1 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:38,760 Robert: July 10, 2022. Hi Everybody, its Robert, Suze's producer. 2 00:00:38,770 --> 00:00:39,840 Robert: So 3 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:44,200 Robert: the electrical repairs to Suze and KT's home are almost done. 4 00:00:44,210 --> 00:00:44,850 Robert: But 5 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,750 Robert: unfortunately the podcast studio is not quite ready to go. 6 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:49,620 Robert: So 7 00:00:49,620 --> 00:00:52,229 Robert: what we're going to do today is revisit part of 8 00:00:52,229 --> 00:00:54,880 Robert: an episode that we feel is perfect for you to 9 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:55,650 Robert: hear again, 10 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:56,940 Robert: Especially 11 00:00:56,950 --> 00:00:58,860 Robert: with this particular moment in time. 12 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:02,840 Robert: It's called making peace with the enemies of wealth. We 13 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:03,760 Robert: hope you enjoy, 14 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:08,819 Suze: I want to talk today about making peace with the 15 00:01:08,819 --> 00:01:12,350 Suze: three enemies of wealth 16 00:01:13,140 --> 00:01:13,950 Suze: because 17 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:18,020 Suze: what's important for all of you to understand isn't, what 18 00:01:18,020 --> 00:01:21,170 Suze: do you do on a day to day basis when 19 00:01:21,170 --> 00:01:24,200 Suze: it comes to the stock market? Although I'm sure there 20 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,090 Suze: are many of you out there that have become day 21 00:01:26,090 --> 00:01:28,520 Suze: traders and they're coming in and out of the markets 22 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,390 Suze: and doing all kinds of things that will never, in 23 00:01:31,390 --> 00:01:33,850 Suze: most cases make you wealthy. 24 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:36,360 Suze: But the goal, 25 00:01:37,140 --> 00:01:39,360 Suze: the goal of this podcast 26 00:01:40,140 --> 00:01:42,860 Suze: is to create a wealthy life 27 00:01:43,740 --> 00:01:45,260 Suze: for every one of you. 28 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,360 Suze: And the definition of true wealth 29 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:52,810 Suze: is that which can never diminish. You have got to 30 00:01:52,810 --> 00:01:56,060 Suze: understand that money will come and money will go. 31 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,510 Suze: You have got to understand that in the end, you 32 00:02:00,510 --> 00:02:02,760 Suze: cannot take a penny with you. 33 00:02:03,140 --> 00:02:04,360 Suze: You know, in India 34 00:02:04,940 --> 00:02:07,980 Suze: there are traditions in certain parts of India that when 35 00:02:07,980 --> 00:02:12,290 Suze: somebody dies, they carry the person who has died through 36 00:02:12,290 --> 00:02:17,150 Suze: the streets with his or her arms spread out straight 37 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:18,530 Suze: from their side 38 00:02:18,940 --> 00:02:23,540 Suze: and that's a signal or an indication that says, you 39 00:02:23,540 --> 00:02:28,920 Suze: cannot take anything with you and you can't take anything 40 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,160 Suze: with you. You can't take your house, you can't take 41 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:35,970 Suze: your fancy car, your fancy clothes, your iphones, any of that. 42 00:02:35,980 --> 00:02:38,050 Suze: You all go out empty 43 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,359 Suze: handed. 44 00:02:40,139 --> 00:02:42,959 Suze: And so true wealth. However 45 00:02:43,540 --> 00:02:44,560 Suze: true wealth 46 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:48,260 Suze: is that which can never diminish. true wealth 47 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,160 Suze: Is that what you will take with you 48 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:53,959 Suze: throughout eternity 49 00:02:54,740 --> 00:02:58,110 Suze: And it's that which you will also leave to others. 50 00:02:58,110 --> 00:03:01,520 Suze: And true wealth is a spirit. It is a state 51 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:02,260 Suze: of being. 