whatever it may be. You

0:28:15.790 --> 0:28:16.459
<v Suze>need

0:28:17.369 --> 0:28:24.469
<v Suze>to be integrous and really courageous and really have the

0:28:24.479 --> 0:28:26.270
<v Suze>ability to understand

0:28:27.540 --> 0:28:32.660
<v Suze>that people love you for who you are not for

0:28:32.670 --> 0:28:35.589
<v Suze>what you give them. So

0:28:36.630 --> 0:28:39.469
<v Suze>that brings us to the end of this Suze School.

0:28:39.479 --> 0:28:43.430
<v Suze>Thursday will be another Ask KT and Suze Anything. But

0:28:43.439 --> 0:28:47.579
<v Suze>until then, can you just think about these next 10

0:28:47.589 --> 0:28:51.890
<v Suze>days and what you are or not going to do

0:28:52.300 --> 0:28:58.020
<v Suze>with all that time. See you Thursday everybody. There's really

0:28:58.030 --> 0:29:00.770
<v Suze>only one thing that I want you to remember when

0:29:00.780 --> 0:29:04.510
<v Suze>it comes to your money and it is this people first.

0:29:04.520 --> 0:29:05.810
<v Suze>That means you,

0:29:06.250 --> 0:29:09.680
<v Suze>you, you, you not others, not others that you can

0:29:09.689 --> 0:29:13.079
<v Suze>give a gift to, but giving a true gift of

0:29:13.089 --> 0:29:19.520
<v Suze>financial security to yourself people first, then money, then things.

0:29:19.530 --> 0:29:24.800
<v Suze>And if you do that you will be unstoppable.