52 00:03:02,740 --> 00:03:08,120 Suze: It is how you feel inside, no matter what happens outside. 53 00:03:08,130 --> 00:03:11,829 Suze: And we are definitely approaching times and are in times 54 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:15,959 Suze: with what is going on in this world is absolutely 55 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,430 Suze: crazy and I am telling you it is going to 56 00:03:18,430 --> 00:03:20,049 Suze: get a lot worse. 57 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:23,450 Suze: I'm more afraid 58 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,050 Suze: about the political wars, 59 00:03:27,139 --> 00:03:30,680 Suze: the political wars that are going to emerge and that 60 00:03:30,690 --> 00:03:33,310 Suze: the battles that people are going to be fighting on 61 00:03:33,310 --> 00:03:34,059 Suze: the street 62 00:03:34,740 --> 00:03:38,200 Suze: because of how angry everybody is and the belief that 63 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,900 Suze: they feel their side is right. The other side is wrong. No, 64 00:03:41,900 --> 00:03:45,560 Suze: I'm right. The other side is wrong. So true wealth 65 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,710 Suze: is that which can never diminish. So we have all 66 00:03:48,710 --> 00:03:51,760 Suze: got to be able to be grounded in 67 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,560 Suze: the attributes, 68 00:03:54,940 --> 00:03:58,180 Suze: the true attributes of what will keep us in a 69 00:03:58,180 --> 00:04:00,460 Suze: positive state of mind. However, 70 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,630 Suze: a positive state of mind is not going to pay 71 00:04:03,630 --> 00:04:04,360 Suze: your bills. 72 00:04:04,740 --> 00:04:07,970 Suze: A positive state of mind is not going to just 73 00:04:07,970 --> 00:04:12,150 Suze: simply be something that allows you to save money for retirement. 74 00:04:12,150 --> 00:04:15,750 Suze: There are still other emotions that are playing. 75 00:04:16,540 --> 00:04:19,260 Suze: And I am calling those emotions today. 76 00:04:19,740 --> 00:04:21,960 Suze: The enemies of wealth. 77 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,200 Suze: So I want to talk about those and how we 78 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:28,680 Suze: make peace with those so that you really can go 79 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:30,659 Suze: on and build a life 80 00:04:31,339 --> 00:04:32,750 Suze: of wealth 81 00:04:33,540 --> 00:04:37,710 Suze: which doesn't diminish. So an internal wealth as well as 82 00:04:37,710 --> 00:04:39,060 Suze: an external wealth 83 00:04:39,740 --> 00:04:43,760 Suze: that will allow you to live a true life of peace. 84 00:04:44,540 --> 00:04:46,250 Suze: The very first enemy 85 00:04:46,740 --> 00:04:48,660 Suze: of wealth is fear. 86 00:04:49,540 --> 00:04:53,840 Suze: I've talked forever now about fear on this podcast and 87 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,560 Suze: actually through my entire professional life. 88 00:04:57,010 --> 00:05:00,150 Suze: But fair is the one thing honestly 89 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:01,660 Suze: fear 90 00:05:02,339 --> 00:05:06,589 Suze: that keeps you from living a life of wealth. It 91 00:05:06,589 --> 00:05:09,750 Suze: is a major, major enemy. 92 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,660 Suze: And there are many kinds of fears. 93 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,880 Suze: The fear that you're never going to have enough. The 94 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:20,760 Suze: fear that you can't do something and the fear of failure, 95 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:26,560 Suze: so many of you are so afraid to even try 96 00:05:27,140 --> 00:05:31,570 Suze: to even try investing, even try opening up your bills, 97 00:05:31,580 --> 00:05:35,120 Suze: even try telling everybody that you don't have any money 98 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,750 Suze: and all you have is debt. So you can't go 99 00:05:37,750 --> 00:05:40,460 Suze: with them on vacation or out to eat. 100 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:47,719 Suze: The really pervasive fear that is in your life that 101 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:51,159 Suze: keeps you from being more and having more 102 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:54,960 Suze: is really astronomical when I think about it 103 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,920 Suze: because so many of you are so capable of doing 104 00:05:58,930 --> 00:06:01,050 Suze: anything and everything in your life 105 00:06:01,940 --> 00:06:07,140 Suze: professionally, your doctors, your lawyers, your you know, your whatever, 106 00:06:07,140 --> 00:06:10,850 Suze: your computer programmers, your teachers, your nurses, 107 00:06:11,339 --> 00:06:15,960 Suze: your waiters and waitresses and all kinds of things. 108 00:06:16,940 --> 00:06:19,760 Suze: Your your mothers and your fathers, 109 00:06:20,740 --> 00:06:22,150 Suze: your parents 110 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:23,860 Suze: of Children. 111 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:28,450 Suze: And no matter what you do, that's a big deal everybody. 112 00:06:28,450 --> 00:06:32,660 Suze: But yet when it comes to money, you are so afraid, 113 00:06:33,140 --> 00:06:37,279 Suze: you are so afraid to take one step towards your 114 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,560 Suze: money that you are just paralyzed. 115 00:06:40,140 --> 00:06:43,239 Suze: You don't open your statements. You don't want to think 116 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,770 Suze: about it. All you want to do is spend what 117 00:06:45,770 --> 00:06:48,020 Suze: you make, be able to go on and do what 118 00:06:48,020 --> 00:06:48,960 Suze: you want to do. 119 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,070 Suze: And you're so afraid to even think about what your 120 00:06:52,070 --> 00:06:55,880 Suze: future may look like. You don't think about your future. 121 00:06:55,890 --> 00:06:58,950 Suze: All you think about is today 122 00:06:59,540 --> 00:07:00,950 Suze: and that fear 123 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,330 Suze: renders you so powerless, 124 00:07:04,810 --> 00:07:08,760 Suze: that you take absolutely no actions whatsoever. 125 00:07:09,339 --> 00:07:13,810 Suze: And every day that you dwell in fear, the knowing 126 00:07:13,810 --> 00:07:16,410 Suze: fear that you have in the unknowing fair, what is 127 00:07:16,410 --> 00:07:20,090 Suze: the unknowing fair? All the fear that you don't even 128 00:07:20,090 --> 00:07:24,150 Suze: know about that's going on inside of you. That prevents 129 00:07:24,150 --> 00:07:27,490 Suze: you from being more and having more because you just 130 00:07:27,490 --> 00:07:29,050 Suze: don't want to deal, 131 00:07:29,540 --> 00:07:32,180 Suze: you don't wanna deal. So you don't want to know. 132 00:07:32,190 --> 00:07:36,200 Suze: So you go through day by day by day just 133 00:07:36,210 --> 00:07:37,660 Suze: getting by. 134 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,560 Suze: But when you do that, 135 00:07:41,740 --> 00:07:46,800 Suze: what's really happening is that you're dwelling in your today's 136 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,260 Suze: and getting by in your today's. But you are literally 137 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:55,350 Suze: producing a future of one that you should be afraid of. 138 00:07:55,940 --> 00:07:57,650 Suze: You really should be. 139 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:00,660 Suze: so fear. 140 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:06,650 Suze: Fear is your main enemy of wealth, everybody, your main 141 00:08:06,670 --> 00:08:11,360 Suze: enemy of wealth. So we have to get over that one. 142 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:15,160 Suze: The next one is desires, 143 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:17,260 Suze: desires. 144 00:08:17,940 --> 00:08:21,150 Suze: You know when you look at credit card debt, 145 00:08:22,940 --> 00:08:27,950 Suze: credit card debt is pain for your present day desires, 146 00:08:28,340 --> 00:08:33,160 Suze: but your costs are going to be your future day needs. 147 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:37,650 Suze: It drives me absolutely bats 148 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:41,360 Suze: when some of the people that I talked to, not all, 149 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:42,260 Suze: but some 150 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:48,450 Suze: who are living so below poverty level, it's not even funny, 151 00:08:49,340 --> 00:08:52,970 Suze: one of the women who have survived domestic abuse and 152 00:08:52,970 --> 00:08:56,319 Suze: I keep very close contact with one another. I talk 153 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:57,950 Suze: about her all the time 154 00:08:58,540 --> 00:09:02,710 Suze: on this podcast and the other day she sends me 155 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:05,460 Suze: a picture of herself. Now this woman 156 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:08,050 Suze: finally has a job, 157 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:12,150 Suze: She's making $19,000 a year 158 00:09:12,740 --> 00:09:17,360 Suze: Supporting herself and her two Children, 15 and eight years 159 00:09:17,370 --> 00:09:18,350 Suze: of age 160 00:09:18,740 --> 00:09:21,459 Suze: and that is all she has 161 00:09:22,140 --> 00:09:25,760 Suze: and that is nothing, especially if you live in new york. 162 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:28,830 Suze: So here we are, and she sends me a picture 163 00:09:28,830 --> 00:09:29,660 Suze: of herself 164 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,660 Suze: and I'm noticing on this picture 165 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:35,460 Suze: that she has all these tattoos, 166 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,120 Suze: it's like last time I saw her with a picture, 167 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,860 Suze: she didn't have tattoos and now she has tattoos 168 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,250 Suze: and I write her and I say to her, how 169 00:09:46,250 --> 00:09:49,760 Suze: much did you spend on these tattoos? 170 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:53,460 Suze: And she says $386 171 00:09:54,340 --> 00:09:57,790 Suze: and I said, what are you talking about? You just 172 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,720 Suze: wrote me the other day and you said that you're 173 00:09:59,730 --> 00:10:03,090 Suze: always gonna be poor, Why can't you have more money? 174 00:10:03,090 --> 00:10:05,540 Suze: How do you build a credit rating? You want to 175 00:10:05,550 --> 00:10:08,050 Suze: own a home? You want all these things 176 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:09,460 Suze: and yet 177 00:10:10,140 --> 00:10:14,410 Suze: Right. You go out and spend $386 that you do 178 00:10:14,410 --> 00:10:15,660 Suze: not have 179 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,250 Suze: on a tattoo. 180 00:10:19,140 --> 00:10:23,650 Suze: And her response to me was yeah, I've wanted one, 181 00:10:23,650 --> 00:10:26,959 Suze: I wanted, I've desired one for so long 182 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,300 Suze: and I was just speechless. I have to tell you 183 00:10:30,300 --> 00:10:33,959 Suze: I was speechless. I was just speechless 184 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:36,560 Suze: that it's not just her. 185 00:10:37,340 --> 00:10:41,689 Suze: It's these desires that all of us have the desires 186 00:10:41,690 --> 00:10:45,120 Suze: to live like our neighbors are living the desires to 187 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:49,900 Suze: have fancy cars, the desires to have the latest electronic gadget. 188 00:10:49,910 --> 00:10:54,540 Suze: The desires to have all these things that we think 189 00:10:54,540 --> 00:10:55,760 Suze: we deserve. 190 00:10:56,540 --> 00:11:04,179 Suze: You don't deserve things. You deserve security, you deserve happiness, 191 00:11:04,190 --> 00:11:08,150 Suze: you deserve freedom, You deserve respect, 192 00:11:08,540 --> 00:11:11,150 Suze: you deserve those kinds of things. 193 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:16,110 Suze: But these other things, these things are never going to 194 00:11:16,110 --> 00:11:19,750 Suze: define you. You define the things around you, 195 00:11:20,140 --> 00:11:26,260 Suze: but your continuous desire to have these things 196 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:28,559 Suze: versus money 197 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:33,660 Suze: is going to be a major enemy in your life 198 00:11:33,670 --> 00:11:34,860 Suze: to wealth. 199 00:11:35,740 --> 00:11:40,010 Suze: That's why when I talk about people first, then money 200 00:11:40,020 --> 00:11:44,559 Suze: then things which is the correct order of life. 201 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,340 Suze: People you need to think about and feel about and 202 00:11:48,340 --> 00:11:52,559 Suze: take care of yourself first, not others but yourself first, 203 00:11:53,540 --> 00:11:55,850 Suze: then you need money 204 00:11:56,740 --> 00:11:59,830 Suze: And then once you have money you can buy things 205 00:11:59,830 --> 00:12:03,939 Suze: but most of you have more things in your households 206 00:12:03,940 --> 00:12:06,990 Suze: and you have money in your bank account. I mean 207 00:12:06,990 --> 00:12:10,209 Suze: think about it, 60% of the people in the United 208 00:12:10,210 --> 00:12:11,350 Suze: States of America. 209 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:15,850 Suze: This was before Covid. Before Covid. 210 00:12:16,540 --> 00:12:23,920 Suze: I see that they have $400 to their name. But walk through their homes, 211 00:12:23,929 --> 00:12:25,750 Suze: walk through their homes, 212 00:12:26,340 --> 00:12:29,160 Suze: their apartments, look at their cars 213 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:34,500 Suze: And they have far more than $400 in items that 214 00:12:34,500 --> 00:12:36,950 Suze: they don't even use anymore. 215 00:12:37,940 --> 00:12:39,950 Suze: So your desires, 216 00:12:40,540 --> 00:12:43,750 Suze: Why is it that you desire to have all these 217 00:12:43,750 --> 00:12:45,870 Suze: things Like you think those things are going to make 218 00:12:45,870 --> 00:12:46,660 Suze: you happy? 219 00:12:47,140 --> 00:12:50,050 Suze: Have you not just learned going through Covid? 220 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,360 Suze: That lack of money 221 00:12:52,740 --> 00:12:55,260 Suze: to feed yourself to pay bills 222 00:12:56,090 --> 00:12:57,760 Suze: is so much worse. 223 00:12:58,140 --> 00:13:01,650 Suze: Then not having those things that you desire 224 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:03,960 Suze: so desires 225 00:13:04,610 --> 00:13:06,059 Suze: is an incredible 226 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:07,160 Suze: enemy 227 00:13:07,940 --> 00:13:09,050 Suze: of wealth. 228 00:13:09,740 --> 00:13:12,050 Suze: And last but not least 229 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:15,350 Suze: believe it or not is greed. 230 00:13:16,890 --> 00:13:17,760 Suze: Greed 231 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:23,340 Suze: so many times we're just not happy with what we have. 232 00:13:23,510 --> 00:13:24,460 Suze: We want more. 233 00:13:24,940 --> 00:13:26,160 Suze: We want more. 234 00:13:26,540 --> 00:13:30,760 Suze: We want more. But we want more for the wrong reasons. 235 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:33,950 Suze: And there's nothing wrong with you making a lot of 236 00:13:33,950 --> 00:13:38,760 Suze: money and working and creating wealth and getting more money 237 00:13:39,540 --> 00:13:41,809 Suze: that you do get to a point where you don't 238 00:13:41,809 --> 00:13:42,750 Suze: want more. 239 00:13:43,140 --> 00:13:44,760 Suze: It just continues to come. 240 00:13:45,540 --> 00:13:48,750 Suze: You're not being greedy. You're just doing that which you 241 00:13:48,750 --> 00:13:49,260 Suze: love 242 00:13:49,940 --> 00:13:52,940 Suze: and I always use this example. Do you really think 243 00:13:52,940 --> 00:13:56,260 Suze: that Oprah and Bill Gates and Warren Buffett and all 244 00:13:56,260 --> 00:13:59,030 Suze: those people are doing what they're doing because they want 245 00:13:59,030 --> 00:14:00,050 Suze: more money 246 00:14:00,710 --> 00:14:01,560 Suze: now 247 00:14:02,140 --> 00:14:02,860 Suze: they want 248 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:03,960 Suze: more 249 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:09,100 Suze: of an outlet for the passion of what they love 250 00:14:09,110 --> 00:14:11,660 Suze: to do. And it's really just that simple. 251 00:14:12,940 --> 00:14:14,650 Suze: It's just that simple. 252 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:17,550 Suze: But that's not true with many of you. 253 00:14:17,940 --> 00:14:19,860 Suze: You want more, 254 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:21,850 Suze: You're greedy, 255 00:14:22,740 --> 00:14:25,830 Suze: you're making money and you're making money and then you 256 00:14:25,830 --> 00:14:28,490 Suze: decide that you're going to invest it and you hit 257 00:14:28,490 --> 00:14:31,630 Suze: it big maybe on one investment and everything's going great 258 00:14:31,630 --> 00:14:33,710 Suze: and then you take all of your money because you 259 00:14:33,710 --> 00:14:36,890 Suze: want to make more and you put it all on 260 00:14:36,890 --> 00:14:40,460 Suze: that one investment. You don't diversify 261 00:14:40,940 --> 00:14:45,090 Suze: and something happens to that investment and there goes all 262 00:14:45,100 --> 00:14:45,950 Suze: your money 263 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,060 Suze: so you can't be greedy. 264 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:54,100 Suze: Don't want more and more and more money. Don't be 265 00:14:54,100 --> 00:14:58,250 Suze: greedy simply. Why? So you can show other people how 266 00:14:58,250 --> 00:15:01,740 Suze: much money you have by doing what? By perching all 267 00:15:01,740 --> 00:15:03,960 Suze: of those things that you desire. 268 00:15:04,940 --> 00:15:09,190 Suze: You know recently I met somebody who is a very, 269 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:13,060 Suze: very wealthy gentleman. He has about $9 billion dollars 270 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:15,060 Suze: and he has 271 00:15:15,540 --> 00:15:19,820 Suze: boats and he has planes and he has everything around 272 00:15:19,820 --> 00:15:21,450 Suze: him that you can imagine. 273 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:23,560 Suze: And now he's older 274 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:29,250 Suze: and I was just looking at all of these things wondering, 275 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,360 Suze: I wonder if he's happy. 276 00:15:32,140 --> 00:15:34,859 Suze: I wonder if he's really, really happy 277 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,910 Suze: because it just seems that when you have that many 278 00:15:38,910 --> 00:15:43,280 Suze: things around you regardless of how wealthy you are? you're 279 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:47,460 Suze: trying to fill something up. I don't care what anybody says. 280 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:50,160 Suze: You just, I don't know. 281 00:15:50,540 --> 00:15:53,680 Suze: I mean, how many boats? How many homes? How many 282 00:15:53,690 --> 00:15:56,860 Suze: things do you really, really need? 283 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:58,060 Suze: Really? 284 00:15:59,140 --> 00:15:59,460 Suze: But 285 00:16:00,340 --> 00:16:01,560 Suze: desires 286 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:02,760 Suze: greed. 287 00:16:03,140 --> 00:16:04,160 Suze: And fear. 288 00:16:04,940 --> 00:16:07,460 Suze: Honestly, those are 289 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:12,460 Suze: the three enemies of wealth. I'm sure there are plenty more. 290 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:14,860 Suze: But it's these three 291 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:16,960 Suze: that most of you 292 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:21,250 Suze: dwell in. Whether you know it or not. 293 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,890 Suze: The desire to be like your neighbor. The desire to 294 00:16:26,890 --> 00:16:31,000 Suze: be able to go on vacations like others do the 295 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,060 Suze: desires 296 00:16:32,540 --> 00:16:36,760 Suze: to own fancy clothes and jewelry and all these other 297 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:39,350 Suze: things that other people have. 298 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:44,350 Suze: The greed of. I want more more more 299 00:16:44,940 --> 00:16:48,570 Suze: and you get hooked on it. Greed is like an addiction. 300 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:50,560 Suze: I need more. 301 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:53,890 Suze: I want more. Every time you set a goal, all 302 00:16:53,890 --> 00:16:59,400 Suze: I want in my life is $5 million 10 million 303 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,270 Suze: and then you need 50 million. 304 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:03,260 Suze: I don't know 305 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:04,860 Suze: is that greed? 306 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:06,350 Suze: Is that desire? 307 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:10,050 Suze: Is that fear that you don't have enough? 308 00:17:11,140 --> 00:17:15,760 Suze: All those three things I'm sure are ticking at once. 309 00:17:16,540 --> 00:17:18,460 Suze: So how do you make peace 310 00:17:19,140 --> 00:17:21,359 Suze: with those enemies of wealth? 311 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:25,850 Suze: Well, if you have fear, you need to turn fear 312 00:17:25,859 --> 00:17:26,860 Suze: into faith. 313 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:32,629 Suze: Faith that you have what it takes to do anything 314 00:17:32,630 --> 00:17:36,810 Suze: and everything that you need to do to create the 315 00:17:36,810 --> 00:17:38,960 Suze: life that you want. 316 00:17:40,140 --> 00:17:43,300 Suze: You have to have faith in yourself. You have to 317 00:17:43,300 --> 00:17:45,560 Suze: have faith that you are capable 318 00:17:46,940 --> 00:17:51,310 Suze: be more than capable of creating a life that you 319 00:17:51,310 --> 00:17:51,950 Suze: love 320 00:17:52,340 --> 00:17:55,669 Suze: when it comes to who you are and what you have. 321 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:57,659 Suze: You have to have faith 322 00:17:58,340 --> 00:18:04,050 Suze: that leads to your own self worth. That you deserve things. 323 00:18:04,060 --> 00:18:08,390 Suze: You deserve to have money. You deserve to have inner peace. 324 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:11,730 Suze: You deserve to have inner wealth. You deserve to have 325 00:18:11,740 --> 00:18:13,959 Suze: outer wealth. You have to have faith 326 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:16,169 Suze: that you're deserving 327 00:18:16,940 --> 00:18:22,270 Suze: of. Everything that you need in your life. 328 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:28,959 Suze: Next is desires. Let's turn desires those things that you 329 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:29,670 Suze: want 330 00:18:30,540 --> 00:18:33,270 Suze: into a life of devotion 331 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:38,619 Suze: where you are devoted to creating a life of things 332 00:18:38,619 --> 00:18:40,050 Suze: that you need 333 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:41,950 Suze: that you need. 334 00:18:42,430 --> 00:18:45,570 Suze: That you get jealousy out of your life. You get 335 00:18:45,570 --> 00:18:48,640 Suze: what other people have and the desire to have that 336 00:18:48,650 --> 00:18:51,960 Suze: out of your life. But you become very devoted 337 00:18:52,340 --> 00:18:53,860 Suze: to yourself 338 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:55,760 Suze: to your being, 339 00:18:56,140 --> 00:18:57,670 Suze: to those that you love 340 00:18:58,140 --> 00:19:00,659 Suze: to, not wanting to impress others. 341 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:06,350 Suze: To just wanting to live a life of true wealth 342 00:19:07,140 --> 00:19:12,270 Suze: and last but not least, let's change greed into being grateful. 343 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:16,560 Suze: Don't be greedy about wanting more more and more. Be 344 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:19,460 Suze: grateful for what you already have. 345 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:23,840 Suze: Be grateful for every moment in your life that you're 346 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:25,669 Suze: lucky enough to take a breath. 347 00:19:26,140 --> 00:19:27,760 Suze: Be grateful 348 00:19:28,140 --> 00:19:32,160 Suze: for everything and everybody that is around you 349 00:19:32,540 --> 00:19:34,270 Suze: because I promise you 350 00:19:34,740 --> 00:19:37,169 Suze: when you turn fear, 351 00:19:37,540 --> 00:19:39,460 Suze: desire and greed 352 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:41,359 Suze: into faith, 353 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:45,260 Suze: devotion and gratefulness. Now 354 00:19:45,940 --> 00:19:48,850 Suze: now you have made peace 355 00:19:49,340 --> 00:19:52,459 Suze: With the three enemies of wealth 356 00:19:53,340 --> 00:19:54,560 Suze: and you now 357 00:19:55,140 --> 00:19:56,850 Suze: are living a life 358 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:01,060 Suze: of true wealth. That 359 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:02,770 Suze: is my wish 360 00:20:03,140 --> 00:20:04,780 Suze: for all of you.